My BF Is Obsessed With My Skinny Room Mate

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июл 2020
  • "You know those girls in the club? They have great bodies. And what about your roommate Steph? Now that's a perfect body, why don't you lose weight so you can look like her?"
    A couple of years ago I met this cute guy while I was writing in my local coffee shop. The second he walked in, my attention went right to him and I was so smitten. He looked over at me and I instantly broke eye contact, I couldn't help it - he was so darn cute. I ducked my head below my computer screen, peeping to get a glimpse of him and his chocolate brown hair. You see, I'm a writer and so my imagination reaaaally runs wild. And boy, did I already envision all sorts of things between him and I. He was just so cute that I couldn't let him walk by. So, I gathered up the courage to go speak to him.
    "Hi, I'm Ana!" I introduced myself. He greeted me back and told me his name. He told me that he was new in town and looking for new friends. "Oh really? I'm quite a little hermit, but I'd be happy to show you around!" I said, trying to hide the excitement in my voice.
    We got into a very nice conversation and even went out for a walk together. We had so much in common and I told him all about the short story I had been working on. We hit it off right away and exchanged numbers.
    After that day, we spent a lot of time together and got to know each other a lot better. He would always come over to my place and I even introduced him to my roommate Steph, we always had a blast hanging out as a trio. I really enjoyed his company and always imagined how nice it'd be if he was my boyfriend. And alas, one night the three of us were hanging out watching Avengers together before he finally popped the question - I was so thrilled!
    One day out of nowhere, he started telling me about the girls he saw in the club. "You know those girls in the club? They have great bodies. And what about your roommate Steph? Now that's a perfect body, why don't you lose weight so you can look like her?". After that day, he kept telling me that he didn’t like chubby girls and that he wasn't physically attracted to me anymore. I didn't know what to think or feel. One moment he'd be so affectionate and then switch to being really cold the next. I kept questioning myself, thinking.. Does he really love me? Is he gonna break up with me because I'm too big for his liking like those beautiful skinny girls?
    One day out of nowhere, he started telling me about the girls he saw in the club. "You know those girls in the club? They have great bodies. And what about your roommate Steph? Now that's a perfect body, why don't you lose weight so you can look like her?". After that day, he kept telling me that he didn’t like chubby girls and that he wasn't physically attracted to me anymore. I didn't know what to think or feel. One moment he'd be so affectionate and then switch to being really cold the next. I kept questioning myself, thinking.. Does he really love me? Is he gonna break up with me because I'm too big for his liking?
    I was so confused... So, I told him that I'd try my best to lose weight and to look better. But because he kept saying all these harsh comments, I couldn’t help but get upset. Not to mention I felt so weird around my roommate Steph.
    I finally broke when he came over to my apartment one day. We all sat around the kitchen table, just chatting before I caught him looking at my roommate up and down while she put away dishes. What the heck! He just looked her UP AND DOWN right in front of me! I tried not to break down right there and then but I held it together.
    At this moment, I was starting to lose some weight, hoping he would come back to me because I was looking skinnier but he didn't.
    A while after our break up, I finally felt better and came to realize that he never loved me for who I am at all. Instead, he loved me for who he wanted me to be. The situation got me thinking. "Why was I giving my love to someone who wasn't going to appreciate it?
    My bf Is Obsessed With Obese Girls He Forced Me To be one
    We chose this story because we want to encourage people to speak up if something similar has happened to them and to seek help if they're still in such a situation. We hope this video will encourage people to feel empathy and compassion for those who have gone through such experiences. And we hope that it will encourage us all to do what we can to prevent these things from happening. Even if it does happen we want to encourage people to speak up for their own safety
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  • @digitalhavok4564
    @digitalhavok4564 4 года назад +5248

    Screw that guy, if he only loves you for the body then he doesn’t deserve you, you are your own person, it’s your life and your body alone. You shouldn’t change yourself

    • @bloqn7165
      @bloqn7165 4 года назад +34

      it’s a story...

    • @inFAMOUS_Art
      @inFAMOUS_Art 4 года назад +87

      Let's stop pretending that living an unhealthy lifestyle is okay. Nobody wants heart attacks at 25

    • @snail2426
      @snail2426 4 года назад +9

      @@inFAMOUS_Art Thanks for this reply 👏

    • @lorainejustice
      @lorainejustice 4 года назад +46

      @@bloqn7165 So what? Hes or shes speaking Facts

    • @brothaantone8286
      @brothaantone8286 4 года назад +6

      Exactly

  • @ella-ej1no
    @ella-ej1no 4 года назад +837

    Alternate title: *"My boyfriend is basically society."*

    • @Levioletz
      @Levioletz 3 года назад +3

      Hahah xD

    • @shushi_shann7257
      @shushi_shann7257 3 года назад +3

      Its Really Diamond YES

    • @ytuser3571
      @ytuser3571 3 года назад +2

      Yeah:(

    • @AshleyMires
      @AshleyMires 3 года назад

      I don’t think so lol

    • @-almxndd-5552
      @-almxndd-5552 3 года назад +4

      If your not skinny enough you get bullied. But even if you are skinny, you still get bullied. What is wrong with society

  • @Max-vn1pm
    @Max-vn1pm 4 года назад +2818

    Girl, you gotta focus on yourself, dont change ya self for a guy, you're beautiful just the way you are

    • @Dmal1755
      @Dmal1755 4 года назад +16

      She obviously not if he’s doin what he doin encourage people to betta themselves not to stay the same way that’s hurtin them

    • @jaybruno7125
      @jaybruno7125 4 года назад +21

      It's an animated girl plus there is a 0% chance the animated girl is gonna read your umm weird comment🤣🤣

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад +14

      Bacon Bandito You’re stupid. Please stop.

