The Horrifying Truth about the Porn Industry
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- Опубликовано: 9 сен 2024
- Many people treat pornography as a private issue, one dealing only with obscene material. Sadly, this is not the case. Given how videos are made and its link to human trafficking, pornography is very clearly an issue of social justice.
Sources for further reading:
Allison J. Luzwick, Human Trafficking and Pornography: Using the Trafficking Victims Protection Act to Prosecute Trafficking for the Production of Internet Pornography, 112 Nw. U. L. Rev. 355 (2017).
Catharine A. MacKinnon, Pornography as Trafficking, 26 MICH. J. INT'L L. 993 (2005). Available at: repository.law...
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I stopped watching porn 4 years ago, started praying and today have a beautiful wife and son. With God's grace all things are possible.
This is one of the best RUclips comments I ever read.
Huh This advice is better than people telling me to kill my self
I stg porn causes depression and it’s so scary that you don’t even know it I went a month without it and was already feeling amazing then I relapsed now I will never watch it again
God bless you. Praise the Lord. What a wonderful blessing you received from God, a beautiful wife and son.
Pls pray for me as well!
Notice how porn is free online yet music and movies aren't.
RUclips is free....
But I must agree ...some Christian music is not available for free and neither is Netflix...
@@theguardian6464 no...ads
Capitalistic country
TheGuardian there is free RUclips and paid RUclips. With the free one, you are just bogged with watching content and ads.
I've had a porn addiction since I was first exposed to it at 12. For years now I've been trying to quit, knowing the harm it brings both to myself, and especially to others. It's hard. But videos like these help me bring it back into perspective and remind me of why it's vital that I need to get over this.
Wish me luck.
praying for you :)
Good luck and God bless, you can do it
The fact you've realised and are doing something about this, you're half way through the journey. Christ help you, hopefully more people have the same revelation.
I'll pray for you, but i beg you pray that i avoid Damnation, and kill this vice and stop sinning
I will pray for you, yours in Christ ✝️
Prostitution: *Ilegal*
Prostitution on camera: Multi Billion dollar industry
me: huh?
Prostitution is legal in tons of countries. lol
@@SebastianStephanStan bla bla bla. Same deal with any type of company. Human trafficing always gets blamed on porn and prostitution, yet it mostly happens in restaurants etc
@@byakurenhoujuu also if it's legal , you can tax it. You can administrate it and by now in Netherlands even drunkards get service
@@Vincent-lw1sk Yes. It'd gonna happen anyway, so legalisation brings in tax income and better regulation + less human trafficing than illegal Prostitution
I assume you are talking about the US? It's legal here.
It’s not a matter of religion or not, this man is speaking only the truth. Massive respect ✊🏻
Edit : Thank you guys , it’s my first time getting more than 1k of likes but please share this video it’s fruitful
Yeup I got mad respect too bro
Hear, hear
It is a matter of God though. Because God is about morals .
He is the standard of morality, Amen.
@@rooster3103 I'm not sure what your point is. Are you defending the porn Industry?
Religious or not, this man is speaking facts! Pornography messes with your head.
It does. It can affect how you treat women. Some of these viewers start to objectify women as it arouses them. So, it affects your relationship.
@@CIK501 Brother Jesus? Either Father, God
@@riceCrispycake Thank you .
@@CIK501 They'll probably just use those beads for..."other" reasons
BUT WHY THESE GOVERNMENTS ALLOW THESE INDUSTRIES.
Pornography almost ruined my life. Thank you Jesus for pulling me out and giving me strength to keep fighting this addiction.
Praise God brother!
Jesus ruined my life. Thank God for atheism.
@@mikemayo4812 bro...
@@mikemayo4812 ? Nobody asked
@@mikemayo4812 i will pray for you brother. Wishing all the best to you!
I cried. It's horrible that people really don't know what's behind this.
From my mind yes.but everybody was set up even before we born.
Yeah. People insist to be blind about the sins of the church. What a bunch of ignorant people.
@@ga35am Why don't you leave this chat and mind your business and maybe come back later when you, either, have grown up or have learned some intellectual honesty?
Ask yourself, who am I benefitting?
If the answer is "no one" then you should stay put and shut the f*ck off.
Not a "Christian" suggestion, just a Social one.
What’s even worse, We don’t know their motives.
@@heastner Money, there it is for you
May God replace our lust with love and compassion.
Amen!⚘
Maybe he made lust to make love feel more real.
May God open your eyes, so you realize that she doesn't exist.
Amen
And let the devil posses u, if u have any idea of how ur mind works
Pornography is toxic af and a soul destroyer.
@Jordan - discord is sorta neutral;it depends on how you use it. So is money.
@Jordan - It depends where you are on there
@@davidmella1174 a punch of degenerates tho
I hate to admit this, but literally after i closed my porn tab i go to youtube and this was the first video on my home page. i still struggle with this certain addiction, and i do believe God used you two years ago to hit me at this moment, thank you Fr. please pray for me
Good luck Jesse
Will also pray for you brother
Praying for you, brother.
Hey, i hope you're able to kick that habit. You must be strong, you can do it.
Don’t.
Look up "ignite the Light reclaiming God's plan for sexual health"
I stopped watching porn after I read how it leads to human trafficking. My conscience is clear. If I as a woman contribute to the abuse of other women a lightening should strike me down.
I never knew it leads to human trafficking and good on you for having the will power to stay far away the unhealthy habits e.g. porn. Continue the good fight and it takes alot of strength to break from addictions, be proud of yourself 😊 I hope all is well on your side?
based
Areee bhen koi bat nahi sab thik hojayega
If God passes on the lightning bolts during things like holocausts and war crimes....God's weather report is definitely clear skies with a chance of abuse.
@@neame-bh3uq I don't hate you.
