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Yes don’t argue with parents . Avoid Arguments and work your ways through be wise yes find ways to practice in your abusive households and may Allah make it easy for y’all Ameen

May Allah make things easy for You and reward You for what you went through Ameen

Assalam Aleikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakathu hayyakillah I am not ok social media and I’m not social media bug either . I use You Tube a lot and I might use soon Instagram for business but I agree with a lot of what You said cause of my own observation of Muslims throughout years and I’ve been a muslimah Allahumma barek for 15 years I reverted to Islam like yourself in my prime time and or though I’m not old I sit with older Sisters a lot and I observe what’s happening around Me and I can see how things changed from since I reverted til now and I can tell You from both Worlds Islamic one cause im living in a Muslim Country and I was living long time in the West . Islamic Lands are much more better but still fitnah is everywhere

Please read Book called “Ibn Aqil Al Hanbali’s Essey on ISLAMIC MANNERS” very lovely Book Allahumma Barak

یَـٰۤأَیُّهَا ٱلَّذِینَ ءَامَنُوۤا۟ أَطِیعُوا۟ ٱللَّهَ وَأَطِیعُوا۟ ٱلرَّسُولَ وَأُو۟لِی ٱلۡأَمۡرِ مِنكُمۡۖ فَإِن تَنَـٰزَعۡتُمۡ فِی شَیۡءࣲ فَرُدُّوهُ إِلَى ٱللَّهِ وَٱلرَّسُولِ إِن كُنتُمۡ تُؤۡمِنُونَ بِٱللَّهِ وَٱلۡیَوۡمِ ٱلۡـَٔاخِرِۚ ذَ ٰ⁠لِكَ خَیۡرࣱ وَأَحۡسَنُ تَأۡوِیلًا﴿ ٥٩ ﴾‬ • Muhsin Khan and Taqi-ud-Din al-Hilali: O you who believe! Obey Allâh and obey the Messenger (Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم), and those of you (Muslims) who are in authority. (And) if you differ in anything amongst yourselves, refer it to Allâh and His Messenger (صلى الله عليه وسلم), if you believe in Allâh and in the Last Day. That is better and more suitable for final determination. An-Nisāʾ, Ayah 59

We must study ohh Muslims take your knowledge from those who are certified to teach . You wouldn’t go to tailor for your heath so more so you won’t go to Fulan Bin Fulan for more important thing like your akhirah basically . Imam Muhammad ibn Sirin (rahimahullah) was an extremely pious, knowledgeable and prominent Tabi’i. He was born in Basrah, in the year 33 A.H., and also student of Anas ibn Malik Radhi Allahu anhu said ; knowledge is a matter of deen, so be careful who you take your deen from

Spubs may Allah guide them Ameen. It’s not your opinion Ukhti it’s what Ulamah was saying they are going to extremes with refutations without knowledge Allahu Almusta’an , we ask Allah for wellness and safety Ameen

Assalam Aleikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakathu hayyakillah You said what I think Subhan Allah and I was never on TikTok and I don’t have any social media . I take lessons on You Tube still it’s crazy what questions Ulamah gets cause I’m participating in the lessons and at the end are questions Allahu Almusta’an

May Allah reward you immensely and help you with everything Ameen

Assalam Aleikum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakathu Hayyakillah Ukhti Barak Allahu Feeki for advice

Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125 Narrated Anas bin Malik: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Make things easy for the people, and do not make it difficult for them, and make them calm (with glad tidings) and do not repulse (them). Sahih al-Bukhari 39 Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Religion is very easy and whoever overburdens himself in his religion will not be able to continue in that way. So you should not be extremists, but try to be near to perfection and receive the good tidings that you will be rewarded; and gain strength by worshipping in the mornings, the afternoons, and during the last hours of the nights." (See Fath-ul-Bari, Page 102, Vol 1). And also a Hadith of the Prophet SAW who said: Sunan Abi Dawud 4608 ‘Abd Allah b. Mas’ud reported the Prophet (ﷺ) as saying: "Beware! The extremists perished," saying it three times. Abu Hurairah narrated: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said; “The religion (of Islam) is easy, and whoever makes the religion a rigor, it will overpower him. ” (Al-Bukhari) According to a report: “The best of your religion is that which is easiest, the best of your religion is that which is easiest.” Musnad Ahmad (3/479). Sahih al-Bukhari 6125 Sahih al-Bukhari 6125 Narrated Anas bin Malik: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Make things easy for the people, and do not make it difficult for them, and make them calm (with glad tidings) and do not repulse (them ). Thus We made you a “wasat” (moderate) upright nation, that you might be witnesses for all of humanity, and the messenger a witness over yourselves. (2:143) “So keep your duty to Allaah and fear Him as much as you can” [al-Taghaabun 64:16] And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When I tell you to do something, do as much of it as you can.” The issues that are based on this principle are innumerable. In Musnad al-Imam Ahmad (5/32), in a report which was classed as hasan by the commentators on the Musnad, it is narrated that Mihjan ibn al-Adra’ said: I came with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and when we were at the door of the mosque, we saw a man who was praying. He said: “Do you think he is sincere?” I said: “O Prophet of Allaah, this is So and so, he is one of the best of the people of Madeenah, or one of those who pray the most of the people of Madeenah.” He said: “Don't let him hear you lest you be doomed” - two or three times - “you are an ummah for whom I want ease.” Better Order: According to a report: “The best of your religion is that which is easiest, the best of your religion is that which is easiest.” Musnad Ahmad (3/479). Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125: Narrated Anas bin Malik: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Make things easy for the people, and do not make it difficult for them, and make them calm (with glad tidings) and do not repulse (them ). Sahih al-Bukhari 39 Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Religion is very easy and whoever overburdens himself in his religion will not be able to continue in that way. So you should not be extremists, but try to be near to perfection and receive the good tidings that you will be rewarded; and gain strength by worshipping in the mornings, the afternoons, and during the last hours of the nights." (See Fath-ul-Bari, Page 102, Vol 1). Thus We made you a “wasat” (moderate) upright nation, that you might be witnesses for all of humanity, and the messenger a witness over yourselves. (2:143) “So keep your duty to Allaah and fear Him as much as you can” (Quran) [al-Taghaabun 64:16] And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “When I tell you to do something, do as much of it as you can.” The issues that are based on this principle are innumerable. Abu Hurairah narrated: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said; “The religion (of Islam) is easy, and whoever makes the religion a rigor, it will overpower him. ” (Al-Bukhari) Sunan Abi Dawud 4608 ‘Abd Allah b. Mas’ud reported the Prophet (ﷺ) as saying: "Beware! The extremists perished," saying it three times. In Musnad al-Imam Ahmad (5/32), in a report which was classed as hasan by the commentators on the Musnad, it is narrated that Mihjan ibn al-Adra’ said: I came with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), and when we were at the door of the mosque, we saw a man who was praying. He said: “Do you think he is sincere?” I said: “O Prophet of Allaah, this is So and so, he is one of the best of the people of Madeenah, or one of those who pray the most of the people of Madeenah.” He said: “Don't let him hear you lest you be doomed” - two or three times - “you are an ummah for whom I want ease.”

Correction: The sharia does not legislate that in order to observe hijab you have to wear a khimar or abaya. In doesn’t have specific rulings regarding the exact clothing. What it does provide are guidelines to modesty. Numerous scholars have clearly stated that so long as your clothing is in line with the rulings of Islamic modesty, then you are observing hijab. Your interpretation is an extremist interpretation, there is no Hadith stating that you have to wear a jilbab or a khimar in order to observe hijab.

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May Allah reward you, you are a warrior!!

Thank you for posting the video, may Allah preserve uou and grant you the firsaws. I love your cadence, keep it up!

Peace Whoever Wages War Against Hadith, is doing the Struggle in the Path of God, After All things the Sunnis have done, Do you think We will let the ideaology and brainwash to live ? The Sunnis actually managed to change the translations of the Qur'an so that it would go in line with their fabricated Hadith and Sunnah Brainwash ... Some of us has gone through Hell and came out from it - Sunnis think they can keep misleading people with that verse of the Qur'an which they intentionally misinterpret it for them ? for what ? to drag them back to that Hadith Brainwash , to drag them into Satan's Education and Destroy their souls and Dunya and Hereafter

