Should You Watch Porn? | Middle Ground
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"Why are young kids scared of sex?"
You never walked in your parents doing it, and it shows.
Patrick Sullivan That’s how my relationship with my parents shattered. I may be overreacting, but walking in on someone you trust doing something that I found negative, just shattered me. I need therapy.
Sunny Cherub i’m sorry but i couldn’t help but laughing 🤣😂
@@sunnycherub7208 Sex isn't negative
Sunny Cherub ?? Dasa joke right?
Sunny Cherub lmao wtf is wrong with you
Strict parents vs laid back parents would be good
Lol yea
This is it!!!!
Jasper Pearcey yesss
yess that is nice one
I think that's the video where the people discussing would actually get into a fist fight 😂
I've never seen people more angry than when they are questioned about their parenting
Porn films can't be considered sex eduction. The Fast and Furious movies aren't driving lessons.
Undervalued comment
true
as a gay guy it did educated= for me as I received no gay sex ed in school. However, thats the only reason I like it and wish I received proper sex ed in school
Exactly
This is an underrated comment
Being anti-porn, doesnt make you an anti-SEX, its a different thing. You can protest against porn and still have sex! Learn to distinguish.
Exactly. Sex can be a beautiful thing but porn usually turns it into something violent and disgusting
This is so true! (Similarly) More people need to realise that pro-sex doesn’t mean pro-porn
no one is saying that._.
HONESTLY
Consider the Puritans: they were anti-fornication and anti-pornography, with fornicators and adulterers and other lewd persons publicly shamed and condemned; yet their families consisted of 7-10 children, with 6 being the minimum.
Yet if say you are anti-porn, you are called a Puritan, despite Puritanism being very pro-martial sex, and sex within marriage in general.
"why are kids fearful of sexual interaction"... because they're kids I guess 🤔
I’d also assume that a lot of it is due to the people the kids are around, who usually tell them that sex bad
@@hikkicornmori359 Right
Sultan Abdulhameed II Strange... I've watched it for years and I still have yet to commit even a single crime. Must be weird huh?
@@kiwikiwi2483 Good for you i guess?? Nevertheless pornography can become an addiction, is a big factor that causes rape and is not a good thing overall. It is a business that promotes unrealistic standards, stereotypes and desires.
Cornfield like they should u do realize that there kids
Lol, porn is not education its a business, lets be honest here.
Exactly. Imagine teaching felacio to grade schoolers.
Besides, it is totally addicting, once you started watching it very often, you can't stop 🙁
@@angelgaviria6697 I know.
@@mia0000hehehoho Education is something that grownups can get too.
@@thomasf.9717 Education must contribute to a common good for the society.
I don't understand why people believe that it is okay for children to see pornography, when I was 13 I had a friend who was around 11-12 and she was addicted to pornography. Her and me watched it together and thats when she sexually assaulted me. Children shouldn't ever watch pornography!!
This is crazy dude so many children watch it
@@NotToffieYeah.....literally the problem, parents neglect children stumble on things they shouldn't. Also why letting them in technology too soon is bad
They're going to be exposed to it sooner or later
@@blacklyfe5543it starts with thirst traps on every app
@@blacklyfe5543That's like saying "they're going to be assaulted sooner or later, might as well do it to them young"
“Stepsis gets drilled from behind”
Why aren’t they teaching this in schools, top tier education.
This comment is underrated
LAUGHED OUT LOUD BRUHHH
This is the best comment
Badass Heisenberg level. 😂
I READ YOUR USERNAME AFTER THE COMMENT AND OMG IT LINKS SO WELL
“Our society needs better sex education. “ This actually made me laugh cause imo our society just needs a better education overall.
Tom C. TRUEEE
tooo accurate. Our society is definitely failing everyone with how things are right now, and have been for about 70-80 years
Obviously.. but the topic was sex and porn
Our education system is about creating workers! We need more entrepreneurs and “be your own boss,” type education. It’s all bureaucracy now!
Education in general is fuckin' underbudgeted.
Like, I agree: children *should* be taught that sex is a positive thing but like... not through porn.
Little Jimmy needs more Dopamine
It gives people a messed up view about sex and women in general.
Porn shouldn't be the introduction to sex. But what about older minors like 15, 16, 17 years? They most likely are exploring sex, sexuality, and such. Could porn be educational? Not cheap free porn that doesn't explain consent or safety very well.
@@ladyfoxwf1075 thank you for answering my question.
@@andrielisilien I'm not gonna lie most 15 to 17 year olds dont find porn educational, but also the sec ed classes are usually just uncomfortable and not well done. When we finally get to do the devils tango we realise that it's completely different to what porn has taught us.
Porn doesn’t educate. I think we can all say that it destroys our perception of the world😅
You are a very smart person!
Never destroyed my perception. So no we can't all say that.
as a gay guy it did educated for me as I received no gay sex ed in school. However, thats the only reason I like it and wish I received proper sex ed in school
@@mason4966 yes it would have subconsciously stop trying to defend your addiction.. life tip: morality doesn’t equal inclination.
@@aliciabell4116 I'm not addicted it to it. Morality is somewhat subjective.
