It was called the tradigity of the commons. (Shared lands) in the early American colonies. Almost everyone died. Try cracking a history book every once in a while.
Tragedy of the commons is an economic idea. It only applies if no one can talk to each other and make an enforceable deal for the better of eveyone. It's 4 adults for freaks sake. They could fix it if they wanted to. They probs don't care. There's 3 children running around what's clutter.
I grew up in a community where there was a group like that. It's resulted in a lot of pain now that I've grown up, and grown apart from them. It also gave me a very bad understanding of how to handle money, and what I am actually worth as a skilled laborer. When you grow up hating the idea of money, you tend to be willing to work for a lot less than you should and people take advantage of you.
Yes, if you are the most efficient worker in a commune, you are discouraged and punished. If you are the least efficient worker in a commune, you are encouraged and rewarded. Thanks for sharing your experience over time.
@@jonguyen100 lmao, let's weigh both sides: make 85k/year, become financially stable and independent, save up for your children's college fund, retire at 55-60 OR make 85k/year, have most of that income go towards people who work and do less than you do, will never be financially independent, can't save for children's college fund because it all goes towards grown men and women, never be able to retire BUT AT LEAST I GET FREE CHILDCARE
@@HHH-qp9zd dude communes are wierd but they are not evil whats bad is not being able to choose. But they do have choices. They keep their finances in check and put money into different accounts for all the members. And even if that chick is the tent pole for 1 house and all utilities she's probably paying the same amount as for only her and her kids. Like chill this is like having roommates but with a student government and a fundraiser mixed in. And guess what? No one wants you in their commune and you don't have to be in one.
Well, from an efficiency view for the commune, it does make more sense to have a few high cash earning people, instead of a bunch of people spending more man-hours making the same amount of cash. That said, those who are not earning, should have enough time to keep that house MUCH nicer. But, they knew they were being filmed, so perhaps, that's not a priority for them (?) Also, I'm not convinced that they have fully thought out the ramifications of sharing income as opposed to just reducing and sharing bills. It might be my indoctrination speaking, but this situation may be feasible as long as it remains a "family-sized" enterprise, but I seriously doubt this is scale-able to 15+ people. I predict if it gets much bigger the founder and the lawyer will leave together. (I suppose that's not a remarkable prediction.)
Idk, if I had kids, I don’t think I’d be all that comfortable with them living in the same house as several people that I really don’t know *that* well?.. I mean, they’re probably fine and being treated very well, but… seems a bit risky to me…
Sierra Long Yes! I was cringing the whole time, especially when her boyfriend, the man with whom after 3 weeks together she has the “ greatest relationship she has ever had”, yelled at her kids and was visibly angry. He may have had reason to be upset, but really? Talking to the kids like that in front of a film crew? I was very unimpressed.
Billsama Bin Clinten totally agree with you. You have to be cautious but we should also develop the skills needed to be in a functioning society. The kids in this video seemed nice polite and centered.
H. Santos Believe me, my children definitely have the skills to make it in society. Are you a parent? Or are you just a keyboard warrior spouting of on a topic you have no personal experience dealing with.
It's great that these people have found a way of life that makes them feel satisfied and whole. I hope it works out well for them and they reach their goal. I know I wouldn't fit in here at all, I like my own space and managing my own money.
So do l. I'm contemplating going to visit a friend, eager until my friend told me they are living in a commune, now not s sure about going, especially since my friend has been constantly nagging me to visit, l need t o find out more about communes.
You literally didn't pay attention to anything that was said in this video. All the income everyone makes is being pooled into a collective community fund that goes toward making it a more equitable community for all.
There are components of commune living that makes sense. Child care shared amongst adults with shared living and eating space sounds very healthy, but income sharing isn't completely necessary and seems destabilizing. Cooperative housing with more communal elements might be more appropiate for most people.
Nada I have to agree with you. I love the idea of a community based child rearing, something that used to be more common in American Christian churches and in American Jewish communities. Some percentage of income pooling is fair for food and shared living expenses, but for the long term, a fully shared income seems very risky to me.
Nada I agree. I think though that every commune is going to have different levels of involvement, and that that's okay too. Communes that are built and operate in the context of capitalism while being very socialist internally are the future. And communes aren't for everyone either- they are ugly when they are not free and consentual.
I have seen this and lived this. Survivalist compound on 5 acres, the owner of which makes around $100k a year. He invites all kinds of squatters to come live, the ones with any work ethic at all (myself, and a few others) get all the work piled onto them and eventually wise up and leave. The owner's left with a lot of lazy suck-ups who stroke his ego by agreeing with everything he says no matter how stupid, picture Mr. Burns out of the Simpsons and his yes-men.
Lauren Ball they may be feeding kids throsn out food but at the same time some people are feed their kids rrash in another way(double bacon cheese artery stopper with a gallon of soda and a mountain of greasu fries)
“I made 27, 000... so i quit my job and now I don’t know how much I make.” This is the exact opposite of the type of person you want splitting your resources...
Isn’t that the point though? These are people who realize that in a capitalistic society we decide one’s worth based on income. There are many valuable resources one can provide that don’t produce income. Cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc. I’d have no problem living with someone who earned no income, but did help keep the house running.
Joyful Noise But she brings in half the money... The unspoken reality of their commune is that everybody secretly has a priority list of who they'd kick out if push came to shove. There is going to one person in that group who is least likely to be voted off, give a wild guess as to who is at the bottom of that list.
@@IndigoXYZ18 The whole idea of a commune is that human labor is intrinsically valuable, whether it is making 85,000 a year for the commune or caring for the children or preparing meals.
natecat333 Well that's the thing, all forms of work just aren't as valuable. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't strife to life in a world where everybody is happy, healthy and well fed, but some careers make bring us closer to that reality than do others. Nobody would die tomorrow if all the fast food workers forgot how to do their jobs, where as if the same were true of doctors it would be a crisis. You need only grant me the fact that some jobs improve global well being more than others, and that most of these jobs only a handful of people can do, and you are literally describing what value is (utility & scarcity). That woman can dumpster dive for recalled chicken, that bum however cannot cover for her on a sick day and represent her clients in a court of law. Now I'm not opposed to socialized funding, far from it, there are problems that don't generate money by solving them, and where the free market cannot solve problems, not solve them fast enough, or actively cause programs, that's where a health dose of socialism comes into the picture to balance things out. That said we need to face facts lest we end up like Venezuela; a nuclear physicist brings more to the table than does somebody who collects cans. Full stop.
Just for the record, they also mentioned food reclamation, which is a really amazing way to get food from grocery stores that would be thrown away otherwise. We have to reshape the way that food is wasted around the world. Currently nearly 30% of food that is produced goes to waste. That's INSANE
Couldn't help but see sadness on the little girls face as her mom openly bad mouthed her father for the camera. Nice one Mom. I bet she has always had a hard time being happy. This will test her yet again and likely, the kids will pay for her unhappiness.
