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Mark Santos
Добавлен 12 сен 2023
Today is your day to change yourself forever.
If you're ambitious but lazy, please watch this video
If you feel stuck, disconnected, or like you’re not living authentically, this is your wake-up call.
Learn how to face discomfort, make tough decisions, and embrace the pain necessary for personal growth.
🔖 Timestamps
00:00 - Why you’re not taking action
00:29 - The key to authenticity
01:00 - The dissatisfaction of ignoring your values
01:28 - The loneliness of ambition
02:22 - My story: A relationship misaligned with my values
03:50 - The pain of inauthenticity and breaking free
04:47 - The path to growth
05:13 - Overcoming habits that hold you back
06:05 - Facing fears
06:36 - Laziness and running from your purpose
07:29 - Take the hard steps today
Learn how to face discomfort, make tough decisions, and embrace the pain necessary for personal growth.
🔖 Timestamps
00:00 - Why you’re not taking action
00:29 - The key to authenticity
01:00 - The dissatisfaction of ignoring your values
01:28 - The loneliness of ambition
02:22 - My story: A relationship misaligned with my values
03:50 - The pain of inauthenticity and breaking free
04:47 - The path to growth
05:13 - Overcoming habits that hold you back
06:05 - Facing fears
06:36 - Laziness and running from your purpose
07:29 - Take the hard steps today
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If you've lost the drive for your goals (then this video is for you)
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You are meant to grow and evolve. As a result your dreams, your goals and your desires evolve alongside of it. Embrace the changes and follow your new path, and if you ever feel lonely in your journey, know that I am experiencing the same. 📌 Timestamps: 00:00 - Why you don’t have to settle for an old dream 00:26 - Understanding how your values and desires evolve 01:20 - The difference between r...
It's so easy to become your greatest self
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This is what I have to do in order to become my greatest self. To kill my doubts. To overcome my fears. And to conquer my perfectionism. Unreleased music: drive.google.com/drive/folders/1qgsEA_pvUA19PberT262H-mK6zNBaWXc?usp=sharing Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Becoming your greatest self isn't as hard as you think 00:26 - The power of long-term thinking vs. short-term decisions 00:53 - Per...
Don't listen to your brain
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As ambitious men, we often face the struggle of self-doubt, fear, and resistance that hold us back from becoming our greatest selves. In this video, I share my personal experience of battling these thoughts and pushing through fear to take action, even when my mind tells me not to. I hope my experience with fear can inspire you to overcome your self-doubt and build the confidence you desire to ...
Sobriety is RARE
Просмотров 159 часов назад
I stopped trying to fit in as an ambitious man. Self-doubt, bad habits, and the desire to belong in the wrong environment have set me back more often than helped me. Discover the challenges I faced, the lessons I learned, and how you can avoid making the same mistakes as I did. And make more progress quicker towards becoming your greatest self. Let's grow together. Timestamps: 00:00 - Why ambit...
Choose your path
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It's on you to choose whether you want to live life in a cute way, or to suffer and grow in the areas you care about. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Two Paths 00:27 - The Illusion of Productivity 00:58 - Fighting Self-Doubt and Taking Action 02:00 - The 80/20 Rule: Focus on What Matters 02:35 - Temporary Pain vs. Long-Term Pleasure 03:05 - Instant Gratification: Why It Holds You Back 04:...
The ambitious must change this behaviour
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Start changing how you use your ambition in order to become consistent in becoming your greatest self. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Why talking about goals slows progress 00:28 - The danger of talking too much and not taking action 01:56 - Overcoming the temptation of comfort and excuses 02:47 - Humility and learning from early successes 03:45 - Dealing with failure and not letting it dest...
What your ambitious side hates to accept
Просмотров 22016 часов назад
As an ambitious person your overcommitted drive may lead to make less progress than you desire. It most likely leads you to ignoring the fundamentals of growth, think of the student mindset, work ethic and long term thinking. Timestamps: 0:00 - Why Ambitious People Resist Slowing Down 0:31 - The Cost of Skipping Steps in Personal Growth 1:01 - Learning From My Own Reckless Decisions 1:35 - Why ...
What gives you the audacity to judge your work?
