He Groomed Me To Be His Play Toy Because I Look Like a Girl
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- Опубликовано: 10 янв 2021
- "What do you do when the man who was obsessed with you, the man you thought you had gotten away from; who you believe kept following you; shows up in front of you?
I want to know because I don't.
And, what do you do when he tells you that he was trying to protect you, because he wasn't the only person who had their eyes on you?
On one fateful day of the program that I met him. Edgar. He was mid-40s - he'd been in the military - but despite his appearance, had a soft personality. He was a guest speaker, and when he finished, I went up, got acquainted, and we hit it off. Then one night, at the theater, while were backstage, we came up behind me, and began caressing neck, saying "your collar is off". Then, one by one, his hands began to travel down, past my shoulders, my back, and eventually my hips. Instinctively, I tried to inch away but his hand closed. He was now gripping me. He gave me a squeeze before letting go as the audience applauded. One hundred eyes on the stage and none could see what had just happened to me. I packed up my stuff, said I wasn't feeling well, and left then and there.
After a while, I got a new job as a cashier. Edgar showed up and made a beeline toward me. I felt my heart pick up it pace. I felt my mind was race. I wanted to run, but I couldn't. I was just stuck there, a cold sweat running down the back of my neck like his hands once did. By the time he made his way up the line, I could barely breathe. I braced myself but he didn’t say anything to me; just smiled and left. Ever the optimist, I wanted to believe he'd moved on - forgotten. But after that day, he kept coming back. I was ready to quit again when one day, during a late shift, as I was about to clock out, Edgar walked through the door - past the 'closed' sign - toward me and said, "You are being followed." I felt every hair on my body stand up, felt myself gasp for air. I wasn't just paranoid. I was actually being watched. He reached out to my shaking hands and I held on. Despite everything, he was all I had. He offered to escort me to my car. And after a moment, I said "okay."
There were only a few cars in the parking lot that night. Mine was the furthest away, and between me and my car, there was only one other vehicle. A quick look saw that it was empty, so we made a beeline toward my car. Just as I was about to reach my car, I grabbed for my keys when I heard a car door open behind me. I turn around, and it was Edgar, cloth and rope in hand. There was no one else. It was his car. It was always him.
Then, he pulled me into his car.
My hands grabbed at the edges of the door frame. I could feel my heart racing as my mind told me to fight for my life. I could feel one of his arms still tightly around my waist as the other one wandered lower. I was terrified and couldn’t think at all. I used all of the strength I had to pull myself out of his grasp and onto the pavement of the parking lot. My knees hurt when I hit the ground, but there was no time. I jumped to my feet and sprinted towards my car. I shut the door. Locked it. And stepped on the gas. In my rear-view mirror, I could see him, standing there, still watching as I turned the corner, and drove to my parents'.
I didn't tell them what had happened. Not my parents, my workplace, or the police. Edgar had a military background and he probably had connections. I felt too afraid to come forward, so I didn’t. Instead, I ditched my old phone number, old license plate, and applied for a transfer to another store downtown. It was one of my new co-workers, Holly, giving me a hug as I burst into tears. She held my hands in hers and told me that I should never feel like I deserved anything that'd happened; that they no one else could would ever fully understand what I was went or was going through. She would later become my girlfriend. I never saw Edgar again.
Before, I didn’t understand why someone would keep something like that to themselves. Why would they let someone get away with it? But I understand now that there can be many reasons people don’t speak up. Don’t ever let anyone victim shame or blame you. They do not know your story."
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Just cause a man looks "feminine" doesn't mean he's not masculine. A man's looks doesn't define his masculinity.
Correct. They are just mere looks.
Same goes for females.
@@Ashley-gw9jh GREEN WOMAN GO BRR BRR
@@swearitjustajuice63 ahh yes
Well, that is not entirely correct. Whether someone has more masculine or feminine appearance depend upon the concentration of hormones within their bodies, for example is a woman has higher levels of testosterone she is going to look more masculine. The hormones not only regulate the way we look, but also the way we act, so a person with greater amounts of testosterone will have more traits associated with masculinity, than the one who has less of this hormone and grwater amount of estrogen.
Never keep sexual harassment a silent. Always speak up no matter how bad it may look at first.
Yea u are right
Yes I know but that’s like abuse you might be too scared to say it at first maybe say it in a way that’s not just like go do it
But you should always blackmail the harasser first to get more money
@@redwheat333 approved
Yes that way they can get a record and people know to watch out for them. It could keep them from hurting others. The people in the video were nasty though. It might take the victim a while to get the bravery to come forward to press charges.
