Brian Wood, the owner of Wood Funeral Home, and Nicole Keller, the Crematory Operations Manager, give us an inside look at how the cremation center works.
When my mother was cremated, she had a pacemaker. It was given back to me. The University of Michigan wanted it. They sent me a FedEx envelope. I sent it to them. They recalibrate it, and gave it to someone else. It is very costly...22k. Someone who couldn't afford it got it for free! Wow! Amazing.
Oh my! I’m on my second Pacemaker! I have Heart Failure of the Muscle! Second one has the defibrillator on it! That’s not right our insurance paid for that! I know they must be very expensive! The paperwork for my first one I guess it was because it was an emergency I was in Trauma all night then they had to get it in fast when they got me to the Heart Institute of the hospital because I was getting worse! That one without the price of the Pacemaker was over a Million $ The second one was over 300 Thousand! Thank God I have Medicare!
I have to say that it constantly bewilders me the cost of treatment in the US - in this case, a pacemaker. No doubt Americans know that we pay through our taxes on earnings for any medical attention. It stops there. My neighbour had recently had a pacemaker installed, and the cost of that was zero. There would be follow-ups, and perhaps a replacement pacemaker installed at a later date. All that would also be zero in cost. I simply don't know how people cope financially, even with insurance. Robert, UK.
This helps so much, me and my wife just lost our week old baby… she was born premature and tried really hard to fight off her infections, we love you so much Delilah, I’m so sorry you had to endure that pain.. we will be cremating you, and you will travel with us till we pass❤️
From one angel parent to another it doesn’t get easier. Your mind wonders, and just thinks of what could’ve been you’ll find happiness. Just hold onto your wife let her know she did nothing wrong kiss her a little more, be a little kinder. She needs you most right now. Your sweet girl is perfect and will always be. 🩷
I was told that too and the funeral parlous refused...They soaked me for almost 10K to cremate my dad in 2016...I paid roughly the same for my mum who was buried in 2003. I got taken advantage of....and was too out of it emotionally to protest and fight back.
My mom was cremated in a funeral home I think. I heard it was cheaper and better to get cremated rather than burial. My dad and I still have my mom’s ashes in an urn in a cupboard. We plan to put my mom’s ashes in our churches columbarium that we bought not too long ago.
I worked in a funeral home for 8 years. Most deaths happen at the conclusion of a long and well lived life. There was only one funeral that really got me (still to this day when I think about it).It was a young mother whose children and husband spent about 90 minutes viewing her in the church after the funeral and they couldn't let go or say goodbye. All of their family and friends were waiting in the parking lot for the procession to the cemetery. There was a huge display of roses that said "MOMMY" on the ribbon. 😥 At another, a single father had died and his two young children and his parents walked up the aisle of a cathedral holding the casket. That was tough but instead of hiding the kids they let them participate and they'll always remember that they were there for their dad to the very end.
There is no way I could witness my son’s cremation. We spent a week saying goodbyes. He donated organs saving five lives after taken off life support. The crematory was excellent and quite impressive. The people were professional and caring.
My father was cremated, but me and all my siblings watched him take his last breath in Hospice. I miss him so much he departed this earth at the age of 75 from stage 4 cancer. His ashes was poured into the ocean. Those was his wishes, we all honored them.
Shame on you and your siblings...he raised you and none of you had a TIME? to let him die in your or your sibling's house? but in hospice?that's how you thank him for raising you? you are disgusting.
My wife and I are going through this process with her dad. He passed on Dec 22nd and will be cremated in the coming days. I am so glad I came across this video. Thank you for taking the time to explain the process.
My condolences to you and your family. My 40 yr old daughter died on Christmas and we had her cremated in January. We had a memorial service on Jan 19. In between time her son wanted to see the body so we went. (I was there when she passed in the hospital) I thought after the service it would be real to me but it still isn’t. She was in the hospital on and off for 3 years so it feels the same at the house. I don’t think that I could watch this process it’s would be too hard. (My daughter had open heart surgery and a hip replacement, she had bots and plates where her pelvis was shattered)
My condolences to you as well. I agree, it would be different if the one inside was a loved one. Only a month and a half and i still look and sometimes catch myself staring where he sat. We are in the process of deciding weather we will inter both my in-laws or wait. When my wife's grandad passed he left to 2 plots. My father in-law didn't do the paperwork to get them in his name. So my wife and I are. Most likely going to inter her parents and my wife and I (when we are cremated) next to them.@@gcchair7634
My 36 yo daughter was cremated a few days ago. The people operating the crematorium were very professional and caring. Due to covid restrictions here in Australia, I was unable to travel to be there for her. I know she was in good hands. It is interesting to know the general procedures involved. Thank you for sharing this video. RIP Janine - forever in my heart.
MY MOMMY WAS CREMATED A COUPLE MONTHS AGO. I STARED AT THIS VIDEO FOR A LONG WHILE BEFORE CLICKED. 😢 I DON'T KNOW IF I WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO FLIP THE SWITCH. I MISS YOU MA😪
Where my husband was cremated they gave us a choice to stay but I couldn't because it was hard enough with his passing. Picking up his ashes made it real that he was gone. I give these people so much credit for what they do. I just couldn't work for a funeral company
When my mom passed in the hospital my sister and I were standing on a small balcony outside where her room was! They were attempting to take her off the ventilator and putting in a trakeiotompy! All of a sudden we felt a big gust of wind and both of us felt something touch us hard! We knew she had passed and that was her soul!
@@tinabailey3170 I know my mom did that to show us that “Yes” your soul leaves the body!My family and I moved in with my dad after she passed! I was home alone and the front door opened! I waited a few seconds and walked to the front door it was locked! I walked in to the kitchen and I just could feel a presence I turned it was my mom with a robe she wore to dye her hair! It wasn’t a solid form of her is was like you see in the movies when someone that is dead appears! She also called me on the phone said my name and then her voice faded away! Sorry to tell you my story but I felt you would believe me!
I lost my dad 4 years ago, and we honored his wish to be cremated. To allow the family to be involved is so incredibly touching. How I wish we had that option.
My Dad passed away 2 years ago and his wish was to be cremated which he was.I rather him be buried.I lost both parents in a 3 year span both of my parents were in their mid 50's also : (
My granny was cremated On Tuesday June 27 2023, I love you Granny. You were a big part of my life. Myself and my family will always remember you and have love for you. If there's really a place that we all go after life, I can only hope that wherever you are. That you are at total peace and feel love . Until we meet again. I Love you always and I will never forget you.
My dad was a trucker and so am I. Dad loved trucking very much so after his cremation dads urn is here is this peterbilt truck because we have also ran team together (2 truckers one truck 24/7) as father and son. Dad was retired and our last lunch together was in a 2017 peterbilt where he said he wished he was still trucking down the road so in my heart I feel that he is loving trucking again. Call me sentimental but dad STILL has his own key because old truckers don't die they just downshift. His name is Eugene Vern Willison and he was one of the best with approximately 3 million miles. R.I.P. dad and please save me a parking stall at the truck stop in heaven. ❤
I was present for my mom's cremation and found it to be a very hard experience. She was placed in front of the glass for last farewell. Then saw her go into the chamber. Mom was so petite her urn was ready in 2 1/2 hours. She lives in my heart always!
