Thank you all for the lovely comments, I’ve never gotten this vulnerable online before but knowing that my platform had grown and attracted people who live or have lived similar experiences, it made me keen on making a video about this. I love you all for the sake of Allah 💓
SubhanaAllah , I admired your life story cause I watched your other videos . Seeing a muslim in this situation is heart-breaking. I would suggest you a good marriage with a good spouse(Truly loving ) in a muslim country like Turkey . Assalamu Alaykum
May Allah increase your sabr(patience) and may Allah ease your struggle and strengthen your iman. May Allah grant you the highest paradise for all of these. Amin
I love you too 💞 thank you for everything, and despite having a hard time, you include us in a matter we don't deserve to be in, So thank you and Im proud of you for all the things you've dealt with and how you dealt with them ❤🩹
I know its extremely hard, as a revert myself. I can see that you care a lot and you feel very deeply, more than most people would be able to if they had gone through the things that you have. Allahumma barik, some people think its a curse, being able to feel and care so much. But i believe it's your blessing, maybe you don't see it but what you have is soo extremely rare, may Allah preserve and increase you in it. For me, what i found worked for a period of time, is that i took the emotional element out of it. I think this approach might help you as it helped me. I see the effort you put in to try to have a better relationship with your parents - you came all this way hoping they had changed, you cook for them and so much more. But i think this is the part where you're getting hurt. Maybe you don't realise it, but you have an emotional attachment to your actions - in the sense that maybe unconsciously or consciously, you're hoping for a reaction that you've always wanted from them, a part of you still yearns for something from them and when they disappoint you, it hurts even more, its because you've actively placed yourself in a situation where you have an emotional attachment to a specific outcome your expecting from them. Instead maybe do this, change the intention of you actions, change it so your doing it for the sake of Allah. For example, if you cook for them, cook with the intention that it's a good deed that you're cooking halal for them or maybe this action will, with the grace and mercy of Allah, maybe he'll ease their hearts a little. Because then your hope is in Allah, and you know that he doesn't disappoint. But what's important is that you're not cooking because you want a certain reaction form them - bc then you're emotionally attached. When your intention is for the sake of Allah, you have no attachment to your parents - where their response dictates how you feel. Your attachment is with Allah, your reward is with him, you know that he sees you. your efforts don't go unnoticed. Maybe your parents don't respond in the way u hoped but because you didn't do it for the sake of their approval, instead for the pleasure of Allah, it won't bother or hurt you when they repond differently. Qadar of Allah, if they respond well. Alhamdulillah . but if not, still alhamdulillah bc maybe it didn't happen now, but maybe years down the line because of your one action, Allah opened their hearts, inshallah. When you know your doing smt for the sole purpose of seeking the pleasure and love of Allah, the reaction and backlash you get from his creation won't seem to matter as much
@@Daryl-h6nAllahumma barik, what a beautiful response and guidance. I have not been in this situations myself, but loved the recommendations you had. May Allah bless you! ❤️
As salam Aleikoum Sisterr, I feel you. I also am a revert and I got kicked out yesterday for refusing to obey in the desobedience of Allah (to buy decoration for them, serve haram food, etc.) Al Hamdoulilah, Allah test those whom Hé loves and the biggest the test the biggest the reward inshaAllah. May Allah keep us firm in His deen and make us die upon it amîn. May He forgive all the sins of the muslims and agree us into Jannatal firdaws amîn. While on earth, may He Grant us a wonderful family upon tawhid that Will be the coolness of our eyes, amîn. I love you for the sake of Allah my sister.
Allaahumma yassir! I hate this time of the year as a revert because I miss being together with the whole family… I’m from Finland so Christmas is a big thing and we go all out. Of course I don’t celebrate it anymore Alhamdulillah and don’t visit them during their holidays but I miss how cozy these days were with everyone and how happy they made me 😔
May Allah make it easier for you🤍 I myself am not a revert but I'm hiding that I'm a practising muslim, so I really feel you. The hardest part of that is the feeling of not belonging to them. Thats really sad to feel not accepted in your own family.. They should have been our safe place where we can be whoever we want without being judged. It's a huge test from Allah and inshaAllah you will hold steadfast on your deen🌙 I always had the same feelings you had when you tried your best for your family. I also did everything I can, I tried to be like them, do whatever they wish. But in the end, they were never truly happy until they have changed your heart completely.... From my experience I can guarantee you that it is not worth at all to make efforts for people that don't want to listen nor change. Be proud of who you are and what you have achieved and try to never feel lonely. Allah is always with you wherever you are and Allah is the all-seeing Don't let yourself down, even if it is your family. Dream big and have lots of hope, but don't expect anything from them. May Allah grant you to build a pious family, give you righteous children
As salamu aleikum as a revert from romania since this summer i know this pain because sometimes it is difficult but in shaa allah everything is going be alright my sister ❤❤
I needed this so much i relate so much 😢 Allah will reward you so much !! only fear Allah you will get what you deserve you will get the environment you deserve in this life and the hereafter
Te înțeleg atât de bine și simt totul exact așa cum simți și tu. Este ca și cum ai vorbi din sufletul meu. Fie ca Allah să ne ușureze calea nouă, celor care am acceptat Islamul.❤️🩹
I pray that Allah eases your pain and gives you strength🤎 . I’m not a revert, so I can’t completely understand your experience, but I do know what it’s like to grow up in a toxic environment. Sometimes it feels like there’s not much you can do except turn to Allah in dua. Something that really helped me was looking at the lives of the prophets. Prophet Ibrahim (AS) had a father who not only rejected Islam but even threatened him and threw him into the fire. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) dealt with an uncle who wanted to harm him. Prophet Nuh (AS) had a son who refused to believe and ended up among the disbelievers, and Prophet Lut (AS) faced betrayal from his own wife. Family can be such a huge test, and I know it hurts. But just remember that with patience, Allah will reward you in ways you can’t imagine. Keep holding onto your faith, make dua, and trust that Allah sees everything you’re going through. May He make it easier for you and fill your heart with peace🤎
Being a revert can be so hard and a lot of times reverting means feeling the loss of connections with family when you start to get more connected to Islam. Alhamdulliah I have been blessed to be guided and honestly I don't even think I have it as hard as half of these comments but may Allah continue to strengthen us and guide us. May Allah soften the hearts of the families who hearts are hardened and may Allah ease our hardships 💓.