I don't understand the defensive reaction in the comments. If you don't want to live like this you don't have to, that's kind of the point. Why do you need to prove so badly that the way other people live their lives is wrong?
Because they are lecturing us about how decadent we are for living in a capitalistic society. We should join the wave of the future which is Marxism. Their arguments are tendentious and sophomoric; yet they look down on and are dismissive of main stream culture. The motto for the Federation of Egalitarian Communities is, "We're better than you ... we're MARXIST." These people are hated because they have the same message as ANTIFA: We're right and you're wrong. And anyone with a few brain cells still firing can figure out that they are not the wave of the future; that they represent a step back into tribalism and that can't possibly be a positive model for the planet in the 21st century. Just as an example, what do you think happens in an FEC community when someone wants to have a child and start a family -- a pretty ordinary thing for people in the outside world. In community it can become a BIG DEAL for obvious reasons. The community may well tell you to get on the child waiting list and wait until a spot opens up. Things that are straight forward in ordinary life are made unnecessarily complex in community.
Fabio... just what I would expect from a snowflake liberal. No discussion. Just shut up: the mantra of Antifa. If you don't agree with us, you have to be silenced. No dissent can be permitted in our Trotsky paradise. You know what happened to Trotsky; he was assassinated by Stalin. His world Marxist revolution never happened because you lefties always produce a bloodbath eventually when you gain power. It always leads to Mao's Cultural Revolution and Pol Pot's Killing Fields -- millions of dead bodies, sacrifices for leftist idealism. You don't really care about people ... what you really care about is your leftist fantasies. If blood has to be shed, it's always for a good cause ... right? Marxism has been an absolute and total disaster for the world; yet you lefties persist in promoting this moribund ideology -- no matter what the reality is.
Pat Downs how fucking pedantic can you get dude. Do u realize how bloody capitalism has been in retaining its ideals. You’ve never heard of the haymarket riots? Or, y’know, the genocide of native ppls to have them integrate into capitalism. You’re telling me the Vietnam war was completely justified for the US to join in? Ur a joke who has a couple 10 cent words up his sleeve to throw around during an argument in some shallow attempt to drown his opponents in vocabulary when ur just spewing the same shit every capitalist does. Lemme guess, the black book is ur main source for ur arguments?
"Setting aside money to put into individual accounts for each person." So the lawyer and the teacher are supporting 3 basically jobless men and ALSO giving them cash that they will never get back.
No different than a husband and a stay at home mom. They do most of the financial work and the others likely do the house work. Both are equally important
@@craiga4215 They're not married, they're roommates. And by the looks of that unkempt house those 3 men are not doing housework nor taking good care of the other people's children.
No there pooling together their resorces and as this commune grows so will the money and their opportunities. For example that person ur counting out as just the cook or whatever might be able to invent something or start some sort of buisness now or maybe the other will and they will all help and all share in the profits it's essentially a giant happy family
I found an update on a blog- it seems the lawyer left after she and her bf broke up?: "The danger of relying on the income of one or two members is further illustrated by the slow demise of Compersia which began falling apart when the member who had a large income that basically supported the community left. This was also caused by a romantic breakup between two members-a different danger when relationships are what stabilize a community."
Update: kids homeless now because Mom funded these freeloaders useless lives by diverting all her money into individual savings accounts for them instead of paying for her kid's college/training programs so they can actually support themselves.
They seem safe and happy. Nothing wrong with food that's safe when cooked properly. Any undercooked food can have nasty germs. We throw out so much food because people can get careless but if you know you need to be cautious it's good free food. And in general this is a much better environment for kids. Do you think they were lying about the kids loving it there?
I have spent 22 years of my life living with my parents, grandma and younger brother and sister. When I finish college I intend to move out but these people want to live with even more people. I would honestly go insane if I lived the way they do.
One by One True their life their choice but it just shocked me that people willing choose to live like this. The bathroom line must be a mile long there lol.
I glad she point out personality conflict in a commune since we are all so diverse as human. Also, I noticed that one of the room they shared, personal space was also considered as important.
I lived in a foreclosed on house in key west with 12 hippies, it was 2009 so the bank would take years to catch up on foreclosures and throw us out. The electric bill still had to be paid on time. Strangely half my housemates would disappear for a week or so whenever it was time to toss a few bucks in for the electric bill. Funny thing.
I really appreciate the editing of this, it wasn’t sugarcoated, there were awkward moments left in and that’s life isn’t it? lots of awkward moments. Lol. Power to them though, hope they get what they want out of it, it’s a beautiful idea. Personally I don’t think I could go that far I’m more of a cohousing person. We have been thinking about a way to do that in our (hopefully) early-ish retirement years. Fend off the Existential dread with community and hopefully have a little bit leftover for travel.
wendytube007, a group of people who all know one another built eight townhouses on my block. Five are young married couples with children and three townhouses have several single people. One townhouse has a communal room with a television and they share one meal together per week. They are the sweetest people I have ever known in my life. They all take in extra people, including some foster children. I'm a youngish senior and I get to stay in my own home and hang out down there all I want. It's perfect. Hope you find what you need.
This man said..... I would prefer not to have to ask you to do that. Then his mom is heard saying “ oh yeah the kids love it “. My thoughts"? Have you actually asked them or did you just assume?
That household is gunna blow up, no doubt. The chick who is making 85k a year is keeping them afloat and for some reason she is still there. The idea of people living in the same house to split the rent makes sense but even still that’ll last for like 5 years until everyone gets tired of each other. Socialism is like thinking of an ideal perfect condition with no conflict, but humans are greedy and we are all different but for some reason people still think that it’ll work no matter how many times we tell them it won’t.
I lived in a commune in college. The biggest problem is when you have that one crazy person in the house ruining everything. That was a big deal. Other than that, I wished I had lived in a commune my whole college experience. It was much cheaper in terms of pretty much everything like rent, utilities, and groceries. The food was much more varied, healthier, and delicious. No ramen noodles for us. We did most of our cooking, cleaning, and some of the maintenance and groceries. I did the house cooking two days per week. It was a great experience.
Agree, I would love to have other people nearby. I live alone and it's okay most of the time, but having a good friend to drink tea with, and some children to love... that would be awesome.
Yeah until they argue about something because they can't come to a full consensus on how to spend the money. Instead of just having normal roommates who pay an equal share and clean the space that they use. Of course the video wouldn't show them NOT getting alone or disagreeing because this is a clearly a showcase. If they wanna do it, fine. But the inherent flaws in this sort of lifestyle to me greatly outweigh any possible benefit.