Margaret, so very sorry about your mom. The cremation makes me think as to what you wrote. I too will be getting cremated and I’am also petite. Still scarey for me. Don’t know why I’am watching this. I scared of dying.scared of being buried or cremated. I did choose cremation. Thank you for writing what you did. Again I’am very sorry. My mom passed away 13 years ago and I still cannot except it or my dad. Bless you for having the strength to even write what it was like.
What an immaculately kept facility with superbly caring, ultra competent and professional staff. We can all hope to have as proper a send off as this. Thank you for taking such care of loved ones. I’m sure this is somewhere few of us ever see and never even consider. I also learned so much.
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 I don't think that you were thinking when you said that. My mom passed away in 2013 and I'm always thinking of her from time to time. I don't like the thought of your body being burned after you die. Both of my parents were buried naturally in a cemetery. I wish that the same would be as me. I just can't be reconciled to the fact that I probably won't be buried naturally because I can't afford a natural burial.
Thank you for the information. My mom was cremated due to her wishes therefore your information was very helpful. Respectfully done and comforting. Thank you for your service.
I chose not to watch my husband’s preparation and placement for cremation. I knew he was in good hands. It was just a relief to be able to bring his urn home rather than putting him into the ground. 💔
No child should be able to watch that I would never want to watch my mother be burned up it's disgusting and I don't want ashes of her body in my house that is not my mother my mother so is in heaven not in a box on the fireplace I think it's gross that's my opinion I talk to my mom everyday not to a box with ashes in it
@@janiecapri9905 Your comment isn’t appropriate. This woman stated how she coped with the loss of her husband. Instead of giving your condolences, you judged her decision. Not cool.
@@janiecapri9905 Stop with the lecture & judging people The purpose of this video is to help people. If they think they want to explore this option, here is the information.
I needed this. I just cremated my brother. My mom was cremated in 2010. This was so peaceful to me. The care in taking care of love ones. Thanks for educating us.
I would like to think all funeral homes are as caring and professional as this one. We have to be diligent even with services such as these. A funeral home a few years back was found to have dumped the bodies in the woods behind the establishment instead of cremation as promised. The same shenanigans with a burial when a daughter went to visit her mother's grave, it was found open and the mother's body was missing. When we find a good service of any type, it would do everyone well to spread that good business's name for the peace of mind for all. And likewise for the bad ones. This is one of those good places. An ideal for all businesses to follow. Thank you for this.
I attended both my father's and mother's cremation, start to finish. It was the least I could do for the people who gave me life. Thank you very much for explaining the cremation process so thoroughly. While I knew what was going to happen to them both, it's still comforting to know that the people who take care of their remains extend an extreme amount of respect.
@@robertgreen9980 pretty sure the average one that the public never sees is fairly industrial looking and not all shiny. Think warehouse with industrial ovens that have been used thousands of times over the years. A quick youtube search will show an example of it.
Fascinating, very cool of you guys to share this. This is how things should be for the bereaved every time. Your level of care in this facility is top notch and sets a precedent of excellence.
I spent what was the saddest day of my life with my wife of 60 years before she was created and I was with her for her last four hours. God bless all of you
Thank you so much for explaining this. I was a bit afraid and nearly swiped your page up and then I decided to take a brave look. I'm glad I did. Many many thanks. From UK. 👍🏻
Aww...she sounds nervous. Don't be! My father AND grandather were funeral directors, I'm third generation raised in the funeral home they ran. Your services are deeply respected and it takes a special, special calling. Thank you for being there for the families in their time of need. ❤️🙏❤️
In 1978 our 3 year old son died of leukemia. We had his body cremated. In those days they didn’t allow anyone to stay. I’m very thankful that they did make an exception and allowed my husband and I stay. I was very thankful for that.
Thank you. You are a very sensitive person, whom works with Cremation. I so appreciate how much you are soft spoken, and how much you truly care about the person you are Creamating.. Thank you so very much...
Wow. I wish that all crematoriums would use the same system. I wasn't able to be there for my mom or dad. Being there till the end means a lot to many people. Thank you for this video.
Thank you for doing this video. I’m 63 and it’s one of those “How do they do that” subjects that is nice to know. Had no idea a family can be present start to finish.
Thank you for your wonderfully made video. I was a bit worried with my son asking to carry out his wishes, because I often wonder what procedures would be taking place and you've answered every one of my thoughts. I thank you so very much. It's truly good to know that you take pride in your business of making the love ones family feel as if their apart of everything. I would want to know and see to it that my sons were respected all the way to the end. Thank you very mucb!
This is the kind of educational video that doesn't deserve a simple, 'Like', for it. RUclips should add a Heart option for the compassion that goes into creating such an informational video. Thank you for letting me know what will happen to me when I finally pass
Yes I concur 💖 This is a very informative video that is being produced by compassionate people in a sensitive professional way for the sake of the loved ones who stay to experience such procedure 🙏🏻 #heartthevideo
I would have loved to be present when my wife Marilyn was cremated. It's such a final moment. Kudos to you folks for not only allowing this but encouraging it and allowing the families to have full closure. I love to see death being demystified, it's part of life. My granddaughter has always been taught a rhyme that begins 'Everything lives, everything dies, everything laughs, everything cries.' to help begin that learning process.
Thank you so much for a wonderful explanation of The cremation service. As a hospice nurse I have had a very brief understanding of what took place and I was very pleased with your content. Had no idea about temperatures or a couple of other items that were mentioned. I was very curious about the exhaust from a crematorium but I think you alleviated my further questions. Thank you so much
Thank you for making this video. I never knew exactly what was involved in the cremation process. This was a very educational presentation and very professional. It helps take away some of the anxiety. Not knowing about some things can be harder to live with. Thanks again.
Thank you to Brian and Nicole. What kind, professional folks you two are. I only hope when I am cremated that I am in the care of people like you. I didn't want to view this video, but now I'm feeling more comfortable. Thank you again for the grace and peace you bring to a somber time.
Ugh this hurts and hits home. My brother passed away in 2016 and thank you all for the love and kindness to the families. They need you more than you know. I sure couldn’t do this. I can be a support system outside of this. Bless you all.
Very interesting - I recently lost my husband and had him cremated - now I know how the whole process works (different than it was decades ago). Thank you for doing this as an informative video for the families and friends who want to know the process involved in cremation.
I had my 35 year-old son cremated after he passed away in 2016 and I had no idea it was such a detailed process I know that the funeral home guarded the body and the urn until I signed for it and went out the door with the urn they were very serious about no one getting ahold of the remains this was very educational
I'm all for cremation but I can't imagine anyone would want to see their loved one engulfed in flames. It seems like extra trauma at an emotional time.
It is my understanding that the body is not "engulfed" in flames, but rather, the heat being so intense completely dehydrates and breaks down the entire body.
Thank you.. it took me two attempts to watch this video, but I was determined to see it through. I am going to be cremated when I pass and just wanted to see what happened, but of course it is confronting... You made it easier and I thank you for this. I feel comforted now that it is this easy and this carefully done. Well done for putting this up for those of us who need to see this.
We unexpectedly lost our 23 year old son four years ago this coming December and we had him cremated. We still have his ashes. Thank you for this video as I always wondered how "respectful" he was treated in addition to the cremation process. Whenever I drive into northern Portland, OR I pass the crematorium, which is off Highway 84. We were not allowed (I believe) to be there. Again, thank you.
