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No, that is not a french woman, she is just a gold digger woman :) No parisian goes to luxury hotel to date a woman. If you go to Mcdonald, you may be happy whe you see the price ...
I'd love to see "what French women wear to the office" next. I love the subtly sexy French style for evenings and weekends, but how do French women dress at work? Do they keep it sexy or is it more conservative?
@@ibrahimkante6022 😂😂😂,seriously!! how can somebody come to the internet and say that proudly in 2020... some ppl still live in the 1800's in their minds
No - charisma can be practiced, and eventually learnt. She is more secure of herself because she's pretty by all french standards. Also, developing your personality helps. Work on yourself, put yourself to the test, and you'll develop the same j'en sais quoi
"Revealing without showing off", "All about little bit, keeping something for later", "I'm not showing anything, yet there's a lot happening". These phrases officially just changed my life.
I'm European (Italian) and it's a nono if a man (or even a boy) doesn't pay for you. I've dated men (and when I was younger boys) from different cultures and they have always paid for me, they all got offended when I wanted to pay (even a simple coffee) and the same is for Italians. Just accept and thank gently because it's a nice thing they do for you. Whenever I felt embarrassed (now I don't feel like taht anymore) I used to think : it's like they're gifting me something, so, be nice and say " thank you" (you wouldn't refuse, and maybe be kinda aggressive or feel offended if someone gives you a gift, right?). Yes ladies, stay safe and whenever you feel that something is off, go away, safety first and never go on a stranger's car.
Marie Claire Italian men are the perfect gentlemen! I have many Italian male friends who always spoil their wives and gfs with fancy dinner and gifts, they said it’s in the culture, super sweet! ❣️I’d expect men to pay for going out as well, that’s just good manners and romantic.
Marie Claire well I guess it depends on where you're from in Italy... I agree that men will always offer to pay, but many accept to split. Maybe it's just the younger generations being more open!
@@leiladebiasi4494 yeah it may be Actually I'm 25, not so old XD But everything changes so fast so... I see that there is a huge difference in comparison to when I was a teen. But I haven't met anyone my age or older who splits (no matter if it's a friend, a friend's husband or boyfriend or my own partner) . Of course, it all comes from personal experience😊 But I've noticed that splitting the bill is more diffused in northern Italy and in big cities (still a generalisation though). I find it nice when someone offers to pay and I don't see it from a point of view of being more or less open (I mean more "traditional" vs more "modern"). It's just a way of being polite, that should be forced upon 😊 The only openess we should have is being respectful with the other person's choice (in this case to offer or not). Then, if we don't like one way or the other of doing things, let's just stick to our own kind, so we can respect everyone's choices and views.
@@sindyfashionnerd5874 I find it nice too😊 and, it may sound strange, but to me it's a measuring stick for the person: being generous and mindful of the other person is important to me. So if a man who, for exemple, invites me out for a coffee and doesn't even offer to pay for an espresso, is not my type😅 I apply this also to my friendships because its not a matter of money: any kind of relationship is a give and take, and each one of us should give and take. By the way, I'm happy to find someone who doesn't think that this way of doing is not old fashioned and is able to enjoy this form of kindness 😊
25 year old Eastern European woman here. I prefer to split. I always offer to split. I am uncomfortable expecting and accepting another person to pay for me when I can pay for myself. It’s ok if other people choose to do that. It’s not my thing. Plus, how are you going to order a expensive meal and expect your partner to pay it? I wouldn’t feel right doing that. If I pay for myself, I can eat whatever I want. I also don’t accept gifts from strangers, especially expensive ones if it’s not my birthday, or a holiday. I accept gifts from my boyfriend and my family, but not too many. If my boyfriend spend too much money on gifts, I would be upset that he is not being considerate of his finances. That’s why seeing the situation as gifting doesn’t work for me.
I’m french, my father always tells me: If a man want to split the bill at the restaurant, pay for him and run far away from him. Even if it’s a 300 € bill.
Girl, you’re epitome of French chic , so beautiful and effortless, bravo! I want to see your outfits for everyday life, please!!!! So glad I found your channel.