I don't even know who "you" are.
The sad part is 80% of people will still watch porn after this video
The talanted it’s hard
So what. What is wrong with you people? You are moral Nazis. LOL what the f***
@@mrwallstreet1 "moral Nazi?" What an oxymoron.
I want to stop fa**ing but I get a b*ner out of nowhere and it hurts sometimes so I fap my way out of it
I am one of those people.
Although I’m not catholic or Christian, I find you inspiring, eloquent and your videos are thought provoking. Our world needs more people like you. Thank you.
Our world needs more open-minded people like you as well! Good day!
The topics can be well chosen and well delivered by this man.
It is generally not heavy religious technical talks and more practical life help talks.
I only wish that I had seen these years ago.
Glad that you can be open-minded 😃😁
Come to Jesus Christ! ✝️
@@subsnovideoschallenge-kb7st no
“Turn your eyes away from looking at what is worthless” psalms 119:37
WIGGY A true Christian buddy boy! I am too!
Based
Thank you. Great comment
I am not a hardcore porn watcher I just dry humps myself in my bed
The trick is om deciding what is worthless. If you decide too much is worthless, be prepared to resist a lot the impulse to suicide.
I am not affiliated with any type of religion. However, I do work with victims of sexual abuse, and everything this guy said is absolutely true. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Suggesting that it is in any way typical for pornstars to be recruited by being "drugged and raped" is exactly as untrue as suggesting that Catholic priests are typically pedophiles.
This guy may think he is driving people away from porn with claims like that but what he is actually doing the devil's work by driving people away from the church and showing Christians like himself as dishonest, delusional, or both.
@@Camdenandroid He didn't say it was typical. It happens more often than it should. (Shouldn't happen at all)
@@Camdenandroid grooming for abuse can take many forms. Drugs and alcohol can be part of the grooming process. The gradual erosion of inhibitions and lessening of sensitivity to abuse is not only personal but also familial and societal. Exposure to pornography, especially at a young age, ( I believe in the US the average age of first exposure to pornography is 11) is a form of grooming to aid the acceptance of sexual exploitation and abuse. The grooming doesn't just apply to those who participate in making pornography but also to those who participate in it through viewing it or exposing others, including childtrn, to it.
Fact👌
I used to work in adult entertainment. I had friends that got into the film side of the industry. What this guy said is absolutely true. It's a brutal industry.
It took me 5 minutes to realize this guy was wearing robes.
@Ramsay Bolton me too.
Me too
Creep factor just went up
And I'm the weirdo? 🤦🏾♂️
He's Fr. Casey. What do you expect a priest to wear?
Who raised this wonderful man? Thank you for sharing.
I wish morality wasn't as subjective as in today's world.
Religion is looked down upon today.
Liberalism has its own downsides
Sigh!
@@tromboner6061 oh my i'm so sorry for u u poor soul. I wish everyone was the same too. I wish everyone was white, christian, and straight :)
@@OneClickWonder Neither White
Nor Christian
I think religion helps in spirituality.
We often look back in history and think all religion did was problems.
BUT NO!
People needed direction desperately. Religion gave it to them.
People needed hope. Religion helped.
People werent all so intelligent to decide for themselves. So religion did and did it pretty well
Yeah hes wonderful you say.. problem is you women like the bad boy drug dealer
@@GOLDENEYEAL he is an ordained priest which means he has taken the vow of chastity, and obedience
“The more people watch, regardless of their intention, the more women will be trafficked.” Preach it.
Not just women. Children.
@@summerohara554how ? Kids cant do it
Kids shouldn't be doing it
Yes they can @@fortuneegbunike3728
Pornography portrays women and especially *TEEN GIRLS* as objects rather that actual people and it sickens me.
ROADA ROLLA DA. Anyway yes I agree with you even though I struggle with this myself. My exposure to it has perverted my thinking into believing women are objects for my pleasure rather than real human beings with a soul. One of God's creations.
@@lemonade71440 ORAORAORAORAORA
but yeah i def agree w you
What should also sicken you is the exploitation of men too.
People are just less valuable these days
And men and children 😭😭😭
I had a15 year addiction to porn, and it began by watching cable television at a friend’s house that I was staying at, while attending “ BIBLE COLLEGE “!! I am happy to say, that I’m 3 weeks” clean”, TODAY! God continues to help me STAY STRONG
Romans 12:1-2
Stay strong and avoid temptation. Remember God sees ALL.
Congratulations my brother and l will also encourage that you are strong and no temptation you get is new under the sun.l pray that you defeat it
Wonderful. Please find yourself doing volunteer work at church or some constructive hobby such as gardening etc. Will continue to pray for you.⚘⚘⚘
Try, try again! Stay strong and in the fight! 💪
I would add that women and children are not the only victims; men and boys are trafficked as well, alll of the above are sometimes lured by drugs and slaves to addiction. Thank you for the post!
Yeah Your Right
@@histonime7160 You're
Joseph Spears So true!
Absolutely....I'm not sure why men and boys were not mentioned! The topic wasn't "woman" in pornography, it was pornography!
Thanks for mentioning this. It is something that isn't discussed very much.
It's ridiculous how people who defend women also defend the porn industry. Hypocricy at its best.
They WANT women to be single prostitutes.
@@preshrunk_cyberpunk5479 I feel like these male feminists only take their side because they are wolves looking for an easy prey.
That has nothing to do with hypocricy. We have to differ between the two types. First one, consenting actors, consenting amateur couples and so on. And he mentioned that too. Second type, women pressured to do something they don't want to, women being hurt and abused. And that the second one is morally wrong, has nothing to do with religion btw, is undoubtedly true. That is something we need to stop, we all together, we all together as humans not as religious warriors.
@@Niknotthicc Even with the actor's conscent it's still female objectification but I seldom if ever see that point being made at least in MSM platforms.
