I am resisting starting new things until I finish what I have started. But I found out something interesting, and maybe weird, about myself. Yesterday we had to put our last little guinea pig down. We started with 4. So now the big daily job of cleaning that big cage, filling dishes, serving veggies and treats, is gone. I still have 1 dog and 2 cats. Anyway, I seem to feel trepidation on having fewer jobs. My kids are grown, I no longer babysit grandkids, and my pet care is easier. I have decluttered my home so it is easier, and my husband helps. It feels weird to not have to stall my projects until all these chores are done. It is almost like I am afraid to get to them, because maybe I won't do them right or perfectly. What an interesting self-revelation. Maybe I have a perfectionist problem. It is a gift to give yourself time to finish things and create things. I want to start today!! Lovely video, Karen.
Pls give yourself the biggest gift of all: THERE IS NO PERFECT, doesn't exist. Just acknowledge that & then let it go. Maybe it's just an illusion that quest for perfection, but as many quilters say: Finished is Better Than Perfect.
I struggle to get things done because I am a perfectionist but in recent years I have been trying to let go of that part of my character and remind myself that any imperfections prove it's handmade with love. I find this thought a lot more freeing, although I need to finish my decluttering and organising to put it into practice properly. Good luck. Enjoy!😊
I’ve said it before and I’m going to repeat myself. The thing about you and Just Get It Done channel that I love is your emotional support of all us quilters out here. I will give myself the gift of time as soon as I determine how that can best manifest. Meanwhile, I’m out to the studio to put together some fiddly patches for a pink quilt for myself. The pattern is complicated-which I didn’t realize when I bought the BOM-but my plan is one you’ve recommended: take it in small bites. Thanks again for another supportive message!
I`m just sitting here crying because you`re right. I had a really hard year 2023 with almost no time for myself, my husband died and I`m just beginning to start life again. I saw your video and thought - yes, that`s it. Just taking time for myself, getting things done und say good bye to unfinished projects and feeling good. Thank you for this video.
I'm so sorry about your loss of your husband, and further difficult year. Hope you find healing by creating a few pieces that you want to complete. Or maybe just letting them go, and starting something new.
I'm so sorry about your loss of your husband, and further difficult year. Hope you find healing by creating a few pieces that you want to complete. Or maybe just letting them go, and starting something new.
Hooow beautiful your new quilts storage! Looks wonderful! I have just refreshed and reorganised my sewing space area. I have a few projects to finish too and as well I found two xmas projects to finish 🫣. I have told myself that I’m not allowed to buy any wonderful colourful gorgeous fabrics until I finish my scraps by turning it into projects 😢. I don’t have many as I cleared many bits away. So I hope that once I turn those into something I can fill my fabric space again 🤭🤭🤭. Edit- I’ll be giving myself gifts too 🎉🎉🎉. And hopefully donate the projects I can’t keep. Your wall art looks great, such a good idea. 🎉🎉
I love the trick of convincing yourself that things are a gift and not a chore. I need that in my life. I also want to compliment you on the wall hanging. It's beautiful and a genius idea. Works perfectly in that space.
I think this is perfect. As quilters we often send our time and energy on things for others. Taking and making the time to give ourselves a gift is important. Great reminder. Now to go do a gift for myself.
Since January I have finished a queen quilt and a 50 x 50 quit and gifted them. In between quilts and projects I clean and declutter .It is working but it is slower. But I am not feeing overhwelmed near as much. Even though I have not even made a noticeable dent……….yet. Thank You Karen for the suggestions, nudges and support. And also all of the commenters. Have a beautiful day everyone ❤
Thank you Karen, you have inspired me to pick up a UFO from 2012 when I first started quilting and had minimal tools. I have since made many quilts, and because my squares were not coming out the size that they should have been I put it away. During this past Declutter challenge I pulled it out and started working on it again and with that said I have the proper tools and some experience under my belt my squares look so much nicer. I plowed through those hexagons that I was fearful of but I was left with five original quilt squares that I had made and packed away. Although they look good, they’re a half inch smaller than what they should be. But I’m going to keep them and use them on the back of the quilt.
The same thing happened to me during last year’s declutter challenge. I pulled out an old FPP project that I had started shortly after I began quilting. The pattern had errors, and back then I didn’t have the skill to deal with them. Last year I finished the pillow even though I had to remake a few blocks. The declutter challenge inspires us in so many different ways.
Gift to Self is a fantastic next level self care concept that I'm going to put into practice. Thank you Karen! I'm learning so much more than quilting from you. Cheers, Suzan
The concept of time being a gift is a game changer. we mostly think about giving our time and not ourselves. This concept applies to everything! I agree it is a form of self-care and honors our creativity. Thank you for such insightful video!
Yesterday, I 'found an outlet in my sewing room, so I can see to cut. I had to move boxes (it is also a storage and book room) and I rearranged them to make fabric easier to access. I gave away some books. I finished a project, cleaned my machine, and almost finished my part of a round Robin embellishment project. It is WONDERFUL to get organized and finish things!
Last fall I moved everything that was moveable out of my sewing room into my guest room which now had no room for guests. I cleaned and rearranged what I could. Before putting fabric back on the shelves I started measuring and labeling each piece. By putting sizes together it is easy to find what fabric will work on any project. Also I found UFOs I had forgotten about. Like you, finishing one of these brings satisfaction and memories
You would be so proud of me! Yesterday morning before work, I found a table topper I made in 1990 but never finished. The backing was shorter than the top on one side. My old self gave my current self permission to trim the front to fit the back & all I need to do is bind it. It was already quilted! Thank you for helping us work thru UFO disappointments into works of art to enjoy!
You really were on a roll. Congrats for getting so much accomplished and lightening your physical and mental load. I especially LOVE your new wall hanging! It's sew great!
I love the idea of giving myself gifts by getting things done. Today I didn't have the brain power to start a big project so I worked on small things while listening to you. I need to find more easy projects so I can get motivated to work on something big.
I have quite a pile of tops that need finished this year. I had quite a good start and I was preparing backs. Then my friend found two very young pups abandoned in a derelict building. Left there to die. The smallest was very cold and it was touch and go whether he would survive. They are now 8 weeks old and doing well. My quilts will just have to take the back seat for a little while longer. Best laid plan eh!
I've been doing the UFO challenge for the last two years. I'm down to a dozen projects but the scraps I have organized are calling my name. I'm giving myself the gift of playing with my scraps. The UFOs can wait a couple of months longer.
Giving myself the gift of time followed by giving myself the gift of space. I'm working decluttering my sewing room. I have new sewing cabinets coming in 3 weeks and it is time to let go of some furniture and fabric. I'm feeling motivated again. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm excited to be in my sewing room!
Karen. I love the support you give others. I almost never make something for me. I have some beautiful fabric, love applique and have decided to make an applique table topper. Thank you so much for your support. Take Care. Blessings to you and your family.
Its ironic (or maybe not) that I was squaring up the last blocks to begin putting together a lap quilt for me! I got the idea, Karen, during the Declutter Challenge to finish something that I wanted to do, instead of working on those UFOs on the shelf. Once I put the 24 blocks together for MY quilt, I will have the energy and mental clarity to start on my others. And, my quilt won't take that long to finish. My gift to me. Thanks Karen for empowering all of us!
At the end of last year I decided to try and finished my UFOs this year and not start anything else. I had 16 projects at the start of the year and have now finished 6 of them. I'm working on the next two.
