Ignore him, go out, look good, have goals outside of HIM & dont be available to him- especially on a Friday or Sat....always be happy with great energy- basically Do YOU...& Be willing to Lose Him-dont ever get too attached to any man- Ever💯
it applies both eays because most modern day women arent worth the time of day, guys are just a convenience unitl the next one comes along, and this is being exposed more and more every day women today are trash and not worth the time of day
1. Let go of anger 2. Prioritize your fitness 3. Glamorize your looks 4. Resurrect your social life 5. Connect with him emotionally 6. Talk when the time is right 7. Be willing to walk away
@@jennyalex7061 It will baby....You have to always remember to love yourself! We seem to get caught up in being the perfect wife, girlfriend etc. And we tend to let things slide. But we need not to let things go...and when I sat that, I'm meaning ourselves!! We need someone who gone love, appreciate, respect us as much as we do with them!!!! Life is to short to settle!! Hope this helps!!! ❣❣❣
1- let go your anger and don't ask for appreciated 2- get back in shape 3- glamorize your looks 4-change style of clothing 5- he will wonder are you Changing feelings 6- feeling insecure 7- reconnect your social life independence is very attractive for men 8- Connect with him emotionally 9- create a safe zone 10- talk when time is right ▶️
Exactly, shouldn't that work both ways??? I have a mid section tire!!!, When men look at me and they see that, it's like it's a turn off for them, but then I look at them and they have the same thing, what's up with that???? I don't get it, do you?? If so, please help me to understand that.
@@carlenemcgriggs4267 Yes it should go both ways, but it doesn't. Men are permitted to let themselves go. And they're permitted to AGE. That one really pisses me off! The way that women are treated when they show signs of aging, is absolutely shameful. Growing up, my (very controlling) dad would force my mom to wear micro mini skirts, tiny shirts, and stiletto heels - all the time. She was a stunning woman, with beautiful waist length hair and an hourglass figure. Even after having 5 children. I remember her having to wear these things while she was nursing newborn babies. All the while, my father had a spare tire. It was so ridiculous. I'm almost 40 now and my dad still tries to tell me how to look. I think that's why I choose to wear jeans and a t-shirt - just to spite him lol.
This video is utterly disgusting and oppressive to women. It is like the past 50 years never happened. The truth is that the women I know who get cheated on and treated the worst are the ones who are super model gorgeous. When your relationship is based on looks it has zero substance. The happiest couple I know both weigh about 350 pounds. Your looks are NOT why he treats you badly. He is an ass. That is why. The more you work out to please him the more he knows he has a tight fist on your soul. Screw this vlogger. And look at him. Not exactly so hot himself. Such bullshit.
❤️ You will never ever be good enough for the wrong guy. The right one will make you never feel you have to question his love for you. The wrong one will always constantly make you feel insecure.
Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.
Honestly this the truest thing I've ever seen... I had a boyfriend for 4 years and all I did was make him feel safe and loved and was always there for him and devoted my life to him... but hear me out ladies, when men feel safe and feel like they got you, they'll take you for granted and some might even start looking at other girls and lose interest in you.... After I left my boyfriend I met this guy and did exactly what this video says, make your man fear losing you, that's the only way they stay and will always appreciate you, they would always love you and would do anything just so that they don't lose you... never let love make you weak and devote yourself to a man, live your life and make him a part of your life, don't make him all your life... don't make my mistake 💔
If fear is what holds a relationship together and not love.. What happens when fear is no longer enough because he realizes there is a abundance of females that are actually not bitter from the past and wants to be his comfort and build him up where you're failing to do... Fear isn't the answer.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
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Anyone who has to keep their partner in a Perpetual state of fear for losing them, just to be loved and appreciated, should find a different partner. That's no way to live.
That's the way believe men are not emotional like us they want to own you but also to work while trying . Do not make him feel like you are going to be always available for him with open arms
@@esotera2871 That is bs!. Men are very emotional, they have a terrible issue with showing such emotions. Society places on them the idea that they have to be in control of themselves and their decisions all the time. Just because they have a hard time expressing their emotions it doesn't mean they don't have them.
I agree and it seems like head games/emotional abuse for a woman to do that to a man (and vice versa) it just doesn’t seem right I’m sorry I know Most of you ladies will not agree with what I’m saying but I honestly believe it’s true
This is the one video that hit home. 100% accurate. The most powerful phrase was, "if he doesn't fear losing you, he'll never fully commit." I've been with someone I would tell for 5 years that he was the one and I would never leave him. Of course, he left me eventually, and still thinks I'll be there whenever he wants. Not now...I've moved on. Lesson learned.
If a man really loves you - no matter what the situation is, no matter how you look, HE WILL STAY WITH YOU. If God gave you that man, then definitely no one or nothing can stand against your relationship! 😊 No efforts needed. No force nor pleasing needed. Thats it!
Marjorie Batalla - in reality , it’s very rare to happen. Relationship should always show continuity to boost high esteem and remain to be as confident as we can be in ourselves. Since in general, physical attraction comes first and second to check his character. So, we need to always find in love with each other not only emotionally but also physically. This is the reality of life. 🤲
As a woman, I always stay in shape by exercising. When you take great care of your body, you aren't dependent upon someone else's ideals. A woman in shape is extremely sexy and can wear beautiful clothes. There's nothing that helps reduce stress than working out on a daily basis.
I think it was more self love here in this vid. But I can see why it can look like this... even if you exercise just to shape up and be in better health xx
@@facundodarriel4185 if a woman is ok with a man gaining weight a man should be too, because if he doesn't want to change anything why do you have to? it's not worth it. It's only worth it if another person is trying hard for you too. And if you are not shallow you don't care about things like weight as a turnoff (if you are a man or a woman), only about health aspects of it. Though some shallow people pretend they care about health, but in reality they care how you look. If you think it's ok to try hard for someone who doesn't the ego is to real!!!;)
1. Let go of your anger and stop feeling unappreciated. 2. Prioritise your fitness. 3. Glamorise your look. 4. Ressurect your social life outside of his. 5. Connect with him on an emotional level. 6. Have the talk when the time is right. 7. Be willing to walk away.
Most these things is easy to do. Some guys can't accept change expect things cannot to be like the past. I Don't tolerate judge labeling crizing comparing that past guy does. If a guy is blind sided then that his own issues and not mind.