About your second point where you speak about morality, what is morality from a strictly secular point of view? In "religion" it makes perfect sense since it's inspired from a divine all knowing source so it's objective and fixed. From a secular point of view, from what I know, it's man made and it's ever changing, for example if you ask a liberal about his values today and compare them with the views of a liberal from a century ago you'd find out it's pretty different, even today not all atheists believe for the lack of a better term in the same values.
I agree that we must put a stop to this together, god knows we've been trying for years but this industry is so powerful, has infinite resources and backed by powerful people with huge influence on media platforms. I think that in this honorable fight we must come to a common ground, I think more studies should be made about the negative effects of porn on the human brain and body, if these studies hit the mainstrean media I'm sure it's gonna be a huge blow to the porn industry and more and more people will be aware of its dangers.
* I'm not American sonmy English isn't very good, I apologise in advance if I made a point that isn't clear enough.
@@tylerdordon99 the definition of moral values is subjective, so yeah it changes as decades go by. And that is a good thing, in 2020 we shouldn't live be moral values someone defined thousand years ago.
And on your point on women objectification, it probably is true that there is a surreal and incomplete scenario depicted. But that can be "fought" with some preventive actions. But for that we need to start speaking openly about sexuality, and all its wonderful facets.
What shocks me is why porn is just one click away on the internet.
why can't porn be banned from RUclips, Google and other applications and search engines? are they profiting from them? if so then they become complicit to this industry and the worldwide spread of the trade.
One click away? Wait a minute? Do you have some spicy stuff already on other tab...? A man of culture you are :D
@@lightartis228 wait what no, i mean u can just type porn and there ‘one click away’
@@Garryp0tterr sure... :D
@@lightartis228 .... -_-
God save these women and anyone involved in the porn industry.
Just the women??
TheBoots72 He literally just said anyone involved
But your god doesn't save them. And continues not to. So your god either 1) isn't bothered by it 2) isn't powerful enough to stop it or..........3) just doesn't exist.
I'm going with option 3.
@@pwoods100 well that's your choice and opinion. Just don't impose it.
When one says "let God help them", it is not meant that a miracle will happen and they will escape it immediately, but that they will be put on the right path (their minds will be) and understand it is wrong.
God`s people should stand up and prove to be His children and start acting like one, not just writing in social media.
I'm also guilty of this horrible habit, it destroyed my life and have me feeling suicidal many times, but I am trying my best with God's help to break free.
Try nofap website or subreddit. They're an online group supporting each other to break free of sexual addictions and helping each other with self-control. Best of luck! Stay strong!
Porn has had me in it's grips and has destroyed my desire for love and a real relationship with women I want to break this habit but it's hard
Kenny Kelly Go on a 7 day, 6 to 12 hour fast, finish at 12 noon and that’s if you can’t do it till 6 and pray to God to forgive and change your life, during those hours of fasting, you’re praying 🧎♀️ as well. During the 7 days when you’re about go to got bed when you finish taking a shower , you need about 50 coconuts into 14 individual bottles use the coconut 🥥 water to rinse yourself, each day use 2 bottles use a small bucket mixed with the coconut and proper sea salt not the one from the store, add a small handful to the bucket as well and a cup of water and mix it and when finish with the shower and you use it, you pray to God as you’re cleansing yourself to release you from any demonic bondage and spirit of lust, adultery and fornication. Then put on your clothes no lotion or anything and go outside with the anointing oil. You need seven bottles of anointing oil or small glass bottles of extra virgin oil, go outside to seven different areas around your house at night time and pray to God about freeing you from bondage and him coming into your life and then smash it on the floor for those seven days after the coconut cleanse. And then read quotations from your bible that can help in that area of enemies and demonic spirits before bed and pray, from then on start reading the Bible in general and ask God to come into your life and that you want to know him with your entire being and when you finish the fast, see the difference.
@@emmanuel11ful or just jack it then apologise. Like you all do anyway so whats the point.
@@safc88 you can apologise over and over but if your actions don't change your words become meaningless
I am a bit shocked a lot of people don't know the horrors of the industry.
or even worse try to justify,or pretend it isn't happeningg
I am addicted.
I am sorry.
I am Christian.
Please pray for me.
Me too!
Best of luck.
It is powerful vice, not easy to overcome. I was addicted too. You can kick it with constant prayer and running away from what leads you to it.
You can’t do it on your own, same as good works, they don’t come from you but the Holy Spirit. He is the one that makes the change. Ask for it. Ask for purity, every... single... day.
@@matthewturner6593 This is something I am going to try, of course fitting this picture I have of Christ on my desk will be tough but I'll make do till I can use a printer.
Fr. Casey...you have courage and class.
To speak against the porn industry? That is low hanging fruit
The best advice I can give is watch this channel sensus fidelium , specifically : spiritual protection, fr ripperger.
I'm not a guy who goes with a religion. But as a human he speaks the facts.
Best comment I've ever read.
same bro same, i'm not much for religion either, but this is a topic that needs to be addressed, it effects me heavily, even still till this day
Same
No he speaks some facts but hides others...
@@lyadhkhorcyclechalai69 could you please explain ?
drugs, low self esteem, depression and a lot of suicides. Not as glamorous as one thinks
Over 120 in 20 yrs. My friend.
I’m Muslim and I 100% agree with you. Love this message!
I pray you come to the foot of the Messiah and denounce false prophets. Ameeeeen! 🥰
@@michaelturnage3395 Islam actually does believe that Jesus is the Messiah. I highly encourage you to research Islam before you tell me to denounce a prophet that spreads the message of Jesus, and all of the other prophets, peace be upon them all.
@@ladybugpoet2247 Different Jesus. Different Gospel.
@@ladybugpoet2247 In Arabic his name is Yasue, not Isa.