Another crafter asked how to write/make a timetable for working on multiple projects at one time. I have done this sort of time management previously, so responded to her. A couple of days later, I thought why don't I have a timetable for my crafting? After all I told J how to do it. So I KNOW how to do it. The upshot is, I wrote my own timetable out for February and have been using it since Monday the 5th. I love it! I am only doing crochet as my sewing, embroidery and overlocking machines are in the sewing area wasteland that is to be tackled once I have completed the four crocheted blankets promised for this June (my winter), For a bit of light relief, I have added in knitting beanies for the charity drive for next winter for one of my groups. I drove to the local club to buy some take-away for our lunch. My first beanie on this plan went with me. Only a couple of rows were done. But I felt good about it. The timetable for working my projects is a great gift to me. Doing these things is a good gift to ourselves. Clearing out what we want to have done and clearing our minds of that clutter of regret for a 'project not done' too. Thank you for your lovely thoughtful videos.
Karen, I think this is a great idea. Never before thought of finishing things as a gift to me. I started hand embroidering Raggedy Ann blocks more years ago than I care to think about. You have made me decide it’s okay not to finish them all as those I have completed are enough to make a quilt for a child. The last one I was working on is 3/4 finished and I am now thinking this is a gift to me to finish it and put them together. Also I have a new 2 1/2 month old great granddaughter so I have a recipient for it also. Love all your clever and informative ideas. Thank you once 6🎉 again.
I am going to give myself the gift of space. I have a stack of foam for an upcycle project I invested in years ago. And the stack makes my sewing space unwelcoming. It will take time but it will feel good when it’s done!
OMG, foam board to back the weirdly shaped wall art! I made a similar art quilt decades ago and used a bunch of old, broken sewing needles to tack it to the wall. That worked, but it was such a pain to install a piece like that, that when I moved, I didn't bother hanging that art up in my new home and left it sit in storage for years. I'm totally gonna do the foam board trick to hang it now. Thanks for the inspiration!!!
Being able to say,"Thanks for asking, but no thanks",😢 to so many requests for donation quilts has become my "gift" to myself. It is freeing me up to explore other designs, other crafts without the panic of meeting deadlines. I just need to remind myself that "No" is a complete sentence! The gift of time is invaluable.
As I watched this video, I was astonished by it, because I am doing the same... I already finished 6 UFOs and also managed 10year old scraps into cassier tape stripes 🥳 getting old projecta out of the way feels sooo good🎉
I only did some decluttering during the actual declutter challenge, but recently looked through all my fabrics and reorganized them more functionally. I gave away a bunch of yardage that has been clogging my bins since I was a relatively new quilter. A guild member will use it for scrappy backs. One thing I found in my fabric stash was a panel with one large and four small camping scenes, along with some coordinated fat quarters. I had been planning to make myself a quilt with all my fun fabrics, and I just finished the top this morning. It’s been a while since I have felt so much joy looking at one of my finished tops. I have several quarter to half yard pieces for the back and will add scrappy strips left over from the front to make it wide enough. I am hoping to control my obsession with this project long enough to do some other “life” tasks. I really appreciate your videos and feel you have been a great mentor to me through them. I am definitely a “get it done” quilter!
My gift is the opposite of decluttering, although I am organizing. I’m purchasing pieces from some new fabric lines that I love and also adding blenders to my stash. After that I’m going to try to avoid purchasing fabric, except for a few new ones that add to collections. I’ve also discovered slow stitch embroidery. That gift is reminding me of my childhood when my grandmother taught me some basic stitches and my early 20s when I embroidered a crewel picture that my mother had framed for me. I guess my overall gift is connecting with the legacy my grandmother and mother left for me.
This is so inspiring. I paused my declutter challenge half way through because I realized that I was being held back by the closet shelving that a previous owner built in. Well I’m finally giving myself the gift of a better storage solution. No more stacked bins!!!
Thanks for the reframing - I sometimes like to putter in my sewing room and I don't like working or creating something usless the space if tidy. Previously I have been "punishing myself" about my UFO's - "You can't start anything until you finish them" etc. etc. Now when I want a gift - I'll finish one... Thanks.
Great ideas!! Since the declutter, I, too, have been working on ufo’s and other little projects I’ve been meaning to do but haven’t. My sewjo is back, and I’ve finally remembered that my creativity sparks at around 9:00 every morning, so in I go to sew! I used to sew most everyday years ago after work when I made most of my clothes but for some reason (despair, no inspiration) stopped but I kept all my equipment and notions, waiting and hoping. Now I can’t wait to create. Thank you Karen ❤️
One thing I find (I am mostly a hand stitcher/knitter) is having projects available so when you sit down for a cup of tea there is something to pick up. Also I must admit I got a lot more done when my son's were younger as you need something to do while watching cricket matches for squash games. If you hadn't guessed I am in the UK and looking to get back into quilting and your videos are so encouraging. I stopped because seeing machines and Little children didn't mix for me but hopefully I will have my craft space back soon add they have flown the nest.
have fun with your cruise, Good for you in getting your gift to you declutter list. giving yourself the gift is a wonderful way to phrase it! you deserve it! xo lori
I don't have a pile of UFOs as I only started quilting last November, inspired by watching your videos I should add. I'm currently working on quilt number 4, a yellow toned version of your Beginner Bargello which I can adapt to a quilt-as-you-go. It'll probably only take me the rest of the week to finish. I only work in short stretches due to a dodgy back, arthritic hip and RSI from 40 years of office work. But you have inspired me today to make something just for myself so I'm going to make a quilted tote with a flat base and some customised pockets inside that I can pop all my bits and pieces in when I go down to sit in my summerhouse later in the year. Much better than struggling to carry a drink, snacks, crossword book, pens, phone etc.etc. So thanks, I won't feel guilty about doing it for me, not as a gift this time.
I love how one you are to sharing your thoughts and your emotional queries. To answer your question it feels like you have been living with a lot of “should do’s” and “must do’s” and “want to do’s”. What seems to have been missing is the small “what the heck’s” and “why nots”. If you only ever do large complicated projects then interspersing some smaller random ones can be refreshing and clear your mind for more creativity to give to those big projects you share with us. Congratulations, it looks like you had a lot of fun!
I have just completed a year long declutter and massive sort out so that we can downsize. All prep is done and now I have my gift to me for the stressful time of trying to find the right property in the right place: an embroidered small quilt and some (relatively simple) new baby crafting. This is allowing me to enjoy the wonderful space I have to sew and know I have little else to do. So today my trusty ipod kept me company with a whole opera. Haven't done this in years and was so enjoying the music that I have completed several small projects as I wanted to stay in the craft room and the zone. Thank you for all your videos and good advice. My crafting is better for having found your channel.
I am not a quilter... please don't boot me to the curb! I am, however, a bagmaker and garment maker. And I really like the spin on this! I have always tried to do the things I least enjoy first when starting to sew, but thought it more a horrible thing I had to get done to get to the good stuff. Thinking of it as a gift puts a much more positive spin on those tedious and yucky jobs/projects/tasks. It's like current me doing the hard stuff as a gift to future me so that future me just gets to have fun!
Thinking of it as a gift to myself is such a positive thing as opposed to my nose to the grindstone, have to do this mindset. Thanks for changing my thinking.
So glad you took time for yourself because we often forget to let ourselves enjoy our time with what we want to do. Thanks for the ideas and a reminder that we can all do this from time to time. Enjoy.
I have a very small space, but lots packed into it. I organized my fabrics by size and color. I started a scrap bin. I organised my UFO's into what I could get done fastest and then noted or ordered what I needed to finish it. I put the project together with thread, a pic of what I want to do with it (cuz I always forget) and stacked them all into one bin. I got an accuquilt go because my hands are now getting arthritic. So, when I'm watching TV, I cut pieces. When I'm either done with it or I'm just done - back it goes into the UFO bag. I can now have available project bags handy so when I want to chain sew or piece - it gets done in a hurry. So, cutting, sewing has become a great and easy routine now. I make sure I prepare my stash fabric and put it away right away. Then, my UFOs are now coming together for quilting - finding backing, etc. It then goes to the sewing machine, or my new Qutie Frame for short arm quilting. Wow - I can't believe these steps are so easy and are finding their place in the process. I'm so happy and honestly feel the freedom to create - more and more. BTW, I was so busy watching all your videos, that I had to stop to get started with this project! But what a difference it has all made. I still have a few more tweeks, but I think I'm almost there! Thanks for all that you do, and I'm so glad I found you.