May Allah make it easy for you. I am a revert myself, 18 years a Muslim. The best thing is to stay away from your family during this period. I tell my mum straight that I won't be around. You can drop by any time of the year, but just not during the festive period. Also, marriage makes it less lonely. If you are not married already, try to find a good practicing Muslim man in sha'Allah so that you have a companion.
Subhanallah Allah has chosen to guide you and for you to be an example for ur family. Allah never burdens a soul for more than they can bare. May Allah strengthen you and keep you on the right path. Sending hugss
Al Wadud, Ar Rahman , My Lord I ask You to ease the hardships of our dear sister. Surround her with Your mercy, grant her peace in her heart, and make her feel deeply loved and cherished. Replace her sadness with joy, her fear with confidence, and her struggles with relief. Ya Allah, guide her to what is best for her in this life and the Hereafter. Strengthen her faith and make her trust in Your wisdom. Grant me the ability to support her and be a source of comfort in her life. Ameen. We love you !! Keep being the strong muslima that you are my dear sister ❤️ It is hard, and Allah is always with us 🥰
you don't know me but I'm so proud of you, I always admire reverts strong imam, as they always seem so firm in their faith and as a muslim born into a muslim family I strive to have the strong patience and faith like reverts such as you have. You made me feel inspired to wear the niqab as a 15 year old and I want you to know that your platform has really changed my mindset in a positive way, and so may Allah ease your struggles💞💝
I can truly feel the weight of what you're going through. It’s incredibly hard to love and respect people who don't understand your faith. You're facing a struggle that many others have faced too, where the bond of family feels torn between love and the harsh reality of rejection or hostility. It’s painful, and I want you to know that your feelings are valid. At the same time, remember that Allah knows your heart and your intentions. You want to honor your family because you’re trying to live by the beautiful values Islam teaches-patience, respect, kindness-even when it’s incredibly difficult. That’s a sign of your strength and faith. Even when it feels like there’s no respect in return, what matters is that you continue to act with dignity and compassion, holding onto the hope that, over time, things may change. You don’t have to sacrifice your peace or your beliefs for the sake of others, but you also don’t have to lose your humanity in the process. You’re showing the very essence of what Islam teaches: to act with goodness, even when the situation is hard. ❤ Allah knows your struggle, and He will reward you for your efforts to preserve both your faith and your family ties. The love and respect you’re trying to maintain will always be seen by Him. Trust in His wisdom and keep turning to Him for strength. You are not alone in this.
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through I hope Allah makes it easier for you and rewards you for all your patience and suffering, and compensate you for all your hardships. No matter how hard things are right now or how lonely it may seem Allah will always be with you and grant you ease soon In’Sha’Allah. Remember ان الله إذا أحب عبدا ابتله, when Allah loves a servant He tests them. Stay strong I hope Allah eases all your pains🤍
May Allah grant you and all the Muslims patience and ease in every matter and keep you firm on the religion ❤ I know it's really difficult for reverts especially in west but remember every hardship which you face for the sake of Allah you will get the reward better than this whole world 🤍
May Allah ease your your pain and thank you for sharing your truth. I myself ,I am not a revert but this video gave me a glimpse on how some revert muslims feel. Although I have never experienced similar feelings as yours, I ask Allah to give you strength and may Allah bless your life tremendously. Allumma Amiin. 💞
May Allah (SWT) give you strength. Continue to read tafseer as sa’di and realize that you are on the right path. The Prophets and messengers before you were tested just like you.
ASSALAAMUALAIKUM YA UKHTI, U r so strong maashallah dealing with such things without letting yr iman shake.. dont let the shaitaan shake up yr iman ..its soo relatable ..when u see ppl doing wrong but cant help in correcting them.Insha allah allha will give you ajar for this..May Allah fill yr life with peace,contentment ,his LOVE..WHATEVER situations you maybe dealing with come to ease for u. stay blessed🌼🌻
SunhanAllah, sister you are never alone. No matter what happenes is you have Allah then you dont need anything but if you dont have Allah they no matter how many people you have, you will have lost everything. Also remember, you might have a family that isnt reciprocating the feelings you have for them but you have a whole family of muslims
May Allah make it easier for you. You will find solace in prayer, 2 rakat nawafil and your heart will go in peace, inshaALLAH, also read the stories of sahaba it will give you strength
Assalamu Aleikum warrah'matullah wabarakatuh' dear sister. May Allah help you, give you sabr and strength on this path... it brakes my heart seeing you like this, even though I have not met you nor do I know you. You seem like a very kind, down-to-earth and sincere sister. From before I knew it must be hard for reverts to leave there family because of them accepting Islam, but had not realised how bad it must be. I wish I could help you in any way possible or make this situation even 1% better for you, and am sorry for not being able to. I know however that Allah will take care of you, In sha Allah. You are a beautiful soul. I pray that your family will understand one day, as I know how dear ones family is. Family is the closest people you have, and they not understanding is difficult. May Allah bless you, and give you everything good in both this Dunya and Akhira❤️
I just put on niqab, had to turn down gifts, and am trying soo hard to navigate speaking to my family while not actually "celebrating;" shed some tears myself as well. I am grateful for this video, and am grateful to not be alone! May Allah increase you in Khair and keep you in a state of strong Imaan :)
I'm so sad to hear this my sister. Just know not everyone in this life cares about being as nice to others as they deserve and you are upon the truth x
i revert in feb 2012 age 37 , wa alaykum salam, we are liberated from birthdays and the festivals of profetas anteriores, earlier prophets, we don' t have to concern ourselves with these festivals and we are instructed to stay away from them, and it is for the better, believe me
Asalaamualaykum beautiful❤️May Allah be please with you with your hardships and come to ease inshallah🤲🏻I know how you feel sister I have family that are Muslim and non Muslim and this video made me tear because I felt your emotions sister. It hard when you want to be with all your family but some won’t come together because of what we chosen❤️I still deal with the other side for what I chosen and it truly don’t effect me how it did anymore because I choose Allah and if Allah will guide them he wills❤️For many sisters I hope ease for you ladies Alhamduallah🤲🏻
I feel so sorry for u💔 keep ur head up girl this is the biggest test from Allah swt! I ask Allah to keep you steadfast on the deen and to calm the hearts of ur family💗. Remember to always be kind to them and reminding them of Islam even if it’s just by your actions, lest Allah might guide them one day🥹. You even aspire me as a niqabi to be steadfast seeing all your struggles. Never forget that Allah is always with you keeping you safe from their harm!🌸
