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25 Wrong Mindset Christians Have About Sex | Ep3 | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Опубликовано: 9 мар 2022
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Wrong Mindsets (Watch Video For Full Gist😊):
11) I can’t have sex when I am fasting.
12) Women shouldn’t/don’t enjoy sex.
13) Oral sex is a sin
14) Missionary style is the only biblicalized style.
15) We should not talk about sex.
Yes, fasting does not change or move God, it changes you. Thank you, PK! 🥰
Snake in the mo key shadow .. that movie is still 🔥🔥🔥
“Flex…. Just Flex” 👍🏾
‘Don’t kill yourself’ 🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Thank you Sor. I like the part of "dont kill yourselves lolz
Sir please it’d be nice to have the topics title in the video title to best navigate. 🙏🏾
God bless you pastor K!! Soo enlightening
God bless you Pastor..
Thank you sir for this lessons. After all of this I still have a mindset I'd like you to help me clear. Many times I want to watch movie once I found out it has so many sex scene I run from it(and you know how all these american movies makes the scene look like) So if I must watch I fast forward the areas because it makes me feel like I'm sining by watching. I'll appreciate your quick response sir 🙏🏾
Yeah he is pretty biblical in this,looking at sex biblically is how we should As with any other thing. As Paul said The husband doesn't own his body but is his wives and the wife doesn't own her body but is her husband. So as long as it's loving and follows all the biblical principles and what is meant for the biology God gave us the husband or wife has to give them with submission, joy, and pleasure what they ask for and if they don't it's a sin. So if the wife or husband wants like oral sex then they should give it to them not begrudgingly as they should want that anyway. Wives should submit to their husbands and the husband should love his wife. Feminism is unbiblical and women are not independent as the man in a marriage is the head of the household. Technically there is no such thing as consent only if both partners don't want to do something. Song of Solomon is what God gave us to be adventurous just make sure you find someone who wants to live as God intended man and women and gender roles and all of that as that is way more beautiful.
If the women let's say says to the man that I prayed to God and decided Im going on a fast and won't be having sex with you for now -thag is unbiblical and she didn't hear from God on that because what God would say to her is did you ask your man first? And she should make this up to him maybe by oral sex on her knees to show her submissiveness but not just as an apology but that she should really want to please him as he should want to please her. As marriage is about sacrifice and God made man to have sex as a need and it affects his life in his business, kids, home in everything and he is to protect and love her. The thing is that so much of culture has seeped into the church and it dilutes what God designed. What each person wants from sex is already determined by their gender and biology, the man being more visual will be satisfied more by the physical aspect and the women being more relational will be more satisfied by her need to be desired and her more of her need for children. Biblically God gives great freedom in this to live and to explore the only area that is never to be messed with is the anus as that contains many bacteria that is not clean and sterile like the genitals and mouth and hands and that and is out of God's design and would be evil sin. The dumb Catholic Church has done so much evil to God's gift of sex and must be dismissed as man made doctrines and heresies. When we gained the knowledge of good and evil we did not gain a perfect knowledge of good and evil but some know it more than others like gifts of discernment, spiritual maturity and different things I can't get into other enormous depth here but the human concience is not perfect and sometimes must be calibrated just as God told Peter that nothing was unclean anymore or else they could just be a weak Christian and not realize the Christian freedom they have in Jesus.
@max Siemens, I m an Anglican but calling the catholic church dumb is unacceptable. If we claim to be believers then we should learn how to correct people in love and not depict denominational supremacy
@@nnenniaifepe5073 Infant Baptism, worshipping Mary, so many icons, Pelagianism, and a whole bunch of other things like most of them trusting in their Pope more than the Bible, most of the Catholic Church is a watered down Gospel shell of religion with not much relationship or meaning. So yeah I don't even think Satan attacks many of them because a lot of them aren't even saved and if they are they don't really know their Bible and are dumb at best and heretical at worst and that is the nicest way I can say it. The Catholic Church is nothing really anymore same as the Presbyterian and a whole bunch of other denominations. And I am also non denominational I just like at things Biblically. If anything Paul would probably say some harsher words to them like he did some of the churches in his day that their light would be removed. God gave us a brain to use so yeah as it says my people perish for lack of knowledge. Most of the Catholic Church is pathetic these days at least in the middle ages it was a force but now it has bowed so much to the culture and the ones that haven't still have dumb and umbilical and even evil practices and doctrines so yeah they are dumb at best and heretical and evil at worst.
Thank you Pst K!😂
I just love the details
Please I need this to be answered does having sex before ministering wrong? Would it be distracting
It stabilizes the minister my dear. There’s nothing wrong about having sex with your spouse before ministration. It reliefs the minister from that pressure and let him/her focus lest he/she be tempted even during ministration
Ride on sir 😂
Oral sex within the context of marriage isn’t a sin but what about singles or those in a relationship? Is it a sin and id kissing permissible as well?
Anything sexual is a sin if you are single. In other words, do not do what you would not want your future spouse (husband/wife) to do with someone else outside of your union.
