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Комментарии • 61

  • @DannyDyersChocolateHomunculi
    @DannyDyersChocolateHomunculi 8 месяцев назад +60

    Favorite quote of this episode "You probably shouldn't have told me after I took my gummies."
    She forever ruined edibles for this man🤣🤣🤣

  • @sharienglish4655
    @sharienglish4655 8 месяцев назад +31

    2nd story - It sounds like there is no evidence of assault caused by OP. If he has text messages of her admitting to the loyalty prank that can show how unstable the girlfriend is and that she has a history of lying. I believe he should be fine. Let her embarrass herself in court and in front of all her family

  • @hotflippinmess9178
    @hotflippinmess9178 8 месяцев назад +46

    Maybe OP's husband has seen the red flags and ignored them because he's family. Now the rose colored glasses are removed and he sees EVERYTHING clearly.

    • @hesterhelenaprinsloo3500
      @hesterhelenaprinsloo3500 5 месяцев назад

      5 red flags. From Erin. I lenjoyed regular visits to a family member and we loved to talk straight about family. We have a family that had a history of bad, funny dangerous was being weird ,excentric and colorfull in the past

  • @Yokasta913
    @Yokasta913 8 месяцев назад +15

    The gummies could be the reason why he cried when she told him. 😂

  • @lenasamzelius5530
    @lenasamzelius5530 8 месяцев назад +8

    I found my favorite quote at 24:49 when John says: "Look at us evolving as internet therapists!"
    It has it all! Teamwork, positive development, friendship!

  • @genderchaotic
    @genderchaotic 8 месяцев назад +9

    I would love a video where you go back and recap old stories that have updates. I would love to be updated on this lasty story!!

  • @genesisaguero4049
    @genesisaguero4049 8 месяцев назад +15

    I love you guys ❤, I listen to OK OP everyday for everything, cooking, cleaning, eating, while working jajaja greetings from Venezuela 🇻🇪

  • @RedRoots14
    @RedRoots14 8 месяцев назад +9

    Woah posted “2 seconds ago” when I clicked that’s insane 😂

  • @funnygaming2672
    @funnygaming2672 8 месяцев назад +8

    she cannot sue him if she doesn't have actual proof that it ever happens ...It her words against his. pretty sure it won't hold up in court .waste of money on both side

  • @hotflippinmess9178
    @hotflippinmess9178 8 месяцев назад +19

    Aaron sounds on the narcissist spectrum at the very least and what they will do is be an absolute nightmare to their partner but hold a flawless facade for anyone else they interact with.

    • @ashleyduckworthyt3224
      @ashleyduckworthyt3224 8 месяцев назад

      Narcissists are VERY likely to has sex addition issues so I think you hit this right on the head. All signs point to him having a sex dis regulation of some sort. Investing in a hookup van, getting hookers, and going into debt for sexual gratification are all HUGE red flags for sex addiction

    • @catsncrows
      @catsncrows 8 месяцев назад +2

      Or have a something with narcissistic traits. Finally narrowed my mother down to histrionic personality disorder which is a wild ride and she did wildly narcissistic things.
      Edit this means she was a bit too volatile to maintain the narcissistic facade for too long even though she tried her hardest

  • @PerkiPerkins
    @PerkiPerkins 8 месяцев назад +8

    Holy cow, I hope OP is able to fight this situation with his crazy GF. I hope he can get a lawyer to help him.

  • @HeyDarling37
    @HeyDarling37 8 месяцев назад +4

    Sam - "The stick is skin flavored..."
    John - "I love skin flavored stick shifts..."

  • @KalamitySnow
    @KalamitySnow 8 месяцев назад +3

    Woahhhhh.. the last story shocked me!! I wasn’t expecting that ending at all and I’m mad there’s no other update!! Wtf

  • @savanna8103
    @savanna8103 8 месяцев назад +4

    Whats up with the title? 😂😂

  • @tkccsf8837
    @tkccsf8837 8 месяцев назад +14

    Am I the only one confused about the video title?

    • @guildpact2056
      @guildpact2056 6 месяцев назад

      its clickbait buddy. sorry you had to learn this way.

  • @girlface069
    @girlface069 8 месяцев назад +4

    For the last story, she has jonproof that he did anything to her so she COULD get in trouble for false accusations.

  • @faerlydisfunctional
    @faerlydisfunctional 8 месяцев назад +4

    "10mg is still a lot" -Two guys I was certain lived in California

  • @raquelmorales987
    @raquelmorales987 8 месяцев назад +1

    14:54 lol caught me off guard

  • @user-bu3cd2sx9q
    @user-bu3cd2sx9q 8 месяцев назад +9

    Am I the only one that's confused as to why the title is called "I caught my husband cheating" but the whole thing is about someone's cousin, not the husband????