@@AntonioBorrelloso agree with you Antonio. So force on myself and not some guy who is Resetful of me and those people who are not good enough guy for me. They are not nice either way and there egos pride in themselves and make a change and stand up for myself and ingore bullies online and force on myself do what best from me, be myself confident esstem brave self help self discipline self challenges self respect self respect self guided self optimist self expression self independent self understanding self improvement and not a man who can commitment either way unless you give him a cake he commits to junk food.
often times, we choose the person who we love the most than people who love us the most. I did all these but the trouble is, I suddenly got used to being all by myself, flying like a free bird and enjoy a life that I've deprived myself with while trying to survive in that barren relationship before. I am happier, seeing my own value, and respecting myself the way I should without the need to beg for attention or love from a numb person.
Bottom line: focus on yourself, just you, love yourself.. focus on being the best version of you everyday. love will come, attention will come on your way.. :) :) remember that the best guy doesn't focus on the physical look, but the overall
To sum it all up, ladies, just know your worth. If the man doesn't appreciate you, so be it, and let him be. Who cares about him anyway when I believe there are still better fishes in the sea. Don't force yourself to be loved by someone who doesn't really love you unconditionally. Pray to find a man who deserves to have you and truly loves you, not you keeping everything up just for a jerk. It's not worth it, ladies.
Antonio is right sometime u have to show ur Man what he can lose, and some women do get comfortable in a relationship and let themselves go. What u did to get him u must continue to keep him.
Freya Judah love your comment 🙏🏽 I just broke up with my fiancé after 4 years together.! I choose to walk away from him because he never appreciate me.! Like I’m the only one always making mistake no respect only anger.! I’ve been trying to fix problems but still not good enough for him Yes true there are still better fishes in the sea. This my best friend always told me.! Xx
Move on ? Move on to wat , to whom ? To another man ?? Then when the other one will do the same , ull move on again ? Nope dr , it doesnt work like dis.. u shud try yr best to save your relationship if u really love ur bf.. u shud kno that.. u cant deny the fact that being beautiful , plays a very important in everyone's life.. ofcourse any man would want her girl to glow.. to look beautiful... its a normal thing , mayB some r not like dis but most of thm r like dis.. so u shud just accpt the fact of how he is.. cause its said naa, that u shud love someone however he is, u shudnt try to chnge him/her.. & my dr , u dont nid to change urself.. if u really love someone , ull be automarically changed.. 😍 kip loving ❤
@@sanjana8357 You don't have to move on to another man. You can be perfectly happy just by yourself all single. Having a partner doesn't always mean happiness, joy and sharing.
@@veronicaalmeda8014 yes dear.. if someone wants to move on , she better be alone.. u said it well , but move on to another man to forget someone else is totally bullshit..
It's true. My ex of 4 years only started noticing me when I walked away, started looking glamorous on social media, flirty, lost weight, fixed my life,... He started snooping everywhere, out of the blue, after a year of stonewalling me. It's too late though, I found the man of my dreams and he wants to marry me in time.
This just to make self realise about how important you are to yourself. Because when you fully in the process of self love. You will eventually get over him, easy enough to say him fuck off!! Man!!
I wonder why there no video of how to please a woman,can't a man lose weight for his bae n look glamorous to us, I damm tired of way to please him,let him please me
Sophia Joseph Then there is men like my husband. Who is 100% secure in our relationship. I don’t know if he’s ever been jealous before. He shows appreciation and does things for me/buy things for me etc bc he loves me. Not because he is scared of me leaving him. That is a real man. Not like those boys who only treat you well because they are “afraid of losing you”. I can literally have lunch/dinner with an ex and he doesn’t care because he TRUSTS me.
Not exactly bored they actually get frustrated bcz of us doing some things which we think we have done right but it's not actually that for him . Men's don't share there likes and dislikes for that they use to suffer what we couldn't understand nd repeate the same mistake atlast they stop loving us nd we get more frustrated on them lastly it turns into brkup
If u love someone want to stay him forever with u ask him bfr u do as if they do the same with us in the 1st stage if both of the couples can go parallely takeing the same step then it will go smoothly or else u will or they will b a gap which can form distance miscommunication or misunderstanding
The best thing is to get a life. Have few hobbies that you enjoy doing, when he stops to appreciate you, plan a trip that involves activities you truly love.
This video is not about having to change yourself for a man, it is about prioritizing yourself and working on yourself because when you’re in a relationship you get comfortable and lose yourself. But it’s rather about prioritizing yourself and taking care of yourself so your man could realize that at any day he could lose you because you are a high value women that prioritizes herself. I think he is talking about how when a relationship becomes comfortable men stop putting in the effort as much because they already have you, which is why it is so important not to lose yourself and to prioritize yourself so he could realize that at any moment he could lose you.
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These are great ideas. I did all these with my husband who took me for granted for many years......trust me sis it works. All these along with prayer. It works. Thanks Sir Antonio👌
@holymosesjew you are absolutely right! My pic was taken 2 years ago when I was trying to be someone I wasn't. I never wore much make up when I first met him. Since the break up I stopped layering on the make up & gone back to natural.
When someone truly loves you. Even in your imperfections he/she sees you in your best. He/she accepts on who you are. Its all about being contented and appreciate everything. :((
These tips make a lot of sense. It'd be difficult not being appreciated by a partner. If after doing these tips, the partner still doesn't care, life's too short to stay with that person and feel sad. It's time to value ourselves and hopefully find a relationship in which we value each other. We can't change others just ourselves.
As man, I agree with him 100%. That's something exactly happens to me after 24 years of marriage. I finally respect and pay attention to my wife after I felt I am about losing her. This guy is genious.
Love means where you can be yourself and still he/she adores you. You dont need to have any strategies with the one who is in love with you. You can be yourself and express your flaws. Dont ever stress about relationships, if its meant to be it will find its way, we need to focus on ourselves and our growth.
I don't agree with you... No matter how good the guy is if you are always available for him he will take you for granted... Be it anyone... You don't value the thing which you have every day
The 3nd day I walk away from him is already in restaurant with another lady, so painful 😭. He came back after 10 days FORGIVENESS and to try again but I said NO😭😭 . I missed him, he is my joy but he doesn't appreciate me. So am trying to move on without him. Doctor Antonio thank you so much .
I am a psychologist too and i couldn't agree more with those statements. It is always a good thing for professionals to help other people who are struggling with their relationships. Keep the good job
I did each of these before the breaking point and yes he did ask if I were wearing makeup for someone else. But when I reached out to show affection with a kiss he still ducked away from me. He squirmed away when I tried touching him affectionately. I basically was nothing more than a housekeeper. Until October 2019 when I walked out on him.
