I like how they use the words “them” when addressing the remains, I can tell they are really respectful and acknowledge that these remains are actual people
My father passed away 10 days ago unexpectedly and his cremation is scheduled to begin in one hour. We saw him to say our goodbyes yesterday at the funeral home. Seeing this video and getting a better understanding of the process and what will happen to him helps me a lot. Thank you
@@HappyHorse23 Thank you for asking, we're doing ok. Mum still has her bad days, we all do I suppose, but overall we have come a long way from where we were last year. Life moves forward and we learn how to adapt and cope without dad. Last Sunday for Father's Day we went back to the beach where his ashes were scattered.
Sorry for your loss, two years ago I also lost someone very important to me, she was my dog, but we were always together & she was the best companion I ever had. I too found understanding the process comforting, I went down to the pet crematorium & attended, as I was allowed (I wanted to see with my own eyes it was genuinely a single cremation as with animals they often go in together), & I found myself asking questions, & the gentleman took me through the whole process. Despite my deep grief & the macabre nature, I felt reassured to know what goes on, & to know I was there with her for her last journey.
My daughter died and I've had her ashes for nearly 20 years. I recently took care of my end arrangements. She and I and ashes of about 12 cat from thru the years, including her cat, we'll all be scattered together.
I'm not afraid of dying. I'm afraid of being in such a state that everyone thinks I'm dead, but I'm actually not. I just cant move. Imagine being burnt or buried, alive. 😱😭
That is the reason of death to make you afraid of being "death". But if you think "Reincarnation", you may not be afraid of being "death", the death is like about same while we are sleeping. Can you feel? Can you acknowledge everything as like you are doing something when you are sleeping? The difference between "Death" and "Sleep" is you cannot wake up.
I'm not afraid of dying. I know it's going to happen. I'm just afraid of leaving my vulnerable children. If I die, I wanna die at least when they're all fully independent and doing well. But no, I'm not afraid of dying. Just afraid of the suffering it could cause my children if I left them while they were young. 🤷♀️ no one else loves them more than I do.
It's so weird to think of a human being being turned to ash. It's very natural, but when you think "that used to be a person" sometimes it's hard to wrap your head around it.
Its not really ashes, the corrrect term is cremains, its pulverized charred skeletal remains. The rest of the soft tissue organs fat hair etc of the body is vaporized because of the intense heat of the retort/ cremator.
That's just so beautiful and so precious. Sorry for your loss, dear ,and rest in peace you mom! Cant even imagine the agony you're going through..I'm so sorry
Sorry about your loss 😔 my mom passed away 8 years ago, I should do the same , put a little bit of her in a necklace, I saw someone getting a tattoo with his brothers ashes in the ink, but that's a little bit extreme for me but not a bad idea though.
My mama left 2/28/18 and I also have a beautiful necklace. We were best friends as long as I can remember...miss her always. God bless you, and your mom.
People think it's morbid but really it's not. We see people get buried or in-turd but cremation isn't common to see. When my Gran died we were not allowed to see the cremation process. I wanted to see it because I've never before seen a cremation.
That's what I want done with me then scatter part of my cremains over the train tracks here in Red Wing and some over some train tracks in Chicago. Just saying. Have a great weekend everyone
@@georgeedward1691 I know what you mean. You have a morbid curiosity seeing your Gran cremated. But could you stand to see your Gran cremated? Seeing the person you knew and loved being burned and reduced to s pile of ashes. I don't think I could handle it. Just something to think about. Have a great day everyone.
I lost my grandfather on the 26th October 2020. I miss him so much. I remember I was carrying his coffin with my brother, father, uncle, and 2 of his good friends. His body was cremated. I wish I could see him again, to hold him and hug him one more time, to tell him I love him. I love you grandad. Fly high and I’ll see you soon. I love you.
@@charlieknibbs6203 iam really sorry for your loss dear may his soul rest in peace. please let us know if any of your friend or relatives are looking for funeral plans. we are providing very affordable and personalized services for families all over uk.
I prefer it to the clinical, industrial experience of watching the coffin sink into the catafalque, to be honest. At my uncle's funeral, I saw the curtain as the end of a play, the close of a life well lived. Then again, I'd already been struck by how much of the funeral itself was theatre... I guess that's why they're called funeral directors!
The curtains slowly closed at my dad’s funeral. I didn’t cry throughout the whole thing to support my siblings but when the curtains closed at the end I just broke down in tears. It felt like that’s the last time I’ll ever be so close to him
This how I want to be 'disposed' of when I go, rotting 6 feet underground is not for me. I don't want anyone now or in the future to feel beholden to tending my grave...in most cases, once those that still remember you have passed on themselves, graves tend to get forgotten and sometimes fall into a state of loneliness and disrepair that is rather sad.
Natural burial may be an alternative you could like. For natural burial, bodies are buried unembalmed in a biodegradable shroud of coffin and allowed to become part of the earth again. Graves are marked with native plants rather gravestones, so there's no cemetery upkeep, and natural burial cemeteries are given the same government protections as traditional ceremonies, so that land will never be developed. Rather than your body simply being forgotten with time, it is given back to the earth and becomes an important part of sustaining the environment.
My father passed away 7 yrs ago and my family and I had him cremated. It took me this long to see how the process goes. He was a WWII veteran and I know one day I'll see him again in heaven.
Sorry about your dad. I lost mine in 2017 and right after my mom in 2018, they were both cremated as well. Never seen how the process goes, this just popped in on my recommendations.
My mom died almost 2 years ago. She was cremated in accordance with her wishes just like my father was. I went to the crematorium and said my final goodbye to mom and watched as she was put into the crematory and the door was closed. I needed that bit of finality to help me accept the loss and keep on with my life.
Those moments are realy heavy to accept. the world is like this we need to accept it. Stay safe and healty everyone… condolances to all for who lost their loved ones
You were very brave.. I was too upset to even attend my mothers funeral. I chose to remember her alive not dead in a coffin. I have no regrets not going 8 yrs hence .She lives in my memory and heart
It may be , " all that's left of him now ", but one or more things, of him are still very much alive . Every time you speak his name, reflect on the lessons learned, the "lectures" , and all those trips , he's still alive , in you. We're not here for long but for the time we're allowed, we do make an impact on the lives we touch.
Death is ugly and spoon sad. I just never get over it when I l lose someone, especially when I lost my mom and dad, I just never got over it. I still cry over losing them.
I went to my brothers cremation. Literally 30 feet away from the room he was in. Was a break room where I remember 2 people laughing about something, just having a good day at work. while we passed by. It kinda made me happy for a second.
