My Boyfriend Doesn't Allow Me to be Beautiful
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- Опубликовано: 21 июл 2024
- Jake was the new guy in college and my friends were telling me that he liked me. I didn’t know anything about him except that he was the class clown and truthfully, I didn't even notice him. I had no interest in him at first as I've never really struggled to find attention whether or not I wanted it. I had a naturally curvy body and my chest was definitely... large. My lips were naturally plump and I had a button nose - yes the generic beauty you'd read about in papers. I mean, I was pretty. Let's face it. and yes, I'm sure you all find me very obnoxious by now but this story isn't about my beauty. It's about him.
I had finished my classes for the day and had made my way off campus when I noticed a tall figure running up from behind me "hey! you forgot your textbook - I couldn't let a pretty lady such as yourself go home without a study partner" hmf, cheesy already. Kinda cute though I thought. "Um thanks" I said and just as I turned around, I heard him say "what? no number? let me take you out and treat you to a meal, maybe while we study" he said confidently. I chuckled and knew he was full of it but he was so cute - he had this bad boy demeanor and I just really fell for it.
It didn't take long, but after that day, we connected instantly and opened up to each other about our lives, our friends, family, and other random things throughout our days. We'd speak for hours and for days eventually being more than just friends, I remember the day he asked me to his girlfriend he said: "you're mine now babe". He'd always keep me on the edge of my feet, surprising me with gifts, making me feel sexy and special. I didn't care that he was a little edgy, often nudging me with controlling comments and brushing them off as a joke - who cares right? he's just got a lot of character I would say to convince myself.
Things only started to get worse once he felt me pulling away. He began to obsess about the way other guys would look at me, often starting fights with anyone who even glanced my way. One night out when we left the cinemas, he grabbed another guy by the throat and told him he'd beat him for glancing our way. Then, once we'd get home, he'd turn to me. He'd tell me how much of a low life I was, asking for this attention by "walkin' around, showing off by big chest". He would tell me if I didn't start wearing more appropriate clothes that he'd find another girl to replace me.. one that was a 'good girl', the kind of girl you could take home to your parents. I don't know why I thought it was my fault, but he had a way of making me feel guilty for almost anything.
We would take “breaks” where we didn’t speak with each other for weeks until I apologized. It was incredibly difficult because the more we'd fight, and the more he blamed me, the harder I'd try and make things right - it was the opposite of what anyone should do. I liked him so much that I accepted his verbal words, and him yelling at me. It made me apologize more and want to help him, fix his problems, and change who I was to fit the person he wanted. I no longer dressed the way I wanted to, I was too afraid to catch any wrong attention and pay the price for it later.
"Stop it people are looking our way!" I pleaded "I don't care! you should have thought of that before you started taking off your clothes in front of everyone," he shouted. He then grabbed my jacket and forcefully tried zipping it back up "stop!" I kept saying, but he wouldn't listen. He grabbed my arm so tight I could no longer feel anything else but the pain, I panicked at the idea that it might even snap. I shrieked out loud as I could no longer hold the back pain and before we knew it, a crowd of people rushed over to separate us. I saw the look in people's eyes, the pity they felt and the disgust they had with him.. and that's how I knew that I needed to get the hell out of this relationship.
I cut all my ties with him and never spoke to him again after that day. It really took a lot for me to finally let him go and realize how much he tarnished my confidence. He broke me as a person and I had to fix myself again. Even though I am not as open as I was before, I am slowly finding my feet by surrounding myself with people that make me happy and more importantly, care about me the way I care about them. It's easy to judge from the outside but when you are not in a relationship like I was, it surrounds and consumes you without even knowing it. Just know, it's not your fault or your job to fix everything. You are growing every day and perfect the way you are.
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Coming out of a toxic relationship just destroys you as a person and not everyone really understands what you are going through
That guy gives us boys a bad name...
yeah- no not everyone is like that lmao
@@yxriilee5613 yes not everyone is like that but men and boys to get a bad name sometimes whether everyone is like the guy in this vid or not
@@yxriilee5613 yeh but people assume
im not even a boy but i see what you mean and where you are coming from
Jake wanted to control her. He is a jerk.