It doesn't matter what age or gender you are, Sexual harrassment is still sexual harrassment. If you or someone is going through something like this. Don't keep it a secret, speak out
Part of his story that I REALLY relate to is the paranoia. I remember going to school and scanning crowds. Having dreams of him finding me. Whenever I walked around school alone, telling myself that he wouldn’t, COULDN’T, be there. Whoever’s story this is they are so strong. They have been through so much. They shouldn’t have had to, but were strong nonetheless.
facts bro I’m a 5’4-5’5 guy and i always get called a girl and looked on as petite. Im a sophomore in Highschool goin into my junior year and my whole sophomore year guys stared, checked me out and even flirted with me. some go as far as groping me or touching me and im like one of the shortest guys in school so im defenseless. I also have had some very bad encounters with older men checking me out in public and smirking at me everytime I notice them checking out my body. I take on a lot of my moms features and more of her chromosomes and so my whole body is built more feminine so it’s not rare that I get checked out alot. I just know that going into school I’m going to be more vigilant because my hair is way longer now and I look more feminine than before
@@divinebeing232 I’m so sorry 😞
@@Alejand883 thank u feels good to know there’s ppl out here to listen and also ppl who can relate❤️❤️💪🏾
@@divinebeing232 U welcome , you’re not alone 🤗
omg that's terrible! I sometimes have the same experience and im a girl and it's mainly older guys looking at me. girl or boy its disguisting to see that older people do that@@divinebeing232
I hope that Edgar fraud is arrested for attempted kidnapping and harassment.
Yup
You mean sexual harassement
@@earthchan1801 yes
This isn’t an actual story, it’s just a lesson bout what actually happens
I hope so
I can totally relate to this. A boy looking feminine, doesn't mean he's into guys.
I'm not the most masculine looking guy myself and whenever a guy asks if I'm gay I'm like "you wish" LOL
People thought I was gay cuz I have long eyelashes and long nails before
So you aren’t gay?
@@buhmoment954 he prob is but still
@@buhmoment954 unless you are gay yourself, I don't see why you would ask if another man is gay.
I also look feminine and I can relate I got molested by gay men so many times once in Marrakesh a Spanish guy in his 40s offers me money to spend a night with him
I just want to get this out of my chest
i understand coz my brother faced like u. he hates me i don't understand him at first
just get the money lol
just make sure he dont have std
Hi give me ur insta id
I’m so sorry you went through that. I hope those predators had what was coming to them. They deserve more than just jail time
Actually I'm a boy who's quite weak and my classmates say I walk like girls. Huh! Some also say I talk like girls. But I always thought I'm a complete straight guy. Sometimes it really hurts to hear things like that.
*I wish People stop judging others without even knowing them in our society*
Man..that's rough
Weak, you say ? Time to hit the gym
@Haris, same but i'm a woman, my friends have always ade fun of the awakward way i talk very deep voice and my body is big boned so i naturally look more manly and they akways imitate my body language and laugh at how awkward i am. I have never been in a relationship and feel like im dying craving love and to feel like a woman, because maybe i would feel more like a woman because i have a man.
I also unf became very rigid and more on yhe masculine side as to pritect myself because ppl did not take me seriously unless i was aggressive and taking up big space energy.
I know who i am, i have always been att3acted to men and ppl can laugh or make me feel bad about myself, but im acceoting myself as i am and i dont have to prove anything to anyone that i am feminine or a woman. I know I am & embrace it, with or without a man by my side :)
So don't pay heed to ridficuke or other ppl's views or insecurities about you or maybe it's about themselves idk, to make them feel better about themselves.
Ppl will always be ppl, what natters is what we think of ourselves and how we view ourselves. I don't think you have to think much about being self concious now, ppl fall in love with your energy & atttraction is mostly not physical, it's more an energetic match, chrmistry and a deep connection that one feels with one another, that gies beyond looks and mannerisms. Im sure your woman will love all the quirky things you do that you dislike about yourself or are insecure about. Just be your true self and one can always improve areas in one's life one is not happy with, it's an inside job, happiness is inner work :)
Love & accept yourself as you are, and be compassionate with yourself and kind. Being critical and judgemental about urself others will only make the problems apoear bigger or persist, one will find flaws in everything everyone.
Good luck Brother! ✊🍀
it don't matter,u are who u are because u are who u are
I feel the same people always see me as a gay nerd who never talks but I can be quiet talkative as long as your not an asshole. Although the thinking I’m gay is somewhat correct. Don’t expect me too go to you first tho In a conversation
Well... That was a lot to unpack.
I bed the kidnapper said that too
@I have no Soul hey you want a soul?