Godbless you mum only just passed away recently and had funeral, I pick her ashes up this week, none of it is nice,Very upsetting I love you mum I know you spirit is here, Godbless you beautiful lady RIP
Ohhh :( I’m so sorry to hear this. I lost my mom last month on the 24th. It’s heartbreaking to say the least. Had my mom Cremated also. The funeral home where she lived in Oklahoma said they’ll be shipping the Cremains on Monday to me here in Oregon. That’s going to be a difficult day. Bless you and have a great day!
Same here. I picked up my mum's ashes yesterday and took her home to the house I was brought up in. Was very emotional but had a sense of calm and peace for the first time since she died. I miss her desperately, but am now concentrating on keeping my dad going as my heart won't bear another loss so soon, and it will devastate the rest of my family, especially the grandchildren. God Bless you Beth mc in your grief.
I have done this for my mother. I pushed a cardboard box in the fire hole/box and raked the larger bones(cranium and hips) back under the central nozzle, a few times. Love is what I had in mind. Yes, this was one of those RARE moments when you do something for someone, that you REALLY wouldn't do normally… ALL ALONE with my feelings and pain, and my heart beating through my chest, I didn't want to be anywhere else. Even when the ashes were ground I stared and I absorbed the whole process… The mind calmed when it was over, and all I had left was a small plastic box with her ashes. And the thought, that maybe for once in my little life, I did something unselfishly for someone that no longer exists elsewhere than in my mind… Mom got her wishes exactly as she needed, and my love emerged from the ashes eh…
That was beautiful And very brave of you to do that for her. I can't imagine how painful it must have been but as you described it seemed that no one else could do as good of a job as you did in caring for your mother. Thank you for sharing. I have had moments when my grandpa was dying that only I needed to do. I lived with my grandparents and I needed to be there for him and make sure he was taken care of til the very end.
Professional Commenter Same.. I was there with both of my grandparents.💕I was also Power of Attorney. The hardest thing I’ve ever done, was tell the hospital staff to not resecessitate my grandma.. it was my privilege to carry out both of their wishes. Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever fully heal from losing them. Thankfully, I know that I will see them again soon enough.! Bless you ❤️
@@jerilee7141 you're very fortunate to have had grandparents. I had none on both sides of my mom and dad. I often wondered what it would be like to have had grandparents. I'll never know, but the Lord will introduce me to them in Heaven.
Hugh Haefner ❤️ I am beyond blessed! Not only were they a huge part of my life, but my two daughters as well!! I do know we were/are so blessed .. but it doesn’t take away the pain I feel not having them with me. You will meet your grandparents one day! ❤️ And one day , you may be a grandparent yourself!! 😊
Just goes to show, after all it doesn't matter if we are rich or poor, black or white, we look the same on the shelf in a box. I dont find that sad but it does make me think!
Thank you for this video. I'm impressed at how respectful the staff are, and how clean and modern the premises are. All of my family are cremators, as in we're always cremated when we die, but we never got to go to the "backstage area" so thank you!
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Bless the workers there..such an important job! My 85 year old mother died just before Christmas and was cremated at Mortlake last week ,after her funeral at Our Lady of Grace ,Chiswick. God Bless Her..miss her so much!
I just lost my aunt today. She was 67. Fought five cancers and was a Godliving woman. She wanted cremation. Also, I saw her body, and hugged her for the last time. I love you Aunt Marcia. I’ll miss you. And go run through the heavenly streets as you wished to.
So sorry for your loss, sweetheart. She's in heaven in the everlasting arms of Jesus! You will be with her again one day! I lost my dad to a terminal brain cancer (Gleoblastoma) just over 4 yrs ago (January 16, 8am, on a Monday, 2017). No more pain, no more suffering. He to is up in heaven with Jesus our Lord & Savior. I hope dad had the pleasure of showing your Aunt Marcia around. I cant wait she be up in heaven one day. What a gloreous day that will be to be with God Jesus & the Holy Spirit, & be with my dad & other family memebers & my animals. God bless you! Take care!
These guys are very professional, very dignified and seem to really enjoy what they do. I'm amazed at just how normal it all is. Literally all in a day's work and busy busy busy.
You are all angels to those of us left by our loved ones. Thank you so very, very much for taking them thru to the end here on earth. I cant express how much your kindness means.
I used to work at an animal crematorium/funeral home and I must say it's the same process as we used. Your machines are very nice!!! We had a viewing room where the owners could do an "attended cremation". They found peace in watching the whole process. You guys have a very hard job, but do it so respectfully, it's comforting.♥️
Watching this video, especially at the last few minutes was interesting for me. Where all the boxes of the ashes where stacked, made me think of how these were all people, you and me. They all had their fair share of laughs and cries. They grew up, faced their own problems, found love, ate their favourite food, lived their lives, probably sat down on a porch thinking about life and others, only to perish one day, unknowingly in most cases. Its a bitter feeling if you ask me, this whole "journey" I dont really like to comment, I like to keep these thoughts to myself because if I come across them, I'd cringe at myself. But this time, maybe I just want to let my thoughts out. Maybe I'm just scared aswell.
It’s scary knowing life will come to an end less scary when it’s no pain and you just go to sleep. This is the end for all of us either way. Much respect to the ones we’ve lost and to the staff for being respectful.
This life is only one phase of our existence. Before we were born, we were living in our mother's womb. We lived a completely different life. No talking to people, no eating the way we do, we didn't know about money, cars, houses, relationship, and all the worldly things. Then comes the second phase, we were brought into this world. With a purpose. To seek the one who created us and submit to Him. We're all being tested. Some are tested with power, wealth and some are tested with sickness, poverty, adversity, disaster and so on. Then after that comes death. A phase where our test ends and we begin to see the fruit of our deeds. Where two angels will come and ask us questions regarding our belief. "Who is your God?" "Who is your prophet?" "What is your religion?" These are the questions that everyone will be asked on their graves and know that our soul will be the one who answer, not by memory. Those who answers right will be rewarded. Whereas those who couldn't answer will be punished. Then we'll wait until comes the day of judgement. Then we'll be resurrected from our death. Everyone from the very first human to the very last one gathers in the same place. To be judged by God himself. Then he'll put us in our final place where we'll remain exist forever. Heaven or hell.
I was surprised at how clean and professional it all looked. Lots of stainless steel and mirrors. All the people were very nice and they didn't mind answering any questions. Thanks for the video and explaining the process.
Most informative video. My Dad was cremated and now I am at the age now that I am getting cremated when I pass. This video is the first video that I could see the complete process. Thank you, I am comfortable with my choice.
