Jackie (Full Episode) - FIRSTHAND: Homeless

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  • Опубликовано: 18 апр 2024
  • A mother of three young children, Jackie found herself in need of housing after an altercation with her family. The challenges of being an unhoused mother led her to A Safe Haven. With the organization’s help, Jackie can work part time, keep her children in school, and try to live a somewhat ‘normal life.’
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    About FIRSTHAND: Homeless
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    Homelessness is a widespread and complex issue in Chicago and other American cities, with no quick answers or simple solutions. While the public, media, and even policymakers often look away from the problem, WTTW spends a year focused on the challenging experiences and unique perspectives of unhoused people across the Chicago’s neighborhoods in Firsthand: Homeless.
    FIRSTHAND: Homeless is part of the award-winning FIRSTHAND multiplatform, multi-year initiative focusing on the firsthand perspectives of people facing critical issues in Chicago.
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Комментарии • 334

  • @wttw
    @wttw  Месяц назад +14

    FIRSTHAND: Homeless is part of the award-winning FIRSTHAND multiplatform, multi-year initiative focusing on the firsthand perspectives of people facing critical issues in Chicago.
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  • @maxinerobinsonakamommassay9830
    @maxinerobinsonakamommassay9830 24 дня назад +87

    The nicest shelter I've ever seen especially with kidss she is fortunate to have a temporary place.

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +7

      But you can tell that she doesn't appreciate it or teach her children to appreciate it

    • @tinamama6954
      @tinamama6954 21 день назад +3

      @@christophertracy2807 correct!

    • @J.Anita24
      @J.Anita24 20 дней назад +2

      Literally the nicest I've seen!

  • @kingDaJoe
    @kingDaJoe 25 дней назад +57

    It would be really cool if this channel show the after math of most the people they interviewed... Atleast a part2 plzzzzz!!!!🎉🎉🎉

    • @Popinjay-yo4iy
      @Popinjay-yo4iy 24 дня назад +5

      YES!!

    • @carolinecaroline3282
      @carolinecaroline3282 9 дней назад +1

      It’s only been up 3 weeks. A sequel would be nice. Be thankful for any roof over your head.

  • @valeriebrown7946
    @valeriebrown7946 24 дня назад +104

    Being in a nice clean shelter together is better than being in a car. Be grateful.

    • @Michelle_Michelle___
      @Michelle_Michelle___ 22 дня назад +9

      I was literally admiring the window view that they have

    • @sherrigilliam7835
      @sherrigilliam7835 21 день назад +8

      That shelter is nice clean yes she’s sound like ungrateful ask blessings

    • @tinamama6954
      @tinamama6954 21 день назад +4

      My exact sentiments'. She already lost custody of her son living in her car 🚗 why not be grateful and allow the process to take its course!! .
      If she can do better by herself then she won't need this help in a very well ran shelter🤔!

    • @Mom.3
      @Mom.3 20 дней назад +5

      I don’t think they weren’t grateful! She’s extremely humble and strong .

    • @maryholloway5487
      @maryholloway5487 16 дней назад +4

      That was a really nice shelter!! Why complain about it? I haven’t seen many shelters that nice!

  • @NIO623
    @NIO623 23 дня назад +39

    That is a pretty nice shelter. Big room, well run and organized. Lady ! You got a good deal.

  • @teresitap5778
    @teresitap5778 17 дней назад +30

    People love to judge. Shelter living is very challenging. Shes doing well by her kids & clearly loves them. Hope you find a home for you & your kids young lady❤

  • @rebeccajones8225
    @rebeccajones8225 24 дня назад +24

    Your son is a sweet little man. What child that age asks mom what help she needs from him? You are a good mom and should be proud of keeping your family together.

    • @Popinjay-yo4iy
      @Popinjay-yo4iy 24 дня назад +1

      He is such a sweetheart!! ❤❤ He loves his mom

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 22 дня назад +5

      One that's fearful of his Mothers moods and behaviors. It sounds like a symptom of CPTSD. and his trauma is not post.

    • @sweetzmamakitchen7815
      @sweetzmamakitchen7815 21 день назад +3

      @@edie4321thank you. I agree with your observation. I was the same way with my mom. Anything for her to be happy. I took on too much as a child.

    • @Artsylady2030
      @Artsylady2030 5 дней назад +1

      @@edie4321 that is exactly right....he should not have to be worrying about his mother at that age

  • @bnwo
    @bnwo 29 дней назад +47

    That must have been one hell of an argument.

  • @TiffanyJ89
    @TiffanyJ89 25 дней назад +28

    We truly need updates on the stories.

  • @diamondis4ever
    @diamondis4ever 28 дней назад +40

    Your a good Mom, Jackie. I know things will work out for you!

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +1

      You're; not Your. You can't spell and you don't know the definition of a good mother

    • @Artsylady2030
      @Artsylady2030 5 дней назад

      she is a crap mom......

  • @dunjaausmosbach4898
    @dunjaausmosbach4898 25 дней назад +38

    where are the fathers? They have the same responsibility. Only the dad of the young son seems to be present.

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 21 день назад +2

      When you lay down with trash, what do you expect ?

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 17 дней назад +1

      The father of the youngest has him and she probably doesn't even know who the father is of at least one of her kids. She is irresponsible and reckless

    • @Macky1101
      @Macky1101 12 дней назад

      Some men will stick it anywhere just to put a number under the belt. Some women will let them.