🙄🙄...rolling my eyes cuz this dude right here is starting to get on my last nerves!!...I'm starting 2ask myself y I'm still with him...we got engaged after a yr1/2 of dating, he's gotten so used to me that he thinks I'm a joke sometimes just cuz I'm not that much of a risk taker as he is😟😏
I’ve been anywhere from 110lbs to 270lbs in my relationship and my man loves me the same. He tells me everyday, shows he loves my body no matter what and he worries about losing me and expresses it. Men like this do exist, don’t settle ladies it’s possible to not have to manipulate him and hide your emotions. We talk about ours all the time.
Good stuff Antonio!!! At age 50 I,m only begginning to understand the dance of love! Love yourself and don't FEAR sharing love, it will always come back to you somehow. Maybe in ways we didn't expect, how exciting! LOVE
Be happy no matter what there's nothing more beautiful than a woman who is happy whether she's glammed up or in her pjs with a paint brush and toast crumbs on her top if your smiling they wanna know why !! Keep smiling girls that's the key xxx
I’m in a long distance relationship , I always tell him communication is number one key for us to work on relationship. We’ve been together now for a year and we both seen each other. Things are starting to get serious.. I really think we respect each other. And I’m always on top of my game .
So motivating. For so many years I have been looking after my family, ignoring myself. now I realise my worth. Thank you so much for the inspiring video.
i need someone to talk to. i feel like i love him too much. i even Asked him that i needed a hug, and he always forgot, you know the feeling when you are so tired asking for attention but in one time you cant let that person go..
Im in that boat right now... If I bring up my feelings then I'm pittying myself... If I go downstairs and bake him come get me then I'm playing games..... I'm always begging for the attention that I want.. sure he gives me attention but it's the joke around kind of attention. Tickling, pinching, butt smacking.... I don't mind that but I don't want that all the time...
I just believe that we should always be happy, because we will definitely find that right person someday, and when we meet that person, they won't ever go away. 😊😊
if you believe that he will never go away? that may put you in a too 'relaxed' stage, after some years... Don't you see married women, who look... bad, neglected?
It should be like that but in this real real world I came to an understanding that such relationships are onle fairy tales! Humans will always be humans...never capable of loving unconditionally...deep down there will always be a 'But' no matter how close to perfection another might be!
Let's not look at the negative side of things. Optimism in a relationship goes a long way to lead a happy life. Yes, I've seen married women in an absolute disaster. But I've come to a realisation that such relationships have a weak foundation. We tend to neglect the important things in life and ask for what we do not possess. That is a basic "materialistic" human nature and not exactly a "Common" Human Nature. Do not generalize humans into one single entity. Everyone should perceive life in their own natural way. It's very easy to adapt to a similar lifestyle of others and always whine about the negative side of things. Be at your best, every single day of your lives and see how your loved ones keep falling in love with you every single day. All the best. 😊
Be on top of your game from beginning to end so it makes it hard for him to leave AND regret it once you guys part. And remember ladies a lost relationship isn't always a lost relationship sure you'll miss him but if you think back on everything and you know you did everything you were supposed to do or needed to do then he just was not the one for you it won't be your first or your last break up it's happened before and you survived it and then met him think of it that way you will meet another good one give him the same good opportunity and learn how to move on and not hang onto toxic people
My long distant bf started blowing up my phone the first weeks now he burly texts me back he was honest and kind smart on letting me know that he was losing interest because we are a part and not in the same boat but he still wants me to be there for him so now I’m going to keep myself protected and prioritizing myself.
I REALIZED SOMETHING, EVEN IF YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, SMART IN THIS WORLD, THEY WILL STILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE, LET JUST BE HONEST WITH THAT.... I THINK IF ANYONE AFRAID OF GOD, THEY WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING BAD TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP,
Being pretty won't keep a man, sex won't keep a man, a baby won't keep a man, heck being a good woman barely keeps a man. The only thing that will keep a man is a man that wants to be kept.
@@hdbdvdvdbd6006 know your worth and set your boundaries girl, there’s someone out there who will see how special you are. please don’t accept half-love, you are so much more than that ✨💘 love yourself enough to know how you should be treated
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He's right. I dated a guy for 5 years; I thought we were on the right path. Wrong. I needed to address issues after year 1. He was so nice, we never argued, but things didn't progress to a ring. Then when I brought up engagement; because I waited longer, it made the conversation worse. You need to have relationship goals, and he needs to meet those goals. And if you have kids, keep up a "date night". He's right about the social life. I did things with his family, his brother, and his friends; thinking I was making myself more of his life. It was opposite. I needed to do less of that until we were actually "family, committed". I needed to have my own time, my own interests.....and keep him at bay sometimes.
Haha, my boyfriend asked " Why are you always working out and having your hair done and doing things to make it grow more? Something going on." And when I'm working, he asks"Why are you always wearing skirts and have make-up on now? You never wore make-up before and now you don't go to work without it or without heels. I work at district court and he knows I'm surrounded by lawyers, successful handsome men like him. He calls me at my lunch time now and worries if I don't talk to him. I love it because he texts me more often and is more attentive and romantic.
@HoneyChild56 Harmless "jealousy" is good. I mean when your man feels he can lose you because you know your worth, are a quality woman, want but don't need him, and other men are attracted to you and/or pursue you, he will value you a lot more and will treat you like the beautiful queen that you are. Now, be careful-- there's a difference between possessiveness, control, and harmless jealousy, which is the fear to lose you and subsequently, putting real effort into the relationship and you. Please, do pay attention to controlling and possessive behavior 🙂
Its 2020, stop playing. Ladies, if he truly loves you and appreciates you, he will be afraid to lose you. Its not the other way around. You shouldnt do a damn thing to make him afraid of losing you. If he treats you casually, isnt invested, and shows no real commitment or fear of losing you, do yourself a favor and lose him. You're too special for that bs
Your video is right on time. I’m done talking to my bf. He doesn’t listen. I’m focusing on me and preparing to take the lsat in September. I’m working out and keeping myself busy with work and my child. I’m also not being as available as I previously was. He knows what he hasn’t been doing and he can figure out. I will be follow your tips and that’s that.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
1. Don't use dating sites either way. Protites myself more. 🙂 Do what best for me, Effort determined movativation to on myself and others move on from past guy. Focus on myself. 4. independent. Busy lifestyle. 😁🤗😊🙂 enjoy life. Not wasting time on past guy. Accepting caring nutriting. So agree the guy has to earn it. Can't show up whenever he feels like it. Be accepting caring, compassion. 7. Not Accept bullying rude behavior. Not settle for anything then less.