So this way of life is so great that they literally dumpster dive to put food on the table these people need to step back before they drink too much of the kool-aid
Id live in a commune with Jenny too if she was making that much & wasnt allowed to complain if she realised she funded us all for staying home making pseudo intellectual videos
Glad I'm not the only one who caught that. She makes 85k a year as an attorney, her bf (who has a market value of 60 an hour) decides to stay home and cook, a male roommate who made 27k a year decides to quit and do odd jobs, and I'm still confused at what the other woman does for a living. Her income alone can sustain the two kids and the boyfriend, but the other two? I'm confised about their levels of contribution for folks who got the roof off their heads paid off. If she enjoys "unpaid labor" so much, her bf can stay at home and watch the kids. It only takes ONE person some elbow grease and patience to maintain a household.
"Cooking dinner for everyone is worthless" What the hell are restaurants then? Takeout? Pizza delivery? These all have very clear market values. And if you want to get paid specifically to make a "home cooked" meal, that's called being a maid or servant. It's a legitimate job that has a real market value.
This is not that different from just living in a family household, you are just creating it with a roommate and community situation. I think some people don’t want to live alone and really want that support system, so this could be a great alternative.
4 hippies and 3 children share a house and you guys are surprised it's messy? The kind of people that can keep their spaces tidy aren't the kind of people that settle for communes
This is just normal in the Philippines. Everyone lives together. Relatives take care of your kids. Relatives also depend on your income. But they give back by doing your chores. Introvert hell.
I like that they set up a system where there are multiple ways to contribute (working, labor, organization, etc). I personally wouldn't be comfortable with it but whatever works.
I don't understand why they're pooling money together for everyone but putting aside money in a savings account for the individual. Why wouldn't the savings account be communal like the checking account?
Basically it happend already with bald freelancers guy and Steve who is a handyman in the house for 60$ per hour who is also cooking meals to feel important. Basically the the lawyer says I'm going the rest has to get a real job again or they are all screwed
Of the 50 hours they work each week -- are they all valued equally? Is the 1 hour one person spends leisurely cleaning equal to the 1 hour that the lawyer works to generate $80/hr? Cooking for everyone isn't worthless but it isn't equal to a high-paying job either.
I live with three people. We have our own money and do what we want with it and we don't pool it. However, we do help each other out when/if the need arises. We will share our food if one of us comes short with a pay cheque, loan each other money and just help in every regard right down to cooking meals. And we still have our own lives, our own things and our own rooms. I guess it's kind of like communal living except we don't toss our resources into one pot. We just help each other when it's needed.
It doesn't make sense for the woman who makes 80K a year to live in an income sharing commune with people that make far less than her. She is supporting them.
mikael macmurray I thought the same thing. I would have thought they would put a lot of effort into growing their own veggies. I expected to see pretty much the whole yard turned over for cultivation. Well, I guess when you can get a box of expired bagged salads out of the dumpster, there is no need to put forth the effort into an organic garden.
Yeah alot of people complaining about how it's a dump and stuff, but this project just started they said so ofcourse they aren't gonna have a mansion with plenty of space for everyone. Everything always starts out small and it takes a huge amount of time to actually get this going where they want it to be. They talk in form of a vision, not what it is now.
This is what happens to Ideologues who can no longer afford to live in the city and are basically looking to freeload off someone else in order to maintain their failed plans in life.
Con: A bunch of legitimate, solid arguments against communism, communes and a bunch of history to show why it almost always fails. Pro: I'm not going to knock them for being in the minority of people who support this general set of ideologies who actually go out and do it and give it a solid shot. Props to them for balancing their finances and pursuing what they want to do in life. I really hope it works well for them.
I'm not saying you can't make money freelancing, I'm just saying that you're probably not making much if you aren't even bothering to keep track of how much you make.
I absolutely loved communal living. I lived on The Farm Commune from age 15 - 20 and in 1979 we all moved to Austin Texas, which was a meca of some really great folks with a consciousness very much like our Commune. At The Farm, we had 1500 acres with up to 1700 people, we lived in households of up to 45 per house with 21 children in that number. We were vegan, no leather, living with free medical, I was taught " Spiritual Midwifery" , we smoked only herb and any natural Psychadelics and smoking herb was considered Communion, many ideas, philosophies, and ideas to help mankind, we lived in buses and other large structures, we were fully self sustainable, married folks had their own rooms, single ladies and men shared rooms with others of the same gender, everyone shared duties at home and worked jobs on the Farm or Construction workers worked off the Farm and brought money back and gave it to the Commune. We never paid for anything . However, we had to work to keep our village alive . The main Farm was in Summer town called,Tenn. With multiple satillite Farms from California, Canada, Guatemala, Florida, DC Austin,zero Wisconsin and the Bronx and more. We had Spiritual Teacher named Stephen Gaskin ,He was not a Leader, He encouraged everyone of us to be teachers too. How did it work, we had Agreements. I believe the most Important agreement was to tell someone immediately if they made you angry, hurt, upset , and to " work it out before any " sub conscious" / resentment festered. It wasn't always easy when on the receiving end however no one ever got mad. Wood stove heat, Live Music all weekend, I have been trying to get another situation started with Community. We need each other and one day even the young will get old. Honor your neighbor, feed each other, always have help when needed, Respect the Sacrament of the Family unit and raise creative children. Multiple books were published about how we all got started . One of my favorites is "This Seasons People". Great video!
So essentially what these people have done is created a family. A traditional family is a small-ish group of people who share resources for the benifit of everyone. In my opinion the US needs to get back to family values even if that means living with extended family and friends in order to take care of each other
I like this idea but I always go back to the concept of social loafing. If group efforts are pooled, people are less likely to work as hard as they would individually. I think tension would also start to build if you have people making less than 20k per year with people that are making more than 80k per year. Maybe a commune of people who make the same amount of money, whose needs are about the same, would work a lot better.
They knew the cameras were coming. Couldn't they at least make the beds? I think the idea of a commune is really cool, but if I started a commune, keeping things tidy and clean would be part of the rules.
Nope couldn’t do it. Grew up homeschooled in a household of 7. I couldn’t live in a commune like this. I prefer a village where there’s more space. But hey, it saves money so yay for them?
Marriage is communal living between two people. Even that always has money issues regarding what to spend the money on. It would be impossible in a group.
Love the idea. First heard it from 4 sisters who has over a million dollars in student loans combined. They all lived together and paid that money in less than 10 years even with the younger one only making 28k they paid hers in full.
Tamara Laird But they were sisters, so they are family! These people are essentially all strangers coming together. No way can you know their true intentions.
I actually love the idea. My only "issue " with this community would be not having my own space. I'm the sort of person who needs at least a few square meters to be on it's own. Right now I share an appartment with other people and I'm really happy with it. It takes a lot of stress from me. But most people can't understand that.
interesting. Why should they give *everything* to the commune? Why can't there just be predetermined ways that everyone cooperates, including money, but not EVERYTHING....
