Teacher asks students to comfort sobbing classmate whose father died recently
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A video of a teacher hugging a sobbing girl and then asking the rest of the class to join in the hug and offer comfort has warmed many hearts online. The girl’s father had died recently.
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Everyone needs a teacher like this growing up.
I know, right? Atleast few kids will be saved from anxiety/ depression if only they could find that one person to comfort them.
I had the worse teachers growing up💀 some of them gave me ptsd
@@Still_theBaddest_561 Sorry that happened to you. I hope you can find a way to find peace, whether it be therapy or some other way.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
Yes. Teachers like this literally change lives.
A similar thing happened to my friend. Her father left and her mother passed away back in december. I remember in the morning when our teacher embraced her and everyone was worried about her and comfortef her throughout the day. Props to this teacher and the students, theyre truly amazing
so who takes care of your friend now? is she doing well ?
I'm not trying to start beef or anything but one of my friends recently had a similar problem, but he's a boy. He was in class when he got the news that his dad got into a car crash, and he of course started crying. but some girls were apparently uncomfortable bcuz of his crying so the teacher( also a female) told him to shut up or go to the principal's office. we live in a society 😢
@@nagamaheshg711 yes shes doing better ! her maternal grandparents and uncle take care of her :)
@@challenger.mp4 Wow. That's infuriating
@@challenger.mp4 that's such a disgusting thing for them to do. The teacher and the students should be ashame if they were sad they would want some one to care about them. People need to realize guys have feelings to and it not something to be creeped out about. So what happened to the male students? they didn't comfort him either? But we live In a society full of double standards
It’s so sweet seeing kids these young knowing how to care and comfort their classmates❤❤❤
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@@FusionWarriorsOC why
Why in the world did you report her comment
@@FusionWarriorsOC ?
@@FusionWarriorsOC stop projecting
Every marriage has problems but for either parent to abandon their child is unforgivable!
Like you said problems. I wouldn't take sides because to me I think is wrong. but I do get what you mean .
@@waichong9389 we don’t know what happened. but abandoning your own child is never excusable
@@marez8069 tell that to American fathers
@@housefire6229 can't talk to someone who's not there
Not for you to comment on you don’t know the situation nor is it your place to judge focus on maintaining your own beliefs rather than assuming your beliefs are universal or are better than others
The teacher taught one of the most important lessons to her students that day. ❤
empathy
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
@@ninjapirate123sadly yes most likely 😢
@@ninjapirate123 not all the people is bad, I would say the most is not. But the worst is always louder than the rest.
I found out my aunt died on a Monday after school, but I still went to school the next day because I was in a small class. I was the first one to show up that morning so I let my teacher know what happened, and that I was close with my aunt. Teachers aren't allowed to touch students or anything, so she just looked really sad and told me she was sorry. Eventually later in the day, I was just staring out the window and thinking about everything, when she just patted me on the shoulder and gave me a kind smile. She was literally breaking a law by doing that, but she saw that I didn't want to be alone and I'll always remember her kindness.
why teachers cant toucj students
@@MarcelliusT just to eliminate any risk of injury or abuse.
@@FAMOUS4EVER3000 ok bro
where r u from?
@@KC-rp5se Ontario
This kid will always remember this moment forever. This is probably the Dad coming through to them too, still watching over his kid❤
dont be a lunatic. The dead are dead. The only mercy that is available is what is decreed by the maker.
@@splittingvoid7923 You seem fun at parties :3 wise up, will you? There's nothing wrong with the belief that our late loved ones watch over us. It's called compassion.
@@splittingvoid7923 u seem emotionally dead....get some help....
@@splittingvoid7923 please shut up.
@@Abcity92 also i love ur pfp :> nezuko chaaan-
"A great teacher like this will be the brightest light in the girl's childhood." such a beautiful way of putting it. couldn't have said it better
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
When my father passed away, none of my friends showed up, I was too emotionally weak to even pick a call and even then I called some of them to inform about my father's passing and timing for the funeral.
Most of them lived like 2-3 blocks away. None of them showed up. They knew everything. Their reasoning? We thought u wanted some space and we didn't think we were needed coz you didn't invite us the 2nd time.