Im going to be honest, i been watching and learning from porn since i was 10 years old. From that experience i was insecure and hated myself. It also ruined my life in many ways then one. Super low confidence, so much social anxiety and low drive. Some of my lowest points in my life was due to watching porn. I could promise you this, Once i stopped , my life has been nothing but successful. I found a beautiful GF at my job , in which i wouldve been to nervous to walk up to her and talk to her. My confidence is sky rocketed and my overall prospective of life has changed.
I am so extremely happy for you!!
Same and likewise big guy, we’re all gonna make it
I'm going to be honest with you, I've been watching porn since 8 years old (I started with softcore oh Red Shoe Diaries, I loved that show on cinema Golden Choice). From that experience, I was happy (watching adult content when you're not supposed to, kinky). As time went by it did help my view, I realized that women weren't these delicate flowers they were human beings with libido and urges like me and it helped me relate with them on a personal level. Increase and confidence since I realize that I wasn't wrong for having sexual urges. Some of the highest points in my life were thanks to porn. Some of the best stories I've watched, and appreciate were thanks to porn great authors like Jacky St. James, Tsuyatsuya, Tamaki Nozomu, and Nicole Conn. That procreation and sexual acts are carnal acts that I could perform by anyone (the gama of male porn actors is quite wide as well once you pay attention). It helped my life in many ways. And whenever I didn't watch on a regular basis I get obsessed, always thinking about sex. I have a steady job, I have more money than my folks when they were my age, I have my place of my own and any relationship I’ve had being open about sexuality was never an issue. You were the problem pal, not porn.
i dont believe on such crap
That’s awesome dude! Fck p orn honestly
They didn’t talk about how porn influences human sex trafficking.
Shaundra Marie how does it?
@Tyler Hunt
Google the Girlsdoporn scandal for one of the most recent examples.
fr porn is so terrible. It’s very addictive and makes you have a certain thought towards things, iykyk. It damages your thought process and makes your body feel like it wants more and more. most porn vids are unrealistic and give u a false sense of what is wrong and right for u. It’s overall just a horrible thing to watch.
@@leleohanmu8142 that's your fault if you take it like that wdf. Most people just see different kinds of porn and go about their day cuz "different strokes for different folks".
@@leleohanmu8142 Most things are addictive, Like alcohol and smoking etc
People who believe in global warming vs people who dont
What?!
yes!
It’s called climate Change dumbass not global warming. Look it up
we need this!!!!
Diego Pereira global warming is an example under the entire subject that is climate change
I respect his experience, but it hurts to see a trans person call porn a "tool for education" when it's a huge reason why trans people (trans women especially) are seen as nothing but a fetish.
Wind wind eind eind wind mill mill mill eedee
He's trying to change that by giving dignity to trans persons in sex education. Slowly, but surely.
To say porn is "an amazing avenue for education" is too optimistic and very naive. Sure, there is ethical porn out there, but there are also thousands of people who are victims of the industry.
as a gay guy it did educate for me as I received no gay sex ed in school. However, thats the only reason I like it and wish I received proper sex ed in school
When the trans man said he was a trans completely caught me off guard
Not me. As a woman, I knew instantly lol
MAYA KELLY how did you knew? Honest question. I Thought it was a man.
First time I had that reaction. Most of the times you can see. Or if you can't see. See it after it is known. Now it is known and I still can't see it.
MAYA KELLY good for you
Antonio Rodriguez It was an intuition thing and it seems to me that no matter if a woman decides to present as a man they don’t ever have the same cadence lol Biologically there are just innate ways women look when sitting walking standing etc lol
this is what a healthy discussion looks like. take notes people.
sadly, most people are not this articulate and thoughtful to have discussions like this.
Sadly almost no porn looks healtly like woman here say
Sadly I don't have anything to reply with so I started my comment with sadly.
This is rare in 2019
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One of the main reasons I stopped viewing porn is because I found out how it’s linked to human sex trafficking
My family lives in a third world country and my niece is at the prime age for people who target girls for sex trafficking. I started thinking that girls in porn could have gone through what I’m worried my niece might go through if things go badly
i hope your niece is safe
@@JHNTR Thank you. She is doing very well and she is safe
Same here.
I live in a third world country and there are quite many cases of rape (mainly about an underage child) here.
Then I remember the porn from my countries in the hub. Some of it's titles are of high schoolers and some seemed very non professional. The titles of the videos also is very childish and it's like an immature boy is writing them.
Just hope the one in the hub isn't linked to the cases.
Also, I hope for the best for your niece and family...!
@@anotherhetalian8499 is your country Philippine? I've watched a documentary about child sex trafficking and there were kids being sold for prostitution in the little age of 9-11 and the parents themselves knew and helping the abusers selling their kids for money it was so heartbreaking to see I hope it's not happening anymore :(
That movie with Nicholas cage, 8mm shows how obvious the connection often is.
men who dont watch porn are hands down better lovers, to me at least
but where do y’all find em :(
@@xIG0RAWRx I'm here 😀
definitely, i wish there were more dudes who didn't watch porn
@@0calicocat0 it's not easy to quit you know, a study showed that the brain of a porn addict was similar to that of a heroin addict
@@requiem.5016 i know it isn't easy! porn has similar effects to that of hard drugs, though many guys won't even acknowledge that they have a problem or that there is something seriously messed up about the industry. Acknowledging that you have a problem is always the first step to recovery
I find it interesting how I only agreed with the anti-porn people, considering I watch porn.