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته Hope you are doing well ان شاء الله You went through what Sahabah went through when they did hijrah and many were abandoned by their families
يا أخت Stay strong Allah has blessed you abundantly and shown you the straight path. You know the truth and what others fail to see you as a believing woman are the reflection of light and beauty for the rest of humanity. Allah alone is sufficient, he hears our cries and knows our deepest most troubling thoughts. And he alone is the best disposer of affairs. Never lose hope❤️✌🏼🌱
May الله bless you sister🫂, I'm not a revert but when you were saying the difficulties that you are going through and our other revert sisters I can't even imagine I'm in your place.... لَا يُكَلِّفُ ٱللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۚ Allah does not require of any soul more than what it can afford [Surah Al-Baqarah:286]
Allah is the only one who truly loves us in this life sister ❤ He will bless you with his grace and mercy and you will be with the righteous. Laa hawla waa laa quwata illa billah 🤲🏻💐
@Mariyam.1450 i feel like i was chased out of the USA, after i became Muslim , because i reverted at the time the Syria war began, and others assumed i became Muslim to be a terrorist or a terrorist recruiter for the Syrian war, which made the first 8 yeara of my life as Muslim nothing but running away from bad people,
@Mariyam.1450 i feel like i was chased out of the USA by terrorist recruiters for the Syrian war , when i came to Islam with pure intention to enter the correct religion, not jump into the sectarian war in Syria, but extremists often outnumhered me and made me feel like a minority for not wanting to be an extremist who helps terrorist agencies, for oil proxy wars, so 2013 - 2020 became a survival series in Peru for me, hiding from people who were angry i just want to formally study my relgion, not add propaganda for a proxy war to it
sister i ask allah to make it easy on you and dont forget that early muslims lived like this and i suggest you to learn the stories of early muslims to make you understand that being a muslim between alot of non muslims requires patients, may god ease the test on you and live a happy life
And [mention, O Muḥammad], when Abraham said to his father Āzar, "Do you take idols as deities? Indeed, I see you and your people to be in manifest error." ۞ وَإِذْ قَالَ إِبْرَٰهِيمُ لِأَبِيهِ ءَازَرَ أَتَتَّخِذُ أَصْنَامًا ءَالِهَةً ۖ إِنِّىٓ أَرَىٰكَ وَقَوْمَكَ فِى ضَلَـٰلٍۢ مُّبِينٍۢ ٧٤ Quran 6:74
Am so sorry acoperita. My own muslim parents give me a hard time with my jilbaab. My mum beat me mocked me. In fact in front of everyone I moved away as soon as I got my certificate I don't want to swallow someone's toxicity. I can't wait for the days u look back and laugh at this incident. Remember sis Allah Tests those whom he loves. Also u can't change ppls mind my mum is leaving Islam I keep trying but Allah guides those whom he wills. Am so sorry pls
@acoperita ukhti I cried and am still crying. But I believe Allah is The Most Powerful and He will make a way put for me. Don't worry but pls keep praying sa Astaghfirullah and Alhamdulilah. Make istighfar a daily routine even when typing cooking walking it will calm you
Stay strong sister. You are so lucky to be chosen by Allah to be muslimsah.. believe me we are all tested reverts and non-reverts.. and believe me it is worth it.. I’m willing to give up everything for the sake of Allah..
I am an ex-Muslim but convert to Christianity in the last year and I can completely understand the strain in family dynamics once you change your beliefs :’( so sorry for the pain you’re going through. Hope you take time to heal. May God bless us all ❤ Take care
hi sister tysm for this video may Allah grant you Jannah... I have a question....my family is extremely Islamaphobic, and ive had abuse done to me because of me defending the religion, I became Muslim about 2 months ago alone in my room only Allah Azawajal as my witness and said my shahada, I was scared because I thought i wouldn't be good enough bc i didnt nknow how to pray and how to even make time for it since my family doesn't know. Should I tell my family I'm muslim? I get forced to eat non halal meat or keep my door open and my father always wants to check my phone...it's so hard but my father told me the second I join those terrorists its the day he's not my father anymore. My mother said that it's her house and it's her rules, and that no muslims are allowed in the house and that the religion is not allowed to be practiced. Ohhh my Goddd, Ya Rab please make it easier for me. And yes i have corrected them over and over with love but yk they don't listen and say that they will make me kill them. My family is Christian and basically anything outside of that my father beliefs is from the devil. ESPECIALLY MUSLIMS. He's really rude and negatively sarcastic. And my mother doesn't really believe in religion bc she's very spiritual but shes way more understanding, but the thing is shes serious when she said that there are no Muslims in this house. Someone please help me...
My dear Sister. I'm ever so sorry about the rejection you are facing with close relations. This is something I've heard all reverts go through. It's normally the 1st loss they suffer You must understand sister, that your relations believe Christianity is the only religion. You leaving it, is what make them think you are an outcast. They are deeply offended by this. Especially, as you embraced Islam which they think is a religion of Terror It's exactly how a Muslim family would feel and do if, Allah SWT forbids, they leave Islam or another religion You need to bear patience sister. This is one of your biggest tests and it's a test which if you stand firm, you will succeed. Inshallah It's easy for me to say this, but show them you are a better person being a Muslim. When they are harsh, you show kindness. When they are offensive, you turn the other cheek and say it's not Christian of you to say this etc Try and tell them you haven't joined an alien religion but one which believes in the One God, one which believes in the Virgin Mary and Jesus Christ. But as a messenger. Talk about the common stuff 1st In time sister, you will succeed. You also need desparate support sister. Ive no idea where you live. So look towards reverts in your locality or a mosque to help you. If you wish, you could email me if you looking for some support, including financial. Not sure if my Google account gives you my email address May Allah SWT reward you immensely for your patience in. these trials of yours
as a Muslim how do you deal with the whole Christmas atmosphere ie trees windows markets etc. do you enjoy the season and the sights even though you know its not your holiday or do you have to try and blank it out
“come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yolk upon you and learn from me for I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your souls.” Jesus Isa said. Injeel, narrated Matthew (11:28-29) companion of ‘Isa. it’s as authentic as Sahih-graded Sunnah. edit: the real Isa is speaking here. Jesus will set you free from suffering. 1. John Chapter 4. Matthew Chapter 11. It’s all been prophesied in Isaiah Chapter 9 and this has been written by Muslim Prophet Isaiah and perfectly preserved (reference Death Sea Scrolls, Proto-Isaiah) If you have any questions I will do my best to answer you. You cannot also search for Sam Shamoun, David Wood, Godlogic Apologetics, Give Light, Denis Falcon.