    • @MM-pj4bl
      @MM-pj4bl День назад

      @@tonyalston4838THIS. And not married first

  • @Drchamomile
    @Drchamomile 25 дней назад +44

    Jackie, if you are reading this, just know that you are an amazing Mom!

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +1

      Are you crazy? Look at how fat those kids are. The little one that isn't with her is not fat.

    • @Mom.3
      @Mom.3 20 дней назад +3

      You sure are!
      Finally … someone being human .. and not judging her as if she isn’t! ❤

    • @Artsylady2030
      @Artsylady2030 5 дней назад

      do not lie to her...she is not an amazing mom.....she is smoking.....that costs a lot of money and she has dyed her hair GREEN that is NOT a great mother.....she is probably not the worst mother but definitely would not call her an AMAZING mother......

    • @Drchamomile
      @Drchamomile 5 дней назад

      @@Artsylady2030 dyed her hair green??? Is that your criteria for determining if someone is a good mother or not? You clearly have no clue as to what makes a good mother nor have you ever been one. Trust me, Jackie is a good mother. There are horrible mothers out there

    • @Artsylady2030
      @Artsylady2030 4 дня назад

      @@Drchamomile yes I am and was an amazing mother..I homeschooled my son and He has a PhD now in physics ...and he never did drugs, alcohol , or any other bad thing....He is married now for 9 years they were both virgins when they got married and they have managed NOT to have children in 9 years of marriage....so not sure why people keep having kids who can't support them.......she is a HORRIBLE mother for many reasons.....I hope she can turn it around ...but her attitude is so bad., that will have to change in order for her to succeed.....

  • @jackieisabelajaso
    @jackieisabelajaso Месяц назад +44

    Been there done that, even being a veteran and was married to a veteran we got NO help from anyone who actually should have, we were treated like trash for years and it took us separating and so much hell for me to get a few steps above homeless. I'm disgusted with how no matter how someone becomes homeless you end up being all stereotyped in with drug addicts and alcoholic's and treated like the worst way possible.

  • @louisetringham5830
    @louisetringham5830 27 дней назад +61

    I see a lot of people judging in some of the comments. Difficult times for everyone. Be kind.

    • @dunjaausmosbach4898
      @dunjaausmosbach4898 25 дней назад +5

      please, do not tell others, what to do. Critical comments maybe good and mild comments can be just without any sense

    • @wwedivas2011
      @wwedivas2011 25 дней назад +10

      Yes I def agree with you 💯people this could happen to anyone I mean anyone trust me it could happen to you too, so stop the judging comments my lord!

    • @dunjaausmosbach4898
      @dunjaausmosbach4898 24 дня назад +2

      @@wwedivas2011 I disagree. Without any lord...

    • @snowblo1
      @snowblo1 23 дня назад +4

      Ummm, yeah, people are entitled to their own freaking opinions. And I've been reading the comments for about 25 minutes & I have yet to come across any texts that were malicious in nature. Grow up.

    • @snowblo1
      @snowblo1 23 дня назад +4

      ​@wwedivas2011 You need to learn how to comprehend. No one is being vicious. Sorry, but she does come off as ungrateful. My opinion, I'm sticking to that. You have yours. My goodness, people are so controlling 😮

  • @MayaLuv-xp7ux
    @MayaLuv-xp7ux 26 дней назад +21

    I feel for her, we fall on hard times sometimes.
    However I also see the sisters side, I would never allow an adult to stay with me & not do their part. Family or not, you need to contribute in some way.
    I do hope she gets back on her feet though. At least the youngest is with his dad for now.

  • @sabrina.natalie
    @sabrina.natalie 28 дней назад +42

    It sounds like Jackie and her sister got into an argument because Jackie wasn’t working, but the house was messy. And it sounds like maybe her sister was working, and expected Jackie to clean and take care of the house. But Jackie’s youngest son looks really young, and it makes me wonder if she was experiencing depression and just overwhelmed. It sounds like the argument was really explosive and got out of hand.

    • @brianal7143
      @brianal7143 28 дней назад +21

      Been there. There's only so much people can take when they're trying to help others. She probably pushed her sister to her limit.

    • @MayaLuv-xp7ux
      @MayaLuv-xp7ux 26 дней назад +17

      I mean either way if you’re living In someone’s house, do your part. I refuse to come home from working to a dirty house.

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 21 день назад

      You complaining should've listened to your sis . Or get your own shat

    • @DebbiePotter-xh7kv
      @DebbiePotter-xh7kv 20 дней назад +4

      That was my impression as well. When I stayed with friends and had no cash I cooked, clean, babysat. They hated to see me go.

    • @ABLESSYN77
      @ABLESSYN77 18 дней назад +1

      ​@@DebbiePotter-xh7kv THEY APPRECIATED YOU❤💯

  • @LadyAquamarina
    @LadyAquamarina 22 дня назад +13

    I had to rewatch this to make sure I was hearing all of this right. If I should ever be down on my luck and need to get into a shelter, I sure hope it is as clean and beautiful as that one is. So many people waiting for help would take your place in a second!

  • @nixwestlake9196
    @nixwestlake9196 25 дней назад +56

    I continue to not understand why people have children when they know they can’t take care of them.

    • @paulalewis3389
      @paulalewis3389 25 дней назад +10

      I agree!