Her style is amazing!!! As an Italian I love our way to dress up but I find the Parisian one really fascinating. In Italy we like wearing thing that are fashion nowadays but we also have our evergreen and classy pieces. In France you are so chic, I adore the vintage vibe.
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It was revealing in a really elegant way, tho. Like, technically she had a very deep décolletage, practically, not much was shown. Giving a “revealing” attitude without actually revealing much, you know?
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Listen up. She knows what she’s talking about and looks so at ease and confident doing it. The one time I dated a french girl she asked me out twice. I finally met her and she drank me under the table. Before I knew it we were making out on the street in front of the bar. I blissfully saw her off, stumbled home and we were of on a vacation together a day later. Vive le France says this American
"In french culture we don't expect the man to pay for the date". Je suis français, and I'm also a man, and I can say, this is just not true in most cases.
Loved this! I’m Californian, but find I channel my French ancestry in a lot of ways! It was really interesting hearing about French dating culture. I was the one that made the first move with my boyfriend (I asked him to prom in high school), and now we’ve been together for nearly six years! Don’t be scared to ask people out, ladies! Confidence is key ❤️
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Is that the intercontinenetal? Then outside opera ,then I’m not sure where , then cafe opera , then the street towards Bouchara? Near Printemps. ( yes I’ll need to buy new matching undies for my good dates) ... yes first date some mystery and no bringing up problems in your life !! Just be open , fun, funny interested ,interesting . Ask questions more than talking ! Happy dating
The best place for a first date in Paris is the one Mara has chosen, "la vérrière" of the Intercontinental opéra. Years ago, I brought there the one who is now my wife and the mother of my children. No pressure, just be yourself for dating a french man.
I like wearing my button downs the way she suggested, but not all the way down - the opening usually ends right between my girls. I think it looks chic for my body frame because my girls are like 34A/B only but some people (usually other women) find it too sexy! I don't live in France though...
This was really logical, sensible, funny and interesting. I also learned about "Angel" by Massive Attack.. Thank you !! Merci Beaucoup Mademoiselle. xx
That's very outdated! Why should always the guy have to pay? If one doesn't match well, one is freer to say: "bye mate , best luck for you and me next time".
@@martasampaio9134 if a man invites a lady for a first date, it’s very nice he can offer you a drink. Of course you can propose to pay...but for a first date it’s shows consideration. It’s just what we call “ Savoir vivre”. Being a gentleman is not outdated at all, it’s so nice and charming. That doesn’t mean a woman will not invite her boyfriend for a drink or a meal and pay for it. But on a first date, it’s nice to see you are with a man who is elegant enough to pay you a drink, a meal. See it as a man opening the door of his car to let you in, kindness ...
lol, no you don't wish...she's displaying the stereotypical parisian girl. Being french is NOT what you see in this video. However, I would say that generally speaking what she says it's true
@@louiseleite3866 Y'a toujours un boloss pour ramener sa négativité et son manque de confiance. Si t'es pas cool reste dans ton coin, mais y'a une énorme masse de gens cools en France même si t'en fais pas partie visiblement. mdr arrêtez de généraliser vos défauts
@@jtj5396 I would find very strange someone who call themselves cool.....for instance.....I'm Brazilian and I'm cool. Outsiders can find French people cool like a I do however if I hear a French person saying that French people are cool that wouldn't sound right.
Wow. Beautiful girl, gorgeous setting. Here’s my unasked for opinion. Haha! It’s called dating not mating. Why would any woman with even the smallest bit of self respect give away her precious body to a man she might never even see again? Real men NEED to be providers, it’s in their genetic makeup since the beginning of time. This is the first time in human history that they are no longer required to do this and it’s making them effeminate. However, because the world system believes in casual dating now, men shouldn’t have to pay for EVERY woman they encounter. My philosophy: Casual Date- Both of you pay for yourself. More serious dating- The one who invites pays for both. Exclusively dating heading toward marriage- Man pays. This will give you a hint of what married life will be like with him because it will show you what he’s willing to spend your joint income on. I have seen WAAAAAYYYY too many women lose their self respect, dignity and even the respect from the man by giving away too much, too soon. Please know that you’re better than this.
omg！！reli love the video！！！growing up as an asian，no one teach me how to date and i was figured it through movie/internet/friends..so nice that u can discuss it with ur parents casually and they even give you some tips
I think the time of date depends on what you want from a date, if u want a serious relationship then keep it slow but if u just want get laid , 2 times dates is enough. That is my way for saving time.