You’re addicted?
Realization that you have a problem is the first step to recovery.
@@douglasmacarthur702 For real man, ✊
Same. I’m not addicted. Like it hasn’t hindered my way of life (although I’ve been working on stopping, I go for about 2 weeks without watching now) but one day I decided that I didn’t need this anymore and I decided I was done.
Both side had very shallow arguments and their thoughts weren't very clear
Watching porn affects you in ways that you would never think.
that's it
Could you elaborate?
Liam Patrick Well in the future, you might expect your wife to act a certain way sexually (like a way you see girls act in porn) which is extremely unrealistic. It effects relationships like with family. It’s gross but porn like incest can start to get into your head and you might start to think certain things ab siblings, uncles, etc. Porn’s also very degrading towards women and gives men unrealistic exceptions of women.
@@livhaugen9738 does your opinion also say the same for women? Because I've seen many cases where both genders are as bad and people in our society think it's only men unfortunately.
___________ I think everything that I said goes for women too. Except the one where it’s degrading towards women.
Watching this series I learned people want 0 judgement and 0 consequences for the decisions they make and that is just not how life works
well said. couldn't agree more
I judge you.
I've had ex bfs DEMAND I do sexual acts they've seen in porn. I've even been dumped because I didn't want to.
Porn makes men see women as objects and nothing more.
I've got 2 cousins in porn, both are unhappy, both have been forced into things they didn't want to under the threat of not being paid. So I consider that rape via coersion. Both have had stds due to the job, both have mental health issues...
I was told by Mel that they don't always clean the sets, the toys ect
My other cousin went to a set where she was asked to use toys other people had used....
If porn is so healthy, why do women have an average life span of 36 in the porn industry?
I am very sorry to hear that. I hope they are doing ok
This porn addict I know doesn't even want vaginal sex anymore. His wife told me he ONLY wants anal. So, her pleasure clearly isn't his priority like most porn.
So true!!
Foster kids vs parents who gave their child up for adoption
That is a good topic quite creative
Woah
That’s something I would like to see
That's dark lol
That’s a very good idea
Learning about sex from prn is like learning how to be a nurse from the GTA nurses.
Correct. Lol
I mean, if you perform cpr to a headless person, I'm pretty sure they'll live
LMFAOO
@@sodiumso6015 only until they require mouth to mouth
That is the perfect analogy! 😂
On a personal note, watching porn makes me look at every single human I encounter as a sexual object. I've often wondered about the links to porn and committing heinous acts like rape, child porn, etc. I don't see people as anything but sexual objects if I've just watched porn.
for me its the exact opposite. mastrubation takes the sexual tension out of situations where it doesn't belong(aka interactions with people of the opposite gender who aren't sexual partners). visual material(not necessarly p*rn in my case) just makes the process more fun. also, people who repress their sexuality(and not let it went through things like porn) are more likely to engage in criminal activities related to SA. just look at priests.
@@yvs6663 Interesting perspective. Yes, masturbation can make you feel relieved, but the way porn eeks its way into your life is the pandemic.
I'm sure you can admit that watching porn (or lewd pictures in your case) allows you to view others in that lewd sexual way (even if you're not actively lusting after them, you can still envision them in situations, clothing, positions, etc because you've seen it).
As far as priests, they only verbally repress themselves to the outside world. Many many many have been found with lewd material that they watch/read/view.
@@yvs6663 That’s why you don’t understand. You don’t consume it, so you don’t know how it affects the brain.
well it's funny to be seeing this now, considering that there's an anti-pornography movement nowadays that is EXTREMELY justified. Pornography has always been seen as negative in all senses, and it's an exploitative industry: it exploits impressionable minds (since a big percentage of porn consumers are teenagers and sometimes even children), and hooks them to something fairly sinister. It's also exploitative because it further contributes to body issues and insecurities. But most importantly, the industry is a dangerous one. MindGeek and other adult video corporates have profited off of r*pe videos, child pornography, revenge porn, and sex trafficking. It is also a blatantly misogynistic industry and is very unethical toward female workers, as they are paid less and sometimes sexually exploited and assaulted while working. Frequent pornographic consumption also messes with brain receptors and the release of rewarding hormones, like dopamine and oxytocin. The porn industry knows very well it's unethical, dangerous, and exploitative, but they receive no repercussions and do nothing to solve the issues unless the New York Times decides to expose them.
Hard disagree your painting a broad brush and generalizing allot.
i think homeschooling vs public schooling would be an interesting debate.
I would love to watch this!
Amy Binns yes!!!
I was about to say private vs public, but lemon beat me to it. Good job on your reply lemon loves her friends!
WANT IT NOW
Amy Binns I’m homeschooled 🤙
"Porn helps people to accept their body." when many performers have been through surgery procedures to all look the same...
Lana Lacroix this was a good one. Porn increases comparison. “I don’t look like that”. I would say more insecurities than securities. lol
What porn you are watching? Porn that was made in the 90s ?
I can find a lot of naked chubby bodies on the internet. The category of amateur porn is HUGE.
That’s why many women have insecurities now and why many men expect women to look like their porn stars.