The house I moved into 7 years ago is the first time I've had a permanent sewing room. Over that time, due to various real reasons (as well as excuses) it had gotten so cluttered I could barely move. I hadn't put in place any real storage solutions so things just piled up. In early January, instead of just decluttering, I and my dear husband got to work putting up shelves and pegboard, and making my space a place that really helps to feed my soul in the way I always wanted it to. I'm hitting 2024 with the same energy you are: with self-care and thoughtfulness. Thanks for this amazing channel and your inspiration. Hope to see you at QuiltCon!
Bingo! I've been allowing myself to be burdened by a 'should do' quilt. It's for an ailing friend, my brother, and not letting me do fun stuff. I've a few UFOs, huh,and I still need to declutter. BUT since watching this last session, I'm free to do whatever I want. Oh, I will get back to the quilt, however with a change of mind and heart. Thanks so much. You take good care of us quilters. (I've not allowed myself to call me a 'quilter' until now. Pat
Your wallhanging EPP piece was brilliant! I have to keep that idea in mind. I think giving ourselves time, no matter what we do with it, is a gift, for sure. We spend so much of our time thinking about and doing for others. I've started to spend more time thinking about myself and discovering things I never knew. I've also learned to let go of perfectionism. My dad used to say, "Do it perfectly or don't do it at all." As a result, he missed a lot of joy in his life. He recently passed and I've decided not to live like that. I love watching your videos! Always revelations. Thank you!
Hello! Great video as usual. I have gone through a similar process with unfinished quilt projects. When I run into a problem, make a mistake, etc., I usually put the project aside and move on to something more fun. I had 7 projects in that stage... Ugh. Like you said, I realized that I could spend a short amount of time and finish these. On one of them, I couldn't even find what the problem was so it was complete! I have completed 3 of the 7 in the past week! Very exciting for sure.
Thank you so much for your channel! I discovered you around first of December, and it completely reignited my interest in quilting and having a sewing practice. During the Christmas break, I rearranged my sewing room based on your advice, set up a scrap processing flow, bought a cordless iron, but most importantly -- took out two UFOs from my stash closet that had been mentally exhausting me for about ten years. I sat with them and worked out why I had quit them before and could never get them to done. I'm so happy to report that 1) the box of blocks are now a finished quilt top (with a complementary pieced backing) and 2) the (now completely out of fashion) basted baby quilt top is quilted and I finished the binding yesterday. Your advice and coaching is so helpful to find the joy in the process, in the improvement of skill, and in the discovery of what I like/want to do.
I find that sometimes I've spent more time thinking about a project (could be a stalled quilt project or a mending type repair) than it actually takes to get it done when i finally get around to it! That revelation has helped me a bit with my procrastination.
I love the arm rest foam pillow idea. I use two travel neck supports on top of one another because I can’t necessarily rest my arm on the arm rest while watching tv. It’s as if the chair is too wide for me. I might be able to make that foam pillow for my support. Thank you.
Wow wow wow, what a roll you are on. I especially like the deadline that you set. Once I am back home I am determined to begin quilting all those tops that have accumulated. ❤🎉😊 I love our ship sewing project.
Let me know when you get back. I need to get to Stoney Creek and I would love to have coffee with you...and I have a little something from my husband too
My current project was supposed to be a set of luxury long underwear for myself. The merino knit is beautiful, pretty colors ... but I found myself avoiding it. Even after I had cut out the top, the pieces lay folded up on my cutting table. I finally realized what was holding me back: I don't need lux longies right now. What I need, and want, is to get going on the knit travel wardrobe for our 25th anniversary trip to Iceland and England in a few months. I decided to give myself the gift of using my time for a project that excites me now. Tonight, I packed up the merino top and pattern into my UFO bin. The green wool for the longjanes is back on the shelf. At the same time I took out two UFO tops that will go beautifully with my knit pieces. The knit for my skirt toile is resting on the cutting table and newly-cleaned mat, ready for cutting out the first piece. Dang! I do not have to make a thing just because that was the plan! And the post-Challenge reorganizing can wait until after our trip if that's the way it shakes out! Carol Lee
I love the idea of making a chore into a gift. While still working, I felt that burden of chores or things I couldn't start, progress through, or complete. In retirement, I am finding perging and completing such a freeing activity. I got stalled in 2023 on my Swedish Desth Cleaning due to volu teering for something that takes more time and energy that I desire, so my gift is to pass that role to someone better equipped. The buffet repurposing...now that is a gift to me. I have one that I didn't plan on taking if I downsized, but now I realize it could work for quilting and still sit in a traditional dining space. Thanks for the inspiration.
For the past couple of years, I’ve challenged myself to complete as many projects/quilts as I can in the month of February. It is often the coldest and most depressing month in Winnipeg. The first year I completed 6 quilts from fortrel fabric that had been given to me. Each year after that, I’ve managed to complete a minimum of 3 quilts. Now when occasions to give one away come up, I’m ready with a selection to chose from. And as a bonus, the WIP list from the end of December gets a few things taken off of it!
I love this! In the month of December, my local quilt shop had their registration for their quilt classes starting in 2024. I decided in December that I was going to limit myself to only two classes so that I could work on my UFO’s. Well, I’ve had success! The month of January I completed three quilt top UFO’s, prepared some of my scraps for some log cabin scrappy blocks and did some organizing and decluttering. I feel great!!! This February I’m taking one of my classes that is helping me complete my son and future daughter in laws wedding quilt. Thank you Karen for reminding us that it’s okay to give ourselves gifts big or small. Happy sewing!!! 😃🥰🧵
Ooooo I am sooo excited, first time in USA, first time going to a Quilt Con, first long haul flight! 😳 looking forward to meeting you 🤞🏻 See you there! 😁 x
You are always so inspirational, Karen. I love your energy and your ability to take us through to the finish line. I have participated in your declutter challenge every year and love how it helps me organize not only my space but also my mind. Thank you so much for sharing.
So loved watching this - Ive been staring at my room and UFO projects and feeling just a tad "done" especially as others I sew with are finishing gorgeous quilts for all their grandchildren ( I dont have any ). My enthusiasm had gone totally - this has given me my enthusiasm back and have pulled a project just for me - 2 block project and small design boards - have done 1 project bag and 2 medium design boards - feeling more positive and ready to tackle more. I have put on my calendar a week at the end of each month for me.. to do little things like this. Thanks - you so make a difference
During the Challenge I made a list of Squirrels. One item was some left over blocks from a monthly sample quilt from my local shop (which closed in 2016!). At the end of the year, the shop would sell the leftover block kits for $1; I bought 12 identical kits. Sometime later I completed 3 blocks and cut out the rest. This week I picked it up again when my current project finished. I had to reorganize it and then unsew the 3 blocks as I had never trimmed the units to size (a skill I learned at a later date). 12 of the 16 units in each block need trimming before I can sew the block, which is tedious and slow going. The good news is 5 are now finished correctly. I can't wait to get to the sashing & borders, I'm on a roll!
Karen this video was so fun to watch. Not to mention inspiring! So..I think I'll get out that cute wall quilt kit I picked up a couple years ago and tackle it.❤
“Done” in your title is what got me listening to you 6 years ago when I began quilting. Done is my happy place. Super video. I’ve had so much joy in finishing a Christmas quilt top I bought at a scrap swap. Love the recovered with paper box
After i watched your video, i sat here and realized that that is basically what i need to do, and said i was going to do after holidays-- Wish me luck!
I did this too! When I finished a BIG quilt, which was a Christmas gift, I did a sewing room clean up and made a list of the half-finished projects to take care of in the new year. I am chipping away at that list!