@NaturisticYT we know
Literally
@@deleted4860 lol
👏 WHEN 👏 A 👏 BOY 👏 IS 👏 FEMENIME 👏 IT 👏 DOESN'T 👏 MEAN 👏 HE 👏 IS 👏 GAY 👏
True
Plus there masculine gays
Probably
Idk I haven’t seen a gay in person before
The real lesson is that sexual harassment shouldn't be kept silent forever
THANK YOU!! 😭😭
@@miraculousumbreon8709 sammee but yoy might have never know
"He Groomed Me To Be His Play Toy Because I Look Like A Girl"
This title is misleading.
FR
It should be "He touched me inappropriately cause I look like a girl"@@Unknown-Silly-vv3pw
I'm a straight boy (15 going on 16) I've always had long hair and feminine eyes so all my life I've been told that I look like a girl. So I cut my hair to be shorter kinda like Trafalgar law from one piece. I used to look like neji from naruto. I've gotten these same insults from people. I've always been nice too people so I don't know why I was always picked on.
put on the skirt 🔫🤬
It doesn’t matter what other people think about you you are the only one who knows himself deeply
Yeah don’t listen to them!
Im a straight 5’4-5’5 guy im 15 goin on 16 as well and I always got called a girl and because my eyes look animated I always got compared to Chinese girls. And guys in school would often stare at me and check me out. I’ve had some bad encounters with older men. I have longer hair now and still the same height so I look more feminine than I did before. Im going into my junior year in high school and I’m going to remain vigilant
@@divinebeing232 I'm going to my junior year of high school too (as of me typing this im 16 but I'll be 17 soon). For the record, people say I still look the same.
A guy should never feel like he needs to be gay or something just because he happens to look a bit feminine.
THANKS YOU SO MUCH FOR SAYING THAT. Really!!! Its exactly my case, im just a little bit feminine but they asking me if im gay or not. Its really embarassing 😀
femininity/masculinity has nothing to do with sexuality
It's just the way you present/look
Only bigots assume you're gay by the way you act or look and our society is 70-80% bigots:]
I'm in physical pain.
@@wiinbae you sound like you are though. And there's nothing wrong with that just saying
@@theowlhouseseason3213 although I agree maybe a build up of hormones can affect your sexsuality maybe more testosterone means a likelier but not full proof chance of being attracted to women and vise verse???
Lol one time i straight up manhandled this little gay dude, and he kept whispering "dont tell my boyfriend." 😂😂 you can do whatever you want with gay boys they most likely want it anyway.
"A cult took me off thd streets and gave me to my stalker."
*"Ok here's your stalker. Now run along."*
@@AreebProductions ok Cool story bro, *no one cares*
@@thecommentingkid1499 💀
@@tanukkat4963 💀
you shoudnt have gone to a play
@@59master60 yeah o.o
Just because this boy looks “feminine” doesn’t mean he’s gay plus he didn’t decide to look “feminine “
The fact that people are hating on the kid instead of the man is crazy💀
The worst part is that these are all true stories which people live though😔
Nope they arent real stories but these things DO happen
@@raiden6583 yea they are teling stories people may go through
@@raiden6583 not true at all
@@raiden6583 this is entirelly true. its sent by real people, animated and narrated. they do also have fiction but there is a warning in the intro, title or both
Most of the stories are made by them
"A Cult Took Me Off The Streets and Gave Me To My Stalker"
is the original title in case if it changes
right now its
"He Groomed Me To Be His Play Toy Because I Looked Like A Girl"
Now
"I struggled to be his play toy so he kidnapped"
Why do they change?
@@MG-eo8ps Why do they change it? I would like to know as well. Its strange to me.
What cult is what I wanna know
I am much older now, although I too was a victim of an older aggressor when I was younger. This guy operated the distribution office for the newspaper for our small town (the paper route boss). The paper route boys would go to his office and gather the newspapers for their particular paper routes. Each week we would have to pay him for the newspapers we delivered to our customers (after collecting the monies from each of our paper route customers).
Anyway this man (the paper route boss) was in his late 20’s at the time and would offer to help us out from time to time by taking us around our paper route in his car rather then having to use our bikes. He would also organize basketball games among the paper boys (he would divide us into shirt side and no shirt side teams). He would also take us around town in his car at night to inquire to address’s that were not subscribing to the newspaper (we were given a bonus for any new subscription we were able to obtain).
I was much like this kid in the story (my nickname was even peach’s because of my soft skin), my parents were often fighting so I rarely stayed around my home. During summers I would usually take off on my bike and ride everywhere just to stay away from my home. I would average well over 20 miles a day riding all day long, so I developed a very thin and well defined body (my legs were very shapely, I would even have my paper route customers telling me that on my route).