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It's so easy to judge your work, which then leads to self-doubt, scrapping your idea and possibly reaching the hearts of those who needed to hear your message. If you're an ambitious person, you most likely have the tendency to create this negative cycle that leads you nowhere closer to your goals. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Judging Your Own Work 00:28 - Battling Negative Thoughts and In...
Why The Lone Wolf Strategy fails
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If I wasn't so arrogant in believing that I would succeed by going on The Lone Wolf Strategy, then perhaps I would have made a lot more progress in my life. Take my experience as a lesson to have you grow quicker as an ambitious man, working a full time job to navigate the world in a more realistic and humble way. Embrace your reality, and use your greatness to the best of your capability to en...
You have to become bored
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Becoming bored and embracing the uncomfortable texture of life will help you to find the asnwers you need. I hope many more men learn to embrace boredom and find comfort within it. To finally wake up and live up to their greatest selves, instead of wasting away, consuming when they could be producing. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Why embracing boredom is key to personal growth 00:28 - The ...
You don't want to work full time in order to follow your passion?
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Are you working a full-time job and dreaming of quitting to follow your passion? In this video, I break down the hard truth about why passion alone won’t get you there. Passion is fleeting; what really matters is building discipline, resilience, and long-term thinking. Drawing from my personal experience of quitting jobs to chase my dreams, I’ll share why learning to manage discomfort, staying ...
Know your limits
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In this video, I dive deep into the importance of knowing your limits and pushing slightly beyond them to unlock your full potential. Inspired by The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida, I’ll show you how embracing humility and overcoming ego can lead to real, lasting growth. Whether you're an ambitious man striving for self-improvement or someone balancing a full-time job while pursuing per...
I now understand why I always failed monk mode
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I now understand why I always failed monk mode
Do you even know why your beliefs matter?
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Do you even know why your beliefs matter?
If I didn't let go of this one thing I'd remain lost
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If I didn't let go of this one thing I'd remain lost
The life of the ambitious is filled with pain
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The life of the ambitious is filled with pain
Is this your limit? (you're joking right?)
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Is this your limit? (you're joking right?)
You actually enjoy being weak (admit it)
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You actually enjoy being weak (admit it)
You want to change, but you’re not sacrificing enough
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You want to change, but you’re not sacrificing enough
LETS GROOOOW !!💪🏾💪🏾 I work 9 days straight 12 hour shifts to reach my goal thanks brother 🫡
Let’s go brother! What kind of job do you work that has you working 12 hour shifts on a 9 day regime?
This is a very great video. You have gave us great pieces of advice!
@@shashsr2080 I’m absolutely grateful for the time you invest into watching these videos! I hope they can continue to provide you with relevant value!
Great contet men. Got a subscriber
@@geovaneandrade9154 Thank you brother! It’s lovely to have you here!
Great message, thanks a lot!
@@orlyounotinbaires Thank you for taking the time to write a comment!
This thought came to me this morning: during tough times, we often think things aren't going as expected. We try to reason it with "It's because of this or that... it'll pass soon." But as life goes on, we eventually realize that our assumptions were wrong. The point is, when something happens to us and becomes a reality, we tend to accept it as fact/truth . Eventually when that turns out to be incorrect, we regret. World isn't how you think it should be, but the way it is and it will treat you according to the common world rule which has been treating everybody in this world ever. By the way, I had also written a certain blog about it (about acceptance) Not to promote, but as this is the context, I just want to share it. rshashwot.blogspot.com/ Thank you for constantly uploading such a good self-help content.
Bro, love your content and I promise you if you keep on going you will get somewhere
@@ZapToons-y16 Yoo brother, thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to leave this amazing comment behind! Let’s get there together, what do you think?
Yeahh, as it is said- It takes considerable amount of knowledge to realize the extent of your own ignorance. You are in the phase of unproductivity, you won't know much except 'okay I've missed to do this." When you are back in the productive stage- you will slowly regain thoughts about ignorance and loss. It instills me with endless motivation and inspiration every time your new video pops up in my notification bar and reminds me the word- consistency.
Usually when people realise their loss they become afraid, afraid they will lose it all again and sometimes hold on to an idea that was only meant to take them to a specific spot, which was meant to evolve into something new. Thank you so much for your beautiful words, sometimes it even makes me speechless. I appreciate you deeply. Keep striving in becoming your greatest self!