@@michaelturnage3395 that is Aramaic. In Arabic his name is Isa
Don't say "underage women". If they're under 18, they're children.
Well its true
Women is a term that can be used interchangeably with gender. Underage women includes children and teens. Teens can look like adults so I don't see why "underage women" would be offensive
@@starchannel123 ...but did you get picked, sis? 🙄
@Red Estevez says the far leftist
@@starchannel123 would you call a 5 year old a man? No. Stop trying to argue semantics
You are so right father. The psychology affects of pornography is lasting and very negative on human relationship. I have seen it. God help us!
Please make sure you watch past the first minute, as the point of the video is that there are far worse effects than that.
I have experienced it
Porn is demonic
@Roberto Murillo You want to blame one man, but there are many producers. In this sick parody of true love is nothing Godly, it is all demonic. Then there are those of us, myself included, who choose to watch it, drawn to it like moths to a flame (only to have our wings burned), chained to it like slaves condemned to death (which spiritual death pornography is). May God forgive our trashing of His Sacred Image in man and deliver us from this spiritual sickness.
I did a bachelor's degree research on pornography and deviant sexual behavior. Thank you padre for this
I'm now struggling to come out of it
@@philipegbusie2647 did you apply for Pornhub board? 😊
Deviant sexual behavior sounds kinda funny
its definitely deviant, you begin to deviate from what would be natural to a normalised state of mind without millions of images altering your brain chemistry. it is deviant because it has become hypersexualised and connected to dopamine reward. its sexual and psychological conditioning. very unhealthy
Dirty old men were once dirty young men
Never watched it, never will.
Good, totally worth it
Lucky lucky you. that is really great.
Ave Maria oh I’m praying for you!
Abigail Mills
That should sort everything out
Wise choice. If I could go back to my younger self, I would tell him that its way easier to never start, than it is to try and stop afterwards.
Thank you so much for making this video. I was involved with a boyfriend that watched pornography and sexually abused me even when we were both very young. It’s not an either/and, it comes into bedrooms and hurts women. This needs to be heard because the truth is what we need more than anything else
what if my gf loves to get abused sometimes
a lil bit, you know
@@DeeKeyLP as long as she's not coerced nor blackmailed nor groomed to like it, I suppose it's fine
My girlfriend has experienced the same from her ex, I am deeply sorry for you
@@DeeKeyLP Don't ever do that. Women loves more to be respected.
As an older sibling to a younger brother I am afraid for the kids of today, and how freely available porn is on the internet and how these children will find it unintentionally and with ease! May the precious blood of Jesus protect the eyes and the mind of these little ones!
I've gone 2 weeks without watching porn I'm going strong
Good job 👏
CONGRATS :)
Always Glory to God
Bro im 82 days, it's easy, stay strong
@@uvivijiguviv1352 what u do?? How?
Jesus can set those addicts free and most importantly set the women free!!!
More importantly, I hope he (we) can set the women who are trafficked free
There’s still hope
@Van Helsing They've been kicked out of over 100 countries over 300 times!
don't we need practical solutions to these very big and real issues also ?
Roberto Murillo the problem in catholicism is that you depend on priests who can only take your sins but in reality Jesus is the one and only mediator between men and God and he is only one prayer from the bottom of your heart away from you. I am also ex catholic but I gave my life to Christ, layed my sins down to him and he made me a new creation and washed me from all sin.
My parents once told me that if I ever look at porn, they said to imagine the person behind that screen; the moms, dads, actual people that only do this for the money and in some cases are a product of human trafficking.
but what if it's hentai? Do you then think of the artist?
Even better
I think the human trafficking is a little exaggerated. We live in an infirmation age where everything is reported and nothing can be hidden.
Silver Valley Coins and Bullion and loads of corruption. Human trafficking still exists, and it happens more in poorer countries than America..
@@calibribody6776 Still addictive and creates a long term mental struggle
Who's listening to these wise words in August??? I'm touched.
It’s sad how this does not even have a 1M views
Probally cuz "porn" is in the title so it probally gets hidden
People don't want truth. They want to be entertained.
It is sad that there are people that agree with this anti porn silliness.
@@ga35am So you are pro-porn then? Everything this guy said doesn't resonate with you at all?
@@chilliconn071 bingo!
It's horrific. Deeply unethical. I was addicted to visiting porn websites for years, I'm a girl so the shame was worse. I haven't watched porn for 2 years after really seeing how unethical porn is, I would never, ever, ever enter a porn website again. I thank god everyday for getting me away from such horrible material, but the shame never really leaves me for some reason.
You just don't have to hold on to the shame if you've really stopped watching.
Dont feel ashamed, we all do bad things, I'm a guy that was addicted to porn for 25 years. I quit 9 months ago. Be grateful and proud, you did an amazing thing to change your life. God bless you. :)
There is no shame guilt or condemning in JESUS CHRIST. He will take it all away.🙏💕
Its ok... Some secrets are for death bed
Thanks for the kind words and support, yes I am very happy I was able to shift from a state where I was watching porn to escape and not realising it's unethical nature. I am thankful, but yes I still struggle with feeling of immorality and feeling like a sinner, or immoral, or even outside of a religious context, just a bad person. I do my best to shake it off, maybe it will be something I carry for a life time, I don't know. Most people tell me I am not a bad person, that I am an even better person than most for realising it's unethical and stopping when most people don't seem to care. But still can't seem to shake it. But thanks for the support guys xx
As a male who now has a beautiful daughter, my opinions and perspectives on this subject has changed. Everyone I watched had a dad somewhere and at some time was their daddy’s baby girl. I still struggle with it sometimes but I am trying and am working on it - thank you for the video and the way you have presented it. This really is very well said. Thank you !!!
