HONEST Q&A | BIG LIFE CATCH UP | James and Carys

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  • Опубликовано: 22 апр 2023
  • HONEST Q&A | BIG LIFE CATCH UP | James and Carys
    Carys’ Instagram- / carys.whittaker
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  • @tjw6572
    @tjw6572 Год назад +142

    I have to say, it’s so lovely to see James really taking in everything you say listening and understanding he’s just being so attentive in the way he’slooking at you whilst you’re speaking!

  • @elliemae2237
    @elliemae2237 Год назад +15

    Amber going to grandparents whilst you work is no different to those who don’t work from home putting their children in nursery, as long as they are looked after and happy it’s what’s right for your family 🥰

  • @mozit8063
    @mozit8063 Год назад +22

    Mabel is so beautiful. Amber saying 'mummy are you okay' was so adorable. What lovely babies you have. xx

  • @nikki6449
    @nikki6449 Год назад +16

    Love how happy you both are in this.
    Carys, don’t worry about where your fitness journey is ‘starting from’. All that matters is that you’re on your journey and you’re doing whatever you want to do to make yourself happy ❤
    So lovely to see you so content.

  • @alisaburgess2890
    @alisaburgess2890 Год назад +23

    You have parents who are overjoyed to be grandparents and that's a beautiful thing ❤

  • @frankiesnaith
    @frankiesnaith Год назад +18

    I’ve watched you guys for years now and I can’t tell you how special it is seeing your journeys and how happy you are with your amazing family. You come across as the loveliest most down to earth, kind people and your girls are going to take after you ❤

  • @hannavandenheuvel6963
    @hannavandenheuvel6963 Год назад +30

    Oh carys thank you so much for the chat about taking the long term approach to fitness in this video, you have no idea how much it meant to me. I have recovered from a severe illness after two years, but am so deconditioned from being bedbound for so long I now have extreme knee and hip injuries that I have been working at for months with little progress. Sometimes it's easy to get upset at how limited your body is but you are right, it is okay to start at level -10 and we have the rest of our lives to figure this out. I get so anxious about it sometimes, wondering whether I will ever be able to move painfree again, but you are so right, it is a slow process and all we can do is show up and honour our bodies and not push past our limits for short term results. Thank you thank you thank you. And just seeing you guys with mabel honestly melted my heart and made my anxiety so much better. Thanks again ❤❤❤❤

  • @marthagriffith7756
    @marthagriffith7756 Год назад +6

    Mabel looks more and more like momma. She is adorable. Loved this…thanks for sharing.

  • @Whateviedid
    @Whateviedid Год назад +1

    I’m just watching this and the way James looks at you when you’re talking just melts my heart 😍💗🫶🏻 there’s just so much love ahhh xx

  • @rhondathacker5814
    @rhondathacker5814 Год назад +33

    You both are truly amazing parents. I use to foster babies and one time in my life I had 6 kids ages 4 and under. I look back now and say WOW how did I do it but I did it lol. You learn to grow with what you have. Keep up the amazing job. Your girls are beautiful and blessed ❤

  • @Robyn_Anne
    @Robyn_Anne Год назад +11

    Fully agree with phases of life and just appreciating it!!
    I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old and it can be HARD and sometimes it can be so repeatative! But what I think when I feel overwhelmed is..
    One day it will be the last time and I won't even know.
    One day it will be the last time they wake in the night and just want a cuddle and me to stroke their backs. One day it will be the last time they will say that one word the wrong way that makes me laugh.
    One day it will be the last time they want to hold my hand in public.
    One day it will be the last day they call me Mama, or Mummy.
    One day will be the last time they let me dress them and do their hair..
    and it makes me just appreciate the everyday things as one day they won't need me anymore!

  • @jessicanorris6214
    @jessicanorris6214 Год назад +6

    Love a chatty catch up with all of you; cannot wait for the house content! Congratulations as a beautiful family of 4; the story of Amber when James sings to Mabel is cracking me up😂😂xxx

  • @raecat90
    @raecat90 Год назад +4

    Excited for you all to do the house renovation project. I can see how happy you are to be working on it. Also, loved hearing about your new fitness journey. It definitely does feel like square 1 minus 2000 when you first have the second baby. I am so happy Mabel is such a happy and calm baby.