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад +12

      Bacon Bandito You might not be stupid, but the statements you made contain pure stupidity.

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад +9

      Bacon Bandito And if you read all of my replies, I have gave you reasoning. I need YOUR reasoning.

  • @juliajohnson6629
    @juliajohnson6629 4 года назад +506

    Ok, but the fact that she had the courage to speak to him- while I woulda just looked down and let the opportunity pass 😂

    • @hairyspiders407
      @hairyspiders407 4 года назад +23

      Yea bro....I'd just think about it then they'd leave

    • @humblejune5844
      @humblejune5844 4 года назад +12

      One of those rare opportunities where being corageous actually turned out not be worth it. Like you know how people say to go and talk to them and that they wont say anything that mean to you (in terms of crushes). This poor girl got just that. But that doesnt mean it will always be that way. I am just glad she learned to love herself

  • @hilo8018
    @hilo8018 4 года назад +1634

    "No one's ugly, we just live in a judgemental society"
    -Kim Namjoon

    • @nibbax7772
      @nibbax7772 4 года назад +20

      Kim jong un Said this?!

    • @hilo8018
      @hilo8018 4 года назад +37

      Nibba X The Namjoon I’m talking about is from BTS

    • @luna_eclipse825
      @luna_eclipse825 4 года назад +39

      Namjoon do be speaking FACTS.

    • @allkill8747
      @allkill8747 4 года назад +12

      Nibba X kim namjoon leader of bts

    • @lostar781
      @lostar781 3 года назад +1

      I beat you too it.

  • @dejagarcia213
    @dejagarcia213 4 года назад +1764

    Gurl if that was me when he said to lose weight i would've told him *BOI BYE* 😂😜😠👏buh bye thank u next

    • @isthatalycia.4979
      @isthatalycia.4979 4 года назад +32

      Yesss this energy rn is astronomical , is way out of this world 🌎 period 🙌 😂

    • @jesuschrist1817
      @jesuschrist1817 4 года назад +11

      Period

    • @umashiewoh9819
      @umashiewoh9819 4 года назад +8

      PERIODT

    • @ieatpancreas2005
      @ieatpancreas2005 4 года назад +35

      I'd lose weight, work hard for myself and then break up 😌💅

    • @jayyli7204
      @jayyli7204 4 года назад +7

      Ikr some people actually take his Man opinion

  • @urmom6421
    @urmom6421 4 года назад +285

    if a male or female ask you to change your physical appearance, they're not for you.

    • @denkikaminari256
      @denkikaminari256 3 года назад +6

      Yeah, they would love you the same way you are
      Sorry if i went too deep

    • @huhh6969
      @huhh6969 3 года назад +3

      He just preferred another body type smh and he's not even exactly the bully here. Both of them are at wrong here. She Should have loved herself and he shouldn't have forced her to lose weight but if he just doesn't like her body doesn't make him a bad person cause it's called a personal preference.

    • @iiamdiannaxd2968
      @iiamdiannaxd2968 3 года назад +15

      @@huhh6969 - If he didn’t like her body in the first place then he shouldn’t have wasted his time being with her🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @haloqueen934
      @haloqueen934 3 года назад +10

      Blossom Sky but he was constantly comparing her to other women. I understand preference but if you’re going to be with a person that’s not your type that doesn’t give you the right to say stuff like that

    • @iiamdiannaxd2968
      @iiamdiannaxd2968 3 года назад +5

      @@haloqueen934 // Period .

  • @juliajohnson6629
    @juliajohnson6629 4 года назад +843

    Anyone else notice that instead of ‘ebay’ the website she bought her outfit from was called ‘eboy’

    • @ceileen
      @ceileen 4 года назад +22

      THANKS FOR REALIZING THAT XD

    • @davindestroyer
      @davindestroyer 4 года назад +13

      The Happy Moose Wreck it Ralph 2 reference?

    • @Isabella-gp5fw
      @Isabella-gp5fw 4 года назад +32

      its bc she doesn't want to get copied righted

    • @juliajohnson6629
      @juliajohnson6629 4 года назад +5

      Isabella 7 I know that, but the fact that it says eboy is funni

    • @bobdebouwer1573
      @bobdebouwer1573 4 года назад

      The Happy Moose “Boi”

  • @dontcallmedaddyk5300
    @dontcallmedaddyk5300 4 года назад +2891

    people need to realise a body is a body, its perfect the way it is
    edit:oml thank you for the likes

  • @princemoon9157
    @princemoon9157 4 года назад +1517

    She isn't fat. That's a totally normal body shape🤷‍♂️😅😊

    • @leannerodriguez1484
      @leannerodriguez1484 4 года назад +83

      @marahuyo "fat" is a pretty broad term, it isn't a diagnosis and more opinionated. I think you meant overweight/obese.

    • @alliyahantar493
      @alliyahantar493 4 года назад +21

      @@leannerodriguez1484 Isnt obese a lil harsh? I was called obese and the whole class laughed at me in school when i was 14.