    • @arneshiabaldwin8335
      @arneshiabaldwin8335 24 дня назад +13

      Life is unexpected. One minute you can be doing well then get laid off or company close

    • @snowblo1
      @snowblo1 23 дня назад +16

      ​@arneshiabaldwin8335 Yeah, so don't have multiple kids that you can't afford in the 1st freaking place. Like why is this so hard to comprehend

    • @nixwestlake9196
      @nixwestlake9196 23 дня назад +6

      @@snowblo1 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽100%

    • @danielle4295
      @danielle4295 21 день назад +4

      If she continued to have children after she was made homeless your comment would have made more sense.

  • @thembimadalane3595
    @thembimadalane3595 24 дня назад +77

    I have problem with people who complain about the rules at the shelter, those rules are there for a reason. Yes it is hard living there. Can you envision the level of chaos that would have ensued in the absence of rules?

    • @shakirat69
      @shakirat69 24 дня назад +10

      I agree with you 💯‼️ Besides, she's in a safe environment with her children 😊

    • @Mom.3
      @Mom.3 20 дней назад +6

      Perception is everything huh? I seen/heard no complaining. She was just telling us the rules.. that’s all.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 18 дней назад

      Have you lived in a shelter? If not don't say how people Should act.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 18 дней назад

      @@laura-kn9qf Laura I just think you are being too simplistic and think in black and white. It's not, follow the rules and everything is ok.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 18 дней назад +1

      @@laura-kn9qf you did not read my comment.vYes we all need to know what's expected. I am very ill and disabled. I live in a facility and they have rules. Some very stupid. I was commenting on you saying if we follow the rules all will be fine. NO NOT NECESSARILY. That was my point

  • @lucy661000
    @lucy661000 29 дней назад +127

    Don't know what exactly happened with her mom and sister but from what she said she wasn't pulling her weight even if she wasn't working she should try and keep the house clean and her kids in check. And the way she was complaining about the shelter rules and the food she sounded kinda ungrateful.

    • @oiaiofoster4775
      @oiaiofoster4775 26 дней назад +24

      Exactly!!! She Needs to Teach Them to be More Humbled and Grateful for Everything They have. Have Faith FIRST!!!!!!

    • @MayaLuv-xp7ux
      @MayaLuv-xp7ux 26 дней назад +35

      I feel for her but I agree, family or not, I wouldn’t want someone living with me and not helping out.

    • @Limerick502
      @Limerick502 25 дней назад +23

      I couldn't understand that about how she described the room. When I saw that clip, I thought that place is so clean and bright. Sort of reminded me of a great apartment:)

    • @shakirat69
      @shakirat69 24 дня назад +21

      Be grateful !!! you have a roof over your head ! you're not on the streets living unsafe!

    • @Gunngirl
      @Gunngirl 24 дня назад +15

      @@Limerick502that room looks hella big! lol

  • @Aura_glow
    @Aura_glow 25 дней назад +11

    Jackie keep pushing babygirl! You are a great mother. Sometimes we fall on hard times , but you will get through this. I see the love you give your children ❤Things will work out! Your son’s father is heartless. Go to court to get specifics on your court order and inform the court of his actions. Praying for you! ❤❤❤

  • @christophertracy2807
    @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +9

    She has some deeply suppressed emotional issue that is behind her situation. Since she doesn't seem to be an addict of any kind, it is harder to diagnose.
    She lacks the logic to admit that having small children while homeless is completely irrational.

  • @user-xy9ls6py2c
    @user-xy9ls6py2c 26 дней назад +9

    I’m praying for you and your kids. This too shall pass. You’ll be in your own place in no time ❤

  • @dappyfull
    @dappyfull 27 дней назад +41

    If you "love your kids" you get your life in order first before even having kids. Seems like she's been an irresponsible person her entire life and is only living in the homeless shelter because her sister kicked her out of the apartment that she (her sister) was paying for while according to her own words she wasn't working. Why wasn't she working and she has children? Only sympathy here goes to the children who are thrust into a situation they have no control over

    • @back2the80s
      @back2the80s 24 дня назад +4

      What about the crappy dads?

    • @snowblo1
      @snowblo1 23 дня назад +2

      Totally agree.

    • @debbieframpton3857
      @debbieframpton3857 23 дня назад +6

      ​@@back2the80s,
      Jackie's youngest child is living with his father

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад +1

      Right

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад +2

      @@back2the80sthry been crappy ….. shr doesn’t even have a car a hooptie car to drive her kids . The dads were worthless from the start… they Been there w her w the other kids . they did not a damn thing for her. ..

  • @scottrogue946
    @scottrogue946 27 дней назад +37

    I don’t know why people have all these kids and they are struggling. It makes no sense at all. I can understand having one by accident but three?

    • @BloodGlucoseAfterEating
      @BloodGlucoseAfterEating 24 дня назад +5

      Where is the father of these kids and is he paying child support?

    • @valeriebrown7946
      @valeriebrown7946 24 дня назад +4

      I agree 100%

    • @Gunngirl
      @Gunngirl 24 дня назад +3

      It’s actually a good thing the father wants him and doesn’t want to leave him to struggle with the mother. It’s good the older kids are saving her sanity. I know her kids are her rocks right now. Too bad the daddies aren’t helping them.