Joy Fitzgerald yes that may be true but the reality is, is that people prefer watching porn with smaller tummy’s and bigger ass and tits
I'm against porn, I don't really care if someone watches porn but I am against the industry
it is very exploitive and can instill unrealistic expectations whether it be for sex or beauty standards for people the industry also has a lot of child trafficking
I've never watched porn and I have no interest in it (partially because I'm asexual so sex as a whole is just a no from me)
I feel like if I were to watch porn I would just be uncomfortable and awkwardly sitting there avoiding looking at the screen
although I will admit I have read smut. but that's a totally different thing
The porn industry is exploitative
You're asexual (and that's totally fine obviously) so you don't like porn
But that doesn't mean porn is bad for everyone right
@@jansojele289 yes
@@purplecatloverrandompizza no its bad for everyone.
I’m also asexual! and I’ve also read smut but I rather read a fanfic or book with a cute love story or interesting plot since smut is mostly meh to me.
The thought of porn has always terrified me and I was never curious enough to search it up. I’m against porn considering it’s highly addictive and extremely bad for your mental health as I’ve heard it.
You are perfectly entitled to that opinion. You do not have to watch porn. Many of the things you say are actually true. That said, there are many people who enjoy making porn, watching porn and having sex on camera. It's a Job for many people. Some start out because of wrong reasons and want out, and I hope they do. But what about those that do not want out?
Pornography is seen in bad light by almost everyone, but a Vast Majority still watch it. And enjoy it. So, what can you do? Nothing.
even ted bundy once said in an interview "I've lived in prison a long time now. I've met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence just like me. And without exception, every one of them was deeply involved in pornography. Without question, without exception, deeply influenced and consumed by addiction to pornography" this isn't a coincidence. porn enables men to see women less as human beings and more as sex objects.
So we're gonna listen to Ted Bundy now?
@@Maksie0 yes, on this point, it is quite telling
Literally tho pretty much all these dudes were raging misoginst but instead people are like hmmm what makes their brain tick to go so far
@@Maksie0 considering the fact that if anyone knows how to turn them I into a monster it would be him.
Pro birth-control and anti birth-control would be amazing!
It would be...considering the prominence of birth control's effects on modern day pair bonding. There are theories that birth control affects woman's choice of men to be more similar to her male relatives than if she is off the pill. How women prefer men with different scents while on and off the pill. Also, since her body thinks she is pregnant while on the pill, could this help explain the vicious levels of hypergamy amongst women nowadays? With the rise of birth control, we've also seen a rise in divorce rates and inceldom in males...coincidence?
John Sampson I feel like you pulled that information out of your ass like what-
They did search it
Damn some people are against the pill
This would be good, I feel like most people today don't hear the argument against birth control and contraceptives.
Jubilee is what Buzzfeed imagine in its wildest dreams it could be. Shout out to the jubilee crew.
Konrad Malthe Klingest istg lol
Facts
Lol nah, Buzzfeed doesn’t want diversity of thought
Buzzfeed is too biased to have a valid opinion about anything.
Except buzzfeed has like 19million subs and over 16 i repeat 15.5 billion video views... I like jubilee a lot more tho
porn addiction is a very dangerous thing and the way it's so easy to access on the internet worries me tbh, especially for those who are younger.
right, The 18+ warning in some sites is not enough they can lie.
Yeah, i fell into this at 4 yo, did nothing educational.
@@inihilisme1511 my condolences, i cant imagine viewing such filth at that age, i hope youre able to recover with that.
@@emilys4566 crust night light
Just because you are addicted doesn’t mean I am. This is such an authoritarian way of dealing with things; whenever you have a problem with something just ban it.
I’m not anti-porn. I’m anti-porn Industry
This is the correct stance on this subject.
@@diegoseba12 there's no such thing as a "correct stance" when there are multiple views
Why? No one is forcing you to buy or watch it. Plus there is no difference. You only want amateur porn to exist for free? Sounds like you are coping, If some people wanna make money cus people buy porn then its not your problem. No one is forcing you to consume it you are just jealous they make money of it you want everyone to make porn for free LMAO.
I love this comment. Stuff like written erotica and drawn art is so much more creative, almost like an artistic thing, and much better for the brain then the over-produced stuff you see everywhere
@AUStin Yes you are right on that
Self-Made wealth VS Generational wealth (People born into money)
Chandon that’s sooo good oh my god!
this would be awesome!!!
YESSSS PLXZ
Dude....What is there to argue? No clue what your saying
That would really be super amazing...
I want to see a middle ground of people who are racist and anti-racist
carlos portillo it’ll be hard for people to admit there racist
Maybe clan members
Nobody admits it, you don’t have to be white to be racist (and if you were saying that if it was klan members there then it would be white vs black... not all white people agree with the klan’s ideology and black people aren’t the only race)
no one is really racist anymore. despite what CNN tells you.....most people now are just xenophobic.
The truth hurts doesn't it? More like black people vs white people
Addiction is needing something you dont love
that hits hard.
I love to spend my free time as I see fit.
I wouldn't say i was an addict but I think my relationship with porn was unhealthy. I felt uncomfortable watching after many years. I gave nofap a shot was on and off for a while. A 3 months here and then relapse a 1 one month there and then relapse and so on. But then I met a woman who was unlike anyone else I've ever been with I shared my struggle with her and as a romantic partner she has been supportive of my goals to quit. She has been a huge motivation in putting that life behind me. I have never felt so free as this is the longest I've gone without consuming it. I don't even get urges to look at the porn anymore. Sometimes all one needs is a supportive partner.