Some nice ideas. I finally got my sewing/craft room organized and while organizing my ephemeral I decided to make some fast junk journals and give them as gifts. Hopefully this will get rid of all the paper stuff I've been collecting for the last year and then I can concentrate on fabric projects. ☺️
Karen, you can call your channel Just GIFT it Done Quilts I'm incredibly impressed by all of the things you recently "gifted" yourself. Your declutter challenge helped me make some decisions that I feel are a gift to myself as well. It is basically a gift of an enjoyable workspace. I have my projects - short and long term - in plastic scrap booking cases and each has a project sheet in it. When I pick up a project I have documented exactly where I am in the project and what steps are left to be done. I also decided that I need to finish at least one current project before starting another so I have the storage space for it and can put it away at the end of the day. I decluttered fabric so what I have fits in my alotted space (no more fabric spilling over into piles on my limited floor space). I upgraded my cutting area from mis-matched pieces to a nice, one-piece surface. It really makes a difference. Thanks for continuing to inspire us!
We are like-minded. I find great satisfaction in completion but don't always give myself that gift. Thanks for the reminder to pause and look at some quick wins for finishing so the queue of projects waiting is just a little shorter.
A year or so ago my husband bought me the Q’nique quilting machine and frame. I have had a hard time learning to use it and most of the quilts I make are wider than the little frame. I became discourage because I had about five quilting tops made that I thought I’d finish on it. I even tried to seek it at a huge discount to get it out of my sight. With my husband’s blessing (since it was a gift from him) I gave myself permission to just mail the five quilts off to my long-armer. I immediately felt the pressure leave me. Now I am free to take the time to practice with my quilting machine and quilt a project.
I love all your ideas. I'm also trying to declutter my sewing room and storage room. This past Christmas I was finally able to finish 3 UFO's for presents. I had pulled a lot out of my storage room, so I could "see" what I had in the way of UFO's. This helped me stay on target. But I am still looking for a panel I purchased for a gift. I did found some strips (2.5") that I used for another project. These were only 20-22" long but I had an idea for a Jelly Roll quilt with sashing and borders. I went to several RUclips sites (yours, too). I found the pattern I had in mind. So I put it together. Within a week my top was done and went to the quilter. She got it done in a week. I found a large piece of fabric in my stash that I had to sew together ( seam down the middle). I now have a beautiful 60 x 80 quilt. I just finished putting together another UFO that was a test quilt for Terry Atkins from 2020 and it is at the quilters' now. I also have made a couple of totes and many table runners. It is such a good feeling to get some much done this past year. Thank you for your inspiration.
For my declutter challenge this year I decided to only focus on organizing my scraps, and my enormous pile of magazines. I quilt better when I'm organized for sure... so I'm biting the bullet and doing these 2 areas!
Your declutter challenges, along with a UFO challenge from a friend has motivated me. I finished all my UFO’s last year and hope to limit myself to 3 projects going at one time. This has been like a weight lifted off my shoulders and I find I’m enjoying sewing even more than before. I really appreciate your logical mind and how you present your thought process. Thank you.
I have given myself the guideline of finishing an old project, then I can start a new project. I also have yarn... use stash yarn for a project, then I can use newly purchased yarn for a project. So far it's working out well.
I have also discovered that when i get to work finishing a project it usually takes much less time than I i thought it would. That alone is a gift. I love using an unwanted china cabinet or hutch for a craft or sewing room organizer. I think they're perfect and many, like yours, are just beautiful.
I 'gifted myself' last week. In my studio I have a basket of kits. I spent an afternoon making the little projects: a picncushion, a key ring and a mini zipper pouch. It was fun to line them up to show my hubby and to put the kit baggies away.
Karen, I love the "give a gift to yourself" concept! I never thought of it in those terms. I just stopped working on (one of) my current quilt and made bowl cozies that I have been wanting for some time. You are amazing!
I got a wooden puzzle kit for Christmas that I started and it took much longer than I thought. I almost just put it away because I had other things to do, but instead I finished it, and it felt great to throw all of that packaging away and just need to find a place to display the finished object. I love the idea of calling it a gift. It really is. It clears physical space and mental space.
I was all set to finish the 3 quilt size and 2 tosses UFOs. Then my 4 year old grandson started staying with me all day. I love having him with me but it leaves zero time for anything else. By the weekend I’m so tired I’m in who cares mode trying to plan things for him to do the next week. But I’m really loving having me with him.
Your body and mind will slowly get used to the extra energy that grandson takes and you will be able to start adding sewing time back in. Give yourself the gift of rest right now so you can enjoy both later.
You have to make an adjustment in time to sew. Just give yourself a smaller window like 15 minutes every day. Even 5 minutes of sewing will give results.
I am using scraps to make a reversible table runner with your braid pattern. One side with spring/summer colors and the other with fall winter colors. I am including heat resistant batting. to cover all holidays and put hot dishes in center of table.
I found this channel while searching for a layout for a scrappy Storm at Sea quilt. I'd found the templates that I purchased three or four lifetimes ago, but then forgotten. I recently decided that I didn't need a "spare room" when I get visitors maybe once a year, so maybe I could give myself permission to set it up as a craft room with a bed in the corner instead of a bedroom with a sewing machine in the corner. Finding this channel has been completely life changing for me, and Karen, you are such a breath of fresh air in my life. The concept of giving myself a gift is revolutionary, and I am currently torn between rushing into my craft space to find some me-gifts, and staying on line and watching more of your videos. I am also a late starter to the Declutter challenge, so I'm trying to do it all at once while hearing your voice in my mind - Use The Timer or Risk Burn Out. I'm using a 30 minute timer and loving the change in my mental attitude that has come with that tiny bit of control. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for just being you.
This isn't about quilting but about putting things off. I had to tidy and clean the little cupboard under my bathroom sink. I didn't want to do it and put it off and put it off however it was always on my mind. One day I thought that's it, it's bugging me so I'm going to do it. It took me ten minutes. Weeks of thinking when it was minutes in doing. So I try to give myself the gift of "do it now". 😊
I love your gifting idea! definitely going to gift myself a few project that have been in my sewing room far too long. The problem I found is you know they are there and feel guilty about not getting them done ,and that just drains all the good energy out of you, I do believe this selg gifting idea will refill that energy. Thank you!!
You've inspired me to do a COMPLETE overhall of my entire studio. I not only quilt, but I used to be into Art Journaling. I want to focus more on making a workable area for my quilting, keeping what I only need, and letting go of the rest. Thanks, Karen, for the inspiration on giving yourself a place to create efficiently with purpose.
I am resisting starting new things until I finish what I have started. But I found out something interesting, and maybe weird, about myself. Yesterday we had to put our last little guinea pig down. We started with 4. So now the big daily job of cleaning that big cage, filling dishes, serving veggies and treats, is gone. I still have 1 dog and 2 cats. Anyway, I seem to feel trepidation on having fewer jobs. My kids are grown, I no longer babysit grandkids, and my pet care is easier. I have decluttered my home so it is easier, and my husband helps. It feels weird to not have to stall my projects until all these chores are done. It is almost like I am afraid to get to them, because maybe I won't do them right or perfectly. What an interesting self-revelation. Maybe I have a perfectionist problem. It is a gift to give yourself time to finish things and create things. I want to start today!! Lovely video, Karen.
Bonus blocks helps me with perfectionism. I use them as a warm up so when I get to the 'good' stuff I am ready for it.
@@JustGetitDoneQuilts Great idea!
Pls give yourself the biggest gift of all: THERE IS NO PERFECT, doesn't exist. Just acknowledge that & then let it go. Maybe it's just an illusion that quest for perfection, but as many quilters say: Finished is Better Than Perfect.
@@karenr.sternberg1920 You are right.