Been 2 years, still can't get over it.
That's so sad...maybe it's country difference? It wouldn't have been like that where i am from...(south india)
I understand how you feel. My father died recently and the "friends" I had didn't check on me or reach out. I've since then had to let them go. If they assumed I just "wanted space" when I was regularly struggling with depression ( and really needed their support) why would they suddenly do any different during a time like this? Even after multiple times of communicating what I need.
I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you are finding the right friends for you now.
Most people don't care about you. Tough truth
@@scholaroftheworldalternatehist it doesnt mean you have to bring him down even further, his friends may not care for him but i do
Real friends know when to barge in and when to give you space. I hope you're doing great. ♥️☺️
This is touching to see. May we continue to see more generosity and kindess in this world.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
My grandpa passed away on Sunday. I just can't bear seeing my mother in pain and sadness. I hope everyone who is dealing with grief gets better and I know you're strong. Don't be afraid to cry, its okay. They are in a better place and they will be watching over you and protecting you. Their pain is over and soon, you'll see them again. Sending hugs to you ❤❤
Rest in peace to your grandpa. ❤
True words, your deceased loved one is at peace, nothing can harm them now. I hope everyone can remember that death is not a punishment, that's given me comfort. I hope that you and your family recover well and heal ❤️
how old was your grnadpa
@@ninjapirate123 72
@@mueyflores9117 Oh he could've lived longer if he was in better health
There's always that one teacher who actually brought their heart to school
A hug and gratitude goes to all teachers like this one! Your work doesn’t go unnoticed!
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
A month after my died of a sudden and massive heart attack my biology teacher showed a video of an open heart transplant. I ran out of the room and locked myself in the bathroom for hours. When I think back, it seems that I was most afraid of having to explain a pain that was beyond my understanding. I pray that when this child remembers this moment, they can feel love and a community of support.
something similar happened while i was in elementary school, the vicarious feelings u get is way stronger than youd think and when stuff like this happens its just so wholesome
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
Sometimes a simple compassionate hug can do wonders.
Exactly! Yet when I experienced loss most of my close friends avoided the topic or asking me how I feel 'out of respect' or because they 'did not want to overwhelm me' - but that was just incorrect. I appreciate the most those who were willing to acknowledge my pain and ready to openly talk about it.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
I’m 68 years old. My mum is still alive. She is 93 years old. I cried when I saw this video. 我今年六十八岁。我妈妈是九十三岁。我看这个视频我哭了。我还哭了。那个女儿 - 没有她爸爸的一生
if this was an US school, the teacher would not care, the other students would make fun of the kid
I know how this kid feels. I myself recently lost a much loved relative. My aunt had been ill for quite some time, she had problems with her breathing which cost her her life. 1 of her children was living in Australia (we live in Ireland) & came all the way to see her before she eventually died. Yes, he was at the funeral too.
Deepest condolences
Seeing u after a long time
farewell
This teacher has impacted this student more than she knows. I also lost my father at a very young age. I was so lost and so angry, I could barely function. There were a few teachers who went above and beyond to be there for my family and me. They are why I am a teacher today. I will never forget their kindness and compassion.
I'm glad that they have a caring teacher like that, some teachers are not like that, when a student has an emotional distress, teachers will usually say "Well your not the only one who has a problem, everybody does, so stop crying and keep your grades up"
Now THAT is an ideal teacher. She was attentive and aware and felt relaxed enough to treat her as she was, a terribly hirting child. I genuinely think this moment will stick with her for life, where someone showed they cared for her even after she felt like she lost everyone.
I hope close family is taking her in, they didn't explain her living situation now. If not ckise family, then hopefully a very kind couple with open hearts. I can't imagine losing both parents so abruptly.
Probably one of the only caring teachers left on earth 😢 if only my teachers were this caring
Hey im sorry because you didn't meet one. But you could be one.😊 let's make someone day and yours also
Don't speak in totality pls
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
I wish my teachers were like this when I was growing up. They were horrible & abusive. To this day I’m still scarred emotionally from what they put me through. The type of environment & treatment that surrounds us as children is what impacts us up until adulthood.