Jake is fake tho
Right
@@notprimrose263 he’s not fake stupidass
@@notprimrose263 it's called being crotrol
@@Emmie1223 he is fake. This story is fake. The script is practically copy pasted from another one of their videos ffs.
Bruh these stories are mad sus but entertaining
I agree lol
This channel has more realistic stories than others that I’ve found (besides Storybooth).
I really wanna believe that these stories are real.
@@kriptionite8412 these are submitted by strangers to them so like yeah they couldve been made up. none of the stories have physical proof of being true
@@lixkook9668
At least more realistic than stories like “I’M ALLERGIC TO AIR” or “I ATE SCORPIONS SO I COULD BE POISONOUS”
They claim it's a real story.
Unfortunately she was with a narcissist. The beginning was the love bombing, then came the devaluing, and gaslighting. No one should ever stay in a situation like that.
You meant the boyfriend right?
@@hail0947 Yes the boyfriend
@Charles Thigpen Charles Thigpen what your confused that guy said she was with a narcissist not she was the narcissist
@@Thetruth-hr6rt you obviously didn't read properly
This person did not choose to have a big chest ಠ,_｣ಠ
They're also fake tho...
She could've atleast take some more decent chlotes on.
@@notprimrose263 just because someone has a big chest, does not mean it’s fake
@@emelieemeraldlake3414 the clothes she was wearing was decent. Her boyfriend was a paranoid control freak
It’s sad that if you have big chest, you’re in dangerous. Same with lower back of the girls. :/
Also, it’s not fake. This story unfortunately happens a lot
That poor girl, she must've felt awful cause of him
Yes. I feel so bad for this fake character.
@@spookyboney8613 that's not how that works, but ok
@@notprimrose263 really ;-; yeh I know I was gonna delete this reply cuz I didn't see the whole video
That story might be fake but y'all need to realize these situations happen a lot.
Storybothe and minutevideos are real
True
How the hell you know it's fake is it because people jumped in, and helped her. Not all people would looked away you know, I wouldn't. My family would would is not our business but it doesn't matter if a man or woman lay a hand another preson trying to change who they are is unacceptable. Is like tryinng to change people taste like "I like dark fantasy and interesting children novel, like Magic Tree House I loved that as a kid." let say I have a partner saying "I shouldn't read dark novel since bad cotent and what not, would make snowflakes cry." and "I shouldn't read children novels since it's for kids" so what it's what I like to read and watch "I watch anime and cartoons" what next "I can't like not safe for work artist." I am not doing drugs or doing any illegal activity but these people want to morph you into a slave puppet and won't let you to be yourself. A parnter should resepct other features, what they wear and what they like "Expecet drugs and such than that is a different story which partner should help her or him out." Don't stick with them if don't like them who they turly are.
“This story isn’t about my beauty” hunny we see you
Yep we see a girl confident in her body and looks
@@user-cc9xt3lj2l these stories are fake
@@kati7276 lmao I wasn't talking abt the story, there are plenty of girls like that irl
I hated relationships like this i was in a similar controlling one but happy you finally see it through i hope life gets better for you and your self worth hun i just hope people who is or was going through this your not alone you still have time to get out and be back happy
I can relate to this 🙂
My ex slapped me twice in the middle of the busy road infront of everyone. First time I left him with a warning
Second time I dumped him ✌️
I'm so sorry for that.
@@katerinahrabovska4871 it's okay dear ❤️
@@aalemeenhasam4383 did you slap him back? I wish you did
Hell no slapping you in first wrong and in front of others should of slapped him back or nutshot and Sayonara him sister I am happy your relationship ended I hope you are having a better life than before with that trash bag
@@hulien4020 Naa I didn't. And I am glad I didn't coz what would have been the difference between me and him if I had done the same. He is disrespectful but I am not because I was raised well.
Why are people hurting others
Idk
🤢
For pleasure
why do people join isis?
Because they are selfish and believe that by living the delusion of inflicting pain on others (whether it be emotionally, physically, or psychologically) that it would make them feel better.
He doesn't deserve you
I hope you find a better person that treats you with respect and actually loves you big chest or not
I would love big chest
This is why I'm scared to get into a relationship
Break up with them
Can’t really blame you
@@God-Okami dude, their not in a relationship
@@MariaHernandez-ur4yg you misunderstood me I said up them if they start acting out cause just some people stay in bad relationships and start weird they need to go
You can't never fix a man, a man can learn that is all
Her: “I was pretty let’s face it”
Me: “Was?”