To make matters worst ‘this was back in the days when boys would wear very short shorts (OP Brand with no shirts or t-shirts that were cut in half just below the breast of your chest).
The paper boss seemed to be very nice to me, he would even call my mother and tell her how hard I worked and if she would mind if from time I would go with him looking to gain new subscribers for the paper or help him with varies jobs he needed help with. He would have me help him unload the truck that brought the newspapers from the larger town they came from. He also knew my family life was not the best and that I stayed away from home as often as I could, so over time I was spending a lot of time with him, I would even go over to his home often and help him move things around (he was single at the time).
He was a little on the heavy side and short. I was taller then most of my peers (I ended up becoming 6’2’), and again I was rather lanky (although very well defined and extremely naive at the time)!
Looking back I now realized I was like a person being boiled alive and not knowing it (by the temperature of the water slowly rising until it was boiling). This guy was having me do jobs with him that would require me to take off my shirt because of how hot it was and climb up ladders in order for him to hand me boxes or for me to get boxes that were up high to give to him (also, again the shorts at the time we wore would basically huber around the butt and were loose), so it didn’t take much of a stretch on his part to look up and see my private parts very easily. He would also often hold my legs to help balance me so I wouldn’t fall!
I was being groped visually and then later physically very slowly without ever realizing it at first. When we were in the car he would playfully squeeze my thigh (at first near my knee, although as time went on he started squeezing closer toward my private areas). This went on for several months until I was in the car with this guy late at night (allegedly looking to obtain new subscribers for the newspaper) and he put his hand on my thigh and was not squeezing like he had done in the past, he slowing (with out saying a word) moved his hand up my thigh and started touching my private areas. I was extremely confused (again I was very naive at the time). For a while I did nothing and he continued caressing my privates, then he took his other hand and placed it in his pants and started masturbating. What seems like an easy answer to most, wasn’t very easy for me at the moment, I was in total shock.
Finally, and to this day I could not tell you how long (or how long he jerked off), I pulled alway and I moved closer toward the passenger door of the car (this was when cars had bench seats).
Amazingly he said nothing (like it didn’t happen) and pull his pants back up and drove off with me clinging as close as I could to the passenger door (no one wore seat belts then).
He drove me home and I got out and he acted as if nothing happen. Just like the guy in this story I never told my parents or anyone else for years. I stayed away from this guy and would make sure I was never alone around him (I would make sure when I got my papers others were getting their papers at the same time). He never ask me to go with him to try to get subscribers ever again nor did he ask me to help him to extra work.
I was scared to death afterwords like the guy in this story. If I was riding my bike or walking around and saw a car approaching that even looked like his car, I would hide before it got to me. I never gave him eye contact when I had to pay my paper route money each week (I would sit the money on the counter and keep my eyes looking at the ground). Luckily after a few months later the guy quit this job and started to operate a local gasoline station in our little town (needless to say I never got gas at that station as I grew older).
After I graduated from high school and moved on to college then into the military I never confronted this guy or ever wanted to see him when I occasionally came back to visit my family. Later I heard that he died of cancer when in his 50’s.
To say this affected my life at the time would have been an understatement (it’s ashamed that my parents were too involved with their own battles not to notice what was going on with me), although as I grew older I can honestly say it became nothing more then a bad experience in my life (although I assured myself that nothing like this was ever going to happen to my kids and I can tell you beyond a doubt it never did).
Sadly enough more then often then not this goes on with those who you trust the most (and more often then not unreported for all the same reasons), although it really doesn’t take a very sharp eyed parent to notice, just a parent who is involved in their children’s lives!
How is liking men even considered feminine like there's nothing more masculine then a dude dating a dude.
😃😃😃😃
The victim of any situation shouldn’t be shamed or blamed for something that happened to them. Stop protecting the abusers! It’s not the victims fault.
Ahahahaha why not 🤣🤣🤣
@@vampiszoonis9691 why are u laughing-
this is serious
My parents may be Christian but, they taught me how to defend myself. I am happy they did. Sometimes guys wanna fight me because their girlfriends think that I am a dude.
What do the guys do when they find out you're actually a girl?
@@omairaluciano3509 I'd like to know too
Wait what does it have to do with your parents being Christian..
@@charis3117 some Christians don’t believe in violence
@@randomwlw5742 wait but I'm christian and I've never heard that defending yourself is a bad type of violence
He just described what females go through all the time... people who just don't get the hint, refuse to except no for an answer, make them feel uncomfortable & unsafe.
^^^this^^^
And it can also happen the other way around. Ladies can abuse men too, but just like with men, we shoudn't assume a woman (hell, ANY gender) is going to be abusive, just recognize the signs.
