@@DjediVibrations I know I always think that because someone is successful that they “beat” mental health issues, but that’s not true at all. And mental health issues will come back even after you think you’ve overcome them.
@@DjediVibrations Was it really a cry for help though? I don't have the full context of the conversation, but I would say that sort of thing without intending to get help from someone. If anything a lot of depressed people tend to want to conceal as to not bother others.
being alone during pandemic, being laughed at for looks, alcohol addiction, depression due to chemical inbalance and loss of mother. Too much to handle. RIP Trevor, you will be missed
The world can be beyond cruel. And humans nowadays are each day worse than ever; which is exactly why I don’t have the slightest patience to deal w/ people these days.
@@JR-90 What's even worse is that 10.000 ppl might write "kickass album, great work" but when you get used it then only comments you see (even if there are like 10 ppl writing this) is "gtfo, it sucks, YOU suck, gky". So it's not only cruelty of people it's as well optics in our minds
45 minutes in Trevor mentions again what a dark place hes been in lately, and with all the chaos in the world today, he said he didn't see a happy ending anymore. He was truly speaking out and the interview went on. He was truly hurting, somewhere deep and dark inside. He was an incredible human, what an absolute legendary man. F**k man. 💔😭
So true man… I immediately thought of this podcast again after yesterday. Fucking heartbreaking. For everybody, his family, his friends, and his fans. TBDM fans have his lyrics in their DNA.
I'm absolutely heartbroken right now, I've been listening to Black Dahlia since the day Unhallowed was released and they have been one of my all time favorite bands for nearly 20 years. Trevor was such a incredibly talented and unique vocalist and his vocals and presence truly made the band and gave them their signature sound. He was absolutely one of the all time great metal vocalists and there is simply no replacing that man. He has given so much to metal and he was one of the most good hearted and awesomely fun front men of all time. I think I speak for all Black Dahlia fans when I say we are absolutely devastated by this news and we fucking Love you Trevor from the bottom of our hearts. Rest in Peace buddy 🤘😔💔
Was in a drive thru and checked Facebook on my lunch break when I saw the news. I've been listening to them forever and wasn't expecting this to hurt so much considering I didn't know the guy outside of his music and shows but christ I feel like I lost a close friend. Devastating loss to the metal community.
Same 😞 I saw a commercial for their debut album on during headbangers ball on MTV and was like….wtf this is so different. It came out shortly after so I got it and was an instant fan from then on out. Been my fav band since that day. My wife just got me a Cameo from him for my bday about 45 days ago, it was super inspiring and uplifting because I’ve been going through some stuff. Even tho he clearly was as well he still gave me some very heartfelt words. I’ll keep it saved on my phone forever. Also happy I got a ton of signed albums/records from them over the years since nocturnal. This is a rough pill to swallow, I’m 33 so they’ve been in my life a majority of it and got me through 4 deployments
To think Unhallowed was released 19 years ago. I'm glad I got to see them tour, Jester's Pub in Fayetteville, Nc. Best venue that got the greatest of bands. RIP, thank you for the great memories.
How could you not....dude has created this amazing band with one of his best friends to play music that he and many, many, many others have grown to love and cherish it as their own, all while being one of the most humble, down-to-earth, real guys in the scene today. And he'd like all of us, dealing with so much shit that it makes it almost too hard for us to go on, but he does it....admirable on any level.
First time seeing TBDM Trevor pulled me up on stage and told me to stage dive and it was my first time ever doing it. The show was amazing and I remember that moment like it happened yesterday. R.I.P. Trevor
Dude your little story about Trevor pulling you onstage and telling you to dive made me smile so much. That was Trevor.. what a fucking guy. The ultimate fan until the end. May he rest in peace.
I was at the front during one concert here in Chile, sweating, headbanging and screaming like a madman. He grabbed my hand and put his hand in a horn like firm upon my head. It was such a little gesture but to me was so awesome. I'm so sad right now.
@@higler. im glad i wasn’t the only one who smiled too. It’s strange how we don’t know him personally but through his rep and DVDS and what people thought of him, it felt like he was family in a weird way. Its like “Thats so Trevor”
@@warriorguitar1 Yes, exactly! So many stories of Trevor just being genuinely the nicest and coolest dude. Even writing this I'm having very conflicted emotions as his passing is very sad but anytime I think of him I end up smiling.
You're all wondering so here it is: 44:48 is where he talks about his struggles with mental health, medication, feelings of hopelessness. Pay attention to how candid he is with Frank about this. Friends should be able to talk about it like these guys do. I lost my best friend to suicide when I was 32. Talk to your friends. Be open. Don't judge, don't make promises. Just listen to them. RIP Trevor.
I appreciate the time stamp dude. I really didn't feel like I had the mental capacity to sit through the entire video. It's weird for me that I've never met Trevor or even have any of the bands merch but I've been listening to their music since my teens. I'll be 32 in October and yeah I don't know dude but Trev's passing is hitting me weirdly hard I've had and continue to have mental health struggles. Feeling at times utter worthlessness and all that jazz. I have a 5 year old daughter and I can't help but feel like I'm failing every step of the way. But I don't want to make this about me. I dunno I'm drinking and I'm hurting at the thought that I'll never to fucking hear that ferocious voice again on both old and new music. I'd personally love to see a tribute concert in the same vein as what they did for Mitch Lucker.
that last 10 minutes is heavy, too heavy. I need to do something for my own mental health. I've struggled a long time, Trevor's been affecting me a lot more than I expected it to. I feel like I'm only a tragedy or two away sometimes.
It breaks my heart hearing Trevor talk about how much he wanted to breakout and knew he had to. He fought. It's unfair that life is like this for us. I hope he is at peace now.
It is unfair and unfortunate but that is life. You either try your best to embrace it or you won't. There is nothing else. You have to focus on the things that matter. You can't concern yourself and engulf yourself in what others think of you or what you perceive them to think about you. After listening to him talk, it sounds as though he was dreading people seeing him in a different light. He felt he had to keep up with appearances or what he thought people would want to see. You can't do that. It doesnt work that way. Yeah he fought. And I understand it. He is anything but a coward. He was a great guy and a champion for the disenfranchised. He's going to be sorely missed. I think If anyone has these feelings they're fighting, instead of being quiet about it, one should talk and speak up. I know how hard that can be but it beats the alternative. Rip TS
@@PabloHunE sometimes thought exercises don't work as well, and I think depression affects brain plasticity, it's not as helpful and growth is in baby steps. Trevor was in therapy and even trying new methods as he mentioned, ketamine treatment. Mind over matter is a juvenile way to look at depression. I think the thought you're conveying is nice, but your level of misunderstanding depression is very evident.
The Black Dahlia Murder was the only band I couldn't wait to pop open the booklet and read the lyrics. I wish Trevor could know just how loved and how deeply missed he will be. RIP to an absolute legend.