It's great when you have a supportive partner, but what if you don't? For me watching porn is a way to not go crazy.
@@IgoArs You think you're dependent on porn, but you aren't.
This really should have gone on longer. These people actually seemed like they were really listening to each other.
Agreed
They scratched the surface. It easily could and should have been an hour. Productive conversation.
Right? We barley get that I liked them
Who knew that one of the most polite and engaging conversations between opposing viewpoints would be around porn!?! Lolololol
No they didn't. Buck specifically failed to listen to the story of a kid who thought his father was abusing his mother.
Porn raises wrong images about how sex should be or ...look like
I think there are pros and cons. Porn gave me some ideas that I utilized in real life that my gf loved that I may not have known to do naturally. On the other hand, it brainwash people into thinking all women have D cups and all men have 9 inch dicks among other things.
Yes
@@poejavelski148 well said brotha
Like what? In my experience women like everything I’ve seen in porn. Well except for the donkey fiasco…
Problem with the industry rather than porn in general. Nothing wrong with things like amateur vids
I love how Jubilee does things, especially on Middle Ground. You guys don't take sides. You guys don't judge. There are other channels where the OP tries to encourage empathy toward people of an opposing position, but are careful to say that they're wrong or they're bad. Their empathy comes off as sympathy with its nose turned up. But you guys encourage people of different points-of-view to get right down on the ground with each other, looking each other in the eye. Bravo.
The girl in the red is so sweet and innocent. She is a keeper.
We must protecc
@@pinkinkling1905 she's a grown adult stop treating her like a child or something
@@madelinegarcia2736 i feel like you just said this to start drama 😭 either that or you took it too seriously idek
@@korteygus3947 LMAO I JUST WANTED TO KNOW 😭😭😭
Actually I found her to be quite narrow to her approach if things
why does the bearded man look exactly like what i imagine a porn producer to look like
bearded dude actually has a vagina. no lie. Trans dude.
usnavyvet2002 He’s still a man.
@@usnavyvet2002 why did you bring that into the convo 💀
@@FitForRivalsFan go to xvideos type in "buck" and watch for yourself. He's a dude with a vagina. Is there some rule I broke by pointing out the fact he is a dude with a vagina?
@@usnavyvet2002 i mean its not like anyone was asking, since he said it himself in the video anyways.
Porn is not an education. I think watching porn and encouraging people to watch them is one of the farest things from the education.
Search up tutorials on how to do certain things, cause those videos defiantly help out a lot of people
@@harrydebenham8533 hard to find 😓
Porn is great education. I learned a thousand things about the sex act which really helped my performance. You know, my mother did not show me the way to penetrate her, maybe yours did, so you dont need porn...
@@augustedupin8016 Thank you for sharing your experience of being taught how to have sex by watching porn. Because I'm Japanese, I don't know how watching is considered in your country but in my country, I also learn something concerning sex by watching porn. But once I had sex with my girlfriend I realized there are too many differences between real sex and porn. I think that's because products introduced by porn usually contain much exaggeration.
@@tempura_samurai Well, exaggeration depends on the type of porn. If you watch brazzers or faketaxi type of porn, yes it is not how it goes down in the real world. For reality you have to choose amateur porn prefferably husband&wife kind of stuff where you can really see that those people care for each other. That kind of porn is beautiful. Which also gives you great ideas how to behave in the bedroom with your own gf/wife.
It's strange that despite being someone that consumes porn, I have a much stronger affinity for the anti-porn side. I love that none of them even said they were "anti-porn" in their intros, but simply stated a simple statement of the profound effects that porn has had on their lives/careers/professional lives.
I agree with Abigail, it does require some level of maturity to consume porn, and it's perfectly okay to consume the material and understand that it does not accurately represent or portray, necessarily, healthy ways to do sex. When J.K. talked about the experience of failing to find pleasure (erection or stimulation) outside porn, that really hit me because at some point, I thought I was having the same issue. Given, I have been single for about 26 years and celibate for 23 of them, I encountered a problem where it felt like I had some issues that J.K. may have talked about and that made me afraid to pursue relationships.
Despite being a sex worker, Riley doesn't just talk about the industry from a pro-stance. She outlines nuances and issues faced by sex workers and understands the issues caused by stigma and a lack of sex education. And I love how Maria isn't necessarily on the offensive, but speaks from a place of professional/educational sense.
That whole piece about emotional intelligence from J.K. I found really interesting. Disney to porn. Definitely is such an extreme transition for a lot of us growing up!
I’m on my period and hormonal..this video made me so emotional and I loved how mature x respectful everyone was ❤️❤️
private school vs public schooling would be cool
If you really want some extremely intellectual discussion(mainly economics based) I suggest you search Thomas Sowell and Milton Friedman debate against public school.
Lizzy White I really wanna see different perspectives on that matter. I respect jubilee and their crew for the hard work they have put off. It’s honestly really fascinating and eye opening. The fact that they’re all really respectful too is amazing.
I agree I teach at a private school.
Homeschooled is better everytime.
Or maybe home school vs public school
Porn can really make people insecure about their bodies.
Why?