  • @sarukegirl
    @sarukegirl 8 месяцев назад +5

    OPs husband doesnt have the mental real estate to help aaron... but if he really wants aaron to "do better" and improve... he needs to have a sit down with aaron and tell it to him straight that he has to change if they wanna maintain a relationship. Some people never change... but some people just need others to call them out on their BS before they can change.
    but also the title of the post is kinda confusing cause OPs husband wasnt cheating ??

    • @Peachypancake
      @Peachypancake 8 месяцев назад

      I also genuinely believe this. Unfortunately in most cases though, which does work out in this scenario, if it’s a guy, they most likely need to hear it from another guy and vice versa for girls

  • @lakibender7693
    @lakibender7693 8 месяцев назад +5

    Wow we're really watching these guys turn into Internet therapist. Or just read to many of these 😊Kinda funny to hear them talk it out into what a professional would say anyway. Either that or y'all are secret psychics. Example: Last story red flags you both called it. Good job.

  • @aprilfox9205
    @aprilfox9205 8 месяцев назад +5

    That's not 20 year old behavior, that's 15 year old girl behavior and i knew that would be a dumpster 🔥

  • @heatherdickau5335
    @heatherdickau5335 8 месяцев назад

    I listen as I do barn work. So I don't normally watch the videos. This morning, I realized I know whose voice is whose. So just know you are now in my head.😂😂😂

  • @marziamohseni9333
    @marziamohseni9333 8 месяцев назад +1

    Sofia is'nt here so John and Sam are back with seggsy comments 😂

  • @sylwia2514
    @sylwia2514 8 месяцев назад +5

    Your video was just what I needed after my exams 😅
    So thanks ❤

  • @cleopatralook2307
    @cleopatralook2307 8 месяцев назад +5

    Did you really play crying baby sound while reading about a stillbirth?!

    • @carbonn5998
      @carbonn5998 8 месяцев назад +1

      outta pocket bruuu

    • @TheMetallicLady
      @TheMetallicLady 8 месяцев назад

      whoever edited this vid might need a slap in the hand this time 🥴

  • @helianabanes4875
    @helianabanes4875 8 месяцев назад +3

    So,just my opinion, you cannot learn to be an extrovert. You can learn to be more outgoing, but if you are introverted, social interaction is an energy drainer.
    Also, is Aaron effing using his gf's(mom of three) money to get happy endings??? This guy sounds awful.

  • @lenasamzelius5530
    @lenasamzelius5530 8 месяцев назад +1

    The first story: My heart breaks for Jennifer (1st story). It sounds like she is housing and feeding an adult who is constantly criticizing her while spending what little money he has on prostitutes. What a catch. What a real stand up person to take advice from. Makes me wonder how good his advice really are? Is he one of those people who makes a mess out of his life but always knows exactly how other people should lead their lives?

  • @MegaMyown
    @MegaMyown 8 месяцев назад

    I love that this is the bad faith episode 😆😂

  • @edithnobleza4443
    @edithnobleza4443 7 месяцев назад +2

    I'm confused about the title, in the story 1 the op husband is not cheating on her

  • @elizabethparsons1071
    @elizabethparsons1071 Месяц назад

    Hearing the added babies cry after you said they had a still born made me feel really uncomfortable. That's a really heartbreaking situation and it just didn't fit with the light hearted baby cry.

  • @lethaldose19lifeaftergamin5
    @lethaldose19lifeaftergamin5 5 месяцев назад

    I am going to give you guys an update on the dude..
    He went the deep end of things, because life is f**king unfair. He got bailed out and probably has been persecuted by people and has been wrongfully blamed by that lunatic if his ex.
    He shared 2 very small updates on his reddit profile and it's very bad. He wants to die, kind of bad and is very angry at the world and his ex.
    This saddens me a lot.

  • @bonesies
    @bonesies 8 месяцев назад

    The Big Protein giggles in the back were the best.

  • @ashleyduckworthyt3224
    @ashleyduckworthyt3224 8 месяцев назад +1

    Aaron sounds like he likely has a sex addiction… The fact that he wanted to invest in a van, disappeared from a party to get off, and has gone in to debt for happy endings all point to the fact that he can’t regulate himself. That’s addiction right there.
    I’m glad that they broke up and are going their separate ways. This isn’t an easy thing to come back from and I think she’s better off without him.

