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  • @MayaTadmor
    @MayaTadmor 5 лет назад +14896

    but like the bald pastor was so respectful in how he stated his views. whenever he said something he made sure to let it be know that was his choice in his lifestyle and he’s not forcing that on anyone else

    • @anniehuang6321
      @anniehuang6321 4 года назад +15

      dumbass susie yes but sayori is the best girl

    • @swesswe
      @swesswe 4 года назад +16

      Annie Huang
      JUST SAYORI JUST SAYORI

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +1

      @@swesswe Which one is she?

    • @swesswe
      @swesswe 4 года назад

      Red Skittles
      what? Sayori is a she...

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +1

      @@swesswe idk which one Sayori is; I was just assuming she was bcs of the comment that mentioned her (referring to her as a girl.)

  • @AlicitySherie
    @AlicitySherie 5 лет назад +13259

    The pastor’s passion toward his wife is goals.

    • @gabbiel7130
      @gabbiel7130 5 лет назад +455

      Welcome to the life of what true love, devotion and marriage looks like

    • @andrakarsten226
      @andrakarsten226 5 лет назад +270

      That is how I hear my husband describe me, and it is truly heart warning. We will be married 10 years in a couple of months, we married really young, I was 20 and he was 23, and we still act like when we were dating. I love it. I wish everyone could be in this type of marriage, with your Best friend, never a dull moment and always love to give each other.

    • @Abraxun
      @Abraxun 5 лет назад +79

      Andra Karsten we were given the gift of love and sex to use it fruitfully is what I reckon with the right person, not extensively with random people

    • @andrakarsten226
      @andrakarsten226 5 лет назад +13

      @@Abraxun Agree 🌺

    • @romanfrode3318
      @romanfrode3318 5 лет назад +4

      @@Abraxun that is actually not true. It is exactly the other way round. I'll just say. Just like you did.

  • @lukastapparello4637
    @lukastapparello4637 4 года назад +7785

    I'm not religious, but that bald pastor's love toward his wife is amazing

    • @frances4673
      @frances4673 4 года назад +122

      LuKk and the way he’s talks about her sounds like he always makes sure she is comfortable and doesn’t try to harm her character, he seems super sweet

    • @isaacyeon6334
      @isaacyeon6334 4 года назад +38

      Studio Autio or he loves his wife, there’s a difference

    • @shwingler8871
      @shwingler8871 4 года назад +8

      Studio Autio you’re a virgin lol

    • @shwingler8871
      @shwingler8871 4 года назад +23

      Studio Autio a preacher gets more pussy than you

    • @vlnt6499
      @vlnt6499 4 года назад +12

      @Studio Autio theres is a difference between wanking off a streamer and loving a person that you actually love

  • @kbs1212
    @kbs1212 3 года назад +1175

    I’m the farthest thing from Christian but that bald pastor had my whole HEART. His answer about not prohibiting or disowning his child for their choices and his overall attitude had me tearing up.

    • @kbs1212
      @kbs1212 3 года назад +29

      @brinabrina Well then that pastor was definitely applying the teachings of Jesus in his life.

    • @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor
      @Selfemployedmildautisticperfor 3 года назад +1

      Somewaht me to

    • @rinreborn7364
      @rinreborn7364 3 года назад +1

      Whatssuo cheems

    • @ramy8338
      @ramy8338 2 года назад +4

      @@kbs1212 What the fk are talking about ?! Not disowning your child should be the bare minimum as a parent , you don't get praised for that !

    • @silentghost751
      @silentghost751 Год назад

      Farthest?

  • @JabariMore
    @JabariMore 5 лет назад +5638

    I love how even the least religious people are like “we need to protect the bald pastor at all costs!”

    • @zarifahmad795
      @zarifahmad795 5 лет назад +99

      That's what happens to true people.

    • @brianmada9834
      @brianmada9834 5 лет назад +12

      Facts

    • @shawnlapointe8020
      @shawnlapointe8020 5 лет назад +9

      I loved this too.

    • @littlegreenhelmetboi4148
      @littlegreenhelmetboi4148 5 лет назад +93

      Jabari deRoux: More he’s just a very genuine wholesome guy he has his beliefs but that doesn’t make it ok for him to get ragged on about his lifestyle

    • @catboytartaglia
      @catboytartaglia 5 лет назад +47

      I'm an atheist but appreciated the bald pastor lmao

  • @jayovalkyrie6070
    @jayovalkyrie6070 5 лет назад +3077

    I never thought in my whole life I would heard a pastor say *"she's ready to party with my body"*
    🤣🤣 I like him.

  • @xzextinct_echozx3737
    @xzextinct_echozx3737 5 лет назад +21367

    Props to the bald pastor for keeping cool after he was made fun of multiple times

    • @ashes31
      @ashes31 5 лет назад +797

      Why fight back? You can only give what you believe is right that comes from your heart. This should be an example of not judging leaders of a church. I think this was a good example. Good for him. God continue to bless him and of course all other who dont know God.

    • @ZTheLastViking
      @ZTheLastViking 5 лет назад +502

      At first they picked on him.
      But he let them know real quick that they are unloading magazines while he hit bullseye with his first shot decades ago so jokes on them

    • @anoraleteu8594
      @anoraleteu8594 5 лет назад +19

      @@ashes31 right*

    • @jeremylaneball5890
      @jeremylaneball5890 5 лет назад +41

      Poor guy

    • @theod6898
      @theod6898 5 лет назад +26

      The Man Himself he’s only been with one person he has no idea if he has hit a bullseye or not lol

  • @naemibirtel5078
    @naemibirtel5078 3 года назад +881

    As an atheist porn is super damaging and the porn industry is super messed up and props to the bald pastor

    • @shalevsaada7596
      @shalevsaada7596 3 года назад +4

      fax👏🏽

    • @dcmarvelcomicfans9458
      @dcmarvelcomicfans9458 3 года назад +4

      As a JW Christian I agree with you I read an article about the porn industry and it's sophistical data by found was just interesting from an informational point but horrifying from what I discovered

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 3 года назад +1

      Your mileage may vary. And without a thick skin, this industry won’t be cut out for you.

    • @shalevsaada7596
      @shalevsaada7596 3 года назад +5

      @@PAJA63 what being with a "thick" skin have to do with that i don't want to be a freaking animal. i believe you can have a partner and share all your sexuality with him but it shouldn't come to the outside

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 3 года назад

      @@shalevsaada7596 Thick skin is about enduring a rough workplace, where manipulations are rife, you have to guard your identity, learn to say no and be sure about you want. It can be rewarding for the right person.

  • @berniceuwase6700
    @berniceuwase6700 4 года назад +14704

    I don’t think anyone should have to be ashamed of the fact that they’ve had sex with one person. The fact that they were laughing at him for that is honestly terrible to me.

    • @samjackson6049
      @samjackson6049 4 года назад +397

      Gotta understand they’re mindsets are very different from his in a bad way not saying they’re inferior to him but they don’t know what he knows but still this is Very true.

    • @billythebigguy
      @billythebigguy 4 года назад +661

      @Al B 9:45 onwards, they were literally saying that his 'penis hasn't socialized' enough. They talk about accepting newer ideas but make fun of people who stick to the old ways in which they are comfortable with.

    • @klovenbree3030
      @klovenbree3030 4 года назад +46

      It's so sad!!

    • @Ale-hu8yo
      @Ale-hu8yo 4 года назад +88

      what about me? the count stands at 0 rn 😂😭

    • @billythebigguy
      @billythebigguy 4 года назад +259

      @@Ale-hu8yo nothing to be ashamed of. Be proud of your virginity. Sex doesn't instantly make some better or cooler in any way.

  • @babuskaize
    @babuskaize 5 лет назад +7834

    Female pastor not laughing at any of their jokes is a MOOD

    • @kush225
      @kush225 5 лет назад +415

      That baby's boutta be strict😂

    • @biberflub
      @biberflub 5 лет назад +41

      Jhavay Yorke well depends on Daddy too :D

    • @HappySerafim
      @HappySerafim 5 лет назад +264

      Oh! they were jokes?

    • @DTA707
      @DTA707 5 лет назад +50

      My baby was conceived missionary in the dark...

    • @rustommirasol8921
      @rustommirasol8921 5 лет назад +10

      @@HappySerafim Me too, I didn't noticed it at all.

  • @stevenfoster9402
    @stevenfoster9402 4 года назад +3785

    This comment section is giving me faith in humanity again.

    • @ynmzeke9124
      @ynmzeke9124 4 года назад +10

      Facts

    • @adelrizk7037
      @adelrizk7037 4 года назад +2

      Steven Foster fr

    • @AllenQuatermain2de
      @AllenQuatermain2de 4 года назад +15

      really? its absolutely destroying mine, so much hatred and disrespect, it's insane.

    • @mossyourlocalbleachbottle2098
      @mossyourlocalbleachbottle2098 4 года назад +2

      AllenQuatermain2de
      Nah that’s in the other middle ground

    • @AllenQuatermain2de
      @AllenQuatermain2de 4 года назад +1

      @Kevin Nguyen notice how you have one like and they have 504? Maybe you are the one who's ruining sociey

  • @whoyoucallinpinhead_216
    @whoyoucallinpinhead_216 2 года назад +221

    I might be bias because I am Christian, but I believe only having sex with one person is absolutely beautiful, not something to be teased about.