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I knew this guy since 2012 on and off we had ups and downs, I made an executive decision and said my part back in 2017 and never spoke to him again, then he find out I moved to a different area, I'm still confused how, because we don't have any mutual friends. Sporadically in 2018 As I was finishing work, walking to the station, he rode past me, then stopped, removed his helmet, and stood there, trying to grab my attention. By talking to a random stranger whilst trying to get eye contact, and raising his voice so I could hear him to ensure I knew it was him, after my cigarette. I walked straight passed him no eye contact, I didn't even look back at him. Now he stalks me on social media, but I'm too much of a high-value woman to accept less.
Kept my man interested for years. I am a drama queen and always kept thinks alive because of that sparky attitude. Always gave the threat of leaving him. It’s worked for me he adores me.
These tips are really great if the purpose is to make yourself happy or just focus on your self growth, but if you’re only doing this to make him fear losing you this is totally wrong.
Benefits of listening to Anthony ….free counselling , save your relationship , you become a better stronger high value woman ! Thank you Anthony 🙋🏼♀️🙏🎉
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 5months . All thanks to Mr stephen whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days
I agree with you on the last statement you have made. Its impossible to fall in love with someone without being worried of losing them :) its a good sign to understand the powerful impact this person has made in our life and vice versa
I feel the same. This shouldn't even be necessary. I wish we never ever desired one another , stupid to say so because humanity will die,but geez it should be mutual straight through
Ignore him, go out, look good, have goals outside of HIM & dont be available to him- especially on a Friday or Sat....always be happy with great energy- basically Do YOU...& Be willing to Lose Him-dont ever get too attached to any man- Ever💯
Dee P 💯
I agree
amen
Thank you!
deep
I’m sorry for everyone that feels a great pain that they have to watch a video like this :(
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Its indeed hurt, but nothing is gona change, stay if u cn ...if not jst move on💔
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@@Notyourbusiness606 u ols?😕
I can’t do any of these steps because of the rona everything is closed ...HELPPPPP
The fact that 5.6 Million people watched this shows how much pain people are actually in 😢sending love ❤
Absolutely right
Much love❤❤
Thank you ❤
🧑🚒 they don’t give too hoots only one thing! Don’t do it don’t give in I promise he really doesn’t care! 99% of them dont
And he just ignore me
In this video I learned something, self love. Love yourself and don't make him be the center of your life.
it applies both eays because most modern day women arent worth the time of day, guys are just a convenience unitl the next one comes along,
and this is being exposed more and more every day women today are trash and not worth the time of day
Exactly darling,,self love first
1. Let go of anger
2. Prioritize your fitness
3. Glamorize your looks
4. Resurrect your social life
5. Connect with him emotionally
6. Talk when the time is right
7. Be willing to walk away
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Thank you
Love you so much. Thanks!
Lol
You saved 10mins of my life😂
I learned to stop caring so much about him so I can focus on my own self growth
maikor3 I’m learning that is what reels them in! Being confident and flirty seems to be working also
Could not agree more
Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 seems to be good for the soul
I love dis but will it work for me,I hope so because I am about to🤔😪
@@jennyalex7061 It will baby....You have to always remember to love yourself! We seem to get caught up in being the perfect wife, girlfriend etc. And we tend to let things slide. But we need not to let things go...and when I sat that, I'm meaning ourselves!! We need someone who gone love, appreciate, respect us as much as we do with them!!!! Life is to short to settle!! Hope this helps!!! ❣❣❣
Sis if his absence brought you peace, it wasn't a loss!!!
Thank you
Exactly true and fantastic opinion...l appreciate you dear.🎁🎁
A gem
Amen 💓💓💓💓
agreed. i also feel peace. bcz of him i lost my inner peace. heart feel pain
1- let go your anger and don't ask for appreciated
2- get back in shape
3- glamorize your looks
4-change style of clothing
5- he will wonder are you Changing feelings
6- feeling insecure
7- reconnect your social life independence is very attractive for men
8- Connect with him emotionally
9- create a safe zone
10- talk when time is right ▶️
If he doesn’t love you- you can stand on your head naked and it won’t work!
This is the best I have ever watch, thank you very much sir
Please edit and add - Be willing to walk away
Basically, in short, love yourself first. :-)
Right
True✅😢
Cari yes true
Cari ❤️
@@lills72 google how to be a down to earth person.
If I have to look like a supermodel with an hourglass figure, just to be valued by a man, then I don't want that man.
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Exactly, shouldn't that work both ways??? I have a mid section tire!!!, When men look at me and they see that, it's like it's a turn off for them, but then I look at them and they have the same thing, what's up with that???? I don't get it, do you?? If so, please help me to understand that.
Me too dia😁😁😁😁
@@carlenemcgriggs4267 Yes it should go both ways, but it doesn't. Men are permitted to let themselves go. And they're permitted to AGE. That one really pisses me off! The way that women are treated when they show signs of aging, is absolutely shameful. Growing up, my (very controlling) dad would force my mom to wear micro mini skirts, tiny shirts, and stiletto heels - all the time. She was a stunning woman, with beautiful waist length hair and an hourglass figure. Even after having 5 children. I remember her having to wear these things while she was nursing newborn babies. All the while, my father had a spare tire. It was so ridiculous. I'm almost 40 now and my dad still tries to tell me how to look. I think that's why I choose to wear jeans and a t-shirt - just to spite him lol.
This video is utterly disgusting and oppressive to women. It is like the past 50 years never happened. The truth is that the women I know who get cheated on and treated the worst are the ones who are super model gorgeous. When your relationship is based on looks it has zero substance. The happiest couple I know both weigh about 350 pounds. Your looks are NOT why he treats you badly. He is an ass. That is why. The more you work out to please him the more he knows he has a tight fist on your soul. Screw this vlogger. And look at him. Not exactly so hot himself. Such bullshit.
You will never be good enough for the wrong guy. Do you, and the right man will come along.
This is so true..
Agree with you
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I’m starting not to believe in a “right” guy. They’ve all been trash in the end
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Honestly this the truest thing I've ever seen... I had a boyfriend for 4 years and all I did was make him feel safe and loved and was always there for him and devoted my life to him... but hear me out ladies, when men feel safe and feel like they got you, they'll take you for granted and some might even start looking at other girls and lose interest in you....