I struggle to get things done because I am a perfectionist but in recent years I have been trying to let go of that part of my character and remind myself that any imperfections prove it's handmade with love. I find this thought a lot more freeing, although I need to finish my decluttering and organising to put it into practice properly. Good luck. Enjoy!😊
All your gifts to yourself were very creative BUT the wall hanging….genius! And it looks so good on your wall! 😊
Genius method for mounting the wall hanging!
Brilliant idea and as a bonus it's brought some special fabric to my mind that I will dig out again and decide what to do with it.
I’ve said it before and I’m going to repeat myself. The thing about you and Just Get It Done channel that I love is your emotional support of all us quilters out here. I will give myself the gift of time as soon as I determine how that can best manifest. Meanwhile, I’m out to the studio to put together some fiddly patches for a pink quilt for myself. The pattern is complicated-which I didn’t realize when I bought the BOM-but my plan is one you’ve recommended: take it in small bites. Thanks again for another supportive message!
I love your china cabinet for displaying your quilts!
I`m just sitting here crying because you`re right. I had a really hard year 2023 with almost no time for myself, my husband died and I`m just beginning to start life again. I saw your video and thought - yes, that`s it. Just taking time for myself, getting things done und say good bye to unfinished projects and feeling good. Thank you for this video.
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I'm so sorry about your loss of your husband, and further difficult year. Hope you find healing by creating a few pieces that you want to complete. Or maybe just letting them go, and starting something new.
I'm so sorry about your loss of your husband, and further difficult year. Hope you find healing by creating a few pieces that you want to complete. Or maybe just letting them go, and starting something new.
That irregular shaped hexagon wall hanging is too fabulous for words!!
Hooow beautiful your new quilts storage! Looks wonderful!
I have just refreshed and reorganised my sewing space area.
I have a few projects to finish too and as well I found two xmas projects to finish 🫣.
I have told myself that I’m not allowed to buy any wonderful colourful gorgeous fabrics until I finish my scraps by turning it into projects 😢.
I don’t have many as I cleared many bits away. So I hope that once I turn those into something I can fill my fabric space again 🤭🤭🤭.
Edit- I’ll be giving myself gifts too 🎉🎉🎉. And hopefully donate the projects I can’t keep.
Your wall art looks great, such a good idea. 🎉🎉
I love the trick of convincing yourself that things are a gift and not a chore. I need that in my life. I also want to compliment you on the wall hanging. It's beautiful and a genius idea. Works perfectly in that space.
I think this is perfect. As quilters we often send our time and energy on things for others. Taking and making the time to give ourselves a gift is important. Great reminder. Now to go do a gift for myself.
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Since January I have finished a queen quilt and a 50 x 50 quit and gifted them. In between quilts and projects I clean and declutter .It is working but it is slower. But I am not feeing overhwelmed near as much. Even though I have not even made a noticeable dent……….yet. Thank You Karen for the suggestions, nudges and support. And also all of the commenters. Have a beautiful day everyone ❤
Thank you Karen, you have inspired me to pick up a UFO from 2012 when I first started quilting and had minimal tools. I have since made many quilts, and because my squares were not coming out the size that they should have been I put it away. During this past Declutter challenge I pulled it out and started working on it again and with that said I have the proper tools and some experience under my belt my squares look so much nicer. I plowed through those hexagons that I was fearful of but I was left with five original quilt squares that I had made and packed away. Although they look good, they’re a half inch smaller than what they should be. But I’m going to keep them and use them on the back of the quilt.
The same thing happened to me during last year’s declutter challenge. I pulled out an old FPP project that I had started shortly after I began quilting. The pattern had errors, and back then I didn’t have the skill to deal with them. Last year I finished the pillow even though I had to remake a few blocks. The declutter challenge inspires us in so many different ways.
Gift to Self is a fantastic next level self care concept that I'm going to put into practice. Thank you Karen! I'm learning so much more than quilting from you. Cheers, Suzan
The concept of time being a gift is a game changer. we mostly think about giving our time and not ourselves. This concept applies to everything! I agree it is a form of self-care and honors our creativity. Thank you for such insightful video!
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Yesterday, I 'found an outlet in my sewing room, so I can see to cut. I had to move boxes (it is also a storage and book room) and I rearranged them to make fabric easier to access. I gave away some books. I finished a project, cleaned my machine, and almost finished my part of a round Robin embellishment project. It is WONDERFUL to get organized and finish things!
Last fall I moved everything that was moveable out of my sewing room into my guest room which now had no room for guests. I cleaned and rearranged what I could. Before putting fabric back on the shelves I started measuring and labeling each piece. By putting sizes together it is easy to find what fabric will work on any project. Also I found UFOs I had forgotten about. Like you, finishing one of these brings satisfaction and memories
You would be so proud of me! Yesterday morning before work, I found a table topper I made in 1990 but never finished. The backing was shorter than the top on one side. My old self gave my current self permission to trim the front to fit the back & all I need to do is bind it. It was already quilted! Thank you for helping us work thru UFO disappointments into works of art to enjoy!
What a great way to look at things. We often do forget to give to ourselves. Love it!!
You really were on a roll. Congrats for getting so much accomplished and lightening your physical and mental load. I especially LOVE your new wall hanging! It's sew great!
I love the idea of giving myself gifts by getting things done. Today I didn't have the brain power to start a big project so I worked on small things while listening to you. I need to find more easy projects so I can get motivated to work on something big.
I sure understand. Lately I have decided to make things that bring me joy. Now, I’m back to cross stitching at night since it brings me joy
I have quite a pile of tops that need finished this year. I had quite a good start and I was preparing backs. Then my friend found two very young pups abandoned in a derelict building. Left there to die. The smallest was very cold and it was touch and go whether he would survive. They are now 8 weeks old and doing well. My quilts will just have to take the back seat for a little while longer. Best laid plan eh!
I've been doing the UFO challenge for the last two years. I'm down to a dozen projects but the scraps I have organized are calling my name. I'm giving myself the gift of playing with my scraps. The UFOs can wait a couple of months longer.
Giving myself the gift of time followed by giving myself the gift of space. I'm working decluttering my sewing room. I have new sewing cabinets coming in 3 weeks and it is time to let go of some furniture and fabric. I'm feeling motivated again. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I'm excited to be in my sewing room!
Karen. I love the support you give others. I almost never make something for me. I have some beautiful fabric, love applique and have decided to make an applique table topper. Thank you so much for your support. Take Care. Blessings to you and your family.
Its ironic (or maybe not) that I was squaring up the last blocks to begin putting together a lap quilt for me! I got the idea, Karen, during the Declutter Challenge to finish something that I wanted to do, instead of working on those UFOs on the shelf. Once I put the 24 blocks together for MY quilt, I will have the energy and mental clarity to start on my others. And, my quilt won't take that long to finish. My gift to me. Thanks Karen for empowering all of us!
I made a quilt for myself during the 2023 challenge. You won’t regret it
At the end of last year I decided to try and finished my UFOs this year and not start anything else. I had 16 projects at the start of the year and have now finished 6 of them. I'm working on the next two.
Using the teem "gift" really speaks to self care and respect. Thanks
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Another crafter asked how to write/make a timetable for working on multiple projects at one time. I have done this sort of time management previously, so responded to her. A couple of days later, I thought why don't I have a timetable for my crafting? After all I told J how to do it. So I KNOW how to do it.
The upshot is, I wrote my own timetable out for February and have been using it since Monday the 5th.
I love it! I am only doing crochet as my sewing, embroidery and overlocking machines are in the sewing area wasteland that is to be tackled once I have completed the four crocheted blankets promised for this June (my winter), For a bit of light relief, I have added in knitting beanies for the charity drive for next winter for one of my groups. I drove to the local club to buy some take-away for our lunch. My first beanie on this plan went with me. Only a couple of rows were done.
But I felt good about it. The timetable for working my projects is a great gift to me.