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад +1

      3 dads I’m sure …. Not 1 has her at least in a car ….. hooptie 1500$ something ever dad came she had previous child therr … yet they weren’t doing nothing… to help. Crazy thing is the baby daddy…… he has another gurl around you don’t know if he’s in good hands or who’s around him…. She’s taking the bus 🚌 w her kids to find the other …. Sad af they tired

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад +1

      All that made her travel on bus ….. to find her kid…… you brought him there . how can they ??? Say he’s ok… we need to see him.no kid needs see this.. no car ….. riding around…. Gurl you struggle on your own stop w the men. How do you have all the time to date and sleep around??? Ooo 2023 was last year … hard to believe

  • @rainbowkitten8990
    @rainbowkitten8990 21 день назад +7

    I have a feeling we aren’t getting the full story here, something doesn’t seem right. I do feel empathy for her and her situation, especially towards her children but she does seem irresponsible. Her little boy is definitely in the right place with his father for the time being.

  • @SteMcgarry-xy5gb
    @SteMcgarry-xy5gb 4 дня назад +1

    I'm sure no one wants to be in a shelter as I know I wouldn't want to be. Regarding the accommodation I think it looks lovely, spotless, safe and they are together, obviously after a while it would get in on you. Wish you all the best, seems like a good mother, God bless x

  • @sabrina.natalie
    @sabrina.natalie 28 дней назад +16

    10:28 - Gosh. Holy cow. Jackie and her daughter look identical. At first, I thought that picture was of her daughter, but then I realized that was Jackie when she was younger.

  • @nancymosby7369
    @nancymosby7369 21 день назад +5

    Poor kids can’t pick their parents three children….Tragic!! Cautionary tale ladies

  • @odessajackson4551
    @odessajackson4551 24 дня назад +29

    She's got to watch what she's feeding them obesity is no joke in this country!!!

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +6

      It is the hallmark of poor mothering.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 18 дней назад +2

      Excuse me judgemental
      People. This mother is not cooking their food. Obesity is a complex issue. And you two just blame this loving mom.
      Shame on you.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 18 дней назад

      ​@@christophertracy2807really.I was fit and thin once, When I became sick and disabled I became very fat. Try being a deeper thinking
      person. Blaming mom's shows how ignorant you are.

    • @jollymollyramram9702
      @jollymollyramram9702 18 дней назад +4

      I fully agree they’re way too overweight and this is the time eating habits start to stick. It’s setting them up for a tough life.

    • @kavitadeva
      @kavitadeva 18 дней назад +1

      @@jollymollyramram9702 excuse me but you fully agree that she needs to watch what she's feeding her children? I have a question for you did you not understand that they are eating what is given to them by this shelter which is crappy food. Didn't you hear this loving wonderful mother say I cannot wait till I can cook my own food.

  • @mupine67
    @mupine67 18 дней назад +6

    This woman with the kids is extremely ungrateful. She should be thankful kus if not for her kids she would be living in a tent at best

  • @ihsuFM89
    @ihsuFM89 21 день назад +13

    I’m sorry but I don’t believe we are getting the entire story with this woman. She seems to be delusional if she thinks there is something wrong with the father not wanting her to see her child. He’s the one with full custody and a stable environment. She also seems to have an attitude if she’s not able to live peacefully with her own family. She also needs to leave her own kids out of her adult situations. Seeing her treat her daughter as her own therapist is frustrating, and she will be bitter about this when she gets older. I should know, since both of my parents treated me the same way when I was younger.

    • @Emm325
      @Emm325 16 дней назад +3

      100 percent…calling in the “wellness check”?!? Is she SERIOUS?!?? She DOESNT HAVE CUSTODY, and THANK GOD, she only wants to bring chaos and destruction into that kids world, and the way she puts all that emotional burden onto her kids is DISGUSTING. Many of us grow up w crappy parents, NEWS ALERT, these moms seem to think they are the ONLY ones w problems in like, and fail to see the correlation between their ACTIONS and the CONSEQUENCES….poor kids of hers, they haven’t had any better an upbringing than she did, ESPECIALLY with the morbid obesity, she’s clearly over feeding them to get them to “leave her alone” that’s HORRIBLE parenting, nobody is changing my mind, she also is raising them to be entitled and become upset with disappointing circumstances (such as the apartment situation) why is she even telling them they’re going to have one when it’s a CHANCE only? I feel sympathy for the children only, not their “mother”…

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 28 дней назад +90

    Her sister did not care where her niece and nephew was going to sleep at night? I know those are not her kids but they are still family.

    • @pamsmith1665
      @pamsmith1665 22 дня назад

      Were going to sleep nitwit

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 21 день назад +11

      So WHAT FOLK CAN GET TIRED OF FAMILY TOO. YOUR ACTIONS DICTATE YOUR CONSEQUENCES

    • @TrishaB80
      @TrishaB80 20 дней назад +7

      @@kentthomason6285 I would be worried about my niece and nephew but I also see your point, sometimes you have to stop being an enabler for family and make then do it for themselves or not!

    • @kentthomason6285
      @kentthomason6285 20 дней назад +1

      @@TrishaB80 INDEED

    • @CocoaPuff01
      @CocoaPuff01 20 дней назад +9

      It doesn't matter. You cannot enable leeching irresponsible family members or they will always take advantage of you. She couldn't afford the first baby, then irresponsibly had a second and wants other people to take care of them. Nope!

