Thank you! This was just the reminder I needed this morning. Being “unequally yoked” is HARD. Especially with kids. But I know that the only way to find joy and success in any marriage is to find my joy and my peace in my Savior. He alone is the living water.
My wife and I just celebrated 50 years of marriage! I am sure we would have had more fun if some of this teaching was available earlier on in marriage. I'm sharing this with others. Thankyou for your teaching.
We are so glad to hear you enjoyed this episode with Ted Cunningham. It's truly encouraging to know that you have been blessed with 50 years of marriage and appreciate the teachings provided through the message. Thank you for sharing it with others. May the Lord continue to bless you and your wife! -- Jenny M
My family attends the Church Ted calls home. We have enjoyed many of his messages over the years. He is a champion of the family and marriage. God Bless you Ted!
Ok just started this video and already know I’m going to love it. I said haaah right before he said “and the Hebrew term for that is..” and I don’t even have kids. P.S. I had a dirt pile to play with as a kid. (Every kid should have one) My siblings and I would run around barefoot until mom would call us back inside. Such a great way to grow up and we are fine.
It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life. To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people. If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids those failing is not good enough…as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings) Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction but pretending these adults are just blaming their parents for nothing is hilarious. Amends are needed from parents in mass as our children become adults. Nobody “does it perfectly” so to again gaslight these adults who suffer now is just another slap in these adult children’s face telling them THEY alone are the problem and not daddy’s secret porn addiction or him avoiding the family using work as the excuse or mommy ignoring problems for her comfort cuz she didn’t like conflict. Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way. but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.
It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life. To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people. If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings) Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction. Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way. but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.
It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life. To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people. If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings) Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction. Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way. but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.
True. But I would like to acknowledge the part they played in who I became. As an adult I see just what actions and choices I made primarily because of the things I learnt from my parents. They aren't to blame for my life and actions but they sure did influence them in a way. I say that because we are influenced by those we are closest to.
I am newly married, and my husband and I watched this video! It was funny and edifying, I love the idea of our spouse is not the problem nor the solution, and the illustration with the mug and pouring. I know it is self explanatory in some ways, the concept that we need to depend of God as the source, but it would be super helpful to dive into that aspect of this message, what does it look like to get our fill from God instead? Practical advice on this would be helpful! Part 2? 😬😬🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏 thank you for blessing us
We're glad you enjoyed the video @yinetteguzman2064. It's important to get our fill from God, here's an article with some steps on how to do that- bit.ly/40gmRwW. We hope this is helpful! -Luna H.
Funny!!! Thank you. Truth and humor. 😂 Regarding people "sinking" you work there: you have anointing on your life. We can use it for Him, or not. Be expectant for what He can do through you.
I nearly grown in the fourth grade, when a friend and i tried to cross the rocks over a dam. We just stayed out until we were all dry, I finally told my mom when I turned 50.😅
Every true and fake narcissist needs to see this. Especially married ones😂😂😂. Laughter does the heart good like medicine but a broken spirit dries up the bones. Proverbs 17:22
How does this all.work when the spouse is a habitual liar and gaslighter? 30 yrs laster after being busy raising babies, working like crazy to go from poverty to lower-middle class and I'm realizing the person I gave all my prime years to, grandfather of 4 cannot stop lying and and gaslighting! Almost in his 60s!?!?!
@tbh52-7, we're sorry you're going through a difficult time. Unfortunately, we’re not able to provide counseling by email, text messaging, or through social media channels. We’ve found that writing or texting isn’t an effective way of offering advice when complex or serious life issues are involved. As an alternative, we encourage you to speak about your situation with one of our counselors (at no cost to you). Just contact us at 1-855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays from 6:00 A.M. to 8:00 P.M. (MT). The Family Help Center staff member who answers the phone will arrange for a counselor to call you back. One of them will be in touch just as soon as they’re able. You may also request a callback by visiting our Counseling Consultation & Referrals page - bit.ly/3olAU3N. We hope this is helpful. -Luna H
How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo guys, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be on Him.