Doing these things is a good gift to ourselves. Clearing out what we want to have done and clearing our minds of that clutter of regret for a 'project not done' too. Thank you for your lovely thoughtful videos.
Karen, I think this is a great idea. Never before thought of finishing things as a gift to me. I started hand embroidering Raggedy Ann blocks more years ago than I care to think about. You have made me decide it’s okay not to finish them all as those I have completed are enough to make a quilt for a child. The last one I was working on is 3/4 finished and I am now thinking this is a gift to me to finish it and put them together. Also I have a new 2 1/2 month old great granddaughter so I have a recipient for it also. Love all your clever and informative ideas. Thank you once 6🎉 again.
congratulations on your great granddaughter. How exciting
I am going to give myself the gift of space. I have a stack of foam for an upcycle project I invested in years ago. And the stack makes my sewing space unwelcoming. It will take time but it will feel good when it’s done!
GIFT to self. That shouldn't be as hard as it apparently is -- I'm going to have a serious discussion.
OMG, foam board to back the weirdly shaped wall art! I made a similar art quilt decades ago and used a bunch of old, broken sewing needles to tack it to the wall. That worked, but it was such a pain to install a piece like that, that when I moved, I didn't bother hanging that art up in my new home and left it sit in storage for years. I'm totally gonna do the foam board trick to hang it now. Thanks for the inspiration!!!
Being able to say,"Thanks for asking, but no thanks",😢 to so many requests for donation quilts has become my "gift" to myself. It is freeing me up to explore other designs, other crafts without the panic of meeting deadlines. I just need to remind myself that "No" is a complete sentence! The gift of time is invaluable.
As I watched this video, I was astonished by it, because I am doing the same... I already finished 6 UFOs and also managed 10year old scraps into cassier tape stripes 🥳 getting old projecta out of the way feels sooo good🎉
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Always listen to “the voice” when it talks to you! This is a gift! Nothing New Age about it, we all have it if we pay attention.
I only did some decluttering during the actual declutter challenge, but recently looked through all my fabrics and reorganized them more functionally. I gave away a bunch of yardage that has been clogging my bins since I was a relatively new quilter. A guild member will use it for scrappy backs. One thing I found in my fabric stash was a panel with one large and four small camping scenes, along with some coordinated fat quarters. I had been planning to make myself a quilt with all my fun fabrics, and I just finished the top this morning. It’s been a while since I have felt so much joy looking at one of my finished tops. I have several quarter to half yard pieces for the back and will add scrappy strips left over from the front to make it wide enough. I am hoping to control my obsession with this project long enough to do some other “life” tasks.
I really appreciate your videos and feel you have been a great mentor to me through them. I am definitely a “get it done” quilter!
I have been quilting for almost 30 years. This year I'm giving myself the gift of making several seasonal interior door quilts.. for myself!❤
My gift is the opposite of decluttering, although I am organizing. I’m purchasing pieces from some new fabric lines that I love and also adding blenders to my stash. After that I’m going to try to avoid purchasing fabric, except for a few new ones that add to collections. I’ve also discovered slow stitch embroidery. That gift is reminding me of my childhood when my grandmother taught me some basic stitches and my early 20s when I embroidered a crewel picture that my mother had framed for me. I guess my overall gift is connecting with the legacy my grandmother and mother left for me.
This is so inspiring. I paused my declutter challenge half way through because I realized that I was being held back by the closet shelving that a previous owner built in. Well I’m finally giving myself the gift of a better storage solution. No more stacked bins!!!
Thanks for the reframing - I sometimes like to putter in my sewing room and I don't like working or creating something usless the space if tidy. Previously I have been "punishing myself" about my UFO's - "You can't start anything until you finish them" etc. etc. Now when I want a gift - I'll finish one... Thanks.
Great ideas!! Since the declutter, I, too, have been working on ufo’s and other little projects I’ve been meaning to do but haven’t. My sewjo is back, and I’ve finally remembered that my creativity sparks at around 9:00 every morning, so in I go to sew!
I used to sew most everyday years ago after work when I made most of my clothes but for some reason (despair, no inspiration) stopped but I kept all my equipment and notions, waiting and hoping. Now I can’t wait to create. Thank you Karen ❤️
One thing I find (I am mostly a hand stitcher/knitter) is having projects available so when you sit down for a cup of tea there is something to pick up. Also I must admit I got a lot more done when my son's were younger as you need something to do while watching cricket matches for squash games.
If you hadn't guessed I am in the UK and looking to get back into quilting and your videos are so encouraging. I stopped because seeing machines and Little children didn't mix for me but hopefully I will have my craft space back soon add they have flown the nest.
have fun with your cruise, Good for you in getting your gift to you declutter list. giving yourself the gift is a wonderful way to phrase it! you deserve it! xo lori
I don't have a pile of UFOs as I only started quilting last November, inspired by watching your videos I should add. I'm currently working on quilt number 4, a yellow toned version of your Beginner Bargello which I can adapt to a quilt-as-you-go. It'll probably only take me the rest of the week to finish. I only work in short stretches due to a dodgy back, arthritic hip and RSI from 40 years of office work. But you have inspired me today to make something just for myself so I'm going to make a quilted tote with a flat base and some customised pockets inside that I can pop all my bits and pieces in when I go down to sit in my summerhouse later in the year. Much better than struggling to carry a drink, snacks, crossword book, pens, phone etc.etc. So thanks, I won't feel guilty about doing it for me, not as a gift this time.
I love how one you are to sharing your thoughts and your emotional queries.
To answer your question it feels like you have been living with a lot of “should do’s” and “must do’s” and “want to do’s”. What seems to have been missing is the small “what the heck’s” and “why nots”.
If you only ever do large complicated projects then interspersing some smaller random ones can be refreshing and clear your mind for more creativity to give to those big projects you share with us.
Congratulations, it looks like you had a lot of fun!
I have just completed a year long declutter and massive sort out so that we can downsize. All prep is done and now I have my gift to me for the stressful time of trying to find the right property in the right place: an embroidered small quilt and some (relatively simple) new baby crafting. This is allowing me to enjoy the wonderful space I have to sew and know I have little else to do. So today my trusty ipod kept me company with a whole opera. Haven't done this in years and was so enjoying the music that I have completed several small projects as I wanted to stay in the craft room and the zone. Thank you for all your videos and good advice. My crafting is better for having found your channel.
I love the way you did the wall hanging. I think it looks great on your wall.
I am not a quilter... please don't boot me to the curb! I am, however, a bagmaker and garment maker. And I really like the spin on this! I have always tried to do the things I least enjoy first when starting to sew, but thought it more a horrible thing I had to get done to get to the good stuff. Thinking of it as a gift puts a much more positive spin on those tedious and yucky jobs/projects/tasks. It's like current me doing the hard stuff as a gift to future me so that future me just gets to have fun!
Thinking of it as a gift to myself is such a positive thing as opposed to my nose to the grindstone, have to do this mindset. Thanks for changing my thinking.
That irregularly shaped wall hanging is amazing!
So glad you took time for yourself because we often forget to let ourselves enjoy our time with what we want to do. Thanks for the ideas and a reminder that we can all do this from time to time. Enjoy.
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I have a very small space, but lots packed into it. I organized my fabrics by size and color. I started a scrap bin. I organised my UFO's into what I could get done fastest and then noted or ordered what I needed to finish it. I put the project together with thread, a pic of what I want to do with it (cuz I always forget) and stacked them all into one bin. I got an accuquilt go because my hands are now getting arthritic. So, when I'm watching TV, I cut pieces. When I'm either done with it or I'm just done - back it goes into the UFO bag. I can now have available project bags handy so when I want to chain sew or piece - it gets done in a hurry. So, cutting, sewing has become a great and easy routine now. I make sure I prepare my stash fabric and put it away right away. Then, my UFOs are now coming together for quilting - finding backing, etc. It then goes to the sewing machine, or my new Qutie Frame for short arm quilting. Wow - I can't believe these steps are so easy and are finding their place in the process. I'm so happy and honestly feel the freedom to create - more and more. BTW, I was so busy watching all your videos, that I had to stop to get started with this project! But what a difference it has all made. I still have a few more tweeks, but I think I'm almost there! Thanks for all that you do, and I'm so glad I found you.