    • @alliyahantar493
      @alliyahantar493 4 года назад +6

      And im just 15 at the moment

    • @rein5414
      @rein5414 4 года назад +5

      @marahuyo Atleast someone is spitting fax unlike others making health as an excuse for them to change their appearance.

    • @eggsdietdiary
      @eggsdietdiary 4 года назад +7

      Its a cartoon

  • @juliasgreenery4903
    @juliasgreenery4903 4 года назад +223

    If your bf is looking at other girls, why dont you just break up with him

    • @sekayecampbell2247
      @sekayecampbell2247 3 года назад +15

      Sometimes it just feels like you’re the problem, not the

    • @savviimctooty8415
      @savviimctooty8415 3 года назад +9

      I was in a similar relationship. A guy asked me out, and me not ever being in a relationship, panicked and said "yes."
      The dude was hella creepy and to put it short he manipulated me mentally and physically. Even though he was a dirt bag, I still wanted to be with him after he broke up.
      Sometimes victims can hold connections with their abusers and the same goes for a relationship.

    • @kittylover9790
      @kittylover9790 3 года назад +7

      It's hard when u think u love someone...and u become so obsessed with trying to get to like u because u start seeing the imperfections they see... talking from experience sadly☹️

    • @kittylover9790
      @kittylover9790 3 года назад

      @@savviimctooty8415 sme sis same

    • @kittylover9790
      @kittylover9790 3 года назад

      @@sekayecampbell2247 exactly

  • @meanah_girl
    @meanah_girl 4 года назад +439

    The moral of this is to love yourself. You don’t have to change your appearance or personality to be liked or loved by that specific person. Just be you and you will attract the right people who love you for you

  • @SevereWeatherCenter
    @SevereWeatherCenter 4 года назад +459

    I am so sorry about that.
    I also have weight issues and I also have autism and borderline personality disorder. Because of that I’ve never even been in a relationship and I am 28 years old and still looking for one.
    After many years of being alone and single, I finally found a girl that I really like and we are now best friends. While we can’t see each other physically because of the coronavirus we talk almost every day and just like myself she’s also overweight. I don’t care about how a person looks because what matters is a persons personality not their body.
    And I am so sorry that you also have to do in your rejection just because of your appearance. I would rather except a person for the kind personality no matter how they look because I’m a very kind person myself but I soon as They see my weight and find out about my disabilities they reject me immediately no matter how kind I’ve been to them.
    Body shaming/race and especially Disability shaming is one of the most cruel things anyone can ever do. I’m glad you’re rid of that horribly toxic person and I hope that you will find someone who will make you happy for the rest of your life and I hope he will never be happy for how he treated you. I hope the guilt will eat him up until he decides to crawl back and apologize.
    We will one day find Our soulmates and for some it’s quick and easy but for some like myself it’s harder than others but we will all one day find the person that will complete.
    I wish you the best. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

    • @Black-ys5fo
      @Black-ys5fo 4 года назад +4

      no

    • @pr0dza
      @pr0dza 4 года назад +5

      love that you edited “first” ❤️

    • @SevereWeatherCenter
      @SevereWeatherCenter 4 года назад +5

      Black Have you refreshed the comments?

    • @SevereWeatherCenter
      @SevereWeatherCenter 4 года назад +2

      Peach scone pop. Thank you so much. It’s that this video is very personal to me

    • @patricecipher6457
      @patricecipher6457 4 года назад +1

      Lovely 😍😁😁😁

  • @lilkeyla5769
    @lilkeyla5769 4 года назад +321

    bruh I would've broken up with him from the beginning instead of waiting around

    • @htonuhempu1938
      @htonuhempu1938 3 года назад +1

      True but in reality it’s lot more difficult to just break up and move on 😭😭

    • @Hello-ok9xx
      @Hello-ok9xx 3 года назад

      @@htonuhempu1938 they weren’t even together she said they were friends

  • @theodoro3188
    @theodoro3188 4 года назад +245

    *Girls, it doesn't matter what you look like, you're all pretty both in and out*

    • @loreleistanley1832
      @loreleistanley1832 4 года назад +10

      Finally 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @cyanthestickman9933
      @cyanthestickman9933 4 года назад +16

      Except for karens

    • @noemiepalan7247
      @noemiepalan7247 4 года назад +6

      We know that, but the world is still judging.

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад +2

      Bacon Bandito And the way you support the guy in the video. You have so many flaws, yet I don’t pick each and every one of them out.

    • @lacelolita
      @lacelolita 4 года назад

      Bacon Bandito i am friends with plenty of people that other would find unattractive. sometimes i find them unattractive, but the more and more i talk to that person, the more attracted i am to them simply because i find their company appealing. so no, not everything is about looks. i do not understand why you are in everyone’s comments trying to defend the guy’s horrible actions

  • @Kyle_765
    @Kyle_765 4 года назад +228

    Here before the title gets changed

  • @adamarfa1417
    @adamarfa1417 4 года назад +786

    The girls idea of love “The key to everything spicing up her love life candles”
    Thanks for the likes

    • @lilkeyla5769
      @lilkeyla5769 4 года назад +24

      girls who get candles are just vanillas' wanting to be kinky but are too nervous-