@chiny pro, the bible is clear about fornication and sex is only allowed within the context of marriage for believers.
The bible said that we should flee from all appearances of sin.
Kissing breaks boundaries for us and draws us close to penetration.
Kissing and cuddling are all part of sex
Sorry sir, am not married though but during fasting there alot things that can disconnect one spiritually sex is one of them, so is possible to sleep with Ur wife and still remain connected spiritually
Watch the video and understand
1)As you are not married you don't have any business with sex ideally so you can fast without been disconnected .
2) He said you can seek permission from your spouse or wife before you decide to avoid sex during fast and it should be for a short time.. and if she/he refuses you can shift the fast for later because fasting is of more benefit to you then it is to God. So if you can't sleep with your wife and still be spiritually connected then communicate with her and seek her consent .
unless you have both agreed to stay away. but having sex itself while fasting is okay
Hello pastor. How do I reach out to you sir?
I asked this before, please I need an answer🙏 is this page or post mainly for married couples???
I think married and mature singles, but the practice is strictly within marriage
Oga Calm down. Lol
Sir how many hours should we ideally have sex especially as a man how many hours for knacking?
Pastor please can you state where it is written in the Bible about different types of fasting. Enlighten me. In the Bible prophets and men of God fasted with no water no food. Jews fast with no water and no food. Muslims eat early in the morning before fast but the still fast with no water no food. Hindus do not partake in any food or water for a set number of days during fast. Like you said fasting help spirit becoming alive, being attuned, body going down and we fast for yourself. I hope you also know people fast for a reason. Even though God has blessed us but most people have to fast and pray to unlock the blessing. Grace is different, some people don't even pray or fast but God keep blessing them. Some prophet in the Bible before the had from God or received something from God the fasted. Esther Fasted for the Safety of the Jews. Jesus Fasted to overcome temptation. Moses went without food and drink for forty days, which led to God listening to Moses and gave him the ten commandment. Daniel Fasted for an Answer to Prayer. Fasting gain favour, grace, blessing, spiritual understanding etc. Fasting enlist God’s help. Fasting releases God's supernatural power. It is a tool we can use when there is opposition to God's will. Satan would like nothing better than to cause division, discouragement, defeat, depression, and doubt among us. Prayer and fasting has always been used by God to deal a decisive blow to the enemy. In the bible, they people of God fasted in their room or mountain. Moses fasted for 40 days on the mountain. Jesus in the wilderness to avoid distraction. But now people go to work, see people eat, see alot distraction. So thinking of food is common. The main thing is to keep pushing on your fast and overcome the thinking of food temptation. Matthew 4:1-11
At that time Jesus was led by the Spirit into the desert to be tempted by the devil. He fasted for forty days and forty nights and afterwards was hungry. The tempter approached and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command that these stones become loaves of bread. Maybe Jesus was thinking about food for the devil to tempt him with food. We are human and God understands. To strave is not easy and you're not God to decide if thinking of food when fasting is waste of fast. When you fast with no food, the devil tempts you with food and other things. Let people do what works for them and dont discourage people who try to fast and think of food. Please let God decides who to rebuke.Thank you.
Daniel fasted off the kings meat. Him and the 3 hebrew boys only ate vegetables. So that's a kind of fast too. Read Daniel 1.
@ Chibuikem Emechebe- Daniel was of a group that were chosen as slaves because they were highly accomplished and highly intelligent and educated, and strong and healthy, and so were fed luxury foods as they were “luxury slaves” in a way. The King wanted them healthy and well-fed so he could show them off. However, Daniel couldn't count on Babylonian food being “kosher”, so my guess he asked for only vegetables so he could stay obedient to God's commandments regarding diet. Asking to go vegetarian was probably easier than asking for only kosher meats.
Daniel 1: 8 But Daniel resolved in his heart that he would not defile himself with the king’s delicacies or with the wine he drank. So he asked the principal court official for permission not to defile himself in this way. He did not want to make himself unclean by eating food that was prohibited for the Jews under the Law covenant. Daniel had been avoiding the eating of meat (rich foods) sacrificed to idols, or perhaps food that was non-kosher or not in accord with Jewish dietary laws. As a result, he (and his companions) chose to eat only vegetables and water: the chief of the eunuchs said to Daniel, “I fear lest my lord the king, who appointed your food and your drink, should see that you were in poorer condition than the youths who are of your own age. So you would endanger my head with the king.Then Daniel said to the steward whom the chief of the eunuchs had appointed over Daniel, Hanani′ah, Mish′a-el, and Azari′ah.Test your servants for ten days; let us be given vegetables to eat and water to drink. Then let our appearance and the appearance of the youths who eat the king’s rich food be observed by you, and according to what you see deal with your servants.” So he hearkened to them in this matter, and tested them for ten days.
At the end of ten days it was seen that they were better in appearance and fatter in flesh than all the youths who ate the king’s rich food. So the steward took away their rich food and the wine they were to drink, and gave them vegetables..
Oga Calm down. Lol