The house I moved into 7 years ago is the first time I've had a permanent sewing room. Over that time, due to various real reasons (as well as excuses) it had gotten so cluttered I could barely move. I hadn't put in place any real storage solutions so things just piled up. In early January, instead of just decluttering, I and my dear husband got to work putting up shelves and pegboard, and making my space a place that really helps to feed my soul in the way I always wanted it to. I'm hitting 2024 with the same energy you are: with self-care and thoughtfulness. Thanks for this amazing channel and your inspiration. Hope to see you at QuiltCon!
Yes definitely . Look for information on the ‘meet up’ on the RUclips community page
Bingo! I've been allowing myself to be burdened by a 'should do' quilt. It's for an ailing friend, my brother, and not letting me do fun stuff. I've a few UFOs, huh,and I still need to declutter. BUT since watching this last session, I'm free to do whatever I want. Oh, I will get back to the quilt, however with a change of mind and heart. Thanks so much. You take good care of us quilters. (I've not allowed myself to call me a 'quilter' until now. Pat
Is the info on the meetup already up on the Community page?
Love love love the china cabinet!
Time is my biggest problem. Something always comes up more important
Your wallhanging EPP piece was brilliant! I have to keep that idea in mind. I think giving ourselves time, no matter what we do with it, is a gift, for sure. We spend so much of our time thinking about and doing for others. I've started to spend more time thinking about myself and discovering things I never knew. I've also learned to let go of perfectionism. My dad used to say, "Do it perfectly or don't do it at all." As a result, he missed a lot of joy in his life. He recently passed and I've decided not to live like that. I love watching your videos! Always revelations. Thank you!
Hello! Great video as usual. I have gone through a similar process with unfinished quilt projects. When I run into a problem, make a mistake, etc., I usually put the project aside and move on to something more fun. I had 7 projects in that stage... Ugh. Like you said, I realized that I could spend a short amount of time and finish these. On one of them, I couldn't even find what the problem was so it was complete! I have completed 3 of the 7 in the past week! Very exciting for sure.
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Perhaps your giving yourself the gift of finishing projects, is a way of showing yourself a little love & appreciation!
Thank you so much for your channel! I discovered you around first of December, and it completely reignited my interest in quilting and having a sewing practice. During the Christmas break, I rearranged my sewing room based on your advice, set up a scrap processing flow, bought a cordless iron, but most importantly -- took out two UFOs from my stash closet that had been mentally exhausting me for about ten years. I sat with them and worked out why I had quit them before and could never get them to done. I'm so happy to report that 1) the box of blocks are now a finished quilt top (with a complementary pieced backing) and 2) the (now completely out of fashion) basted baby quilt top is quilted and I finished the binding yesterday. Your advice and coaching is so helpful to find the joy in the process, in the improvement of skill, and in the discovery of what I like/want to do.
I find that sometimes I've spent more time thinking about a project (could be a stalled quilt project or a mending type repair) than it actually takes to get it done when i finally get around to it! That revelation has helped me a bit with my procrastination.
All I know is that it makes me happy to see you happy
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I love the arm rest foam pillow idea. I use two travel neck supports on top of one another because I can’t necessarily rest my arm on the arm rest while watching tv. It’s as if the chair is too wide for me. I might be able to make that foam pillow for my support. Thank you.
my gift to self is that I just finished binding 2 lap quilts for Project Linus! Huzzah!! 💃
I just love that you understand the dilemma of giving myself permission to have fun and enjoy the process of creating. Thank you for the video.
Wow wow wow, what a roll you are on. I especially like the deadline that you set. Once I am back home I am determined to begin quilting all those tops that have accumulated. ❤🎉😊 I love our ship sewing project.
Let me know when you get back. I need to get to Stoney Creek and I would love to have coffee with you...and I have a little something from my husband too
My current project was supposed to be a set of luxury long underwear for myself. The merino knit is beautiful, pretty colors ... but I found myself avoiding it. Even after I had cut out the top, the pieces lay folded up on my cutting table. I finally realized what was holding me back: I don't need lux longies right now. What I need, and want, is to get going on the knit travel wardrobe for our 25th anniversary trip to Iceland and England in a few months. I decided to give myself the gift of using my time for a project that excites me now. Tonight, I packed up the merino top and pattern into my UFO bin. The green wool for the longjanes is back on the shelf. At the same time I took out two UFO tops that will go beautifully with my knit pieces. The knit for my skirt toile is resting on the cutting table and newly-cleaned mat, ready for cutting out the first piece. Dang! I do not have to make a thing just because that was the plan! And the post-Challenge reorganizing can wait until after our trip if that's the way it shakes out!
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I love the idea of making a chore into a gift. While still working, I felt that burden of chores or things I couldn't start, progress through, or complete. In retirement, I am finding perging and completing such a freeing activity. I got stalled in 2023 on my Swedish Desth Cleaning due to volu teering for something that takes more time and energy that I desire, so my gift is to pass that role to someone better equipped.
The buffet repurposing...now that is a gift to me. I have one that I didn't plan on taking if I downsized, but now I realize it could work for quilting and still sit in a traditional dining space. Thanks for the inspiration.
For the past couple of years, I’ve challenged myself to complete as many projects/quilts as I can in the month of February. It is often the coldest and most depressing month in Winnipeg. The first year I completed 6 quilts from fortrel fabric that had been given to me. Each year after that, I’ve managed to complete a minimum of 3 quilts. Now when occasions to give one away come up, I’m ready with a selection to chose from. And as a bonus, the WIP list from the end of December gets a few things taken off of it!
I love this! In the month of December, my local quilt shop had their registration for their quilt classes starting in 2024. I decided in December that I was going to limit myself to only two classes so that I could work on my UFO’s. Well, I’ve had success! The month of January I completed three quilt top UFO’s, prepared some of my scraps for some log cabin scrappy blocks and did some organizing and decluttering. I feel great!!! This February I’m taking one of my classes that is helping me complete my son and future daughter in laws wedding quilt. Thank you Karen for reminding us that it’s okay to give ourselves gifts big or small. Happy sewing!!! 😃🥰🧵
Ooooo I am sooo excited, first time in USA, first time going to a Quilt Con, first long haul flight! 😳 looking forward to meeting you 🤞🏻 See you there! 😁 x
You are always so inspirational, Karen. I love your energy and your ability to take us through to the finish line. I have participated in your declutter challenge every year and love how it helps me organize not only my space but also my mind. Thank you so much for sharing.
So loved watching this - Ive been staring at my room and UFO projects and feeling just a tad "done" especially as others I sew with are finishing gorgeous quilts for all their grandchildren ( I dont have any ). My enthusiasm had gone totally - this has given me my enthusiasm back and have pulled a project just for me - 2 block project and small design boards - have done 1 project bag and 2 medium design boards - feeling more positive and ready to tackle more. I have put on my calendar a week at the end of each month for me.. to do little things like this. Thanks - you so make a difference
During the Challenge I made a list of Squirrels. One item was some left over blocks from a monthly sample quilt from my local shop (which closed in 2016!). At the end of the year, the shop would sell the leftover block kits for $1; I bought 12 identical kits. Sometime later I completed 3 blocks and cut out the rest. This week I picked it up again when my current project finished. I had to reorganize it and then unsew the 3 blocks as I had never trimmed the units to size (a skill I learned at a later date). 12 of the 16 units in each block need trimming before I can sew the block, which is tedious and slow going. The good news is 5 are now finished correctly. I can't wait to get to the sashing & borders, I'm on a roll!