He said it as a joke, because Osteen is a prosperity teacher, who teaches nothing but feel goods. He's saying those who watch the news need a pick me up (which is guaranteed by listening to Osteen)...he seemed to be taking a jab at Osteen.
Same here. How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo people, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be just on Him.
Stop showing me Democratic ads! It will not change my mind anyway! And it makes me mad to see them. Makes me like them less! I hope RUclips sees this since it won't let me protest any other way.
Ruth here, some children don't grow up as fast, l see flaws in his teaching, l almost can't stand him, l got tired of him quickly, he may speak some truth bu, eh eh eh. My problem is l can't stand preachers who yell or think they can pound it into your mind, try to control ya, l can't stand it when they could read more scripture and make it interesting but they yell and carry on
This sounds good ... except human relationships just don't work quite like this. Basics of respect and consideration are required for trust and vulnerability to follow. Fundamental needs have to be met.
Who knew wisdom could be funny.
What a joy to hear you minister to the world in Jesus Christ. God bless you!
Thank you! This was just the reminder I needed this morning. Being “unequally yoked” is HARD. Especially with kids. But I know that the only way to find joy and success in any marriage is to find my joy and my peace in my Savior. He alone is the living water.
My wife and I just celebrated 50 years of marriage! I am sure we would have had more fun if some of this teaching was available earlier on in marriage. I'm sharing this with others. Thankyou for your teaching.
We are so glad to hear you enjoyed this episode with Ted Cunningham. It's truly encouraging to know that you have been blessed with 50 years of marriage and appreciate the teachings provided through the message. Thank you for sharing it with others. May the Lord continue to bless you and your wife! -- Jenny M
Exactly for us too
My family attends the Church Ted calls home. We have enjoyed many of his messages over the years. He is a champion of the family and marriage. God Bless you Ted!
Have your own life and find what makes you happy
Then you can share your life with others
No one can be your whole life
No one can fill your hole toake you whole Except you and Source.. love knowing this now... a small part of me wished I had learned it 40 years ago
The way he weaved comedy and God was masterful. What a great message!
This guy is so good, loved his wisdom from God.
Ok just started this video and already know I’m going to love it. I said haaah right before he said “and the Hebrew term for that is..” and I don’t even have kids.
P.S. I had a dirt pile to play with as a kid. (Every kid should have one) My siblings and I would run around barefoot until mom would call us back inside. Such a great way to grow up and we are fine.
Thank you for the hilarious laughs Pastor Ted 😂 feel so blessed from the joy you've brought to my family 🎉🎉 😊
30.5 years of marriage and this is awesome!
First time listening to him. Great message.
I watched this video and the only words I could muttered, “that was amazing.”
This is soooooooo good!!
Marriages and single's lives can be changed if they only heed this gospel wisdom!
Thank you, Pastor i really needed this humor this morning ❤ God Bless You 🙌 🙏
We're glad you found the video helpful @sherrihicks8466. God bless you as well!
-Luna H.
We are a society who blames our parents for our lives and actions.
It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life.
To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people.
If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids those failing is not good enough…as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings)
Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction but pretending these adults are just blaming their parents for nothing is hilarious.
Amends are needed from parents in mass as our children become adults.
Nobody “does it perfectly” so to again gaslight these adults who suffer now is just another slap in these adult children’s face telling them THEY alone are the problem and not daddy’s secret porn addiction or him avoiding the family using work as the excuse or mommy ignoring problems for her comfort cuz she didn’t like conflict.
Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way.
but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.
It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life.
To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people.
If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings)
Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction.
Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way.
but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.
It’s a very observable fact that maladaptive coping mechanisms, childhood trauma, secret family addictions, neglect, abuse, lies, lack of trust, poor parental relationship dynamics, gaslighting in families and developmental needs not being met will AFFECT a child’s life.
To pretend and gaslight yourself that this isn’t an observable Truth maybe you could see it plainly in “those other families” that fail their responsibility of meeting the most basic of needs of their kids or farm them out to less qualified people.