@@WillieManga ahh there’s always an incel in the comments trying to gaslight womens trauma. the statistics of women abusing men are statistically insignificant when compared to men abusing women.
I wish more guys spoke up about being sexual harassment.
I’m getting flashbacks from Killing Stalking rn
😭💀
same
Same
Oh god.... It does sound like that
Same 💅
broken knees, cult, abusive stalker? hmm familiar
I-
you better not mean what I think you mean-
@@bubblepuppy7718 oh yes i do
@@bubblepuppy7718 I'm confused what're you guys talking about
@@basedandbiasedkakampink it's a wholesome manga about a boy having a crush and confessing his love
I have tears in my eyes right now...
Way to go for telling your story,... You are my hero dude!!!
the fact that I felt the same feeling that was described in the video, nauseous, grossed out, and uncomfortable is heartbreaking. No one should ever say a man is feminine because they “look” it. And they definitely shouldn’t be a reason to want to do stuff to someone
The sad part is some people use these types of stories to criticize the LGBTQA+ community
Right. That should never happen.
That's so stupid
ik that not all people are the same
Lol
Lmao yes cause it happens a lot in that community
01:59 that girl have what i call female intuition , he should have listened
4:48
@@bodyofamanspiritofabeast7130 ^
the message of the video is to never blame the victim lol. he should have but what's done is done. that Edgar guy was the only person he felt safe around, no one wants to believe their best friend is their enemy.
He should have listened, I agree. But it wasn't really his nor the girls fault, He was often picked on and isolated as he said before. So as an effort to save himself from the loneliness once again he didn't listen-
Atleast that's what I thought- =b
@@sthetickun2277 I agree with u but the girl doesn't have female powers she has human powers we all have gut feelings
I’m glad he had the courage to speak up about this.. it can be very hard for some people to raise there voice, but when they do it can help so much.
This is majorly scary! I’m so sorry this has happened to him. I hope it doesn’t ever affect his ability of having a good respectful loving relationship. Respect my brother!
This happens to me a lot, I can relate. I'm a boy, who looks and sounds very feminine and almost everyone in my school calls me gay or bi or trans ( not that I don't support LGBTQ+) but every time it breaks a little piece of me. I've also had a few incidents with older men like this but not as serious, they touch my shoulders, hips and hair as I walk past and some even walk next to me and put their arm around me. It makes me really uncomfortable but I'm happy that everyone understands how traumatizing it is.
Don't let it get to you bro. Think of the teasing and mockery like flies buzzing around you. You got this.
I'm so so sorry this is awful :(
How is your relationship with your father
Wait you don’t support lgbtq*?
I’m 15 and Was a sophomore in Highschool before summer started always got called a girl. I’m very very short (5’4 - 5’5 ) so it makes it worse. I’m looked on as petite, and always get called a pretty boy. I also have literally the same exact problems with older men as well and i get stared at alll the time by older men and it creeps me out I hope I don’t experience anything like this going back to school because now I have longer hair and want to keep it and dye a little of it so i know it’s going to make it worse but I refuse to let anything stop me from doing what I want
Plot twist his girlfriend is the stalkers daughter
That was actually really funny
Omg
Get nae naed
@Jacqueline Phan I mean it would have been funny if they had joked about it. I'm aware it would be hard, and probably terrifying
This isn't funny
ALL MALES ! WERE HERE FOR U 💯
The part where the stalker kept visiting him at his workplace is a thing I've seen multiple times. It's such a shitty tactic because you're trapped at work, it's not like you can just leave.
Don't try to victimize and blame other people for what happened to them should really learn how to mind their own business. It is never your fault that someone tried either kidnap you abused you or try to groom you for something. Look around you and see if there's actually someone you trust that will actually help your parents friends that you probably didn't even know that could help you, anybody. It's only fair that you can be strong but you can't always be strong by yourself. It's nice to have someone in your corner, isn't it?
Also don't ever let someone tell you who you really are even if you don't know they have no right to tell you who or what or what you are. That is for you to know and for you alone.
King you dropped this 👑
No te entendí ,pero la tuya por si acaso?
He groomed me to be his play toy because I look like a girl.
He’s 2 title
I thought these channels only made clickbaity fake stuff but this could definitely make a positive difference for some people.
This automatically ruined my childhood because the man who groomed that kid looks like professor Callaghan from Big Hero 6💀
Dear people in the comments:
Stop comparing someone’s real life experiences to killing stalking. This is about a person not a comic.
what's killing stalking
@@sadi5430 a comic about a really toxic relationship between a stalker and killer
@@belugas4life785
l seriously don't understand how their similiar when no one is a killer in the story
@@sadi5430 I think they relate the comic to the stalking but yeah I also don't understand why they see it like killing stalking.