I can see were family would want to be there. With so many mortuary not following through with cremation or loosing the ashes. Pleased to know there are people out there like yall that care
I absolutely loved this!! Very informative my grandmother's were cremated I always was curious... we need more of these...we all want to learn behind the scenes
Really appreciate having been provided this knowledge. I hope there is a crematorium here that is as professional and caring. Thank you so much for sharing💛 this actually put my mind at ease quite a bit.
Absolutely fascinating . I was unaware that families could be involved in the process. This was not offered when my mother was cremated. You are doing a wonderful job and thank you for this insight into the process
I’m not even sure this was a thing when my grandfather passed away. Granted, that was 25 years ago this April. But I feel like if it would’ve been offered then it might’ve helped my sister and I more in the healing process.
I didn't know the family could be present to watch even though I don't think I could watch. My husband just passed away from a sudden very painful death Feb 4th 2022
Both my parents and my husband were all cremated and when it's my time to go my sons have all been told I want to be cremated as well so this was very informative for me. Thank you for sharing this.
Is thier a good way to see 👀that cremation can be permanently banned and instead let's bury our loved-ones because God very strictly bans cremation and will punish those who choose cremation by not allowing thier bodies to be resseructed which means that those who choose to be cremated will be punished by being sent straight to the fiery depths of hell let's get law's put in place making cremation a felony meaning that those surviving family members will be punished by being sent to prison for violating and breaking laws by having thier loved-ones cremated, I myself want to see that cremation is made a criminal act and the law will force people to choose burial instead of being cremated and if I could have my way I would personally see to it that all crematorium's are permanently banned and closed down for good and by the way God does not condone cremation and he will punish those who choose to be cremated this is why thier are cemeteries to bury people and not cremate them which as it says in the Bible the person who is cremated is ineligible and will not be resseructed on resurrection day so find a way to permanently stop and ban cremation here in America and around the world.
I worked for the postal service and had to deliver cremated remains to his spouse. I really wasnt comfortable waiting for her to answer the door. I didnt know what kind of reaction she would have. But, thankfully she was calm and didnt burst into tears!. (Notice the mailing boxes in the final prep room , under the table) The boxes were stamped with "Handle with Dignity"
I lost my youngest son, 24, in 2018. He was to date, the first family member of our family (a BIG family) to ever be cremated. It was strange and it was of course devastating. But I want anyone to know that if you ever questioned this process or found yourself hesitant...It was the best decision I believe that we could have made. One thing I have realized as time has passed, is that I have my son with me at all times. Some of my closest family members, my mother, granddad, and grandma etc. are buried at a local cemetery where I live. At first visitation and personal familial care of the burial sites was of utmost priority. Now, few make it there any longer. I go when I am in town to see them and just inspect the burial site for damage or any needs that are required. But it was not long after losing my mom that I found myself standing there at her gravesite with nothing much to do or say. I knew she was not there, she was with the Lord, and in that I rejoiced! So what does one actually do during that visit? I can only speak for myself. In comparison having my baby boy in my living room. ANd some of his very personal things? just means so much more to me. and if I move? he comes with us. Just my thoughts on a difficult time in all of our lives but hope that something I said may help.
Spirit World The postmortal spirit world is a place where the spirits of those who have died live before the Resurrection. The spirit world consists of paradise, where the righteous dwell, and spirit prison, where those who were wicked in mortality dwell. President Brigham Young taught that the postmortal spirit world is on the earth, around us (see Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young [1997], 279). Spirit beings have the same bodily form as mortals except that the spirit body is in perfect form (see Ether 3:16). Spirits carry with them from earth their attitudes of devotion or antagonism toward things of righteousness (see Alma 34:34). They have the same appetites and desires that they had when they lived on earth. All spirits are in adult form. They were adults before their mortal existence, and they are in adult form after death, even if they die as infants or children (see Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith [1998], 131-32). The prophet Alma in the Book of Mormon taught about two divisions or states in the spirit world. Paradise. According to the prophet Alma, the righteous spirits rest from earthly care and sorrow. Nevertheless, they are occupied in doing the work of the Lord. President Joseph F. Smith saw in a vision that immediately after Jesus Christ was crucified, He visited the righteous in the spirit world. He appointed messengers, gave them power and authority, and commissioned them to “carry the light of the gospel to them that were in darkness, even to all the spirits of men” (Doctrine and Covenants 138:30). The Church is organized in the spirit world, and priesthood holders continue their responsibilities there (see Doctrine and Covenants 138:30). President Wilford Woodruff taught: “The same Priesthood exists on the other side of the veil. … Every Apostle, every Seventy, every Elder, etc., who has died in the faith as soon as he passes to the other side of the veil, enters into the work of the ministry” (Deseret News, Jan. 25, 1882, 818). Family relationships are also important. President Jedediah M. Grant, a counselor to Brigham Young, saw the spirit world and described to Heber C. Kimball the organization that exists there: “He said that the people he there saw were organized in family capacities. … He said, ‘When I looked at families, there was a deficiency in some, … for I saw families that would not be permitted to come and dwell together, because they had not honored their calling here’” (Deseret News, Dec. 10, 1856, 316-17). Spirit Prison. The Apostle Peter referred to the postmortal spirit world as a prison, which it is for some (see 1 Peter 3:18-20). In the spirit prison are the spirits of those who have not yet received the gospel of Jesus Christ. These spirits have agency and may be enticed by both good and evil. The spirits may progress as they learn gospel principles and live in accordance with them. The spirits in paradise can teach the spirits in prison (see Doctrine and Covenants 138). If they accept the gospel and the ordinances performed for them in the temples, they may leave the spirit prison and dwell in paradise. Also in the spirit prison are those who rejected the gospel after it was preached to them either on earth or in the spirit prison. These spirits suffer in a condition known as hell. They have removed themselves from the mercy of Jesus Christ, who said, “Behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent; but if they would not repent they must suffer even as I; which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit” (Doctrine and Covenants 19:16-18). After suffering for their sins, they will be allowed, through the Atonement of Jesus Christ, to inherit the lowest degree of glory, which is the Telestial kingdom.
Several years ago, I was driving home and passed a funeral home. There was a big plume of block smoke coming out of the stack. It made me sad. I’m glad that the smoke management technology now allows clear smoke to be released. Thank you.
Thirty years ago, my nursing school was next door to a funeral home. You could definitely smell that something was happening with the crematory. Being there around it every day, it became a very distinct recognizable smell. I hope that doesn't happen anymore either with the new technology. It is interesting to learn that cremated remains are really powdered bones.
I wish all funeral homes offered services like yours. My friend Jake passed away from leukemia last year. His wife and parents were offered the chance for us to view the cremation. It helped give us a chance to come to terms with his passing and start our healing. It was a major blessing to have that experience.
You have a very nice funeral and I’m so glad that you serve the public keep up the good work rest in peace to anybody that we lost our loved ones🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🏾
Thank you for making this video as the subject matter is emotional and very difficult for a loved ones left behind, however, so important. I recently lost my Father and this video has given me personal comfort as to the procedure and process. Many blessings. Cece Shatz
It's all about what helps you to process and cope. I know it's not for everyone, but I would want the reality of the situation. I'd want to see everything. You will never forget those moments, and they're all part of your son's story and life. I'm very sorry for your loss. It's heartbreaking to lose a child at any age. I had a similar opportunity to see the reality of things when my dad died (he wasn't cremated though). They allowed me to attend early as I wanted to be there alone with my dad and no other family members. NO MUSIC, NO HUGS, and they didn't even pose his hands. I saw a few gnats which I smushed into the lining of his coffin. They almost dropped the coffin when they slid it out of the mini van. I heard them struggling to lift it onto this metal thing. They rolled it into a room and tossed the American flag and flower blanket off to the side. I saw they breathing heavy and being winded from the effort. Granted they didn't know I was watching. But I loved that it was REAL. I will never forget it.