After I left my boyfriend I met this guy and did exactly what this video says, make your man fear losing you, that's the only way they stay and will always appreciate you, they would always love you and would do anything just so that they don't lose you... never let love make you weak and devote yourself to a man, live your life and make him a part of your life, don't make him all your life... don't make my mistake 💔
Momo Elsharief did you’re ex boyfriend of 4 years ever tried getting back with you?
@@ashleyvazquez6293 yes he did... but it was too late
Thanks for sharing ur story
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If fear is what holds a relationship together and not love.. What happens when fear is no longer enough because he realizes there is a abundance of females that are actually not bitter from the past and wants to be his comfort and build him up where you're failing to do... Fear isn't the answer.
By the time I do all of these, I'll probably be over him.
True and won't need him anymore
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I just say leave men behind all together. Women understand you better anyways lmao.
Facts!
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It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
I'm facing significant relationship problems and can't stand the idea of losing him. My love and longing for my partner are profound, and I'm ready to do anything to restore our connection. I would greatly appreciate any advice or help you could give.
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I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; his absence is keenly felt.
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Ladies, you can never please a man!!! That’s it!!!
Particularly a gay man like him...peace out!
A coach...
You can ONLY please yourself and that's all that matters.
Absolutely true
@@prittyugly86 wt an idea..great
Anyone who has to keep their partner in a Perpetual state of fear for losing them, just to be loved and appreciated, should find a different partner. That's no way to live.
Right!
That's the way believe men are not emotional like us they want to own you but also to work while trying . Do not make him feel like you are going to be always available for him with open arms
Lol. True
@@esotera2871 That is bs!. Men are very emotional, they have a terrible issue with showing such emotions. Society places on them the idea that they have to be in control of themselves and their decisions all the time. Just because they have a hard time expressing their emotions it doesn't mean they don't have them.
I agree and it seems like head games/emotional abuse for a woman to do that to a man (and vice versa) it just doesn’t seem right I’m sorry I know Most of you ladies will not agree with what I’m saying but I honestly believe it’s true
This is the one video that hit home. 100% accurate. The most powerful phrase was, "if he doesn't fear losing you, he'll never fully commit." I've been with someone I would tell for 5 years that he was the one and I would never leave him. Of course, he left me eventually, and still thinks I'll be there whenever he wants. Not now...I've moved on. Lesson learned.
If a man really loves you - no matter what the situation is, no matter how you look, HE WILL STAY WITH YOU. If God gave you that man, then definitely no one or nothing can stand against your relationship! 😊 No efforts needed. No force nor pleasing needed. Thats it!
Marjorie Batalla Amen
Amen
Ameeen
Marjorie Batalla - in reality , it’s very rare to happen. Relationship should always show continuity to boost high esteem and remain to be as confident as we can be in ourselves. Since in general, physical attraction comes first and second to check his character. So, we need to always find in love with each other not only emotionally but also physically. This is the reality of life. 🤲
Efforts needed from both side
Ladies the only weight you need to lose is the man that doesn't appreciate you unless you do it for yourself!
So you get to gain a bunch of weight and he has to be ok with it. 😂 the ego is too real!!
As a woman, I always stay in shape by exercising. When you take great care of your body, you aren't dependent upon someone else's ideals. A woman in shape is extremely sexy and can wear beautiful clothes. There's nothing that helps reduce stress than working out on a daily basis.
I think it was more self love here in this vid. But I can see why it can look like this... even if you exercise just to shape up and be in better health xx
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@@facundodarriel4185 if a woman is ok with a man gaining weight a man should be too, because if he doesn't want to change anything why do you have to? it's not worth it. It's only worth it if another person is trying hard for you too. And if you are not shallow you don't care about things like weight as a turnoff (if you are a man or a woman), only about health aspects of it. Though some shallow people pretend they care about health, but in reality they care how you look. If you think it's ok to try hard for someone who doesn't the ego is to real!!!;)
1. Let go of your anger and stop feeling unappreciated.
2. Prioritise your fitness.
3. Glamorise your look.
4. Ressurect your social life outside of his.
5. Connect with him on an emotional level.
6. Have the talk when the time is right.
7. Be willing to walk away.
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Yep...this is the recipe
Most these things is easy to do. Some guys can't accept change expect things cannot to be like the past. I Don't tolerate judge labeling crizing comparing that past guy does.
If a guy is blind sided then that his own issues and not mind.
@@AntonioBorrelloso agree with you Antonio. So force on myself and not some guy who is Resetful of me and those people who are not good enough guy for me. They are not nice either way and there egos pride in themselves and make a change and stand up for myself and ingore bullies online and force on myself do what best from me, be myself confident esstem brave self help self discipline self challenges self respect self respect self guided self optimist self expression self independent self understanding self improvement and not a man who can commitment either way unless you give him a cake he commits to junk food.
Best advice!
often times, we choose the person who we love the most than people who love us the most. I did all these but the trouble is, I suddenly got used to being all by myself, flying like a free bird and enjoy a life that I've deprived myself with while trying to survive in that barren relationship before. I am happier, seeing my own value, and respecting myself the way I should without the need to beg for attention or love from a numb person.
Bottom line: focus on yourself, just you, love yourself.. focus on being the best version of you everyday. love will come, attention will come on your way.. :) :) remember that the best guy doesn't focus on the physical look, but the overall
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To sum it all up, ladies, just know your worth. If the man doesn't appreciate you, so be it, and let him be. Who cares about him anyway when I believe there are still better fishes in the sea. Don't force yourself to be loved by someone who doesn't really love you unconditionally. Pray to find a man who deserves to have you and truly loves you, not you keeping everything up just for a jerk. It's not worth it, ladies.
@@AntonioBorrello Thanks. Really appreciate your response. God bless.
Antonio is right sometime u have to show ur Man what he can lose, and some women do get comfortable in a relationship and let themselves go. What u did to get him u must continue to keep him.
But if no changes are made, then it’s time to BOUNCE✌🏽.. walk away from unworthy to Worthiness 🙌🏽
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I just broke up with my fiancé after 4 years together.!
I choose to walk away from him because he never appreciate me.!
Like I’m the only one always making mistake no respect only anger.! I’ve been trying to fix problems but still not good enough for him
Yes true there are still better fishes in the sea. This my best friend always told me.! Xx
Well said
If you’re having to do all these things, then the relationship is over. There’s no love anymore, it’s time to move on.