    • @snail2426
      @snail2426 4 года назад +3

      And a nurse costume

    • @gachaneko8257
      @gachaneko8257 4 года назад +2

      Shynight Same

    • @Sifya
      @Sifya 4 года назад +3

      If you used the candles on someone it would be spicy 😉

    • @Delulu_is_key
      @Delulu_is_key 4 года назад +8

      My idea of love is playing video games 😐

  • @tocabunny6130
    @tocabunny6130 3 года назад +9

    Y'all this passes a message that body shaming isn't cool.....judging someone by their physical appearance isn't cool......be proud of you're body....cause everyone is beautiful in their own way.....don't let someone's word bring you down

  • @lakaywatson3205
    @lakaywatson3205 4 года назад +123

    She really could’ve just broken up with him save lots of money and time 🤦🏽‍♀️.. lord

    • @hairyspiders407
      @hairyspiders407 4 года назад +11

      Well yea but a lot of people don't realize that until later

    • @randomperson529
      @randomperson529 3 года назад

      ikr soooo weak

    • @kozumikku.u4253
      @kozumikku.u4253 3 года назад +1

      She didn't want to do that bc she was in love with him

  • @lostar781
    @lostar781 4 года назад +3511

    Stream Dynamite.

    • @UFO339
      @UFO339 4 года назад +73

      Army!!!!

    • @samscenefordummies8706
      @samscenefordummies8706 4 года назад +61

      God, I get that you're trying to be nice but ugly people exist. Whether it's because they cant change how they look in any way or if they just dont care how they look, u g l y p e o p l e e x i s t

    • @Vivi-qj5ex
      @Vivi-qj5ex 4 года назад +206

      @@samscenefordummies8706 um- that's pretty offensive and rude.

    • @cinnaqwene9488
      @cinnaqwene9488 4 года назад +37

      Just Vivi of course it is, the truth hurts

    • @hyungwonspineapple685
      @hyungwonspineapple685 4 года назад +161

      @@samscenefordummies8706 and who defines the meaning of ugly? Don't state your opinion as a fact

  • @azaliea4797
    @azaliea4797 4 года назад +244

    There is no “perfect” body everybody is different and Theres a reason for that

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад +18

      Bacon Bandito Because if everyone was the same then there would be no such thing as uniqueness.

    • @Girlspam2006
      @Girlspam2006 4 года назад +1

      @@cuorzi3031 bravo

    • @anjanasaha6253
      @anjanasaha6253 4 года назад

      @@cuorzi3031 👏👏

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 4 года назад +2

      marahuyo true but apparently in 2020 obesity is healthy thanks to people like tess holiday

    • @barbtastic4208
      @barbtastic4208 4 года назад +1

      Omg yes and if everyone had the same "perfect" body life would be mad boringgggg

  • @yuraraina
    @yuraraina 4 года назад +104

    If that's what he wanted he should of went for a girl like that. Some guys are sad and think a women body is only reason to date someone. Why relationship don't last.

    • @vitiated1733
      @vitiated1733 4 года назад +7

      Bacon Bandito and some caused by both genders :(

    • @starsimmer4556
      @starsimmer4556 4 года назад

      @@vitiated1733 true

    • @mer200
      @mer200 4 года назад +4

      Happened to me. I broke up with my ex because he didn't even want to see me every week for like 2 days (okay, we had to travel 2.5 hours to see each other, 5 total, but we knew it beforehand) and he didn't care about my needs and what I wanted. He did showed me to his friends and he was like 'look at my gf, she is hot'. We had discussions and disagreements all the time, I just needed love and affection and I am more than something to show off.
      Another guy is trying to hit on me now, only because of my appearance, and i know that because he didn't even asks what my hobbies are for example 😂.
      Some men are just really into appearance, but of you aren't more attractive than average and want to get a girl that is more attractive than average, the chances are small you will get that girl (or guy, let's look at both sides). I'd rather tell the truth than lying.
      For me, intelligence and personality are priorities though

    • @mer200
      @mer200 3 года назад +1

      @1 sub before tomorrow? c: truetrue but hard to find them.sometimes haha

  • @brandontinch7421
    @brandontinch7421 4 года назад +129

    Her ex-boyfriend is a coward who won't listen to reason!! I have been on that path too!

    • @addisonboucher4358
      @addisonboucher4358 4 года назад +2

      Boyfriend- Breaks up over text
      Me- COWARD! You think your so manly when you dont even have the balls to confront me IRL!

    • @jindrichsander9555
      @jindrichsander9555 4 года назад

      @@addisonboucher4358 lol I was in a long term relationship with a girl who was on the other side of the world, telling it to her face would cost me great deal of money than saying it over text, this is not about cowardness it's about it being worse than over text for both of us; imagine me flying across the world for hours just to come to the meeting up place saying:"surprise! we are breaking up" and then flying again for a few hours back.

  • @itsyourgirlsajni4499
    @itsyourgirlsajni4499 4 года назад +264

    I always watched story's of girls trying to look skinny while I am here trying to gain weight 😭

    • @marshmallowmuffin9818
      @marshmallowmuffin9818 4 года назад +19

      Ukr!!!! I'm skinny trying to gain weight and damn she is trying to lose.. Girl love yourself

    • @vievie3661
      @vievie3661 4 года назад +18

      me too! I have to for health reasons, but it's so difficult.. I hope you'll hit your goal!