Sister preferred Akhirah over Duniya. Masha'ALLAH you are better than us. May ALLAH give your strength and boost your Iman. Hold on to the Book of ALLAH and rely upon ALLAH only. don't worry if you feel cornered , ALLAH will open many doors for you. Indeed there is ease with difficulty.
This is terrible and you don’t deserve to be treated that way no matter what. I hope they will see their misbehaviour, repent and apologise to you. God bless you.
"Say, ‘I am not a novelty among the apostles, nor do I know what will be done with me, or with you. I just follow whatever is revealed to me, and I am just a manifest warner." 46:9 Allah tells the Prophet to declare to mankind, He does not know what will happen to him or us , YET there are so many forged narratives in his name that allegedly prophet is talking about what he saw in Hell and Heaven ... Which is a Clear BIG LIE according to 46:9 - Prophet had no IDEA how heaven and Hell looked like - DO NOT FOLLOW HEARSAY BROTHERS AND SISTERS Peace
you're giving up something for the sake of Allah...Allah will replace that with some thing better and superior inshallah sister...chill...in the day of judgement there will be people who would be so sorry for having bad companions and there will be people who'll be thankful for having good companions .....socialize with good companions maybe or get married maybe 😅and chill sis....may the almighty Allah protect you
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw i meant not to care about the toxic people...overthinking about them would cause her harm thats why i was telling her to chill..i wasn't trying to be rude in any shape or form brother
No person in this world will be able to understand your feelings, even in a muslims family some people feel lonely. The only only ONLY one that actually knows and understand and can help you is Allah. So vent and cry to Allah and just feel how your problems lighten and you are able to go through it.
I think the video really went over your head and I suggest you pay attention before commenting ignorant comments. I’m upset because I am living through the abuse they put me through when I was younger, yet again. I was under the impression if I left it would make a difference. As a Muslim I also don’t celebrate Christmas but Seeing that they are forcing me to do this and that, it can be detrimental for my mental health.
What do you know about Afghanistan? Probably cant even pronounce the name properly. What about Christians who say that christmas is not an christian holiday, will you also tell them to move?
it means to separate them from yourself ... the word Daraba (Strike) when used in the context of between something is for separation take a look at 57:13 (it will be striken/seperated between them with a wall) & 8:12 ( and strike/separate from them every fingertip) so when Allah says to strike women it means to seperate them from yourself (expel them) this is the correct translation because in 4:35 Allah says if they wanna reconcile let a ruler from his family and a ruler from her family come for making peace... it means at this point the two are seperated ... these people translated as beating and fabricated all sorts of lies that prophet said to beat them with a Misvak, etc
and strike them, it means to seperate them by expelling, strike/Daraba when used in the context of between something is for seperation - take a look at 57: 13 "and it will be stiken(seperated) between them with a wall" or in 8: 12 "and strike(separate) from them every fingertip" We have in arabic too, Daraba AL-Dahru Baynana - the world has striken (seperated) between us ضرب الدهر بیننا Also in 4: 35 Allah says if you are afraid of a split between the two let a ruler from his family and a ruler from her family come for reconcilation, so this means at this point the two are seperated I do not know why RUclips keeps deleting my peaceful comments
it means to "Strike them [out]" ... the word Da Ra Ba - Strike when used in the context of between something is for seperation take a look at 57:13 (it will be striken/seperated between them with a wall) or in 8:12 (and strike/seperate) from them every fingertip
Inshallah If there's anything I can do to help you, I hope allows it. You are so strong and think positively even tho your surroundings aren't. You are brave for confronting your family and trying to solve your relationship, even tho you aren't the issue. Inshallah Allah gives you the patience I have, the acceptance I receive from my parents, and my positive emotions as much as he wishes. May Allah grant you ease, and acceptance if it's what is khair for you, Surely I know you know some things aren't good for us, but that doesn't mean times won't be hard, so thank you for your cooperation and strength. I am a new viewer but will surely be a subscriber. Again may Allah grant you what he wills ❤🩹
Stay strong sister. You are so lucky to be chosen by Allah to be muslimsah.. believe me we are all tested reverts and non-reverts.. and believe me it is worth it.. I’m willing to give up everything for the sake of Allah..
Thank you all for the lovely comments, I’ve never gotten this vulnerable online before but knowing that my platform had grown and attracted people who live or have lived similar experiences, it made me keen on making a video about this.
I love you all for the sake of Allah 💓
SubhanaAllah , I admired your life story cause I watched your other videos . Seeing a muslim in this situation is heart-breaking. I would suggest you a good marriage with a good spouse(Truly loving ) in a muslim country like Turkey . Assalamu Alaykum
May Allah increase your sabr(patience) and may Allah ease your struggle and strengthen your iman. May Allah grant you the highest paradise for all of these. Amin
I love you too 💞 thank you for everything, and despite having a hard time, you include us in a matter we don't deserve to be in, So thank you and Im proud of you for all the things you've dealt with and how you dealt with them ❤🩹
I know its extremely hard, as a revert myself. I can see that you care a lot and you feel very deeply, more than most people would be able to if they had gone through the things that you have. Allahumma barik, some people think its a curse, being able to feel and care so much. But i believe it's your blessing, maybe you don't see it but what you have is soo extremely rare, may Allah preserve and increase you in it.
For me, what i found worked for a period of time, is that i took the emotional element out of it. I think this approach might help you as it helped me. I see the effort you put in to try to have a better relationship with your parents - you came all this way hoping they had changed, you cook for them and so much more. But i think this is the part where you're getting hurt. Maybe you don't realise it, but you have an emotional attachment to your actions - in the sense that maybe unconsciously or consciously, you're hoping for a reaction that you've always wanted from them, a part of you still yearns for something from them and when they disappoint you, it hurts even more, its because you've actively placed yourself in a situation where you have an emotional attachment to a specific outcome your expecting from them.