Also women have been saying this FOR EVER and it's that no one listens to feminists like Bindel, Dworkin or MacKinnon... though these angels do source the latter.
😭💓
@@cheryl5667 I support those Feminists who are against porn.
But tbh Feminists are oppurtunists and hypocritic at times.
So most of them support it, cuz it's a sign of liberalism or women's sexuality or whatever idk
and why do men have to have women in their family that they care about or be reminded that they have women in their family at all before denouncing violence against women.. pathetic
@@tromboner6061 trafficking exists because the demand, the buyer, the man.
The racial stereotypes promoted would never be tolerated in any other industry!
Degradation, incest what not?
so true...and to think it's their "freedom of speech", just what are they saying?
Porn "speech" = hate speech
I want to remind you guys
"To overcome a year one must overcome each month,
to overcome each month one should overcome each week, to overcome each week one must overcome each day, to overcome each day one must overcome every hour, to overcome every hour ones should overcome every minute, to overcome every minute one must and should overcome each second" Love and Blessings from the Philippines God Bless.. ❤️❤️
Thank you so much for these words!
Inspiring!
Amen. I was on a 6 month streak until I caved. My goal is never again, but I will need the Lord's helps
I'm not a religious guy but this guy is speaking facts💯
Yes bro
I sometimes think unbigoted religious people in modern society are the best people.
I wish I could be one but am too rational to believe in it.
Facts? Tell me one.
@@tromboner6061 unbigoted religious people ... are the best". How many of those do you think exist? By what criteria you consider them the best of people?
@@tromboner6061 God save us from bigots.
Pornography is intrinsically evil. Period.
Douglas Collier If it is wrong I don’t wanna be right
@@cinnamondan4984 did you even watch the video?
ExodiaSC no, did you?
@@cinnamondan4984 why would I click on a video to not watch it?
ExodiaSC To leave comments
The opposite of Love is to use someone.
People use others all the time.
Parents use children.
Wives use Husbands.
Friends use friends.
Neighbors use neighbors.
Employers use employees.
The key is "consent." Use me with my consent, otherwise it's abuse.
I had to let go ppl in my life. I have issues w porn but I saw it in person who use others. Ppl who are narcissistic sexually and manipulating.
@@kevinyoung42 the person being consent doesn't remove the fact we can't be in the mindset to use someone else just for our own pleasure
@@user00578___ I'm talking about "use", not "abuse." There's a distinct difference. Consult your dictionary please.
I'm going to read my bible more often from now on
I am glad to hear that!
Please do, I promise putting your hope in Jesus Christ concerning this issue, I won’t be a waste.
Jesus is always by your side. Don't forget that. You'll find the strenght in him.
Definitely check out Revelations of Jesus Christ Ministries, they deliver life changing messages.
Whag's the bible?
RUclips algorithm doing something good for once. Really could have used this earlier but better late than never.
I need to quit it. I'm glad that you have given a reason other than to be selfish. I'm glad it's not just about my character and that I am quitting to save those hurt too
There are youtube videos on how porn rewires your brain. Search that and I think you'll find them interesting. The is also a youtube video about Randy Spears the most popular male porn star and why he quit. I would also recommend you start fasting. It helps us control all our appetites. And I suggest that praying for the conversion of all people addicted to pornography may help as well. I'll keep you in my prayers. God bless you!
Matt Fradd put out a thing called Strive21. I'll do it with you if you want for accountability.
It’s ok don’t be hard on yourself. It’s not the end of the world but just remember it’s bad and that you need to stop lol
I pray for you L Marsh. I was a curious boy and found magazines of porn. Its does have an effect. Now I've am older and I have taking my faith more seriously. I have been looking for purpose life, the pain. I have found truth in the Church of God. The Universal Church. I do the Divine Chaplet and the Holy Rosary every day. I think of all the life and Passion of Christ. In how much he has loved us.
You quitting porn May keep another person from experiencing the hell I experience every day dealing with the pain physical & emotional left by people who watched porn & wanted to try it out on somebody real.
I stopped watching pornography when I realized that the women were being abused.
Lot of girls nowadays think it's cool to be a pornstar though, just look at that couple here on youtube that started a porn company.they literally get thousands of girls sending their info.
Women are just soo sexually liberated by feminism they think it's empowering to be a slut.
No need to force these girls , they are more than willing to this out of free will
Yeah, there's lot of it in pornhub. Though i still watch porn now but i dont watch those submisive and abusive type of porn. I only watch those romantic type.
@@anglaruan6728 I don't know anyone who watches p0rn like that.
Please I need this picture how can I get it,am an artist and I have being looking for this pic to paint
The one on ur yt profile
i was finally set free, the rosary is very powerful weapon against these times.
I cried watching this video. Thank you Father Casey for your boldness around this issue. Plain truth that no one wants to see or talk about. It’s all about the profit.
I remember watching one years ago and afterwards l googled the woman and found out that she committed suicide. She had a horrible childhood of being abused and molested. Man I felt horrible 😔
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Many pornstars die by committing suicide or aids and their fans pay tribute to them by jerking off to their old videos. It is a pretty sick and disgusting if you think about it.
August Ames?
@@chickenisindeedmystyle7316 yep 😔
By the grace of God I no longer watch porn. But I participate in the injustice when my friends casually speak about it and I stay silent.
Thank you Fr. Casey for bringing this crucial topic to light. I have a lot of growing up to do yet.
That's amazing! And I mean that unironically. Now speak and share the Gospel with zeal.
Pray that u may not fall again to it
Fast & pray to demolish it
Give your testimony in love.
men where is this quote from? It sounds like the writings of a Saint.
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Isn’t this becoming a problem more so? With the likes of friends starting onlyfans, people are really addicted to porn
Post nut clarity be hitting different now
Post nut clarity...
Post nut clarity!!!