Cultura Geek y Artes Marciales because mainstream porn showcases perfect bodies that are unrealistic expectations placed on men and woman
@@kaiden6614 so do movies, tv shows, and games. You have to be insecure already to have porn make you insecure.
Agree
@@kaiden6614 doesn't all form of entertainments do that
I have to say, am pretty impressed with how well spoken & concise everyone’s points were.
what did the bald guy say ?? that he has a vagina please, have you read gary wilson ?? or watched some of the videos here on youtube related to the topic.
j.k. has such a beautiful smile. he looks like someone i wanna be friends with.
Spectrum: do all vegans think the same?
Angela Brown I would love this, I’m personally vegan and there are a lot of nut jobs out there, and I would love people to see we’re not all crazy. Haha
Robert I am vegan too! That’s exactly why I suggested this video.
@@Robert-wv4jt yes! Most vegans dont going around hating everyone like idiots believe they do. They are just like u and me but dont support the torture of animals!
Maybe if Emily from Bite Sized Vegan gets to be in it once she resurrects her channel
As a vegan I would love this too! There are so many crazies out there giving us all a bad name (especially on RUclips) 😬
Parents who support LGBT vs parents who don’t support LGBT
Savanha Marie YESSSS!!!!
This!
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Naw ,parents who don't support will get bashed so hard and be seen as homophobes no matter what they say
@@PenguinZpoison yes
Religion
You guys know who to get to be guests in your videos. I don't need drama I just need genuine and respectful conversations. And I can see it in all your videos. Kudos to you guys behind Jubilee. ❤️
I liked every single person in this video, I'm honestly kind of shocked. Their opinions were often clashing with each other and yet they all remained completely calm and respectful. Very mature and well spoken. Also, I'm used to always picking a side when I watch these videos but this time I feel like every single person in the room brought in some valid arguments. I wouldn't mind if the episode was much longer.
This is the most civilized and understanding middle ground ever.
Porn makes people close to each others
You say it as if it's a good thing they got a bunch of risk-averse invertebrates to "talk". xD
@@KucheKlizma it for educational purposes
Nah, I've seen other ones that have like no tension at all. I think the Christians vs. Scientists and the Natural beauty vs. Plastic surgery ones were like that, if I remember correctly.
Jessica Jackson But it also depends on how you use it. If you watch porn without your crush knowing it, then you may have a problem. And some guys are so addicted to watching pornography that they'll end up single for a long time.
Discussion between light skin black women and dark skin black women about colorism in society and the entertainment industry
I like that idea but I wouldn’t want it in a video like this were they’re stated as “vs” or against each other
oh. my. God. We need this
Yasssss
Let's put "and" instead of "vs"
definitely.
Wow, this was such a great conversation! I agree with everyone here, it’s a great group of people with all great points.
Love the openness, civility, and even warmth of this conversation.
The eight year old kid was fearful because he is just that.... AN EIGHT YEAR OLD
CRAZY WHAT THIS BUCK THING SAYS
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw the kid might then think that's what the mom does to the dad not the other way around😂
So y'all are saying it's not because there's sth wrong with porn? 8 year olds are not scared of every single thing. If he was scared of porn it's because something's wrong with the porn not just cuz he's 8
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw they handle it differently for a reason. Because they're more sensitive as opposed to bring desensitized like most adults kinda like a hitman is used to murder like no big deal. It's not because he's mature it's because he's in too deep to see the truth but the innocent kid can see more clearly. I don't understand your last statement at all. Of course they handle it differently. That's literally what I said. But why bad differently and not good differently like candy or running or whatever? Maybe there's sth inherently wrong with it?
@@hwfq34fajw9foiffawdiufhuaiwfhw what a virile name Buck is tough. I can't compete I guess I'm just a man.
For a guy named J.K. he’s very serious😂
Why? I don’t get it?!
Top Compilation Videos J.K = just kidding
Lol
Lmao I could only think about jungkook
serayah v army?
Trying to defend pornography is just a mental cope for ones own addiction. It’s pathetic, and ignoring and denying the negative neurological effects is actually extremely harmful.
Agree there
How truly sad this person is to think that he was worse for not having pornography as a child.
I find it ironic how a Human Rights Activist is pro porn. The amount of sex trafficking that happens directly due to porn is enormous, and it seems he didn't even consider that.
true it’s a contradiction
sex trafficking has been prominent for thousands of years. how can you say that porn is the direct cause?!
@@jaspertong2852 well it influences it
@@jaspertong2852 its just bad pplls
He's trying to make educational porn for transgender people to feel more comfortable about their bodies. While a lot of porn is definitely not educational, I think that because of his target audience it makes sense. He probably considered the human trafficking, and he might even be fighting against that. It wasn't brought up in this video, so we can't decide wether it's ironic or not because we don't have any of the facts. They discussed in the perimeters of the statements that Jubilee gave them.
Teachers vs students!!!! It would be extremely interesting to hear questions about stress, homework, mental health, standardized tests, etc.
Morgan Milani Omg yes!!!
Pleaseeee!
Morgan Milani yes, I love this ideaaaa
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS
It's not the teachers, It's the system.
How did they not even adress the STD'S that float around in the industry
Even though i am still addicted, i am against it. It sounds super hypocritical but thats why it is an addiction. It takes an incredible amount of determination and willpower to get clean of it and yet it is super easy to relapse. I think we would be better off without it, that said i believe sex education should, like the people in the video said, not only be about biology but also educate on an emotional level.