Instead maybe do this, change the intention of you actions, change it so your doing it for the sake of Allah. For example, if you cook for them, cook with the intention that it's a good deed that you're cooking halal for them or maybe this action will, with the grace and mercy of Allah, maybe he'll ease their hearts a little. Because then your hope is in Allah, and you know that he doesn't disappoint. But what's important is that you're not cooking because you want a certain reaction form them - bc then you're emotionally attached.
When your intention is for the sake of Allah, you have no attachment to your parents - where their response dictates how you feel. Your attachment is with Allah, your reward is with him, you know that he sees you. your efforts don't go unnoticed. Maybe your parents don't respond in the way u hoped but because you didn't do it for the sake of their approval, instead for the pleasure of Allah, it won't bother or hurt you when they repond differently. Qadar of Allah, if they respond well. Alhamdulillah . but if not, still alhamdulillah bc maybe it didn't happen now, but maybe years down the line because of your one action, Allah opened their hearts, inshallah.
When you know your doing smt for the sole purpose of seeking the pleasure and love of Allah, the reaction and backlash you get from his creation won't seem to matter as much
@@Daryl-h6nAllahumma barik, what a beautiful response and guidance. I have not been in this situations myself, but loved the recommendations you had. May Allah bless you! ❤️
As salam Aleikoum Sisterr, I feel you. I also am a revert and I got kicked out yesterday for refusing to obey in the desobedience of Allah (to buy decoration for them, serve haram food, etc.) Al Hamdoulilah, Allah test those whom Hé loves and the biggest the test the biggest the reward inshaAllah. May Allah keep us firm in His deen and make us die upon it amîn. May He forgive all the sins of the muslims and agree us into Jannatal firdaws amîn. While on earth, may He Grant us a wonderful family upon tawhid that Will be the coolness of our eyes, amîn. I love you for the sake of Allah my sister.
We're proud of you. Mashallah ❤️
Allaahumma yassir! I hate this time of the year as a revert because I miss being together with the whole family… I’m from Finland so Christmas is a big thing and we go all out. Of course I don’t celebrate it anymore Alhamdulillah and don’t visit them during their holidays but I miss how cozy these days were with everyone and how happy they made me 😔
May Allah reward you for everything you’ve sacrificed for his sake and make it easier for you
@@Bamboo7002Ameen 🥹So kind of you🤍
May Allah make it easier for you🤍
I myself am not a revert but I'm hiding that I'm a practising muslim, so I really feel you.
The hardest part of that is the feeling of not belonging to them. Thats really sad to feel not accepted in your own family..
They should have been our safe place where we can be whoever we want without being judged.
It's a huge test from Allah and inshaAllah you will hold steadfast on your deen🌙
I always had the same feelings you had when you tried your best for your family. I also did everything I can, I tried to be like them, do whatever they wish.
But in the end, they were never truly happy until they have changed your heart completely....
From my experience I can guarantee you that it is not worth at all to make efforts for people that don't want to listen nor change.
Be proud of who you are and what you have achieved and try to never feel lonely.
Allah is always with you wherever you are and Allah is the all-seeing
Don't let yourself down, even if it is your family.
Dream big and have lots of hope, but don't expect anything from them.
May Allah grant you to build a pious family, give you righteous children
As salamu aleikum as a revert from romania since this summer i know this pain because sometimes it is difficult but in shaa allah everything is going be alright my sister ❤❤
I needed this so much i relate so much 😢 Allah will reward you so much !! only fear Allah you will get what you deserve you will get the environment you deserve in this life and the hereafter
Te înțeleg atât de bine și simt totul exact așa cum simți și tu. Este ca și cum ai vorbi din sufletul meu. Fie ca Allah să ne ușureze calea nouă, celor care am acceptat Islamul.❤️🩹
💘ameen ya Rabb
I pray that Allah eases your pain and gives you strength🤎 . I’m not a revert, so I can’t completely understand your experience, but I do know what it’s like to grow up in a toxic environment. Sometimes it feels like there’s not much you can do except turn to Allah in dua.
Something that really helped me was looking at the lives of the prophets. Prophet Ibrahim (AS) had a father who not only rejected Islam but even threatened him and threw him into the fire. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) dealt with an uncle who wanted to harm him. Prophet Nuh (AS) had a son who refused to believe and ended up among the disbelievers, and Prophet Lut (AS) faced betrayal from his own wife.
Family can be such a huge test, and I know it hurts. But just remember that with patience, Allah will reward you in ways you can’t imagine. Keep holding onto your faith, make dua, and trust that Allah sees everything you’re going through. May He make it easier for you and fill your heart with peace🤎
Being a revert can be so hard and a lot of times reverting means feeling the loss of connections with family when you start to get more connected to Islam. Alhamdulliah I have been blessed to be guided and honestly I don't even think I have it as hard as half of these comments but may Allah continue to strengthen us and guide us. May Allah soften the hearts of the families who hearts are hardened and may Allah ease our hardships 💓.
May Allah make it easy for you. I am a revert myself, 18 years a Muslim. The best thing is to stay away from your family during this period. I tell my mum straight that I won't be around. You can drop by any time of the year, but just not during the festive period. Also, marriage makes it less lonely. If you are not married already, try to find a good practicing Muslim man in sha'Allah so that you have a companion.
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Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A believer is not stung twice (by something) out of one and the same hole."
Sahih al-Bukhari 6133
Asalamu aleikum, u are strong sister jazakAllah khayran🙏
Subhanallah Allah has chosen to guide you and for you to be an example for ur family. Allah never burdens a soul for more than they can bare. May Allah strengthen you and keep you on the right path. Sending hugss
the Iman reverts have is a wish for every born muslim ما شاء الله اللهم بارك may الله تعالى ease your pain 🤍 you are in my duas 🤍
I want to hug her😢💔
Sending all my love to my beautiful reverts . May Allan swt bless you, n grant you all jannah ameen.
Al Wadud, Ar Rahman , My Lord I ask You to ease the hardships of our dear sister. Surround her with Your mercy, grant her peace in her heart, and make her feel deeply loved and cherished. Replace her sadness with joy, her fear with confidence, and her struggles with relief. Ya Allah, guide her to what is best for her in this life and the Hereafter. Strengthen her faith and make her trust in Your wisdom. Grant me the ability to support her and be a source of comfort in her life. Ameen. We love you !! Keep being the strong muslima that you are my dear sister ❤️ It is hard, and Allah is always with us 🥰
Remember every muslim is going through their own tests and tribulations, this might be yours and, remember you will be rewarded inshAllah for it.
you don't know me but I'm so proud of you, I always admire reverts strong imam, as they always seem so firm in their faith and as a muslim born into a muslim family I strive to have the strong patience and faith like reverts such as you have. You made me feel inspired to wear the niqab as a 15 year old and I want you to know that your platform has really changed my mindset in a positive way, and so may Allah ease your struggles💞💝
I can truly feel the weight of what you're going through. It’s incredibly hard to love and respect people who don't understand your faith. You're facing a struggle that many others have faced too, where the bond of family feels torn between love and the harsh reality of rejection or hostility. It’s painful, and I want you to know that your feelings are valid.