He was possibly the best lyricist in metal of the 2000s . He told such dark stories with such poetic grace . It makes me almost want to distance myself from then negativity of metal , I wonder when it stops being catharsis and starts becoming dwelling on then negativity of life . I don’t know I’m just trying to piece this together , how could it have been prevented or helped . I’m really hurt over this. Stay strong brother
I lost my mom a few months ago, I work alone, I live alone, I'm battling with alcohol addiction, and Trevor is one of the main reasons I haven't taken my own life. Thank you, brother.
Damn does the last 15 minutes, now that Trevor has passed away, that part of the conversation is chilling and sad af. But at the same time, absolutely necessary, especially in these dark times. Very touching. Thank you for absolutely everything you've done for the metal scene, giving a shit about the scene AND praising the underground smaller bands, being a genuine, funny, kind, smart, human, down to earth soul. I never met Trevor but All of the people that I know that met him had nothing but nice things to say about him. On top of being a absolute beast of a frontman. His music AND his Obituarist columns were gateways to new bands for me. His contributions to the metal scene for two decades is absolutely golden and he'll never be forgotten, in fact, he'll go down in history. Also, like I mentionned that last 15 minutes is absolutely human, heart-warming, necessary and most importantly, fucking valid. As someone who's ridled with mental health issues, I can absolutely do nothing but relate. Be nice to each other, be there for your friend who's feeling down and is tired of fighting their demons. Rest in power, king. Trevor might have lost his battles against his demons but damn will he never be forgotten! My deepest condoleances to the friends, family and the TBDM clan.
I remember seeing you guys in Fresno CA a few years back and hiding in the back outside the building because security wouldn’t let people get autographs. I saw you outside and walked up nonchalantly and asked for an autograph . You laughed and said “yes man of course” I had nothing for you to sign so I gave you my ticket. I have that ticket in a frame . It makes me very sad you died. Black dahlia is and always will be my fav band . RIP Trevor
What an awesome memory, that ticket is now a highly cherished possession for you I bet. He was such an awesome dude. Never turned down an autograph or photo, or bong rip or beer haha. Man he will be sorely missed
I just today(23 June) learned that this lovely bloke had left us. Im 70 years of age and have lived a Great life, and that is partly because of bands like BDM putting a smile on my face and a spring in my step. Now the World is a little darker and a proposed trip to Bloodstock here in the UK will not happen because of this tragedy. BDM and Cattle Decapitation were the main reason i was going. Im at a loss as to why this has happened. Trevor had a great future but who knows what goes on in the mind if a person with so much talent on and off the stage. Bless you Trevor. Thankyou for making life a little brighter during your short reign.
Knowing about his death and listening to his issues with mental health is pretty devastating. I was a huge fan of the band back in mids 2000. This is too sad. R.I.P Trevor Strnad. You art will be remembered
I work as a nurse with patients who deal with a lot of suicidal thoughts and extreme depression. I'm so crushed about hearing the passing of Trevor. No death has touched me like his did. I really hope he found his peace he deserved.
Seeing this makes me so sad. My best friend was Frank Watkins from the band Obituary. Frank first told me about TBDM and gave me a demo. This is going back early 2000's. I've been watching different interviews with Trevor since he passed and didn't know he was such a big Obituary fan. Frank passed away from cancer in 2015. I miss him everyday. My prayers and thoughts go out to Trevor's family and friends. REST IN POWER !
53:18 "maybe you want to scroll that suicide hotline" 😭 fuck, I miss Trevor so much. I only met him once and it was enough to know he was such a good and genuine person.... he is missed so much
13 years ago Trevor and the black dahlia came to Thailand and when the songs "What a horrible night to have a curse" came up i sang along and Trevor handed me microphone so i can Scream the word "HATE" OUT LOUD you will always be in my heart and memories Trevor 🖤🤘🏻🔥🙏🏻
Dude big ups to Trevor for being so vulnerable man. It’s rare to hear someone be so open in interview after interview. BDM and death metal as a whole has given me a lot throughout my life. Trevor is the fucking man and I will personally fight anyone who calls him fat lol
this man is an absolute goddamn legend. i saw them live 5-6 times. "Blackest Incarnation" is one of my favorite metal songs ever and i have be careful not to destroy my whole house while listening to it. rest in peace and love, Trevor. we love you and we are still here for you.
I wish so badly I wasn't cooped up in my room for the last like 6 years. I should have gone out to show my love for this guy, for all of TBDM. Such a huge part of my life, why I picked up the guitar again. The songs are etched into my brain, the lyrics into my mind. I hope one day I get to meet Brian. You're gone but not forgotten!
😔I can't believe he's gone, and so young. Outstanding lyrics, otherworldly vocals, and a great personality. He loved metal as much as his fans and it made you appreciate the band that much more. 😭Thank you for everything Trevor, Rest Well in that Everblack🙏🏿
It hits hard when he says the sun is shining and it’s beautiful out and I don’t care. Pretty good depiction of depression and how it manifests inside your head. RIP Trevor, you were a Metal God as well as an Awesome person.
Man I still can't believe he's gone. He always seemed like a happy dude and I never would have guessed he suffered from depression. Just goes to show you never know what people are going through. It sucks knowing I'll never be able to see him live again. One of the first bands to get me into the heavier side of metal.
I really appreciate him getting real about drinking, depression, and also bringing up how metal embraces its elders. I hope he knows that he is loved by the metal community and that he should take the time he needs to be well. As someone who has struggled for a long time with severe anxiety, ptsd and depression, I can say that it can continue to get better, even without meds, Trevor.
this interview hurts but at the same time is what is needed to hear right now. It's so painfully honest and we all need to try to be like this with each other. Rest in power Trevor
Wow, really great to hear Trevor so open about his struggles. I've always felt a connection with TBDM and Trevor specifically, but what he is articulating here is so similar to what I'm feeling and going through, too, and it helps to know I'm not the only one. I don't know if Trevor will ever see this, but I love and appreciate you and I hope that you find peace in all of this because you bring a lot of joy and meaning to the world. I know it's hard not to allow the negativity of the people out there to creep in and fuck with your sense of self worth, but I hope that you know that those negative things pale in comparison to how much admiration and appreciation people have for you.
I'm only 15 but I remember seeing this last year and being really exited for the tour even though I couldn't make it to a show. After hearing about his passing this interview just hits different. Rest easy Trevor
The metal community is appreciative of you, and glad you here for the jams. Glad to see a some strength in the new generation. I remember being 15 and listening to TBDM.
This hits sooo much harder now. Thankyou for everything Trevor. You made me feel less alone as a kid. Your impact on me will last forever ♾ Rest In Peace , you will be deeply missed by soo many people! This hurts. Check on your people guys 🫶🏾
dude, I'm devastated. thank you so much for helping me through the dark times with your art. BDM was always a constant listen for me, even with my tastes changing you were always there. I'm so sad and sorry that you could not take anymore of this fucked up world. Hope you have found your peace now.