  • @jessicanone4202
    @jessicanone4202 15 дней назад +2

    Regardless of shelter or not THAT MOM HAS VISITATION WITH HER SON!!! HE IS BLATANTLY DISREGARDING A COURT ORDER

  • @Mom.3
    @Mom.3 20 дней назад +8

    These comments are sickening… I saw a woman owning her mistakes, making decisions with her head and not her heart, and keeping herself together for her babies. I heard/seen no complaining , laziness, or ungrateful behaviors. Takes nothing to be kind.❤

    • @moniinnola
      @moniinnola 17 дней назад +2

      Exactly! These people are weird who commented berating her! Its not even her fault her life was unstable. She had a cracked head mother who left her at FIVE years old to babysit another baby...WTF. That didn't set this poor girl up for a healthy life at all and of course she looked for an outlet and had kids. But thank God she didn't turn to drugs like her mom. So I was hella upset to see her mom all cozy in a house when she's the one who made her kids life emotionally, mentally, financially unstable! It should of been the mom in a shelter paying back her sins and the siblings should of worked it put to be each others ride or die. And she was probably depressed and didn't want to work or clean....EVERY single person here has felt that...but when you have a hard life from a baby at 5 having to banysit..the bounce back is harder than for most other people.

    • @Mom.3
      @Mom.3 5 дней назад +1

      @@moniinnola exactly! And it is very weird.. It’s like I woke up one day and everyone chose violence for the remainder of their days. Geez.. chill.. be understanding and logical! You may need the same one day!

  • @claire5399
    @claire5399 26 дней назад +15

    Jackie , your being so hard on yourself. Your taking total accountability and your present and honest. I can’t imagine why people who are judging you in the comments feels as if they need to feel superior.

    • @chocmilk10
      @chocmilk10 24 дня назад +1

      She isn’t being hard enough! If you want 3 children, get out in the world and earn a real living!

    • @Chefgrlangel
      @Chefgrlangel 23 дня назад +3

      She messed up by having children outside of a marriage or at least committed relationship. It’s just not a stable family unit without two parents. I’m not being mean and she’s not being too hard on herself by admitting she’s made some serious mistakes and is going to have to work twice as hard to create a stable situation now.

    • @tonyalston4838
      @tonyalston4838 21 день назад +4

      She definitely didn't take full accountability for the issues she had at her sisters house

  • @bzebee5979
    @bzebee5979 24 дня назад +17

    Plus, why is she having kids outside of a stable relationship? Children need a wholesome family environment. It seems though she got pregnant to men that were no good for her. Women should stop having babies outside of stable, loving relationships.

    • @Chefgrlangel
      @Chefgrlangel 23 дня назад +3

      100% Agree

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 17 дней назад +2

      Exactly

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      You can’t be this dense. Obviously she had her children because she wanted unconditional love she didn’t receive from her drug addicted parents. Did you even watch the video?

  • @haydengodbold6569
    @haydengodbold6569 6 дней назад

    I take my hat off to this young mum.
    Life throws us so many curve balls and she's been dealt some fucked up ones. But her heart and priorities are in the right place. Time will change her living situation and her family will flourish when she gets there. But only coz she's got her head switched on now and knows what she wants for her kids and herself.
    19 years ago, I myself was in a similar situation with my toddler boys. It's hard but it gets better. With alittle support at the start all falls into place, aslong as you have that positive attitude.

  • @lesleylelvetabeakwu4425
    @lesleylelvetabeakwu4425 22 дня назад +8

    Why would you dye your hair green and only work part-time when you have 2 kids and live in a shelter? Leave the baby daddy alone and focus on getting it together.

    • @Naturefan354
      @Naturefan354 17 дней назад +2

      3 kids!!

    • @Emm325
      @Emm325 16 дней назад +2

      THIS RIGHT HERE! Shows the REAL person, funny how the only kid she DOESNT HAVE custody of is the only one not morbidly obese….she’s beyond ungrateful and entitled…thinks she OWED a FREE apartment, well a bigger one than she already has, for FREE as well 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @Artsylady2030
      @Artsylady2030 5 дней назад

      I know right.....and she smokes....cigarettes are VERY expensive

  • @anaangel5434
    @anaangel5434 26 дней назад +3

    💗💖Bless Jackie and her children. 💖💗

  • @bittersweetlove143
    @bittersweetlove143 15 дней назад +1

    These documentaries are so great but they are such cliffhangers. It ends unpredictably. 😢😢😢

  • @jessicaflores6748
    @jessicaflores6748 9 дней назад

    You are an inspiration 👏 and Jackie you are a great mom❤

  • @bsfishing7073
    @bsfishing7073 23 дня назад +7

    Okay so she had a roof over there heads and she didn’t find anything ya wright she was not trying to find a job when you want something bad enough there’s nothing going to stop you but she waited for her family to reach the Breaking point then instead of going out to find a job she just left now three adult people living underneath one roof and she made the decision to leave instead of trying to communicate with her family I’m just saying that we’re only hearing her side of the story I feel like something is missing

  • @baddazzdebbiej4662
    @baddazzdebbiej4662 24 дня назад +8

    Its two sides of this story im not taking her side if i did she lost already ❤

  • @bzebee5979
    @bzebee5979 24 дня назад +31

    She sounds lazy, and her kids are spoilt and ungrateful. She had her kids, so it's for her to look after them. I don't see why her mother and sister should go out to work to support her and her kids, yet she can't keep the home clean. She didn't pull her weight.