I’d like to see a commune where all the members are just like FUCKING RICH but they recognize that they could raise their kids better and have healthier interpersonal relationships by sharing a space together. Now _that_ would be something new.
Dumpster divinnngggg???? That lady makes $85K and gives up her earnings to eat literal garbage and support a freelance dude, a stay at home husband and more randos? Best Capitalism commercial ever😂😂😂
I applaud these individuals for pursuing a way of living that is moving from what has been "the way" for the last few decades. I think a common consensus is that it is difficult to remove oneself fully from the system, and to find the desired abundance, peace, and harmony. They are definitely onto something; it'll become clearer on what really works and what can be improved upon. A way I see that the communal way of living can really thrive is when each person is willing to fully open up to one another and look beyond ones own needs.. Yet ironically as one does this everybody benefits! It then becomes absolutely essential to find ways to cope with conflict as it arises, and to see it not as an attack upon oneself but instead to listen to what the person is really saying underneath it all and to be willing to ask how the person REALLY is feeling. Sometimes it's not just about the dishes left unwashed or the children playing too loud.. On another note the concept of shared income is intriguing especially when there may be a great disparity between how much each individual contributes.. I think that as long as each person contributes in bringing what is needed to the community it's not perfect but this helps to balance things out. For instance if ones income is unsteady one can still work on house chores or gardening.. On a personal front I do wonder if there's a community where I would fit in.. I'm really into gardening, I like to keep things neat(er) and organized, and I like to sing/dance 😁
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I could do shared land and garden and farm but the clutter is already driving me nuts in the living space.
Kim Chloe that's just them, you can definitely organize better in your own shared space
It was called the tradigity of the commons. (Shared lands) in the early American colonies. Almost everyone died. Try cracking a history book every once in a while.
Tragedy of the commons is an economic idea. It only applies if no one can talk to each other and make an enforceable deal for the better of eveyone. It's 4 adults for freaks sake. They could fix it if they wanted to. They probs don't care. There's 3 children running around what's clutter.
+S “Superhero for Fun!” history books lie
The clutter is the first thing I noticed. I'm sure someone will get it together. 50 hours of community labor, that should be plenty of time.
Looks like they haven't figured out who is responsible for cleaning.
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LOL I can't imagine what it smells like. And sharing a bathroom with these people? No thanks.
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I think there's a difference between dirty and cluttered. It doesn't necessarily look dirty just cluttered as hell
Like most utopian communities in the past their community will implode when they figure more people are taking than giving.
They should combine more minimalistic philosophy because looking at all that clutter and mess makes me sick...
Lol, I kind of thought the same thing... ;)
Agreed
pauka90 well, that you.
I was thinking the exact thing!
pauka90 i thought most collectives were off the grid types
AND usually minimalistic
I grew up in a community where there was a group like that. It's resulted in a lot of pain now that I've grown up, and grown apart from them. It also gave me a very bad understanding of how to handle money, and what I am actually worth as a skilled laborer. When you grow up hating the idea of money, you tend to be willing to work for a lot less than you should and people take advantage of you.
Yes, if you are the most efficient worker in a commune, you are discouraged and punished. If you are the least efficient worker in a commune, you are encouraged and rewarded. Thanks for sharing your experience over time.
"sorry for interrupting you" --what polite kids, my god!
I thought the same thing I'm suprised more ppl in the. Moments section haven't mentioned it
That’s what I said
Absolutely precious.
i wouldnt wanna be making 80+k a year only to be sharing a dirty small space with a bunch of others and eating diseased, dumpster food....
@yutr7o6856e7d68f9g you have zero insight into her finances, or into what she gets back in the arrangement. Free childcare, for instance.
@@jonguyen100 lmao, let's weigh both sides: make 85k/year, become financially stable and independent, save up for your children's college fund, retire at 55-60 OR make 85k/year, have most of that income go towards people who work and do less than you do, will never be financially independent, can't save for children's college fund because it all goes towards grown men and women, never be able to retire BUT AT LEAST I GET FREE CHILDCARE
@@HHH-qp9zd dude communes are wierd but they are not evil whats bad is not being able to choose. But they do have choices. They keep their finances in check and put money into different accounts for all the members. And even if that chick is the tent pole for 1 house and all utilities she's probably paying the same amount as for only her and her kids. Like chill this is like having roommates but with a student government and a fundraiser mixed in. And guess what? No one wants you in their commune and you don't have to be in one.
@@jonguyen100 im not sure of i would want free childcare in the form of Steve telling my kids "what he can do to stop that"
Well, from an efficiency view for the commune, it does make more sense to have a few high cash earning people, instead of a bunch of people spending more man-hours making the same amount of cash. That said, those who are not earning, should have enough time to keep that house MUCH nicer. But, they knew they were being filmed, so perhaps, that's not a priority for them (?) Also, I'm not convinced that they have fully thought out the ramifications of sharing income as opposed to just reducing and sharing bills. It might be my indoctrination speaking, but this situation may be feasible as long as it remains a "family-sized" enterprise, but I seriously doubt this is scale-able to 15+ people. I predict if it gets much bigger the founder and the lawyer will leave together. (I suppose that's not a remarkable prediction.)
when the kid apologized for interrupting, I cried
why?
it was just so polite and cute
Oh. That's sweet. : )
I.. honestly don't think he meant it...
Like... really. It sounded ironic.
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Idk, if I had kids, I don’t think I’d be all that comfortable with them living in the same house as several people that I really don’t know *that* well?..
I mean, they’re probably fine and being treated very well, but… seems a bit risky to me…
Sierra Long Yes! I was cringing the whole time, especially when her boyfriend, the man with whom after 3 weeks together she has the “ greatest relationship she has ever had”, yelled at her kids and was visibly angry. He may have had reason to be upset, but really? Talking to the kids like that in front of a film crew? I was very unimpressed.
+Mary Anne Brown Really? You are the reason kids are so weak and overly-sensitive in today's world.
Billsama Bin Clinten totally agree with you. You have to be cautious but we should also develop the skills needed to be in a functioning society. The kids in this video seemed nice polite and centered.
Billsama Bin Clinten How many children do you have?
H. Santos Believe me, my children definitely have the skills to make it in society. Are you a parent? Or are you just a keyboard warrior spouting of on a topic you have no personal experience dealing with.
someone making $27,000 and someone making $85,000 treated as equal providers.......hmmmm....i think i'll just keep my money thanks
Matthew Kern I wonder who is taking advantage of whom!
actually, someone who used to make 27 thou... he quit and went freelance hahaaah
What time is the daily stoning of residents that want to leave?
