How To Help Your Spouse Feel Safe After Your Affair

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • My name is Stacey Chenevert and I am an infidelity recovery coach. My mission is to equip people with the tools needed to promote healing, growth, and complete transformation after infidelity, through nonjudgemental, authentic coaching. So you can heal from the past, live in the present, and become the woman you want to be without fear of the future.
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Комментарии • 24

  • @heidiainsworth4348
    @heidiainsworth4348 7 месяцев назад +2

    Such a shame to see all the angry ,judgemental, people on these kinds of comment sections.The work you and your husband are doing is absolutely amazing! It takes great strength to heal and forgive from betrayal.God bless you both on your journey!

  • @user-yh5ur9ei7e
    @user-yh5ur9ei7e 8 месяцев назад +2

    He will never feel safe mam... cheating scars will never go..hope you leave him if you really loved somebody

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  8 месяцев назад +3

      My husband would beg to differ. There is freedom from the pain of infidelity.

  • @unwokeneuropean3590
    @unwokeneuropean3590 8 месяцев назад +4

    No way. Men should not forgive or forget. Women should stay in line or it's over.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  8 месяцев назад +3

      What about women? Should they not forgive the men who cheat on them? I think men should stay in line as well, considering 57 percent of men admit to having affairs. Its amazing to me how easy it is for people to judge others.

    • @unwokeneuropean3590
      @unwokeneuropean3590 8 месяцев назад

      @@staceychenevert Women are not prone to tell the truth. In modern age women are cheating many times more than men. Only the top 10% of guys cheating all the time because they have tons of women wanting them daily.

    • @wendy8659
      @wendy8659 8 месяцев назад +2

      Honey, 1st. of all, there is NO line women should stay in & 2nd. Men have NO/ZERO place to speak about what Any woman should do! I'm faithful to my husband but, the day he dares to Try & tell me what to do & when to do, WILL be the last day he ever said that. That's a promise. So, men need to get a grip!🤷

  • @Mohammad-tf8hc
    @Mohammad-tf8hc 8 месяцев назад

    from my observation (i saw a lot of cheaters and peoples that were cheated on) and speaking with few of my friend that are psychologist i find out that most people that cheat were the ones that had a lot of casual sex (this one is very common) and one of other common thing between them was childhood issues mostly daddy issues another thing was having friend or family member that also were cheaters and get away with it
    in your case or people that you help did you see any of this patterns?

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  8 месяцев назад +1

      Well I wouldn't say all of them have casual sex but the majority have childhood wounds that cause the unhealthy behavior. The root is childhood wounds.

  • @bluecollarbuilds
    @bluecollarbuilds 8 месяцев назад +3

    Your work is useless. If my wife ever cheated on me we’re done no questions asked.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  8 месяцев назад +3

      I don't think my clients and the marriages I have helped save would agree. Neither would their kids agree especially since they got to keep their mom and dad together.

    • @Heather-dw3ym
      @Heather-dw3ym 8 месяцев назад +4

      You don’t know what you would do until you’re in that situation. Especially if you have children together. Don’t judge.

    • @bluecollarbuilds
      @bluecollarbuilds 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Heather-dw3ym let me guess you’re a cheater too? And yes I know exactly what I would do because I’ve already done it.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  8 месяцев назад

      @@bluecollarbuilds so you had an affair and you are judging others?

    • @wendy8659
      @wendy8659 8 месяцев назад

      And you are so perfect...NOT!!

  • @James-zi9wo
    @James-zi9wo 8 месяцев назад +4

    Everything out of this person's mouth is wrong. If love returns, it'll NEVER be the same. He'll go through the motions on the outside, but inside, she will be subjugated to being a mere teammate. She'll no longer be a cherished part of his heart. In fact, he will become indifferent to her. In 15 or 20 years, he will regret not kicking her to the curb when there was still time to start over with a faithful, good woman.

    • @dru1581
      @dru1581 8 месяцев назад +6

      You are right about it never being the same. It can be better than ever. I'm sorry you feel the way you do. My marriage is better than ever, and we are here to help others who seek it.

    • @wendy8659
      @wendy8659 8 месяцев назад +3

      Nah, you are Most Definitely Wrong!! Not everyone is the same & til you have facts, please Do Not Speak for others!🤦

    • @heidiainsworth4348
      @heidiainsworth4348 7 месяцев назад +2

      Sounds to me like you have some healing to do.If that's your story then so be it but I can certainly tell you it's not everyone's story.Hopefully you can find some peace and forgiveness for whomever hurt you.