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад +3

      💯 kids upset at the food and saying it looks bad . I mean they must not realize their situation … because their dads where r they to get them ? To lend money to help the men who bf or w her knee this even the little ones dsd she came w them other kids how do u have multi baby dads and one can’t get apartment to help u or a nice car to ride u and ur kids in ???? this bad n them men know these kids were there faking to be these good step dads and now they r in a shelter ??? Even 2/3 baby dads not one is helping pull her outb????? not 1 ???? wtf

    • @bzebee5979
      @bzebee5979 20 дней назад +2

      @Arizona_lilly . You are correct. Where are these so called "fathers"? That's why women need to be more discerning as to whom they sleep with and have babies with. It's always the kids that suffer.

    • @princessgloria4925
      @princessgloria4925 17 дней назад

      Me too she was in house with her family but not working why not work if you have the work permit not disabled but after chasing her away she got a job🤦🤦

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      @@bzebee5979I’m guessing they were just hookups so she probably doesn’t have a clue of their personality or character is like

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад +4

    That space they stay in that’s huge place never seen one that big space…. They r in

  • @carmenultra1
    @carmenultra1 8 дней назад

    Happy Mother’s Day Jackie! You’re doing a great job! 5/12/2024 ❤

  • @hojo85
    @hojo85 6 дней назад +1

    She said she asked him to take the baby for a bit…but then said the court order granted him full custody. She’s leaving out some details

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 21 день назад +3

    Poor damn a kid should never be worried about where to sleep what to eat

  • @NIO623
    @NIO623 23 дня назад +8

    How is she broke though?? Where is her money going to?? She is paying for food. The kids get medicaid for insurance All i can see she is paying for is maybe her phone and bus pass and toiletries. Where is her money going? . She should gave at least $5k saved up in 4 months. Or she is smoking it up or getting her nails done. Smh ! Prioritize the essentials lady!

    • @debbieframpton3857
      @debbieframpton3857 23 дня назад +3

      They showed her smoking that's over $100 a carton

    • @jollymollyramram9702
      @jollymollyramram9702 18 дней назад

      @debbieframpton3857. Quitting cigarettes is probably hard when in a stressful situation.

    • @Emm325
      @Emm325 15 дней назад

      @@jollymollyramram9702she can get the patch or gum for FREE through government agencies so, try again. Ya know that else is “stressful” growing up with a lazy mom that puts her kids last.

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      And she gets a tax refund because she’s poor so I know that’s about 5-6K back during the spring season…. She might be financially irresponsible

  • @elizabethgraham4928
    @elizabethgraham4928 21 день назад +7

    There's more to the story than a argument. They probably talked to her multiple times about issues around the home and she could not cRe less until they put her out.

  • @barbaraness4507
    @barbaraness4507 18 дней назад +3

    3:31 So she didn’t actually lose “her house”. I’ve been through that with someone, and they were basically mooching off of us, and messing up the house.

  • @kentthomason6285
    @kentthomason6285 21 день назад +4

    By having them kids she have ruin their life the kids Big and depressed dealing with her mess

  • @barbaraness4507
    @barbaraness4507 18 дней назад +2

    My kids were never allowed to be picky eaters, but if there was something they really couldn’t stand we’d at least have them try it. When I was staying in shelters it was very much like the one they showed here.

  • @kintequeen25
    @kintequeen25 14 дней назад +1

    I remember doing one of these documentaries for the shelter I lived in .

  • @jacquelinewilliams375
    @jacquelinewilliams375 22 дня назад +3

    It's easy to judge when you have never been in that situation. Her situation is hers and no matter how she got there she is trying. I have been in her shoes so I understand if it doesn't break you it makes you a stronger person. I'm 68 years old and all that unhappiness has long been gone but I understand and feel when people go through things in life. Life sometimes doesn't work out like you want. Praying for her and anyone going through this in life.

  • @jackieisabelajaso
    @jackieisabelajaso Месяц назад +17

    She is very lucky because 100% of the time around the state of Delaware if you're not of a certain color they automatically take your kids and put you out on the streets and refuse to help you, if you're of that specific skin color you're giving an apartment almost immediately or they put you up in a nice hotel with in 24 hours,give you gift cards and everything like that and treated like royalty!

    • @jollymollyramram9702
      @jollymollyramram9702 18 дней назад

      So white people have it easier in Delaware. No surprise really.

  • @adastraperaspera99
    @adastraperaspera99 21 день назад +1

    She's experiencing the pain of hundreds of thousands of fathers across the country routinely denied access to their children and their parenting time

  • @sandylipscomb7003
    @sandylipscomb7003 22 дня назад +2

    Baby is adorable ❤️

  • @AkariFukada-ys7qe
    @AkariFukada-ys7qe 21 день назад +4

    I work for a state agency that help homeless. I know I don’t know what they have gone though, but I irritates me each time they complain about the food, the bed, they complain how little the gov. Gave them money for food, etc and make this an excuse not to stay in shelter but out of the street then harried the Government to give them free housing or apartment rental. Then some also request car or transportation allowance, or bills payment because they are behind months of rent of apt, electric or water.. jeezzzz

  • @debbieangel9376
    @debbieangel9376 4 дня назад

    This is so sad, your husband has NO right to keep your son from you, fight for your right and keep the faih Jackie you're a good Mom and you're raising your children well, I wish you everything of the best and more, with Love