Yes, consistent tense.
Don’t know if they changed it already, but “My Jealous BF Didn’t Approve of My Giant Chest and Forced Me To Cover It”
I used to wear a size G bra before I had a breast reduction. My back and shoulders were constantly hurting and it was almost impossible to find clothes that fit. My surgery is still the best thing I’ve ever done
oh yes now this is happening
Then he says that sounded cooler in my head
This week on “That’s definitely not a made up story”
It’s real
even if it isn't, theres probably thousands of people that have gone through these exact same situations.
I know that usually the stories from this kinda RUclips channels sound fake as hell but this one is actually pretty realstic, I can see a lot of people facing problems like this so it's probably real.
I can confirm from personal experience that stories like these are unfortunately real...
Just because you’ve never been through that situation, don’t blame yourself because you’re the abuser of name calling people. MAYBE THE VICTIM OF WHAT YOU THINK IS THE “ABUSER”. THATS REACTIVE ABUSE.
Wow pretty nice message ... Yes you are all beautiful the way you are 😘
Saying a story that’s not real is not nice to those who are actually in an abusive relationship. Please be aware that there are hotlines for you, please don’t be in an abusive relationship and if you feel harassed, tell them to stop or block them.
How give me an explanation
@@franzarvelcaole9624 I didn’t block someone who was abusive. I’m only 12 and you’re asking me for an explanation? I’m literally a 12 year old who was manipulated into being friends with this dude, who was ruthless and rude.
@@Emmie1223 the explanation isn't for what you went through, but if I'm not mistaken, they're asking how you know that the story is fake.
she had a big heart and he took that to advantage
I'm very busty and proud of it. I don't understand why guys gotta be like this. Jealousy and being controlling isn't cute.
2:25 the script around here is literally identical to one of their other videos...
yea the abusive coke head bf video
@@PlantNeptune becauss its F A K E . . .
Indeed
@@notprimrose263 duh it’s fake? i never said it was real
@@notprimrose263 it's not. I can say that from my own experience unfortunately
I was just talking to a guy for two weeks and tried to tell me how I should dress and I should serve him I cursed him out so bad. You can not let these men talk down on you treat you bad
This is why I don't need someone to control my life like this because, they're too controlling and heartless and that loser is a lowlife and always will be a loser.
I'm skinny with hardly a chest, my partner still wants me to cover up and not wear make up or shorts, he would say "who are you trying to impress?" And eventually he'll bring me down about my looks, so I won't wear nice clothes. Its really knocked my confidence and I feel like he's not interested in my body anymore. Its horrible, I had to move away for a bit because of the toxic verbal abuse, also I keep causing problems by assuming he's cheating on me, but thats probably because how the way he's been treating me. Maybe he just doesn't want to lose me thats why he acts like this? He's had terrible girlfriends in the past and neither of his parents wanted him. I'm the first girl that wants him and wants to stay with him forever (I would call myself a woman, but lately I feel like I'm just insecure depressed girl). He needs to understand the way he hides things and him leaving me to hang out with dodgy people and people making up rumours about him those times I wasn't with him... of course I'm going to assume the worst, but knocking my confidence down and getting extremely angry at me isn't going to work, it just breaks my trust and makes me depressed.
Girl ,I was in the same situation, he would tear me down even in public. One day I walked away ,block his number and never go back , trust me ,sometimes it's so hard ,but I had to do it for my own sanity
I really needed to see this. I just got out of a abusive relationship of 6 years. He blamed me for everything and took it out on me. I escaped with a black eye and bruised ribs . I’m thankful I’m alive .
Yeah, thank god your alive! Glad you got out of it.
@@kailynhannan6442 thank you. It took a lot for me to leave. It was scary honestly.
Bless you.
I don't have a giant chest only the size of a small watermelon my Nana had a giant chest like a big watermelon and if I was in a relationship with a guy who didn't like it when I didn't wear black shirts or jackets to make my chest look smaller I would be scared and run to my (girl) friends who will help me even with those who has a chest like mine like my friend sammie or Hannah or any girl that I know who will always help me as much as (some of) my guy friends will help me
Me after seeing the first 14 seconds of the vid :
U should consider breaking up
From personal experience, it's not that easy. Just like she said, it's different when you're watching from the outside.