If you as parents fail to work out the shortcomings in your life your kids carry that cross into their lives. Telling your kids will have no effect as modeling a daily behavior gets into their soul and if you have too much shame or denial to admit your failing then honey, hate to break it to you, but the problems your kids have later in life will start to loook very familiar to you if you are able to be honest (if they even tell you about then as most hide it from families that take no responsibility for their tribe failings)
Blaming parents after 23 years old and not taking on the burden of the maladaptive skills and unintended consequences of our parents mistakes keep us stuck in generational dysfunction.
Denying the reality of modeling being the real teacher so if you see issues with your kids…own it in yourself or the lack of skills YOU failed to teach them as they had a different brain that require a parent to SEARCH for a different way.
but the rose colored glasses only seeing the positive and the denial of the fact that being a parent we inflicts damage to our kids in our anger, our needing to be right, our inability to stay humble or our inability to stand against insanity of the other parent and us just being human ALSO prevents growth.
True. But I would like to acknowledge the part they played in who I became. As an adult I see just what actions and choices I made primarily because of the things I learnt from my parents. They aren't to blame for my life and actions but they sure did influence them in a way. I say that because we are influenced by those we are closest to.
Love this
I am newly married, and my husband and I watched this video! It was funny and edifying, I love the idea of our spouse is not the problem nor the solution, and the illustration with the mug and pouring. I know it is self explanatory in some ways, the concept that we need to depend of God as the source, but it would be super helpful to dive into that aspect of this message, what does it look like to get our fill from God instead? Practical advice on this would be helpful! Part 2? 😬😬🙌🏻🙌🏻🙏 thank you for blessing us
We're glad you enjoyed the video @yinetteguzman2064. It's important to get our fill from God, here's an article with some steps on how to do that- bit.ly/40gmRwW. We hope this is helpful!
-Luna H.
Narcissism is NOT the problem. SIN is. Glory to God!
Wonderful teaching.
So glad I found you! Thank you for sharing your insight in such a wonderful way 💕
This is a great message. I’m glad this video showed on my page.
Wow. This has really blessed me. Exactly what I needed
We are so glad to hear you enjoyed the episode! Let us know if we can help in the future. -Jenny M
Brilliant preach n
teach. So true! God Bless you sir. Wisdom and laughter is good medicine
Funny!!! Thank you. Truth and humor. 😂 Regarding people "sinking" you work there: you have anointing on your life. We can use it for Him, or not. Be expectant for what He can do through you.
I have no recollection laughing so hard while watching a video with great lessons on Marriage! Thank You!
@carolynndawula6294 We are so happy this blessed you and brought you a laugh! God bless you! - Treasure H.
“Child number two”!!! It’s sooo true😂😂😂
Oh dear.. 😂😂
Mine was backwards. First born as the second and second as the first!
It was the 3rd one for me. The first and 2nd were easy, the 3rd has been the adorable challenge.
He is so right
That on which we feed, we become. PVEL.
This is great 🎉. lessons and laughter
Needed this week
Just what I needed to hear.
Very useful message . Thank You! 🙏
We're glad you found the broadcast useful @cristinarodriguez2441! God bless you!
-Luna H.
This is awesome!!!!👏🏻
great sermon and true!
Yea! Woods, knife, canteen. That's me.
I love this sooo much ❤
Love this!
When you live with a narcissist, this doesn't work. I had to create boundaries to keep myself sane.
Ditto
That is true
Is there any chance the narcissist isn’t the only selfish one in the marriage? 🤔
We are all narcissistic by nature obviously some more than others but I just think this word is thrown around way too much.
Amen@@sofiabravo1994
I needed this one!😂
@mvranch9753 We are so glad it has blessed you!! - Treasure H.
We blame everyone and everything around us but we don't blame ourselves for our actions
My child nmbe 1 was a total strong willed mess. Child number 2 was exactly the opposite.