  • @korinav
    @korinav Год назад +2

    Love you guys so much! Always excited to see everything you're getting up to❤

  • @kaciesjourney
    @kaciesjourney Год назад +2

    Carys you are absolutely glowing 😍 thank you James for the body and fitness talk it’s so good to hear that opinion. Adore your little family 🥹

  • @syrewilson6529
    @syrewilson6529 Год назад +8

    It’s so lovely to see you back to your smiley happy self Carys. I really felt for you during your pregnancy, I know it was a struggle but so worth it for baby Mabel and your really glowing now, the happiness is radiating from you. X

  • @shelbybrooke4649
    @shelbybrooke4649 Год назад +1

    I absolutely love the darker root on you! looks so natural and effortless🥰 you are glowing xxx

  • @laurengleave1894
    @laurengleave1894 Год назад +2

    53:00 😅 James's little whoo hahaha! Nearly spilt my tea ! You guys are just so amazing ! Thank you so much for sharing guys xx

  • @hbou6380
    @hbou6380 Год назад +1

    I love the chatty ones ❤️ you guys are the sweetest parents.
    So excited to the holiday vlog and the house! 🥳🎉 lots of love ❤️

  • @hannahprentice10399
    @hannahprentice10399 Год назад +2

    Aww you have a lovely family Amber is such a lovely kid and is a lovely big sister💖 It really has turned out amazing for you guys! I can't wait to watch them grow up🥰 Mabel is so chilled but I thought Amber was really chilled too. You have two happy chilled girls🤍 my mum always says that every baby different but has their own struggles so with Amber she obviously loved being rocked Mabel obviously likes putting herself to sleep and chilling❤Mabel noises made me smile so so much🥰

  • @kl-lr1fm
    @kl-lr1fm Год назад +8

    Only James and Cary’s can do a Q&A for an hour 😂😂

  • @cnbandy
    @cnbandy Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing family content. Seeing your relationship with Amber *literally* heals my inner child. I didn’t have a good relationship with my mom. It’s just so wonderful to see a beautiful relationship. ❤❤❤

    • @alicekakurina4577
      @alicekakurina4577 Год назад

      I feel this 🥹 so sweet to see how connected they are and how good carys is as a mom

  • @Kiki-gj9fq
    @Kiki-gj9fq Год назад +1

    I think it’s great your children especially amber (as Mabel is still so young) go and spend time with grandparents and have a strong relationship. I have fond memories with my grandparents some of who I lost at a young age but I still feel so fortunate to have had such special and strong relationships with them.
    Really excited to see the fixed upper series it’s such a dream ❤

  • @francolive5718
    @francolive5718 Год назад +1

    Very lucky to have Carys James, she’s gorgeous!

  • @dollydaresyou27
    @dollydaresyou27 Год назад

    Carys, you are GLOWING!!! ✨

  • @sh3ll3y1990
    @sh3ll3y1990 Год назад +4

    When you said Amber has never been sick I was shocked! My 8 month old had reflux and has always thrown up several times a day and also currently has a stomach bug 🤢 so much puke haha. Hope Mabel takes after her big sister x

  • @lisalu3994
    @lisalu3994 Год назад +2

    Working from home is still work. I want to shake people who disagree. Our 2 yr old will proper kick off if she notices that both of us are working. One adult needs to be on hand all the time.

  • @jenlfc9720
    @jenlfc9720 Год назад +5

    Great catch up guys Mabel is soo cute and amber and pepper pig my heart ❤️ she looks so excited ❤❤❤❤

  • @marylourodriguez9227
    @marylourodriguez9227 Год назад +2

    So happy for you!

  • @LC-hi6uv
    @LC-hi6uv Год назад +6

    When you were speaking about more children I suddenly thought how would you carry on the nice link between the kids names. And I think the closest I can think of is Caleb? I know it’s totally hypothetical but I’m such a name geek and could spend hours thinking of names for non existent future babies 😂 xx

  • @louisebourne5779
    @louisebourne5779 Год назад +1

    Lovely Q&A you two are just brilliant love watching your videos. You both are such great parents ❤

  • @Jeparad
    @Jeparad Год назад +3

    It would still be cool to see the progress of demo and rebuilding! Not just when it's pretty. I'd definitely enjoy that! Or maybe a time-lapse of a larger project in there :)

  • @daisymulbs
    @daisymulbs Год назад +1

    Aww guys, just love you all! Such lush people ❤

  • @fernlouise5757
    @fernlouise5757 Год назад +1

    You could do a mini series of thrift trips for house decor for the new place! If you want to stay lower cost to help break even you could look for second hand decor in charity shops and charity furniture warehouses, or do some DIY thrift flips to get the look you'd like. Would be fun to see Carys and Amber make some decor for the new place :)