100% in aligned, of how i used to be in dating with mankind. Make sense , i was so unaware why, but you confirming my thoughts of how and why i chose who im with now. ❤
I dated a French man, well half French with Peruvian roots indeed... Than he become my bf, my fiance today. I have never split the bill. Never. La classe :)
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Women and men should always be equal, it is a shame that we are used to the fact that men should ask on a date and pay as well. Women are used to it but guys as well and when a woman asks him on a date that often is interpreted that she has a huge crush on him or something similar , which can scare him. I'm glad that it isn't a case everywhere. Love this video!
I visit Paris probably 3 times a year and would just love to date a French woman. I am American and that poses its own challenges lol My thoughts are that it would be magical... Beautiful women, Paris, fashion, love, lights... Maybe Im just a hopeless romantic :) Another video well done Merci Beaucoup
I think pay the bill is how you viewed who will be breadwinner in relationship. Me personally love a man who pay the bill because i expect that men will take a lead in relationship.
What's wrong with women taking a lead in relationships? We are not living in 19th Century anymore. Women have education, careers, earn their own money, travel alone, can buy whatever things they can afford. Why cede control of yourself to a man? He can still be your lover/husband/partner without being the "master" in the relationship unless his ego is too fragile.
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I’m mexican and my boyfriend is french, we started our relationship months ago, he always pay the total bill in restaurants, BUT now that we’re talking more deeply about finances, he’s telling me that once we married or live together we should apply 50/50 , he want help to pay the rent appartment, the water bill, our food of super market… and i don’t agree because I believe 100% in traditional relationships and this is the role model I’ve live in my own family… So now i’m little confused and I don’t know exactly how to explain to him that is bad the 50/50… can someone give me an opinion and advice?
That-s the usual and common way in France when we are marrie but it has some nuances: if you Win 500 and your Husband 100...the still 50/ 50 is a little bit akward no? In the contraruy, if your husband win 500 and your Winning 100: as a Frenchman i will pay all the leisure stuffs like cinema, restaurants, food, gasoline, holidays....but maybe because i-m a mature man, classical French, and from the southern France with Italian and Provence Roots....In général, and when i was marrie, or in long and serious love affair, the scheme was to put : 50% of our 2 salaries in a commun bank account and spend all the commun leisure, food, pay the rent, and bills with this sole account. I think this last solution is very fair when u have approximatively an equal annuel income....it avoid becoming an accountant in the couplé wich is terrible, sordid, ugly and killing love and désire after years, and sometimes months.... Excuse me but you're boyfriend sounds a lot money driven and not générous...Be careful of that mindset, especially in the beggining of à love affair:-)
It’s never 5050 for women, he was able to live by himself without you contributing, so he basically wants to use your money to save for something for himself. Don’t do that. As the saying goes if a man is not spending money on you he is saving for better woman. 5050 is a scam!!!
Wow that was quite natural and the way she's explaining with such a charm.. only inspires to do ourself and be so sweet. ❤ *taps subscribe immediately*
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i love that all the french women i've seen so far just exude this sense of self-respect and easy, healthy confidence! so refreshing and inspiring ✨
Thank you 💕💕
France is a country you have to drive through to get to Italy; that's all it's for
@@alvarodelahoz2434 what a legend, quoting James May😂😂
A man of culture indeed
No, that is not a french woman, she is just a gold digger woman :)
No parisian goes to luxury hotel to date a woman. If you go to Mcdonald, you may be happy whe you see the price ...
I'd love to see "what French women wear to the office" next. I love the subtly sexy French style for evenings and weekends, but how do French women dress at work? Do they keep it sexy or is it more conservative?
Yes!!
Megan A They don’t work they stay at home doing la vaisselle like every woman should.