    • @goldenmawar5589
      @goldenmawar5589 2 года назад

      True.having sex with various different people can cause HIV.
      i don't know why many people proud to have sex with many different people

    • @Penelope_777
      @Penelope_777 6 месяцев назад +13

      That's the only thing that makes sense to me

    • @PanoramicView-o5p
      @PanoramicView-o5p 4 месяца назад +5

      I totally agree. Having that moment with that special person is so beautiful

  • @jailensimon1123
    @jailensimon1123 5 лет назад +970

    Can we all agree the pastors were all so nice and respectful, and seemed to want to learn more

  • @tayliahinds8177
    @tayliahinds8177 4 года назад +6727

    The bald pastor was talking about himself only and his views, not really pushing them on other people. Notice how he always said MY or IN MY LIFE. It was kind of annoying how the sex workers kept attacking him like bro not everyone wants to be sexually adventurous

    • @rosebud4467
      @rosebud4467 4 года назад +88

      Exactly!

    • @nohelya347
      @nohelya347 4 года назад +227

      Exactly they acted like the others were attacking them for their work but they were being respectful. Unlike them who were bashing their religion like really..?🙄

    • @b1ralomvchv203
      @b1ralomvchv203 4 года назад +17

      agreed

    • @Christine-og4ni
      @Christine-og4ni 4 года назад +4

      HONESTLY

    • @thetoughestcookie9312
      @thetoughestcookie9312 4 года назад +10

      Yes this is very true, but I do want to point out that even though he said that, he also didn’t come up for the question that sex work can have positive effects. If it had been does sex work have a positive effect for YOU, than it would be a different story, idk. I think that they were very harsh Defineately, but the bald pastor could’ve been a little bit more explanatory-just saying lol.

  • @SunitaSharma-hf1np
    @SunitaSharma-hf1np 4 года назад +3618

    Me before watching this: I guess pastors are gonna insult sex workers.
    Me after watching this: That's wierd flex.

    • @maplebun2290
      @maplebun2290 4 года назад +20

      Sunita Sharma *weird

    • @bleh8892
      @bleh8892 4 года назад +21

      Oh my god I had the same reaction

    • @stuudude6023
      @stuudude6023 4 года назад +10

      moom no it’s spelt “wriedadrs”

    • @lisavandam4268
      @lisavandam4268 4 года назад +33

      The vid threw a Uno reverse card

    • @paulwinegardener8407
      @paulwinegardener8407 4 года назад

      Sunita Sharma they did. and the “sex workers” just spoke their points of view

  • @kylelouw2743
    @kylelouw2743 3 года назад +494

    The pregnant lady is a vibe. She takes everything in first and actually adds intellect to the conversation.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 года назад +2

      she is my friend and she isn't pregnant...

    • @henrymonaghan6563
      @henrymonaghan6563 2 года назад +7

      @@Random-sk6hm shes clearly pregnant

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 года назад +3

      @@henrymonaghan6563 no she isn't she has a gastro condition so people sometimes think she's pregnant but she isnt

    • @therealme5042
      @therealme5042 2 года назад +18

      She also didn’t laugh at the immature jokes made at the expense of the bald pastor which is really nice from her

    • @TheUsername55555100
      @TheUsername55555100 2 года назад +9

      @@Random-sk6hm she's resting her hands on top of her belly like a pregnant woman would

  • @PlutoIsntReal_
    @PlutoIsntReal_ 5 лет назад +15278

    I'm atheist and I need to protect this bald pastor

    • @Bb-hf2lg
      @Bb-hf2lg 4 года назад +727

      GiDgie Twix06 yeah same here but difference is I am a Muslim lol I am shocked to see how those sex workers behave against that poor sweet man

    • @m3mes1ck24
      @m3mes1ck24 4 года назад +83

      right with you

    • @FreedomUninterrupted
      @FreedomUninterrupted 4 года назад +121

      Lol! Thank you mature funny atheist!

    • @whyguitarguy1
      @whyguitarguy1 4 года назад +19

      Lol

    • @videlonlyfans8495
      @videlonlyfans8495 4 года назад +57

      We all must, we live in a society

  • @SiniSimon
    @SiniSimon 4 года назад +2076

    I don't think justifications for porn as a "sex education" tool is a good idea.

    • @chocomilkshake9750
      @chocomilkshake9750 4 года назад +79

      @@europeansocialdemocrat you high brother?

    • @justcallmelucky
      @justcallmelucky 4 года назад +11

      @@europeansocialdemocrat ...

    • @andrew_li
      @andrew_li 4 года назад +12

      @@chocomilkshake9750 the name says it all tbh

    • @AVGyerra22
      @AVGyerra22 4 года назад +4

      @@chocomilkshake9750 Idk but whatever he's on I want it.

    • @kiki8792
      @kiki8792 4 года назад +5

      @@andrew_li you don't believe in BLM?

  • @FactsFactoryDiscovery
    @FactsFactoryDiscovery 5 лет назад +4714

    The bald pastor is just a mature man.

    • @diegopayan6731
      @diegopayan6731 4 года назад +2

      How about we do not assume his sexual orientation. 2020. Just say that (he/him/his) potentially is mature. All that needs to be said.

    • @ryujin3430
      @ryujin3430 4 года назад +120

      Diego Payan your tripping bluhd

    • @prk78
      @prk78 4 года назад +56

      Diego Payan are you serious 😂

    • @verenant4567
      @verenant4567 4 года назад +10

      @@diegopayan6731 What does that mean

    • @verenant4567
      @verenant4567 4 года назад +1

      @Doll Steak oh ok

  • @keziahnicholas5837
    @keziahnicholas5837 3 года назад +194

    The disrespect they showed the pastor is so disappointing

    • @nanogamer4546
      @nanogamer4546 5 месяцев назад +4

      What did you expect from people who are living in willful and unabashed sin?

  • @awaisman2413
    @awaisman2413 5 лет назад +4969

    Gotta admit, the bald pastor was spittin straight facts

  • @allisworld1isme
    @allisworld1isme 5 лет назад +9259

    It’s frustrating that the workers are almost making fun of pastors when the pastors are really trying to understand their point of view.

    • @princesse0920
      @princesse0920 5 лет назад +52

      allisworld1isme exactly

    • @naunofficial7766
      @naunofficial7766 5 лет назад +145

      allisworld1isme I didn’t see it that way I see that the workers are very energetic people and who are kinda just trying to enjoy that time and learn something new

    • @nutmalone5527
      @nutmalone5527 5 лет назад +179

      @@naunofficial7766 yeah trying to enjoy their time, before they get aids.

    • @ih8foids932
      @ih8foids932 5 лет назад +45

      Prostitutes*

    • @jasmine8909
      @jasmine8909 5 лет назад +34

      justin why?. In Porn, You get tested before and after every sexual interaction.

  • @caitlynford3001
    @caitlynford3001 5 лет назад +7368

    I like that the pastor compared porn to alcoholism. It’s fine for other people. But not all people. And that’s fine.

    • @MsAidaAman
      @MsAidaAman 4 года назад +43

      Yeap, precisely

    • @goodtimes8229
      @goodtimes8229 4 года назад +151

      I thought he made a really good point with that.

    • @raenewnham7490
      @raenewnham7490 4 года назад +119

      I mean people can be addicted to porn, so he was 100% right about it.

    • @caitlynford3001
      @caitlynford3001 4 года назад +62

      Rae Navin I know that’s why I said I like the analogy. People can get addicted to drinking but most don’t. Almost all adults drink alcohol at some point or another. But the vast majority aren’t addicted. Just like porn. Most people watch it. Some people get addicted. Most people don’t.

    • @Artaxian_Debacle
      @Artaxian_Debacle 4 года назад +45

      Caitlyn Ford porn isn’t good period

  • @MariaLuiiza159
    @MariaLuiiza159 3 года назад +630

    dude how nice it is to see all comments praising the christians for ONCE 😂

    • @thecarsthatgoboom9516
      @thecarsthatgoboom9516 3 года назад +10

      Right

    • @Kishi.A91
      @Kishi.A91 3 года назад +4

      Yeah

    • @saylorgrey1029
      @saylorgrey1029 3 года назад +29

      Its amazing. I thought it was going to be the other way round😅

    • @kyliank9714
      @kyliank9714 3 года назад +23

      @@saylorgrey1029 I was scared to read the comments at first

    • @somedudeinatunnel3102
      @somedudeinatunnel3102 3 года назад +7

      Yep, I'm not Christian but I'm absolutely on their side in this video. Although I will say Wesley conducted himself well on the other side!

  • @evacarnes1749
    @evacarnes1749 4 года назад +5997

    why is that girl belittling everything the priest said?? it's okay to not want to have sex with more than one person LMAO i guess she doesn't know how to respect people and their beliefs

    • @denise3233
      @denise3233 4 года назад +78

      Pastor*

    • @Bigwaffel98
      @Bigwaffel98 4 года назад +297

      she belongs to the streets

    • @jennifer3744
      @jennifer3744 4 года назад +74

      @@Bigwaffel98 literally 😂

    • @lesnarahamilton5674
      @lesnarahamilton5674 4 года назад +41

      she was not belittling him she was having fun and the priest was to he wasn't afended in anyway the world would be so much better if they act like him and her i gues you cant respect people

    • @VivekMishra-rr7yn
      @VivekMishra-rr7yn 4 года назад +18

      There would've been a time people would say its okay to have sex with multiple people and now we say its okay to have sex with one person.... Look how the times have changed haha

  • @dani-ella2991
    @dani-ella2991 4 года назад +484

    Honestly the Pastors were much more reasonable, I agree with them 100%.