Pardonne moi, my english is bad
@Kai’Sa Kayama Daughter of Midnight
woah,woah woah. wait up
l looked into killing stalkin and it's heat.not gonna cap
I usually don’t watch ur vids cus they literally trigger me bc of trauma but I watched this one and I’m so glad you guys raise awareness about stuff like this
I'm really sorry for the trauma u go through😞
same, thank u for bringing this up... i always felt like it wasn’t as big of a deal as i treated it... T~T
@@moonlight7137 I'm sorry but I can't fall in love haha I'm a burden
Trauma lmfao, imagine
These videos are fake but okay
You made me understand a perspective that I couldn't, thank you! And awesome drawing skills!
I’m a straight guy and I’m seen as very androgynous, people assume I’m gay. So apparently looking feminine/androgynous = gay.
Great logic! I will never be with a man, I only love women. Stop judging based on appearance.
Never underestimate a girls intuition also there's nothing wrong with a guy looking feminine, they get teased bc they're beautiful that's how the society is like srly let them live their life.
Not all of them are beautiful lol
Ish Rendon like not al boys are cute at heart :)
Thank you Rin Rin! Say it louder for the people in back!
What happen to hit puberty
@@ishrendon6435 Ok?
If a Man cries It doesn’t mean their Weak, It means they’ve been strong for too long.-Unknown
A girl crying is normal
A boy crying is normal
A woman crying is normal
A man crying is normal
Normal = \ = weak
Normal = human
Human = Strong
And it’s ok to cry. We’re humans and that’s what we naturally do. We need sadness and joy sometimes. Crying lets the pain go and makes people feel a little better. When you hold your tears, you feel unrelaxed
@@KingChiChi20 Happiness is beneficial for the body but it is grief that develops the powers of the mind
@Ryan Alex no he’s not
@Ryan Alex are you stupid? The guy that molested him was a military man. He said he was scared to do anything because a military man can do a lot of things that are dangerous to you. Even I myself wouldn’t want to mess with a military man.
I'm speechless ❤ thanks for this
Thank you so much we need this conversation to be had our boys so unprotected from predators 🥺
Why does the intro remind me of that me that goes: "What would you do if there was a child standing in front of you"😂
*yeets child*
Lmaooo🤣
i would drop kick it
@@ikranabdi9874 Yummy crack.
this is not time for that 😭
i thought this was gonna be an anti-gay propaganda video but it ended with the message that victim shaming is bad so that was a twist
True but there'd be people thinking that this video was anti-gay :
Kysiah Hapitan :3 sure
It kinda was like why did they use pride color at 3:46 Like tf...
The Dark One oh i didnt even notice that. I wouldnt be surprised they have a history of making anti-gay propaganda type videos
@@fxrxn9803, they do. they made a homophobic video along the lines of “I was bullied for my opinion” but it was deleted, but someone republished it
This is so awesome and helpful!!❤❤
Wait wait wait THEY BULLIED YOU FOR BEING BEAUTIFUL? AREN’T BEAUTIFUL MEN SUPPOSED TO BE PRAISED?
BUT I'M HAPPY CUZ YOU MANAGED TO PROTECT YOURSELF AGAINST A MAN twice YOUR AGE AND DIDNT take YOUR LIFE, GOT IT TOGETHER
Check out this MinuteVideos YT channel and some of his other bs vids. I hate it when genuine people are faked by total losers online.
What is with y’all in changing the title every 3 milliseconds
They have to keep within RUclips’s stupid and unnecessary guidelines so they don’t get demonetized.
Pretty annoying right? But I guess it’s essential for them so they don’t get in trouble with RUclips.
@@cringmemes7584 but then they’ll have these.. uh, interesting thumbnails
@@baconoof yes very interesting
@@baconoof they sometimes change the thumbnail
The others boys just mad cause you dress better than them
i am srsly crying literally nobody in this world deserves to go through ANYTHING like that. no matter gender race or age.
The last few sentences at the end of the video really made me emotional because I can relate. At first I was confused why people didn’t speak up for themselves either, but I completely understand now. I still haven’t told my family what happened and I’m still scared to. I don’t think I’ll ever be able to forget that day.