I’ve jumped down a rabbit hole of interviews with Trevor over the last couple days and come away from all of them thinking, “I just don’t see it. Why? How? I don’t understand.” Then the 45 minute mark of this interview came along, and suddenly, it all made sense. Goddamn, I wish he could have found his peace of mind. I’ll miss the hell out of him
Damn i just found out he passed. I don’t listen to any new metal artists but old black dahlia murder will forever be on the workout playlist. RIP buddy
I can’t believe one of the last things that’s said here is talking about the suicide hotline. What a fucking dark time - much love to everyone that knew and loved Trevor - I only met him twice and raged, but I always felt very connected and this is such a painful day. I love you all, please stay up.
God why must this pop up now? I'm tearing up watching this interview. Trevor has been such an influence on me since the early 2000s,he left a hole in the metal scene that will never be filled. Rest in peace Trevor
Trevor is so genuine and always has something either hilarious or based as fuck to say. I always hear about artists that never listen to the genre of music they make. It's great to hear about someone who truly lives, breathes and dies by metal. A true pilar of the community. I can always count on bdm not to turn into a buttrock band.
I came to metal late in life, and even later to BDM. I just want to say that you will be missed, Trevor. I wish I had been along for the whole ride, but I have some great albums to explore, and your playlists have already turned me on to a lot of new music. Rest in peace.
As a fan, I appreciate the band making themselves so available. They answer questions, share my stories and all kinds of other stuff. One day, I will sell their merch.
This is a soul crushing retrospective. It's painful to watch and know that he was suffering like this. I'll be grateful for the sick memories and time I got to see TBDM and meet Trevor. Amazing memories and a fantastic person. RIP
I just bawled my fucking eyes out because it hit so close to home this is so personal and I know exactly how he felt with depression and anxiety. It’s a horrible disease I wish it on no one. You don’t even have to be a fan of this band. This interview will Emotionally move you if you suffer from mental Illness
This interview REALLY is a great eye opener to those who are a frontman/front woman, who struggle with being on tour and the pressure to have on their shoulders. Cheers to you BOTH!!!!
Man. I always viewed Trevor as this untouchable force of nature. It must’ve been tough to open up the way he did, and huge ups to Frank for creating a space for them to have this conversation. Melts my heart
This conversation was amazing. I appreciate the discussion about mental health and the current societal issues that we, as a nation (and world) were thrust into. I hope, that both of you gentlemen are successful in your quest for mental/emotional solace, or at least some semblance of normalcy, if you will. I can relate to a lot of these issues, myself. You guys are doing a great job. I appreciate you both. Stay safe. Peace and respect. 🤘🏼
Rip brother. You will be missed. Ever since I heard of your passing I've been scouring youtube for interviews looking for signs anything that would point to a problem and in the first 40 seconds of this video there was the sign. He said it's really bad for him to sit around for so long with just his thoughts. Please people read the signs read the warnings....reach out and just say you care and your not alone.
Same here man. I just wish somebody could have helped him . But especially for men, you have to help yourself at the end of the day and sometimes the weight is too much to bear. I find myself moving away from the negativity of metal. I don’t know if it’s healthy to be in that world so often, I wonder where it stops being catharsis and release of negativity, and starts being dwelling on it. Hope your doing okay . We need to honor his legacy by bettering ourselves so we can help not only ourselves, but other brothers and sisters who are struggling
@@Max_Payn3 your absolutely right. Writing negative leaning music means you have you to be in a bad mindset. All the blood gore and violence effects you rather you admit it or not. Puts you in a bad mindset.
@@nolaningersoll4129 I normally would disagree and I think from an artistic standpoint that’s not always the case . A lot of people myself included feel that it’s a form of catharsis to release said negativity . But now that I’m older I tend to stray towards the other opinion . It’s a complex sort of thing I guess , I do think there needs to be a place for that stuff. There’s violent movies, video games, books , every other form of media , so I don’t see why there can’t be a place for it in music. That being said is metal heads tend to be strictly metal and no other types of music, that’s where it seems to be dwelling in that mindset. I listen to everything now a days and metal is maybe 1/4th of it. A lot of death metal guys seem to be very disconnected or desensitized from the violence that has become a trope in metal . I’m always drawn to bands like Hatebreed for their positive lyrics, or bands like meshuggah who deal more in the philosophical and abstract realm of lyrics. Even Chuck from the pioneering band Death was really good at the philosophical aspect which can be dark but it’s much more up to interpretation rather than the in your face violence that a lot of bands deal. But you don’t get too much of that in death metal , it’s kind of in the name haha
They were shat on by clown irrelevant death metal elitists who were furious their bands that have been around for decades didn’t hit the jackpot like BDM did
All the love to Frank to being real to Trevor before he passed. My heart feels good knowing Trevor knew he was speaking to a friend. Thank you Frank for being speaking openly about your challenges. Your honesty shows courage. My heart aches for Trevor. May his passing start conversations in all the dive bars and clubs we metal heads attend.
Really hard to take this in. Been in love with Trevor and The BDM since unhallowed. It's amazing how much a person can lift others up, while being unable to get that lift for themself. Thank you Trevor for giving us what you have. The Blackest Incarnation already was special to me, this interview was incredible for me. thank you Frank, I hope you're well.
Man, my brother did the same thing and watching this video reminds me of that really bad time. This was over a yr ago and me watching this for the 1st time, I hear the signs that I assume most people didn't realize. My condolences to his immediate family and close friends. It is hard to take a loss of someone when it's in this form. Whatever he was dealing with inside, it's a lot to take. Rest in peace my friend. We will miss u
My heart is broken by the news of loosing Trevor today. Wanted to see him in his best light after hearing of the news. The topics you guys talked about in this interview, today especially, crazy, dark, and saddening in hind-site. Watched this video before but after loosing Trevor today and re-listening to this is hard. He talks about the darkness and today he succumb to it…… R.I.P. Trevor lost but never forgotten……
We all struggle and arguably some of the greatest musicians and artists are tortured souls , which draws you the negative aspects of art and metal. I want to move away from it, I don’t know if it’s healthy to constantly listen to this negative music that has such an emotional impact, as much as I love Dahlia and other bands. We have to better ourselves so we can help ourselves, and our loved ones
This hit hard man ! What a loss ! I'll never fucking forget discovering TBDM when my cousin brought over miasma in 2006 man what a good album with many more after ! Hope the best for all of them .
Such a class act. Opened for BDM in Detroit 15 years ago. Miasma days. Every dude in that band had a contagious good energy. Just went to the Sowden house yesterday in Los Angeles. Blasting the fuck outta Miasma
RIP Trevor, I met you almost 20 years ago and I wish I could have told you it can get better. Life fucking sucks but you brought joy to countless people and you will be forever loved.