Thank you for 😂😅
I nearly grown in the fourth grade, when a friend and i tried to cross the rocks over a dam. We just stayed out until we were all dry, I finally told my mom when I turned 50.😅
Amen 🙏
Brilliant 😂
Do you talk to a couples that are not local who are struggling in their marriage?
Amen
Every true and fake narcissist needs to see this. Especially married ones😂😂😂.
Laughter does the heart good like medicine but a broken spirit dries up the bones.
Proverbs 17:22
Hilarious 😂
4:15 nothing gives me more life than my babies
Great teaching. If the couple can listen and apply. I shared this on my Facebook. Thank you. I am 67 and widowed.
❤🔥
Love it ....but don't support Disney, go on a real vacation together that will honor God while you are doing it.
Relax. Please.
Single life rules, freedom!
The joy of singleness does not last, but enjoy this phase, some mature past it, some die in it lonely.
God gave us Twins 😆 to set us straight
@april7797 that is too funny. So blessed! - Treasure H.
in France we dont have regular light bulbs anywhere in any store...
💚
How does this all.work when the spouse is a habitual liar and gaslighter? 30 yrs laster after being busy raising babies, working like crazy to go from poverty to lower-middle class and I'm realizing the person I gave all my prime years to, grandfather of 4 cannot stop lying and and gaslighting! Almost in his 60s!?!?!
@tbh52-7, we're sorry you're going through a difficult time. Unfortunately, we’re not able to provide counseling by email, text messaging, or through social media channels. We’ve found that writing or texting isn’t an effective way of offering advice when complex or serious life issues are involved. As an alternative, we encourage you to speak about your situation with one of our counselors (at no cost to you). Just contact us at 1-855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays from 6:00 A.M. to 8:00 P.M. (MT). The Family Help Center staff member who answers the phone will arrange for a counselor to call you back. One of them will be in touch just as soon as they’re able. You may also request a callback by visiting our Counseling Consultation & Referrals page - bit.ly/3olAU3N. We hope this is helpful.
-Luna H
Not Joel O’steen!!
IKR that's definitely not a good source for biblically sound uplifting 😂
Agreed! Ugh. But much of the rest is brilliant, lol
😂 He was telling a joke
How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo guys, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be on Him.
Pastor Voddie Bauchman or RickWarren.... never Olsen or whatever his name is.
I'd agree with Voddie, but not Rick or Olsteen.
He said it as a joke, because Osteen is a prosperity teacher, who teaches nothing but feel goods. He's saying those who watch the news need a pick me up (which is guaranteed by listening to Osteen)...he seemed to be taking a jab at Osteen.
Same here. How very sad that this is the only thing been commented on from this wonderful teaching.... Sjo people, where are our hearts? God will be the judge, he is love and just. Let our focus be just on Him.
💯👏👏👏✝️
Stop showing me Democratic ads! It will not change my mind anyway! And it makes me mad to see them. Makes me like them less! I hope RUclips sees this since it won't let me protest any other way.
The correct answer is Jesus plus nothing
Ruth here, some children don't grow up as fast, l see flaws in his teaching, l almost can't stand him, l got tired of him quickly, he may speak some truth bu, eh eh eh. My problem is l can't stand preachers who yell or think they can pound it into your mind, try to control ya, l can't stand it when they could read more scripture and make it interesting but they yell and carry on
This sounds good ... except human relationships just don't work quite like this. Basics of respect and consideration are required for trust and vulnerability to follow. Fundamental needs have to be met.
Why do they have those pyramids in the background?
My guess is the triangles are to represent mountains, I believe this is on Colorado.
Do you see pyramids or triangles…..?
I had the same question...
I noticed the 'pyramids too' till I saw that they were just a really cool design 😅
Illuminati came out with a more modern logo
Some of the couples cant. Because what ever you try doing One of them, Is a sick person.
JOEL OLSTEINE!!! I'm out! False teacher.......
A sermon without any Bible verse read!!
Actually he quoted some Bible verses
Actually he quoted some Bible verses
Yeah is good but message but not real,,,,, each person is different and will never fit your mold,
What u mean?