Emily Prevot you’ll be fine. if you let her free she’d be killed that day. i’m sure your guinea pig is very thankful you are taking care of her! i have a guinea pig too and a good thing to do is make a little play pen with treats and toys so she can get some exercise! she’ll love it! and for going to hell, you can do something as evil as killing someone and god will still love you and let you in heaven. don’t let little things like that worry you! good luck :)
Sarah Ledgard My guy of 10 years committed suicide last September. By his wish, he also was cremated. I'll forever have more questions than I'll ever have answers. I grieve for you and I grieve with you. God Bless You. 🙏
That was the most cleanest crematorium that I've ever seen in my life I am a clean freak everything in my house has a place in a spot for it I respect those crematory employees and the respect that they show the families
"Those who died yesterday had plans for this morning. And those who died this morning had plans for tonight. Don't take life for granted. In the blink of an eye, everything can change. So forgive often and love with all your heart. You may never know when you may not have that chance again.” 😞🙏💕 The best gift you could ever give someone is your TIME, because you're giving them something that you'll never get back. "The more the world grows evil and moves away from God, the more the Light of Jesus Christ shines and the beauty of the Gospel of peace and salvation grows brighter each day." 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🌈🌈🙏🙏🙏🙏
This would be a job to be proud of! It would be an honor to assist someone on their last journey, and also just knowing you are doing a service to one's family would be enough for me! IDK how you would get a job such as this, but it would be an honor to do such a thing.
I feel the same, like its a calling to serve them on their last journey. I was worried I was nuts, but glad others can see that too & its not just me! I don't work in this field but am thinking of doing so, hopefully at a crematorium with a cemetery so I can also maintain the headstones.
@@goldeneagle3678 we do not have enough land where we live for burial. Even cemeteries that are century old are exhumed. I find cremation perfectly acceptable even for myself.
Very respectful Employees and presentation into something rarely seen. Cremation has come up recently in my family so naturally, I've been curious about the practice. Appreciate the way this is shown and the care the employees have. 💜
My grandad was loved beyond measure. We had his service at the city of London and then had his ashes committed to the sea by the Royal Navy......Portsmouth. I’ve never regretted seeing my wonderful grandad off this way. I love you gangadin! 🌹
Well done and thank you for keeping this up really interesting. We all have to pass one day even the lads doing the job. Really done with up most respect that was pleasing to see. Thank you. You put my mind at ease
I remember after attending my grandmothers cremation service almost 40 years ago and standing outside and there was a horrendous smell, that must have been it taking place. Thank goodness due to the filtration system now days family’s don’t have to experience that. I can still remember the smell.
I live down the road from a crematorium. It was hot and summer and i had my window rolled down and the smoke coming from the pipe up above the funeral home was rather short. The smoke went up my nose and in my mouth and Made me so sick to think that that was someones body being burned. These idiots need to raise the pipe up higher. I had the most bizarre taste in my mouth.
I can’t be the only one who is afraid to die because when I’m in heaven I’m just going to be there watching over kids over the years and years wishing I was alive
Attended a friends cremation today, never ceases to amaze about the lives what they had lived and had worked during their precious lives, RIP VIC far to good to be forgotten.
My Dziadek (Grandpa) was cremated in 2017 after he passed away inside his blok in Poland. Not sure if the process is different there and to what extent but at least he is now together with Babcia (Grandma), who passed in the early 2000's. I think it is a good idea to talk with loved ones so that there is no difficult decision making to be done once someone passes away. Sometimes people prefer one type of process over another and it is important to honor that in my opinion. Personally though I would much prefer a traditional burial when my time comes (though that is still a long long time away I hope).
If you have a big ego or just think you’re better than anyone because of your wealth, looks or skills just watch this video it will remind you that in the end we are all the same. Memento Mori to you my good friend.
My Dad died 24 years ago and he wanted direct cremation. He asked that I scatter his ashes in Long Island Sound. DONE! Having to pick his ashes up was MIND BLOWING. A once healthy veteran reduced to dust. My heart will never be the same.
5/27/20 makes a month my true LOVE died and cremated. This popped up on my feed. Thank you for the peace of mind. Ironically he enjoyed working in a funeral home. 🌷
That’s exactly what I want for myself, So my two girls can have my ashes!! Who wants to be in the ground, where no one ever goes, and its cold and lonely.
They must have both bery kind and guarded hearts to do this. Kimd because they're showing such respect and kindness in their eyes and guarded because if not youd be unable to continue to do this day after day. Thank you gents!
I spent some time working at a crematorium last year and I did witness a couple of cremations from start to finish. I really was not sure how I was going to react but it was fine. The guys that worked there were great. The thing that really struck me though, even though it is really obvious, was when they opened the door to charge the coffin, even though I was standing on the opposite side of the room, was the intensity of the heat. Even though I knew to expect it, it was still quite a shock to feel it. *braces self for trolls*
A good friend of mine died unexpectedly in 2011 at only 54 from a heart attack, he was cremated. He had some of his ashes scattered in his favorite river, then his favorite camping spot, and finally some placed at his poker table in his man cave. Games were still played at his place and a drink always poured for him. The winner always got the drink.
As a hospice worker i can tell you that you would make things so much easier on your families if you told them well in advance what you would want ( cremation, burial, etc). I myself want cremated and have written this down for all to see. Sadly our society doesn’t talk about death and dying and as a result i have seen in my work so many families not knowing what to do, fighting with each other, feeling guilty about maybe not doing what the loved one wanted, etc. Sometimes life requires tough talks and thats ok.
Daniel R absolutely, I am making a funeral wishes leaflet on the lighthearted side. So many families I meet ‘what song would your mother like’ I don’t know, it’s quite sad. People are quite happy to say they have made a will and have life insurance, but a funeral seems to be a no no. Keep up the good work Daniel, get people talking if you can. Best wishes x
My fiancé passed away a little more than a year ago and I was devastated. I couldn’t bare to watch her get buried so me and her family decided that we were gonna have her cremated and let me keep her ashes. Now even though that she’s gone she isn’t fully gone because she’ll always be with me and I move a lot so where ever I go, she goes. I love you sweetheart I hope to be with you again someday❤️
It was my grandma’s funeral today and She said in her will she was going to get cremated and my mum told me to wach this and this is what’s happening right now omg!
The boxed ashes at 6:05, I handled those 20 years ago working in a shipping hub. On the outside was a name and dates for their life. Thanks for the tour.
“And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day” (John 6:40)
We spend most of our lives working hard, worrying and stressing over money and finances and other personal issues, then at the end,,,,, well, this video says it all .
Thank you so much for this video and for the crematorium to all0w this short documentary. My mum passed away last December and was cremated. Because the crematorium did not allow to witness the coffin to enter the cremator (which is possible in some crematoriums, understandingly this is not everybody's cup of tea but it can also be essential to achieve closure for others including myself), I found it important for me to be able to see the behind-the-scene process.
I want to be buried in Earth. Reason being that all I have taken from nature will be returned. The chemicals in My Body Will be food to microorganisms- bringing new life from My passing. My energy is thus transferred back to nature, and from me springs new life.
@Zer0dog if you want to be buried where populations can't live then yes there is room. Mountains where there are no roads, deserts where towns don't want to be or cannot exist.