The one making 85,000 brought 3 kids though
M awesome analysis!
$60/hr as a handyman wtf is he on
sounds right in sf bay area for quick jobs. keep in mind that he doesn't get many hours.
You get someone to come to your house to fix your plumbing, he is probably getting paid more than 60/hr
San Francisco maybe. Not in Texas
Justin Červený different cost of living in Texas vs San Fran. That will effect wages/cost of goods and services.
Payscale says different.
It's great that these people have found a way of life that makes them feel satisfied and whole. I hope it works out well for them and they reach their goal. I know I wouldn't fit in here at all, I like my own space and managing my own money.
So do l. I'm contemplating going to visit a friend, eager until my friend told me they are living in a commune, now not s sure about going, especially since my friend has been constantly nagging me to visit, l need t o find out more about communes.
So the lawyer is paying for everything lmao
Yeah but she got a younger boyfriend.
Not sure about that. Her income should be divided by 4 since she has 3 kids. I think...
And a bunch of babysitters lol
You literally didn't pay attention to anything that was said in this video. All the income everyone makes is being pooled into a collective community fund that goes toward making it a more equitable community for all.
There are components of commune living that makes sense. Child care shared amongst adults with shared living and eating space sounds very healthy, but income sharing isn't completely necessary and seems destabilizing. Cooperative housing with more communal elements might be more appropiate for most people.
Nada I have to agree with you. I love the idea of a community based child rearing, something that used to be more common in American Christian churches and in American Jewish communities. Some percentage of income pooling is fair for food and shared living expenses, but for the long term, a fully shared income seems very risky to me.
Maybe they could give a large share 30-40%, but a sense of independence is important.
Nada I agree. I think though that every commune is going to have different levels of involvement, and that that's okay too. Communes that are built and operate in the context of capitalism while being very socialist internally are the future. And communes aren't for everyone either- they are ugly when they are not free and consentual.
Agreed
mm I've heard of shared living but this shared income ..perhaps not a lot of people would be able to do that.
The woman who makes 80K a year is just paying for a bunch of squaters.
Hopefully she has a secret savings stashed in the capitalist bank.
somebody should clean that house....ok that would be my job
Well she seems fine with it. This is what gender equality looks like.
I have seen this and lived this. Survivalist compound on 5 acres, the owner of which makes around $100k a year. He invites all kinds of squatters to come live, the ones with any work ethic at all (myself, and a few others) get all the work piled onto them and eventually wise up and leave. The owner's left with a lot of lazy suck-ups who stroke his ego by agreeing with everything he says no matter how stupid, picture Mr. Burns out of the Simpsons and his yes-men.
She’s also contributing her ex husbands child support
I couldn't live there. It's a dump.
Susan Fudge not in California! 🤣
Susan Fudge fuck that! they are dumpster diving for food...food that has been recalled! they are feeding the kids trash! oh mah gawwd!!!!
prob has bed bugs also can't have all those people coming and going without getting bed bugs.
Jaggsta oh come on its not *that* easy to get bed bugs
Lauren Ball they may be feeding kids throsn out food but at the same time some people are feed their kids rrash in another way(double bacon cheese artery stopper with a gallon of soda and a mountain of greasu fries)
“I made 27, 000... so i quit my job and now I don’t know how much I make.” This is the exact opposite of the type of person you want splitting your resources...
Isn’t that the point though? These are people who realize that in a capitalistic society we decide one’s worth based on income. There are many valuable resources one can provide that don’t produce income. Cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc. I’d have no problem living with someone who earned no income, but did help keep the house running.
I agree with you Sarah. I think we should start are own commune lol. I'm in Indiana now but looking to move anywhere warm all year round.
If the attorney left, the commune would be dead. They are already eating out of dumpsters!
Christian Rupprechter ....That's why it's called a commune, because they all pitch in financially. It's not just the lawyer.
Joyful Noise But she brings in half the money... The unspoken reality of their commune is that everybody secretly has a priority list of who they'd kick out if push came to shove. There is going to one person in that group who is least likely to be voted off, give a wild guess as to who is at the bottom of that list.
@@IndigoXYZ18 The whole idea of a commune is that human labor is intrinsically valuable, whether it is making 85,000 a year for the commune or caring for the children or preparing meals.
natecat333 Well that's the thing, all forms of work just aren't as valuable. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't strife to life in a world where everybody is happy, healthy and well fed, but some careers make bring us closer to that reality than do others. Nobody would die tomorrow if all the fast food workers forgot how to do their jobs, where as if the same were true of doctors it would be a crisis. You need only grant me the fact that some jobs improve global well being more than others, and that most of these jobs only a handful of people can do, and you are literally describing what value is (utility & scarcity). That woman can dumpster dive for recalled chicken, that bum however cannot cover for her on a sick day and represent her clients in a court of law.
Now I'm not opposed to socialized funding, far from it, there are problems that don't generate money by solving them, and where the free market cannot solve problems, not solve them fast enough, or actively cause programs, that's where a health dose of socialism comes into the picture to balance things out. That said we need to face facts lest we end up like Venezuela; a nuclear physicist brings more to the table than does somebody who collects cans. Full stop.
Just for the record, they also mentioned food reclamation, which is a really amazing way to get food from grocery stores that would be thrown away otherwise. We have to reshape the way that food is wasted around the world. Currently nearly 30% of food that is produced goes to waste. That's INSANE
When the brother said “Sorry for interrupting you Laren (?)” oh my god great parenting and such a sweet boy!
So you have a bunch of people under the same roof, sharing all the bills? Yeah, you have roommates. Not a new thing.
this may be a bit different. .. aka sharing income
It is like being married to whole bunch of people you done know, minus the sex. Your financial decisions are not your own.
Paris Roam basically Socialism in a small scale. Like Jim Jones. You know, totally works in our brains if we just use our imaginaaation lmao
This could work for them, be I doubt socialism could work on any larger scale.
@Michael Bravo That's what socialist countries end up looking like...lol
Couldn't help but see sadness on the little girls face as her mom openly bad mouthed her father for the camera. Nice one Mom. I bet she has always had a hard time being happy. This will test her yet again and likely, the kids will pay for her unhappiness.
I don't understand the defensive reaction in the comments. If you don't want to live like this you don't have to, that's kind of the point. Why do you need to prove so badly that the way other people live their lives is wrong?
Because they are lecturing us about how decadent we are for living in a capitalistic society. We should join the wave of the future which is Marxism. Their arguments are tendentious and sophomoric; yet they look down on and are dismissive of main stream culture. The motto for the Federation of Egalitarian Communities is, "We're better than you ... we're MARXIST." These people are hated because they have the same message as ANTIFA: We're right and you're wrong. And anyone with a few brain cells still firing can figure out that they are not the wave of the future; that they represent a step back into tribalism and that can't possibly be a positive model for the planet in the 21st century.