Thank you for showing the facts about cremation and I hope your crematory will become valuable help in the time of critical need to the community you represent.
I was in a four car freeway crash. A 26 year old mom died while I stood next to her. The moment she stopped breathing I felt such a calm loving warm sensation. The sky opened up and I felt angels with beautiful bright warm colors from the sky with a wonderful feeling of love. I have never felt that again and will always have the experience with me
This is fantastic & vital information. I have cancer & this is so helpful with decisions I am making right now. Thank you so much for making this available!!
My husband was the first one cremated in both our families. It was a huge difference, in the grief I felt. When they handed me his cremains, it was a different feeling, I had him back with me . I don't know how to explain it, but it was more comfort, to be able to have his cremains.
My mum shocked the family when she said she wanted to be cremated, there was only one burial space left and she wanted more of us to have the option, it can fit 6 cremations. Now I have both my mum and dad's ashes at home and it was really comforting to know that they are here in some form. Their ashes are being buried together soon
That is so informational. I'm grateful to know this. I've done private care (terminal) for 30 yrs. I guess I might have known quite a bit by now, but this resolves alot of unknown.
Very clean and aseptic. When my horse died I had him cremated and it was quite expensive but I was really happy I did it. I was really sad the day I picked him up and asked to see where he was held and cremated. They were really nice and I got to see where they cremated the animals in Los Angeles area. It was extremely pleasant, they had some large doors to drive in trucks for equine cremations and a huge refrigerator for the horses and other animals. It was gated but open to the outside and had very nice plants and other things around the yard. I expected a gloomy dank place but it was sunny and clean with a pleasant vibe. I’m glad I saw it.
Thank you so much for such a informative conversation about cremation and the process involved...I totally respect a very sad time as my father was cremated 3 years ago, but at the same time after the grieving process has gone through all the emotions one feels...looking at your video is very interesting and knowledge to how it all works...and the positivity it gives.❤️❤️
My dear friend just passed away on NYE and was cremated. After watching this video, I understand the process so much better. I hope he was taken care of just like this. Thank you.
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When my mother was cremated, she had a pacemaker. It was given back to me. The University of Michigan wanted it. They sent me a FedEx envelope. I sent it to them. They recalibrate it, and gave it to someone else. It is very costly...22k. Someone who couldn't afford it got it for free! Wow! Amazing.
Thanks so much for the info.
Oh my! I’m on my second Pacemaker! I have Heart Failure of the Muscle! Second one has the defibrillator on it! That’s not right our insurance paid for that! I know they must be very expensive! The paperwork for my first one I guess it was because it was an emergency I was in Trauma all night then they had to get it
in fast when they got me to the Heart Institute of the hospital because I was getting worse! That one without the price of the Pacemaker was over a Million $ The second one was over 300 Thousand! Thank God I have Medicare!
I have to say that it constantly bewilders me the cost of treatment in the US - in this case, a pacemaker. No doubt Americans know that we pay through our taxes on earnings for any medical attention. It stops there. My neighbour had recently had a pacemaker installed, and the cost of that was zero. There would be follow-ups, and perhaps a replacement pacemaker installed at a later date. All that would also be zero in cost. I simply don't know how people cope financially, even with insurance. Robert, UK.
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I myself am choosing no one present. It is just my shell of flesh. My Spirit/Soul will be in Heaven. Rejoice and be happy for me, not sad
Amen
We dont go straight to heaven after dying according to scripture
No not really! According to the Bible. No one goes to heaven. Just Jesus went, you and I stay here.. John 3:13
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 yes until Jesus returns. You have that correct. John 14:1-2
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 yes until Jesus returns. You have that correct. John 14:1-2
This helps so much, me and my wife just lost our week old baby… she was born premature and tried really hard to fight off her infections, we love you so much Delilah, I’m so sorry you had to endure that pain.. we will be cremating you, and you will travel with us till we pass❤️
From one angel parent to another it doesn’t get easier. Your mind wonders, and just thinks of what could’ve been you’ll find happiness. Just hold onto your wife let her know she did nothing wrong kiss her a little more, be a little kinder. She needs you most right now. Your sweet girl is perfect and will always be. 🩷
Őszinte részvétem a családnak!😢
I am so sorry for you and your wife’s loss. My heart aches for you. 😢
Sending you good vibes! ~~~
Praying for you ❤
So sorry for your loss.... deepest condolences and prayers. 😓
Great video!
Just keep in mind folks... you DO NOT have to have your loved ones embalmed before they get cremated. Save your money.
I was told that too and the funeral parlous refused...They soaked me for almost 10K to cremate my dad in 2016...I paid roughly the same for my mum who was buried in 2003. I got taken advantage of....and was too out of it emotionally to protest and fight back.
Sad most people choose cremation because of the cost of ah burial,this was the cost of a burial
Absolutely that’s why you have the body sent to the crematorium and not the funeral home.
@@Coasterdude02149it’s $1000 for cremation & the cost of the urn if you skip the funeral home. Body goes straight to the crematory.
My mom was cremated in a funeral home I think. I heard it was cheaper and better to get cremated rather than burial. My dad and I still have my mom’s ashes in an urn in a cupboard. We plan to put my mom’s ashes in our churches columbarium that we bought not too long ago.
I’m too emotional for this type of work , I can’t be a funeral director I will cry for every service . I salute you all . 💕
I agree ☝🏾 with you, much respect ✊🏾 💕
I worked in a funeral home for 8 years. Most deaths happen at the conclusion of a long and well lived life. There was only one funeral that really got me (still to this day when I think about it).It was a young mother whose children and husband spent about 90 minutes viewing her in the church after the funeral and they couldn't let go or say goodbye. All of their family and friends were waiting in the parking lot for the procession to the cemetery. There was a huge display of roses that said "MOMMY" on the ribbon. 😥 At another, a single father had died and his two young children and his parents walked up the aisle of a cathedral holding the casket. That was tough but instead of hiding the kids they let them participate and they'll always remember that they were there for their dad to the very end.
I agree with you
I would love to have that type of job!
Me too! I’m too much of an empath for it!!
There is no way I could witness my son’s cremation. We spent a week saying goodbyes. He donated organs saving five lives after taken off life support. The crematory was excellent and quite impressive. The people were professional and caring.
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
Lisa Gunnison.
Did you enjoy it like a fireworks display?
@@redblade8160 wtf?
@@Godwinpounds4333 OMG
@@redblade8160😡
My father was cremated, but me and all my siblings watched him take his last breath in Hospice. I miss him so much he departed this earth at the age of 75 from stage 4 cancer. His ashes was poured into the ocean. Those was his wishes, we all honored them.
Shame on you and your siblings...he raised you and none of you had a TIME? to let him die in your or your sibling's house? but in hospice?that's how you thank him for raising you? you are disgusting.
My wife and I are going through this process with her dad. He passed on Dec 22nd and will be cremated in the coming days. I am so glad I came across this video. Thank you for taking the time to explain the process.