Life is hard.
@@shashsr2080 absolutely, and the goal is to make it easier, but for that we must do what is required to set that up.
"but for that we must do what is required to set that up" thanks so much.
Let’s grooow 💪🏾🫡
Great Video, I have had 2-3 youtube channels over the past 3 years and I always ended up getting unmotivated which lead to me not uploading and wondering why I havent seen any progress with views, and "success". And looking back on that, I really never put in enough effort and time. I would do the bare minimum of editing, script writing, etc. and it showed. I was unable to grow as a person and a content creator because of it. I have enjoyed listening to your video, I've watched it a couple times. Keep going, keep working, and we will both get to our end goals one day. I just need to learn to love the journey more than the destination.
@@simplyvoids Thank you so much for leaving this comment behind and opening up about your story. It takes a lot of energy and huge level of humility to accept what areas held you back in your journey. This is something that honestly does happen to me as well from time to time. I often times don’t want to do the work. My alarm goes off in the morning and I feel afraid of having to sit down and do the work. Yet I have a hot burning reason to why I have to do this and keep going, and to put in the necessary work to make content. Your reason for wanting to do this must emotionally drive you to push forward. It has to be so emotionally strong that it sounds almost stupid for not doing it. Think of this: If I don’t sit down, accept my areas of improvement, persevere and do the work, I will never be able to have my kids grow up without a present father. If I don’t sit down, accept my areas of improvement, persevere and do the work, I will always have to see my wife suffer working a full time job instead of being a free woman. If I don’t sit down, accept my areas of improvement, persevere and do the work, I will never be a free man and instead have to listen to a boss who would lie, ignore my values and disrespect me, all because he has no proper values. What would be your strong emotional “WHY” that motivates you to persevere during the dark and ugly?
I feel like this video showed up to me at the right time. I too make music and just released an album earlier this month. I was judging myself and going through self-doubt and heavily judging my work because of the high standards I hold myself to when it comes to making art. I have also found myself in the same situation as you mentioned at 5:25 where you mentioned, thinking your work is good and then when you show people they dont think the same and vice versa. Its quite strange but interesting how people see things differently. Thank you for making this video and reading my comment. All the best to you. 💚
Thank you taking the time out of your day to leave this comment behind with your own experience related to it. Always hold yourself to your high standards. They signify a core value that you have which most likely can be defined as QUALITY. Yet never forget that there is always something to learn and to sharpen up skills wise. That will contribute towards realising your core value. And as a result you will keep getting better the more you show up and work on the skills that need refining. Congratulations btw! You already did that what most people wouldn’t dare to do and that is to take action. More power to you!
Watching this at 2x speed
The Real Slim Shady
Your videos are really helping me on my journey 💪🏾
@@essmunchie1257 Shout out to to you brother for working on becoming your greatest self! In what area of your journey is it helping you in?
Let’s grooow !!
LETS GROOOW!!
@@essmunchie1257 dedication!!
LETS GROOOOW !!
Let’s GROOOW !!
Great content, I'm still here btw.
Amazing to still have you here, how has your RUclips journey been so far?
Thank you for letting us ride along on your journey🪖🫡
@@anatolenduwayo7439 Shout out to you brother for taking the time out of your day to write something so lovely! You’re a day one 💪🏼
Talent is no guarantee for wealth, nor does it mean you don’t have to work hard. Thank you for the reminder to stay focussed and to work hard 🙏
@@ThePennymoney Hey thank you for taking the time out of your day to express your gratitude in a comment. It was my pleasure to serve you 🫡
Je hebt juiste conclusies getrokken!!
I've never made music bto. Yet here I am. I have a thousand songs, and they just pour out of me. I have never worked a second in my life for my music. It has all been fun and games, and I'd like to keep it that way. Now I've got a manager, who pushes me, and perhaps it's good. Whatever happens, I'll always play my songs. Always. And forever. And perhaps even after I die.
@@kebman hey man, thank you for leaving taking the time out of your day to leave this comment behind. That’s absolutely sick you experience this. I wish you a lot of success in your music career and may it continue to flourish your life!