Just as an example, what do you think happens in an FEC community when someone wants to have a child and start a family -- a pretty ordinary thing for people in the outside world. In community it can become a BIG DEAL for obvious reasons. The community may well tell you to get on the child waiting list and wait until a spot opens up. Things that are straight forward in ordinary life are made unnecessarily complex in community.
Wade Rivers oh shut the hell up
Fabio... just what I would expect from a snowflake liberal. No discussion. Just shut up: the mantra of Antifa. If you don't agree with us, you have to be silenced. No dissent can be permitted in our Trotsky paradise. You know what happened to Trotsky; he was assassinated by Stalin. His world Marxist revolution never happened because you lefties always produce a bloodbath eventually when you gain power. It always leads to Mao's Cultural Revolution and Pol Pot's Killing Fields -- millions of dead bodies, sacrifices for leftist idealism. You don't really care about people ... what you really care about is your leftist fantasies. If blood has to be shed, it's always for a good cause ... right? Marxism has been an absolute and total disaster for the world; yet you lefties persist in promoting this moribund ideology -- no matter what the reality is.
Pat Downs how fucking pedantic can you get dude. Do u realize how bloody capitalism has been in retaining its ideals. You’ve never heard of the haymarket riots? Or, y’know, the genocide of native ppls to have them integrate into capitalism. You’re telling me the Vietnam war was completely justified for the US to join in? Ur a joke who has a couple 10 cent words up his sleeve to throw around during an argument in some shallow attempt to drown his opponents in vocabulary when ur just spewing the same shit every capitalist does. Lemme guess, the black book is ur main source for ur arguments?
Red Walker Its the clutter it drives people nuts.
"Setting aside money to put into individual accounts for each person." So the lawyer and the teacher are supporting 3 basically jobless men and ALSO giving them cash that they will never get back.
No different than a husband and a stay at home mom. They do most of the financial work and the others likely do the house work. Both are equally important
@@craiga4215 They're not married, they're roommates. And by the looks of that unkempt house those 3 men are not doing housework nor taking good care of the other people's children.
you mean a handyman, a small business owner, a teacher and a single unemployed man
No there pooling together their resorces and as this commune grows so will the money and their opportunities. For example that person ur counting out as just the cook or whatever might be able to invent something or start some sort of buisness now or maybe the other will and they will all help and all share in the profits it's essentially a giant happy family
The lawyer's problems stem from her previously having kids with an inflexible jerk. It wasn't a living problem.
Yeah it almost seems like she is also paying for a father figure
She doesn’t seemed to be wrapped too tight
I found an update on a blog- it seems the lawyer left after she and her bf broke up?:
"The danger of relying on the income of one or two members is further illustrated by the slow demise of Compersia which began falling apart when the member who had a large income that basically supported the community left. This was also caused by a romantic breakup between two members-a different danger when relationships are what stabilize a community."
As long as you don’t force me to join then have at it. Make all the communes you want, but don’t legislate it.
You should do an update video. I would love to know if the commune was still working.
Miss_Ellie
Update: last week, they all got sick from eating recalled romaine lettuce they found in the dumpsters. 🙃
Update: kids homeless now because Mom funded these freeloaders useless lives by diverting all her money into individual savings accounts for them instead of paying for her kid's college/training programs so they can actually support themselves.
I think I can guess. Because collectivism NEVER WORKS.
Bet it's long gone
Kathy Florcruz yeah that’s why we never lived in them ever in any time in human history OH WAIT
I'm a messy person. But that disgusting mess shown in every room was way beyond anything I could tolerate. That was impossible. Just gross.
Barbara Vick It wasn’t gross. There was just a lot of stuff everywhere. They probably don’t have enough room in the house for everyone’s stuff.
Mom earns 85k a year, kids eat out of a trash can, including tainted food that "only" killed a couple of people. Sounds liberating.
Fax
They seem safe and happy. Nothing wrong with food that's safe when cooked properly. Any undercooked food can have nasty germs. We throw out so much food because people can get careless but if you know you need to be cautious it's good free food.
And in general this is a much better environment for kids. Do you think they were lying about the kids loving it there?
I have spent 22 years of my life living with my parents, grandma and younger brother and sister. When I finish college I intend to move out but these people want to live with even more people. I would honestly go insane if I lived the way they do.
Serbian Patriot Its not you're life .lol
One by One True their life their choice but it just shocked me that people willing choose to live like this. The bathroom line must be a mile long there lol.
personally living with people you choose to live with is different. Living with my friends was way more fun than with my family
i would only work if the houses were separted. if they are in one building then there will be conflict for sure.
I glad she point out personality conflict in a commune since we are all so diverse as human. Also, I noticed that one of the room they shared, personal space was also considered as important.
That lady could probably do better for 85k/year.
Adam I don’t know she seemed crazier than a shithouse rat.
Not in D.C. she couldn't.
She’s probably paying off Student loans
I lived in a foreclosed on house in key west with 12 hippies, it was 2009 so the bank would take years to catch up on foreclosures and throw us out. The electric bill still had to be paid on time. Strangely half my housemates would disappear for a week or so whenever it was time to toss a few bucks in for the electric bill. Funny thing.
Damn she talking crap about her daughter’s father as her daughter sits on her lap. That must make everyone feel great
Couldn’t they have cleaned the house knowing that the film crew was on the way?
lol
they probably did
Is it just me or do all these people seem a bit off?
Who are you to say what's normal? Shut up
@@CriticalSurvival0 somebody is a bit touchy. deeply insecure about your lifestyle?
@@powpowouchy5 what’s normal tho???
If I’m going to form my own community, the absolute last thing I’m doing is increasing the hours of the work week.
I really appreciate the editing of this, it wasn’t sugarcoated, there were awkward moments left in and that’s life isn’t it? lots of awkward moments. Lol. Power to them though, hope they get what they want out of it, it’s a beautiful idea. Personally I don’t think I could go that far I’m more of a cohousing person. We have been thinking about a way to do that in our (hopefully) early-ish retirement years. Fend off the Existential dread with community and hopefully have a little bit leftover for travel.
wendytube007, a group of people who all know one another built eight townhouses on my block. Five are young married couples with children and three townhouses have several single people. One townhouse has a communal room with a television and they share one meal together per week. They are the sweetest people I have ever known in my life. They all take in extra people, including some foster children. I'm a youngish senior and I get to stay in my own home and hang out down there all I want. It's perfect. Hope you find what you need.
Say what you want but those are the MOST polite children I’ve ever seen!
This man said..... I would prefer not to have to ask you to do that.
Then his mom is heard saying “ oh yeah the kids love it “. My thoughts"? Have you actually asked them or did you just assume?