LittleMissFairy Bread I believe it’s hell fire beginning here on earth. And most physicians can’t 100% prove that the dead people don’t experience pain. But it’s one good decision to either want or not want to be burned
Sadly i lost my father back 2006 R.I.P to cancer and was cremated by worthing crematorium. Dad will never be forgotten and loved by all the family and we thank the crematorium for the work thay do for our loves ones,thank you.
my brother passed away January 8th, and he got cremated, just having flashbacks now of when the curtain started to close, everyone was literally crying their eyes out :( god bless his soul RIP broo xxxx
🔵No cremation for me. No burial for me. No crypt, or embalming for me. Gee. I guess I'll have to live forever. There is no pleasant alternative. A loved one was cremated in Jan. I was inconsolable thinking of him burned into ashes then pulverized into a fine ash & bone. Why does the end have to be so awful?😝
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Me too. lol
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Miss DogLover it’s not weird death is a natural occurrence. We are future spirits
keri caye you love spirits
I like how they use the words “them” when addressing the remains, I can tell they are really respectful and acknowledge that these remains are actual people
My father passed away 10 days ago unexpectedly and his cremation is scheduled to begin in one hour. We saw him to say our goodbyes yesterday at the funeral home. Seeing this video and getting a better understanding of the process and what will happen to him helps me a lot. Thank you
How are you holding up now, Dennis? X
@@HappyHorse23 Thank you for asking, we're doing ok. Mum still has her bad days, we all do I suppose, but overall we have come a long way from where we were last year. Life moves forward and we learn how to adapt and cope without dad. Last Sunday for Father's Day we went back to the beach where his ashes were scattered.
Im so sorry sending you my condolences and hugs...my father died 4 years ago if cancer.
I'm so sorry for your loss. On this Father's day, I pray you and your loved ones find peace and love.
Sorry for your loss, two years ago I also lost someone very important to me, she was my dog, but we were always together & she was the best companion I ever had. I too found understanding the process comforting, I went down to the pet crematorium & attended, as I was allowed (I wanted to see with my own eyes it was genuinely a single cremation as with animals they often go in together), & I found myself asking questions, & the gentleman took me through the whole process. Despite my deep grief & the macabre nature, I felt reassured to know what goes on, & to know I was there with her for her last journey.
My only child passed away, almost 6 years ago. We both agreed cremation was the right option for us. Thank you for the video.
Sad sorry for your loss :(
My condolences for your loss.
My daughter died and I've had her ashes for nearly 20 years. I recently took care of my end arrangements. She and I and ashes of about 12 cat from thru the years, including her cat, we'll all be scattered together.
My condolences to you and your family. I can’t imagine.
I'm a widow with two young boys, I understand your grief and pain. Love and light your way ♥️
I'm not afraid of dying. I'm afraid of being in such a state that everyone thinks I'm dead, but I'm actually not. I just cant move. Imagine being burnt or buried, alive. 😱😭
A doctor will check your hart prior.
That is the reason of death to make you afraid of being "death". But if you think "Reincarnation", you may not be afraid of being "death", the death is like about same while we are sleeping. Can you feel? Can you acknowledge everything as like you are doing something when you are sleeping? The difference between "Death" and "Sleep" is you cannot wake up.
I'm not afraid of dying. I know it's going to happen. I'm just afraid of leaving my vulnerable children. If I die, I wanna die at least when they're all fully independent and doing well. But no, I'm not afraid of dying. Just afraid of the suffering it could cause my children if I left them while they were young. 🤷♀️ no one else loves them more than I do.
U must have watched the movie afterlife ,,the same situation the lady was in that u commented about , strange but good movie
@@narrowroadtraveler4167 I've not, but I want to watch it now lol
It's so weird to think of a human being being turned to ash. It's very natural, but when you think "that used to be a person" sometimes it's hard to wrap your head around it.
I started tears watching this and reading what you wrote. 🕊️
Sorry if I upset you.
Its not really ashes, the corrrect term is cremains, its pulverized charred skeletal remains. The rest of the soft tissue organs fat hair etc of the body is vaporized because of the intense heat of the retort/ cremator.
Interesting. I've never heard cremains before, but it makes sense. Thanks for sharing the other stuff too.
@@SallyCat84 Thank you for responding. No you didn't upset me....what you said was nice actually.
My mom passed away this past July and she was cremated and her ashes are in a necklace around my neck and I cherish them every day.
That's just so beautiful and so precious. Sorry for your loss, dear ,and rest in peace you mom! Cant even imagine the agony you're going through..I'm so sorry
Sorry about your loss 😔 my mom passed away 8 years ago, I should do the same , put a little bit of her in a necklace, I saw someone getting a tattoo with his brothers ashes in the ink, but that's a little bit extreme for me but not a bad idea though.
My daughter has her fathers adhes in a necklace as well. She lost him last year. He was 41 and she was 14, now 15. It's still very hard for her.😥
The Ally Way same with my brother 🙏🏾
My mama left 2/28/18 and I also have a beautiful necklace. We were best friends as long as I can remember...miss her always. God bless you, and your mom.
it ends so fast after my dear uncle got cremated i been watching this kind of videos ..rest in peace to those bodies being cremated...
My father was cremated
People think it's morbid but really it's not. We see people get buried or in-turd but cremation isn't common to see. When my Gran died we were not allowed to see the cremation process. I wanted to see it because I've never before seen a cremation.
@@ImSadiaNadeem do you have nothing better to do than leave your insane comments?...
That's what I want done with me then scatter part of my cremains over the train tracks here in Red Wing and some over some train tracks in Chicago. Just saying. Have a great weekend everyone
@@georgeedward1691 I know what you mean. You have a morbid curiosity seeing your Gran cremated. But could you stand to see your Gran cremated? Seeing the person you knew and loved being burned and reduced to s pile of ashes. I don't think I could handle it. Just something to think about. Have a great day everyone.
I lost my grandfather on the 26th October 2020. I miss him so much. I remember I was carrying his coffin with my brother, father, uncle, and 2 of his good friends. His body was cremated. I wish I could see him again, to hold him and hug him one more time, to tell him I love him. I love you grandad. Fly high and I’ll see you soon. I love you.
@@samnorth938 he’s already gone??
@@charlieknibbs6203 iam really sorry for your loss dear may his soul rest in peace. please let us know if any of your friend or relatives are looking for funeral plans. we are providing very affordable and personalized services for families all over uk.
Sorry for your loss I lost my grandfather on October 6 2020
@@jessicawood4002 thanks Jessica. Life is certainly very different but I’m glad he’s in a better place. I’m sorry for your loss.
You will see him again.
My big sister was also cremated she’s 17 tomorrow happy early birthday haley ❤️❤️❤️
RIP
Happy really late birthday
Mine was too she would be 24 this year
My heart!