My condolences to you and your family. My 40 yr old daughter died on Christmas and we had her cremated in January. We had a memorial service on Jan 19. In between time her son wanted to see the body so we went. (I was there when she passed in the hospital) I thought after the service it would be real to me but it still isn’t. She was in the hospital on and off for 3 years so it feels the same at the house. I don’t think that I could watch this process it’s would be too hard. (My daughter had open heart surgery and a hip replacement, she had bots and plates where her pelvis was shattered)
My condolences to you as well. I agree, it would be different if the one inside was a loved one. Only a month and a half and i still look and sometimes catch myself staring where he sat. We are in the process of deciding weather we will inter both my in-laws or wait. When my wife's grandad passed he left to 2 plots. My father in-law didn't do the paperwork to get them in his name. So my wife and I are. Most likely going to inter her parents and my wife and I (when we are cremated) next to them.@@gcchair7634
Very impressed by the level of care you give to the deceased and their families, thank you for sharing.
My 36 yo daughter was cremated a few days ago. The people operating the crematorium were very professional and caring.
Due to covid restrictions here in Australia, I was unable to travel to be there for her. I know she was in good hands.
It is interesting to know the general procedures involved. Thank you for sharing this video.
RIP Janine - forever in my heart.
My condolences
Thank you, Melanie.
@@Dallas-Nyberg I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thank you Robin.
@@Dallas-Nyberg of course, be strong!
MY MOMMY WAS CREMATED A COUPLE MONTHS AGO. I STARED AT THIS VIDEO FOR A LONG WHILE BEFORE CLICKED. 😢 I DON'T KNOW IF I WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO FLIP THE SWITCH. I MISS YOU MA😪
I lost my mom, too.
@@nathancruz9172 My condolences
@@MZ412BABY thank you.
My condolences 💐
@@Jackie_265 Thank you
Where my husband was cremated they gave us a choice to stay but I couldn't because it was hard enough with his passing. Picking up his ashes made it real that he was gone. I give these people so much credit for what they do. I just couldn't work for a funeral company
When my mom passed in the hospital my sister and I were standing on a small balcony outside where her room was! They were attempting to take her off the ventilator and putting in a trakeiotompy! All of a sudden we felt a big gust of wind and both of us felt something touch us hard! We knew she had passed and that was her soul!
WOWWWWWWW!!!! That’s such a gift from the divine. Omgosh how beautiful!!! And how amazing that you knew what that was!!!!
Just your imagination.
YES !!!
That happened to me when my granny died , beautiful blessings
@@tinabailey3170 I know my mom did that to show us that “Yes” your soul leaves the body!My family and I moved in with my dad after she passed! I was home alone and the front door opened! I waited a few seconds and walked to the front door it was locked! I walked in to the kitchen and I just could feel a presence I turned it was my mom with a robe she wore to dye her hair! It wasn’t a solid form of her is was like you see in the movies when someone that is dead appears! She also called me on the phone said my name and then her voice faded away! Sorry to tell you my story but I felt you would believe me!
I had no idea the family could be present during a cremation. Very interesting piece. Thanks for doing this, quite educational.
Yes, its been going on for a few decades now, but not all funeral homes have that policy
I think most places charge extra for it, but yes you can.
I too did not know that. That's interesting
Yea that's just too much I don't think i could watch that I would have trauma
I agree ☝️
I lost my dad 4 years ago, and we honored his wish to be cremated. To allow the family to be involved is so incredibly touching. How I wish we had that option.
Realnurse26.
Of course you lost your dad after you cremated him - did you expect him to still be alive after that?
Families have been involved in the Hindu cremations. Just ask the funeral director prior to the service.
@@ilovepinktacos
I don't need to ask the funeral director, I believe you!
My Dad passed away 2 years ago and his wish was to be cremated which he was.I rather him be buried.I lost both parents in a 3 year span both of my parents were in their mid 50's also : (
Hello how're you doing?
My granny was cremated On Tuesday June 27 2023, I love you Granny. You were a big part of my life. Myself and my family will always remember you and have love for you. If there's really a place that we all go after life, I can only hope that wherever you are. That you are at total peace and feel love . Until we meet again. I Love you always and I will never forget you.
The crematoriums where my parents were cremated didn’t offer the opportunity to be present. Thank you for offering the families this.
Same when my dad was cremated. I would want to be with my mom til the end.
they dont OFFER you have to ask for it
My dad was a trucker and so am I. Dad loved trucking very much so after his cremation dads urn is here is this peterbilt truck because we have also ran team together (2 truckers one truck 24/7) as father and son. Dad was retired and our last lunch together was in a 2017 peterbilt where he said he wished he was still trucking down the road so in my heart I feel that he is loving trucking again. Call me sentimental but dad STILL has his own key because old truckers don't die they just downshift. His name is Eugene Vern Willison and he was one of the best with approximately 3 million miles. R.I.P. dad and please save me a parking stall at the truck stop in heaven. ❤
Your dad is very happy to see you are ok......A good spirit never dies...He is alive in spirit and sees everything.
That is a great story. Thanks for sharing it. I think that kind of story comforts you….and your dad. Because I believe that he knows.
Love this. Thank you.
Beautiful 😍 You are a good son.. Thx for sharing 🙏💞
@@joeybrownmedia
Thank you for the sensible description of the cremation process.
I was present for my mom's cremation and found it to be a very hard experience. She was placed in front of the glass for last farewell. Then saw her go into the chamber. Mom was so petite her urn was ready in 2 1/2 hours. She lives in my heart always!
My grandmother which was everything to me is getting cremated this Monday, and I still can’t decide wether I can be there or not 😢
Margaret, so very sorry about your mom. The cremation makes me think as to what you wrote. I too will be getting cremated and I’am also petite. Still scarey for me. Don’t know why I’am watching this. I scared of dying.scared of being buried or cremated. I did choose cremation. Thank you for writing what you did. Again I’am very sorry. My mom passed away 13 years ago and I still cannot except it or my dad. Bless you for having the strength to even write what it was like.
What an immaculately kept facility with superbly caring, ultra competent and professional staff. We can all hope to have as proper a send off as this. Thank you for taking such care of loved ones. I’m sure this is somewhere few of us ever see and never even consider. I also learned so much.
In the end it doesn't really matter. You don't take those thoughts with you. All is forgotten in death.
@@joaquimrodriguez8961 I don't think that you were thinking when you said that. My mom passed away in 2013 and I'm always thinking of her from time to time. I don't like the thought of your body being burned after you die. Both of my parents were buried naturally in a cemetery. I wish that the same would be as me. I just can't be reconciled to the fact that I probably won't be buried naturally because I can't afford a natural burial.
This is great! It’s something people want to know about but are uncomfortable asking. Thank you!
Thank you for the information. My mom was cremated due to her wishes therefore your information was very helpful. Respectfully done and comforting. Thank you for your service.
My Dad died from COVID-19 and was cremated like he’d asked to be. R.I.P. Pop; I miss you terribly 😭
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I’m so sorry 😢😢😢
So sorry for your loss, rip to your dad🙏
Chris Mayor,. So sorry for your lost, 🙏🙏
🙏🙏. Chris he's in peace,
I chose not to watch my husband’s preparation and placement for cremation. I knew he was in good hands. It was just a relief to be able to bring his urn home rather than putting him into the ground. 💔
No child should be able to watch that I would never want to watch my mother be burned up it's disgusting and I don't want ashes of her body in my house that is not my mother my mother so is in heaven not in a box on the fireplace I think it's gross that's my opinion I talk to my mom everyday not to a box with ashes in it
@@janiecapri9905 Your comment isn’t appropriate. This woman stated how she coped with the loss of her husband. Instead of giving your condolences, you judged her decision. Not cool.