@@vincentp.3912 what does la vaiselle mean.
@@bibaolaitan5189 Washing the dishes lol
@@ibrahimkante6022 😂😂😂,seriously!! how can somebody come to the internet and say that proudly in 2020... some ppl still live in the 1800's in their minds
She makes me want bangs🥺🥺
She makes me want to have a pretty face
Don't they look scruffy be yourself
What are bangs
having sex involved of two or more sex partners@@jamesshaw6884
Ugh she's stunning and her personality is amazing. I can only aspire to look/act in such a charming way
She is really amazing 💕💕
It's not really all that unique.
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No - charisma can be practiced, and eventually learnt. She is more secure of herself because she's pretty by all french standards. Also, developing your personality helps. Work on yourself, put yourself to the test, and you'll develop the same j'en sais quoi
@@kinndah2519 Why couldn’t you have just scrolled? You didn’t have to comment
"Revealing without showing off", "All about little bit, keeping something for later", "I'm not showing anything, yet there's a lot happening". These phrases officially just changed my life.
“Your body knows before your mind knows” This is brilliant!
dude her accent makes my heart go 🥺
definitlely agree with you💕
Yes but it’s mixed with British no?
Lolitaloliops - I mean , London is sister to France so that might be why she has hints of that ?
me: *is french*: watches this
So awesome
@@easynow7801 me: *is not french* watches this
@Sarah El Faize mais les tous son legit, non?
hi
😂😂😂
I'm European (Italian) and it's a nono if a man (or even a boy) doesn't pay for you. I've dated men (and when I was younger boys) from different cultures and they have always paid for me, they all got offended when I wanted to pay (even a simple coffee) and the same is for Italians.
Just accept and thank gently because it's a nice thing they do for you. Whenever I felt embarrassed (now I don't feel like taht anymore) I used to think : it's like they're gifting me something, so, be nice and say " thank you" (you wouldn't refuse, and maybe be kinda aggressive or feel offended if someone gives you a gift, right?).
Yes ladies, stay safe and whenever you feel that something is off, go away, safety first and never go on a stranger's car.
Marie Claire Italian men are the perfect gentlemen! I have many Italian male friends who always spoil their wives and gfs with fancy dinner and gifts, they said it’s in the culture, super sweet! ❣️I’d expect men to pay for going out as well, that’s just good manners and romantic.
Marie Claire well I guess it depends on where you're from in Italy... I agree that men will always offer to pay, but many accept to split. Maybe it's just the younger generations being more open!
@@leiladebiasi4494 yeah it may be
Actually I'm 25, not so old XD
But everything changes so fast so... I see that there is a huge difference in comparison to when I was a teen.
But I haven't met anyone my age or older who splits (no matter if it's a friend, a friend's husband or boyfriend or my own partner) .
Of course, it all comes from personal experience😊
But I've noticed that splitting the bill is more diffused in northern Italy and in big cities (still a generalisation though).
I find it nice when someone offers to pay and I don't see it from a point of view of being more or less open (I mean more "traditional" vs more "modern"). It's just a way of being polite, that should be forced upon 😊
The only openess we should have is being respectful with the other person's choice (in this case to offer or not). Then, if we don't like one way or the other of doing things, let's just stick to our own kind, so we can respect everyone's choices and views.
@@sindyfashionnerd5874 I find it nice too😊 and, it may sound strange, but to me it's a measuring stick for the person: being generous and mindful of the other person is important to me. So if a man who, for exemple, invites me out for a coffee and doesn't even offer to pay for an espresso, is not my type😅 I apply this also to my friendships because its not a matter of money: any kind of relationship is a give and take, and each one of us should give and take.
By the way, I'm happy to find someone who doesn't think that this way of doing is not old fashioned and is able to enjoy this form of kindness 😊
25 year old Eastern European woman here. I prefer to split. I always offer to split. I am uncomfortable expecting and accepting another person to pay for me when I can pay for myself. It’s ok if other people choose to do that. It’s not my thing. Plus, how are you going to order a expensive meal and expect your partner to pay it? I wouldn’t feel right doing that. If I pay for myself, I can eat whatever I want. I also don’t accept gifts from strangers, especially expensive ones if it’s not my birthday, or a holiday. I accept gifts from my boyfriend and my family, but not too many. If my boyfriend spend too much money on gifts, I would be upset that he is not being considerate of his finances. That’s why seeing the situation as gifting doesn’t work for me.
