"how you talk about things is how you think about things, and how you think about things dramatically influences how you feel" let's put this sentence on T-shirts.
I think people are being sarcastic when they use the ‘all or nothing’ words you mentioned. Thanks for the reminder to watching our language and how it affects our thinking and actions.
Thanks for commenting! I think you're right; there is often some sarcasm with all or nothing thinking. And like you mentioned, even when sarcastic, our words and language dramatically influence our feelings, often in ways we don't even realize. Thanks for watching!
Hi Dr. Allison. I’m watching your videos from Japan. Just wanted to say that I love all of your videos and I think they’re so valuable for life! Thank you so much for producing great content and for putting so much effort in them :)
This is a big issue for adult children of alcoholics. As adult children of alcoholics were trained don't thjnk, don't talk and don't feel. So, a lot of our emotions are cut off. Any thoughts?
"how you talk about things is how you think about things, and how you think about things dramatically influences how you feel" let's put this sentence on T-shirts.
YESSSS! I'm here for it! Thank you SO much for watching and commenting!
@@DrAllisonAnswers of course! I love your channel (and website) :)
I think people are being sarcastic when they use the ‘all or nothing’ words you mentioned. Thanks for the reminder to watching our language and how it affects our thinking and actions.
Thanks for commenting! I think you're right; there is often some sarcasm with all or nothing thinking. And like you mentioned, even when sarcastic, our words and language dramatically influence our feelings, often in ways we don't even realize. Thanks for watching!
Hi Dr. Allison. I’m watching your videos from Japan. Just wanted to say that I love all of your videos and I think they’re so valuable for life! Thank you so much for producing great content and for putting so much effort in them :)
Wow, thank you! That absolutely makes my day! Sending encouragement your way!
I’ve been trying to change this for years, but my mother programmed me very well... unfortunately! 😆
It's amazing how much early language and relationships can shape us. Thankfully, the brain CAN change and learn new things. So you've got this! :)
But my husband does "Always" leave his used toothpicks laying around the house. Lol
Hahaha, I challenge you to find the ONE time he doesn't! :)
Thanks! It is really helpfull to riminde this mind mistake to yourself time to time. It makes you feel better and does good for relationships.😊
Ginger, I'm so glad this resonated. And you're right, this makes a HUGE difference in relationships!
This video in a nutshell "Only the Sith deal in absolutes!"
Kudos if you get the reference.
I love it, you always give me another new prospective, why you are not doing an online therapy?
This is a big issue for adult children of alcoholics. As adult children of alcoholics were trained don't thjnk, don't talk and don't feel. So, a lot of our emotions are cut off. Any thoughts?
I think I'm falling in love with this channel
"Sometimes "
I see what you did there with the "sometimes." :)