Hearing Trevor’s struggles here and all that has transpired…this really hurts. A lot. All the love for the Strnad family and TBDM boys, especially Brian ❤️
He seemed like an awesome, genuine, fun loving person. Really sad that he ended up the way he did. So much suicide in the world today, it makes you think something isn’t right with society where people feel like they need to end their own life.
Great to hear you guys talk openly about mental health instead of shying away the issue. Makes a big difference for people to be encouraged to be more open. I also need to better organise my bandcamp notifications!
Man I haven't cried over a musician like this in awhile. Always been one of my favorite metal bands. Looked up to Trevor. To a breathless oblivion. Fuck man. Rest easy
Goddamnit I miss you Trevor . You were such an inspiration in not only music, but life. When I try to do vocals, I wanna sound like Trevor . We all miss you terribly. Metal is not going to be the same . To anyone who is struggling right now or in the past who reads this. Please stay strong and soldier on , better yourself and stand up tall. We are where we are because strong men before stood tall in the face of unimaginable hardships. I know Trevor was struggling terribly but everyone thats ever interacted with this man had NOTHING but positive and great things to say about him. I don’t think any less of him for doing this but damnit I’m almost angry and severely hurt over this, but that’s just selfish we don’t know what he was going through. This has been a wake up call to me to not only get help, but try to help anyone I can who’s struggling.
I'm an old metalhead, that went thru depression and have some anxiety issues. I'm past that, but it's soooo hard. I see him talk, and think about my kids, that are a little younger than him. Ask for help!!! Don't let yourself fall, and be strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This last portion of the interview is so heartbreaking. It's honestly so hard to hear how he was feeling a year ago and to know where things are now. Get help people, and make sure the people who matter to you are okay too. Rest in piece, Forever King of the Nightworld. Metal just won't be the same without you.
The way he talks about his bandmates is breaking my heart all over again. Trevor, I fucking love you dude. I can only be glad that you can no longer feel pain.
he was so candidly open about the topic. Absolutely heartbroken to hear the news today: he was such an incredible musician and an awesome contributor to extreme metal as a whole. Been a long time fan of TBDM, rest in peace Trevor hope you find peace
This is such an incredibly sad moment in time. I'm thankful for this video, other media, and all of the work & music trevor and the black dahlia murder have put forth to eternalize their legacy. It makes his absense a little less of an abyss, but the reality is still darkness. Rip, Trevor.
That right there is the biggest problem with mental health. Someone's words don't become "relevant" until they do something that they can't come back from. It's sad.
He always came across as such a genuine guy. I don’t have many friends who are into metal and fewer still who are into BDM. My love of their music has always felt very personal because of this. And it’s also why the news of Trevor’s death was so gut wrenching. Such a huge loss and nobody to share it with. But when I read through these comments, and see that there are many others to whom he meant a lot, it’s comforting. Goodbye big man. And thank you for everything.
I saw this interview get posted when it did and kept putting it off, finally watching it, puts lots of stuff into perspective. I'm torn again for him, the band, his family and fans. Fortunately I've never experienced depression, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Please anyone that deals with depression or anxiety, do not bottle it up, reach out! Everyone has someone Don't be afraid or ashamed, you're not judged, we are all humans with imperfections. So much love and prayers to all!
The Black Dahlia recommended Dissection on their Facebook a number of years ago and my first listen blew me away. It helped me recognize the old school more fully and I will always have that appreciation. I assume it was Trevor who posted it.
Great interview guys really! Mental health is such a taboo subject especially in the metal scene with his macho side of thing. It needs to be talk about. Much respect for you guys! Edit: When I heard the news yesterday, I couldnt help and think about this interview... My heart ache knowing what he could have gone through... Rest in peace dear Trevor you'll be sorely missed!
"It's dangerous for me to have this much time to think"
That's fucking heartbreaking.
That was the cry for help sadly that went missed. How often we believe that successful people are bulletproof.
@@DjediVibrations I know I always think that because someone is successful that they “beat” mental health issues, but that’s not true at all. And mental health issues will come back even after you think you’ve overcome them.
@@DjediVibrations Was it really a cry for help though? I don't have the full context of the conversation, but I would say that sort of thing without intending to get help from someone. If anything a lot of depressed people tend to want to conceal as to not bother others.
@@KytexEdits this is a textbook cry for help so yes
@@DjediVibrations I guess I just don't have to emotional intelligence to see it.
"I want my 40s to be awesome." Absolutely gut wrenching. We will all miss you forever, man.
being alone during pandemic, being laughed at for looks, alcohol addiction, depression due to chemical inbalance and loss of mother. Too much to handle. RIP Trevor, you will be missed
The world can be beyond cruel. And humans nowadays are each day worse than ever; which is exactly why I don’t have the slightest patience to deal w/ people these days.
@@JR-90 What's even worse is that 10.000 ppl might write "kickass album, great work" but when you get used it then only comments you see (even if there are like 10 ppl writing this) is "gtfo, it sucks, YOU suck, gky". So it's not only cruelty of people it's as well optics in our minds
Damn he had all this going on? RIP, gone way too soon
STFU. Depression isn’t always because “I GoTS uh cheMIchaL ImBAlANce.”
But what really happen?!!
Fucking Christ man this interview hits a hell of a lot different now Rest easy Trevor we all love you❤️
So heartbroken man. Sucks real real bad.
It's devastating, he will be dearly missed, such an awesome person. Take care guys, we'll always keep him alive in spirit.
Definitely hits different..5 seconds in he laughs at being alone with his thoughts. Sad. BDM and Trevor forever ✌✌
45 minutes in Trevor mentions again what a dark place hes been in lately, and with all the chaos in the world today, he said he didn't see a happy ending anymore. He was truly speaking out and the interview went on. He was truly hurting, somewhere deep and dark inside. He was an incredible human, what an absolute legendary man. F**k man. 💔😭
So true man… I immediately thought of this podcast again after yesterday. Fucking heartbreaking. For everybody, his family, his friends, and his fans. TBDM fans have his lyrics in their DNA.
I'm absolutely heartbroken right now, I've been listening to Black Dahlia since the day Unhallowed was released and they have been one of my all time favorite bands for nearly 20 years. Trevor was such a incredibly talented and unique vocalist and his vocals and presence truly made the band and gave them their signature sound. He was absolutely one of the all time great metal vocalists and there is simply no replacing that man. He has given so much to metal and he was one of the most good hearted and awesomely fun front men of all time. I think I speak for all Black Dahlia fans when I say we are absolutely devastated by this news and we fucking Love you Trevor from the bottom of our hearts. Rest in Peace buddy 🤘😔💔
Was in a drive thru and checked Facebook on my lunch break when I saw the news. I've been listening to them forever and wasn't expecting this to hurt so much considering I didn't know the guy outside of his music and shows but christ I feel like I lost a close friend.
Devastating loss to the metal community.