I’m french, my father always tells me: If a man want to split the bill at the restaurant, pay for him and run far away from him. Even if it’s a 300 € bill.
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And what if he pays the bill a couple of time ?
lol no I won't pay 300€
50-50 does not work in relationships....please Parisian girls stop playing men role while wearing skirt !
I love that advice your father gave you. It's so practical and real. Not simple puritanical ultimatums.
Totally agree with you! Nice and valuable recommendations!✨
What I like the most is her parents talked to her about dating
Agree with you!!✨😎
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Girl, you’re epitome of French chic , so beautiful and effortless, bravo! I want to see your outfits for everyday life, please!!!! So glad I found your channel.
Her style is amazing!!! As an Italian I love our way to dress up but I find the Parisian one really fascinating. In Italy we like wearing thing that are fashion nowadays but we also have our evergreen and classy pieces. In France you are so chic, I adore the vintage vibe.
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You are beautiful
You italians are better with style
Not as good as you describe
I chuckled when she called a shirt unbuttoned up to the midriff not revealing))) must be a French attitude.
Mara knows the best 💕💕
I think if flat chested then not offensive at all
@@olivialee854 I agree
It was revealing in a really elegant way, tho. Like, technically she had a very deep décolletage, practically, not much was shown. Giving a “revealing” attitude without actually revealing much, you know?
Ana-Maria Some of us can’t do that or our tits will fall out. 😂
She is so french....Love her tips....and more video's with Mara... Please!
we will do our best to make more videos with her 💕💕
@@ParisianVibe Thank you😘
She's Australian.
Her accent when she spoke English was a give away that she’s not French. A French person who speaks English will have a distinctive French accent.
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Her dad actually really gave the best advice. Respect
I'd love to see a closet tour from this woman ♥️
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French are fun. Just had 2 french women in my town for a 3 month work event. It was fun going out with them while they were here.
what everyone asked for:
more Mara 😂😂😂
Everyone adores Mara 💕💕
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Listen up. She knows what she’s talking about and looks so at ease and confident doing it. The one time I dated a french girl she asked me out twice. I finally met her and she drank me under the table. Before I knew it we were making out on the street in front of the bar. I blissfully saw her off, stumbled home and we were of on a vacation together a day later. Vive le France says this American
"In french culture we don't expect the man to pay for the date". Je suis français, and I'm also a man, and I can say, this is just not true in most cases.
Then you are not dating the right girls
@@thomateish If the girls are French, his input is still relevant lol
@@thomateish so a girl who expects the man to pay is a wrong girl?
Thank you , it’s still the gentlemanly thing to do and most Women appreciate it.
@@erikaalejandra1710 yes, a man isn’t your bank account. don’t expect him to be.
Which look do you prefer for your first date? Look 1, 2 or 3?
ParisianVibe all of it but my fave is definitely 3! 🖤
1 look
1st easy and impecable
All of them!
Look 2
I love the way this lady dresses.
WE NEED MORE WITH MARA LAFONTAN!!
The Aesthetic on this is so beautiful, please keep on doing these videos, also, her outfits are TDF! 🖤
Don't worry, we will keep on and try to do best, thanks a lot 💕
Loved this! I’m Californian, but find I channel my French ancestry in a lot of ways! It was really interesting hearing about French dating culture. I was the one that made the first move with my boyfriend (I asked him to prom in high school), and now we’ve been together for nearly six years! Don’t be scared to ask people out, ladies! Confidence is key ❤️
Thank you for your comment and wish you happiness with your boyfriend 💕💕
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France is a country you have to drive through to get to Italy; that's all it's for
I love the 3rd outfit and the black translucent coat is perfect I love it! ❤️
Thank you 💕
Is that the intercontinenetal? Then outside opera ,then I’m not sure where , then cafe opera , then the street towards Bouchara? Near Printemps. ( yes I’ll need to buy new matching undies for my good dates) ... yes first date some mystery and no bringing up problems in your life !! Just be open , fun, funny interested ,interesting . Ask questions more than talking ! Happy dating
What a healthy attitude you have to dating! Quite refreshing to hear actually.