  • @girlwithapearlearring4522
    @girlwithapearlearring4522 4 года назад +5410

    I’m not even Christian but the pastors were amazing.. real role models.

  • @Faisal-tx9ii
    @Faisal-tx9ii 3 года назад +903

    I am a muslim. The pastor's thought is so similar with islam's principle, I encourage my christian and muslim brothers not to hate each other. Take love

    • @whydoyouneedmyname6007
      @whydoyouneedmyname6007 3 года назад +20

      I don't believe in religion but i do believe that there is something beyond us, beyond humanity like beings of higher dimension . So what am i?

    • @Faisal-tx9ii
      @Faisal-tx9ii 3 года назад +4

      @@whydoyouneedmyname6007 😄....Brother you're probably L 's successor. Near is waiting to meet you❣️.
      I invite you to read Koran. Main book of religion: islam. If you find it disgusting, throw it into the wall. Allah is waiting for you💞

    • @synth-_-5093
      @synth-_-5093 3 года назад +18

      @@whydoyouneedmyname6007 agnostic i think... if ur asking what should u call urself

    • @whydoyouneedmyname6007
      @whydoyouneedmyname6007 3 года назад +4

      @@synth-_-5093 i see

    • @kipras4699
      @kipras4699 3 года назад +2

      @@Faisal-tx9ii i would consider becoming muslim just to have 5 wives🤠

  • @ryanp9190
    @ryanp9190 6 лет назад +4227

    Porn isn't realistic. If ur looking to porn for sexual education etc. then ur looking in the wrong place.

    • @what-qo4yl
      @what-qo4yl 6 лет назад +115

      Wolfy 2001 exactly what i was thinking. both sides were reaching hard to make themselves look better

    • @Veritas231
      @Veritas231 6 лет назад +202

      Wolfy 2001 That was a point the Sex workers were trying to make. There's no good alternative to porn because sex education doesn't dive deep enough. People want to learn more but can't unless they do it themselves or go to porn.

    • @ffff832
      @ffff832 6 лет назад +2

      Yes

    • @ryanp9190
      @ryanp9190 6 лет назад +2

      sksjdj sndh yes exactly

    • @funybug
      @funybug 6 лет назад +19

      Well she did say that sometimes people just wanna talk about their sex life. Maybe they've got a problem (sex related), and honestly, who would be better to go to than one of them? I mean, they have plenty of experience, and they are still people, so they still have feelings (hopefully)

  • @mellinadventures4683
    @mellinadventures4683 6 лет назад +333

    Lady in the colored paints, calm down a little, come back to earth... its okay to have your opinions, but don't be disrespectful to people who have a different opinion. The pastor was being respectful to her while she was being rude.

  • @PerpilZ
    @PerpilZ 5 лет назад +1382

    the sex workers seem like they are there to argue while the pastors are there to just have a conversation/debate

    • @NomadUrpagi
      @NomadUrpagi 5 лет назад

      Hey there

    • @spookzer16
      @spookzer16 5 лет назад +5

      @Develop Robes that got really depressing really fast

    • @spookzer16
      @spookzer16 5 лет назад +1

      @Develop Robes I mean yee

    • @thumbsdown7684
      @thumbsdown7684 5 лет назад

      @@spookzer16 I she'd a tear reading this

    • @Rifat330
      @Rifat330 4 года назад

      @Develop Robes No need to attack them like that bro

  • @melissabee5845
    @melissabee5845 3 года назад +325

    I find it really ironic how strong of a stance that the sex workers took on the topic of cheating, considering how many married/committed men or women paid them for sex.
    My long term boyfriend whom I thought was perfect was one of those people. I thought he was truly perfect for me and I never would have seen it coming. Turns out he was cheating on me with prostitutes the entire time we were together. It destroyed my self esteem, and it was two years before I even began to feel better about myself through counselling and therapy.

    • @lyzh4288
      @lyzh4288 3 года назад +57

      That is also what is wrong with pornography. Porn depicts of cheating, adultery all the time, but do people watching porn at the time ever think "that is wrong"? Porn really do messes with your thinking and beliefs on what is right and what is wrong.

    • @RichTheFlop
      @RichTheFlop 3 года назад +10

      as said, there are not so nice people in every industry. you can't generalize and say "all porn/sex workers promote cheating!" because that'd be false.

    • @_JESUS_is_GOD_
      @_JESUS_is_GOD_ 3 года назад

      Never place your value on the account of someone else. You value YOU. If they don't leave. When you have that mindset you will always seeks someone to see the value in you but since you don't value yourself that will be ZERO.

    • @TheMartyandy
      @TheMartyandy 3 года назад +11

      Not sure how the existence of people cheating makes that ironic. People cheat even without using sex workers, that doesn't make normal relationships ironic, does it?

    • @ale.6195
      @ale.6195 3 года назад +12

      @ghost robles Those men that cheated with the sex workers would've cheated either way. Don't blame it on them, the male is just as responsible if not more responsible cause he's going out of his way, finding them and paying for the sex.

  • @mcdonalds7980
    @mcdonalds7980 5 лет назад +10454

    Im an atheist but damn. why they gotta disrespect the pastors like that?

    • @Rcoal
      @Rcoal 5 лет назад +90

      mcdonalds ikr

    • @myrez_
      @myrez_ 5 лет назад +180

      @Develop Robes oh damn that's deep

    • @charlestai5320
      @charlestai5320 5 лет назад +55

      @@roberts9755 How about a little less anti-semitism?

    • @derrickmeade4891
      @derrickmeade4891 5 лет назад +31

      @@roberts9755 douche

    • @BloodwyrmWildheart
      @BloodwyrmWildheart 5 лет назад +9

      @@charlestai5320 How about a little less semitism?

  • @phakeout4035
    @phakeout4035 5 лет назад +1834

    The pastors were kinda being attacked. This was less of a trying to find a middle ground and more of a here’s why I’m right, and I’m going to convince you that I’m right...

    • @charmainephasoana6850
      @charmainephasoana6850 5 лет назад +26

      Facts!!! I was really mad

    • @lolmahea
      @lolmahea 5 лет назад +5

      I totally agree !!

    • @ashes31
      @ashes31 5 лет назад +12

      Exactly.. you would think it be the other way around based on people's assumptions.. nope the pastors were there listening calmly and answering in a proper manner. The women pastor and the bald pastor definitely were on my top list. Beautiful answers in my opinion.

    • @xg3990
      @xg3990 5 лет назад +3

      Yes, they were being attacked but they were being attacked from a place of ignorance. The only respectful sex worker was the guy. And the only true pastor was the bald guy. Hes a man that kept saying again, you can disagree with me and my standard, but this is the standard I've chosen to live by. Referring to the bible. Meaning, it's not about opinions, it's not about what feels good, it's not about being right or nice in societies eyes, it's that he has simply chosen to live his life according to the bible. And the bible is pretty clear in this specific subject. They all looked so happy to be there, honestly. And I LOVED that the lady pastor said when she was giving her opinion about the soul ties that it was just her opinion based on humanity and nothing to do with the bible. They were honestly pretty great pastors. Pastors that say it's not about what you think, but ground your faith in the bible so you dont have to question. All without sounding condescending(which I hope I'm not but probably am)

    • @SpektrikMusic
      @SpektrikMusic 5 лет назад

      I don't see this as them being attacked. I thought both sides brought up points and I'm sure so much were left out it needs to be longer. I felt like by the end they all kinda understood not everything is for everyone and it's ok to believe in something you don't.

  • @Yonagunidc
    @Yonagunidc 6 лет назад +7905

    I was expecting the sex workers to be open minded and the pastors to be close minded... I grew up Christian and I absolutely respect both sides but the pastors were way more respectful and well spoken.

    • @huna5923
      @huna5923 6 лет назад +61

      I also assumed that

    • @noellepeterson4588
      @noellepeterson4588 6 лет назад +35

      Beca Coelho I totally agree

    • @fay5361
      @fay5361 5 лет назад +11

      True

    • @sg1145
      @sg1145 5 лет назад

      É verdade, mas os trabalhadores do sexo tem razão acho eu..

    • @sg1145
      @sg1145 5 лет назад

      Os trabalhadores do sexo são mal-educados mais ils são importante.

  • @tolikinny8654
    @tolikinny8654 3 года назад +331

    Proud to be a Christian ❤️ .
    My respect to Pastors 🤝

  • @ashleyguevara5276
    @ashleyguevara5276 4 года назад +2124

    Imagine going on RUclips clicking on this video and realizing that your pastor is in this video

  • @hannahmontana9159
    @hannahmontana9159 4 года назад +3570

    I was addicted to porn at such a young age and it is NOT positive. It warped me and caused mental issues. And they’re not talking about that. They dont want to be judged. That’s ok. But porn and lust is a problem that should be talked about

    • @kingofpositivevibing7475
      @kingofpositivevibing7475 4 года назад +49

      how did u stop the addiction?