this is so true as a Shia muslim revert of 10 years I’ve been questioning this for years. I was raised “christian” and I started having panic attacks at 4 years old when I understood the concept of death. And then at 15 it escalated in to drug abuse and then I came to a point where I didn’t see a meaning with anything like why even live if we are just going to disappear, it got to the point where I couldn’t leave my house without having a panic attack. Then as a final desperate attempt I locked my self in my room for 6 months in search of the truth with a genuine heart. I in-depth researched all the major and some minor religions in the world, from a sientific and logical, spiritual and historical perspective. I had a bunch of questions that needed to be answered starting from big bang to dinosaurs to neandetrthals ect all the way to the present day. Most religions didn’t get past even the first few questions without major issues. I then when I thought I had gone through all the religions and I was about to give up I just remembered that Islam existed and I just knew it was the truth and I reverted at 16 years old, so I would want to make an input that just because your are young and reverent doesn’t mean that your get manipulated by extremism. And pretty soon after that it was easy to find myself in the footsteps of ahlulbayt. No one with a true search for the pleasure of Allah can ever de manipulated in to extremest group. But even so I haven’t stopped doing critical research and analysis over the years now 10 years later I’m alhamdulillah stronger in my faith as a Shia Muslim then ever… and I will forever challenge anyone to try and find a single fault in the Shia Islamic teachings. Because there are non. I even had a bad period where I even actively wanted to disprove my own faith because I was pissed at all the rules for a while. Still there was no disproving anything only confirming, which instead of achieving what saytan was trying to achieve it only managed to get me even closer to the Allah swt. We need a lot more compassion in this world especially in our ummah, Allah is Al-rahman Al-raheem, and if we look at the likes of Prophet Mohammed sawa or Imam Ali as the are the complete opposites to what the extremest groups are. I recently put in the niqab as well, Most of our schoolars is not deeming it wajib (only if we have beautifications on the face like makeup or piercings or something like that) but it’s the sunnah of my female roll models such as Fatimah Zahra as or sayida Zaineb as and i absolutely love it even if a lot of “Shia Muslims” are sadly against niqab for some reason. Life is too short to go and be angry or harsh or bitter to everyone around us that doesn’t live exactly like us, just strive to get at close to Allah as possible and be an example of how a Muslim should be not just look wise but also akhlaq wise and I’ll think we’ll get a lot further inshallah. Sorry for the rambling but the I hope I got my point across without sounding random I was trying to keep it short🥲

10:40 "So during the time of Jahiliyya, the women were obviously not observing the hijab." Historically incorrect, Jahiliyya women did wear hijab as much as other Jahilliyya men wore turban. Based on historical evidence and interpretations of the Quran, women during the pre-Islamic era (Jahiliyyah) generally wore head coverings (khimar), but the manner in which they wore them differed from the guidelines later introduced in Islam. In pre-Islamic Arabian society, wearing a head covering (khimar) was already a common cultural practice among women. This was not something new introduced by Islam but part of their existing attire. Women at the time wore the khimar draped behind their shoulders, leaving their necks, throats, and upper chest exposed. Imam Qurtubi, in his tafsir, mentions that women of Jahiliyyah would let the ends of their khimar fall behind, leaving the chest and upper body uncovered. Allah commands: "...and let them draw their veils (khimar) over their chests..." (Surah An-Nur: 31) This verse clarified that believing women, who already wore the khimar, were instructed to adjust its manner of use to cover their necks and chests modestly. The directive does not introduce the khimar as a new concept but modifies its purpose and usage to align with Islamic modesty requirements.

Just came across this today and I’ve subscribed! I also don’t understand their logic because when you look at the stories of the prophets of Allah, all of them had to deal with disobedience people, people who argued back-and-forth with them, people who mocked them, and some had to deal with people who tried to kill them or had killed them . Yet with everything they went through, these prophets just did their job and they just preached. Never heard of anyone lashing out or trying to basically murder their people for not listening to them. These extremists will not have survived if they were the ones to give the message. Because they believe you have to take what they say by force and the stories of the prophets tell us that preach what you have to preach and make sure you’re preaching what Allah hasordained, But guidance comes from only Allah and we cannot take people’s rebellion against Allah’s words to heart

subhanallah this came at the right time. i thought i was all alone in this and something was wrong w me. thank u so much sister and you’re english like me :D haha

I'm a born Muslim, started practicing more than a decade ago and everything you said in this video resonated so much with me. May Allah strengthen you and give you the courage to always walk on the right path. I feel heard when I watch you talk about these things. Only yesterday, these men online were slandering me because I said it's not ok for a man to lose control and hit a woman in the face if she's being verbally disrespectful even. They called me names and said I was a feminist even; they give Islam such a bad rep fr. Ameen.

I was once with these extremist people , you are right extremism becomes trendy sometimes,I was a teen back then and it was disgusting,they literally loved terrorists ,supported slavery ,were very misogynistic racist ,and very hateful ,and you said it right you feel no longer connected to Allah ,and Alhamdullilah Allah guided me and I left them ,and I love Allah and Islam now much more<3333

honestly im a revert and i dont understand what is so hard in wearing the hijab. i also had family issues etc but ive never felt like its hard for me or like i wanna take it off

I am grateful that Allah guided you. Subhan Allah

Real.. Even though I agreed with the opinions they put out, I realized that my empathy for others went down and I automatically began judging people on the train 😭😭 rather than being neutral to them..