This is just what I needed to hear today. Thanks a lot
@@orlyounotinbaires Hey, thank you for leaving this comment behind! I am more than grateful that my words were of service to you.
Thank you I needed this video. You perfectly brought to words what I have been thinking for a while now. While I do already perform extraordinary well compared to my peers, it really has given me an excuse to waste time. I'm 19 now and you gave me a perfect reality check that I should not be stupidly confident that I'll just magically manifest my goals into existence (which are so overly ambitious that I won't even bother sharing them to anyone)
@@Juipukka Thank you for dedicating time out of your day to write out this beautiful comment. Ego really is the enemy. You have an advantage, but it can very well be a disadvantage as you experienced yourself. It’s on you to take the necessary action in order to achieve your goals. And when you do you’ll most likely realise that you got a long way to go because it’s going to be hard. But that’s fine. And it’s perfectly fine that you aren’t that good yet. As long as you continue to work towards it something good will happen. I wish you a lot of luck brother!
What is the origin of xour family name? Szántós?
@@ExploderMaster18 I am of Portuguese descent.
Keep it up man!!
@@ReadThis_ love!
Great Video bro. Thank you.
@@Axeman12334 hey man thank you for taking the time out of your day to leave a comment behind. Shout out to you! What did you like about the video?
@@MarkdosSantostalking about yourself and your experiences is what made this video legit for me. Keep going man.
@ Thank you for leaving this feedback behind. It will further help me in clarifying how to be of greater service for you all.
LETS GROOOOW !!
bro why u are not famous؟؟؟
not everyone is a narcissist.
@@Learnguitartoday Thank God this isn’t the case.
@@MarkdosSantos the video looks like it targets those types of people tho. Not all of us r like that
@@Learnguitartoday well yes, this video is intended to target those who experience(d) something similar, who can relate and hopefully learn from someone else.
What’s are some good books to read bro if you got time
@@essmunchie1257 depends on what you’re interested in brother. Anything specifically you got on your mind?
@@MarkdosSantos motivational books inspiring books books on the best way to start discipline
@ great one brother. 2 good books I can recommend you is “The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy”. And “The War Of Art by Steven Pressfield.” These were game changers for me and I still read them again from time to time.
I’m glad you recorded it 💪🏾💪🏾 Let’s grow bro
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 Let’s grow bro
Let’s grow bro
if you're not 6'4 with a chiseled face, you have no right to think you're way above people lol. How did you think you were way better than others?
What a funny way of defining who can and who can’t feel like they can be above anyone else. To answer your question. Ego blinds.
Even if you are you shouldnt think you're above anyone, its more about perspective and being secure with yourself.. ive seen shorter guys with more game and confidence
Your height determines your worth? What awful mindset. Especially considering genetics play a big role in height.
GOOD Content.💯💫
Thank you for taking some time out of your day for leaving this comment behind!
LETS GROOOW !!
@@essmunchie1257 This energy is wild! Let’s goooo
LETS GROOOOW
You neither, but i'm better than you
Есть поговорка: Тише едешь, дальше будешь
Glad I caught this hidden gem. This resonates so damn much! We are both going to grow sooner than later !!
@@djey_music Let’s go brother! Keep thinking long term, make decisions according to who you want to be, and where you want to go. One way or another the hard work will pay off!
"because one day the decision you make will dictate your future". decisive moment--it is the best and the worst thing I know. Could please make a video about resilience as well? Thank you. The video popped out in my recommendation and I'm here. Hope we all have a great future! Thanks man!
@@shashsr2080 Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment behind. I’ll do my best to have it released by next week. I wish you an amazing future ahead! Let’s make the best out of it.
LETS GROOOOW!!
Love your videos brother 💪🏾💪🏾
🤦🏾♂️ I have trouble with this all the time over thinking everything
@@essmunchie1257 Does it impact your behaviour and the decisions you make?
The unknown is scary 😅 but it must be explored to get the goals accomplished
LETS GROOOW😂 💪🏾
Discipline !!! 💪🏾🫡
6:54 Regrets 😢 it eats at you
I have 12 hour to work I’m listening brother
This is the first video I’ve seen of yours keep going I’m going to grow with your channel 💪🏾🤞🏾
@@essmunchie1257 Shout out to you brother, love the energy you’re bringing in the comments!