    • @catie7466
      @catie7466 4 года назад +298

      im sorry you went through that. i hated how she said "kids and adults" need porn for education like no not kids?? it's genuinely traumatic for a kid to get into porn and can cause mental issues. i wish they talked about that more. i also wish they talked about sex trafficking and child trafficking and how sites like pornhub profit off of that.

    • @froggy3268
      @froggy3268 4 года назад +1

      Hannah Cochran how young?

    • @lesnarahamilton5674
      @lesnarahamilton5674 4 года назад +11

      it's not a problem but I agree it needs to be talked about but porn is like a drink its only bad if you let it because it fixed my marriage

    • @silverfullbuster9177
      @silverfullbuster9177 4 года назад +68

      @@lesnarahamilton5674 how in the hell did porn fix your marriage?

  • @mrsg9268
    @mrsg9268 4 года назад +4922

    My father was a porn addict. And I'll tell you right now.. the damage it did to my parent's marriage was insane.

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 4 года назад +45

      😭

    • @voldibayizitunda2178
      @voldibayizitunda2178 4 года назад +181

      Wow I'm so sorry 😔😢😔
      I hope God gives you the strength to make it🙏

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 4 года назад +4

      @@daboydudus3912 his name is lucid ?

    • @daboydudus3912
      @daboydudus3912 4 года назад +11

      @@magicslave3066 his youtube name is lucid or i am lucid

    • @magicslave3066
      @magicslave3066 4 года назад +1

      @@daboydudus3912 where is he

  • @rowmin6433
    @rowmin6433 3 года назад +216

    I like how everyone agrees with the pastors.

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 3 года назад +2

      Not me. But I respect their opinions. As did those in the talk.

    • @vixenvxce1063
      @vixenvxce1063 2 года назад +12

      Makes me have more faith in humanity.

  • @kel638
    @kel638 4 года назад +3871

    I'm dead at everyone calling him "Bald Pastor." The wise pastor has a name.😅

    • @OmarThePuppy
      @OmarThePuppy 4 года назад +71

      Kinda like how people were saying “black girl” or “asian guy” ??? They have names too.

    • @ESCL2004
      @ESCL2004 4 года назад +102

      @@OmarThePuppy probably easier to call them what they look like lmao

    • @danmancosa6634
      @danmancosa6634 4 года назад

      Omg hahahahaha

    • @KevinShinwoo
      @KevinShinwoo 3 года назад +41

      I don't remember a single one of their names. I can only remember:
      Black chick
      White sex worker girl
      Male sex worker
      Female pastor
      Bald pastor
      Asian guy

    • @jesusislord3050
      @jesusislord3050 3 года назад +3

      Buzzy is a pretty bad name tbh

  • @belif2000
    @belif2000 6 лет назад +2213

    I think the problem here is that pastors don't underestimate or talk down to sex workers (which they shouldn't) but the sex workers seem to look down on pastors. They tend to see their religious values and choices as not important. A person can believe whatever they want, and you may not be agree with them but you have to respect.

    • @janellerazo8235
      @janellerazo8235 6 лет назад +84

      Elif Özdöner yes beautifully put.

    • @kerenchoi6967
      @kerenchoi6967 6 лет назад +50

      completely agree, i said this in a comment earlier but it just has to do with the type of people that tend to go into these fields. the sex workers are bold, wild (not in a bad way), yolo people. And that's super fun. But that mindset blows up opinions a lot while the pastors are very conservative, modest people. They are taught to respect in that way more than the others have because they feel they have been more oppressed

    • @tvbnine793
      @tvbnine793 6 лет назад +74

      exactly. Nobody should ever look down on anyone for anything that they've done, as a Christian I've been taught that only God can do that. Jesus spent most of his time with the 'unsavory' characters, like prostitutes, thieves, alcoholics, murderers, etc. We're all human, nobody's perfect and we all make mistakes, pastors and priests included.
      "Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her." John 8

    • @jacqueline7530
      @jacqueline7530 6 лет назад +6

      Yes I agree with you that's a good point.

    • @romyvdd2570
      @romyvdd2570 6 лет назад +25

      Elif Özdöner Thanks you

  • @itsnotthatdeepluv
    @itsnotthatdeepluv 4 года назад +3536

    note how the bald pastor said “i feel like...” or “i think...” & was automatically met with something to tear down his religion.

    • @k.a.3614
      @k.a.3614 4 года назад +28

      Just because you say “I feel like“ or “I think“ doesn't make it automatically more respektful. There is a difference between saying “it's not something for me“ and “(I think) it is bad“. With the second one you are judging wether or not you include something like “I think“.
      And when you are judging people doing stuff in mutual consent that for me is intolerance.
      I didn't see how they went after his religion.

    • @tok33n14
      @tok33n14 4 года назад +176

      K. A. It’s not about being respectful. He said “i think” as to reference that it is his own personal opinion and not the teachings of his religion. There was no reason for them to go after his religion. And oh boy did they go after his religion.

    • @alyssarosexoxo5496
      @alyssarosexoxo5496 4 года назад +83

      @@rewangoda2900 saying things like "I feel like" or "i think" is actually proper, respectful communication, without pointing fingers. Hes saying that that those are HIS beliefs, hes not saying that they NEED to believe in the same thing.

    • @joanna2057
      @joanna2057 4 года назад +13

      K. A. He was not automatically judging someone by stating his beliefs, he was just putting his input.

    • @aisha5156
      @aisha5156 4 года назад +2

      Alyssa Rosexoxo
      Well I guess, but what about saying “I think you should go die?”...🤷🏾‍♀️Idk who would say, but hey. You never know at this point.

  • @adanna475
    @adanna475 3 года назад +204

    “bald guy” “black lady” “asian guy” they have names yall😭🤚🏾

  • @mariannaa4836
    @mariannaa4836 6 лет назад +2331

    The pastors were incredible, they were so understanding and kind

    • @aliceyu7067
      @aliceyu7067 6 лет назад +18

      I believe it's the Holy Spirit at work there sister ;)

    • @aliceyu7067
      @aliceyu7067 6 лет назад

      I couldn't help but suppress my annoyance some times throughout the video, so still some time before I become a mature Follower of Christ

    • @tchoythao1730
      @tchoythao1730 6 лет назад

      He connected swinging with cheating. Though he was trying, he was ignorant.

    • @Spyros_SP
      @Spyros_SP 5 лет назад +1

      Females are not meant to be Pastors. God made them for other roles. God wants the male to be the leader.

    • @jonnbudden9954
      @jonnbudden9954 5 лет назад +1

      @@Spyros_SP where in the hell did you hear that . Sarcasm? Idk anymore lmao

  • @snowiseverhthingtome
    @snowiseverhthingtome 4 года назад +2702

    this video was weird for me, because even though I'm an atheist and don't believe in god, the bald pastor was just right. I don't know, i expected the sex workers to be more mature and understanding but they really didn't care

    • @hjbvnmmbjjjkkk9957
      @hjbvnmmbjjjkkk9957 3 года назад +36

      I think with the things you have seen in this video you should take a brake and do some real self reflection

    • @moatasemkassab4517
      @moatasemkassab4517 3 года назад +147

      ikr, I hate how they relate the porn problems with religious shame, I'm agnostic and I don't like religions, but I have problems with porn wtf lmao

    • @kayliedunlap
      @kayliedunlap 3 года назад +8

      @@hjbvnmmbjjjkkk9957 how tf-

    • @donyashams7931
      @donyashams7931 3 года назад +52

      I know right.I get that they have different views on the subject, but why are those sex workers that disrespectful towards the bald pastor? What rubbs them the wrong way that induces that type of behavior?

    • @aryan201
      @aryan201 3 года назад +3

      @@hjbvnmmbjjjkkk9957 christian missionaries are literally everywhere damn

  • @brandidupree3932
    @brandidupree3932 6 лет назад +2846

    The pastor that is pregnant was so elegant, and well spoken. She was not for the jokes.

    • @brandidupree3932
      @brandidupree3932 6 лет назад +30

      @Pseudo- nymph no

    • @twilit
      @twilit 6 лет назад +13

      Likening people having sex to wood glued together,... pseudo eloquent

    • @jeremiahtassinari1743
      @jeremiahtassinari1743 6 лет назад +7

      For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life." John 3:16
      Only Jesus Christ is the way to Heaven and be saved from hell.
      "But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us."
      Romans 5:8
      "Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." John 14:6
      Have you confessed Jesus as your LORD and Savior? You must confess Him as your LORD and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead to be saved from eternal damnation in hell and be able to go to Heaven
      "That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved." Romans 10:9
      "For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one." 1 John 5:7

    • @joannereder4772
      @joannereder4772 6 лет назад +3

      yeah but that just means shes not open minded to a lot of things so shes not elegant for being quiet for most of the video. they all came in and signed up to have more open views and talk about theirs.

    • @xMissEerie
      @xMissEerie 6 лет назад +16

      @@joannereder4772 No. She's quiet becos she is LISTENING and DIGESTING what others are saying. She don't ask the sex workers questions probably becos she accepted or understood what they were saying. If someone were close minded, he/she would try to continuously challenge the points made by others.

  • @ruthkim3950
    @ruthkim3950 3 года назад +38

    i love how he hypes up his wife that is the sweetest thing ever

  • @ameliareid2357
    @ameliareid2357 5 лет назад +7953

    I felt that some of the sex workers were being a bit degrading towards the pastors. Like talking to them like they’re lesser than them. That just seems wrong to me.