That household is gunna blow up, no doubt. The chick who is making 85k a year is keeping them afloat and for some reason she is still there. The idea of people living in the same house to split the rent makes sense but even still that’ll last for like 5 years until everyone gets tired of each other. Socialism is like thinking of an ideal perfect condition with no conflict, but humans are greedy and we are all different but for some reason people still think that it’ll work no matter how many times we tell them it won’t.
The attorney seems to contribute most and i bet she also does all of their dishes and laundry
I lived in a commune in college. The biggest problem is when you have that one crazy person in the house ruining everything. That was a big deal.
Other than that, I wished I had lived in a commune my whole college experience. It was much cheaper in terms of pretty much everything like rent, utilities, and groceries.
The food was much more varied, healthier, and delicious. No ramen noodles for us. We did most of our cooking, cleaning, and some of the maintenance and groceries. I did the house cooking two days per week. It was a great experience.
lived in a co-op and it is exactly like this. dirty, cluttered, tense, socially messy and self-isolating.
do not do this. plz
Hello where you had this negative experiences? BTW. they really have to less space for themselves.
Awe, when the kid apologized for interrupting, I died..
The way everyone interacts with each other and with the kids and how the kids interact is so lovely
Agree, I would love to have other people nearby. I live alone and it's okay most of the time, but having a good friend to drink tea with, and some children to love... that would be awesome.
Yeah until they argue about something because they can't come to a full consensus on how to spend the money. Instead of just having normal roommates who pay an equal share and clean the space that they use. Of course the video wouldn't show them NOT getting alone or disagreeing because this is a clearly a showcase. If they wanna do it, fine. But the inherent flaws in this sort of lifestyle to me greatly outweigh any possible benefit.
@@r.c.whitaker296 beautifully articulated!
“There was listeria in the rice, 2 people actually died. So we went out and got it from the dumpsters!”
This doesn’t seem to be a safe environment for kids. Do they do background checks on the residents?
4:44 I'm about to fall out when the boy says sorry for interrupting you with the stern face, wow
“Food reclamation and rescue” - dumpster diving. 😂
So this way of life is so great that they literally dumpster dive to put food on the table these people need to step back before they drink too much of the kool-aid
Is this how you want to live?
I'd rather die.
This looks awful. Freeloader heaven though.
ya its an atraction for the lazy
stop judging this lady. she choose to help others and live like this. let her be. stop hating on someone u dont know or dont understand
Id live in a commune with Jenny too if she was making that much & wasnt allowed to complain if she realised she funded us all for staying home making pseudo intellectual videos
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Glad I'm not the only one who caught that. She makes 85k a year as an attorney, her bf (who has a market value of 60 an hour) decides to stay home and cook, a male roommate who made 27k a year decides to quit and do odd jobs, and I'm still confused at what the other woman does for a living. Her income alone can sustain the two kids and the boyfriend, but the other two? I'm confised about their levels of contribution for folks who got the roof off their heads paid off. If she enjoys "unpaid labor" so much, her bf can stay at home and watch the kids. It only takes ONE person some elbow grease and patience to maintain a household.
That little boy, he realized he interrupted the little girl, and he apologized . *MIND BLOWN*
Pros: Great environment for growing bacteria
Cons: Everything else
your comment killed me,then revived me then killed me again,awesomesauce
"Cooking dinner for everyone is worthless" What the hell are restaurants then? Takeout? Pizza delivery? These all have very clear market values. And if you want to get paid specifically to make a "home cooked" meal, that's called being a maid or servant. It's a legitimate job that has a real market value.
Yep so treu but that Steve wants to freeload on his gf this is why he use this excuse
This is not that different from just living in a family household, you are just creating it with a roommate and community situation. I think some people don’t want to live alone and really want that support system, so this could be a great alternative.
4 hippies and 3 children share a house and you guys are surprised it's messy? The kind of people that can keep their spaces tidy aren't the kind of people that settle for communes
This is just normal in the Philippines. Everyone lives together. Relatives take care of your kids. Relatives also depend on your income. But they give back by doing your chores. Introvert hell.
Well duh!
Kr time to move back to heaven!
Seriously, I, amd my children can do our own damn dishes/laundry/cooking etc... *Housework is not hard*
I prefer capitalism personally but I love what they are doing here because it’s by consent and they seem happy. I wish them the best of luck.
I like that they set up a system where there are multiple ways to contribute (working, labor, organization, etc). I personally wouldn't be comfortable with it but whatever works.
I don't understand why they're pooling money together for everyone but putting aside money in a savings account for the individual. Why wouldn't the savings account be communal like the checking account?
If it works out for them. Then good.
*A small productive community* can go further together. That's how companies and organizations work.
She makes 86,000 as an attorney living in D.C...She can move to the immediate suburbs and find affordable housing.
I love how the side recoment on this turns into. "How well meaning intellgent people end up in a cult"
Miss O.P. 😂
So what happens if someone else decides "Hey, I'll quit my job and let the others take care of me"?
Basically it happend already with bald freelancers guy and Steve who is a handyman in the house for 60$ per hour who is also cooking meals to feel important. Basically the the lawyer says I'm going the rest has to get a real job again or they are all screwed
Guess who works the most in that commune, and who eats the most.
😂😂😂
Of the 50 hours they work each week -- are they all valued equally? Is the 1 hour one person spends leisurely cleaning equal to the 1 hour that the lawyer works to generate $80/hr? Cooking for everyone isn't worthless but it isn't equal to a high-paying job either.
As an introvert I could never do this... it’s not even the clutter, just the lack of personal space freaks me out 😩
I live with three people. We have our own money and do what we want with it and we don't pool it. However, we do help each other out when/if the need arises. We will share our food if one of us comes short with a pay cheque, loan each other money and just help in every regard right down to cooking meals. And we still have our own lives, our own things and our own rooms. I guess it's kind of like communal living except we don't toss our resources into one pot. We just help each other when it's needed.
I respect the sentiment but I just had a panic attack watching this
Why?
Grow a pair lmfao
Why?
Funny how people working as individuals can somehow live comfortably, but in communes a group of people live in shared rooms and filth. Shame
Portlandia used to be funnier before they got rid of Fred and Carrie.
It doesn't make sense for the woman who makes 80K a year to live in an income sharing commune with people that make far less than her. She is supporting them.
why don't they have a garden?
They actually do have a small garden, you could see in their yard, but also he said a few times that place is temporary, as they grow.
mikael macmurray I thought the same thing. I would have thought they would put a lot of effort into growing their own veggies. I expected to see pretty much the whole yard turned over for cultivation. Well, I guess when you can get a box of expired bagged salads out of the dumpster, there is no need to put forth the effort into an organic garden.