@@pasteltessa8794 yeah ur right I think it pretty difficult to so I was just trying to make the tention a little less
Damn, videos like these really hit me now that I've been into three abusive relationships back-to-back. Especially when the narrarator says "its not your fault". Regardless of whether this is real or not, its a good message. It's not your fault and you shouldn't put up with abusive relationships. You deserve better. I am in another relationship now, and I am so lucky to have found such an amazing guy. He treats me right and never abuses me or hurts me. I was friends with him throughout the lengths of the last two abusive relationships. I know now that I should have been with him the entire time. He never would have broken me the way that those last two relationships did. The first one damaged me, but didn't break me. The last two did. But I'm in a better place and I'm healing. If this message finds anyone in a bad relationship, just know that you can get out of it. I was able to get out of my three toxic relationships, you can too.
relationships like these are too common honestly, but I've been through a very similar relationship with my recent ex-boyfriend and I feel the pain and all the emotions she felt. I feel sorry for her. no one should ever have to go through that. remember girls AND guys: you don't need to be in a toxic/controlling relationship like that. if you know someone isn't good for you and/or is making you question yourself, do the right thing and end the relationship. it might be hard, but it's worth it in the long run
We cant avoid those ppl... Most important is to be self confident, dont lose yourself guys!
A friend of mine has a similar story to this whereby whenever they fight, my friend has to say sorry to her boyfriend and this became a normal routine for her whenever they fight. Because of this, she developed anxiety. Thankfully, they broke up. Took her almost a year to overcome her anxiety bit by bit.
I went through this same situation my ex said he would get another girl that would dress more conservative then ended up having another girl on the side.
thank you 4 the story it's so good
Yes, humans are like this now.
A way to recognize toxic relationship
1) if u have a lotta fights between each other
2) if u r the one always saying sorry
3) if the person is controlling
One thing to remember is that a toxic relationship is soo hard to give up not because it is always bad times with ur partner but while there is a lot of bad times the good times are more amazing that ever so try to keep this in mind
Love the video 😁 keep up the good work ☺️
This video is more than a minute long. This is clickbait.
Lololololol
And? How is this clickbait?
@@s.kieyyyy923 r/wooosh
@@shreya...007 um ok i just don’t get the joke
@@s.kieyyyy923 that is why I wooshed you
Bruh....the channel name is minute videos and the videos are not one minute. Do I really have to explain more
poor girl tho she never wanted to have big chests its the way of like o-o
never say sorry for self-confidence
I can just watch the drawings unfold and it's better than hearing the stories.
A girl can live her life however she wants, the more I watch stories like these the more I get mad at guys I don't care if they are different or not
Out of all animation channels, MinuteVideos is my favourite
Not here to be first but I enjoyed the video great work minute video.
Lol u should have seen yesterday's video
All throughout middle school... I was insecure about how big my chest is
Love the digital art
I'm so glad that people stepped in and helped her
im honestly jelouse- i wish i was that pretty
Nice work!!
I used to date a guy almost like him. At the beginning he was nice but with time he started to change wanted me to dress the way he liked and act how he wanted me to act, he even took me to his mom so she could do my hair the way he wanted (no questions asked). He even try to control how did I go out and my whereabouts. I didn't notice anything as I was head over heels for him. But one day the public transportation didn't allow any student on the bus as some of them were misbehaving I have to walk home under the rain. I was mad and wet and for my surprise he was outside of my house yelling at me that were was I that he spend an hour waiting for me under the rain (he never told me that he was going to visit me). And that was the last straw, I exploded and started yelling back at him and at that moment I realized that this relationship was going to work so I decided to break up with him at that moment. If you are in this kind of relationship that the other person wants you to change who you are to fit that person is not worth it.