    • @mer200
      @mer200 4 года назад +9

      Same! I will end up in a hospital if I will lose 5-10 kg's more, so I have to gain weight

    • @rosie5348
      @rosie5348 4 года назад +6

      Trying to gain weight is better than trying to lose weight, lucky 😭

    • @mer200
      @mer200 4 года назад +12

      @@rosie5348 At least people don't want to throw you in an anorexia clinic 🤷. Even my mom thinks I am devoloping anorexia because I don't eat a lot for the last couple of weeks (I am not feeling well so I am not even able to eat a lot)

  • @kyro8978
    @kyro8978 4 года назад +10

    no one :
    this girl: im gonna wear a nurse outfit when he comes over

  • @brenda0406
    @brenda0406 4 года назад +84

    Yo I’ve been watching them for like everrrrrrr, they are the best animation channel

    • @weirdarchetype
      @weirdarchetype 4 года назад +5

      Agree but i have to say its not animated

    • @cinnaqwene9488
      @cinnaqwene9488 4 года назад +2

      They’re just a bunch of copy cats from story booth but ok

    • @der5565
      @der5565 4 года назад

      Cinna Qwene these videos r more professional than storybooth but ok

    • @cinnaqwene9488
      @cinnaqwene9488 4 года назад +1

      donteatmyeggospls donteatmyeggospls please tell me how “MY BFF is obsessed with my skinny roommate” and “I do things with my dog at night , when no one is watching” is more professional than an original, real story masterpiece made with ACTUAL animation. I’m not disagreeing, just asking 😶

    • @alwaysanaldc449
      @alwaysanaldc449 4 года назад

      Cinna Qwene these are real life stories so they don’t copy

  • @mattiemonster900
    @mattiemonster900 4 года назад +26

    and thats on toxic relationship

  • @BigBrotherGnE
    @BigBrotherGnE 4 года назад +17

    "You are the boss of your own happiness."
    I actually love that quote.

  • @josephbailey4421
    @josephbailey4421 4 года назад +29

    These videos are outta pocket man 😂😂😂

  • @timaj6673
    @timaj6673 3 года назад +3

    This is the realest one so far😭. It’s sad because it happens to a lot of girls who don’t deserve to be treated like that. 😔😔

  • @hatespeople8402
    @hatespeople8402 4 года назад +8

    If only it was that easy to make a friend you have a crush on

  • @nemma3465
    @nemma3465 4 года назад +73

    She should have left him in the first place, not the other way round. Yes, towards the end, she eventually did learn to love herself. Though I can see that thoughout this story, she was really desperate for him... =/

  • @wolfythespacewolf6969
    @wolfythespacewolf6969 4 года назад +101

    This is why she should've broke up with him instead of pleaseing him just because she thought it'll strengthen their love. As soon your lover starts to fade away and not love you for YOU is when you break up and find someone who'll love the true stuff. That physical stuff isnt the importance of a relationship

    • @wolfythespacewolf6969
      @wolfythespacewolf6969 4 года назад +2

      @Bacon Bandito false information, I dont care about looks I only care about personality. Looks dont matter to me

    • @wolfythespacewolf6969
      @wolfythespacewolf6969 4 года назад

      @Bacon Bandito its people like you that cause people to be cautious of showing their faces, and why most people tend to think looks are everything. Looks are NOT everything, looks dont matter to a lot of people. I've dated 2 people before that weren't good looking, but were absolutely the sweetest

    • @lacelolita
      @lacelolita 4 года назад

      Bacon Bandito hey uhm,, did you know that everyone has a different perception of beauty,,, and not everyone is the same,,, yeah

    • @leannerodriguez1484
      @leannerodriguez1484 4 года назад

      @Bacon Bandito the term isn't universal, it's more so "conventional"

    • @huhh6969
      @huhh6969 3 года назад

      @Bacon Bandito yes and I know that Looks do matter but honestly, it's useless cause some people don't want to admit that they themselves do judge thinks on the basis of looks cause that's the first thing you see.

  • @zuesushh8861
    @zuesushh8861 4 года назад +899

    I'm sorry if I offend anyone...but wearing a nurse outfit for attention is the stupidest thing ever

    • @bubikoja
      @bubikoja 4 года назад +113

      No need to apologise she was an idiot

    • @tashabell5597
      @tashabell5597 4 года назад +24

      Fr😭😭😭😭

    • @greatpainter6300
      @greatpainter6300 4 года назад +31

      Yes, I strongly agree

    • @msheoiko254
      @msheoiko254 4 года назад +53

      You guys are kinda dumb it's a costume not a actual nurse outfit that's why she said naughty!

    • @msheoiko254
      @msheoiko254 4 года назад +44

      @@bubikoja No she isn't She was inlove and it blind her. Happens to the best of us. And that "nurse outfit" was not a real nurse outfit it's was what you wear to look Sexy!