    • @thebestame3582
      @thebestame3582 5 лет назад +61

      How were they talking to them like they were lesser?
      It seemed like a debate of ideas to me.

    • @ameliareid2357
      @ameliareid2357 5 лет назад +458

      To me, saying that someone’s penis doesn’t know how to act is degrading. You’ll notice that the girl in the colorful pants talk down to the pastor in the blue shirt a lot. 92 other people agree with me but your opinion may be different. Yes, I did just bring in the amount of likes I have so come at me.

    • @ellietomczynski4880
      @ellietomczynski4880 5 лет назад +31

      Amelia Reid Its doesn’t matter how many people agree or disagree, your opinion and The Best AME’s opinion are both valid.

    • @ellietomczynski4880
      @ellietomczynski4880 5 лет назад +17

      Amelia Reid I think your being a bit patronising yourself, actually

    • @ameliareid2357
      @ameliareid2357 5 лет назад +61

      Ellie Tomczynski it was a joke but ok also, it’s you’re

  • @MakiyaA-of9pz
    @MakiyaA-of9pz 6 лет назад +3729

    Weird how the sex workers were more judgmental than the pastors especially the black girl she got on my nerves especially with making fun of the bald guy for only having one partner like i thought that was sweet but the bald pastor was the true mvp though he was the most logical one even though the other pastors were very smart as well

    • @sucktrudot8876
      @sucktrudot8876 6 лет назад +40

      Makiya.A9598 weird ummm hello they are prostitutes of course they will be judgmental

    • @masterofthecraft1990
      @masterofthecraft1990 6 лет назад +58

      Right with her saggy titties lol

    • @milascave2
      @milascave2 6 лет назад +19

      mayika: I missed that. She seemed totally cool with him being with just one woman. She said so at the end.

    • @evelynemaurandy3495
      @evelynemaurandy3495 5 лет назад +14

      SUCK trudot just because they are sex workers doesn’t mean they are judgemental!!!

    • @evelynemaurandy3495
      @evelynemaurandy3495 5 лет назад +4

      Aye it’s ya girl No Name EXACTLY

  • @leahdr1975
    @leahdr1975 5 лет назад +726

    Everyone can have his one opinion but I always feel that pastors are so much more respectful at things like things

    • @nemarchepas
      @nemarchepas 5 лет назад +11

      Lea Hdr To be fair, they should be. A big part of their job is to be compassionate.

    • @the.perfect.ideal.
      @the.perfect.ideal. 5 лет назад +9

      Emma Stainton it’s also a big part of christianity and what the bible teaches🥰

    • @nemarchepas
      @nemarchepas 5 лет назад +3

      dat boi Well yeah that was kind of my point. They’re representations of what the bible is meant to teach. So they bett-ah.

    • @the.perfect.ideal.
      @the.perfect.ideal. 5 лет назад +2

      Emma Stainton yesss, i was just tryna emphasize your point, i fully agree with you!

    • @audri814
      @audri814 5 лет назад +9

      I just felt like the pastors came from a place of love and the workers came from a place of insecurity.

  • @caraduggan4007
    @caraduggan4007 3 года назад +65

    I was waiting for the female pastor to speak, and when she did, it was so sophisticated, and I feel that she definitely put some of the disrespectful comments in their places.

  • @MrsAmbMcC
    @MrsAmbMcC 5 лет назад +1711

    I am an atheist.
    I’ve never thought I’d agree with pastors 😂😂
    But these sex workers were making it so hard to listen to their side.
    They were disrespectful and unwilling to listen... it was hard to watch and to understand them

    • @pipsdontlie3031
      @pipsdontlie3031 5 лет назад +9

      Man I’m a Christian and I felt myself agreeing with the pornstars a lot more.

    • @tino1tony228
      @tino1tony228 5 лет назад +34

      I feel like the darker woman was being disrespectful to the pastors and didnt allow them acknowledgement of their point of view.

    • @mynamesoriginal
      @mynamesoriginal 5 лет назад +12

      @@tino1tony228 why didn't you just say black woman 😂😂

    • @keamorshed
      @keamorshed 5 лет назад +2

      haha, same lol

    • @tino1tony228
      @tino1tony228 5 лет назад +1

      @@mynamesoriginal idk i just felt like saying it that way 🤷

  • @wereallpinkinside8452
    @wereallpinkinside8452 4 года назад +2784

    when reading the title, i honestly thought i would be in the sex workers’ side, but damn they’re not good at listening at all. they just think they’re right

    • @kellenpies160
      @kellenpies160 4 года назад +38

      we’re-all-pink -inside why tf would u be in their side

    • @wereallpinkinside8452
      @wereallpinkinside8452 4 года назад +119

      Kellen Pies wow i’d happily have an adult conversation about it but your attitude makes me not wanna bother, so i hope life just teaches you in time x

    • @kami2848
      @kami2848 4 года назад +55

      Right and they sound so ignorant and obnoxious it grinds my gears. They sound so uneducated except that blonde who is chill

    • @edanpinhasi256
      @edanpinhasi256 4 года назад +13

      Putting religion aside, I seriously want you to explain to me why you be on their side. I love having these type of conversations so please respijd

    • @edanpinhasi256
      @edanpinhasi256 4 года назад

      *respond

  • @lucy1130
    @lucy1130 4 года назад +1245

    They’re all just insulting the pastors and honestly I find it so disrespectful

    • @tigershenanigans6878
      @tigershenanigans6878 4 года назад +8

      I think that in any other context it would be considered disrespectfull, but in this context I find it ok, because that was topic of the conversation. Also they were very honest and I was glad they did and they were also smiling all time and hug each other at the end so I don't think pastors found themselves offended.

    • @brodypenn
      @brodypenn 4 года назад +55

      Milica Mihajlovic referring to the Bible as “that oooold book” and being passive aggressive and talking back to the bald priest every time he spoke, it’d call it disrespectful.

    • @dylan2478
      @dylan2478 4 года назад +6

      Just the sex workers right? I found the other 2 pastors respectfull

    • @jgaming4331
      @jgaming4331 4 года назад +3

      Well they are demonic

    • @乇ʻ卂
      @乇ʻ卂 4 года назад +3

      Name one insult they said; I don't remember them saying anything rude. I think they had a civil adult conversation.

  • @sabb0968
    @sabb0968 3 года назад +117

    I'm muslim and strongly agree with the pastor in his points ...

    • @skyline2601
      @skyline2601 Год назад +3

      We muslims have a lot in common with christians when it comes to base values.

  • @mundaissabaddie6625
    @mundaissabaddie6625 6 лет назад +13285

    "Im married to a great woman that's willing to... party" the fact that he said "party" 😂

  • @catross3713
    @catross3713 5 лет назад +496

    I feel really sorry for the person that said there is no enrichment besides porn. Like dude.

    • @Artaxian_Debacle
      @Artaxian_Debacle 4 года назад +40

      Cat Ross shows how far down in their addiction they are it’s so sad

    • @Densoro
      @Densoro 4 года назад +2

      That was in the context of, ‘media to explore sexuality’ tho. Were they wrong? A lot of people aren’t getting frank discussions of sex unless it’s dirty talk on-screen - and there’s pretty much nothing stepping in to talk about concerns of consent and honesty raised in this video.

    • @jacquelynmiller4714
      @jacquelynmiller4714 4 года назад +6

      @@Densoro there's books and tons of articles on how to how to have good sex.

    • @hokkaidosnow6643
      @hokkaidosnow6643 4 года назад

      Coomers are lost.

  • @hzlkelly
    @hzlkelly 4 года назад +760

    Why were they trying to aggravate the Christians? Looked like the Christians practiced their spiritual fruit. Cause to be honest I'd have gone off. Loved the calmness shown lol.

    • @Cratees
      @Cratees 4 года назад +11

      yes same for me, great forbearance and grace

    • @zeushills2635
      @zeushills2635 3 года назад +20

      They're true role models. I aspire to be as tolerant and patient with people who have an exaggerated point of view.

    • @Random-sk6hm
      @Random-sk6hm 2 года назад +3

      As an atheist I will protect this bald pastor at all costs

  • @TheAnchalnigam
    @TheAnchalnigam 3 года назад +83

    I so loved when they found the word "prohibit" harsh. You may not agree with someone's choice, you may feel sad. That's ok that's your opinion/belief .
    But to overpower your love or bond for that person is just walking backwards...

  • @CyanYoh
    @CyanYoh 6 лет назад +1389

    Interesting conversations for sure, but it really sucks that people were being cut off to keep the video a certain length. I get that 10-20 minutes hits some sort of sweet spot, but I wish you'd release uncut versions of these conversations.

    • @narrowjay0
      @narrowjay0 6 лет назад +27

      CyanYoh have you ever seen these videos? They are heavily cut. And at times, it seems there isn't a fair balance. I don't think they will ever release the uncut.

    • @giovannicerboni655
      @giovannicerboni655 6 лет назад +1

      Pleaseee

    • @dancorwin9232
      @dancorwin9232 6 лет назад +49

      Absolutely. I would LOVE to see an uncut version of these. Or even just longer, less cut versions. Make them an exclusive on their own website or on Patreon or something. I’d totally sign up for that shit

    • @j.m.edwards3425
      @j.m.edwards3425 6 лет назад +4

      Agreed. Could be a new revenue stream if they decided to release the full versions.