Same 😞 I saw a commercial for their debut album on during headbangers ball on MTV and was like….wtf this is so different. It came out shortly after so I got it and was an instant fan from then on out. Been my fav band since that day. My wife just got me a Cameo from him for my bday about 45 days ago, it was super inspiring and uplifting because I’ve been going through some stuff. Even tho he clearly was as well he still gave me some very heartfelt words. I’ll keep it saved on my phone forever. Also happy I got a ton of signed albums/records from them over the years since nocturnal. This is a rough pill to swallow, I’m 33 so they’ve been in my life a majority of it and got me through 4 deployments
To think Unhallowed was released 19 years ago. I'm glad I got to see them tour, Jester's Pub in Fayetteville, Nc. Best venue that got the greatest of bands. RIP, thank you for the great memories.
much hugs my brother
Ive loved Trev and TBDM since the first album. I've had the best hugs fromTrev too. I dont understand why. Im soo sorry for him and his family
i don't try to idolize musicians because that's not a healthy mindset, but i have endless admiration for trevor. what an awesome dude.
How could you not....dude has created this amazing band with one of his best friends to play music that he and many, many, many others have grown to love and cherish it as their own, all while being one of the most humble, down-to-earth, real guys in the scene today. And he'd like all of us, dealing with so much shit that it makes it almost too hard for us to go on, but he does it....admirable on any level.
@@michaelsaliani9441 my first time hearing TBDM was misanthropy lol fan ever since
@@Death2TheCore great track to be pulled in by. Solid through and through!
rest in peace Trev
@@kristovj827 this feels unreal, what a nightmare 😰 rest in power to one of the greatest vocalists and genuine people to grace the earth.
First time seeing TBDM Trevor pulled me up on stage and told me to stage dive and it was my first time ever doing it. The show was amazing and I remember that moment like it happened yesterday.
R.I.P. Trevor
Dude your little story about Trevor pulling you onstage and telling you to dive made me smile so much. That was Trevor.. what a fucking guy. The ultimate fan until the end. May he rest in peace.
I was at the front during one concert here in Chile, sweating, headbanging and screaming like a madman. He grabbed my hand and put his hand in a horn like firm upon my head. It was such a little gesture but to me was so awesome. I'm so sad right now.
Crying
@@higler. im glad i wasn’t the only one who smiled too. It’s strange how we don’t know him personally but through his rep and DVDS and what people thought of him, it felt like he was family in a weird way. Its like “Thats so Trevor”
@@warriorguitar1 Yes, exactly! So many stories of Trevor just being genuinely the nicest and coolest dude. Even writing this I'm having very conflicted emotions as his passing is very sad but anytime I think of him I end up smiling.
You're all wondering so here it is: 44:48 is where he talks about his struggles with mental health, medication, feelings of hopelessness. Pay attention to how candid he is with Frank about this. Friends should be able to talk about it like these guys do. I lost my best friend to suicide when I was 32. Talk to your friends. Be open. Don't judge, don't make promises. Just listen to them. RIP Trevor.
I appreciate the time stamp dude. I really didn't feel like I had the mental capacity to sit through the entire video. It's weird for me that I've never met Trevor or even have any of the bands merch but I've been listening to their music since my teens. I'll be 32 in October and yeah I don't know dude but Trev's passing is hitting me weirdly hard I've had and continue to have mental health struggles. Feeling at times utter worthlessness and all that jazz. I have a 5 year old daughter and I can't help but feel like I'm failing every step of the way. But I don't want to make this about me. I dunno I'm drinking and I'm hurting at the thought that I'll never to fucking hear that ferocious voice again on both old and new music. I'd personally love to see a tribute concert in the same vein as what they did for Mitch Lucker.
@@STRIPESrtS Stop drinking. It helps. A lot.
What if you have no friends and family doesn't care?
that last 10 minutes is heavy, too heavy. I need to do something for my own mental health. I've struggled a long time, Trevor's been affecting me a lot more than I expected it to. I feel like I'm only a tragedy or two away sometimes.
Agreed Chris
It breaks my heart hearing Trevor talk about how much he wanted to breakout and knew he had to. He fought. It's unfair that life is like this for us. I hope he is at peace now.
We all gravitate to this music for similar or polar opposite reasons. Metal needs more respect...
It is unfair and unfortunate but that is life. You either try your best to embrace it or you won't. There is nothing else. You have to focus on the things that matter. You can't concern yourself and engulf yourself in what others think of you or what you perceive them to think about you. After listening to him talk, it sounds as though he was dreading people seeing him in a different light. He felt he had to keep up with appearances or what he thought people would want to see. You can't do that. It doesnt work that way. Yeah he fought. And I understand it. He is anything but a coward. He was a great guy and a champion for the disenfranchised. He's going to be sorely missed. I think If anyone has these feelings they're fighting, instead of being quiet about it, one should talk and speak up. I know how hard that can be but it beats the alternative. Rip TS
@@PabloHunE I think there's a lot more to depression than "caring what others think". It is far beyond petty reasons like that.
@@PabloHunE sometimes thought exercises don't work as well, and I think depression affects brain plasticity, it's not as helpful and growth is in baby steps. Trevor was in therapy and even trying new methods as he mentioned, ketamine treatment.
Mind over matter is a juvenile way to look at depression. I think the thought you're conveying is nice, but your level of misunderstanding depression is very evident.
The Black Dahlia Murder was the only band I couldn't wait to pop open the booklet and read the lyrics. I wish Trevor could know just how loved and how deeply missed he will be. RIP to an absolute legend.
He was possibly the best lyricist in metal of the 2000s . He told such dark stories with such poetic grace . It makes me almost want to distance myself from then negativity of metal , I wonder when it stops being catharsis and starts becoming dwelling on then negativity of life . I don’t know I’m just trying to piece this together , how could it have been prevented or helped . I’m really hurt over this. Stay strong brother
"Its dangerous for me to have this much alone time to think"
that hit so hard knowing what happened not too long after..
Rest in piece Trevor
I lost my mom a few months ago, I work alone, I live alone, I'm battling with alcohol addiction, and Trevor is one of the main reasons I haven't taken my own life. Thank you, brother.
I also lost my mom 6 months ago and struggle with the same shit. Hope you'll manage to keep going strong
@cinissanguis6836 you too man. It's not something we'll ever "get over", but it will get easier with time
Damn does the last 15 minutes, now that Trevor has passed away, that part of the conversation is chilling and sad af. But at the same time, absolutely necessary, especially in these dark times. Very touching. Thank you for absolutely everything you've done for the metal scene, giving a shit about the scene AND praising the underground smaller bands, being a genuine, funny, kind, smart, human, down to earth soul. I never met Trevor but
All of the people that I know that met him had nothing but nice things to say about him. On top of being a absolute beast of a frontman. His music AND his Obituarist columns were gateways to new bands for me.
His contributions to the metal scene for two decades is absolutely golden and he'll never be forgotten, in fact, he'll go down in history.