I know it hurts now.
@@Prince_Yonte I need my midget porn
@@Taterhead-wh3im hahahaha
Thank you Father for calling it this silent cancer. This isn't easy to say but I hope it will help others. I'm 58, when I was 11, I was molested by an older boy who introduced me to pornography and masturbation. Prior to that, I was so innocent that I thought genitals were only used for going to the bathroom. He stole my innocence and lead me down a path of pornography that took decades to fight. I was suicidal by 13 and at 48 after becoming alcoholic tried to kill myself. By God's grace and the 12 steps, I just celebrated 9 years sober. My relationship to Jesus and my Catholic faith are more important to me now than ever in my life. The 12 steps work IF and ONLY it I work them 100 percent. They are all about my relationship to God and to others. There is a way out. I can't tell you how many times I have said to myself if could only change one day in my life, it would be the day I was 11. God worked out for good what someone else meant for evil but this has become such an easily available and pervasive blight on society that we must call it out for what it is and fight it. This is truly spiritual warfare. I hope this helps someone else trapped in this.
TOM KOLL...I am so sorry about what happened to you. May God's healing hand make you whole you dear child of the MOST HIGH GOD.
Thanks for sharing your not alone.
I hope that you're still doing well. God bless you
Yes. I’m entrapped in it too. The first time I got into this was when I was around 9-11 yrs old. A naughty popular classmate of mine in a Carholic school introduced me into almost taking advantage over me inside a classroom after class and good thing the guard checked ok us because my older sister was looking for me to pick me up, and then on another side, I love to discover things in my house and tinker with them when I was a kid and then I discovered a cd kept in these stack of cds made to be burned like you know the burn cds. Until now i dont know how they work but my mom worked as an I.T. And in it were some separately or randomly placed bold CDs and I got into it with a few hesitations at first until I gave in whenever I feel upset from my mom who which misunderstood me or beats me up or shouts at me for no reason including my older sisters. (In my culture, but in my house I never have any sisters only one brother, but because in my culture, since we always have like maids or house keepers from another family, they are considered as part of the family to take care of the kids of the parents who has to work day and night shift so they had to leave us with these house-maids or house-keepers and they stay with us for a very long time and they would watch me grow up until their family in their home province needs them or if they’re ready to go or if they choose to leave the family.)
But As I said, my mother used to keep these cds and I would hesitate on it until i grew more curious to watch it alone locked inside a room whenever I find the opportunity to do so. And I felt guilty doing it. One time I got caught by my older sister and she left the room immediately. I didnt feel guilt because I was so into it while I was doing it, but after that It was short pleasure and I felt instant guilt right away that knowing there was no turning point.
These things I kept fighting for years and failed to do so until I almost raped a child and good Lord my consciousness kicked in and said to my prepubescent teenage self to stop. I was also a victim do not do it to others too.
Until now Ive never molested any child just two in the past but I have never successfully did it anyway. One was almost, good thing I held back and the other was the child knows what I was doing and I felt that I needed to stop because I was already feeling guilty while I was doing it and then something happened like the child knows what my heart is telling to me to stop and then the child helped my heart to tell my brain and my body to stop even though I felt like i was still going on like its normal.
After years went by, I finally conquered this lust. My streak was like 2-3months with no masturbation, pornography, or fantasy. Anything that comes to my mind, I pray the 10 hail mary or pray any Anything in the rosary I know and what my grandmother taught me. And it works!
Until Whenever Im peaceful with my self, the opposite happens. When I was in my physiotheraphy, (this is a long story so ill cut it short), Since I got my strength back because of the benefits from being chastise for 3 months, I attracted a lot of women without any clue and one of them is my second physiotherapist whom I dont encounter that much, and then this happens. It was 6 pm, I was the last client, I was on the hydraulic stiff bed with the hole for the face to breathe but I was laying down my head on the opposite foot of the bed. I was relaxing, doing my stretches out from working my stiffness, the last person to go out was the receptionist and she said her goodbyes as she went home when she gave me a nervous look like something bad is going to happen so I just shrugged it off but I still kept my pace and relaxed, and then all of a sudden I heard a click on the front door but I also feel this weird feeling like im in a thai massage which I just prayed spiritually 10 hail Mary’s and I felt my body tingling . I felt something spiritual going on and I didnt made an inch if a move. I hope this isnt what I was thinking, I have made my way longer here 3 months with no indulgence and im not going to move to another level to lose my virginity I said to myself. And So i kept praying and didnt made any inch of a move. It was so hard that I have to keep remind to myself be still land let God sort it out.
So after that My therapist well she checked my out and ask to raise my hands to check any pain until she gestured her butt which she replies “the glutted” being all professional, she didnt think I was too keen to notice what she was coding to me subconsciously but I was able to intercept that, I said okay and yes Im fine and hurried myself to finish and pack things up and then the coincidence happened. She said all of a sudden that she locked the door Accidentally when the receptionist went out and she will just unlock it for me. And lo and behold I was able to escape with gladness and happiness that I was still able to wait until I wasnt in the view of the building in order to skippidy hoppity in success while going home that which I didnt concur to the event but I still managed to escape the trap that the invisible devil has made.
Until now, I am still fighting. I moved to another house and its another challenge. So many stories to be told but this is what I can offer right now.
Stay safe and be blesses brothers and sisters. Shalom
@@mackymoo1329 Glad you are gaining control of your actions. By learning to control our thoughts we begin to experience peace. Life becomes a blessing. Look to see God in all. Glad you are getting better. May Wisdom be your constant companion in the days ahead. Blessings on your journey...
We truly live in a hollow and inmoral era and society
IKR YOLO
joe men yes
When was there a moral time of society
I'm 14 years old and I discovered porn when I was 7, that was biggest regret as a child, i now suffer from addiction to it but I'm improving after rediscovering Jesus again.