That sounds like a you problem why are you restricting my first amendment rights because you have no self control.
@@gergarfritz3442 by your logic, I guess public ndty and public sx are first amendment rights too.
It's not hypocritical at all. It shows you are at least aware you have a problem.
Porn changes your mind on a chemical level. It changes men's viewpoint towards women. Its playing with fire...
Hey man not all of us are like sleeper agents waiting to go berserk.
There are different type of porn and different categories (which does not always have male female or one dominating the other...) and it only reflects what society or communities shows/wants therefore the problem is society viewpoint on sex not porn...
yess
@@gamecoolguy619 the problem with that statement is that you are separating society from porn. members of society come together to create porn, whether professionally or homemade. Even if we were to view porn as an isolated product outside of society it perks the mind and enables dangerous consumption. It is indisputable that there are are less demeaning videos out there, but its the lure of the most popular ones that draws the attention of human minds, both from the fact its a popular video and because the "lure" is comparable to a drug hit- having multiple women, taboo subjects like step siblings, etc. that is hard to not be curious or interested and really distorts views of women (and men!). As a woman I have experienced this way too many times. Bc my natural body is "desirable" i am not even known by my achievements but as the "big boob girl" by both men and women; my classmate said to me "have fun being a sex toy," being chased to my car by a guy saying he'd impregnate me, ive had people say they had sex with me and when i asked people why they believed it they said, literally, because of my body shape. Mind you, im a person who is choosing to wait; there is literally 0 warrant for anything i previously mentioned except how women are portrayed in media and porn. Warren is right when he says porn is playing with fire to peoples minds, and its not just chemically for the men attracted to women. Im not even completely dead-set against porn- i'd say im 90% against it- bc non-degrading videos of men and women do exist, people need to blow off steam every now and then, can be watched to reinvigorate a couples sex life, etc. But MOST consumed videos are the degrading ones, and the actors, directors, script writers, etc. are not separate from society; they are a part of it.
@@gamecoolguy619 the problem is society viewpoint on life not murder...
not giving up until we get a middle ground of flat-earthers vs scientists.
It could even just be flat-earthers vs. People with an iq of over 2
yes!
@@shammyshakes6478 haha, better then the original comment
Omg yes plzzzzz
anna yessss!
I feel like search engines like Google play a huge role in this. Pornography shouldn't be the first thing to show up when someone searches sex, it should be educational videos and articles about sex. And pornography should not show up until someone searches for those porn sites
From personal experience, I have had three people confess they were having ED and my advice was to stop watching porn and it worked. Porn desensitize men specifically from real sex.
I need floaters it on the border of restaurant
Why do you with your limited sample size generalize that to all people.
this is probably the chillest middle ground episode yet
Like it
Go to pornstars vs pastors.
Scientists and Religious Leaders is imo the best one
I've seen chiller like weed vs non weed smok3rs
Christians VS LGBT was great
The gentleman who is anti-porn is so well-spoken. He clearly struggled and is open about how it affected him. The fact that the first thing is brought up is how he regrets is treated women in his past. Shows a lot about his character and I hope he continues to help others.
he has a youtube channel - PornReboot :)
He probably still watches
that guy blame all his problems on porn, but he is the real problem. most people who watch porn dont act like him. addition to porn doesnt make porn bad. when people are addicted to eating, i dont think people would think eating is bad and blame it on eating. his logic is dead.
@@appleorange754 just say your addicted and go
Wouldn’t really call him a gentleman after how he treated women 😬
This is a really brilliant channel. The genius of it. Props to whoever came up with it.
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I love this episode, so many points of views and experiences
Wow, these people are actually civil
This is one of the most intelligent conversations on Middle Ground, in my opinion. Both sides had valid points, no one was too entitled, and most importantly, THERE WAS NO FIGHTING. Just a debate. I like it.
Wait, but addiction can be a medical condition
There was no debate only opionions. A debate would challenge the consistency within the opinion.
I mean porn is just awful
Maybe its because the guy wasn't sexually involved in the relationship caude she didn't want to give up anything. A man has to bust a nut
It is interesting how a topic that's relatively more depressed by the society produces more thought out opinions
This debate was great
Thanks
i havent watcht P for 2 days im never turning back
Keep up bro I'm trying too
Someone : i am a pro
Erin : that's not vegan
LMFAOOOOOO IM DYINGG😂😂 you win the comment section award periodt
@@nicoppedal6574 lol
😭😭
what is this? i see this kind of comment everywhere on jubilee videos
@@mynameisjeff683 you should see it. Cause erin was being salty af
We really need flat earthers vs round earthers.
I think that agreement would become violent
the bottom of your shoes are flat...designed for a flat earth. case closed.
Skankhunt 42 wait... I’ve never thought about that.🤔
Suleiman mohamed YESSSSSS
But flat earthers always stay in the middle..if they go near the ends they might fall off
No motivation, ED, bad relationships, and unrealistic stuff
I watch porn I have a motivation black parents also I just wanna do good
This was terrific, how I feel about sex not everyone has the same feelings. It's important to be respectful to each other.
Teachers vs students!!!! It would be extremely interesting to hear questions about stress, homework,mental health, standardized tests, etc.