Also, like I mentionned that last 15 minutes is absolutely human, heart-warming, necessary and most importantly, fucking valid. As someone who's ridled with mental health issues, I can absolutely do nothing but relate.
Be nice to each other, be there for your friend who's feeling down and is tired of fighting their demons.
Rest in power, king.
Trevor might have lost his battles against his demons but damn will he never be forgotten!
My deepest condoleances to the friends, family and the TBDM clan.
Doods could use a hug over here.....what a loss to the metal community.
Actually so sad. He just seemed so overtaken by his own mind. 😢 Such a soft spoken guy too
@@samm.1757 he was the best!
I remember seeing you guys in Fresno CA a few years back and hiding in the back outside the building because security wouldn’t let people get autographs. I saw you outside and walked up nonchalantly and asked for an autograph . You laughed and said “yes man of course” I had nothing for you to sign so I gave you my ticket. I have that ticket in a frame . It makes me very sad you died. Black dahlia is and always will be my fav band . RIP Trevor
What an awesome memory, that ticket is now a highly cherished possession for you I bet. He was such an awesome dude. Never turned down an autograph or photo, or bong rip or beer haha. Man he will be sorely missed
I just today(23 June) learned that this lovely bloke had left us. Im 70 years of age and have lived a Great life, and that is partly because of bands like BDM putting a smile on my face and a spring in my step. Now the World is a little darker and a proposed trip to Bloodstock here in the UK will not happen because of this tragedy. BDM and Cattle Decapitation were the main reason i was going. Im at a loss as to why this has happened. Trevor had a great future but who knows what goes on in the mind if a person with so much talent on and off the stage. Bless you Trevor. Thankyou for making life a little brighter during your short reign.
70 Years young with a great musical taste. Hail brother
Knowing about his death and listening to his issues with mental health is pretty devastating. I was a huge fan of the band back in mids 2000. This is too sad. R.I.P Trevor Strnad.
You art will be remembered
Watching Trevor talk about his struggles after he is gone is gut wrenching. Take care of your mental health.
I work as a nurse with patients who deal with a lot of suicidal thoughts and extreme depression. I'm so crushed about hearing the passing of Trevor. No death has touched me like his did. I really hope he found his peace he deserved.
Seeing this makes me so sad. My best friend was Frank Watkins from the band Obituary. Frank first told me about TBDM and gave me a demo. This is going back early 2000's. I've been watching different interviews with Trevor since he passed and didn't know he was such a big Obituary fan. Frank passed away from cancer in 2015. I miss him everyday. My prayers and thoughts go out to Trevor's family and friends. REST IN POWER !
53:18 "maybe you want to scroll that suicide hotline" 😭 fuck, I miss Trevor so much. I only met him once and it was enough to know he was such a good and genuine person.... he is missed so much
At 53:21 when he says maybe you want to scroll that suicide holine at the bottom of the screen. Thats heavy
I thought the exact same thing. It gave me chills
@jimjackson7568 sad loss such a humble guy
13 years ago Trevor and the black dahlia came to Thailand and when the songs "What a horrible night to have a curse" came up i sang along and Trevor handed me microphone so i can Scream the word "HATE" OUT LOUD you will always be in my heart and memories Trevor 🖤🤘🏻🔥🙏🏻
Trevor is undoubtedly one of the absolute best people in metal that the scene EVER had. Such a treasure
Dude big ups to Trevor for being so vulnerable man. It’s rare to hear someone be so open in interview after interview. BDM and death metal as a whole has given me a lot throughout my life. Trevor is the fucking man and I will personally fight anyone who calls him fat lol
That fat bastard lol....saw em on the last tour cycle with suffocation and necrot
Nearly one year on and I still can't comprehend that this beautiful soul is no longer with us. He was one of the good ones. Love you Trevor
this man is an absolute goddamn legend. i saw them live 5-6 times. "Blackest Incarnation" is one of my favorite metal songs ever and i have be careful not to destroy my whole house while listening to it. rest in peace and love, Trevor. we love you and we are still here for you.
"it's dangerous for me to have this much time to think"
My fucking god I got chills hearing that.
Is great to see these guys talk about mental health, I've had my own struggles and we need more positive vibes within the metal community
*Metal health
same, it's nice to hear.
He is dead, freaking sad
@@marcopelaezfernandez4573 dude i just saw, im fucking torn right now i cant even believe its real 😭
@@masterduda013 What an ominous interview this turned out to be, so tragic :(
I wish so badly I wasn't cooped up in my room for the last like 6 years. I should have gone out to show my love for this guy, for all of TBDM. Such a huge part of my life, why I picked up the guitar again. The songs are etched into my brain, the lyrics into my mind. I hope one day I get to meet Brian.
You're gone but not forgotten!
😔I can't believe he's gone, and so young. Outstanding lyrics, otherworldly vocals, and a great personality. He loved metal as much as his fans and it made you appreciate the band that much more.
😭Thank you for everything Trevor, Rest Well in that Everblack🙏🏿
RIP, Trevor.
I’m so sorry to his friends and family
From 39:00 is where he starts sliding into his mental health discussion.
Haunting.
"It's dangerous for me to have this much time to think." Man this hits hard now :(
I know that feeling all too well. That's why I sleep even if I've slept all night. To not think!! 🙁
It hits hard when he says the sun is shining and it’s beautiful out and I don’t care. Pretty good depiction of depression and how it manifests inside your head. RIP Trevor, you were a Metal God as well as an Awesome person.
Man I still can't believe he's gone. He always seemed like a happy dude and I never would have guessed he suffered from depression. Just goes to show you never know what people are going through. It sucks knowing I'll never be able to see him live again. One of the first bands to get me into the heavier side of metal.
I really appreciate him getting real about drinking, depression, and also bringing up how metal embraces its elders. I hope he knows that he is loved by the metal community and that he should take the time he needs to be well. As someone who has struggled for a long time with severe anxiety, ptsd and depression, I can say that it can continue to get better, even without meds, Trevor.
This needs to be played in schools. RIP Trevor.
this interview hurts but at the same time is what is needed to hear right now. It's so painfully honest and we all need to try to be like this with each other. Rest in power Trevor
Wow, really great to hear Trevor so open about his struggles. I've always felt a connection with TBDM and Trevor specifically, but what he is articulating here is so similar to what I'm feeling and going through, too, and it helps to know I'm not the only one.
I don't know if Trevor will ever see this, but I love and appreciate you and I hope that you find peace in all of this because you bring a lot of joy and meaning to the world. I know it's hard not to allow the negativity of the people out there to creep in and fuck with your sense of self worth, but I hope that you know that those negative things pale in comparison to how much admiration and appreciation people have for you.
I wish he did read this
@@seditious1627 Me too
I'm only 15 but I remember seeing this last year and being really exited for the tour even though I couldn't make it to a show. After hearing about his passing this interview just hits different. Rest easy Trevor
The metal community is appreciative of you, and glad you here for the jams. Glad to see a some strength in the new generation. I remember being 15 and listening to TBDM.