Ukhti thank you so much for this <3 it really helped me :)

When I started practicing Islam again after a long life of agnosticism (I'm Bosniak, but Bosnians are pretty irreligious generally), I dove right in and got excited. Of course I was so excited to please Allah but it quickly went into extremism. I was so freaking depressed. I was anxious. I hated myself. I felt guilt and shame. I literally just wanted to be unalived so the pressure could get away from me. Alhamdulillah I relaxed and I'm at peace with myself now and I find that my connection to Islam is more personal and deeper than my outward appearance. It's my character and my spirituality. I was so obsessed with fine tuning how others see me but hardly if at all worked on my character and what was inside of me.

I am grateful to the hijabis on our campus where i work. I am 65 and recently reverted. The fact that i wear hijab is due to their example for the most part. Subhan allah.

So wholesome to watch sisters, may Allah bless you!

*Have you not seen those who assume that they believe in what has been sent down to you and what was sent down before you? They desire to seek the judgment of fake deities, though they were commanded to reject them, and Satan desires to lead them astray into far error* 4:60 We are commanded to Reject all Hadith and Books oh history, etc and Only use What has been Sent down [Qur'an] for judgement - This is the Command of Allah

One doesn't need a messenger or scripture to connect with the divine or to be pious. Just repeating 'water, water' won't quench your thirst. There’s a verse about someone satisfied with the name but never seeking the essence-someone who admires the symbol but never fulfills its purpose. A statue comforts the heart with its name, yet remains an empty vessel. Symbols are fleeting; the truth lies beyond them.

I am wearing it 24 years alhamdulillah niqab hijab as revert . If you know why you reverted then nobody can make you stray from deen . Has to be for the sake of Allah swt. I took baby steps . May Allah swt keep us guided to the last breath ameen🤲

Hadith has no Authority in the matters of Deen, Because Hadith are hearsay from Streets - Before making partners with Allah in the matter of Deen - I advise you guys to not blindly follow books of hearsay .... On the day of Qiyama [Qur'an] and [Torah] and [Gospel] will be the criteria not Sahih books of Ibn Whatever

So glad I came across this video sister. My story is basically my mother is a revert, and my father passed away when I was younger, and I live in a country that is not Muslim majority. So I never really lived as a Muslim should, even though I prayed and fasted. Or so I thought, because the people around me or what you call the "haram Police" would always criticize to the point where I thought I wasn't doing enough. One of them (sadly, she was one of my teachers) even told me that she didn't know if I was Muslim or not, and that if I was a "better Muslim" then maybe my father would've been alive. It hurt my feelings so much because I had just lost my father, and I was guilt trapped into thinking that my "disobedience" is the reason my father passed away. For so many years I struggled, I became hateful, I almost became a victim of following the wrong path. But by Allah's Mercy, I was able to fight back, start taking my deen seriously. Alhamdulillah I am in a better place now, both spiritually and mentally. I learnt to love my religion. I learnt to distinguish what people said and what Allah Azzawajal and the Prophet (SAL) has said. Those criticisms no longer hurt me, because I know better now. I'm so glad you spoke about your experiences, because this isn't a topic many discuss.

The book please 🌸❤️ allahuma barik

Christian here, I understand. Exactly what type of extremism you're talking about, the people who tell you to follow all these rules not out of the love of God, and out of the reasons from God, but out of pridefulness. These communities are just awful to be it in my experience, and you can never form genuine connection based on faith, because these people completely lack real faith or understanding. Quickly after my extremism, I became a devert. It took me months to get back to an area where I can actually grow in my faith.

Salam, how do you reconcile the fact that these extremists use direct verses from Quran to guide their actions? What makes them "extreme"? Aren't they the true fundamentalists? No hate just genuinely curious