That's very sad ... Sorry about that :(
How the curtain slowly closes breaks my heart so bad like I cannot imagine
I had to experience that at my grandma's service and I can confirm that it's heartbreaking to see that in person
it reminded me of the hospital curtains. yes very heart breaking.
I prefer it to the clinical, industrial experience of watching the coffin sink into the catafalque, to be honest.
At my uncle's funeral, I saw the curtain as the end of a play, the close of a life well lived. Then again, I'd already been struck by how much of the funeral itself was theatre... I guess that's why they're called funeral directors!
The curtains slowly closed at my dad’s funeral. I didn’t cry throughout the whole thing to support my siblings but when the curtains closed at the end I just broke down in tears. It felt like that’s the last time I’ll ever be so close to him
It’s so silent I can imagine watching it close I’d feel like that’s the moment they are truly gone god it’s awful
This how I want to be 'disposed' of when I go, rotting 6 feet underground is not for me. I don't want anyone now or in the future to feel beholden to tending my grave...in most cases, once those that still remember you have passed on themselves, graves tend to get forgotten and sometimes fall into a state of loneliness and disrepair that is rather sad.
Agreed 6feet under naaa
Natural burial may be an alternative you could like. For natural burial, bodies are buried unembalmed in a biodegradable shroud of coffin and allowed to become part of the earth again. Graves are marked with native plants rather gravestones, so there's no cemetery upkeep, and natural burial cemeteries are given the same government protections as traditional ceremonies, so that land will never be developed. Rather than your body simply being forgotten with time, it is given back to the earth and becomes an important part of sustaining the environment.
My father passed away 7 yrs ago and my family and I had him cremated. It took me this long to see how the process goes. He was a WWII veteran and I know one day I'll see him again in heaven.
Charles E Bright You will love, I know in my heart that you and your dear father will be reunited ❤️
And in my opinion that is what is really important!
Sorry about your dad. I lost mine in 2017 and right after my mom in 2018, they were both cremated as well. Never seen how the process goes, this just popped in on my recommendations.
Well I don't think you're going to heaven but I wish God bless you and think about the sins you've done Rest in peace
@@AhmedCT who are you tell me that I'm not going to heaven? God only knows and I trust him. Take your hateful words elsewhere.
My mom died almost 2 years ago. She was cremated in accordance with her wishes just like my father was. I went to the crematorium and said my final goodbye to mom and watched as she was put into the crematory and the door was closed. I needed that bit of finality to help me accept the loss and keep on with my life.
Don't worry.body is the food we eat,it go back to the soil where it came from.spirit never die.
Those moments are realy heavy to accept. the world is like this we need to accept it. Stay safe and healty everyone… condolances to all for who lost their loved ones
You were very brave.. I was too upset to even attend my mothers funeral. I chose to remember her alive not dead in a coffin. I have no regrets not going 8 yrs hence .She lives in my memory and heart
I can’t imagine doing this kind of work. Respect to them for doing and RIP to those who past away
I have all the respect in the world for the crematory employees and this respect that they show
I’ve come here from scattering my dads ashes after he passed away last month, still can’t believe that’s all that’s left of him now.
I can relate smh
It may be , " all that's left of him now ", but one or more things, of him are still very much alive .
Every time you speak his name, reflect on the lessons learned, the "lectures" , and all those trips , he's still alive , in you.
We're not here for long but for the time we're allowed, we do make an impact on the lives we touch.
Death is ugly and spoon sad. I just never get over it when I l lose someone, especially when I lost my mom and dad, I just never got over it. I still cry over losing them.
Kansas said it best...
All we are, are dust in the wind.
Thank you for this, now I know what to expect when it’s my turn.
They are incredibly respectful. It was nice to see how caring the staff are, handling the decedents with upmost care. Thank you for this video
Not trying this one ❤
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Man you gotta give a lot of credit to anyone who has this job.. idk how they do it.. how depressing would that be. I couldn't do it
My mum worked at a morgue for about 20 years..she loved it. Isnt that strange ?! Lol
I do cremations. It’s not that bad.
I went to my brothers cremation. Literally 30 feet away from the room he was in. Was a break room where I remember 2 people laughing about something, just having a good day at work. while we passed by. It kinda made me happy for a second.
Tell your Mother I'm proud of her sweetheart, It's not that bad sis, There is a person for every job. Respect Always Troublz. ( My nickname. ).
Dead set Flop, There is a person for every job my brother. I'm The Lone Wolf MC National President my brother I have seen things you won't believe.
Godbless you mum only just passed away recently and had funeral, I pick her ashes up this week, none of it is nice,Very upsetting I love you mum I know you spirit is here, Godbless you beautiful lady RIP
Sending you blessings 💕
@@shannon_puckett Thankyou so much 🙏
Ohhh :( I’m so sorry to hear this. I lost my mom last month on the 24th. It’s heartbreaking to say the least. Had my mom Cremated also. The funeral home where she lived in Oklahoma said they’ll be shipping the Cremains on Monday to me here in Oregon. That’s going to be a difficult day. Bless you and have a great day!
Same here. I picked up my mum's ashes yesterday and took her home to the house I was brought up in. Was very emotional but had a sense of calm and peace for the first time since she died. I miss her desperately, but am now concentrating on keeping my dad going as my heart won't bear another loss so soon, and it will devastate the rest of my family, especially the grandchildren. God Bless you Beth mc in your grief.
Sorry for your loss. I lost my mom a few years ago and I can't get over it
Thank you for such a tasteful and respectful demonstration of what occurs during an actual cremation process.
I have done this for my mother. I pushed a cardboard box in the fire hole/box and raked the larger bones(cranium and hips) back under the central nozzle, a few times.
Love is what I had in mind. Yes, this was one of those RARE moments when you do something for someone, that you REALLY wouldn't do normally… ALL ALONE with my feelings and pain, and my heart beating through my chest, I didn't want to be anywhere else. Even when the ashes were ground I stared and I absorbed the whole process… The mind calmed when it was over, and all I had left was a small plastic box with her ashes. And the thought, that maybe for once in my little life, I did something unselfishly for someone that no longer exists elsewhere than in my mind…
Mom got her wishes exactly as she needed, and my love emerged from the ashes eh…
That was beautiful And very brave of you to do that for her. I can't imagine how painful it must have been but as you described it seemed that no one else could do as good of a job as you did in caring for your mother. Thank you for sharing. I have had moments when my grandpa was dying that only I needed to do. I lived with my grandparents and I needed to be there for him and make sure he was taken care of til the very end.
Professional Commenter Same.. I was there with both of my grandparents.💕I was also Power of Attorney. The hardest thing I’ve ever done, was tell the hospital staff to not resecessitate my grandma.. it was my privilege to carry out both of their wishes.
Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever fully heal from losing them. Thankfully, I know that I will see them again soon enough.!