My condolences to you and family.
@@janiecapri9905 Stop with the lecture & judging people The purpose of this video is to help people. If they think they want to explore this option, here is the information.
@@verucasalt2391 Amen....I feel exactly the same way. I can't believe that any law would allow anyone to view this!!! Horrible!!
I needed this. I just cremated my brother. My mom was cremated in 2010. This was so peaceful to me. The care in taking care of love ones. Thanks for educating us.
Sorry for your loss
Sad
Cremation is good for the environment as burial grounds are running out of space.
You did it yourself? That's pretty gangster not gonna lie
Vonda Pearson.
Were they still alive when you committed this heinous act?
I would like to think all funeral homes are as caring and professional as this one. We have to be diligent even with services such as these. A funeral home a few years back was found to have dumped the bodies in the woods behind the establishment instead of cremation as promised. The same shenanigans with a burial when a daughter went to visit her mother's grave, it was found open and the mother's body was missing. When we find a good service of any type, it would do everyone well to spread that good business's name for the peace of mind for all. And likewise for the bad ones. This is one of those good places. An ideal for all businesses to follow. Thank you for this.
I attended both my father's and mother's cremation, start to finish. It was the least I could do for the people who gave me life. Thank you very much for explaining the cremation process so thoroughly. While I knew what was going to happen to them both, it's still comforting to know that the people who take care of their remains extend an extreme amount of respect.
Amazing how clean and organized everything is
Think of it this way, it’s basically a science lab. There are operating procedures and requirements.
I'm curious, if not clean and organized, what were your expectations?
@@robertgreen9980 pretty sure the average one that the public never sees is fairly industrial looking and not all shiny.
Think warehouse with industrial ovens that have been used thousands of times over the years.
A quick youtube search will show an example of it.
@@kevinmchale5660 I get what you're saying.
Yes they could be old ovens, yet the the whole room can be clean and organized.
@@kevinmchale5660 meaning shinny doesn't necessarily equal "clean and organized"
Fascinating, very cool of you guys to share this. This is how things should be for the bereaved every time. Your level of care in this facility is top notch and sets a precedent of excellence.
I spent what was the saddest day of my life with my wife of 60 years before she was created and I was with her for her last four hours.
God bless all of you
Thank you so much for explaining this. I was a bit afraid and nearly swiped your page up and then I decided to take a brave look. I'm glad I did.
Many many thanks.
From UK. 👍🏻
Aww...she sounds nervous. Don't be! My father AND grandather were funeral directors, I'm third generation raised in the funeral home they ran. Your services are deeply respected and it takes a special, special calling. Thank you for being there for the families in their time of need.
❤️🙏❤️
In my high school, the son of a funeral home owner would bring in empty caskets, not totally sure why.
To me the work they do is not just a special calling, it's a ministry.
funeral directors are good actors, they will try take every penny you have...they pray on your emotions $$$$$$$
@@paulbunyun4479 *prey
@@pjpj3416 thanks
In 1978 our 3 year old son died of leukemia. We had his body cremated. In those days they didn’t allow anyone to stay. I’m very thankful that they did make an exception and allowed my husband and I stay. I was very thankful for that.
Prayers for your sad and tragic loss. I can't imagine the pain.
@@johnnyyeahyeah007 Thank you very much. God bless you for your kind words.
Thank you. You are a very sensitive person, whom works with Cremation. I so appreciate how much you are soft spoken, and how much you truly care about the person you are Creamating.. Thank you so very much...
Thak you my wife of 44 years was cremated and I was way to upset to know what was done. This helps a lot. God Bless
Wow. I wish that all crematoriums would use the same system. I wasn't able to be there for my mom or dad. Being there till the end means a lot to many people. Thank you for this video.
Thank you for doing this video. I’m 63 and it’s one of those “How do they do that” subjects that is nice to know. Had no idea a family can be present start to finish.
Life ; fat bodies must create a lot of fire
Really appreciate your seriousness and tact in describing these processes to us. Thank you very much.
Thank you for your wonderfully made video. I was a bit worried with my son asking to carry out his wishes, because I often wonder what procedures would be taking place and you've answered every one of my thoughts. I thank you so very much.
It's truly good to know that you take pride in your business of making the love ones family feel as if their apart of everything. I would want to know and see to it that my sons were respected all the way to the end. Thank you very mucb!
This is the kind of educational video that doesn't deserve a simple, 'Like', for it. RUclips should add a Heart option for the compassion that goes into creating such an informational video. Thank you for letting me know what will happen to me when I finally pass
I say give us the dislikes back first
Yes I concur 💖 This is a very informative video that is being produced by compassionate people in a sensitive professional way for the sake of the loved ones who stay to experience such procedure 🙏🏻 #heartthevideo
I would have loved to be present when my wife Marilyn was cremated. It's such a final moment. Kudos to you folks for not only allowing this but encouraging it and allowing the families to have full closure. I love to see death being demystified, it's part of life. My granddaughter has always been taught a rhyme that begins 'Everything lives, everything dies, everything laughs, everything cries.' to help begin that learning process.
I like that little dittie.
All living things must eventually die.
It's the circle of life.
Love that,it’s so true 💜
You are 100% correct. I'm sorry for your loss.
Death is not part of life. Life is living. Death is non-living. Capiche?
@@alparker5918 death is in fact part of the livings lives!
Thank you so much for a wonderful explanation of The cremation service. As a hospice nurse I have had a very brief understanding of what took place and I was very pleased with your content. Had no idea about temperatures or a couple of other items that were mentioned. I was very curious about the exhaust from a crematorium but I think you alleviated my further questions. Thank you so much
Thank you for making this video. I never knew exactly what was involved in the cremation process. This was a very educational presentation and very professional. It helps take away some of the anxiety. Not knowing about some things can be harder to live with. Thanks again.
Thank you to Brian and Nicole. What kind, professional folks you two are. I only hope when I am cremated that I am in the care of
people like you. I didn't want to view this video, but now I'm feeling more comfortable. Thank you again for the grace and peace
you bring to a somber time.
Ugh this hurts and hits home. My brother passed away in 2016 and thank you all for the love and kindness to the families. They need you more than you know. I sure couldn’t do this. I can be a support system outside of this. Bless you all.
@@markaralvin5545 SCAMMER
These people are so caring and respectful not only of the deceased but of the family. God Bless You All and of the deceased and their family!
This is great info! Tysm! Our family has decided on cremation & this video answered numerous questions. So glad family may be present.
Their place sounds very well taken care of!
Yes, I'm very impressed with how clean it is
Very interesting - I recently lost my husband and had him cremated - now I know how the whole process works (different than it was decades ago). Thank you for doing this as an informative video for the families and friends who want to know the process involved in cremation.
This is really great that familys are allowed to watch. The same as we watch our loved ones buried. This is what I would want for myself.
Hello 👋 how are you doing?
To all the people that post about there love ones that gone through this god bless ❤❤ and much love ❤️. Thank you for sharing this with us
I had my 35 year-old son cremated after he passed away in 2016 and I had no idea it was such a detailed process I know that the funeral home guarded the body and the urn until I signed for it and went out the door with the urn they were very serious about no one getting ahold of the remains this was very educational
@David Scott I plan to be cremated. This was very enlightening. I didn't know that the family could be there. Thank you for the information.