Move on ? Move on to wat , to whom ? To another man ?? Then when the other one will do the same , ull move on again ? Nope dr , it doesnt work like dis.. u shud try yr best to save your relationship if u really love ur bf.. u shud kno that.. u cant deny the fact that being beautiful , plays a very important in everyone's life.. ofcourse any man would want her girl to glow.. to look beautiful... its a normal thing , mayB some r not like dis but most of thm r like dis.. so u shud just accpt the fact of how he is.. cause its said naa, that u shud love someone however he is, u shudnt try to chnge him/her..
& my dr , u dont nid to change urself.. if u really love someone , ull be automarically changed.. 😍 kip loving ❤
Exactly
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@@sanjana8357 You don't have to move on to another man. You can be perfectly happy just by yourself all single. Having a partner doesn't always mean happiness, joy and sharing.
@@veronicaalmeda8014 yes dear.. if someone wants to move on , she better be alone.. u said it well , but move on to another man to forget someone else is totally bullshit..
It's true. My ex of 4 years only started noticing me when I walked away, started looking glamorous on social media, flirty, lost weight, fixed my life,... He started snooping everywhere, out of the blue, after a year of stonewalling me. It's too late though, I found the man of my dreams and he wants to marry me in time.
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I tell this to ALL my girlfriends! Always focus on yourself and being the best version of you. Then everything else falls into place.
Agree
Yass
Why should we do this? Too much effort for someone that doesnt give a damn. Just leave the fool.
Exactly, even the all pretty ones are cheated on
This just to make self realise about how important you are to yourself. Because when you fully in the process of self love. You will eventually get over him, easy enough to say him fuck off!! Man!!
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Riya Sunar I totally agree with you.... these points directs one to self love
I wonder why there no video of how to please a woman,can't a man lose weight for his bae n look glamorous to us, I damm tired of way to please him,let him please me
I dont know why Im watching these on 3 am crying 😭
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Dear don't worry iam sure the dark always passes away
I have done this in the past.... Not only he's afraid of losing me but I redeemed my self esteem.
If he doesn't already love and care about you, he's NOT going to care about losing you... you deserve better, be at peace ♡
Sophia Joseph Then there is men like my husband. Who is 100% secure in our relationship. I don’t know if he’s ever been jealous before. He shows appreciation and does things for me/buy things for me etc bc he loves me. Not because he is scared of me leaving him. That is a real man. Not like those boys who only treat you well because they are “afraid of losing you”.
I can literally have lunch/dinner with an ex and he doesn’t care because he TRUSTS me.
@@mizzum478 well I'm glad that you've found him. 😇
Agree
Men are too complicated and get bored too easy, I'm out!
Exactly
Not exactly bored they actually get frustrated bcz of us doing some things which we think we have done right but it's not actually that for him . Men's don't share there likes and dislikes for that they use to suffer what we couldn't understand nd repeate the same mistake atlast they stop loving us nd we get more frustrated on them lastly it turns into brkup
If u love someone want to stay him forever with u ask him bfr u do as if they do the same with us in the 1st stage if both of the couples can go parallely takeing the same step then it will go smoothly or else u will or they will b a gap which can form distance miscommunication or misunderstanding
If u have already messed it out then wait for him to come to or u can take steps back for b parallel with him
Rst this video can help u all
The best thing is to get a life. Have few hobbies that you enjoy doing, when he stops to appreciate you, plan a trip that involves activities you truly love.
This video is not about having to change yourself for a man, it is about prioritizing yourself and working on yourself because when you’re in a relationship you get comfortable and lose yourself. But it’s rather about prioritizing yourself and taking care of yourself so your man could realize that at any day he could lose you because you are a high value women that prioritizes herself. I think he is talking about how when a relationship becomes comfortable men stop putting in the effort as much because they already have you, which is why it is so important not to lose yourself and to prioritize yourself so he could realize that at any moment he could lose you.
Exactly!❤
Exactly it's true
So stop saying what’s on your mind and start looking hotter?! Brilliant.
In 2020, we still doing this 🙄🙄🙄
Hahahahaha
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Just find someone new and leave the dumbass
Feel like a piece of me dies watching this... If this love....im doomed
show less interest in him, that will wake him up.
So true
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The only thing I can say is don't ever I mean EVER get attached to a man
It won't go well for u
Elvira Taylor-Pearce yes very true
Very crisps advice.. ...
As someone said in one of the comments
You will never be right for the wrong guy ....better walk out of the relationship
@@ndlathaa tht's cool, being single is much better thn being in the wrong relationship
I feel like that all I been through and going through right now.....I'm losing it
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These are great ideas. I did all these with my husband who took me for granted for many years......trust me sis it works. All these along with prayer. It works. Thanks Sir Antonio👌
key word!!*with prayers*thanks sis
What nonsense. Just be good to him and he'll feel your value. If not, you married a loser. Praying and hoping is gonna get you absolutely nowhere.
@@Bert_de_Wit😂😂 let me guess: no relationship experience?
@@TheWilDOn31 😂. Try married for 20 years, and still going strong!
Well said along with prayer
This also made me realise how important it is to have time to yourself(self discovery) and inner peace 🙇♀️💆♀️.
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He let me go & thats okay. Life goes on 👊❤
I feel for you. His loss...
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@holymosesjew you are absolutely right! My pic was taken 2 years ago when I was trying to be someone I wasn't. I never wore much make up when I first met him. Since the break up I stopped layering on the make up & gone back to natural.
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When someone truly loves you. Even in your imperfections he/she sees you in your best. He/she accepts on who you are. Its all about being contented and appreciate everything. :((
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These tips make a lot of sense. It'd be difficult not being appreciated by a partner. If after doing these tips, the partner still doesn't care, life's too short to stay with that person and feel sad. It's time to value ourselves and hopefully find a relationship in which we value each other. We can't change others just ourselves.
There's no strategy in relationships, you can do things right and the relationship will fail still.
No human plan can keep the relationship
Love your self first, before loving someone who will aceept you
As man, I agree with him 100%. That's something exactly happens to me after 24 years of marriage. I finally respect and pay attention to my wife after I felt I am about losing her. This guy is genious.
Love means where you can be yourself and still he/she adores you. You dont need to have any strategies with the one who is in love with you. You can be yourself and express your flaws. Dont ever stress about relationships, if its meant to be it will find its way, we need to focus on ourselves and our growth.