  • @gracelupson-darnell
    @gracelupson-darnell Год назад +7

    The way James looks at Carys 😢

  • @manm8822
    @manm8822 Год назад

    The way James is looking at Mabel omg I am melting 😍

  • @MissWithers23
    @MissWithers23 Год назад +2

    Yes this is what I neeeeeeeeded 🎉 love you guys 🫶🏼

  • @pamelabrown4776
    @pamelabrown4776 Год назад +2

    Your such a lovely little family. Ambers so cute asking if your ok and saying sorry mummy 😘

  • @lucymarie9261
    @lucymarie9261 Год назад +3

    The most lovely family ❤

  • @XO_Elaina_XO
    @XO_Elaina_XO Год назад +3

    ✨✨✨✨ congratulations on your beautiful family of 4 ✨✨✨✨ Much love from Seattle ❤❤❤

  • @emmieann2037
    @emmieann2037 Год назад

    I also had a huge fear of people getting sick, like... I would classify it as my biggest fear. I haven't thrown up from a virus since I was a young child (unfortunately I have been sick drinking a tad too much a couple of times) but I started dating my husband almost 10 years ago and he is chronically sick. It was absolutely excruciating at first but then I became a preschool teacher and kids were getting sick all the time. As the adult and the nurturing figure in the classroom, I really had to push through and this helped me get over my fear almost completely! There is something about the motherly instinct that when you need to be there for a child and they have noone else to help them, the exposure to it so much really helped me cope with the fear. I still don't like when people have a stomach virus because obviously, I still don't wanna be sick but I understand now that you feel better once it's out of your body.

  • @livvyoj4509
    @livvyoj4509 Год назад +3

    Yay! I love a good Q&A / catch up! Love you guys, have a lovely Sunday 💗🫶🏼xx

  • @thatsbeth96
    @thatsbeth96 Год назад +1

    Loved this❤

  • @kikenutt
    @kikenutt Год назад +3

    I love your honesty, transparency and the support of your husband.

  • @hannahdickson7951
    @hannahdickson7951 Год назад +1

    Such a lovely family ❤

  • @tiatriplett1657
    @tiatriplett1657 Год назад

    Carys I just want to say you are so beautiful inside and out. Enjoy listening to you guys just chat. BTW You are absolutely glowing in this video. ☺️

  • @pamdevine326
    @pamdevine326 Год назад +1

    so lovely to see you as always mable is so beautiful just like her big sister love to you all xxxxx

  • @chelseajohnson4091
    @chelseajohnson4091 Год назад

    My baby used to feed for 45mins every 2 hours til she was about 4 months 😵‍💫 so I'm very envious of your feeding schedule 😂 but as you said every baby is different and if your flow is faster that could be causing a bit of reflux too. Mabel is absolutely beautiful ❤️

  • @jacquelinefoley6557
    @jacquelinefoley6557 Год назад +3

    Amber get back into bed please...""ok sorry"" what a polite little baba 😇.,. you ok mummy?? So so sweet.. your BOTH doing a Great job,. raising your children.. ENJOY..in the blink of an eye you will be teary, sending them off to school, wondering where did the time go.,. MUCH LOVE COMING YOUR WAY XOXOX ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @cassiel5667
    @cassiel5667 Год назад

    I just love you guys so much. 🥰

  • @catherinenicholls1824
    @catherinenicholls1824 Год назад

    Your reno house reminds me of the modern family episode where Claire and Cam buy a house to flip, and Cam goes over the top, there's a fountain water feature in the garden ect😂😂😂

  • @keiralauren2314
    @keiralauren2314 Год назад +4

    hi guys great video love how open you guys are ! Just a quick question why aren't your subtitles on ?

  • @HannahGeorgia
    @HannahGeorgia Год назад

    Love these chatty videos- podcast vibes!!

  • @louisebourne5779
    @louisebourne5779 Год назад +1

    I dread it the sickness you get with anybody it scares me to death I have a phobia about it too. When they get to nursery and school they catch it a lot I had such a phobia as a child when ever my family was sick I just really struggle to cope with it so I totally understand anyone who has a phobia/fear of it. ❤

  • @darthbooks2005
    @darthbooks2005 Год назад +2

    Love your channel love a q and a 💕 hope you are all well xxxx 💙❤️💙💙

  • @sarahlongstaff8127
    @sarahlongstaff8127 Год назад +1

    Wow so jealous about the fact your babies are happy to be put down for sleep! My little girl is 2 weeks she won’t be put down at all, no exaggeration she’s been on us 24 hours round the clock. My son was the same. Every thing I try she is up crying within 5 mins of being put down. 🤯 xx