This hits sooo much harder now. Thankyou for everything Trevor. You made me feel less alone as a kid. Your impact on me will last forever ♾ Rest In Peace , you will be deeply missed by soo many people! This hurts. Check on your people guys 🫶🏾
dude, I'm devastated. thank you so much for helping me through the dark times with your art. BDM was always a constant listen for me, even with my tastes changing you were always there.
I'm so sad and sorry that you could not take anymore of this fucked up world. Hope you have found your peace now.
I’ve jumped down a rabbit hole of interviews with Trevor over the last couple days and come away from all of them thinking, “I just don’t see it. Why? How? I don’t understand.” Then the 45 minute mark of this interview came along, and suddenly, it all made sense. Goddamn, I wish he could have found his peace of mind. I’ll miss the hell out of him
45:00
damn man.. rest in peace Trevor. been listening since i was a young teenager and now im 29. sucks to hear you left us.
Damn i just found out he passed. I don’t listen to any new metal artists but old black dahlia murder will forever be on the workout playlist. RIP buddy
Listen to more metal brendan
@@MGBlast666 i still listen to metal but all the new bands aren't good imo. every tbdm album is fire but most new shit in the scene is underwhelming
@@brendan6612 I hear that. check out Templum Anima Morti... One of my favorites anyway
@@MGBlast666 will do 🫡
I can’t believe one of the last things that’s said here is talking about the suicide hotline. What a fucking dark time - much love to everyone that knew and loved Trevor - I only met him twice and raged, but I always felt very connected and this is such a painful day. I love you all, please stay up.
this whole interview have these days very sour flavour... such a big hearted guy... RIP Trevor...
God why must this pop up now? I'm tearing up watching this interview. Trevor has been such an influence on me since the early 2000s,he left a hole in the metal scene that will never be filled. Rest in peace Trevor
This man was so down to earth it hurts my heart to hear him in pain like that.
RIP Trevor, what an inspiration and all-round legend 🤟
Trevor is so genuine and always has something either hilarious or based as fuck to say. I always hear about artists that never listen to the genre of music they make. It's great to hear about someone who truly lives, breathes and dies by metal. A true pilar of the community. I can always count on bdm not to turn into a buttrock band.
I came to metal late in life, and even later to BDM. I just want to say that you will be missed, Trevor. I wish I had been along for the whole ride, but I have some great albums to explore, and your playlists have already turned me on to a lot of new music. Rest in peace.
I read part of this interview on a website and seeing Trevor talk about mental health hits really close to home. Best metal frontman, RIP Trevor
As a fan, I appreciate the band making themselves so available. They answer questions, share my stories and all kinds of other stuff. One day, I will sell their merch.
Second time watching it, this time holding back tears. Rest in Peace Trevor; you are one of a kind
Listening to this interview is sad... Trevor will be missed!
This is a soul crushing retrospective. It's painful to watch and know that he was suffering like this. I'll be grateful for the sick memories and time I got to see TBDM and meet Trevor. Amazing memories and a fantastic person.
RIP
I just bawled my fucking eyes out because it hit so close to home this is so personal and I know exactly how he felt with depression and anxiety. It’s a horrible disease I wish it on no one. You don’t even have to be a fan of this band. This interview will Emotionally move you if you suffer from mental Illness
The black dahlia Murder has been my favorite band since 2008. I love trev and it helped me really kinda notice my own problems. I appreciate this
This interview REALLY is a great eye opener to those who are a frontman/front woman, who struggle with being on tour and the pressure to have on their shoulders. Cheers to you BOTH!!!!
It is crushing hearing him talk about the future of the band after yesterday.
Man. I always viewed Trevor as this untouchable force of nature. It must’ve been tough to open up the way he did, and huge ups to Frank for creating a space for them to have this conversation. Melts my heart
Man the end of this interview is cryptic for sure. Rip Trevor
This conversation was amazing. I appreciate the discussion about mental health and the current societal issues that we, as a nation (and world) were thrust into. I hope, that both of you gentlemen are successful in your quest for mental/emotional solace, or at least some semblance of normalcy, if you will. I can relate to a lot of these issues, myself. You guys are doing a great job. I appreciate you both. Stay safe. Peace and respect. 🤘🏼
Rip brother. You will be missed. Ever since I heard of your passing I've been scouring youtube for interviews looking for signs anything that would point to a problem and in the first 40 seconds of this video there was the sign. He said it's really bad for him to sit around for so long with just his thoughts. Please people read the signs read the warnings....reach out and just say you care and your not alone.
Same here man. I just wish somebody could have helped him . But especially for men, you have to help yourself at the end of the day and sometimes the weight is too much to bear.
I find myself moving away from the negativity of metal. I don’t know if it’s healthy to be in that world so often, I wonder where it stops being catharsis and release of negativity, and starts being dwelling on it.
Hope your doing okay . We need to honor his legacy by bettering ourselves so we can help not only ourselves, but other brothers and sisters who are struggling
@@Max_Payn3 your absolutely right. Writing negative leaning music means you have you to be in a bad mindset. All the blood gore and violence effects you rather you admit it or not. Puts you in a bad mindset.
@@nolaningersoll4129 I normally would disagree and I think from an artistic standpoint that’s not always the case . A lot of people myself included feel that it’s a form of catharsis to release said negativity . But now that I’m older I tend to stray towards the other opinion . It’s a complex sort of thing I guess , I do think there needs to be a place for that stuff. There’s violent movies, video games, books , every other form of media , so I don’t see why there can’t be a place for it in music.
That being said is metal heads tend to be strictly metal and no other types of music, that’s where it seems to be dwelling in that mindset. I listen to everything now a days and metal is maybe 1/4th of it. A lot of death metal guys seem to be very disconnected or desensitized from the violence that has become a trope in metal . I’m always drawn to bands like Hatebreed for their positive lyrics, or bands like meshuggah who deal more in the philosophical and abstract realm of lyrics. Even Chuck from the pioneering band Death was really good at the philosophical aspect which can be dark but it’s much more up to interpretation rather than the in your face violence that a lot of bands deal. But you don’t get too much of that in death metal , it’s kind of in the name haha
Unbelievable there was a time this band were shat on so much. Trevor is such a cool guy, metal to the bone man.
Never for me ! They’ve always been my favorite band .
I was a huge fan during the first two albums, then I lost track as I tried new sounds.
They were shat on by clown irrelevant death metal elitists who were furious their bands that have been around for decades didn’t hit the jackpot like BDM did
@@wightclaudia I think being American had something to do with it. Only European bands can be tr00
All the love to Frank to being real to Trevor before he passed. My heart feels good knowing Trevor knew he was speaking to a friend. Thank you Frank for being speaking openly about your challenges. Your honesty shows courage. My heart aches for Trevor. May his passing start conversations in all the dive bars and clubs we metal heads attend.