I lost my dad in 9th grade, then switched schools the year after, so no one except my hockey team mates knew. I would just start crying in class and have to leave. One of my friends would comfort me. No one else did anything. Not even the teachers. I felt very lonely, excluded and judged. I’m so glad this girl has such a supportive and loving teacher and friends in her classmates
It's really really important that children learn to be empathetic and compassionate.
What a wonderful teacher to be so empathetic, kind and caring. She set a lovely example and encouraged others to follow her lead. I wish I had been a child in her class instead of the bullying witch I had to endure.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
It’s something so rare and it’s so hard to explain the feeling when you witness a friend from your class and receive such devastating news, it was only a few months ago when it happened to our class in the University, my teacher couldn’t hold in the tears when she realised what happened, and we couldn’t either, our hearts literally sank to the floor that night during class, the guy who received the call about his dad had to leave immediately to get to the hospital and all we could do was watch in shock as he was leaving.. I badly wanted to hug him but it’s not common here where I live, but at the end of class I did my best comforting him with kind messages…
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
Children learn empathy and this is exactly how. Huge win for the teacher here.
Doesn't happen in America.... America is very insensitive...all the kids wouldn't even be sitting down like that. Some might make fun of him in the U.S
I’m not from the USA and I’m pretty sure people there would the same. Most people aren’t that evil.
I feel her.
I wish I can get one too.
My step dad just passed away. He's the reason why I had a very comfortable life and even allowed me to pursue my passion which is art (currently an animation student).
Right now, our lives is in shambles right now. I'm trying my best to hold on.
I wish you all the best and hope your life gets better!
@@RandomAJ16 thank you. Hopefully, we can get through this all. Mom is making me continue studying since it is my step dad's wish to graduate with a diploma and pursue my passion (which he initially disagreed).
This is the greatest lesson that books can't teach ❤, kudos to the teacher. She not only comforted that child but also taught empathy to all students as well.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
this actually happened to me when i was in 2nd grade.
A girl whom I really hated because of her narcissistic attitude towards everyone. But one day, during break time when most of the class was outside playing, I overheard my teacher telling her “your grandpa passed away.”
she started crying and the teacher tried to comfort her. I didn’t come and help her, thinking about her sh*tty attitude. But now i feel bad. Even how bad their attitude or behaviors, i think no one deserve to ever feel the pain of losing a loved one.
So please, remember to appreciate all your friends and family, because sadly, one day you might lose them.
Nah I don't feel sorry for her
Only for her family
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
Sometimes we all need is just one big hug.
It won't remove the pain, but will help the healing process ❤
while some people might like this group hug type thing, some people might not like it. losing a parent can be hard. i hope that child and any remaining family members have a strong support system around them.
i could tell that she needed one tbh. i think most people in states like these just genuinely need sympathy :')
You're right... but if you notice, not everyone hugged her. The boys seemed to refrain.
I hope China will get a better vaccine than their Sinovac before more children become parentless from this COVID-19 epidemic. ❤
The 2 girls on the left side of the class were laughing as they approach for a hug.
Im sorry to ruin moments like these but the unsincere in their action(at least to me it is) actually make me feel sad. Thats their friend crying right there!
At least thats better than students from other countries where they just sit there and laugh at the crying student rather than to hug and comfort her
@@ninjapirate123 true
i cant stop crying, this video is so touching :(
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
I love all of my relatives, family members, friends and teachers
I value a lot of em in highly competitive singapore
This is so in contrast from that poor kid with what I've been through. I'm telling this because not every kid feel sad when something like the video above happens.
After roughly 6 years of cold war with my father, I didn't feel sad during his funeral. He may had passed away about 3.5ish years from then which is quite some time, but the abuse felt like yesterday. Most guest that attended feels like some cheap formality, they don't really care much other that to leave once the procession is done.
An annual victory day celebration was personally held a day after his death due to avoid hurting my mom's feelings. So that means one day of silence (dedicated for mom's side) and the next day for celebration (my side).
I'm sorry for your loss
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
How could any mother abandon her child? It saddens me that so many people breed, knowing they will never unconditionally love their kids.