The best place for a first date in Paris is the one Mara has chosen, "la vérrière" of the Intercontinental opéra. Years ago, I brought there the one who is now my wife and the mother of my children.
No pressure, just be yourself for dating a french man.
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Mara is the best ! She’s the big sister we never had 😢❤
Ques 8: Perfect Answer and perfect advice. Listen to your instincts. Bravo 👏
elegance leaking from her bangs, lips, and coat. loved this woman. good luck
How lucky to have parents who talked to you about dating! I'm old but this was video gives me hope for young women :)
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I think if the guy asks me out for w date, the guy should usually pay, shouldn’t he? I never come across a guy who doesn’t pay for the bills tho…
I loved the blue overcoat and white blouse.
I like wearing my button downs the way she suggested, but not all the way down - the opening usually ends right between my girls. I think it looks chic for my body frame because my girls are like 34A/B only but some people (usually other women) find it too sexy! I don't live in France though...
i would like to know: what wrong signals could one send with their clothes??? please let me know
I watched like fifty times... She's so pretty. We want more videos with Mara 🖤
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I honestly regularly watches this video for miss Mara Lafontan
very interesting video thanks for posting
Our pleasure!
Well, I think this is the best inspirational channel on RUclips I could find when spring is coming!))
Happy to hear that! 💕💕
I like the questions, they are just right
Interested to hear the males perspective to see if dating is more friendly, more easy going and less stressful than in the States.
This was really logical, sensible, funny and interesting. I also learned about "Angel" by Massive Attack.. Thank you !! Merci Beaucoup Mademoiselle. xx
Good advice from your parents about dating. Always trust your instincts. If it feels off, it probably is.
If a guy is not able to offer me a drink, I won’t meet him again. La galanterie ça me fait craquer.
That's very outdated! Why should always the guy have to pay? If one doesn't match well, one is freer to say: "bye mate , best luck for you and me next time".
@@martasampaio9134 if a man invites a lady for a first date, it’s very nice he can offer you a drink. Of course you can propose to pay...but for a first date it’s shows consideration. It’s just what we call “ Savoir vivre”. Being a gentleman is not outdated at all, it’s so nice and charming. That doesn’t mean a woman will not invite her boyfriend for a drink or a meal and pay for it. But on a first date, it’s nice to see you are with a man who is elegant enough to pay you a drink, a meal. See it as a man opening the door of his car to let you in, kindness ...
i met a french boy and we’re going out so here i am :)
Wish you happiness ✨💕
She's literally perfect! Oh how I wish I were French
Thank you 💕
Being French is not that cool in France 😹
lol, no you don't wish...she's displaying the stereotypical parisian girl. Being french is NOT what you see in this video. However, I would say that generally speaking what she says it's true
@@louiseleite3866 Y'a toujours un boloss pour ramener sa négativité et son manque de confiance. Si t'es pas cool reste dans ton coin, mais y'a une énorme masse de gens cools en France même si t'en fais pas partie visiblement. mdr arrêtez de généraliser vos défauts
@@jtj5396 I would find very strange someone who call themselves cool.....for instance.....I'm Brazilian and I'm cool. Outsiders can find French people cool like a I do however if I hear a French person saying that French people are cool that wouldn't sound right.
Actually the best video ever about dressing up for a date 🥺 I watched it 3 times already!
Thank you Pauline!💖💖
Wow. Beautiful girl, gorgeous setting. Here’s my unasked for opinion. Haha! It’s called dating not mating. Why would any woman with even the smallest bit of self respect give away her precious body to a man she might never even see again?
Real men NEED to be providers, it’s in their genetic makeup since the beginning of time. This is the first time in human history that they are no longer required to do this and it’s making them effeminate. However, because the world system believes in casual dating now, men shouldn’t have to pay for EVERY woman they encounter. My philosophy:
Casual Date- Both of you pay for yourself.