You're not alone on this. Keep it up!
I’m praying for you. Jesus can set you free please stay strong, watch lots of sermons about it. Paul washer is great
I was around 6 to 8 years old. I couldn't stop thinking about it. It ruined my childhood. Access was so easy. Even today, all you have to do to access it is accept that you are 18+. The consensual warning is a joke. A child could easily lie and access it. My parents were new to technology. They didn't know much back in the day. Filters don't do much, and there are easy ways to turn them off.
@@RaffaelloLorenzusSayde I'll pray for you bro and all who suffer with lust may God help us all
@thevaultboy9940 Thanks, bro, same here 🙏❤️
Thank you, Father for speaking out the truth.
Wow you made me feel guilty for ever watching porn. Thanks for this.... Its so informative
I don’t know who needs to hear this today but it is possible. Your addiction can be destroyed. In the name of Jesus. By the grace of God. Your addiction can be broken. It happened for me. It’s still hard. It’s still a struggle but I’m better because of it. It’s been almost a year now. It is possible. It is possible. It is possible. Think about your future. Your girlfriend, your wife, your kids, your friends, your parents, God. It affects everyone around you. Think about them. Protect yourself. I am praying for all of you. It is possible.
I never have been into porn sure I admired the womans body I never got into it myself though I wasn't aroused by it. I am technically not aloud to even touch any woman except my wife and the means such things as handshakes or hugs . I am not a Christian though I am a an observant orthodox Jew
What if your not addicted just watch it occasionally?
James Forsyth I’m glad you were never addicted. I hope you continue in your purity. Are you and your wife in good standing currently?
Christianity is a good way to lose porn addiction by threatening of torture. I think any idea that’s good enough to drive you away from a addiction will help. As a atheist, I go off on reality(listening to my body) and using that to tell myself “ok that’s enough for a few months”.
Im a woman tho with this problem and its annoying how nobody adresses us.
I am so happy to hear you speaking about this. Women have been doing the leg work on this issue for a long time and it feels like our voices are drowning.
Porn Ruined My Life! I Was Never Happy. It Lead Me Far Away From God. I Felt Discussed and Shamed. I Don't Struggle Anymore. Praying, Confessing My Sins and Praying The Rosary. It's Daily Fight. 🙏
Same for me
Rosary✝️🔥
Felipe Ibarra you were not discussed
Rosary is so incredibly powerful
Best explanation that I have heard about the dangers of porn...thank you, Father
Now, repeat after me: IT DOESN'T MATTER IF THE GIRL GOT INTO THE INDUDTRY BY HERSELF; MANY OF THEM ARE FOOLED, AND EVEN IF THAT'S NOT THE CASE, THAT DOESN'T CHANGE THE ABUSE THAT SHE'S GONNA GO TROUGH . We must protect them, Regardless of how they got into the industry. Don't blame the victim.
I can express how much I hate pornography. One of the most disgusting entities ever.
If you don't like it don't look at it. See how simple it is?
@@sananselmospacescienceodys7308Not looking at it isn't going to get rid of the violence and corruption in the industry. It's something that has to actively be critizied and fought against. This affects peoples lives.
You took the approach not just on the Morality stand point, but focus on the thought "nobody gets hurt", brilliant way to shatter that notion. You didnt attack it in the perspective of faith, but made us see it through the eyes of reason, science and ultimately compassion, which compramise different aspect of faith.
Continue your Minsitry Fr.
May God bless your hands in producing more content like these.
I srtruggle with the same addiction, and until know that notion was the demons whisper of why it should be ok. But now it can be silenced with this video.
Thank you for addressing this issue! It was very much required
You are from kerala right
@@artofblessings9690 yea, how did you get to know? 😅
Super glad that instead of mentioning God or scripture, you chose to expose the porn industry for what it actually is and reminding those of us that are struggling that there are those who are willing to help us no matter how shameful our vice may be. As an atheist, I am happy to call you a brother.
Sorry but I found it slightly amusing that your middle name is Jesus and you’re an atheist...
Definitely check out Inspiring Philosophy's video “Science against abortion.”
@@michaelturnage3395 wow. Your life is watching tons of useless RUclips videos?
@@ga35am Eh?
@@michaelturnage3395 you have suggested one silly video after another. I saw at least 3 suggestions. I figure it out that's your life. That and praying. Both useless.
i will not watch it anymore after watching this video..god give me the strength to be holy and escape this addiction
how is it going
Pornography should be illegal
Nah
Comstock law!
Posting comments like that should be illegal.
I agree with you! I want porn to go away and the world would be a better place without pornography.
benjaminlewis75 if you make it illegal, simply open recovery centers for those that need help. Think about this.....the human trafficking rates are directly related to the increase in porn viewing.
Sad Truth Father ;(
The Thing is they are forced to do that
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Its so disgusting and sinful
AnimeMenoTV yes it is!! Filthy garbage that needs to be thrown away and burned forever! Jesus is the way, the truth and the light!!!
@@WatchtowerofBabel yeah man I Hope They Are Forgiven And Comeback To Christ
He is not Abba (Father) only Father you have is the Heavenly Father
Many would say the very same thing about catholic priests who violated and used their position to rape young males and females.
Histonime wide brush strokes much?
I didn't even realize he was a monk for like a minute or so
He is a friar, not a monk.
@@tobiaszczarnota7879 thanks for clarifying, but many people may not realize the difference. A monk is somebody who lives mostly in seclusion from society in order to grow closer to God. A friar typically does the opposite; as a matter of fact Franciscans are called to live in fraternity with other friars and spread the Gospel throughout the world.
Porn needs to be banned.