I'm all for cremation but I can't imagine anyone would want to see their loved one engulfed in flames. It seems like extra trauma at an emotional time.
They do not see the flames at all. They see them being loaded and the door closes shut.
It is my understanding that the body is not "engulfed" in flames, but rather, the heat being so intense completely dehydrates and breaks down the entire body.
I prefer this to being eaten by maggots.
@@chinneynz7861 ur in a coffin. There are no maggots there..
@@mza.28 I think the intended phrasing might really be, "This is preferable than slowly decaying"
Thank you.. it took me two attempts to watch this video, but I was determined to see it through. I am going to be cremated when I pass and just wanted to see what happened, but of course it is confronting... You made it easier and I thank you for this. I feel comforted now that it is this easy and this carefully done.
Well done for putting this up for those of us who need to see this.
We unexpectedly lost our 23 year old son four years ago this coming December and we had him cremated. We still have his ashes. Thank you for this video as I always wondered how "respectful" he was treated in addition to the cremation process. Whenever I drive into northern Portland, OR I pass the crematorium, which is off Highway 84. We were not allowed (I believe) to be there. Again, thank you.
Nate & Wood Mortuary - thank you!! This is so very interesting! 🙏
Hi how are you doing?
I can see were family would want to be there. With so many mortuary not following through with cremation or loosing the ashes. Pleased to know there are people out there like yall that care
Well? They are being payed. Nothing is free
Yes thank you for sharing this information it seems as more ppl are going this way...so Bless you and your staff for your services.🌹
Very impressed by the level of care provided by this company!
I absolutely loved this!! Very informative my grandmother's were cremated I always was curious... we need more of these...we all want to learn behind the scenes
Check out the channel Ask A Mortician
@@henrysmith180 already watch her videos lol 😆 love her channel too
All you have to do is Google or RUclips videos of it. Hundreds of not thousands of videos of cremations
Kari the mortician is also a great channel to subscribe to, I see someone else has mentioned Ask a mortician
Really appreciate having been provided this knowledge. I hope there is a crematorium here that is as professional and caring. Thank you so much for sharing💛 this actually put my mind at ease quite a bit.
Thank you so very much!! So many questions I didn’t know I had were answered. What a great news story!!
Thanks for explaining this process..my husband is being cremated today…he passed from stage 4 cancer
Hello how're you doing?
Absolutely fascinating . I was unaware that families could be involved in the process. This was not offered when my mother was cremated. You are doing a wonderful job and thank you for this insight into the process
When my husband was cremated after the showing I wasn’t offered that, I guess they thought I wouldn’t want to.
I’m not even sure this was a thing when my grandfather passed away. Granted, that was 25 years ago this April. But I feel like if it would’ve been offered then it might’ve helped my sister and I more in the healing process.
Depends on the funeral home. Each have their own policies.
I didn't know the family could be present to watch even though I don't think I could watch. My husband just passed away from a sudden very painful death Feb 4th 2022
@@karenjarrett529 so sorry for this Karen
Thank you. All of the people who provide services for us are so called to this job. Again, Thank You!
Thank you so much for sharing. Very professional and empathetic. God bless you.
Very comforting to see the process. Thank you.
Both my parents and my husband were all cremated and when it's my time to go my sons have all been told I want to be cremated as well so this was very informative for me. Thank you for sharing this.
Have you chosen the person who's going to give you the final push into the flames?
@Jeffrey Ellsworth wow! That remark is totally uncalled for!!
@@barbwhitcomb8395 Both Jeffery & Joaquim are hateful trolls with nothing better to do. Bad intent will come back to haunt them.
@@barbarahill9176 ok....I gotta agree with u on that!!
Is thier a good way to see 👀that cremation can be permanently banned and instead let's bury our loved-ones because God very strictly bans cremation and will punish those who choose cremation by not allowing thier bodies to be resseructed which means that those who choose to be cremated will be punished by being sent straight to the fiery depths of hell let's get law's put in place making cremation a felony meaning that those surviving family members will be punished by being sent to prison for violating and breaking laws by having thier loved-ones cremated, I myself want to see that cremation is made a criminal act and the law will force people to choose burial instead of being cremated and if I could have my way I would personally see to it that all crematorium's are permanently banned and closed down for good and by the way God does not condone cremation and he will punish those who choose to be cremated this is why thier are cemeteries to bury people and not cremate them which as it says in the Bible the person who is cremated is ineligible and will not be resseructed on resurrection day so find a way to permanently stop and ban cremation here in America and around the world.
I worked for the postal service and had to deliver cremated remains to his spouse. I really wasnt comfortable waiting for her to answer the door. I didnt know what kind of reaction she would have. But, thankfully she was calm and didnt burst into tears!. (Notice the mailing boxes in the final prep room , under the table) The boxes were stamped with "Handle with Dignity"
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I lost my youngest son, 24, in 2018. He was to date, the first family member of our family (a BIG family) to ever be cremated. It was strange and it was of course devastating. But I want anyone to know that if you ever questioned this process or found yourself hesitant...It was the best decision I believe that we could have made. One thing I have realized as time has passed, is that I have my son with me at all times. Some of my closest family members, my mother, granddad, and grandma etc. are buried at a local cemetery where I live. At first visitation and personal familial care of the burial sites was of utmost priority. Now, few make it there any longer. I go when I am in town to see them and just inspect the burial site for damage or any needs that are required. But it was not long after losing my mom that I found myself standing there at her gravesite with nothing much to do or say. I knew she was not there, she was with the Lord, and in that I rejoiced! So what does one actually do during that visit? I can only speak for myself. In comparison having my baby boy in my living room. ANd some of his very personal things? just means so much more to me. and if I move? he comes with us. Just my thoughts on a difficult time in all of our lives but hope that something I said may help.
Spirit World
The postmortal spirit world is a place where the spirits of those who have died live before the Resurrection. The spirit world consists of paradise, where the righteous dwell, and spirit prison, where those who were wicked in mortality dwell.
President Brigham Young taught that the postmortal spirit world is on the earth, around us (see Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young [1997], 279).
Spirit beings have the same bodily form as mortals except that the spirit body is in perfect form (see Ether 3:16). Spirits carry with them from earth their attitudes of devotion or antagonism toward things of righteousness (see Alma 34:34). They have the same appetites and desires that they had when they lived on earth. All spirits are in adult form. They were adults before their mortal existence, and they are in adult form after death, even if they die as infants or children (see Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith [1998], 131-32).
The prophet Alma in the Book of Mormon taught about two divisions or states in the spirit world.
Paradise. According to the prophet Alma, the righteous spirits rest from earthly care and sorrow. Nevertheless, they are occupied in doing the work of the Lord. President Joseph F. Smith saw in a vision that immediately after Jesus Christ was crucified, He visited the righteous in the spirit world. He appointed messengers, gave them power and authority, and commissioned them to “carry the light of the gospel to them that were in darkness, even to all the spirits of men” (Doctrine and Covenants 138:30).
The Church is organized in the spirit world, and priesthood holders continue their responsibilities there (see Doctrine and Covenants 138:30). President Wilford Woodruff taught: “The same Priesthood exists on the other side of the veil. … Every Apostle, every Seventy, every Elder, etc., who has died in the faith as soon as he passes to the other side of the veil, enters into the work of the ministry” (Deseret News, Jan. 25, 1882, 818).