  • @ebvitaa6827
    @ebvitaa6827 Год назад +2

    Beautiful Family ❤

  • @andreaodonnell2159
    @andreaodonnell2159 Год назад

    Things can change, she’s so young, don’t speak too soon about the chilled baby, good sleep etc x

  • @shelleyj210
    @shelleyj210 Год назад +1

    Looking forward to watching this later. 🤗
    Can I ask - where’s the magnetic fishing game you were playing with Amber from?? It was a few vlogs ago now but my 21 month old would be OBSESSED with a game like that.
    Thanks guys love you xxx

  • @izzycase7581
    @izzycase7581 Год назад +2

    hope you guys are doing well, can’t wait to watch. Your videos are the best, love you guys so much xx 💕

  • @MW-be6pj
    @MW-be6pj Год назад +1

    Love you both! Would definitely do a double walk in shower in the fixer upper. Scrap the bath. Glass wall down shower tray x

  • @ginag1662
    @ginag1662 Год назад +4

    Last time I was sick I was 7 yrs old , I’m 42 now and a grandma , never was sick when pregnant, but school is when they start picking the bugs up x

    • @Theresebonath6077
      @Theresebonath6077 Год назад +2

      You are truly blessed and i hope it stays that way ❤

    • @ginag1662
      @ginag1662 Год назад

      @@Theresebonath6077 aww ty x u too

  • @breemarie9393
    @breemarie9393 Год назад

    2 and done here!!! I love it!

  • @stopchangingmyname2004
    @stopchangingmyname2004 Год назад +2

    Hi guys u guys are so real and honest and I love to sit down with my cuppa and watch these vids 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @sarahbeasley-ps2zq
    @sarahbeasley-ps2zq Год назад +1

    go on date nights NOW guys! don't wait, tomorrow might not come.. maybe one of those 3 nights your parents have the kids in one month use one of those days as date night.. prioritise each other! your future selves will thank you

  • @emilycarter4886
    @emilycarter4886 Год назад

    Pilates!!! I really recommend that to help with tightness and mobility

  • @dianesarahs3324
    @dianesarahs3324 Год назад +2

    OMG, Amber at Peppa world just the cutest little girl ❤xx

  • @mollycollins7625
    @mollycollins7625 Год назад

    Some oat milks (especially barista oat milks) have a lot of sugars and vegetable oils in which are not great for your health , I only buy plenish oat milk now which is just water, organic oats and sea salt xx

  • @angeladorsett1159
    @angeladorsett1159 Год назад +1

    I love your house its so lovely the kitchen is big.

  • @sophiejordan1388
    @sophiejordan1388 Год назад +1

    I love your chatty video's! :)))

  • @laurenfletcher1681
    @laurenfletcher1681 Год назад

    Our first little girl is 4 but something that helped us with the singing was involving our eldest with a ‘song box’ we got a wooden box from the works and painted it together then put some nursery rhyme teddies in from Amazon. Now we have song time where we teach the baby the songs but my eldest picks a teddy out of the box we sing ‘what’s in the box what’s in the box amber can you tell me what’s in the box’ it’s really helped and was fun making the box together too!

  • @sophiemiller6578
    @sophiemiller6578 Год назад +1

    I love your videos so much! I have a 3 week old, and a 3 year old so your videos are so relatable.
    Does anyone know where the sideboard in the background is from? 🤞🏼

  • @sharonpott4253
    @sharonpott4253 Год назад +2

    Love you both you are so fab xx

  • @wendylucid6049
    @wendylucid6049 Год назад +2

    Refreshing chat x

  • @emily-charlottestevenson9580
    @emily-charlottestevenson9580 Год назад

    The Minor Figures Barista oat milk is amazing!

  • @emilyjoyhamilton
    @emilyjoyhamilton Год назад +6

    Watched this while feeding my twins who are 1 month old today. Got to the bit where you were talking about feeding and I was literally taking the babes off to burp them and they’d been on for 40 mins. They range from 20 mins-40 mins on the boobs, when I saw on your insta Mabel eats for 5 mins I was shook 😂😂 loved the video and can’t wait for house reno content!