At the same time, remember that Allah knows your heart and your intentions. You want to honor your family because you’re trying to live by the beautiful values Islam teaches-patience, respect, kindness-even when it’s incredibly difficult. That’s a sign of your strength and faith.
Even when it feels like there’s no respect in return, what matters is that you continue to act with dignity and compassion, holding onto the hope that, over time, things may change. You don’t have to sacrifice your peace or your beliefs for the sake of others, but you also don’t have to lose your humanity in the process. You’re showing the very essence of what Islam teaches: to act with goodness, even when the situation is hard. ❤
Allah knows your struggle, and He will reward you for your efforts to preserve both your faith and your family ties. The love and respect you’re trying to maintain will always be seen by Him. Trust in His wisdom and keep turning to Him for strength. You are not alone in this.
I’m so sorry for what you’re going through I hope Allah makes it easier for you and rewards you for all your patience and suffering, and compensate you for all your hardships. No matter how hard things are right now or how lonely it may seem Allah will always be with you and grant you ease soon In’Sha’Allah. Remember ان الله إذا أحب عبدا ابتله, when Allah loves a servant He tests them. Stay strong I hope Allah eases all your pains🤍
Your so strong ur a prious person May Allah grant you jannatul firdaus and protect you from the gell fire Ameen ❤
May Allah grant you and all the Muslims patience and ease in every matter and keep you firm on the religion ❤ I know it's really difficult for reverts especially in west but remember every hardship which you face for the sake of Allah you will get the reward better than this whole world 🤍
May Allah ease your pain ya Allah and may Allah guide them and all of us for the better Ameen🫶🏽!!!!
May Allah ease your your pain and thank you for sharing your truth. I myself ,I am not a revert but this video gave me a glimpse on how some revert muslims feel. Although I have never experienced similar feelings as yours, I ask Allah to give you strength and may Allah bless your life tremendously. Allumma Amiin. 💞
thanks a lot sister..
May Allah (SWT) give you strength. Continue to read tafseer as sa’di and realize that you are on the right path. The Prophets and messengers before you were tested just like you.
ASSALAAMUALAIKUM YA UKHTI, U r so strong maashallah dealing with such things without letting yr iman shake.. dont let the shaitaan shake up yr iman ..its soo relatable ..when u see ppl doing wrong but cant help in correcting them.Insha allah allha will give you ajar for this..May Allah fill yr life with peace,contentment ,his LOVE..WHATEVER situations you maybe dealing with come to ease for u. stay blessed🌼🌻
May Allah make it easy for you and grant you tranquility and peace in your heart. Keeping you in thoughts and duas ❤❤
SunhanAllah, sister you are never alone. No matter what happenes is you have Allah then you dont need anything but if you dont have Allah they no matter how many people you have, you will have lost everything. Also remember, you might have a family that isnt reciprocating the feelings you have for them but you have a whole family of muslims
May Allah make it easier for you. You will find solace in prayer, 2 rakat nawafil and your heart will go in peace, inshaALLAH, also read the stories of sahaba it will give you strength
May Allah grant you more perseverance
Assalamu Aleikum warrah'matullah wabarakatuh' dear sister. May Allah help you, give you sabr and strength on this path... it brakes my heart seeing you like this, even though I have not met you nor do I know you. You seem like a very kind, down-to-earth and sincere sister. From before I knew it must be hard for reverts to leave there family because of them accepting Islam, but had not realised how bad it must be. I wish I could help you in any way possible or make this situation even 1% better for you, and am sorry for not being able to. I know however that Allah will take care of you, In sha Allah. You are a beautiful soul. I pray that your family will understand one day, as I know how dear ones family is. Family is the closest people you have, and they not understanding is difficult. May Allah bless you, and give you everything good in both this Dunya and Akhira❤️
I just put on niqab, had to turn down gifts, and am trying soo hard to navigate speaking to my family while not actually "celebrating;" shed some tears myself as well. I am grateful for this video, and am grateful to not be alone! May Allah increase you in Khair and keep you in a state of strong Imaan :)
You are strong! ❤
I'm so sad to hear this my sister. Just know not everyone in this life cares about being as nice to others as they deserve and you are upon the truth x
i revert in feb 2012 age 37 , wa alaykum salam, we are liberated from birthdays and the festivals of profetas anteriores, earlier prophets, we don' t have to concern ourselves with these festivals and we are instructed to stay away from them, and it is for the better, believe me
Asalaamualaykum beautiful❤️May Allah be please with you with your hardships and come to ease inshallah🤲🏻I know how you feel sister I have family that are Muslim and non Muslim and this video made me tear because I felt your emotions sister. It hard when you want to be with all your family but some won’t come together because of what we chosen❤️I still deal with the other side for what I chosen and it truly don’t effect me how it did anymore because I choose Allah and if Allah will guide them he wills❤️For many sisters I hope ease for you ladies Alhamduallah🤲🏻
May Allah grant you strength in the world and paradise in the hereafter
May Allah make it easy for u sisters. stay steadfast and rely fully on Allah❤
Thank you for putting this there though u don't know that sister that would revert in the next 10 yrs then go thru this and stumble on ur video.
I feel so sorry for u💔 keep ur head up girl this is the biggest test from Allah swt! I ask Allah to keep you steadfast on the deen and to calm the hearts of ur family💗. Remember to always be kind to them and reminding them of Islam even if it’s just by your actions, lest Allah might guide them one day🥹. You even aspire me as a niqabi to be steadfast seeing all your struggles. Never forget that Allah is always with you keeping you safe from their harm!🌸
Even though its hard, you did the right thing coming back, we cannot break ties with family no matter how toxic. It will make you stronger.
