Dealing With Narcissists was HARD Until I Understood These 7 Tactics
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- Опубликовано: 29 июн 2024
- Welcome back! Today, we're diving deep into the topic of narcissism-a pattern of behavior that can severely impact your life, health, and happiness. Ever felt like you're living in the shadow of someone's arrogance or self-centered attitudes? That’s the silent battle with a narcissist.
What you'll learn in this video how to break free from the vicious cycle:
🧠 Understanding Narcissism: A deep dive into what narcissism really involves-different types, traits, and the notorious Dark Tetrad.
💔 Personal Stories: I share my transformative journey from feeling lost and controlled, to breaking free and finding happiness.
🛡️ Strategies to Break Free: Learn seven powerful methods to counteract narcissistic control. From self-care to assertive communication, these strategies are game-changers.
😢 Emotional Impacts: Discover the emotional turmoil caused by narcissists and how to start healing.
What's your story with a narcissist? I'd love to hear in the comments below!
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Timestamps:
0:00 - My Personal Story and Transformation
1:28 - Understanding Narcissism: Types and Traits
4:18 - Are Parents to Blame?
5:56 - How to spot a Narcissist?
7:52 - My story with narcissists in love, friendship and business
11:55 - 1. Be Slippery
15:51 - 2. Recruit Your Shadow
17:59 - 3. Disengagement with REDCAR
20:58 - 4. Physical Distance
22:49 - 5. Humouring to Disarm
26:44 - 6. Become Disagreeable
28:28 - 7. Regaining Authority
31:40 - Importance of Relationship with Self
32:15 - My Favourite Self-Care Practices
34:20 - Final Words
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That narrator is brilliant and absolutely right about narcissists. Narcissistic abuse is "Twisted reality meant to hurt you." Guard your feelings and your heart. Don't internalize narcissistic abuse. Your story is more important than theirs.
Appreciate your words! Absolutely agree in getting incredibly clear on your own internal story, so it outcompetes theirs. Much love
I can relate. Thank God i finally let go of him after 30 yrs.
Better late than never. Now I hope your perspective, now makes all the future you have ahead of you, that much richer. Sending best wishes
We all have a hard life , and don’t hurt others. They are selfish, will only do something to take 100 times more.some of them are catered to
Since I live with one until I can finally leave, have flying monkeys friends who are stuck in relationships with same people and I will need to interact with those for the sake of them this is hella helpful. Thank you so much for going into details when speaking about tactics.
I've been in your shoes. It's temporary, and ALL about boundaries - as cliché as it might sound. See the light at the end of the tunnel, be firm, and trust your gut! Thanks for being here
I love your content and presentation. I just walked out from a 22 years of toxic marriage. Not easy decision to make but I have to do it before I totally lose my self identity and respect.
"Khirul the Courageous" is now your new name. You've made an incredibly brave choice, and no doubt the quality of your life will thank you for it. The best is yet to come.
@@josh.campbell Cheers mate. Just what I needed now.
Thorough, concise & well-said.
Keep-up-the great work(s.)
More to come Ozzie, appreciate your brilliant encouraging energy!
Well, i mean, i just had a guy tell me i dont count. 😂❤
6:44 I love the combination of the Drama Triangle with the narcissistic type. I recently stopped a hoovering attempt by a "flying monkey" when I accused her of playing rescue games on behalf of the narcissist.
Thank you ! Amazing presentation ! ❤
Absolutely brilliant. Plan to read the books on surviving narcissism and narcissistic abuse.
Appreciate you both for being here! My favourite of all on this subject is "The highly sensitive person's guide to dealing with toxic people" - Shahida Arabi
This was absolutely tremendous, Thank you so much for this I'm new to your channel, Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe, All glory to the most high :-)
Grateful the algo Gods connected us! Thanks for watching, and stay tuned for more to come - especially this weekend!
@@josh.campbell You're very welcome, I really enjoyed your video, God bless you :-)
Thanks for sharing you experiences
you're welcome, thanks for watching - Glad they helped!
hi....please lose the noises and overwhelming music.....it competes with your voice....
thanks for the feedback, future uploads will keep this in mind! See you on the next one;)
Then don't watch the video.
@@CarterKid-ft8ev mind your business
Very well explained and I also like the way you broke down these topics. I would very much like if you could do a topic on Flying monkeys ! I have had a severe smear campaign going for about a year, stalking, spying and car instances where by the will over take me one or two at a time, fast. push me into another lane on the motorway, prity scary, but I won't give up. I'm not in a relationship with the covert narcissists, she was my neighbour and has since moved abroad but still is operating to her flying monkeys, SOCIAL MEDIA !!!!
It's scary how their seductive influence, and faux power position manipulates others to do their bidding. In the instance you mention, it's worth notifying the authorities. I'd also highly recommend confronting the "flying monkeys" with non aggression and assertiveness, as you may start to reason, and help them "see their spell". Hope the video helps
Tell me about it, the trauma in the body lingers. They are demon possessed. Covert is a green snake in the grass, victim and covert, then you have the type who shift
keep all of the types in mind! They can be equally as dangerous
You don’t have to go through all that give them what they crave give it knowingly but falsely premeditate a drop shot it prepares you/unprepares them they like to think they have you where they want you
Not a bad tip! Rehearsing the ultimatum is always a good move to avoid the emotional takeover and going back on your decision. Thanks for the add!
Am I hearing bristol or Bath?love that part of the world
Nailed it, Bristol! 'Alreet me lover?
@@josh.campbell 😆 good on ya Pal ,love your content 👏
I'm a narcissist. Please, don't outsmart me!
Pretend you didn't see this video! ;)
I do not think any narc would admit to being a narc.❤️
Can you elaborate why and how?
You are not credible as a narcissist 😁
@@inpersonaDKthey wear a mask, one of their biggest fears is being exposed . Moreover, they believe that they are normal, to accept a dark label such as narcissism is to destroy their delusion.
My problem is apparently everyone is a narcissist when others do not get their own way. I didn't know I was a narcissist until my wasn't getting her way. I am controlling, toxic, etc etc. My wife is a very experienced Psychoanalyst. She learned everything from tiktok. I think she is certified. However, I am also (apparently) a people pleaser. So I don't know.
Cannot concentrate on your dialogue with background music's beat.
Future videos will keep this in account! Seems like most are dealing with it - appreciate your feedback
@@josh.campbell Thanks josh and I will continue to return to enjoy your new work.