I WOULD RUN AWAY SO THAT HE CAN NEVER FIND ME
The guy is a gay
@@promotingwrld6146 yea that old man is gay the boy should had report him then run away
Same-
This poor boy, I hope he was able to recover after this. Same goes for anyone who has gone through this. You're worth it, and you're valid
No i hope he gets like mad PTSD and depression and suicidal syndrome
Dude you're awesome to get through this. I could never make it through that
Honestly I've felt the same about my looks, and my voice, except the sexual harassment, it's hard to go through and especially along with that, talk to someone if you need to, most ppl online are actually EXTREMLY helpful and nice, just find someone you trust, and open up
I got so grossed out when I saw an image of that old man kissing him and holding his hand
@arianagrande uh wdym its cute??-
@@warpedeclipsex7642 not it's not.
@@warpedeclipsex7642 did you even watch the video properly?
Is the old man gay
@@narayanlaxmi4990 yeah duh
Me: *Long hair.*
My friends: “ Um Chile.. *ANYWAYS SO.* “
The fact that is happens is terrifying. No one should experience these kinds of things ever.I wish everyone who experiences that is safe and happy again.
That is absolutely terrible. And I'm sorry to the victim, I hope Edgar gets karma, locked up, ANYTHING. I hope he'll stay gone for good. And the victim is a very strong person, I understand being afraid to tell somone about things that happen. Whoever is reading this have a good day/night, if you're going through somthing dont be afraid to step up/speak up. It will get better, but you also have to help it get better
guy: touches you
you: bro im a guy get off me
guy: *EVEN BETTER*
im not a guy tho 💀
@@YN.97 plot twist : you’re not a girl either
@@Quandale.dingle.here. another plot twist you not human either *jk
@@123page5 always has been
@@Quandale.dingle.here. are you saying they’re non binary of a trans?
I burst into tears and almost had a panic attack when I listened to this because I went through something similar when I was 13. I didn't get kidnapped but bad things happened to me
Prayers
May you heal from all the wounds that has been caused by the hell you have been through
I hope you're okay
sussy baka (hope your ok too)
Sending prayers rn 🙏
thanks bro its. a great video to understand, thanks.. thanks. no word to express my gratitude to you.
Dude that story was insane!! Wow.
That term "snowflake" makes me so frickin angry🙂
Why it's just the term for people who prefer to oppress than be free
You should probably check 😔
Why does he look like Bum from killing stalking-
He do 😭
how to unsee
Shh!
SHHHHH!
(Pause for long liquor drink)
As hard as it is, we need to speak up when this happens - not just for ourselves, but to protect others from becoming victims.
I can’t even begin to unpacking this like this is just too much
"i am tryiNG To prOtEcT U" THATS NO EXCUSE FOR GROOMING MY GUY
He protecc
He attacc
He want a boi snacc
There is a thing called feminine males, for example: look at the male bird species, all of the male birds are beautiful, even more, beautiful than the female birds. You see God made some males feminine for girls like me, I'm not attracted to over masculine men. So my take is, we're all created to please the satisfaction of our desire, and I thank God for beautiful males.
There is no god but yeah I agree even heterosexual men do not have to look masculine to be himself.
@@Metube9569 that wasn’t necessary to say just because it’s your belief you don’t just say that just say what you were gonna say not add anything wasn’t needed
Birds don't have the concept of gender roles lmao pretty good point but this example is ridiculous
Thats to attract females. Its sexual selection. Being colorful has nothing to do with male humans. No offense thata a ridiculous comparison. Human males didnt evolve sexual displays like colorations or longer feathers or others. Humans are a tournament species meaning males competed for fertile females in our history. Like mosr mammals. Hence males bodies are bigger and usually stronger than females on average. tournament species include humans and most mammals especially primates.birds and some other smaller mammals and fishes that is sexual mate choice ans they dont competefor fertile females like other mammals do. Again comparing a bird to human is a scientific fallacy and doesnt say anything about us humans
There's a reason male animals are more colourful in the animal kingdom but I'm certain it's not because they're effeminate lol
The comments are focused on saying that feminine men aren't necessarily gay, but that's not the point. Gay or not, he wasn't interested in this guy.
Why did I have to listen to this? I’m holding back tears.
Predators... Always in plain sight. We NEED to protect young people from these individuals!
Get to the choppa!
Get to the choppa!
I know exactly how it feels when someone is criticizing you for something that they don't fully UNDERSTAND or understand at all
Fr like whether or not something is abuse depends on how the victim feels about it There is no standard for abuse or assault or harassment And if someone gets abused it doesn’t have to do with the victim it has to do with the abuser and their problems and everything
@@blackqweenmars yes that is very much true. It shouldn’t be the other way around.
This is so sad I’m actually crying... the fact that people have to go threw this everyday is just so heartbreaking
Man this hit hard for me. Not a lot of people know my story… they just point and talk about me from a distance…
I always feel bad for everyone who goes through this😞
I know these types of videos are not supposed to be enjoyable but I fully enjoyed the guys voice narrating , animations, music, everything. We need more videos and stories like this!!!!