Bless you ❤️
@@jerilee7141 you're very fortunate to have had grandparents. I had none on both sides of my mom and dad. I often wondered what it would be like to have had grandparents. I'll never know, but the Lord will introduce me to them in Heaven.
Hugh Haefner ❤️ I am beyond blessed! Not only were they a huge part of my life, but my two daughters as well!! I do know we were/are so blessed .. but it doesn’t take away the pain I feel not having them with me.
You will meet your grandparents one day! ❤️ And one day , you may be a grandparent yourself!! 😊
Wow, I have so much respect for your strength in doing that for your mother and for sharing such a precious time with us.
And in the end we end up in a labelled cardboard box
Just when I thought my depression couldn't get any worse
Just goes to show, after all it doesn't matter if we are rich or poor, black or white, we look the same on the shelf in a box. I dont find that sad but it does make me think!
@M okay I'll listen.
@M sounds good. Interesting. I need to lose weight anyway. Lol. What about vitamins and minerals your body needs everyday.
This some deep dark shit
Thank you for this video. I'm impressed at how respectful the staff are, and how clean and modern the premises are. All of my family are cremators, as in we're always cremated when we die, but we never got to go to the "backstage area" so thank you!
4:26 I felt like he looked into soul my and told me I was next.
You are.
Ya dead, you think you can still see and hear? Got news for you, you don't
Lmao
@Hunter Stevens -- "Momentum Mori" = "Remember That You Will Die" ===== latin
Hope Trump choose cremation and have ashes kept in his Tower!
My grandad passed away last summer in 2021 and seeing this. Just broke my heart💔. Rest in peace grandad I LOVE YOU SO MUCH💞💕♥️🙏🏼
My daughter died on the 8th December 2020 aged 26, this video really helped me x x x death is a process that comes to us all x
My condolences to you. You have not lost her, she walks beside you.
rip
Josephine mead she is in heaven with god now
I’m sorry for your loss 😢 that’s my birthday I will think of your daughter this year on my birthday
Perfectly portrayal of what happens in a crematorium. Dignified, clean and reverent. Thank you!
Ta.
The closing of the curtain gave me the heebee geebees
It was the creepy music....
Elmo Bolan there was no music?
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Bless the workers there..such an important job!
My 85 year old mother died just before Christmas and was cremated at Mortlake last week ,after her funeral at
Our Lady of Grace ,Chiswick.
God Bless Her..miss her so much!
WOW, that equipment is second to none. Thank you for the information and the instruction. This process is a true alternative to a traditional burial.
Absolutely the cleanest most professional, strait to the point presentation I've ever seen. Great job gentlemen.
I just lost my aunt today. She was 67. Fought five cancers and was a Godliving woman. She wanted cremation. Also, I saw her body, and hugged her for the last time. I love you Aunt Marcia. I’ll miss you. And go run through the heavenly streets as you wished to.
So sorry for your loss, sweetheart. She's in heaven in the everlasting arms of Jesus! You will be with her again one day!
I lost my dad to a terminal brain cancer (Gleoblastoma) just over 4 yrs ago (January 16, 8am, on a Monday, 2017). No more pain, no more suffering. He to is up in heaven with Jesus our Lord & Savior. I hope dad had the pleasure of showing your Aunt Marcia around. I cant wait she be up in heaven one day. What a gloreous day that will be to be with God Jesus & the Holy Spirit, & be with my dad & other family memebers & my animals. God bless you! Take care!
I work in a crematory and I'm jealous of their equipment and facility. Very nice and professional
I'm a crematorium technican also. I'm jealous of Worthing's equipment lol
chris d I'm a technician. l worked at perrybarr. Birmingham.
Robert I'm a technician as well.
I'm at durham crematorium Robert where you based
Nichola Law do you still do it now? can't believe there is 2 of them doing it tho. I handle 12+ a day on my own
4:25 that stare went straight to my soul
When I’m on my phone in class and I look up to the teacher
Indeed to me too.
I thought you meant a dead body so I was covering my eyes💀
dope
😂
I appreciate the professionalism, care, and attention to detail with everything - end-to-end.
These guys are very professional, very dignified and seem to really enjoy what they do.
I'm amazed at just how normal it all is. Literally all in a day's work and busy busy busy.
You are all angels to those of us left by our loved ones. Thank you so very, very much for taking them thru to the end here on earth. I cant express how much your kindness means.
This was a very interesting material, possibly my only chance to see what cremation looks like. Thank you. Looks very clean and modern.
I used to work at an animal crematorium/funeral home and I must say it's the same process as we used. Your machines are very nice!!! We had a viewing room where the owners could do an "attended cremation". They found peace in watching the whole process. You guys have a very hard job, but do it so respectfully, it's comforting.♥️
Watching this video, especially at the last few minutes was interesting for me.
Where all the boxes of the ashes where stacked, made me think of how these were all people, you and me.
They all had their fair share of laughs and cries. They grew up, faced their own problems, found love, ate their favourite food, lived their lives, probably sat down on a porch thinking about life and others, only to perish one day, unknowingly in most cases.
Its a bitter feeling if you ask me, this whole "journey"
I dont really like to comment, I like to keep these thoughts to myself because if I come across them, I'd cringe at myself.
But this time, maybe I just want to let my thoughts out. Maybe I'm just scared aswell.
It’s scary knowing life will come to an end less scary when it’s no pain and you just go to sleep. This is the end for all of us either way. Much respect to the ones we’ve lost and to the staff for being respectful.
I think like this too sometimes
This life is only one phase of our existence. Before we were born, we were living in our mother's womb. We lived a completely different life. No talking to people, no eating the way we do, we didn't know about money, cars, houses, relationship, and all the worldly things.
Then comes the second phase, we were brought into this world. With a purpose. To seek the one who created us and submit to Him. We're all being tested. Some are tested with power, wealth and some are tested with sickness, poverty, adversity, disaster and so on.
Then after that comes death. A phase where our test ends and we begin to see the fruit of our deeds. Where two angels will come and ask us questions regarding our belief.
"Who is your God?"
"Who is your prophet?"
"What is your religion?"
These are the questions that everyone will be asked on their graves and know that our soul will be the one who answer, not by memory. Those who answers right will be rewarded. Whereas those who couldn't answer will be punished. Then we'll wait until comes the day of judgement.
Then we'll be resurrected from our death. Everyone from the very first human to the very last one gathers in the same place. To be judged by God himself. Then he'll put us in our final place where we'll remain exist forever. Heaven or hell.
I was surprised at how clean and professional it all looked. Lots of stainless steel and mirrors. All the people were very nice and they didn't mind answering any questions. Thanks for the video and explaining the process.
I wonder what they do with the ashes that are left behind???
Give them to the family.