CREDITS TO: Morgan Milani
It just really needs to happen
Mysterious_ K or possibly teachers vs school boards
Great idea but most of the time the teachers don’t have a choice, the system is the problem.
If they do this they need kids with common sense not kids who play fortnite all day and watch memes lol
such a good idea!!
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The girl with the jean jacket is so open minded
Leila Diab thats what I was thinking. She was just trying to understand the situation of others and listen to them with open mind, not like that she has her ONE TRUE opinion and everybody else is totally wrong.
Leila Diab yeah man if someones "open minded" thats like, such a turn on for me!
@@xboxfullauto1000 just y bro
totally agree
Her points were also very valid
So good! This channel is a gift!!
This one was really, really great. Everybody respected each other and there was a lot of effort to understand each other's points of view. ❤
The porn performer specifically was so wonderfully empathetic. She was such a helpful person in this video because she NEVER got defensive. I loved this conversation because it was so respectful and inconclusive because so many issues do NOT have a single answer... Thank you for this!!
I especially love how both sides fought for their side and got their point across but also were willing to listen to the other side
I would of loved to just listen to her full opinion on each question
It's very intelligent from Her part to be empathetic, its Her business and she IS giving a good image
Yes! She certainly seemed empathetic and brought a strongly pronounced human element to the position of an adult performer. I especially loved her statement on how sex education should not be limited to just the biological function. The additional aspects she stated are quite valid and necessary.
And, of course, everyone had some very valid arguments so it was quite interesting to find myself not siding with any single group in this discussion. This might just be the best Middle Ground episode, in my view, for this reason.
THE TWO BLONDE LADIES WERE SUCH RESPECTFUL LITTLE ANGELS
As someone who still struggles, I would describe addiction as when you can’t not think about it. It pops up constantly in your mind and consumes your thoughts and affects you physiologically.
That’s addiction, and it sucks.
Maria nodding is the most empathetic gesture I have seen in a person! She has really expressive eyes ...
PRO-FEMINISM VS ANTI-FEMINISIM (MALE EDITION) should be the next topic
shannn Ah, Male Edition. Had to think twice about this one. Since there is a P vs Anti Feminist one. But then, Feminism for Men is quite a stigma topic. So it makes sense. I’d love to see it, being a male feminist myself.
Amen
@@carlomotta934 ew
@@munchermuncher7663 ew? do you not know the true meaning of feminism? it actually means Equality for ALL not just women but we have it mixed up now that we have as i like to call the Femi-Nazis Im a feminist because i believe that everyone should be equal in rightful ways
@@carlomotta934 yikes
Do a people with 9 to 5 jobs, versus self-employed people.
Yisss
Oofies
Need this!
I wish i could be self employed
Yesss
Recently suscribed! Love the channel! This was a very respectful forum.
Welcome l love it too l recently joined
@@tanatswamugabe8793 what was the point of this comment lol
we need a pro, anti, and on the fence/undecided. There are so many good points in the middle ground that neither side will make because they lean so heavily to one side
Nobody, and I mean NOBODY watches porn to be “educated” in the terms which Buck person is perpetuating.
Keith Kilian the only education a “porn” could be is if they show young girls how to use a tampon lol
Especially when anyone who acts in the porn industry would specifically tell you never to look towards porn for education, it's insane
I think he’s specifically talking about as a trans man not seeing that anatomy, or understanding of how that works when you’re taught sex is between male and female. I don’t think he means let all the kids watch porn. But also I remember before I had sex for the first time I watched so much porn because I wanted to know what to do 😂 although porn shouldn’t be used as an education tool, there should just be better sex ed that not only focuses on the biological and anatomical functions, but that sex should be enjoyable, consensual, that you don’t need pornstar looking genitals, etc. If sex wasn’t stigmatized and the whole idea of virginity and purity wasn’t pushed, then kids wouldn’t need to watch porn to understand what sex looks like, then have misconstrued ideas of sex.
Buck is trans and shows trans guys different ways to do things
I did, so you’re wrong to say “nobody”.
That girl is just way too emotionally charged up about her past relationship to actually provide anything to the argument.
Nattie bubbles a whole lot of nothing imo. All she said was it got in the way of her past relationships without giving any examples of how or why or what issues she had in the relationship in the first place
That in itself is can be seen as an argument
Nattie bubbles you have to elaborate on your argument if you want to win a debate. That’s what a debate is.....
@@thomasnewton8223 I agree with you. She was upset that she couldn't trust the dude she was emotionally involved with because he couldn't tell her that he had a problem with pornography. I feel like this goes against the argument the anti-porn side was making. If you got rid of the stigma and/or judgment behind consuming porn, people would be more open to talking about their problems with porn. He must have felt like he couldn't trust her enough to tell her his problem because of her stance.
@@thomasnewton8223 I don't really think it's about debating, they're just trying to see each other's different views and how their beliefs compare and contrast, but I completely agree that she couldn't make any actual points.
This was a great debate. Well spoken and respectful
6:36 that escalated quickly 🤣
Can trainers from seaworld/zoo workers and animal activists find middle ground?
Great idea!!!
Angela Brown how about animal hunters vs animal activists?
YESSSSS!!!!!
Yes! You might have done something
This !!!!!!! I started listening to Keeper Chat and I’ve learned so much about the invaluable job that zoos do to help conservation efforts.