  • @Footballl942
    @Footballl942 5 дней назад

    Omg love her son❤

  • @dr.cheryldenegall4987
    @dr.cheryldenegall4987 7 дней назад

    Please help your children to under that this place is safe, and they are not sleeping on the streets. There are a lot of kids who are less fortunate and your kids don’t appear to know the sense of value. The food is free and they are receiving a hot meal. You need to stay focused and remember to be responsible so that they will be responsible so that when you get a new place you can keep it clean; which is what got you in this situation from what it sounds like. Not being stable is not a good thing. Please try to get it together for the baby whom is being cared for by his father. The father could take him away as he feels that you are not a fit parent. This is your time to push towards greatness. Bless you!!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @joaniedaniel9889
    @joaniedaniel9889 23 дня назад +2

    Don't give up you could have chosen to abandon your children and chosen a very dark path. Life is a journey full of ups and downs bad times don't last. ❤❤❤

  • @mliloblackfire657
    @mliloblackfire657 16 дней назад +1

    I was just about to say only in America will you get such a lovely shelter but every other person also thinks so too...

  • @debbieangel9376
    @debbieangel9376 4 дня назад

    Please Please Please may we have an update to your stories, it is so interesting and it would be nice to know how these people's lives turned out whether they were blessed with That Sliver Lining

  • @paulalewis3389
    @paulalewis3389 25 дней назад +28

    Cigarettes are very expensive. That money could be put to better use.

    • @elainemiller1417
      @elainemiller1417 24 дня назад +9

      and tattoos, acrylic nails..

    • @debbieframpton3857
      @debbieframpton3857 23 дня назад +8

      This mother of three is broke but she managed to spend money on cigarettes a carton of cigarettes is over $100. That money would go a long way towards buying things for her children

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +4

      @@elainemiller1417 And green hair...anchor babies are going to be anchor babies

    • @Arizona_lilly
      @Arizona_lilly 20 дней назад

      She needs them smokes

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      @@christophertracy2807what’s a anchor baby? Lol

  • @Michelle_Michelle___
    @Michelle_Michelle___ 25 дней назад +8

    Mama has her kids with her, I respect her 💕 it’s so easy to check out and abandon our roles…. It’s hard! But blessed are those who persevere and keep Jesus first in their lives 🙌🏾 we are all fighting the same fight, but we will make it through. I love you girl, God bless you and your family 💕🙏🏾.

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 22 дня назад +2

      Why??? what do others do with their kids?

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      @@edie4321umm ever heard of CPS?

    • @edie4321
      @edie4321 4 дня назад

      @@ShimmySha, Parents turn their kids in??? Don't people know by now that CPS is a cover for trafficking? The government is the largest trafficking operation.

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 28 дней назад +44

    I would tell the kids they can eat the pot pie or starve. Appreciate what is being provided you.

    • @back2the80s
      @back2the80s 24 дня назад +7

      Like it was back in the day

    • @snowblo1
      @snowblo1 23 дня назад +8

      Exactly. That was a bit rude. And they were down talking the food right in front of the cook that took the time to make it. Like, wow, so what it's not authentic chicken pot pie, it still looked good.

    • @christophertracy2807
      @christophertracy2807 21 день назад +1

      That is the mentality that comes with anchor babies - she has taught it to the obese children

    • @deewrig54
      @deewrig54 21 день назад +3

      Clearly those kids aren’t starving.

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      Right. She needs to teach her kids some LIFE SKILLS. And how to be GRATEFUL.

  • @Starfish6
    @Starfish6 23 дня назад +7

    She can clean up after herself and be more humble..Why can't she work full time?

  • @livefromtheground7274
    @livefromtheground7274 22 дня назад +4

    A man who leaves his seed and does not water it IS NOT A Man
    And I’m tired of hearing about being a Mom! What exactly is that? Got children then you’re a MOM! Now BE, & stop aspiring to be that tv chic WHO DOES NOT EXIST !
    When u live w others you must pitch in, being messy in her “small” space says she’s disorganized and needs help.
    I would not have put those babies out but I damn sure would have a problem w her sleeping & the house is a mess & I been out busting rocks.
    She needs to hear herself on video

  • @Joce123
    @Joce123 29 дней назад +7

    Why did she give her son away if she searches always gonna be there for her child?

    • @MayaLuv-xp7ux
      @MayaLuv-xp7ux 26 дней назад +10

      I don’t see an issue with the child going with the other parent, at least he’s in a stable home.

    • @donnafreeman4376
      @donnafreeman4376 25 дней назад +8

      Nothing wrong with her decision on having the youngest child stay with his father

    • @mazwide9400
      @mazwide9400 25 дней назад +4

      She wanted,to work too.The others are school going kids! So it was a great idea,to give the little one to his dad .

    • @Joce123
      @Joce123 24 дня назад +1

      I want a 100% stand behind my comment that she should not have given her little boy away.
      I don't care if it was to his father and then expect to have that child into her life. No that is not happening...Obviously the father is cutting her out of their life. Plenty of single parents have more than 3 kids. ..and don't give any away.

    • @Joce123
      @Joce123 24 дня назад +2

      They have daycares at those shelters so she could have worked and left her child and a daycare and not abandon him.

  • @christinestephens37
    @christinestephens37 12 дней назад

    No JJ, No Apartment, No Happy Ending. These videos are so depressing. They all mostly end with people still homeless😢.

  • @azsbwolf
    @azsbwolf 10 дней назад

    Your gonna be a great mom its a process.