Really hard to take this in. Been in love with Trevor and The BDM since unhallowed. It's amazing how much a person can lift others up, while being unable to get that lift for themself. Thank you Trevor for giving us what you have. The Blackest Incarnation already was special to me, this interview was incredible for me. thank you Frank, I hope you're well.
Man, my brother did the same thing and watching this video reminds me of that really bad time. This was over a yr ago and me watching this for the 1st time, I hear the signs that I assume most people didn't realize. My condolences to his immediate family and close friends. It is hard to take a loss of someone when it's in this form. Whatever he was dealing with inside, it's a lot to take. Rest in peace my friend. We will miss u
My heart is broken by the news of loosing Trevor today. Wanted to see him in his best light after hearing of the news. The topics you guys talked about in this interview, today especially, crazy, dark, and saddening in hind-site. Watched this video before but after loosing Trevor today and re-listening to this is hard. He talks about the darkness and today he succumb to it…… R.I.P. Trevor lost but never forgotten……
We all struggle and arguably some of the greatest musicians and artists are tortured souls , which draws you the negative aspects of art and metal. I want to move away from it, I don’t know if it’s healthy to constantly listen to this negative music that has such an emotional impact, as much as I love Dahlia and other bands. We have to better ourselves so we can help ourselves, and our loved ones
This hit hard man ! What a loss ! I'll never fucking forget discovering TBDM when my cousin brought over miasma in 2006 man what a good album with many more after ! Hope the best for all of them .
Such a class act. Opened for BDM in Detroit 15 years ago. Miasma days. Every dude in that band had a contagious good energy. Just went to the Sowden house yesterday in Los Angeles. Blasting the fuck outta Miasma
RIP Trevor, I met you almost 20 years ago and I wish I could have told you it can get better. Life fucking sucks but you brought joy to countless people and you will be forever loved.
I hope somewhere in his heart he realized he became just like his metal heroes. A legend forever.
Hearing Trevor’s struggles here and all that has transpired…this really hurts. A lot. All the love for the Strnad family and TBDM boys, especially Brian ❤️
Heartbreaking to listen to now, Trevor was such a beautiful soul. RIP brother
This interview hurts so much to watch now. Myself, and the entire metal community will deeply miss this amazing individual
He seemed like an awesome, genuine, fun loving person. Really sad that he ended up the way he did. So much suicide in the world today, it makes you think something isn’t right with society where people feel like they need to end their own life.
True there is lack of empathy and isolation out there
Fuck man, so relatable. Honest, brave men here. We’re all in this together guys. Fuck what the news claims, take care yourself and each other.
Hearing him now, I can't fathom his death. The dude loved life and music. Rest in power Trev
He was undeniably one the nicest and most charismatic, outgoing people in the scene . We love you and miss you buddy
Great to hear you guys talk openly about mental health instead of shying away the issue. Makes a big difference for people to be encouraged to be more open.
I also need to better organise my bandcamp notifications!
Man I haven't cried over a musician like this in awhile. Always been one of my favorite metal bands. Looked up to Trevor. To a breathless oblivion. Fuck man. Rest easy
Goddamnit I miss you Trevor . You were such an inspiration in not only music, but life. When I try to do vocals, I wanna sound like Trevor . We all miss you terribly. Metal is not going to be the same .
To anyone who is struggling right now or in the past who reads this. Please stay strong and soldier on , better yourself and stand up tall. We are where we are because strong men before stood tall in the face of unimaginable hardships. I know Trevor was struggling terribly but everyone thats ever interacted with this man had NOTHING but positive and great things to say about him. I don’t think any less of him for doing this but damnit I’m almost angry and severely hurt over this, but that’s just selfish we don’t know what he was going through.
This has been a wake up call to me to not only get help, but try to help anyone I can who’s struggling.
I'm an old metalhead, that went thru depression and have some anxiety issues. I'm past that, but it's soooo hard. I see him talk, and think about my kids, that are a little younger than him. Ask for help!!! Don't let yourself fall, and be strong!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This last portion of the interview is so heartbreaking. It's honestly so hard to hear how he was feeling a year ago and to know where things are now. Get help people, and make sure the people who matter to you are okay too. Rest in piece, Forever King of the Nightworld. Metal just won't be the same without you.
To know we'll never get a new interview, a new laugh or funny aside, a new vocal delivery with those amazing lyrics is too much to take.
The way he talks about his bandmates is breaking my heart all over again.
Trevor, I fucking love you dude. I can only be glad that you can no longer feel pain.
he was so candidly open about the topic. Absolutely heartbroken to hear the news today: he was such an incredible musician and an awesome contributor to extreme metal as a whole. Been a long time fan of TBDM, rest in peace Trevor hope you find peace
Wow.....the last few minutes of this explains everything. RIP trevor.
This is such an incredibly sad moment in time. I'm thankful for this video, other media, and all of the work & music trevor and the black dahlia murder have put forth to eternalize their legacy. It makes his absense a little less of an abyss, but the reality is still darkness. Rip, Trevor.
This suddenly became a lot more revelant. RIP Trevor - one of the underground metal greats in my book.
That right there is the biggest problem with mental health. Someone's words don't become "relevant" until they do something that they can't come back from. It's sad.
Rip Trev, such a loss. I hope he’s in a better place ❤️
He always came across as such a genuine guy. I don’t have many friends who are into metal and fewer still who are into BDM. My love of their music has always felt very personal because of this. And it’s also why the news of Trevor’s death was so gut wrenching. Such a huge loss and nobody to share it with. But when I read through these comments, and see that there are many others to whom he meant a lot, it’s comforting. Goodbye big man. And thank you for everything.
RIP to the greatest death metal vocalist. The band will never be the same
Man, great interview, I thought I'd just watch a few minutes or whatever and stayed glued the whole hour!
RIP, you really helped alot of people including myself with your music.
Rip trevor you gave me and others a fountain of joy and excitement through your music.
45:00 hits hard
I saw this interview get posted when it did and kept putting it off, finally watching it, puts lots of stuff into perspective. I'm torn again for him, the band, his family and fans. Fortunately I've never experienced depression, I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Please anyone that deals with depression or anxiety, do not bottle it up, reach out! Everyone has someone Don't be afraid or ashamed, you're not judged, we are all humans with imperfections. So much love and prayers to all!
The Black Dahlia recommended Dissection on their Facebook a number of years ago and my first listen blew me away. It helped me recognize the old school more fully and I will always have that appreciation. I assume it was Trevor who posted it.
Great interview guys really! Mental health is such a taboo subject especially in the metal scene with his macho side of thing. It needs to be talk about. Much respect for you guys!
Edit: When I heard the news yesterday, I couldnt help and think about this interview... My heart ache knowing what he could have gone through... Rest in peace dear Trevor you'll be sorely missed!
Most issues in life with stigma originate from lack of understanding on the subject, which leads to more fear and prejudice.