Family relationships are also important. President Jedediah M. Grant, a counselor to Brigham Young, saw the spirit world and described to Heber C. Kimball the organization that exists there:
“He said that the people he there saw were organized in family capacities. … He said, ‘When I looked at families, there was a deficiency in some, … for I saw families that would not be permitted to come and dwell together, because they had not honored their calling here’” (Deseret News, Dec. 10, 1856, 316-17).
Spirit Prison. The Apostle Peter referred to the postmortal spirit world as a prison, which it is for some (see 1 Peter 3:18-20). In the spirit prison are the spirits of those who have not yet received the gospel of Jesus Christ. These spirits have agency and may be enticed by both good and evil. The spirits may progress as they learn gospel principles and live in accordance with them. The spirits in paradise can teach the spirits in prison (see Doctrine and Covenants 138). If they accept the gospel and the ordinances performed for them in the temples, they may leave the spirit prison and dwell in paradise.
Also in the spirit prison are those who rejected the gospel after it was preached to them either on earth or in the spirit prison. These spirits suffer in a condition known as hell. They have removed themselves from the mercy of Jesus Christ, who said, “Behold, I, God, have suffered these things for all, that they might not suffer if they would repent; but if they would not repent they must suffer even as I; which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit” (Doctrine and Covenants 19:16-18). After suffering for their sins, they will be allowed, through the Atonement of Jesus Christ, to inherit the lowest degree of glory, which is the Telestial kingdom.
So sorry for the passing of your youngest son. May God bless you and comfort you.🙏
Several years ago, I was driving home and passed a funeral home. There was a big plume of block smoke coming out of the stack. It made me sad. I’m glad that the smoke management technology now allows clear smoke to be released. Thank you.
Thirty years ago, my nursing school was next door to a funeral home. You could definitely smell that something was happening with the crematory. Being there around it every day, it became a very distinct recognizable smell. I hope that doesn't happen anymore either with the new technology. It is interesting to learn that cremated remains are really powdered bones.
Can't have been legal
What a wonderful thing for the funeral home to offer this service for those who wish to participate!
What a strange world it is now come and view one of my family being burnt it can't get much stupid
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I wish all funeral homes offered services like yours. My friend Jake passed away from leukemia last year. His wife and parents were offered the chance for us to view the cremation. It helped give us a chance to come to terms with his passing and start our healing. It was a major blessing to have that experience.
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That’s actually a really clean, organized, and respectable venue. Well done! 🔥
Thank you for creating this video, and also to the staff at Wood Funeral Home for the care that they give to the loved ones.
You guys are so professional thank you for explaining.
well they better be
God bless all you do for the deceased and family. This was beautifully explained. Thank you for the tour.
You have a very nice funeral and I’m so glad that you serve the public keep up the good work rest in peace to anybody that we lost our loved ones🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🙏🏾
Thank you for your kind presentation. It was a great one.
Thank you for making this video as the subject matter is emotional and very difficult for a loved ones left behind, however, so important. I recently lost my Father and this video has given me personal comfort as to the procedure and process. Many blessings. Cece Shatz
I went to the crematorium to see my son. The operator let me turn on the machine as well. I was happy to be able to do this
It's all about what helps you to process and cope. I know it's not for everyone, but I would want the reality of the situation. I'd want to see everything. You will never forget those moments, and they're all part of your son's story and life.
I'm very sorry for your loss. It's heartbreaking to lose a child at any age.
I had a similar opportunity to see the reality of things when my dad died (he wasn't cremated though). They allowed me to attend early as I wanted to be there alone with my dad and no other family members. NO MUSIC, NO HUGS, and they didn't even pose his hands. I saw a few gnats which I smushed into the lining of his coffin. They almost dropped the coffin when they slid it out of the mini van. I heard them struggling to lift it onto this metal thing. They rolled it into a room and tossed the American flag and flower blanket off to the side. I saw they breathing heavy and being winded from the effort. Granted they didn't know I was watching. But I loved that it was REAL. I will never forget it.
Such love ❤️ for your son. I’m so very sorry for your loss. God bless you. 🙏
What??/ why????????
@@ginakirkland386 if you have a child that has passed away you just might understand
@@michelemacisaac9185 no, there is NO way I. Oils understand this. NO WAY
Thank you for showing the facts about cremation and I hope your crematory will become valuable help in the time of critical need to the community you represent.
I was in a four car freeway crash. A 26 year old mom died while I stood next to her. The moment she stopped breathing I felt such a calm loving warm sensation. The sky opened up and I felt angels with beautiful bright warm colors from the sky with a wonderful feeling of love. I have never felt that again and will always have the experience with me
Thank you very much for this very educational blog and now I can imagine how our deceased love ones went through this sacred process of cremations🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for being so Gentle while explaining
This is so respectful. I hope MN can have this loving facility like this...
I didn't want to watch this but honestly I'm glad I did. Very informative. Thanks
Thank you for having this video! It's good to know how the progress goes
OUTSTANDING presentation on the processes of a modern crematorium. Thank you.
This is fantastic & vital information. I have cancer & this is so helpful with decisions I am making right now. Thank you so much for making this available!!
Wishing you strength and peace.
This is awesome! I was never informed about family able to witness this!! No one ever tells u! Thank u!
My husband was the first one cremated in both our families. It was a huge difference, in the grief I felt. When they handed me his cremains, it was a different feeling, I had him back with me . I don't know how to explain it, but it was more comfort, to be able to have his cremains.
My mum shocked the family when she said she wanted to be cremated, there was only one burial space left and she wanted more of us to have the option, it can fit 6 cremations.
Now I have both my mum and dad's ashes at home and it was really comforting to know that they are here in some form. Their ashes are being buried together soon
That is so informational. I'm grateful to know this. I've done private care (terminal) for 30 yrs. I guess I might have known quite a bit by now, but this resolves alot of unknown.
Very clean and aseptic. When my horse died I had him cremated and it was quite expensive but I was really happy I did it. I was really sad the day I picked him up and asked to see where he was held and cremated. They were really nice and I got to see where they cremated the animals in Los Angeles area. It was extremely pleasant, they had some large doors to drive in trucks for equine cremations and a huge refrigerator for the horses and other animals. It was gated but open to the outside and had very nice plants and other things around the yard. I expected a gloomy dank place but it was sunny and clean with a pleasant vibe. I’m glad I saw it.
Thank you so much for such a informative conversation about cremation and the process involved...I totally respect a very sad time as my father was cremated 3 years ago, but at the same time after the grieving process has gone through all the emotions one feels...looking at your video is very interesting and knowledge to how it all works...and the positivity it gives.❤️❤️
I would faint watching something like this would not want to be anywhere near the building
I would be scarred for life and lose my mind!! That’s just horrific to me , standing there knowing they are “ burning” !! 😰
@@TheSmiley1963 How about if you are 9 years old and your family takes you to see ...
@@kevinmchale5660 I would feel bad for that child 😪
@@TheSmiley1963 "they" aren't burning.
@@SquawkCode but their BODY is
My dear friend just passed away on NYE and was cremated. After watching this video, I understand the process so much better. I hope he was taken care of just like this. Thank you.
Very interesting & informative, I prefer cremation now that I have watched this video rather than burial. Kudos
Very professional and thorough. Thanks for the explanations.
I just spoke to the funeral home an hour ago regarding my brother in law and this video shows up. Thanks A.I. for caring.