  • @cholieandresa
    @cholieandresa 8 месяцев назад

    My favorite quote 😂😂😂 21:14

  • @carrielawooto9933
    @carrielawooto9933 5 месяцев назад

    That story where the sis goes with the mom's 3rd ex has me thinking about my husband's aunt (5 years older than him). The time she was drooling over her high school daughter's high school boyfriend. No. I don't like looking at pics of a high school boy flexing his muscles🤢, but she insisted on showing me. The time when she and all her kids were living in the same house, and she let her 23 year old son's male drug addicted friend move in. The plan was it was to help him get off drugs. The aunt and the guy ended up getting together and being boyfriend/girlfriend. At Thanksgiving I caught her boyfriend and her high school daughter looking at each other...let's just say there was some s*xual tension going on. I called my FIL after about what I had seen. My FIL had noticed it also. My MIL picked that time to not interfere. There are some other messed up things that his aunt did. I won't write about those. Amazingly, her kids turned out good, and are in happy marriages.

  • @rachaelkulikrealestate
    @rachaelkulikrealestate 8 месяцев назад

    Story 2 - faking an emergency is the most manipulative messed up move getting someone to prove loyalty I’ve ever heard. This woman is so insecure and controlling across the board. So NTA. He should’ve trusted the readers and dumped her STAT.

  • @WhoopsyDaisyDoo
    @WhoopsyDaisyDoo 2 месяца назад

    Go Jennifer!

  • @kiraeckard7625
    @kiraeckard7625 7 месяцев назад

    Last story: Even though she lied, I don't think it's ever okay to call your partner bad names or to cuss them when you're mad. A 'F this or that" is vastly different than an "F YOU!" to be specific. Even though she turned out to be crazy, I feel like her getting called a B*tch for childish behavior was entirely uncalled for and grounds for her to break up with him tbh.
    Of course the rest of the story proves she is, indeed, a b*tch and being broken up with is deserved, but that doesn't mean OP should have called someone he was still considering being staying with a name like that. If anyone is ever called names like that or cussed out in a relationship, leave. Even if it's 'justified', it's never okay to be talked to that way. We're striving for healthy communication.

  • @DannyDyersChocolateHomunculi
    @DannyDyersChocolateHomunculi 8 месяцев назад

    Not the skin flavor 🤣😂

  • @Lunamoongoddess-wg1nl
    @Lunamoongoddess-wg1nl 8 месяцев назад

    Second story it remind me a story call "the boy that called wolf" making up shit like this u be one standing alone cause no one would end believing u and put urself in serious situation cause the story of the boy that call wolf the ending being eaten by the wolf so the lesson is dont make bs up cause it can cause Consequences in the end lol

  • @erzsieke
    @erzsieke 8 месяцев назад

    Can’t wait to watch!💗💗💗

  • @mc10333
    @mc10333 8 месяцев назад +2

    What's going on with the title? I think that needs to be changed.

  • @andresespinosa6910
    @andresespinosa6910 8 месяцев назад

    I always miss it lol

  • @candytom2937
    @candytom2937 8 месяцев назад

    For the frist story about Chinese culture topic it's true, even worse if they have kids. My brother doesn't like to work much and has been caught cheating multiple times and yet my SIL stays with him since they have two kids. and her parents don't care cause he's a man. Even trying to buy him a car... No matter what I say she still stick by him.

  • @annengo3979
    @annengo3979 8 месяцев назад

    Japanese culture Sam 😂❤

  • @catsncrows
    @catsncrows 8 месяцев назад

    S1 I know it's hard to hear about someone being fermented snail snot to their partner but if they are currently being selectively awful it doesn't mean that they won't turn on you the minute you do something they don't like.
    No he shouldn't talk to Aaron, he will probably be manipulative and put a spin on things (or try, once you learn the manipulation dance steps you can dodge them). I'm kind of doing the same thing with someone, I'm really good at locating resources and I'm just being supportive until everything blows up. She gets overwhelmed easily so a heavy handed approach is just going to alienate her
    Love you guys but I'm unsubscribing from the channel. I know you guys are throwing around theoretical theories but questioning people's experiences is personally too much for me. I wish continued sucess for your channel!

  • @neow2545
    @neow2545 8 месяцев назад

    Yall are so naive about not knowing what people are capable of. I want to know how you live.

  • @Darkqueen1015
    @Darkqueen1015 8 месяцев назад

    Riley, I am from Nashville, TN.
    Here is Aita story.
    So would I be the asshole if I never want to see my mom again. I am the oldest of my sisters. My mom moved back to TN last year. She blames me for everything. She has told me she never wanted me. She told me she never wanted me as her child. She has custody of my second cousins who are 3&4 years old. She said I will never see them again and that I am nothing to them. So I ask again. Am I the asshole for never wanting to talk or see my mom again?

  • @thebackstageblonde2435
    @thebackstageblonde2435 Месяц назад

    Guy in the last story… yeah u over reacted BIG TIME?? Wtf lol