I feel you كعربية ومُسلمة مند الولادة ، مجتمعاتنا بقت صعبة أوي بقت كلها أحزاب ومجموعات متفرقة ، فين أيام لما كنا مسلمين وبس ، متبعين للكتاب والسنة بس ، انتهت الأيام دي أول ما رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم توفى ، واختلفنا وبقينا أقسام وأحزاب بشكل مؤلم ومحزن وموجِع ، كلهم بيطع*نوا في بعض وبيح*ذروا من بعض .. اللي هو بجد أتنيل أتبع ميييييين ؟ الواحد زهق من كتر الفِرَق ، الفِرَق دي والله قادرة أنها تكرهك في الإسلام على بعضه ، لأنها بتوريكِ الإسلام بتاعها ، مش الإسلام الحقيقي بتاع ربنا ، بيألفوا وبيأولوا الآيات والأحاديث عشان توافق فِكرهم المتشدد أو المتساهل ، أفعالهم وأقوالهم وكل حاجة فيهم ملهاش علاقة بالدين بس بيغطوا نفسهم بعبائة الدين ، بقوا يصَعَّبوا الحق على الناس عشان تحريفهم فيه .. بقى اللي عايز الحق يحتار .. مين الصح ؟ .. فمن حيرته بيختار يبعد عن الوَش ده كله .... وبما أني زهقت ، فوصلت أني مُسلمة وبس ، مش بتبع أي مسمى تاني ، وصلت للإعتدال في الدين زي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ، وعندي القلب والعقل والنصوص الدينية من قرآن وحديث اللي أقدر أحَكِّمهم على حياتي وفي الآراء اللي قدامي ، كل ما بقرأ القرآن والأحاديث أكتر كل ما بشوف جمال ديننا وبش*اعة الناس اللي بوظته بأفكارهم .. بشوف الرحمة واللين واللطف في ديننا اللي مش بشوفها في الحقيقة ! مضحوك علينا ، ولما اتعلمت عرفت قد أيه بيظهروا اللي عايزين يظهروه ويخفوا الباقي ، مش عايزين يبقوا/ نبقى مسلمين بجد لييييييه .. مالإسلام عسل أهو يا جدعان بالله عليكوا اتعلموا عشان الجه*ل يوقف انتشار نسأل الله الهداية والثبات ويارب اهدِ الخوارج أو خدهم وريحنا من نفا*قهم وج*هلهم وقر*فهم عشان واقفين في زوري 🐥 قول آمين يا واد منك ليه 👊🏻

Don't forget us other christian and jewish sisters hahaha, some of us dress the same but no one talks about it - we're here 🎉😅

This is the video l needed. You're saying facts sister ❤

I’m glad I found your channel, just watched your vid on loving hijab. I’m currently just learning that what I went through was abuse, I’m so brainwashed that I thought all the self help stuff, whether it was turning to the deen fully (astaghfirullah) or psychology was nonsense until recently. I still live with my parents who are extremely controlling and verbally abusive and I want to move out bc it’s affecting my deen and I feel all sabr-ed out tbh. No more jumping through hoops to get abused anyway. Everyone misuses the deen (esp them and extended family) to get me to be obedient and I can’t take the abuse anymore so I think it’s permissible to move out in my case. The anger and hurt is still there because I understand they had a hard childhood that made them narcissistic but they still have to choice to be better people (like their siblings-they even bully my extended family). I’ve accepted they are incapable of parental love, that’s it not my fault and the cycle of abuse ends with me.

Genuinely sister your vibe and way of speaking is so beautiful, and the content of your videos are so enlightening. I pray Allah rewards you for your hard work and allows this to be a means of sadaqatul jaariyah for you!

Assalam Aleikum wa Rahmatullah Habibti do Pilates instead of yoga in shaa Allah. 🪷

Hey sis ❤ 4:01 I am not wearing hijab and was waiting the right time to feel like doing it and by listening to you i realized that it is jihad you are not supposed to wait till you feel like doing it right ?

Assalam Aleikum wa Rahmatullah may Allah protect us from all evil sects ameen . May Allah guide us and forgive us Ameen . I’m also Slavic Revert Allahumma Barek may Allah keep us steadfast Ameen

Assalam Aleikum Habibti those who follow the salaf doesn’t takfeer others cause they studied to understand that takfeering is for scholars not common people and more so not on TikTok or social media

Assalam Aleikum Ukhti Welcome to Islam may Allah keep us steadfast Ameen . May Allah guide our parents Ameen. As You are a Muslim we have a hope in shaa Allah always Habibti Ask Allah to makes things easy for You with all hardships I promise it will pass just sail through your tests Habibti . Islam is the only way to paradise don’t allow Shaytaan to come and whisper doubts about Islam

May Allah keep us and You steadfast Ameen .

The extremists are definitely a cult and none of them seem truly happy. Practicising Islam sincerely creates happiness. A lot of them are grumpy, standoffish, unapproachable and just not what you imagine a person of the Sunnah to actually be.

Great video sis. I'm planning to start a similar style channel this year (faceless). I hope I can be as brave as you. I dont have tiktok, what is your business?