Even though telling someone is great it’s also great to know how to defend yourself because sometimes people just won’t believe you and they just won’t be able to do anything. Don’t be afraid to tell people to stop or to push or hit or kick or grab someone if they touch you somewhere you don’t want to be touched or do something to you that you don’t want them to do to you. Nobody wether you’re close to them or not has the right to touch you in ways you don’t want to be.
All i did was look up “they laugh at me because im emo” 🙁
"Killing Stalking"
This is worse than killing stalking because the guy never liked the guy who groomed him also killing stalking is not real I mean I like killing stalking but only because it's not a real story this however happens in real life and it's not like killing stalking it's much worse it's also more scary because like makes you think what if it happened to you it wouldn't be like what you thought it would be like it wouldn't be like hot and all that stuff it's just be scary terrifying and Trauma inducing. But I see you where you're coming from it's kind of like that but more scary
@@omairaluciano3509 totally agree I would feel terrified thanks for pointing it out tho♡
Yes
Yes
Oh this just ripped my whole heart out.😭😭😭
same 😞
Did the emails finally stopped🙋
I'm sorry wrong comment 😁
THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME WHY PEOPLE DON'T JUST SAY IT THANK YOU I watched lots of videos like these before and I don't get why people don't speak up now I know thank you I am very sorry for whatever happened to you you literally almost got kidnapped I hope you're okay and that man gets what he deserves
When I saw the thumbnail I was high key scared like FR-
author states: I was more feminine looking than most. Artist draws him to look totally like a dude...
I mean he looked sort of androgynous. He’s also Asian and they’re typically stereotyped to be more feminine than other people
@@gabriellegoodwin4422 I mean my kind has naturally less sexual dimorphism than Caucasian or Black people LMAO
Wait Yoonbum?
Shiii this might the deleted chapter of Killing Stalking
This is worse than killing stalking because the guy never liked the guy who groomed him also killing stalking is not real I mean I like killing stalking but only because it's not a real story this however happens in real life and it's not like killing stalking it's much worse it's also more scary because like makes you think what if it happened to you it wouldn't be like what you thought it would be like it wouldn't be like hot and all that stuff it's just be scary terrifying and Trauma inducing. But I see you where you're coming from it's kind of like that but more scary
@@omairaluciano3509 I know it's bad and I apologize for making a joke like that I wasn't thinking I'm sorry, I'm sorry for those who also have been going through things like this they never deserve to have thing like that happen to them. I'm sorry for them I really am never should have ever suffer from that and they should know it's was never their fault, yet again I'm sorry..
its a common hairstyle, and anyone can get kidnaped. plus that sounds kind of insensitive. my bad if you were thinking of something else
I love this art style!
Terrible circumstance aside, you're an amazing storyteller
Victim shaming is a favorite tool of the narcissist. Truly.
Stay Strong!👍
I would have called the Police and turned in the online messages - no matter what, I will speak up. My Mom taught me to never let anyone intimidate me.
But still he was in the military
this video just popped up in my recommendations, when tomorrow i have to go to university again. idk what this universe is doing, but this guy at our university who already has a girlfriend keeps on poking my bare arm, waist and thighs. i initially thought it was a friendly gesture that everybody else do, even though it was uncomfortable for me. i barely interact with people, especially men cuz im having panic attacks when poeple crowd around me. but in order to get through this and to make a friend circle at university i kept on holding myself up, until one day i was resting in the university lobby area he approached me and scratched my thighs. i felt disgusted. i stood up and walked away. then i kept on ignoring him and tried my best to stay away from him. but still he comes and pokes me. i dont know if im overreacting and its just a normal friendly gesture. i just want him to stop doing this.
bro this is soo good bro nice job 👍 👍
Bro! Guys that look feminine or girls who look a bit masculine doesnt mean that they should be some sort of toy! That guy shouldn't have tooken advantage of this boy. Because of how feminine someone looks, doesnt mean that they would want to be used, abused or played. Imma bet that no matter how feminine he looked,I'm sure as heck, he is tough! And anyone shouldnt have to go through this. You are strong, and I value that🖤💙🖤💙🖤💙🖤!
He’s not real
It does
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The channel name: *Minute Videos*
Video length: *ten minutes*
Jesus christ. Being gay or looking feminine doesn't justify SA or getting groomed. The people saying it was cute or that the victim wanted it disgusts me.
As a non binary
I cannot take this
As a friend of someone who has been through this...
What tf does non binary have to do with it?
@@googleuser3163 uh I just said that I have a friend who has experienced this uhm