    • @lauramissen8560
      @lauramissen8560 Год назад

      Aw Congratulations how are u find it it I have twins who are nealry 16 months soon it get easy as well it not put me of have more

    • @emilyjoyhamilton
      @emilyjoyhamilton Год назад

      @@lauramissen8560 Awh bless you that’s good to know! Actually really loving it and touch wood they’re generally sleeping and feeding ok! Getting used to being more on my own as my husband is back at work but so far we’re all still ok 😂😂

    • @lauramissen8560
      @lauramissen8560 Год назад

      @@emilyjoyhamilton aww bles ya it hard do great REmeber that

  • @yvonnemcdonald20
    @yvonnemcdonald20 Год назад +3

    Love this youre such lovely people and wonderful parents . ❤ x

  • @i_h2081
    @i_h2081 Год назад

    Ugh people wading in with their views ... having a good sleep routine is fantastic ❤ saw that video on insta... amber in the hotel room melts my heart ❤❤

  • @tennablackburn5783
    @tennablackburn5783 Год назад

    Reformer Pilates is amazing I think you would both enjoy this

  • @karendyba5213
    @karendyba5213 Год назад +1

    Love your top carys

  • @Jeparad
    @Jeparad Год назад +1

    I can't seem to finish the self love part. I miss fitness for the feeling and energy it gave me, but I still think, 'ew im fat' or 'blah I'm a lazy lump', I NEED to work out.. So idk if I could get back into it in a healthy manner or if I'd be constantly talking crap to myself for being so weak🤷‍♀️

  • @em0_gremlin
    @em0_gremlin Год назад

    Oatly barista is top tier !!!

  • @karendyba5213
    @karendyba5213 Год назад +1

    I live not to far from peppa pig world it's great looks like amber had a lovely day , amber was so funny in the hotel room , sorry lol mummy are you ok was soo sweet , take care great video xx

  • @misslaurap
    @misslaurap Год назад +1

    Amber are u ok mommy? okay sorry 😂🤣🤣so cute ❤😂

  • @lizziesleet7686
    @lizziesleet7686 Год назад +1

    Oatly barista is the best oat milk for coffee 🤩👌

  • @nivakathleen5598
    @nivakathleen5598 Год назад

    Manifesting a chill Mabel for my first due in June 😂

  • @Theresebonath6077
    @Theresebonath6077 Год назад +1

    Amber have the best nothing is as important as grandparents and i was just like Amber i loved to be with mine ❤️

  • @alexcappleby9600
    @alexcappleby9600 Год назад

    There is 11 years between my first two because I said I’m set after each one BUT now my second is 20 months I want another one 😅

  • @catherinemunds4887
    @catherinemunds4887 Год назад +1

    She is a beautiful baby

  • @barbaraholt8876
    @barbaraholt8876 Год назад

    Hi I've been watching yours and James Vlog and you were saying Amber was drawing all over the place and she's coming into a little person , yes she is but you have to tell No No to her gently or she will be drawing on bedding your furniture where it won't come out easy . It's know at her age to teach her from wrong & right 😊xx

  • @chooseyourthoughts7692
    @chooseyourthoughts7692 Год назад +1

    ❤❤

  • @imperfectlypaigey7328
    @imperfectlypaigey7328 Год назад +1

    I scroll to your Bio for any promo codes first before i watch the whole vid, ha! Loved my HelloFresh order and estrid subscription
    Much love guys, fave youtubers! Forever support you :) xx

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks Год назад +3

      random but you are so gorgeous !!

    • @imperfectlypaigey7328
      @imperfectlypaigey7328 Год назад +1

      @@abicooks thank you so much omg! As are you xx

  • @naomi.105
    @naomi.105 Год назад

    “We need some skin on skin too” 😂

  • @lydia880
    @lydia880 Год назад

    We call our second little girl a ‘unexpected surprise’ 😂

  • @lover4ever16
    @lover4ever16 Год назад

    I understand body's are different but could you do a getting strength back and feeling good after baby videos... I know nothing about fitness and I'm having my second baby at the end of June and currently feel like, blah.

  • @elsie3309
    @elsie3309 Год назад

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ftj809
    @ftj809 Год назад

    My baby fed for the entire of this video 😅

  • @ronniesequinesiblings
    @ronniesequinesiblings Год назад +2

    Firstly love you guys and your darling family 🤍 as a mum of 5 girls all grown now 😀 I wanted to say that seriously Mabel being so relaxed and sleeping says so much about you being so calm, relaxed and having good milk 😊 you guys are amazing parents and that reflects in how amazing Amber is with her speech, her personality and kindness xxx

    • @ninahudson3045
      @ninahudson3045 Год назад

      there's no such things as good or bad milk. This is so insensitive to people with more unsettled babies

  • @katiemillar176
    @katiemillar176 Год назад

    My little
    Boy didn't get sick til he was 3.5 when he started preschool
    And then my little
    Not 1.5 year old both being sick in bed omg what a scene it's hard work xx but I get through it

  • @Rosie-iy2bv
    @Rosie-iy2bv Год назад

    Just stretch/do mobility 5-10 minutes a day. The bodyweight warrior has a 7 minute mobility follow along