    • @umnia4316
      @umnia4316 6 лет назад +6

      I would literally watch hour long versions of these kind of vids

  • @janellerazo8235
    @janellerazo8235 6 лет назад +348

    I believe the woman pastor was actually very open. I love that, the Asian man is also very young and understanding.

  • @imid3440
    @imid3440 5 лет назад +270

    The blonde pastor is so eloquent, I admire that she brought up biblical criticism and understanding the passage’s context - something that people overlook all the time

    • @danaegregoric7278
      @danaegregoric7278 5 лет назад +3

      Imi D yes, when people try to disapprove the Bible by talking about the passage were not allowed to eat certain food or wear certain clothes that’s is the biggest indicator of “I didn’t do my research” and it’s hilarious how many people try to use that one saying they are educated in the Bible 😂

    • @nicolerowan5747
      @nicolerowan5747 5 лет назад

      Thank you!

  • @stevenfoster9402
    @stevenfoster9402 3 года назад +100

    I feel like the sex workers haven't thought about when they get older and their bodies aren't young and attractive anymore, will they still want to be in the industry or will they want to settle down and seek marriages and raise families.

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 3 года назад +5

      Probably, most of them. Think of them as professional athletes. You do sometimes exhausting things for a living. Often on camera. There’s often a huge audience. Your career doesn’t last for life.

    • @abadnpc7169
      @abadnpc7169 3 года назад +7

      That's the downfall of sex work nobody wants to settle with you because of you're reputation and your audience fades away because you're aging

  • @stellaconlon9957
    @stellaconlon9957 5 лет назад +1762

    I’m not a religious person at all but the pastors are doing a much better job at being respectful of other’s opinions and at being open minded and calmly listening to what is being talked about. The sex workers as almost mocking the the pastors and they are really patronising them. Especially the man who has only slept with his wife, like that is really nice and good for him that he has found someone who he has such a strong connection with, and that doesn’t necessarily make him inexperienced!

    • @kt7629
      @kt7629 5 лет назад +84

      facts! the sex workers were rude asf. this was so uncomfortable to watch, the sex workers disrespected the pastors just because of their religion/beliefs like who does that? I can't believe they even posted this.

    • @jasmineskyy4964
      @jasmineskyy4964 5 лет назад +20

      Of course because sex workers have been victims of religion so it’s hard for them to be objective. Religious leaders have not experienced that within the context of this conversation.

    • @purplewine7362
      @purplewine7362 5 лет назад +17

      @@jasmineskyy4964 there always are apologists like you who do not address the issue at hand

    • @jasmineskyy4964
      @jasmineskyy4964 5 лет назад +7

      savior139 i wasn’t defending their behavior, in fact I criticized her in other comments, but I think it’s important to be aware of different nuances at play in this dialogue

    • @stxky10
      @stxky10 5 лет назад +4

      Agreed 5,000 percent! It makes me sad when you can tell someone has been so jaded by religion or the church and has completely been turned off by religion as a whole. Its not what its all about,

  • @theoceannomad
    @theoceannomad 4 года назад +2626

    That pastor is an absolute queen for not laughing at any of their immature jokes

    • @abdullahimohammed9158
      @abdullahimohammed9158 4 года назад +64

      He and the other pastors are logical and reasonable but the rest not so much

    • @gusteg4823
      @gusteg4823 4 года назад +43

      Queen?? 🤔😌

    • @chsinskyy
      @chsinskyy 4 года назад +36

      i think you mean king but lol i gotchu

    • @ameliastrachan6902
      @ameliastrachan6902 4 года назад +95

      ... Or maybe they meant the female pastor you guys??

    • @nanciee2844
      @nanciee2844 3 года назад +6

      All Pastors are King/Queen(s) 🤴👸

  • @youreinvalid8493
    @youreinvalid8493 5 лет назад +5439

    Two of the workers just made fun of the bald pastor (who's actually an amazing guy that more pastors should try to be). So rude.

    • @abbygriffin9105
      @abbygriffin9105 5 лет назад +37

      I know, right.

    • @thebestame3582
      @thebestame3582 5 лет назад +126

      He was saying crazy stuff to be fair. I don't think they were being rude and they were just joking about it but like come on. Mr. "I Watch Porn And Think Women Should Be Taking Off Their Clothes Everywhere" had some iffy things to say.

    • @jhoanathompson313
      @jhoanathompson313 5 лет назад

      yes

    • @ΗλίαςΣπανοπουλος-ξ9π
      @ΗλίαςΣπανοπουλος-ξ9π 5 лет назад +1

      😂they did

    • @swagorous6749
      @swagorous6749 5 лет назад +28

      It was all fun and games. Obviously the pastor didn’t take it to heart.

  • @antoooa8664
    @antoooa8664 3 года назад +54

    I just can't imagne these workers claiming they're teachers 🤣🤣

  • @milkteaful
    @milkteaful 3 года назад +2913

    I think the sex workers came into this with their guard up and are using “humor” to protect themselves from being hurt by what they’re assuming will be judgmental words. But what these 3 pastors showed was not hate nor superiority, but wisdom, vulnerability, and understanding. Lots of respect for them :)

    • @hi-nq5mm
      @hi-nq5mm 3 года назад +111

      they were straight up shaming them for not having sex as much as they do

    • @RichTheFlop
      @RichTheFlop 3 года назад +31

      @@hi-nq5mm i believe it was meant to be a joke, not to offend anyone. as milk said, people who are oppressed and judged for who they are and what they do have a defense mechanism to counteract prejudice and judment.

    • @PAJA63
      @PAJA63 3 года назад +11

      @@hi-nq5mm I don’t think so. They were explaining their own behaviour and worldview to others, in an open-minded fashion.

    • @francoisnze-maure5084
      @francoisnze-maure5084 3 года назад +19

      @@PAJA63 yes but they were too much on the defensive at times, and I was a bit uncomfortable at some parts like when the Black lady answered for the very last question

    • @crazyhuman7541
      @crazyhuman7541 2 года назад +5

      i had no respect fo them

  • @justmejustyou3575
    @justmejustyou3575 5 лет назад +580

    I respect both of them but marriage is not just about sex and experience new things. I know poeple love doing new things, but marriage is much more than sexual fantasys.

  • @thesweetsour2282
    @thesweetsour2282 4 года назад +1437

    2:41
    Bald pastor: "I'm married to a great woman who's willing to party..."
    Wes: ".... Party? As in drugs?"
    *everyone laughs*
    Bald pastor: "Party with my body"

    • @dcreboss4058
      @dcreboss4058 4 года назад +141

      That was very disrespectful of him

    • @kartikasofiy4151
      @kartikasofiy4151 4 года назад +132

      This is not even funny. Poor the bald pastor

    • @gari727
      @gari727 4 года назад +91

      He really thought he came off as Slick, huh? Everyone knew what the pastor meant 😒

    • @michaellouis4882
      @michaellouis4882 4 года назад +33

      I think everyone should have a say and time to speak. The interruption are disrespectful and not funny.

    • @ChanceInLove
      @ChanceInLove 4 года назад +1

      Ya and he said he didn’t do drugs lol

  • @shey1146
    @shey1146 2 года назад +24

    I love the pastors for staying true to their beliefs without putting anyone down who feels otherwise. We would have way less division in the world if everyone did it this way. Respect people's choices

  • @abrar9130
    @abrar9130 4 года назад +1661

    You can see which side is unhappiest and in denial by how aggressively they expressed their opinions. The discontentment is so clearly deep-rooted, it’s actually sad to watch.

    • @Maria-cc8rj
      @Maria-cc8rj 4 года назад +13

      @Cog Gear the wording. Bro a true goat

    • @crypkid2276
      @crypkid2276 4 года назад +30

      Ever think that people are sick of being treated badly by self-righteous hypocrates (not talking about the people in this video, they were lovely), so they develop a gut-reaction of standing their ground and defending who they are and what they do with more passion than someone that has never been subjugated for their sex life, job and views beyond being called a "prude"? This whole debate was going pretty well, actually. The comparison between the two groups is in presentation and the way they express their feelings on the matter can differenciete because of their experiences. A sex worker will be more outspoken and have a more powerful presence than a spiritual person that is usually more mick and short-spoken on topics like this.

    • @crypkid2276
      @crypkid2276 4 года назад +1

      @Cog Gear I'm wasn't referring to you when writing that response. You seem to be a very respectful and nice person that wouldn't think more highly of themselves for being more spiritual or conservative.

    • @BarelyCaitlyn
      @BarelyCaitlyn 4 года назад +5

      Your passive aggressive comment isn’t doing your point any good hunty.

    • @lesnarahamilton5674
      @lesnarahamilton5674 4 года назад

      living happily is living sad???

  • @jonathanalfred446
    @jonathanalfred446 5 лет назад +1296

    Marriages dont work because people rely on sex.
    But intimacy, love and devotion are keys!!!

    • @sardsvib
      @sardsvib 5 лет назад +11

      Sex is also important.

    • @jonathanalfred446
      @jonathanalfred446 5 лет назад +67

      @@sardsvib it is 😉 But it's not the only thing that is important..