I am an atheist and love this channel (I was raised a Catholic but stopped believing c. age 10) - even though I very much disagree with many of the positions of the Catholic Church, it is refreshing to see such a young, sincere, intelligent and articulate advocate for the faith (NO surprise he is a Franciscan). Compared to much of the religious drivel that is put out online (prosperity preachers / chancers / deranged culture-war loons) this is a remarkable and cogent breath of fresh air.
Come back home. The Lord awaits you.
Glad you found something you agreed with. I pray I can have a similar outlook with people I don't agree with. You were very respectful.
I am honestly surprised you can seriously say you left the Church at 10. It doesn’t suggest you have thought very hard about your decision if you stopped believing on the basis of the knowledge and understanding available to you as a 10 year old.
¿What made you become an atheist?
I believe if there are more religious people like this, we can have a better dialogue, between science and religion, the believers and non-believers, because we live under the same sky anyway.
I am not a religious guy but I agree to everything said in this video . Hope this open more eyes and thank you .
Wonderful to address this horrible world, thanks a lot
Your video has touched me deeply. I was in a relationship for many years with a man addicted to porn. it was a nightmare. You video made it okay for me to feel angry and upset. Its been years since that relationship and it is still affect me. So thank you, for you words of understanding and statistics.
Porn addiction is also harmful. My Christian brother has been battling porn addiction since he's been 16. I introduced to him Covenant Eyes, a filter for his electronics. Please pray for him and all others who want change but are struggling with temptation.
Pray a rosary or 4 everyday and see what happens, miracles are real
@@mcspankey4810 thank you for the support...will do!
Not only rosary, every prayers of saints, liturgical prayers are also useful.
@John Russell for Covenant Eyes you do need a trusted person to become your accounted support. The system does work as reports are submitted on the activity recorded.
@@sanjoe7265 any specific saints you'd recommend?
There are men in porn too doesn’t this also apply to men too not just straight porn but there is gay porn too. You hear about women and girls more but men and boys are victims too you hear about it less but they are still there.
Thank you for sharing I didn’t know that.
Thank feminism for that
Thank you for addressing this issue. Everyone needs to know this. That porn is not ok in any way shape or form.
Thank you for this. Porn is an epidemic and is ruining humanity.
The entertainment industry in general is very exploitive and cruel. Weinstein is but one example.
Many do love humiliting women, the the dignity to ruin their lives and family's names. And never let them live it down.
It's true... I notice this as well. Even amongst Christians. It's a dominant theme everywhere I look. Thanks for naming it, actually.
@Robert What a very horrible thing to say. No, this is the lie that you make up to appease your guilt. Women are not innately masochistic which is why this is so incredibly dangerous.
@Robert thats a distortion in your mind. Its only insecure, egoistical men that desire humiliating others, they are coward for they will prey on the (physically) weak, like women and little girls and boys to exert their dominance.
I don't know if you know this so I want to tell that
It doesn't matter how kind you are. Once you become a porn addict, the dopamine levels or arousal threshold levels only rise when you watch more and more extreme porn.
I used to be grossed out at bj videos, but as my addiction continued, I was able to watch bdsm, including male slave ones.
There are lots of studies on this phenomenon and is well known. Porn raises the bar of visual stimulation to the level of abuse.
Porn addicts such as my brother-in-law need to feel the true presence of Unconditional Love which is our Lord Jesus Christ!!!
Ask him to pick up the rosary...
Brian Farley I am trying to help him meditate on the Word for God is the truth, the Way and the Light. In Him anything, everything is possible!!
johns isac he does not believe, I must try a different approach which will lead to a better understanding of true love in our Lord Jesus Christ.
Are you referring to your sister's husband or spouse's brother? Just show him a video about the topic by World Video Bible School.
Ask him, what if this was his daughter or son on camera? And they told him, they are being raped ON CAMERA.
3 months ago he talked about children porn, then Netflix released Cuties!!!!!
It's a tough topic to talk about but one that our society needs to hear. Well spoken Fr. Casey.
what ure explaining doesnt only apply to porn, but crimes in general
True
There are women who are slaves of debt, poverty and other circumstances.
Yeah this is probably the thing that helps me start my journey to quitting porn (never actually felt like anything would help me quit before). good video man. “Watching porn incentivizes human trafficking and SA” is all I needed to hear.
Theres nothing more repulsive about the adult industry as the fact that it hasnt been outlawed. So outlaw the adult industry.
Outlaw thought crime
Still it will exist illegally
Not the best idea to outlaw it straight out. It should be harder to get, but criminalizing it will make all of those people struggling with porn addiction less likely to recover
Hey guys and ladies, I know this may not mean anything to you but I’m a young adult who just turned 18( although I still feel like a child😂)
I would just say that I have been somewhat addicted to the porn industry since I was about 13-14 and it has negatively impacted my life and I’ve realised that I haven’t found love with another girl since I was 12 where I had a lot more confidence in my self and the influence of porn wasn’t in my life at the time. Also my view on girls/women has changed a lot over the years and I was starting to demoralise them, I am truly disgusted in myself
But i am changing I haven’t watched porn in a month now and I’m starting to see some good changes in my life and mindset, I’m more motivated to get sh*t done and I’m starting to smash my goals
To everyone who has fallen down the hole, and to those who are struggling to climb out, I feel u and am willing to talk about it if you need someone to talk to
Thank you for your time, all the best🙏🏾
Keep it up. If you ask Him God will help you. I will pray for your recovery. Sending love 🙏
so proud of you!
Proud of you for speaking out 🤜🏼🤛🏼
Realizing this is a good first step. Keep moving forward, even if you have to do therapy or a twelve step program. Do whatever it takes to break the addiction. Best of luck
If it’s hard to tell someone you’ve been raped, imagine if thousands of people saw it and nobody did anything. How are the people responsible for these productions not behind bars?
Because of money and power.
Satan’s industry.