More serious dating- The one who invites pays for both.
Exclusively dating heading toward marriage- Man pays. This will give you a hint of what married life will be like with him because it will show you what he’s willing to spend your joint income on.
I have seen WAAAAAYYYY too many women lose their self respect, dignity and even the respect from the man by giving away too much, too soon. Please know that you’re better than this.
omg！！reli love the video！！！growing up as an asian，no one teach me how to date and i was figured it through movie/internet/friends..so
nice that u can discuss it with ur parents casually and they even give you some tips
Really happy to inspire you 💕💕
I think the time of date depends on what you want from a date, if u want a serious relationship then keep it slow but if u just want get laid , 2 times dates is enough. That is my way for saving time.
100% in aligned, of how i used to be in dating with mankind. Make sense , i was so unaware why, but you confirming my thoughts of how and why i chose who im with now. ❤
I dated a French man, well half French with Peruvian roots indeed... Than he become my bf, my fiance today. I have never split the bill. Never.
La classe :)
Perhaps that is a little selfish?
@Ana Sofía Torres YES
@@marco5718 not selfish, pretty normal
Yay Mara is back!!!!!!!
We love Mara so much 💕💕
Love the wallpaper in the first scene
What lip color is she wearing? I would love to see a make up tutorial from her.
love this series! but please do an episode in all french!
Thanks, we will consider it ❤❤
Elle est sublime , c'est vraiment l'art de la séduction qu'elle maîtrise.
me opening the video, strapping in my earphones, and buttering my croissant like my ass is going to be dating a French guy an ocean away
Lmfao
Best believe I will, 2022 I'm coming.
Outfit three is absolutely incredible wauww
We are really happy to hear that 💕💕
I love how she just asked us to try to set her up with Michael Fassbender... I’ll get on it, Mara!
He's already taken (lucky Alicia Vikander).
Am I the only one who was going crazy wanting to snip that white tag inside the black vinyl coat on the last look?
Me too!!
Mara pls tell what is the lipstick? that brand and shade? Gorgeous!
SHOP WHAT MARA IS WEARING
:
LOOK NO. 1
SIMILAR COATS - bit.ly/386Zk4n
BLACK PANTS - bit.ly/2TwGgal
SIMILAR BOOTS - bit.ly/3aCpBrq
LOOK NO. 2
CREAM CARDIGAN - bit.ly/2QbVD67
WHITE BLOUSE - bit.ly/2PT80n5
LOOK NO. 3
BLACK SILK DRESS - bit.ly/2pAW7Z2
SIMILAR LEATHER TRENCH - bit.ly/39CfSRW
What about her pearl necklace? It's so beautiful...
What is the brand of her coat in look no.1? Thanks!
@@Mia-zt4uf Hi Mia! You can find the details on the video description✨
@@ParisianVibe whats the brand of the lipstick?
@@missulyaileenescobarwillso2685 So sorry, we don't know! 😪
Tom Ford jasmine rouge is my absolute favorite!!
Not to be agressive or anything, but it's "JASMIN ROUGE", I mean is it too much to ask to write things correctly?
Hi, what was the name of the Tom Ford Perfume spelled out? ❤ please and thank you
I'm probably being bias bc I'm british but I loovee how the slight British tone she has when speaking English
You're SO pretty and you're smile is just GORGEOUS! Thanks for this fun video :)
Thank you so much for watching!!
Women and men should always be equal, it is a shame that we are used to the fact that men should ask on a date and pay as well. Women are used to it but guys as well and when a woman asks him on a date that often is interpreted that she has a huge crush on him or something similar , which can scare him. I'm glad that it isn't a case everywhere. Love this video!
I LOVED the 3 look
Hi can you also keep French subtitles
I’m happy to observe your growth and aesthetics, also fantastic outfits, all of them. Mara is gorgeous, as always. 🖤
Thank you so much, we always need your support 💕💕
I visit Paris probably 3 times a year and would just love to date a French woman. I am American and that poses its own challenges lol My thoughts are that it would be magical... Beautiful women, Paris, fashion, love, lights... Maybe Im just a hopeless romantic :) Another video well done Merci Beaucoup
How do you think about vietnamese guys?