I'm a crematorium technican and I thought our set up was good. Worthing's looks amazing
My brother was cremated and i was asking questions a lot then. He passed at age 46 on jan 7th 2018. RIP
Most informative video. My Dad was cremated and now I am at the age now that I am getting cremated when I pass. This video is the first video that I could see the complete process. Thank you, I am comfortable with my choice.
"and what's that in there?"
"The remains"
You don't say.
The correct term for cremated person is "cremains." Not remains.
Go inside, take a look 👀
😂
David G Scott
Well when ya ask an obvious question, You get an obvious answer!
@@mircat28 I did not know this. I think I want to be cremated but have not fully decided yet!
Thank you.. my son passed away in 2013 and was cremated.. never really knew how it was done.. now im at peace
Both men are missing fingers, must be a tricky job. I couldn't do it
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣I actually went back to the video to confirm.... nice catch there brother!
I noticed this too..
I noticed that too .
Emily Prevot you’ll be fine. if you let her free she’d be killed that day. i’m sure your guinea pig is very thankful you are taking care of her! i have a guinea pig too and a good thing to do is make a little play pen with treats and toys so she can get some exercise! she’ll love it! and for going to hell, you can do something as evil as killing someone and god will still love you and let you in heaven. don’t let little things like that worry you! good luck :)
The doors that close the chamber are extremely heavy and if they fail they can easily cut a finger off or kill you if your in the wrong spot
My late husband of 12yrs died by suicide,he was cremated. I always had curiosity about the process. Thank you for sharing
Sarah Ledgard My guy of 10 years committed suicide last September. By his wish, he also was cremated. I'll forever have more questions than I'll ever have answers. I grieve for you and I grieve with you. God Bless You. 🙏
That was the most cleanest crematorium that I've ever seen in my life I am a clean freak everything in my house has a place in a spot for it I respect those crematory employees and the respect that they show the families
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This would be a job to be proud of! It would be an honor to assist someone on their last journey, and also just knowing you are doing a service to one's family would be enough for me! IDK how you would get a job such as this, but it would be an honor to do such a thing.
I feel the same, like its a calling to serve them on their last journey. I was worried I was nuts, but glad others can see that too & its not just me! I don't work in this field but am thinking of doing so, hopefully at a crematorium with a cemetery so I can also maintain the headstones.
No expensive funeral, no embalming, no expensive casket for me. It'll be direct cremation.
That's what it will be for me as well. Straight to the point.
Same for me. But my family do not agree with this
@@sharine04 it is disgusting to have your body cremated... Burial is better for you and for the environment
@@goldeneagle3678 we do not have enough land where we live for burial. Even cemeteries that are century old are exhumed. I find cremation perfectly acceptable even for myself.
@@sharine04 nah... Launch me into space and let my body float endlessly :D
Very respectful Employees and presentation into something rarely seen. Cremation has come up recently in my family so naturally, I've been curious about the practice. Appreciate the way this is shown and the care the employees have. 💜
My grandad was loved beyond measure. We had his service at the city of London and then had his ashes committed to the sea by the Royal Navy......Portsmouth. I’ve never regretted seeing my wonderful grandad off this way. I love you gangadin! 🌹
When his time comes, my father will likewise be cremated but going to a place as revered as Portsmouth: Arlington National Cemetery
Very helpful to realise that we all die one day.
Respectful cremation and service too.
Thank you for sharing this information.
Well done and thank you for keeping this up really interesting. We all have to pass one day even the lads doing the job. Really done with up most respect that was pleasing to see. Thank you. You put my mind at ease
I remember after attending my grandmothers cremation service almost 40 years ago and standing outside and there was a horrendous smell, that must have been it taking place. Thank goodness due to the filtration system now days family’s don’t have to experience that. I can still remember the smell.
I live down the road from a crematorium. It was hot and summer and i had my window rolled down and the smoke coming from the pipe up above the funeral home was rather short. The smoke went up my nose and in my mouth and Made me so sick to think that that was someones body being burned. These idiots need to raise the pipe up higher. I had the most bizarre taste in my mouth.
was it anything like chicken
@Hessy Kat: no way, i would of complained about it. i bet u wasn't the only one who inhaled it though!!
Is it just me or does it seem like fingers are at a premium in this place? Both those chaps have digits missing.
Chrisell I was wondering how they lost them as well
Yeah i can't put a finger on it either 🤔🤔🤣🤣
Play with fire and you get your fingers burnt.
Maybe their fingers got closed up in the equipment and became part of the ashes.😕😬
Cynthia White Eagle Oh sad! “Yeah, in the Urn we have uncle George and the fingers of the people who work at the crematory!”
😂😂
I can’t be the only one who is afraid to die because when I’m in heaven I’m just going to be there watching over kids over the years and years wishing I was alive
Your soul goes to another place but your body stays here.
Dont worry, the bible said that when you're in heaven, you wont feel any negative emotion, just happiness.
Jesus assures us death is a sleep until
The Resurrection-
@@MsJENelson but still that answered where do the souls go? If in sleep?
They care so much for the deceased and the environment. This was comforting. 💕
God bless those crematory employees in the respect that they show the bodies in the families that come in
Had a direct cremation for my hubby in feb this year, no service, but we had a lovely wake for him. Quarter cost of a conventional funeral.
Attended a friends cremation today, never ceases to amaze about the lives what they had lived and had worked during their precious lives, RIP VIC far to good to be forgotten.
My Dziadek
(Grandpa) was cremated in 2017 after he passed away inside his blok in Poland. Not sure if the process is different there and to what extent but at least he is now together with Babcia (Grandma), who passed in the early 2000's. I think it is a good idea to talk with loved ones so that there is no difficult decision making to be done once someone passes away. Sometimes people prefer one type of process over another and it is important to honor that in my opinion. Personally though I would much prefer a traditional burial when my time comes (though that is still a long long time away I hope).
That's what I want when I go. Then plant me as a tree in the backyard of the house I grew up in💙💯
If you have a big ego or just think you’re better than anyone because of your wealth, looks or skills just watch this video it will remind you that in the end we are all the same. Memento Mori to you my good friend.
My Dad died 24 years ago and he wanted direct cremation. He asked that I scatter his ashes in Long Island Sound. DONE! Having to pick his ashes up was MIND BLOWING. A once healthy veteran reduced to dust. My heart will never be the same.
My mother just passed away and she wanted to be cremated. Thank you for the video showing the process.
The equipment is so modern and the facility so immaculately clean ....
My mother was cremated 6 hours ago. It was nice to see what actually happened to her. :)
Very professionally done, but I was surprised that the guy raking the red hot ashes down after the cremation was not wearing any eye protection.
5/27/20 makes a month my true LOVE died and cremated. This popped up on my feed. Thank you for the peace of mind. Ironically he enjoyed working in a funeral home. 🌷
That’s exactly what I want for myself, So my two girls can have my ashes!!
Who wants to be in the ground, where no one ever goes, and its cold and lonely.