Fathers do it all the time, nobody cares. Women do it and it's like a grave sin lol
@@univalent15 I'm sad that you're surrounded by people who don't care about dads leaving. I've never met any people like that, nor am I one myself. No person, man or woman, has any right becoming a parent if they intend to leave the child for whatever reason.
@@univalent15 nah. Everyone think it’s bad. But hey it’s facts that fathers are more important. If the fathers are absents, the society get ruined because most criminals come from single mothers households but single fathers household raise better children just like in both parents households. Statistics say so. So why should mothers stay when they want to leave? Nothing would happen so they can
@@rose-yeah you should spread the word, deadbeat mom's will rejoice
Maybe they divorced
I would be the boy in the green shirt tho if that ever happens to my classmates. I tend to get nervous to speak to them ...
You're not alone.
Same😂
I don’t know how to comfort people 😂
The wholesomeness of the students to rush over to comfort her almost made me cry. Wish Irish secondary schools were like this…
If this happens in the US or other countries, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
@@ninjapirate123 really depends on the type of school in the us. There are schools that have teachers that really care about their student and then there a teachers who don’t care because they “don’t get paid enough” most of the teachers that don’t care are from schools that are in bigger cities.
@@kaylaster8332 true
They were ignoring her until told to hug her by the teacher...
Alright, we've hugged you, now GET BACK TO YOUR CALCULUS!
That's so sad. The girl lost her one and only parent. I hope she finds a way to heal and find the will to continue life with a smile.
When i was in elementary school, the teacher suddenly ask one of my classmates to pack her bags and go home. I didn't know what happen and remember i was so jealous of her because she can go home early. Later i find out if that day her father died and felt so sorry to her.
"To the Vastness of horizons, it is impeccable to be a witness of both transformation and so as evolution, footed and established" /./././G.M Industries. *****IMPORTANT******
A teacher like that will always be remembered by her students forever in their lives. Compassion, love and kindness are also learned in school. Teachers are our mentors and whatever they teach us we will learn.
When I was 11 years old I had forgotten to take my lunch to school. My teacher saw that I had no lunch so she sent me to her house nearby where I was given peanut butter and jelly sandwich. I will never forget her kindness even though I am 62 years old. I have learned to feed people when they are hungry and needy from my teacher and parents.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
I've lost a relative not so long ago, i know the feeling of losing a loved one, i'm glad the teacher showed that she cares for her student's mental health.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
That's so touching. I hope that young girl will be ok. At least she knows she has the support of her teachers and fellow students.
This was great. I’m sure he felt at least a bit better after this ❤️ Thank you teacher and students
May her father soul rest in peace.
I once joked to my classmate about him being a Born-Again who unknowingly had a mother died days between. The joke was "How does Born-Again works, are u stuffed in your mom's V every year and be born again". No one laughed. All I saw were jaws dropped and a boy turning red and getting ready to cry. It cost me an ice cream to make peace.
And the students and teacher were so kind to comfort the girl
wholesome content 👌
Wow - a school showing movie about parental love. Never knew schools cared anymore about family - but then I realised it is a school from Asia.
I had a same experience, my mother died from colon cancer four years back in June of 2019, it’s very hard for my sister and me , my mother had though she was going through menopause but when they scanned at the clinic,they could not detect the cancer, but unfortunately when we found out about it it was too late , the cancer was at the final stage and the cells had already spread throughout her body , so my uncle and his wife came over to take care of her, I would always hear her moan in pain whenever I sleep,she needed help in going to the toilet and my grandparents took care of us , she was transferred to two hospitals, tan Tock Seng , kkh, until she was taken by ambulance to Assisi hospital for ten days before she passed away, my grandfather recently passed away last year from a brain bleed, so me and my grandmother went there to his funeral
Look the love with which the teacher caresses the girl🥺❤️and I would start sobbing even more if the kids were coming to me like that
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
Well done for posting this video. It keeps faith in humanity alive
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
To make her day feel better my father died too its okay to be sad Remember you can always do better things And support your dad.
I also feel very touched by this... I bet they/she will remember this class, moment, teacher for life. Kudos to the teacher (this is the most important lesson of all...perhaps, for which no exam in this world can measure it). 👍
... and then they celebrated by having a banquet of boiled dog!!