  • @sal2k
    @sal2k 4 года назад +116

    Now everyone sing with me
    Instrument playing*
    Yoouuuuuu arrreeee beautiful
    Thank u thank u

    • @user-yj9bc8gd3b
      @user-yj9bc8gd3b 4 года назад +2

      OOOOooOooOoOoooOooOoooooooOOOOO!!!!~~~~

    • @chungtienvan
      @chungtienvan 3 года назад +1

      LALALALALALLALALALLALALALLALALALALALALALAALLALALALALLALALALALALALLALALALALALLA~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    • @clement3333
      @clement3333 3 года назад +1

      Lilililililililililililililililililililililililililililililililili

    • @fredkojijrteramoto4728
      @fredkojijrteramoto4728 3 года назад

      *clap* *clap* *clap*

    • @fredkojijrteramoto4728
      @fredkojijrteramoto4728 3 года назад

      cheeee ouuuu

  • @PytBlxck
    @PytBlxck 3 года назад +1

    “You are the boss of your own happiness” i really felt that in the heart ❤️😭

  • @QueenEspeon96
    @QueenEspeon96 4 года назад +17

    Ladies please note that if a guy "loves" you for his mental picture of your body; ditch him before your heart gets broken. That's not love, that's simply being manipulative and disrespectful.
    The same can be said for the men who go through this.
    To find someone who loves you inside and out is something truly special. It's also quite rare to come by. If you got someone who is loving, caring, honest, and respectful; don't let them go

  • @jdartsandgraphshoe463
    @jdartsandgraphshoe463 4 года назад +4

    Omgg this broke my heart ♥️ he is a piece of trash and he doesn't deserve you. The moment a guy tells you to be something your not or don't aspire to be leave.. Go!! He is not worth your time, energy, love, or affection period!

  • @ScarletFever109
    @ScarletFever109 4 года назад +4

    I know how that feels? My ex looked at other girls thinking they were greater than me. My crush even thought everyone else was better than me.

  • @brittneymcdaid7960
    @brittneymcdaid7960 3 года назад +3

    She probably looked DAMN FINE in that nurse outfit

  • @katsumemagino4255
    @katsumemagino4255 4 года назад +5

    Don't change because someone tells you too, improve because you want to, change and improve are two drastically different words

  • @yukichan3445
    @yukichan3445 4 года назад +23

    What's the novel that she wrote I love novel
    If anyone knows please send me a like 😊😊

  • @laserasia4601
    @laserasia4601 4 года назад +1

    OK but why are you staring directly at my soul?

  • @happycamper1595
    @happycamper1595 4 года назад +1

    You have no idea how MUCH I need to see and hear this. Even though I’m no longer in my 20’s and 120 something. I’m in my 50’s and a 150 something I’m starting to just like and love myself. It has taken a lot of Bullcrap to get where I am. But I’m very proud to be the woman that I am today she has come a VERY long way.

  • @cooljai4837
    @cooljai4837 4 года назад +3

    Love urself for who u are because u are the best of urself

  • @adamarfa1417
    @adamarfa1417 4 года назад +21

    Why is this the title

  • @lorraineyoung6029
    @lorraineyoung6029 4 года назад +1

    I love the message behind this, very inspirational 💖

  • @user-nw9bz7vg9y
    @user-nw9bz7vg9y 3 года назад +1

    "Change should not be for anyone else except yourself" that hit me hard

  • @uplift5863
    @uplift5863 4 года назад +20

    That dude was a straight up Jerk! It'll hit him like a ton of bricks one day when he comes to realize how bad he has been treating people. Unfortunately much of culture promotes those types of attitudes towards each other and how we value people. I hope more women realize to never put up with any talk like that from any guy no matter what and that the guys would learn to treat women with more honor, love and respect. Thanks for sharing these vids, I think they are great education tools.

    • @folasademandiela9482
      @folasademandiela9482 4 года назад

      UPLIFT861 INSTAGRAM one day he is going to look at her again and wished he wanted her back. It will be too late for his ass.

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад

      Bacon Bandito Okay? So, were talking about THIS relationship, not others.

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад

      Bacon Bandito So his behavior is not justifiable.

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад +1

      Bacon Bandito And please don’t try to make the guy in this video look like a victim, he’s a douche.

    • @folasademandiela9482
      @folasademandiela9482 4 года назад

      Obi Thingy he really is. Karma will bite him in the ass one day

  • @willowsliquideyeliner7537
    @willowsliquideyeliner7537 3 года назад +1

    If ANYONE treated me like this, I’d throw hands immediately. Girls, and boys, please please don’t let some one change you, and most certainly don’t change for someone else. Your body is perfect they way it is. Your beautiful, and amazing.

  • @lovelybird963
    @lovelybird963 4 года назад +20

    Guys with these mindsets don’t deserve a lover a body sizes deserve love I’ve been thru these before and now have a boyfriend tht loves me in Nd out get u a man not a little boy

    • @mmmmyeah1849
      @mmmmyeah1849 4 года назад +1

      @Bacon Bandito crying, empowered?

    • @leannerodriguez1484
      @leannerodriguez1484 4 года назад +2

      @Bacon Banditoagreed. but I think it's because beauty standards are generally applied to women. (not saying that men are at fault for that) which is probably why it's "empowering". I don't think we should empower obesity but we shouldn't degrade a person that's obese either.

  • @xaella287
    @xaella287 4 года назад +28

    It doesn't really matter how your body looks like, just the way you move it.

    • @xaella287
      @xaella287 4 года назад +9

      If you don't get it, I meant even if your overweight or just a Lil chubby if you are confident about yourself everyone will see you differently except when your not.