    • @swagorous6749
      @swagorous6749 5 лет назад +16

      I’d say sex in marriage is like a human need. Many crave that form for deep connection and intimacy that can only be achieved by sex. If there’s none of that in the marriage, they might seek it in a form of another person. And that is very likely to lead to a divorce. BUT OF COURSE, that is no relationship if there is only sex and no love and devotion. There has to be a little bit of everything

    • @genericchannel126
      @genericchannel126 5 лет назад +24

      jonathan alfred i agree! Having a relationship solely just for sex isnt the healthiest idea

    • @bunnyhutch3012
      @bunnyhutch3012 5 лет назад +1

      And Compromise, and choosing to love when your circumstances are HARD.

  • @albertorivas529
    @albertorivas529 5 лет назад +3487

    "By that ooooooooold book"
    Show some respect men. The pastor is really trying not to judge you and is responding sincerely and all you do is disrespect a religion... shame

    • @jenn2426
      @jenn2426 5 лет назад +58

      periodt.

    • @erenjeager5290
      @erenjeager5290 5 лет назад +39

      alberto rivas- I agree with the pastors on this one

    • @SSBMA1994
      @SSBMA1994 5 лет назад +146

      Yeah they starting to get under my nerves. They talk like middle school children, just so reckless and disruptive. At their age, its not cute.

    • @davidtolbert8446
      @davidtolbert8446 5 лет назад +10

      @@SSBMA1994 ok boomer

    • @algis24
      @algis24 5 лет назад +22

      but is an old book writed for an old civilization...

  • @avinabachatterjee
    @avinabachatterjee 3 года назад +26

    The pastor is amazing... His wife is really lucky

  • @freezingcoldcum5541
    @freezingcoldcum5541 5 лет назад +1303

    Im not even religious anymore but damn these religious leaders were great.

    • @Alison-gc6gh
      @Alison-gc6gh 4 года назад +3

      @Reatile Mofolo People just think religion is outdated....

    • @Alison-gc6gh
      @Alison-gc6gh 4 года назад +2

      @Reatile Mofolo you are right and I agree with you, But I don't accept Jesus Christ as God or The son of God, because I'm a muslim not a christian.

    • @Suo_kongque
      @Suo_kongque 4 года назад +7

      Reatile Mofolo in my religion, God loves everyone so much that he gave his only son to forgive your sins (and mine) and let you into heaven no matter what. No matter how bad you were in life, he loves you too much to give you over to the devil

    • @freezingcoldcum5541
      @freezingcoldcum5541 4 года назад +2

      @@Alison-gc6gh i don't think religion is outdated, thats a view only liberals carry today because they believe they are sooo one with the world. I personally do believe their is a God and all, but I refuse to follow a religion where my natural homosexuality is seen as a sin and what will cause me to go to hell. I was raised in a very religious house and I still live in a very religious house, I think its hard for anyone who ever had some exposure to religion to just no longer be religious

    • @Alison-gc6gh
      @Alison-gc6gh 4 года назад

      @@freezingcoldcum5541 I can get into Homosexuality if you want, I Can't right away because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. That's how we are taught in Islam.

  • @JTmaxx
    @JTmaxx 4 года назад +851

    I'm a porn addict, and I'm still actively fighting it.
    Porn has had a real negative impact on my life. It was consuming large amounts of my time. I would look for any excuse to watch porn. My thoughts were constantly sexual, and just like many people, after masturbating there's just this feeling of loneliness that cripples you.
    I've tried desperately to get help. I have a friend and me and him are nofap together, I've tried getting rid of everyway I can conveniently watch porn (which has failed) and I've even looked for hotlines to help. There aren't any that I could find.
    You can't use porn for sexual education when you know almost everything about it. At that point you use it because there's that part in you that's stuck doing it.
    and if anyone reading this is struggling with it, I'm fighting it too so you ain't alone.

    • @jorgevecinocastro3407
      @jorgevecinocastro3407 4 года назад +47

      You have a loot of testorone, go find something productive and stay active aaaaall the time that you can, if you distract yourself and you enjoy it, you will overcome it.

    • @janpiwowarczyk2858
      @janpiwowarczyk2858 4 года назад +48

      Testorone can be used in lots of ways. Porn should be banned the good argument is in real life children will see it. No matter where it will be hidden.
      Porn as well draw the attention in the wrong direction.

    • @bigbriggsof1996
      @bigbriggsof1996 4 года назад +1

      Jan Piwowarczyk dummy

    • @kevinfrazier7554
      @kevinfrazier7554 4 года назад +1

      Simp

    • @rosebud4467
      @rosebud4467 4 года назад +59

      Wow. Props to you for sharing that. It can't be easy. Addiction of any kind is a horrible beast.
      Staty strong. You've got this!

  • @cojinmango
    @cojinmango 6 лет назад +634

    I just loved that the pastors didn't agree with the idea of prohibition or disown their child and asked to change the statement. And still they said they would love their child anyways 👏👏👏

  • @mollybrown8361
    @mollybrown8361 3 года назад +13

    the lady pastor seems so genuinely lovely

  • @luno9821
    @luno9821 5 лет назад +122

    10:30 to 10:50 is where the pastors won me over.
    They don't want their children to make wrong choices, but if they do, they'll still love them.
    That's what being parents should be about.

  • @polyxenib8562
    @polyxenib8562 5 лет назад +8973

    Why they be acting like sex is everything in life? It's not.

    • @ezekielmarlowe8044
      @ezekielmarlowe8044 5 лет назад +255

      For real😂

    • @stephenlaw8451
      @stephenlaw8451 5 лет назад +343

      I guess it is because its their career. And I guess the sex workers proud enough to come onto this discussion/video are going to be the ones most invested into this lifestyle.
      Not trying to choose sides, but yeah I would think these particular sex workers would hold views that sex are a lot more impacting in their lives

    • @polyxenib8562
      @polyxenib8562 5 лет назад +190

      @@stephenlaw8451 Sure, it's what they do in their everyday life's and impacts them a lot. But they talk about it and give the impression that sex is everything in this world. Like to be happy etc. Kinda disappointed cuz I know it's not something not needed. Its needed sure. But it's not everything. There's so much to do and see. It's like they have a point of a view and that's it. They dont change or accept anything else.

    • @stephenlaw8451
      @stephenlaw8451 5 лет назад +77

      @@polyxenib8562 totally agree. I'm sure for the sex workers, their fulfillment stems largely from their career and how they are able to help their clients. However, this shouldn't excuse them for not trying to understand how another person's faith and lifestyle may grant this other person fulfillment. To say the least, I was also disappointed by the sex workers during this discussion.

    • @polyxenib8562
      @polyxenib8562 5 лет назад +18

      @@stephenlaw8451 So true. You said everything I wanted to say and in better English! Yo thanks for this, yeah a career a person follows has a huge impact on their life. We can see this thorough the video. For both sides.

  • @cutiefun7838
    @cutiefun7838 4 года назад +846

    99% of the comments - "the bald pastor"

  • @ohyeamoe8430
    @ohyeamoe8430 3 года назад +25

    I’m not really into religion, but if there was anyone I’d sit down with to pluck their brain it would definitely be the bald pastor. His passion for his faith and family is really next level. He’s definitely “God body” very down to earth guy.

  • @Within_your_means
    @Within_your_means 5 лет назад +1854

    The bald pastor needs to start his own youtube channel. Felt like he really has a beautiful connection with God and the Bible. Such a wonderful human being.

    • @abelo1676
      @abelo1676 5 лет назад +2

      He needs to be more private about his personal sex life. It's not for public consumption. Talk to your pastor about it or your spouse. Sad to see him drop to the level of these degenerates and bring shame to his wife.

    • @asaphnazare7640
      @asaphnazare7640 5 лет назад +40

      @@abelo1676 Dude, did he say something especific? Nothing at all, You know every couple is healthy to have a sexual life.

    • @xg3990
      @xg3990 5 лет назад +22

      @@abelo1676 shame on you to speak for his wife. He was great. He HAD to have had a conversation about it with his wife AND prayed about it. Calling them degenerates just because they're sex workers...honestly...this pastor was truly an inspiration so I'll just say we should all try to be like him and NOT JUDGE and instead try to teach via the way we live our own lives as an example and show love! He lives his life according to the bible and jesus ate with the thieves and prostitutes and beggers. So go spread some love, not HATE!

    • @user-zu5sp7wx2g
      @user-zu5sp7wx2g 5 лет назад +7

      @@abelo1676 You're the crazy kind of religious I was expecting in the video. Instead it was the most likable person on the planet who miraculously found a way to trigger you..

    • @mariodemelo9551
      @mariodemelo9551 5 лет назад

      Bruh 🙈

  • @PsychoWhite3
    @PsychoWhite3 5 лет назад +184

    9:51 Oh no he loves his wife and doesn't desire other people
    Also, if anything the sex workers keep stereotyping the pastors

  • @bether2game797
    @bether2game797 6 лет назад +1151

    I found myself really upset with the sex workers whom came across as very aggressive. I don't feel like they were there to have an open mind.. I feel like they were there to FIGHT. Hats off to the Pastors.

    • @deborah7292
      @deborah7292 6 лет назад +7

      i completely agree

    • @GodSpeed1105
      @GodSpeed1105 6 лет назад +10

      Well ofcourse, the pastors are mature because they have God in their life. The sex workers follow the devil happily who are very immature in their ways of thinking.