Both my folks are cremated. They told me they didn’t like the idea of rotting in a grave.
Mine did the same
same with my mom.
I never liked that idea.
Deathheads69 especially being feasted in by my own bacteria
I want my chest cavity to be a 5star little sanctuary for a lovely family of rats
They must have both bery kind and guarded hearts to do this. Kimd because they're showing such respect and kindness in their eyes and guarded because if not youd be unable to continue to do this day after day. Thank you gents!
I spent some time working at a crematorium last year and I did witness a couple of cremations from start to finish. I really was not sure how I was going to react but it was fine. The guys that worked there were great. The thing that really struck me though, even though it is really obvious, was when they opened the door to charge the coffin, even though I was standing on the opposite side of the room, was the intensity of the heat. Even though I knew to expect it, it was still quite a shock to feel it. *braces self for trolls*
Allah root in hell like you do now
Well made and informative video, well done to everyone involved.
Thankyou. Very kind.
A good friend of mine died unexpectedly in 2011 at only 54 from a heart attack, he was cremated. He had some of his ashes scattered in his favorite river, then his favorite camping spot, and finally some placed at his poker table in his man cave. Games were still played at his place and a drink always poured for him. The winner always got the drink.
That's sweet
As a hospice worker i can tell you that you would make things so much easier on your families if you told them well in advance what you would want ( cremation, burial, etc). I myself want cremated and have written this down for all to see. Sadly our society doesn’t talk about death and dying and as a result i have seen in my work so many families not knowing what to do, fighting with each other, feeling guilty about maybe not doing what the loved one wanted, etc. Sometimes life requires tough talks and thats ok.
Daniel R absolutely, I am making a funeral wishes leaflet on the lighthearted side. So many families I meet ‘what song would your mother like’ I don’t know, it’s quite sad. People are quite happy to say they have made a will and have life insurance, but a funeral seems to be a no no. Keep up the good work Daniel, get people talking if you can. Best wishes x
My dad talked to me about his final wishes and I got emotional. But I’m glad he told us what he wanted
that crematorium looks much better than many hospitals in in dia
My fiancé passed away a little more than a year ago and I was devastated. I couldn’t bare to watch her get buried so me and her family decided that we were gonna have her cremated and let me keep her ashes. Now even though that she’s gone she isn’t fully gone because she’ll always be with me and I move a lot so where ever I go, she goes. I love you sweetheart I hope to be with you again someday❤️
It was my grandma’s funeral today and She said in her will she was going to get cremated and my mum told me to wach this and this is what’s happening right now omg!
Until now, I've always been creeped out by this process.. No more though.
The boxed ashes at 6:05, I handled those 20 years ago working in a shipping hub. On the outside was a name and dates for their life. Thanks for the tour.
“And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day” (John 6:40)
Whether we live or die, we are the LORD'S (Romans 14:7-9)
Damn I can’t imagine having this job
It's not a job.Its a profession.
@jamiebellwolf you don't embalm a body that's going to be cremated.
@@pamelahamm9628 you can. Viewings.
@@pamelahamm9628 Yes you can but I don't know why people insist on it.
I like how respectful he is. This is truly morbid stuff.
Thank you so much for sharing. I was curious about the process.
We spend most of our lives working hard, worrying and stressing over money and finances and other personal issues, then at the end,,,,, well, this video says it all .
Thank you so much for this video and for the crematorium to all0w this short documentary. My mum passed away last December and was cremated. Because the crematorium did not allow to witness the coffin to enter the cremator (which is possible in some crematoriums, understandingly this is not everybody's cup of tea but it can also be essential to achieve closure for others including myself), I found it important for me to be able to see the behind-the-scene process.
Thankyou Nathalie.
I want to be buried in Earth. Reason being that all I have taken from nature will be returned. The chemicals in My Body Will be food to microorganisms- bringing new life from My passing. My energy is thus transferred back to nature, and from me springs new life.
Gaaay
Zer0dog we just don't have the space.
cremation is wrong and I m with you
@Zer0dog if you want to be buried where populations can't live then yes there is room. Mountains where there are no roads, deserts where towns don't want to be or cannot exist.
i say go up in smoke then return the bone to bury in the earth
🤘😀woo hoo!!
Thank you. My decision to be cremated has become easier because of this video.
Ronald Abel it’s kind of preparing your self for hell coz that’s where burning takes place
@@misspamba1 why would you say that for
LittleMissFairy Bread I believe it’s hell fire beginning here on earth.
And most physicians can’t 100% prove that the dead people don’t experience pain. But it’s one good decision to either want or not want to be burned
@@misspamba1 thank you for explaining I'm actually wondering if they do actually feel pain or feel something but I'm hoping that they don't
Sadly i lost my father back 2006 R.I.P to cancer and was cremated by worthing crematorium. Dad will never be forgotten and loved by all the family and we thank the crematorium for the work thay do for our loves ones,thank you.
It's the Crem for me, the thought of turning into a stinking, sludgie goop in a box scares me !
Yeah but then the bugs and the earth can feed on your body and use it for energy 🖒
Jim Sigs and then land on someone’s sandwich after 🤮 no thanks. I’m getting cremated too lol
Dagny Forever Stop forcing your religion on others.
jamiebellwolf They deleted their comment.
Oooooh....yess!
Love the comments of I don't want to be burried I want this. What does it matter dead is dead.
my brother passed away January 8th, and he got cremated, just having flashbacks now of when the curtain started to close, everyone was literally crying their eyes out :( god bless his soul RIP broo xxxx
❤ everything is going to be fine ❤
@@Enjoying1301 thank you! hes gone but never forgotten xxxx
This whole process looks like star bucks for corpses, the metal cup for ashes, latte anyone? no, burial for me please.
🔵No cremation for me. No burial for me. No crypt, or embalming for me. Gee. I guess I'll have to live forever. There is no pleasant alternative. A loved one was cremated in Jan. I was inconsolable thinking of him burned into ashes then pulverized into a fine ash & bone. Why does the end have to be so awful?😝
@@muse7746 there is a new method it dissolved the body in acid it's a lot more gentle
@@richlee509🔵😲 What? Are you kidding me? Lyme can also dissolve a body. I think that is gruesome. NOT for me tyvm. You try it & get back to me.🤔
@@muse7746 no it's not lyme it's the next big thing in the industry.
@@muse7746 it's a new process called alkaline hydrolysis
I mean no disrespect but the operators are both missing fingers. Was this caused in some way by the job or just coincidence?
I've been searching for a video just like this that shows the inside of the creamatory while burning. Fascinating!
wow this was a great video im sad it was so short please do a full documentary on this subject along with normal burial
that's so funny hey mommy what's that sound oh its just pop popping.😂😇
Having scattered two person's remains, your ashes look exactly like kitty litter.
My brothers was more like white sand. Looked like salt or sugar kind of.