Same as my story ❤️ moving on is hard but the best thing
"i remember when he asked me to be his girlfriend...(sigh)😊" "your mine now babe😉" sweetheart he didn't ask you he told you
Remember, there is more than 1 ways of abusing someone
Very nice art style and very entertaing to watch😻😻😻
Bad boy demeanor never stays long , u will eventually realize and leave the person ,so never fall because someone gives bad boy vibes I have seen a lot of girls falling for this and regret later
I’m glad those people step in to help her
The title made me think;
" Maybe he is trying to protect her ...? "
" Or maybe he doesn't want people to look at her like " that ...? "
Thanks for this
Funny how it’s always the ones calling someone else a coward that are actually the real cowards in most scenarios like this!
I hope that person enjoys where they’re going after life, because that’s just unacceptable what they’re doing.
I’m very glad that that girl got out of that relationship, because that was toxic to the extreme!
I can relate to this, emotional abuse is worse!
Similar things happened to me and my friend. She always got pissed when I tried expressing my feelings. She treated me like garbage and made me apologize because she had such high confidence. I’m sorry wtf. I have said sorry more than you will ever hear. She never liked when I was confident and proud of my body. Once I had eating disorder issues and started to develop a bad relationship with food instead of her supporting me she told me I need to apologize to her because I give her such a bad mood because I asked for help what to do because I had issues with my body image and food.
Jealousy is the most biggest evil one.
this is the best channel ever☺☺☺I love there animations
If this is real, I kinda get her. Im also curvy larger chested woman. You dont choose your body type. Nobody has no business shaming you for your body. You need To love your body, and someone constantly shaming it like this makes you ashamed of it and it affects negatively how you see yourself.
And this apples also my smaller chested petite queens❤️ I know world might seem like it favours this one body type, but Yours is as beautiful as anybody elses. Small chest is perky and attractive, stay perfect❤️
Why am I subscribed to this channel
Not anymore
Ross nor am I
and me neither
Wow guys 😶
Ronan Regan what? not my fault they use inappropriate thumbnails to lure kids and them being obnoxious and showing off
Thanks for the announcement
Bless her she will get there
Even if these stories are fake they are interesting, so i watch them🤷♂️
Abusive relationships are the worst. My mom was in one. She's out now.
The fact that I can relate to her at everything..m great full that I left him
he gives me “where my hug at” vibes 😭😭
*Are you often jealous❔* 🤔
Your channel is so cool, I love your story video's 😍
And nope i'm not jealous
Nice channel stories about life
No
Nope
It might or might not be real but it's still a good story and it has a good message at the end lol
My mom and big sister have an abuse victim relationship history and I want to be the one to break that chain I am helping my big sister stop getting these kind of ppl and I just want her to be safe
Yall should support body positivity more
The only people that he can blame is himself. He is not taking responsibility for his actions and not apologizing to his girlfriend for his wrongdoings. It’s his fault, not yours!!!
Can you guys create a podcast with stories as well?
He's so manipulative, l'm happy that she left him and realize her worth :))
it's like the relationship i had, only difference is he secretly got married to another while i went out of country for a summer course
A real boyfriend love you as you are.
WOW!
He was SO afraid of loosing you that he held on to you too tight!
Guys like these is what you call a "Manipulative Sadboi"
This definitely happens in our rs.
her jealous bf looks like dean from gilmore girls
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF GIRL!!!!!
He's confident
the intro💀💀button nose
Well you never know the truth until you heard both sides
If some treats you like that you have to black up even if you love him
And that guy who clearly objectifies the OP and is taking advantage of her insecurities for his own benefit reminds me of a creep I ran into who did something similar except it was with my height and it involved deception and lying. I happen to be short and he lied to me that he is also short and when I found out he is actually tall, he revealed he lied he is short thinking it’s going to make me fall in love with him.
Don’t ever change yourself to get someone to like you. They will most likely reject you not bc you are different from them in whatever aspect, it’s bc you lied to and decieved them and nobody likes fakers.
I mean it ain’t wrong to choose to cover up and all but this dude’s got it all wrong 😂
Why is this exactly my story
Ladies, you need to get out this relationship and is going to end your life. I hope she still okay and I'm glad she's ending in relationship with jerk. To me I had to end this relationship because I've been emotional abused by my ex because when he gets mad. He gets mad at me a lot. I'm so glad, I ending this in relationship with him last May.
This story should be called my big chest gets some big men 👁👄👁✨
He was the class clown 😂😂😂😭😭
i feel that feeling
this could be for both the people with small and big...
He called u a cow