Who is taking care of the girl then with her father gone? I pray for peace for her and everyone in Jesus name amen.
Americans can learn alot from other countries , this was very heart felt 😓
What a loving teacher, and I’m so sorry for her own situation too 😢
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
I'm happy to see how the teacher and classmates comfort him.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
My teacher once played a video about parental love in a computer lab in our school.I sat next to my best friend during that time and I said,"I was going to cry cause' this remind me a lot of my parents.She just shrugs and coldly watch the video.But I didn't care about it.I cried silently on my spot and I was glad because anybody hadn't noticed that I was crying.My late father always told me this,"crying only will make u weaker."Until today,his last words still echoes in my ears.The feelings harder when I don't lose once but twice.
Don’t be such an attention seeker then…
After all, there might be hope for humans still.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
@@ninjapirate123 welp so much for hope I guese
@@ELASTICDWARF yes
Though I don't think I needed this, thank you anyways for my daily dose of belief in humanity and great kindness.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
I wish I have a teacher like that
you can never see this in US for sure
Meanwhile in America, teachers sue their students for calling them with the wrong "pronoun"
Meanwhile, in other schools all across Asia, teachers beat their pupils...
Just because a few idiotic teachers in America do that does not lessen the wonderful work of many inspiring teachers.
Just because this teacher is caring and loving does not lessen the horrors meted out by some of her fellow teachers.
Who's taking care of the girl now ?
This is an amazing teacher. I hope the kid is alright.❤
That poor girl! I thought it was bad enough that her dad died. But when they said her mother abandoned her too, that's so freaking sad. That poor girl. I'm glad she has such a nice teacher.
problem with man is they doesn't know where to let out and express their feelings, because people will shame them and say they are weak. that why the highest suicide rate is male. men need a careline too.
And women keep saying
No one cares about their problems at all
We are all human🤍We are beings of light🤍We are one🤍
And they have no school shootings.
Beautiful. I understand that heartbreak. Thank you to the teacher and her students. ❤
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
Give that student 贝贝熊系列丛书 我爱小金鱼, AKA, Berenstain Bears Lose a Friend. or Baby Bear book series: I Love Little Goldfish.
"If you are looking from this world that which will suffice you, then you should know that the least of this world will suffice you, but if you are looking from this world that which will fulfill you and you are not fulfilled by that which suffices you then nothing from this world will fulfill you"
Now that is what we call a teacher.
I would give that girl $1 billion but i don't have $1 billion.
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@@FusionWarriorsOC bro, u again
@@FusionWarriorsOCbro what
I'm touched when the teacher started comforting the student.
The kids don't know how to react properly at this situation, the teacher teach them well.
students in us might be bully her instead, like in hollywood movies
Teachers like her are more powerful than teachers who only focuses on academics in any given days.
My neighbor just passed away today... The same day this video is aired. He left two daughters. I think one is the same age as this girl... Praying for both dads😢😢😢🙏🙏🙏
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
“It’s enough to make a grown man cry,and that’s okay” today we learned that that is true
We really don't appreciate teachers enough.
Some teachers don’t deserve appreciation
Depend on the culture, i find teachers to be more respected in asia than in america.
The are some case where teachers are disrespected or even harassed but it's rare
(Some)
@@sunmotton4872
We Filipinos always respect our teachers
And yeah we are family
@@Still_theBaddest_561 yeah.
world is healing
This kid will remember that teacher forever
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
Great teacher. We need more role models like these. ❤
Why they're so happy that his father died😢😢😢
they arent?
Awwww,poor thing. ❤
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her.
We all are just a human, only human.... 🫂
Give this teacher a reward for being heartwarming.
If this happens in the US, then the teacher would not care and just tell her to stop crying, the teacher won't even comfort her either. Along with that her classmates will make fun of her
👍🏾🙏👍🏾...Everyone need a hug tear joyful huge and a amazing thinkful loves like this...when someone loses someone...What a thankfully touch by this...who gathering around this young man who's tear weeping for his Father...I hope him nothing but the best...👍🏾🙏👍🏾...
very tourching