Her dad gave her really great advice damn ....
Wow I freaking love your style! You're a beaut
Thank you so much!!
It's funny and interesting to go around dating. I am fond of it wish you best
I think pay the bill is how you viewed who will be breadwinner in relationship. Me personally love a man who pay the bill because i expect that men will take a lead in relationship.
What's wrong with women taking a lead in relationships? We are not living in 19th Century anymore. Women have education, careers, earn their own money, travel alone, can buy whatever things they can afford. Why cede control of yourself to a man? He can still be your lover/husband/partner without being the "master" in the relationship unless his ego is too fragile.
i like her rings. where can i get them
I love this video! Mara is a natural and she’s so chic. It was very interesting to learn about the French way of dating xoxo
Hi Alissa! Our second Episode about dating with Mara is live on our channel!
If you want to watch: ruclips.net/video/Jcb0wsAODsw/видео.html - Parisian Date Looks Inspired by French Movies.
I thought “she looks good” then the close up of the coat made me think “bathroom robe” and just started laughing. Daring choice for a first date!
I have one (a robe) in pink and yes it's a bit too similar :)
Love her style so much💗Wish Mara have a channel
You had me at Angle by Massive Attack
I love your rings! Especially the ones with the green stones. Where do you find your jewelry?
Absolutely love this girl. So inspiring and chic 💜🧡
Thank you so much!!✨💕
I’m mexican and my boyfriend is french, we started our relationship months ago, he always pay the total bill in restaurants, BUT now that we’re talking more deeply about finances, he’s telling me that once we married or live together we should apply 50/50 , he want help to pay the rent appartment, the water bill, our food of super market… and i don’t agree because I believe 100% in traditional relationships and this is the role model I’ve live in my own family… So now i’m little confused and I don’t know exactly how to explain to him that is bad the 50/50… can someone give me an opinion and advice?
That-s the usual and common way in France when we are marrie but it has some nuances: if you Win 500 and your Husband 100...the still 50/ 50 is a little bit akward no? In the contraruy, if your husband win 500 and your Winning 100: as a Frenchman i will pay all the leisure stuffs like cinema, restaurants, food, gasoline, holidays....but maybe because i-m a mature man, classical French, and from the southern France with Italian and Provence Roots....In général, and when i was marrie, or in long and serious love affair, the scheme was to put : 50% of our 2 salaries in a commun bank account and spend all the commun leisure, food, pay the rent, and bills with this sole account.
I think this last solution is very fair when u have approximatively an equal annuel income....it avoid becoming an accountant in the couplé wich is terrible, sordid, ugly and killing love and désire after years, and sometimes months....
Excuse me but you're boyfriend sounds a lot money driven and not générous...Be careful of that mindset, especially in the beggining of à love affair:-)
It’s never 5050 for women, he was able to live by himself without you contributing, so he basically wants to use your money to save for something for himself. Don’t do that. As the saying goes if a man is not spending money on you he is saving for better woman. 5050 is a scam!!!
what place is she in at the beginning of the video ? Is that a hotel loby ? thanks
Ahhh she's so gorgeous & her style is perfect!!! If I was as chic as her I feel like I'd definitely be getting more dates lmao
Can you tell me what s red lip color used?
Wow that was quite natural and the way she's explaining with such a charm.. only inspires to do ourself and be so sweet. ❤ *taps subscribe immediately*
Mara is so natural and charming and we definitely need your support for our channel 💕💕
@@ParisianVibe indeed! You have such an aesthetic touch to your channel. Love it 💖
Thank you 💕💕💕
Cutting my bangs again 😫 so beautiful!
Beautiful video!!! Amazing locations, what is the first restaurant on the video ? Please help
Thank you. It's InterContinental Paris - Le Grand 💕
such a cool, sweet gig . . . . . from the french way. of course. to love is to be in France & to get lost.
Beautiful and wise 💕💕
can't agree more, she is great💕💕
Very important advice about safety👍
Absolutely!