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته
Hope you are doing well ان شاء الله
You went through what Sahabah went through when they did hijrah and many were abandoned by their families
يا أخت
Stay strong Allah has blessed you abundantly and shown you the straight path. You know the truth and what others fail to see you as a believing woman are the reflection of light and beauty for the rest of humanity. Allah alone is sufficient, he hears our cries and knows our deepest most troubling thoughts. And he alone is the best disposer of affairs. Never lose hope❤️✌🏼🌱
May الله bless you sister🫂, I'm not a revert but when you were saying the difficulties that you are going through and our other revert sisters I can't even imagine I'm in your place....
لَا يُكَلِّفُ ٱللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۚ
Allah does not require of any soul more than what it can afford [Surah Al-Baqarah:286]
Allah is the only one who truly loves us in this life sister ❤
He will bless you with his grace and mercy and you will be with the righteous.
Laa hawla waa laa quwata illa billah 🤲🏻💐
i reverted and my family only visited me once before i was exiled
@Mariyam.1450 i feel like i was chased out of the USA, after i became Muslim , because i reverted at the time the Syria war began, and others assumed i became Muslim to be a terrorist or a terrorist recruiter for the Syrian war, which made the first 8 yeara of my life as Muslim nothing but running away from bad people,
@Mariyam.1450 i feel like i was chased out of the USA by terrorist recruiters for the Syrian war , when i came to Islam with pure intention to enter the correct religion, not jump into the sectarian war in Syria, but extremists often outnumhered me and made me feel like a minority for not wanting to be an extremist who helps terrorist agencies, for oil proxy wars, so 2013 - 2020 became a survival series in Peru for me, hiding from people who were angry i just want to formally study my relgion, not add propaganda for a proxy war to it
sister i ask allah to make it easy on you and dont forget that early muslims lived like this and i suggest you to learn the stories of early muslims to make you understand that being a muslim between alot of non muslims requires patients, may god ease the test on you and live a happy life
i js wanna hug youuuu
And [mention, O Muḥammad], when Abraham said to his father Āzar, "Do you take idols as deities? Indeed, I see you and your people to be in manifest error."
۞ وَإِذْ قَالَ إِبْرَٰهِيمُ لِأَبِيهِ ءَازَرَ أَتَتَّخِذُ أَصْنَامًا ءَالِهَةً ۖ إِنِّىٓ أَرَىٰكَ وَقَوْمَكَ فِى ضَلَـٰلٍۢ مُّبِينٍۢ ٧٤
Quran 6:74
may allah make things easier for u
Am so sorry acoperita. My own muslim parents give me a hard time with my jilbaab. My mum beat me mocked me. In fact in front of everyone I moved away as soon as I got my certificate I don't want to swallow someone's toxicity. I can't wait for the days u look back and laugh at this incident. Remember sis Allah Tests those whom he loves. Also u can't change ppls mind my mum is leaving Islam I keep trying but Allah guides those whom he wills. Am so sorry pls
Subhanallah, may Allah ease your affairs ukhti. May he reward you for your efforts ❤
@acoperita ukhti I cried and am still crying. But I believe Allah is The Most Powerful and He will make a way put for me. Don't worry but pls keep praying sa Astaghfirullah and Alhamdulilah. Make istighfar a daily routine even when typing cooking walking it will calm you
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Stay strong sister. You are so lucky to be chosen by Allah to be muslimsah.. believe me we are all tested reverts and non-reverts.. and believe me it is worth it..
I’m willing to give up everything for the sake of Allah..
I’m really sorry that you’re crying/upset…
That’s really terrible, them yelling and arguing, I’m so sorry
Also JannahVersity is a great channel for reverts.
May Allah make it easy for you :(
I am an ex-Muslim but convert to Christianity in the last year and I can completely understand the strain in family dynamics once you change your beliefs :’( so sorry for the pain you’re going through. Hope you take time to heal. May God bless us all ❤ Take care
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You are good enough 😕💝💝💞
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hi sister tysm for this video may Allah grant you Jannah... I have a question....my family is extremely Islamaphobic, and ive had abuse done to me because of me defending the religion, I became Muslim about 2 months ago alone in my room only Allah Azawajal as my witness and said my shahada, I was scared because I thought i wouldn't be good enough bc i didnt nknow how to pray and how to even make time for it since my family doesn't know. Should I tell my family I'm muslim? I get forced to eat non halal meat or keep my door open and my father always wants to check my phone...it's so hard but my father told me the second I join those terrorists its the day he's not my father anymore. My mother said that it's her house and it's her rules, and that no muslims are allowed in the house and that the religion is not allowed to be practiced. Ohhh my Goddd, Ya Rab please make it easier for me. And yes i have corrected them over and over with love but yk they don't listen and say that they will make me kill them. My family is Christian and basically anything outside of that my father beliefs is from the devil. ESPECIALLY MUSLIMS. He's really rude and negatively sarcastic. And my mother doesn't really believe in religion bc she's very spiritual but shes way more understanding, but the thing is shes serious when she said that there are no Muslims in this house. Someone please help me...
ukht, it is important for us NOT to say damn, bc it means “being kept away from God’s mercy”! it is wrong bc Allah ﷻ is All-Merciful
You’re right, I think in the moment I was so upset and uncomfortable with the feeling that I didn’t know how else to react.
Barakallahu feeki
@acoperita it happens to us all, hope youre feeling better tho! wa fiki baraka Allah 🫶
i have trouble being alone during ramadan, i care nothing about festivals of profetas anteriores, hehe
I love you for the sake of Allah ❤
My dear Sister.
I'm ever so sorry about the rejection you are facing with close relations. This is something I've heard all reverts go through. It's normally the 1st loss they suffer
You must understand sister, that your relations believe Christianity is the only religion. You leaving it, is what make them think you are an outcast. They are deeply offended by this. Especially, as you embraced Islam which they think is a religion of Terror
It's exactly how a Muslim family would feel and do if, Allah SWT forbids, they leave Islam or another religion
You need to bear patience sister. This is one of your biggest tests and it's a test which if you stand firm, you will succeed. Inshallah
It's easy for me to say this, but show them you are a better person being a Muslim.
When they are harsh, you show kindness. When they are offensive, you turn the other cheek and say it's not Christian of you to say this etc
Try and tell them you haven't joined an alien religion but one which believes in the One God, one which believes in the Virgin Mary and Jesus Christ. But as a messenger. Talk about the common stuff 1st
In time sister, you will succeed.
You also need desparate support sister. Ive no idea where you live. So look towards reverts in your locality or a mosque to help you.