Yeah alot of people complaining about how it's a dump and stuff, but this project just started they said so ofcourse they aren't gonna have a mansion with plenty of space for everyone. Everything always starts out small and it takes a huge amount of time to actually get this going where they want it to be. They talk in form of a vision, not what it is now.
This is what happens to Ideologues who can no longer afford to live in the city and are basically looking to freeload off someone else in order to maintain their failed plans in life.
Con: A bunch of legitimate, solid arguments against communism, communes and a bunch of history to show why it almost always fails.
Pro: I'm not going to knock them for being in the minority of people who support this general set of ideologies who actually go out and do it and give it a solid shot. Props to them for balancing their finances and pursuing what they want to do in life. I really hope it works well for them.
That one chick eating her way through the interview has never shared a meal and probably eat her last two communes .
These people's thought process is equal to someone passing gas!
I'm not saying you can't make money freelancing, I'm just saying that you're probably not making much if you aren't even bothering to keep track of how much you make.
I’d love to do this on a farm where there’s multiple clean houses and a good environment that’s pretty self sustainable and equal between everyone
I absolutely loved communal living. I lived on The Farm Commune from age 15 - 20 and in 1979 we all moved to Austin Texas, which was a meca of some really great folks with a consciousness very much like our Commune. At The Farm, we had 1500 acres with up to 1700 people, we lived in households of up to 45 per house with 21 children in that number. We were vegan, no leather, living with free medical, I was taught " Spiritual Midwifery" , we smoked only herb and any natural Psychadelics and smoking herb was considered Communion, many ideas, philosophies, and ideas to help mankind, we lived in buses and other large structures, we were fully self sustainable, married folks had their own rooms, single ladies and men shared rooms with others of the same gender, everyone shared duties at home and worked jobs on the Farm or Construction workers worked off the Farm and brought money back and gave it to the Commune. We never paid for anything . However, we had to work to keep our village alive . The main Farm was in Summer town called,Tenn. With multiple satillite Farms from California, Canada, Guatemala, Florida, DC Austin,zero Wisconsin and the Bronx and more. We had Spiritual Teacher named Stephen Gaskin ,He was not a Leader, He encouraged everyone of us to be teachers too. How did it work, we had Agreements. I believe the most Important agreement was to tell someone immediately if they made you angry, hurt, upset , and to " work it out before any " sub conscious" / resentment festered. It wasn't always easy when on the receiving end however no one ever got mad. Wood stove heat, Live Music all weekend, I have been trying to get another situation started with Community. We need each other and one day even the young will get old. Honor your neighbor, feed each other, always have help when needed, Respect the Sacrament of the Family unit and raise creative children. Multiple books were published about how we all got started . One of my favorites is "This Seasons People". Great video!
Avalon Mist :) Sounds beautiful!
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So essentially what these people have done is created a family. A traditional family is a small-ish group of people who share resources for the benifit of everyone. In my opinion the US needs to get back to family values even if that means living with extended family and friends in order to take care of each other
I like this idea but I always go back to the concept of social loafing. If group efforts are pooled, people are less likely to work as hard as they would individually. I think tension would also start to build if you have people making less than 20k per year with people that are making more than 80k per year. Maybe a commune of people who make the same amount of money, whose needs are about the same, would work a lot better.
not sure if someone who would get mad about sharing their 80k income would be the type of person to sign up to voluntarily share it.
They knew the cameras were coming. Couldn't they at least make the beds? I think the idea of a commune is really cool, but if I started a commune, keeping things tidy and clean would be part of the rules.
Nope couldn’t do it. Grew up homeschooled in a household of 7.
I couldn’t live in a commune like this. I prefer a village where there’s more space.
But hey, it saves money so yay for them?
Marriage is communal living between two people. Even that always has money issues regarding what to spend the money on. It would be impossible in a group.
Not for me but it’s always interesting watching these videos and seeing some of the things people are coming up with to meet their needs
"Me and Steve becoming romantic could jeopardize the commune...but I'm selfish so I don't care"
She's definitely not selfish when she gives her $85'000 pay check to them guys
So? Then they can leave. When they leave they will have their savings accounts. (Would she be taking the handyman or the freelancer?)
Love the idea. First heard it from 4 sisters who has over a million dollars in student loans combined. They all lived together and paid that money in less than 10 years even with the younger one only making 28k they paid hers in full.
None of those sisters got married and moved out in 10 years?
Tamara Laird But they were sisters, so they are family! These people are essentially all strangers coming together. No way can you know their true intentions.
I actually love the idea. My only "issue " with this community would be not having my own space. I'm the sort of person who needs at least a few square meters to be on it's own. Right now I share an appartment with other people and I'm really happy with it. It takes a lot of stress from me. But most people can't understand that.
interesting. Why should they give *everything* to the commune? Why can't there just be predetermined ways that everyone cooperates, including money, but not EVERYTHING....
Because the lawyers boyfriend and that bald freelancer like to freeload
I’d like to see a commune where all the members are just like FUCKING RICH but they recognize that they could raise their kids better and have healthier interpersonal relationships by sharing a space together. Now _that_ would be something new.
Dumpster divinnngggg???? That lady makes $85K and gives up her earnings to eat literal garbage and support a freelance dude, a stay at home husband and more randos? Best Capitalism commercial ever😂😂😂
Wow. Just the fact that her brother apologized for interrupting her says so much about their parents. How respectful 👏🏾👏🏾
I applaud these individuals for pursuing a way of living that is moving from what has been "the way" for the last few decades. I think a common consensus is that it is difficult to remove oneself fully from the system, and to find the desired abundance, peace, and harmony. They are definitely onto something; it'll become clearer on what really works and what can be improved upon.
A way I see that the communal way of living can really thrive is when each person is willing to fully open up to one another and look beyond ones own needs.. Yet ironically as one does this everybody benefits! It then becomes absolutely essential to find ways to cope with conflict as it arises, and to see it not as an attack upon oneself but instead to listen to what the person is really saying underneath it all and to be willing to ask how the person REALLY is feeling. Sometimes it's not just about the dishes left unwashed or the children playing too loud..
On another note the concept of shared income is intriguing especially when there may be a great disparity between how much each individual contributes.. I think that as long as each person contributes in bringing what is needed to the community it's not perfect but this helps to balance things out. For instance if ones income is unsteady one can still work on house chores or gardening..
On a personal front I do wonder if there's a community where I would fit in.. I'm really into gardening, I like to keep things neat(er) and organized, and I like to sing/dance 😁
Basically an overcrowded house ;-;
What handyman earns $60 a hour? If someone offers me $60 a hour to be a handyman I'd quit my current job in a heartbeat.
these can help lonely people and instill a sense of worth and value in individuals
Yeah. Charity is a temporary thing because eventually it becomes DEMANDED.
They're happy, they're not hurting themselves or anyone else, and they are making their contribution to society. Good for them