    • @robjones2506
      @robjones2506 6 лет назад +1

      You will find that in every video the party that has the most contraversial views are very aggressive

    • @Levicandoit
      @Levicandoit 6 лет назад +6

      BetHer2Game I have to disagree. I thought for the most part everyone was pretty respectful. The black woman got pretty riled up at times but at the same time I can understand why you might get defensive. They are collecting these people in a room who fundamentally disagree with their life choices and feel like these people are living in sin so I can understand why it might be natural to get defensive. Especially since if you’re in the sex industry I guarantee that you get judgment and dirty looks every damn day and I’ll bet that gets old and starts to be how you assume most people will act

    • @Levicandoit
      @Levicandoit 6 лет назад +5

      Megatron you’re an asshole mate

  • @haleyboswell4990
    @haleyboswell4990 3 года назад +95

    As a sex worker, I’m embarrassed of how they responded to the prompts. Yet that is how many in the industry act sadly.

    • @saylorgrey1029
      @saylorgrey1029 3 года назад +1

      Why are you a sex worker?

    • @vixenvxce1063
      @vixenvxce1063 2 года назад +3

      I'd like to become one, but the industry is so toxic. Consumers and providers both alike. Almost all sex workers I've encountered have been like these ones, and it's sad.

    • @vixenvxce1063
      @vixenvxce1063 2 года назад +3

      @@saylorgrey1029 Most become sex workers either to enjoy providing for people or to just earn some cash. But there are many reasons why someone could become one.

  • @AriannaElizabeth
    @AriannaElizabeth 6 лет назад +268

    As soon as the guy said “ my hope is that one day we stop putting Christian values over human values” all I can think is THAT IS SUCH A WORLDY STATEMENT 😩🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙅🏽‍♀️

    • @IHaveACameraToo
      @IHaveACameraToo 6 лет назад +1

      Arianna Elizabeth honestly

    • @s.on.y
      @s.on.y 6 лет назад +1

      Forreal

    • @joshywashy3453
      @joshywashy3453 6 лет назад +30

      Arianna Elizabeth I don’t think these people really understand how much those 2 values overlap each other. It’s just that the Bible is seen as a huge burden of rules that don’t allow for any true freedom.

    • @jennyoyster5054
      @jennyoyster5054 6 лет назад

      Arianna Elizabeth Exactly....

    • @cynthiag5110
      @cynthiag5110 6 лет назад +5

      Mathew James that's not true at all, the bible isn't in any way a burde,

  • @glacio95
    @glacio95 4 года назад +3790

    I just wanna sit with this bald dude and talk about life

    • @glacio95
      @glacio95 4 года назад +13

      @Cog Gear that's not the only reason at all. Both the church and a considerable number of priests have done some bad, bad things over the years. Some not too long long ago.
      Besides that, people outgrew religion because we have a much broader and scientific understanding of the world. There's no reason to believe in a God if not for therapeutic reasons. That's why I appreciate things like Buddhism a lot, it's more of a spiritual way of life than something based on blind faith.

    • @glacio95
      @glacio95 4 года назад +3

      @Cog Gear Well, everything you say can, is or either will be explained by science -except the existance of spirit and sould, which is debatle for its very nature.
      I'm not saying there's no God, I'm just saying I don't believe in one. I'd rather trust someone who's giving us answers and making things work (like the very internet we are using to have this conversation) than some old book that tells us things are the way they are just because it works like that. I simply don't know if there's a God, but looking at this world it sure doesn't feel like it. There's too much bad, and not just amongst people.

    • @daviddafflon4392
      @daviddafflon4392 4 года назад +5

      @@glacio95 Hi, you are raising valid points, especially with regard to "all the bad happening in this world". You might wanna check Frank Turek and Ravi Zaccharias on YT. Both give an excellent explanation on why there is evil in this world and that it does not conflict with the existence of God, but rather confirms it. Basically what they say is that our ability to love and do good cannot exist without the possibility to chose to do evil. Love is all about free will. Have a nice day :)

    • @daviddafflon4392
      @daviddafflon4392 3 года назад

      @Joe McIlroy Yeah it's on my list ! I've always wondered whether it was worth it. Your feedback confirms it is. Thanks a lot !

    • @daviddafflon4392
      @daviddafflon4392 3 года назад

      @Joe McIlroy also, go check cold case christianity on YT if you don't know it yet !

  • @mimijenkins8113
    @mimijenkins8113 5 лет назад +4023

    i’m sorry but the sex workers, especially the man and the black woman were SO patronising and rude!? like yes of course they’re intitiled to their own opinion but they were being so disrespectful

    • @manuga2001
      @manuga2001 5 лет назад +79

      I thought they were pretty smart. And made very valid points.

    • @michaelmannucci8949
      @michaelmannucci8949 5 лет назад +109

      Mimi Jenkins what do you expect from people who have made a profession out of the morally reprehensible? I wouldn’t expect drug dealers to be any more polite.

    • @mimijenkins8113
      @mimijenkins8113 5 лет назад +4

      Michael Mannucci true true

    • @thebestame3582
      @thebestame3582 5 лет назад +83

      @@michaelmannucci8949 first off. Sex work doesn't make you rude and comparing it to being a drug dealer is iffy and even that is a blanket statement
      Second, I tried watching this whole thing back to see if I could see what you two meant and tbh, I don't see it.
      I think they were polite, smart, and let the other side speak on what they meant. The only time they got "Rude" (I guess) is when they are debating (which is the point) and when they are just joking around with the pastors. So they aren't being rude they are just debating or joking. But if they were being rude, let's be honest, that bald white guy was saying some crazy things.

    • @ellietomczynski4880
      @ellietomczynski4880 5 лет назад +18

      TheBest AME Agreed, if they were being rude then Jubilee would not have uploaded this video. The whole point is that a controversial topic can be discussed with each side equally respecting each other.

  • @jacoblein6413
    @jacoblein6413 2 года назад +13

    The female pastor spoke like a queen. When she spoke, it was like the entire environment changed and took a split second to mind their manners.

  • @VictorChooJernLiang
    @VictorChooJernLiang 3 года назад +3561

    I bet the bald pastor went home and pray for each of them. LOL

  • @kamrynfoster4689
    @kamrynfoster4689 6 лет назад +1271

    “Holy moly” 🤣 the pregnant woman is so cute!

    • @basitissah9790
      @basitissah9790 5 лет назад +2

      Yeah, that comment was EVERYTHING! 😂

    • @brightrebellion265
      @brightrebellion265 5 лет назад +2

      Isn’t she 😍😍😍 she is precious

    • @yousuckx290
      @yousuckx290 5 лет назад +1

      I rewinded that part of her saying "Holy Moly" like ten times

  • @zohrazeba3811
    @zohrazeba3811 4 года назад +1161

    And yeah just FYI watching porn is not sex education

    • @_phong.huynh_
      @_phong.huynh_ 3 года назад +83

      @@eliascrazystory those sex workers apparently 🙄 smh what were they on while shooting this video?

    • @brightblackgrouse6236
      @brightblackgrouse6236 3 года назад +19

      @@_phong.huynh_ porn probably

    • @freddysfuntimefleshlight8094
      @freddysfuntimefleshlight8094 3 года назад +6

      It is for people who don't have anybody who feels comfortable explaining it to them.

    • @_d4ra
      @_d4ra 3 года назад +5

      Where can I watch sexual education because my parents wouldn't let me go to living and growing or "birds and the bees" in America and they won't teach me so I watched porn but I want a healthy mindset 😭

    • @yayayayya4731
      @yayayayya4731 3 года назад

      @@brightblackgrouse6236 😂

  • @breannemurrell3026
    @breannemurrell3026 3 года назад +22

    I wish they would have talked about soul ties more. Especially for the pastor that had had previous partners.

  • @whooah
    @whooah 4 года назад +344

    It's so cute when the bald pastor gushes about his wife everyone's like "hell yeah dude!"

    • @kaylee2515
      @kaylee2515 4 года назад

      V why did I read the last part in Keanus voice form Bill and Ted

  • @Ami-sy1by
    @Ami-sy1by 4 года назад +378

    The lady pastor was so classy and calm. Love her

  • @conniemcloed41
    @conniemcloed41 5 лет назад +1406

    The female pastor seems like an amazing woman

    • @ryzeup5654
      @ryzeup5654 5 лет назад +1

      right??...need her ig @

    • @andrealarochelle9112
      @andrealarochelle9112 5 лет назад +10

      Cara Mckay I want to hear one of her sermons

    • @jaymerc4362
      @jaymerc4362 5 лет назад

      honestly!!!

    • @anryyz4445
      @anryyz4445 5 лет назад +14

      I'm not even religious but i love her. She could turn me religious if we had a few talks

    • @caramelmacchiatoe
      @caramelmacchiatoe 5 лет назад

      @@anryyz4445 lol

  • @hyrunnisa997
    @hyrunnisa997 2 года назад +8

    Porn is not sex education. Lotus was so unbelievably rude and disrespectful and I think the pastor should have called her out for it. Just because they disagree doesn't give her the right to be condescending and nasty and make cruel jokes. The conversation should be respectful.
    I feel like she is acting that way because she fundamentally doesn't agree with her lifestyle or she has a lot of shame and is over compensating.