If you wish, you could email me if you looking for some support, including financial. Not sure if my Google account gives you my email address
May Allah SWT reward you immensely for your patience in. these trials of yours
as a Muslim how do you deal with the whole Christmas atmosphere ie trees windows markets etc. do you enjoy the season and the sights even though you know its not your holiday or do you have to try and blank it out
I think it’s pretty, for example when I see the lights on the streets, but i don’t engage in anything because it’s not my holiday.
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Allah is sufficient for you sister
“come to me, all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yolk upon you and learn from me for I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your souls.” Jesus Isa said.
Injeel, narrated Matthew (11:28-29) companion of ‘Isa. it’s as authentic as Sahih-graded Sunnah.
edit: the real Isa is speaking here.
Jesus will set you free from suffering. 1. John Chapter 4. Matthew Chapter 11.
It’s all been prophesied in Isaiah Chapter 9 and this has been written by Muslim Prophet Isaiah and perfectly preserved (reference Death Sea Scrolls, Proto-Isaiah)
If you have any questions I will do my best to answer you. You cannot also search for Sam Shamoun, David Wood, Godlogic Apologetics, Give Light, Denis Falcon.
Sister preferred Akhirah over Duniya. Masha'ALLAH you are better than us. May ALLAH give your strength and boost your Iman. Hold on to the Book of ALLAH and rely upon ALLAH only. don't worry if you feel cornered , ALLAH will open many doors for you. Indeed there is ease with difficulty.
❤from 🇵🇰 sis
This is terrible and you don’t deserve to be treated that way no matter what. I hope they will see their misbehaviour, repent and apologise to you. God bless you.
"Say, ‘I am not a novelty among the apostles, nor do I know what will be done with me, or with you. I just follow whatever is revealed to me, and I am just a manifest warner." 46:9
Allah tells the Prophet to declare to mankind, He does not know what will happen to him or us , YET there are so many forged narratives in his name that allegedly prophet is talking about what he saw in Hell and Heaven ... Which is a Clear BIG LIE according to 46:9 - Prophet had no IDEA how heaven and Hell looked like - DO NOT FOLLOW HEARSAY BROTHERS AND SISTERS
Peace
you're giving up something for the sake of Allah...Allah will replace that with some thing better and superior inshallah sister...chill...in the day of judgement there will be people who would be so sorry for having bad companions and there will be people who'll be thankful for having good companions .....socialize with good companions maybe or get married maybe 😅and chill sis....may the almighty Allah protect you
Wdym chill? 🤦🏻♀️
@rightouserightouse-wh6rw i meant not to care about the toxic people...overthinking about them would cause her harm thats why i was telling her to chill..i wasn't trying to be rude in any shape or form brother
No person in this world will be able to understand your feelings, even in a muslims family some people feel lonely. The only only ONLY one that actually knows and understand and can help you is Allah. So vent and cry to Allah and just feel how your problems lighten and you are able to go through it.
Why are you making videos, sister?
Oh no! How sad.. What about living in Afghanistan? No one celebrates Christian Holidays there?
Yeah but it’s expensive in Afghanistan and the economy is really bad here. Soon it’ll be good In’Sha’Allah
@ you think only problem is the economy? Seriously?
I think the video really went over your head and I suggest you pay attention before commenting ignorant comments. I’m upset because I am living through the abuse they put me through when I was younger, yet again. I was under the impression if I left it would make a difference.
As a Muslim I also don’t celebrate Christmas but Seeing that they are forcing me to do this and that, it can be detrimental for my mental health.
What do you know about Afghanistan? Probably cant even pronounce the name properly. What about Christians who say that christmas is not an christian holiday, will you also tell them to move?
@ Trust me I know lot about Afghanistan, Also I don't care what Christians do
Hi, I would like to know your opinion and explanation regarding verse 34 of Surah An-nisa
it means to separate them from yourself ... the word Daraba (Strike) when used in the context of between something is for separation take a look at 57:13 (it will be striken/seperated between them with a wall) & 8:12 ( and strike/separate from them every fingertip) so when Allah says to strike women it means to seperate them from yourself (expel them) this is the correct translation because in 4:35 Allah says if they wanna reconcile let a ruler from his family and a ruler from her family come for making peace... it means at this point the two are seperated ... these people translated as beating and fabricated all sorts of lies that prophet said to beat them with a Misvak, etc
and strike them, it means to seperate them by expelling, strike/Daraba when used in the context of between something is for seperation - take a look at 57: 13 "and it will be stiken(seperated) between them with a wall" or in 8: 12 "and strike(separate) from them every fingertip"
We have in arabic too, Daraba AL-Dahru Baynana - the world has striken (seperated) between us ضرب الدهر بیننا
Also in 4: 35 Allah says if you are afraid of a split between the two let a ruler from his family and a ruler from her family come for reconcilation, so this means at this point the two are seperated
I do not know why RUclips keeps deleting my peaceful comments
I’d recommend reading tafseer of ibn Kathir on these ambiguous verses
it means to "Strike them [out]" ... the word Da Ra Ba - Strike when used in the context of between something is for seperation take a look at 57:13 (it will be striken/seperated between them with a wall) or in 8:12 (and strike/seperate) from them every fingertip
It means to “Strike them/ separate them” something like expelling, take a look at Surah AL-Hadid verse 13 & Surah Al-Anfal verse 12
Merry xmas
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sthu man you're not funny💀🙏
May Allah heal your heart, reward you abundantly, and grant you even greater blessings in this life and the Hereafter 🤍
im in a similar situation now only I don't have the financial means to leave my house its so hard and scary sometimes
Inshallah If there's anything I can do to help you, I hope allows it. You are so strong and think positively even tho your surroundings aren't. You are brave for confronting your family and trying to solve your relationship, even tho you aren't the issue. Inshallah Allah gives you the patience I have, the acceptance I receive from my parents, and my positive emotions as much as he wishes. May Allah grant you ease, and acceptance if it's what is khair for you, Surely I know you know some things aren't good for us, but that doesn't mean times won't be hard, so thank you for your cooperation and strength. I am a new viewer but will surely be a subscriber. Again may Allah grant you what he wills ❤🩹
Stay strong sister. You are so lucky to be chosen by Allah to be muslimsah.. believe me we are all tested reverts and non-reverts.. and believe me it is worth it..
I’m willing to give up everything for the sake of Allah..