Sounds excellent
Karen this video was so fun to watch. Not to mention inspiring! So..I think I'll get out that cute wall quilt kit I picked up a couple years ago and tackle it.❤
“Done” in your title is what got me listening to you 6 years ago when I began quilting. Done is my happy place. Super video. I’ve had so much joy in finishing a Christmas quilt top I bought at a scrap swap. Love the recovered with paper box
After i watched your video, i sat here and realized that that is basically what i need to do, and said i was going to do after holidays--
Wish me luck!
Perfect!
I did this too! When I finished a BIG quilt, which was a Christmas gift, I did a sewing room clean up and made a list of the half-finished projects to take care of in the new year. I am chipping away at that list!
Some nice ideas. I finally got my sewing/craft room organized and while organizing my ephemeral I decided to make some fast junk journals and give them as gifts. Hopefully this will get rid of all the paper stuff I've been collecting for the last year and then I can concentrate on fabric projects. ☺️
Karen, you can call your channel Just GIFT it Done Quilts I'm incredibly impressed by all of the things you recently "gifted" yourself. Your declutter challenge helped me make some decisions that I feel are a gift to myself as well. It is basically a gift of an enjoyable workspace. I have my projects - short and long term - in plastic scrap booking cases and each has a project sheet in it. When I pick up a project I have documented exactly where I am in the project and what steps are left to be done. I also decided that I need to finish at least one current project before starting another so I have the storage space for it and can put it away at the end of the day. I decluttered fabric so what I have fits in my alotted space (no more fabric spilling over into piles on my limited floor space). I upgraded my cutting area from mis-matched pieces to a nice, one-piece surface. It really makes a difference. Thanks for continuing to inspire us!
I’m so glad to hear your wins. I’m looking forward to see what you create this year
We are like-minded. I find great satisfaction in completion but don't always give myself that gift. Thanks for the reminder to pause and look at some quick wins for finishing so the queue of projects waiting is just a little shorter.
I took your suggestions to heart and finished five UFOs. Thanks for giving me the push I needed ❤ Sherrie
Great job! 👏👏👏👏👏
A year or so ago my husband bought me the Q’nique quilting machine and frame. I have had a hard time learning to use it and most of the quilts I make are wider than the little frame. I became discourage because I had about five quilting tops made that I thought I’d finish on it. I even tried to seek it at a huge discount to get it out of my sight. With my husband’s blessing (since it was a gift from him) I gave myself permission to just mail the five quilts off to my long-armer. I immediately felt the pressure leave me. Now I am free to take the time to practice with my quilting machine and quilt a project.
Good for you
I love all your ideas. I'm also trying to declutter my sewing room and storage room. This past Christmas I was finally able to finish 3 UFO's for presents. I had pulled a lot out of my storage room, so I could "see" what I had in the way of UFO's. This helped me stay on target. But I am still looking for a panel I purchased for a gift. I did found some strips (2.5") that I used for another project. These were only 20-22" long but I had an idea for a Jelly Roll quilt with sashing and borders. I went to several RUclips sites (yours, too). I found the pattern I had in mind. So I put it together. Within a week my top was done and went to the quilter. She got it done in a week. I found a large piece of fabric in my stash that I had to sew together ( seam down the middle). I now have a beautiful 60 x 80 quilt. I just finished putting together another UFO that was a test quilt for Terry Atkins from 2020 and it is at the quilters' now. I also have made a couple of totes and many table runners. It is such a good feeling to get some much done this past year. Thank you for your inspiration.
I ❤❤❤ the wall hanging! What a clever idea to use foam board!
For my declutter challenge this year I decided to only focus on organizing my scraps, and my enormous pile of magazines. I quilt better when I'm organized for sure... so I'm biting the bullet and doing these 2 areas!
I will try giving myself the gift of finishing certain projects!
Your declutter challenges, along with a UFO challenge from a friend has motivated me. I finished all my UFO’s last year and hope to limit myself to 3 projects going at one time. This has been like a weight lifted off my shoulders and I find I’m enjoying sewing even more than before. I really appreciate your logical mind and how you present your thought process. Thank you.
I have given myself the guideline of finishing an old project, then I can start a new project. I also have yarn... use stash yarn for a project, then I can use newly purchased yarn for a project. So far it's working out well.
I have also discovered that when i get to work finishing a project it usually takes much less time than I i thought it would. That alone is a gift. I love using an unwanted china cabinet or hutch for a craft or sewing room organizer. I think they're perfect and many, like yours, are just beautiful.
I 'gifted myself' last week. In my studio I have a basket of kits. I spent an afternoon making the little projects: a picncushion, a key ring and a mini zipper pouch. It was fun to line them up to show my hubby and to put the kit baggies away.
Karen, I love the "give a gift to yourself" concept! I never thought of it in those terms. I just stopped working on (one of) my current quilt and made bowl cozies that I have been wanting for some time. You are amazing!
I got a wooden puzzle kit for Christmas that I started and it took much longer than I thought. I almost just put it away because I had other things to do, but instead I finished it, and it felt great to throw all of that packaging away and just need to find a place to display the finished object. I love the idea of calling it a gift. It really is. It clears physical space and mental space.
I was all set to finish the 3 quilt size and 2 tosses UFOs. Then my 4 year old grandson started staying with me all day. I love having him with me but it leaves zero time for anything else. By the weekend I’m so tired I’m in who cares mode trying to plan things for him to do the next week. But I’m really loving having me with him.
Your body and mind will slowly get used to the extra energy that grandson takes and you will be able to start adding sewing time back in. Give yourself the gift of rest right now so you can enjoy both later.
You have to make an adjustment in time to sew. Just give yourself a smaller window like 15 minutes every day. Even 5 minutes of sewing will give results.
I am using scraps to make a reversible table runner with your braid pattern. One side with spring/summer colors and the other with fall winter colors. I am including heat resistant batting. to cover all holidays and put hot dishes in center of table.
My gift to myself was finishing a BOM quilt that’s going on the wall in my newly organized sewing room right where the elliptical used to be!😉
I found this channel while searching for a layout for a scrappy Storm at Sea quilt. I'd found the templates that I purchased three or four lifetimes ago, but then forgotten. I recently decided that I didn't need a "spare room" when I get visitors maybe once a year, so maybe I could give myself permission to set it up as a craft room with a bed in the corner instead of a bedroom with a sewing machine in the corner. Finding this channel has been completely life changing for me, and Karen, you are such a breath of fresh air in my life. The concept of giving myself a gift is revolutionary, and I am currently torn between rushing into my craft space to find some me-gifts, and staying on line and watching more of your videos. I am also a late starter to the Declutter challenge, so I'm trying to do it all at once while hearing your voice in my mind - Use The Timer or Risk Burn Out. I'm using a 30 minute timer and loving the change in my mental attitude that has come with that tiny bit of control. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for just being you.
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Inspiration! I have the 3 day weekend to myself and now my mind is spinning with what I can accomplish! Thank you!
This isn't about quilting but about putting things off. I had to tidy and clean the little cupboard under my bathroom sink. I didn't want to do it and put it off and put it off however it was always on my mind. One day I thought that's it, it's bugging me so I'm going to do it. It took me ten minutes. Weeks of thinking when it was minutes in doing. So I try to give myself the gift of "do it now". 😊
I love your gifting idea! definitely going to gift myself a few project that have been in my sewing room far too long. The problem I found is you know they are there and feel guilty about not getting them done ,and that just drains all the good energy out of you, I do believe this selg gifting idea will refill that energy. Thank you!!
You said it perfectly
You've inspired me to do a COMPLETE overhall of my entire studio. I not only quilt, but I used to be into Art Journaling. I want to focus more on making a workable area for my quilting, keeping what I only need, and letting go of the rest. Thanks, Karen, for the inspiration on giving yourself a place to create efficiently with purpose.