It’s good to quit delaying that one thing you know will be uncomfortable with but inevitably good for yourself. The voice in your head is exactly only that, a voice. Just because what it says sounds reasonable, doesn’t mean it is. Face your fears here, take action today: discord.gg/f7d9FDEA7T
Every personality is just a list of behavior. It has to do with doing, not being at all. For example: "I am a kind, popular, a doctor, an influencer". This describes that you practice kindness sometimes (a doing), how people or yourself view your influence over others (something you do also), and your job and maybe hobby (both doings). This has nothing to do with who you are. Identification with doings or the things you own etc. is ego. A mind-made, false sense of self. Who you actually are, is not an idea in your mind about who you are, it is a feeling. It can be felt when you empty the mind of all thoughts for an extended period of time. Why do most young people go to the gym? -To become someone better, because they have identified with the appearance of the body. This is also not who you are. Or they want to buy expensive things, because they identify with the things they own. All of this is illusion. And you never truly own anything btw. One day you inevitably lose every single material object that can be acquired. So if I buy a Ferrari tomorrow, its more close to reality to say that I pay to borrow it for the long term. One day it will turn to rust, get stolen, or my body dies and I leave it.
It’s good to quit delaying that one thing you know will be uncomfortable with but inevitably good for yourself.
The voice in your head is exactly only that, a voice. Just because what it says sounds reasonable, doesn’t mean it is.
Face your fears here, take action today: discord.gg/f7d9FDEA7T
Every personality is just a list of behavior. It has to do with doing, not being at all. For example: "I am a kind, popular, a doctor, an influencer". This describes that you practice kindness sometimes (a doing), how people or yourself view your influence over others (something you do also), and your job and maybe hobby (both doings). This has nothing to do with who you are. Identification with doings or the things you own etc. is ego. A mind-made, false sense of self. Who you actually are, is not an idea in your mind about who you are, it is a feeling. It can be felt when you empty the mind of all thoughts for an extended period of time. Why do most young people go to the gym? -To become someone better, because they have identified with the appearance of the body. This is also not who you are. Or they want to buy expensive things, because they identify with the things they own. All of this is illusion. And you never truly own anything btw. One day you inevitably lose every single material object that can be acquired. So if I buy a Ferrari tomorrow, its more close to reality to say that I pay to borrow it for the long term. One day it will turn to rust, get stolen, or my body dies and I leave it.