    • @realdripgod3463
      @realdripgod3463 4 года назад +6

      i thought u meant if u can twerk lmao

    • @shebajoy6080
      @shebajoy6080 3 года назад +1

      Hahahahahahahahaha me to

  • @charkatslife
    @charkatslife 4 года назад +14

    LMFAO what is this 🤣 she really said “smitten” bahahah

  • @hadiazaman6707
    @hadiazaman6707 3 года назад +2

    some times if you take a lot of stress that can also cause you to become over weighted. But just bear in mind that no one is perfect. so you shouldn't compare yourself to other people. P.S loved your story

  • @HeartOfArt7
    @HeartOfArt7 4 года назад

    I love the message at the end. That was beautiful 👌🏻💗

  • @lanettecaldwell8517
    @lanettecaldwell8517 4 года назад +12

    I cried a lot while watching this video... And I'm not a emotional person, but this was ssoooo relatable, like basically the same thing happened to me a while ago... And this had me realize a lot about me, and who I wanted to be, instead of who I really am...

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад

      Bacon Bandito And? Being emotional isn’t bad. Lmao.

    • @marialilyquiamco6921
      @marialilyquiamco6921 4 года назад

      @Bacon Bandito i see u replying to sooo many comments lol

    • @sadafjamal9594
      @sadafjamal9594 4 года назад +2

      @@marialilyquiamco6921 yeah and obi thingy following him everywhere to blast everyone's comment section with petty fights.

    • @leannerodriguez1484
      @leannerodriguez1484 4 года назад

      @Bacon Bandito being an emotional person ≠ being emotional when it comes to a certain topic.

  • @audreybethp5906
    @audreybethp5906 4 года назад +4

    Me: I just want to be skinny
    Also me: *eats five biscuits while watching this*

    • @Chero.g
      @Chero.g 4 года назад

      Ate a whole bowl of biscuits

  • @mli-vt7rr
    @mli-vt7rr 3 года назад

    dude your BEAUTIFUL. If anyone tells you to change yourself just because they don’t like you the way you are, leave them, don’t change yourself for nobody. ily

  • @nadwdh5809
    @nadwdh5809 3 года назад +2

    This video really brought me confidence, and I’m sure it gave a lot of other people confidence. Also, looks never last, so f that guy for loving who he wanted you to be.

  • @pusbabe
    @pusbabe 4 года назад +22

    I had a boyfriend like this when I was a teenager. It messed me up so badly I developed an eating disorder to get skinnier and my self esteem was a zero. It took me YEARS to recover.

  • @Sym6969
    @Sym6969 4 года назад +49

    Pff if he told me that "you don't look good anymore" he would've left my house with a broken jaw and a huge break up😚😚☺☺

  • @thatoneheifer6034
    @thatoneheifer6034 4 года назад +1

    Girl I am so sorry u had to go throw that and I am glad you are happy with your self and I am glad you got out of that toxic relationship.

  • @soggytostito
    @soggytostito 3 года назад +1

    Someone should like you for who you are. Not someone they want you to be. Don’t change yourself for anyone else.

  • @goliath0586
    @goliath0586 4 года назад +7

    I swear this is an updated version of another story they posted

  • @georgei2480
    @georgei2480 4 года назад +3

    This story is sad of course, but I think the two take ways here are: better communication between you and your partner, and finding common ground to create a mutual relationship. From the perspective of the guy, who cares. You can't make someone like you, if you're sad because of a breakup, you have the right to be sad. likewise, he has the right to leave and deal with his emotion as he feels fit. As long as he isn't breaking the law, you should both handle the issue as adults and get over it.

  • @mekhelvsp3615
    @mekhelvsp3615 3 года назад +1

    girl don change for anybody ur perfect in ur own way💕✨

  • @user-dt4eh1vp5v
    @user-dt4eh1vp5v 3 года назад +2

    look, everyone is saying that society is cruel and judgemental, and to love yourself or that you’re beautiful the way you are. But it’s not as easy as it sounds. It’s not about loving yourself, because we are never the way we want to be. We will always have more and more goals. It’s about changing yourself for *you* . Not for anyone else but *you* .It’s about knowing your weaknesses and strengths and take advantage of them. This is just about your body too.

  • @taniaawwwd1257
    @taniaawwwd1257 4 года назад +3

    People trying to be scary :*candles*
    People trying to spice up their relationship:*candles*

  • @Kira_Austin_and_Friends
    @Kira_Austin_and_Friends 4 года назад +49

    Okay....it doesn’t matter if you are fat skinny
    It doesn’t matter if you are bisexual gay or lesbian
    You are AMAZING and BEAUTIFUL you are PERFECT just being yourself you are beautiful no matter what people say about you
    Always keep positive! kick out the negativity and you are loved no matter what! ❤️💖💗💝♥️💝

    • @ohxyoyxoyxohx6949
      @ohxyoyxoyxohx6949 4 года назад +1

      We need more people like you in this world!

    • @noscopedjfk920
      @noscopedjfk920 4 года назад +7

      if you are fat you are unhealthy then you should try to lose some pounds if someone doesnt want to be with someone who is fat then good on them they should find someone who cares about their body

    • @Hepsicles
      @Hepsicles 4 года назад

      😂😂😂 lmfao

    • @cuorzi3031
      @cuorzi3031 4 года назад

      NoScopedJFK 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @takeoutpotato8207
      @takeoutpotato8207 4 года назад

      @@noscopedjfk920 ... Your point is???

  • @iyamuidowu8902
    @iyamuidowu8902 4 года назад

    This channel is so much better and more sense then animated videos

  • @esmevecsey1756
    @esmevecsey1756 3 года назад

    This made my cry. This is a so beautiful story! Gives me so much confidence!