I don't agree with you... No matter how good the guy is if you are always available for him he will take you for granted... Be it anyone... You don't value the thing which you have every day
When you’re single and watching this at 12am while eating cup noodles for “future reference”
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Right!
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I told my ex that happiness is a choice and I will be happy with or without him!
The 3nd day I walk away from him is already in restaurant with another lady, so painful 😭. He came back after 10 days FORGIVENESS and to try again but I said NO😭😭 . I missed him, he is my joy but he doesn't appreciate me. So am trying to move on without him. Doctor Antonio thank you so much .
So sorry , be strong , hugs.
I commend your strength...you should be proud, you have shown him "you value yourself"...
It is true what you shared but to move on its difficult. ....Doc😏
So sorry. But its like he had moved on whilst you were still with him
@@Phosy2024 very very difficult, am still crying every day, I want him bck but I will move on without him.
Am bck to gym and work bck.
It is terrible that someone might need this, but being one of them, I'm glad there are things like this out here
I am a psychologist too and i couldn't agree more with those statements. It is always a good thing for professionals to help other people who are struggling with their relationships.
Keep the good job
I learned a lot about him, now I'm losing him so I move on,, I love my self,
I m sorry girl u felt had
Bad
I did each of these before the breaking point and yes he did ask if I were wearing makeup for someone else. But when I reached out to show affection with a kiss he still ducked away from me. He squirmed away when I tried touching him affectionately. I basically was nothing more than a housekeeper. Until October 2019 when I walked out on him.
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@@johnmay161 I'm amazed but I am really struggling financially. I barely make enough to pay my bills.
@@theillustriouschelleyeahem487 don't worry. Just get in contact with him first
@@johnmay161 thank you
I absolutely believe in that statement. I also believe more that no one will love or believe in you if/until you love and believe in yourself.
I've done all of these! It works...my husband of 22 years is all over me!
🙄🙄...rolling my eyes cuz this dude right here is starting to get on my last nerves!!...I'm starting 2ask myself y I'm still with him...we got engaged after a yr1/2 of dating, he's gotten so used to me that he thinks I'm a joke sometimes just cuz I'm not that much of a risk taker as he is😟😏
LiNdA MB please don’t marry him like I did. I’m on my way to divorce. Don’t ignore the red flags. You’ll have a miserable life.
Thank you, I was wondering if these would work for marriages👍🏾
So do I
Starlite Moon -That’s fantastic!
Congratulations ❤️
I’ve been anywhere from 110lbs to 270lbs in my relationship and my man loves me the same. He tells me everyday, shows he loves my body no matter what and he worries about losing me and expresses it. Men like this do exist, don’t settle ladies it’s possible to not have to manipulate him and hide your emotions. We talk about ours all the time.
Idk how we ever made it without youtube. I use RUclips for entertainment, friends, therapy lol literally RUclips is everything..
Good stuff Antonio!!!
At age 50 I,m only begginning to understand the dance of love! Love yourself and don't FEAR sharing love, it will always come back to you somehow. Maybe in ways we didn't expect, how exciting! LOVE
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I agree with your statement that it's impossible to fall in love with someone without first being afraid of losing them.
Be happy no matter what there's nothing more beautiful than a woman who is happy whether she's glammed up or in her pjs with a paint brush and toast crumbs on her top if your smiling they wanna know why !! Keep smiling girls that's the key xxx
Thank you. I needed this direction as I’m lost after 4 years together, no ring or discussion of a future. Dates stopped, too comfortable.
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if you need such videos you're not in a healthy relationship
Yeah absolutely yes
why ? how do you say so ?
yes !! definitely
yep..
Ouch. But truth hurts.
From today I will change completely
Totally agree with the statement. The fear of loosing shows that they want you for a reason or reasons.
I’m in a long distance relationship , I always tell him communication is number one key for us to work on relationship. We’ve been together now for a year and we both seen each other. Things are starting to get serious.. I really think we respect each other. And I’m always on top of my game .
Yes ! I totally agree with that point
“ gently remind him your value in his life “ . Women often forget that . Men are too demanding ...
How???
So motivating. For so many years I have been looking after my family, ignoring myself. now I realise my worth. Thank you so much for the inspiring video.
i need someone to talk to. i feel like i love him too much. i even Asked him that i needed a hug, and he always forgot, you know the feeling when you are so tired asking for attention but in one time you cant let that person go..
I can understand this feeling.. empathy for you
tania ananda yessss omdss
tania ananda I feel you
I feeel youuuu 😭😭😭😭
Im in that boat right now... If I bring up my feelings then I'm pittying myself... If I go downstairs and bake him come get me then I'm playing games..... I'm always begging for the attention that I want.. sure he gives me attention but it's the joke around kind of attention. Tickling, pinching, butt smacking.... I don't mind that but I don't want that all the time...
Starting to feel like I'm being treated this way after always blaming myself,this video made me realise that I'm also a human being with real feelings
I just believe that we should always be happy, because we will definitely find that right person someday, and when we meet that person, they won't ever go away. 😊😊
if you believe that he will never go away?
that may put you in a too 'relaxed' stage, after some years...
Don't you see married women, who look... bad, neglected?
It should be like that but in this real real world I came to an understanding that such relationships are onle fairy tales! Humans will always be humans...never capable of loving unconditionally...deep down there will always be a 'But' no matter how close to perfection another might be!
Let's not look at the negative side of things. Optimism in a relationship goes a long way to lead a happy life. Yes, I've seen married women in an absolute disaster.
But I've come to a realisation that such relationships have a weak foundation. We tend to neglect the important things in life and ask for what we do not possess. That is a basic "materialistic" human nature and not exactly a "Common" Human Nature.
Do not generalize humans into one single entity. Everyone should perceive life in their own natural way. It's very easy to adapt to a similar lifestyle of others and always whine about the negative side of things.
Be at your best, every single day of your lives and see how your loved ones keep falling in love with you every single day. All the best. 😊
No Such Thing!!!
Relationships require work from both parties to keep the love interesting
Be on top of your game from beginning to end so it makes it hard for him to leave AND regret it once you guys part.
And remember ladies a lost relationship isn't always a lost relationship sure you'll miss him but if you think back on everything and you know you did everything you were supposed to do or needed to do then he just was not the one for you it won't be your first or your last break up it's happened before and you survived it and then met him think of it that way you will meet another good one give him the same good opportunity and learn how to move on and not hang onto toxic people
Stay single. Period. 😂
chinnie A Yes😂
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Op
ChinnieA. exactly....!!! thank you. that's ME.