  • @tonyalston4838
    @tonyalston4838 21 день назад +7

    She wasn't worried about her son nearly as much as she was worried about her baby daddy winning #Facts

  • @odessajackson4551
    @odessajackson4551 24 дня назад +8

    Beggars can't be choosy why did they keep having these kids they cannot afford..to many women can't live in one house!!

  • @debibarrington4697
    @debibarrington4697 18 дней назад

    Heard my mom say once "I love you" and I was in my 50s and she said it robotically

  • @mazwide9400
    @mazwide9400 25 дней назад +3

    Can we get update?

  • @sylviavanuden2114
    @sylviavanuden2114 22 дня назад

    😢🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️love you

  • @Iworkwithnitwits
    @Iworkwithnitwits 28 дней назад +25

    She should have left her kids with her mother while she dealt with the welfare check on her son. Her daughter is just 6 years old and does not understand the gravity of the situation.

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld 23 дня назад +6

      I agree. The entire situation could be traumatic for them because they don't understand what's happening with their brother, but it especially broke my heart when she cried into her daughters arms. That's so scary for a 6 year old with no idea what's going on💔

  • @odessajackson4551
    @odessajackson4551 24 дня назад +7

    She needs to listen and take her own advice!!!

  • @maryduhon9769
    @maryduhon9769 23 дня назад +4

    She does a lot of whining. You can tell by the way people talk.

  • @shawj7876
    @shawj7876 8 дней назад

    If homeless means you still get food, clothes, cell phones, and a bed to sleep in, that’s not bad.

  • @lelabrooks04
    @lelabrooks04 6 дней назад

    Her living space might be small for 3 people. But she could at least keep it tidy. My goodness 😮.

  • @zeniyawellsprettygirliscut2571
    @zeniyawellsprettygirliscut2571 24 дня назад +1

    God bless I wish I had more to be able to help. Times are tough out here!! Even with a job.

  • @maryjane4846
    @maryjane4846 6 часов назад

    Did She find a place for her and her children? I'm sad it ended without them having a place..

  • @BobbyBobby-wi7kv
    @BobbyBobby-wi7kv 2 дня назад

    That shelter is nicer than my house maybe have a little gratitude lady geez

  • @tealthoughts
    @tealthoughts День назад

    U of C, and other companies that pay people hourly, need to pay their employees more.

  • @avisswope6495
    @avisswope6495 4 дня назад

    Lots of elderly homeless across the 50 states no where for them to live i am one of them.
    Lost my place whete i was living thru high rent eviction. In ocala florida
    4 4 2024.

  • @lovekay5262
    @lovekay5262 12 дней назад

    That is against the law to not let the parent see the child. There’s no court order banning her from seeing her child. Full custody I seriously doubt he will get it because courts love to give parents shared parenting as long as there is no abuse. Just because she’s temporarily in a shelter will not make her lose custody of her child. The father will not look good in court the minute he tells the judge he hasn’t let her see her child in a long time. Keep your text messages as proof.

  • @karl28560
    @karl28560 23 дня назад +5

    Her hair coloring says it all to me. SMH.

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld 23 дня назад +1

      What you think isn't important 🙄🤡

    • @Artsylady2030
      @Artsylady2030 5 дней назад

      many people myself included agree.....if she wanted to be taken seriously and get a GOOD paying job she would get a hair cut and cut off all that GREEN.....she looks stupid and appears lazy ....

    • @ShimmySha
      @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

      What does it say?

  • @danielle4295
    @danielle4295 21 день назад +2

    She seems lazy. The shelter room was messy, so I can only imagine the state of the house she was sharing with her mother and sister, after a long day at work nobody wants to come home to find somebody else’s mess.

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 21 день назад +2

    Poor kids . I saw this woman living in a home together w kids they eat in a hall together share a shower is better then nothing n yes a pass because this is t ur home everything has rules

  • @kentthomason6285
    @kentthomason6285 21 день назад +3

    They're tired of the food? But overweight

  • @jewel6430
    @jewel6430 15 дней назад

    She should take her son's father to court to have co. parents or get her full custody back again. The other parents should never stop the other parents from seeing their children.

  • @AnaSpeirs
    @AnaSpeirs 7 дней назад

    She needed this reality check. She's in this position because she was irresponsible and lazy. Her sister and mom were over it. Take the L and accept the lesson. The rules of the shelter are there to help instill the structure that a lot of these people are lacking.

  • @jaywatson9476
    @jaywatson9476 27 дней назад +1

    😊🙏💜

  • @Arizona_lilly
    @Arizona_lilly 21 день назад +2

    The food ? Hard on them ? They look fine and big not starving . When u have ur own place u can cook u can’t now please explain them that

  • @111incogneto
    @111incogneto 18 дней назад

    Sorry to hear about your dad but I question I have a question is it two-tone Chevy?

  • @ShimmySha
    @ShimmySha 4 дня назад

    For those of you who are wondering why she had 3 children back to back with no father in sight with multiple men. She obviously stated that her parents were addicted to drxgs and humans being emotional creatures, she wanted to receive unconditional love. It seriously doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that. She won’t be the first struggling single mother nor the last. Mental healthcare is important. Not everyone comes from a good background with a good head on their shoulders knowing not to bring children into poverty. Yes, birth control is free but when you’re mentally and emotionally behind then you’re going to make this common mistake. She should have stopped at 1 but I see her side as well.