  • @beauty2333
    @beauty2333 3 года назад +2

    Never again will I let a man try to change me. Went through that with exes I dated in the past and i refuse to do it again. If someone wants you to be different to who you are then they don’t deserve a place in your life.

  • @d4c925
    @d4c925 4 года назад +3

    maybe because u wernt treating him like a king when he treated u like a queen

    • @d4c925
      @d4c925 4 года назад

      i know its probably fake

  • @ariessparkle5099
    @ariessparkle5099 4 года назад +2

    I love how these comments are so inspirational these videos being like minded people together.

  • @spongbobtrippin3385
    @spongbobtrippin3385 3 года назад +1

    omg the pain in her voice even if its not actually hers but whoever is speaking has alot of emotion in their voice 😌👍

  • @blueberry8848
    @blueberry8848 3 года назад +3

    He's an abuser. He liked making her feel bad about herself.

  • @kiayatwixxer4736
    @kiayatwixxer4736 2 года назад +3

    I love how the story has kinda the same script but, they changed some parts 😆
    But for real tho. No one is perfect 👌

  • @ashtonelsinghorst1913
    @ashtonelsinghorst1913 4 года назад +2

    “I was smitten” 😂 IDK why I’m laughing at that

  • @InstagramWorthy
    @InstagramWorthy 3 года назад +1

    This is such a great message 💖💞💖💞💖💞💖💞

  • @Animegirl-vl4di
    @Animegirl-vl4di 4 года назад +63

    Who here 2020

  • @SpaceyChaken
    @SpaceyChaken 4 года назад +5

    Meanwhile I have to convince my gf she isn’t fat

  • @trupti2658
    @trupti2658 3 года назад

    I have gone through the same thing and your confidence just gets low and low when all your crushes start falling for your skinny best friend or even date them and all you can do is put a fake smile and support them after getting rejected.

  • @filippavivianne
    @filippavivianne 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing this 🙏🏽❤️

  • @ceucaandreea5989
    @ceucaandreea5989 4 года назад +5

    Title: My bf is obsessed with my skinny room mate
    Me: Do you mean your ex bf, right?

  • @moediggamin7792
    @moediggamin7792 4 года назад +25

    Gee, there is no interesting comments rn

  • @lindseydiaz8472
    @lindseydiaz8472 4 года назад

    No one is ugly just different you go girl.

  • @bellareini3204
    @bellareini3204 3 года назад

    Girl don't listen to him you are perfect the way you are! be you! nobody can stop you from being you!

  • @peytonjordan5095
    @peytonjordan5095 4 года назад +8

    *Soooo when did he try and hook up with the roommate*

  • @CondorJustCondor
    @CondorJustCondor 4 года назад +5

    drop the whole boyfriend bruh

  • @hazeltropix1170
    @hazeltropix1170 3 года назад +1

    It’s also important to be aware of narcissistic traits. The hot and cold behavior is called trauma bonding. It makes it very hard to leave. This kind of person is out there but they are easier to detect when you know what to look out for.

  • @saadmansakib9002
    @saadmansakib9002 4 года назад

    Such a wise woman.

  • @Rhydumb_18
    @Rhydumb_18 4 года назад +11

    Girls needs to understand the person who really loves u would accept u the way u are and wouldn’t wannna change anything about u

  • @ylpinko98
    @ylpinko98 4 года назад +4

    Break up with him omg!!! A relationship that's healthy and meant for you will make u love yourself more not the other way around ugh!!!

  • @idkanymore9894
    @idkanymore9894 Год назад +1

    Relationships should build you up, not break you down. There’s good people in this world. You’ll find someone who loves and accepts you for you.

  • @pani_mehdipour
    @pani_mehdipour 3 года назад

    Wow so inspiring! Such a beautiful Story🥺

  • @Animegirl-vl4di
    @Animegirl-vl4di 4 года назад +15

    :me DAMN MEN STOP LOOK AT MAN :her ikr he BE LOOK AT THSE LAdys

  • @isabelalopez-vieyra2567
    @isabelalopez-vieyra2567 4 года назад +5

    Bruh this made me smile. My fiancé is tall,buff and has an amazing body shape. While I'm over here short and a bit chubby. It makes me feel like I'm not even in League,but mannnn he makes me feel so beautiful and special everytime he sees me. I'm grateful he loves me for who I am

  • @JohnJApanovitch
    @JohnJApanovitch 3 года назад

    These kinds of relationships are always toxic. You know, I have never seen why looks actually matter. If that stupid and horrible guy only wanted her for her body and looks, she should've just broken up with him on the spot. People should not need to change themselves just to make someone happy. I think everyone can look good, no matter how your body looks. As a writer myself, I have one piece of advice. Absolutely no one is perfect, no matter how famous, smart, or attractive they are. Without these imperfections, humanity just wouldn't be the same. We wouldn't have that equal balance. Never give in to what people judge you for. Be yourself, be original, and always stay confident and amazing. Remember this - your imperfections are what make you a human being. What a great video. I'm glad you're doing better without that...lowlife, unaccepting, and unfair person in your life. I'm glad you're accepting yourself.

  • @Irene-vb7xz
    @Irene-vb7xz 3 года назад

    Yeah girl that's the spirit!

  • @malissacurschmann1694
    @malissacurschmann1694 4 года назад +12

    Giirrrll find someone who’s going to love all of you. Every perfect imperfection. You’re beautiful inside and out. He has an ugly soul and he’ll probably be alone forever. His loss not yours.