My long distant bf started blowing up my phone the first weeks now he burly texts me back he was honest and kind smart on letting me know that he was losing interest because we are a part and not in the same boat but he still wants me to be there for him so now I’m going to keep myself protected and prioritizing myself.
I REALIZED SOMETHING, EVEN IF YOU ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, SMART IN THIS WORLD, THEY WILL STILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE, LET JUST BE HONEST WITH THAT....
I THINK IF ANYONE AFRAID OF GOD, THEY WILL NEVER DO ANYTHING BAD TO YOUR RELATIONSHIP,
I agree😊
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It's true what you said I'm going through this kind of relationship I don't know how to punish the cheater
Being pretty won't keep a man, sex won't keep a man, a baby won't keep a man, heck being a good woman barely keeps a man. The only thing that will keep a man is a man that wants to be kept.
100% agree
you shouldn’t have to threaten to leave, in order to receive the love that you need
It doesnt work at all.
My boyfriend is having more than 5 girlfriends and i still love him what should I do
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Sometime I want to walk away but I fail,now help me what should I do
This made me realize I don't enjoy my husband enough to do all this. 😆
Edit: I left my husband 7/2/2020
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He's right. I dated a guy for 5 years; I thought we were on the right path. Wrong. I needed to address issues after year 1. He was so nice, we never argued, but things didn't progress to a ring. Then when I brought up engagement; because I waited longer, it made the conversation worse. You need to have relationship goals, and he needs to meet those goals. And if you have kids, keep up a "date night". He's right about the social life. I did things with his family, his brother, and his friends; thinking I was making myself more of his life. It was opposite. I needed to do less of that until we were actually "family, committed". I needed to have my own time, my own interests.....and keep him at bay sometimes.
I think this should be"how to move on from a guy who doesn't love you"then you will get a better man after doing all this
Toxic af: im seeing this advice from both sides. End the games on both sides and be real
Life is a game!
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Same here
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Haha, my boyfriend asked " Why are you always working out and having your hair done and doing things to make it grow more? Something going on." And when I'm working, he asks"Why are you always wearing skirts and have make-up on now? You never wore make-up before and now you don't go to work without it or without heels. I work at district court and he knows I'm surrounded by lawyers, successful handsome men like him. He calls me at my lunch time now and worries if I don't talk to him. I love it because he texts me more often and is more attentive and romantic.
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Ummm. That might become an obsession and control issue... be careful what you wish for
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HoneyChild56 That’s not a good situation for you to be in
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Harmless "jealousy" is good. I mean when your man feels he can lose you because you know your worth, are a quality woman, want but don't need him, and other men are attracted to you and/or pursue you, he will value you a lot more and will treat you like the beautiful queen that you are. Now, be careful-- there's a difference between possessiveness, control, and harmless jealousy, which is the fear to lose you and subsequently, putting real effort into the relationship and you. Please, do pay attention to controlling and possessive behavior 🙂
I agree let them think that you are not thinking about them all the time.
Its 2020, stop playing. Ladies, if he truly loves you and appreciates you, he will be afraid to lose you. Its not the other way around. You shouldnt do a damn thing to make him afraid of losing you. If he treats you casually, isnt invested, and shows no real commitment or fear of losing you, do yourself a favor and lose him. You're too special for that bs
Thank you!!! Agreed.
It's 2021 still ppl like u didnt change i feel sorry for you
If he appreciates you he's probably too embarrassed to tell you.
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Your video is right on time. I’m done talking to my bf. He doesn’t listen. I’m focusing on me and preparing to take the lsat in September. I’m working out and keeping myself busy with work and my child. I’m also not being as available as I previously was. He knows what he hasn’t been doing and he can figure out. I will be follow your tips and that’s that.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Be willing to walk away
This is sooo GOOD!! Finally walking away from someone who doesn’t value me.🙏🏽
If you treat me like a joke? Il leave you like it’s funny!
Love yourself and don’t worry about your man. Act or think like him.
“Act like a woman n think like a man”
After marry all mans are change
Kimii - no act like a man. Woman is very emotional and vulnerable. Show your man you can live without him.
Laraib Niazi - true. Don’t get married stays single forever.
Sheila Hunter very true say it again...
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Don't use dating sites either way.
Protites myself more. 🙂
Do what best for me,
Effort determined movativation to on myself and others move on from past guy. Focus on myself.
4. independent. Busy lifestyle. 😁🤗😊🙂 enjoy life. Not wasting time on past guy.
Accepting caring nutriting.
So agree the guy has to earn it. Can't show up whenever he feels like it.
Be accepting caring, compassion.
7. Not Accept bullying rude behavior. Not settle for anything then less.
Don’t settle for anything less. Thank God I found your channel ❤️
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I knew this guy since 2012 on and off we had ups and downs, I made an executive decision and said my part back in 2017 and never spoke to him again, then he find out I moved to a different area, I'm still confused how, because we don't have any mutual friends. Sporadically in 2018 As I was finishing work, walking to the station, he rode past me, then stopped, removed his helmet, and stood there, trying to grab my attention. By talking to a random stranger whilst trying to get eye contact, and raising his voice so I could hear him to ensure I knew it was him, after my cigarette. I walked straight passed him no eye contact, I didn't even look back at him. Now he stalks me on social media, but I'm too much of a high-value woman to accept less.
Well girl maybe if you actually saw him that far away from where you met him hey it may just be meant to be ya never know!!!
Kept my man interested for years. I am a drama queen and always kept thinks alive because of that sparky attitude. Always gave the threat of leaving him. It’s worked for me he adores me.
These tips are really great if the purpose is to make yourself happy or just focus on your self growth, but if you’re only doing this to make him fear losing you this is totally wrong.
Then what would be your advice? I honestly want to know
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Women just love yourself exactly as you are. Don't change for anyone but yourself. Period!! The right man will love you as you are.
I agree with you on the last statement you have made. Its impossible to fall in love with someone without being worried of losing them :) its a good sign to understand the powerful impact this person has made in our life and vice versa
Shortened version - change everything about yourself to make a man happy! I’ll pass.
Videos like this are very helpful in times of need and feel all alone. Or don't have anyone to share with. It is really helpful
To be honest if he doesn't worry about you he aint the one. So looking for tips is unnecessary. The right one will come
I feel the same. This shouldn't even be necessary. I wish we never ever desired one another , stupid to say so because humanity will die,but geez it should be mutual straight through
I sure HOPE so!!
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True, because these tips last a little while