Thanks for taking the time to write this comment, I'm long over and past my difficult time some years ago, but your comment was exactly the kind of thing I needed then
Aww, it's been so long since I've been here. I "no contacted" this channel once I decided to let go of my ex, cos I didn't want to fuel my hopes or get obsessed with the rules, tips and tricks to getting exes back. Anyway, this is a great place for hopeful broken hearted people though. I wish you guys success in getting your exes back ❤️
Going through breakups are tough and every relationship and situation is unique. The best thing to do is to heal and to focus on yourself and the people you care about.
If you're trying to move on, this video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
Im about the same time and its so fking hard to do.. you know the right thing to do is move on. I kept saying to friends I wouldn't wish the heart break on them...
Hats off to his learning & experiance, How nicely he tried to explain the thing with great simplicity. We await for your every new video, please keep on teaching your viewers like this.
Thank you, your videos are calming my anxiety. I just went from a 10 to a 3, I get so wound up that I feel hopeless and feelings that I want to die. I know it sounds ridiculous, just for me..its a constant life/mind battle.
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
Thank you for helping all of us! It’s a nice feeling that somebody out there cares! Your very intelligent about these things, Sometimes it’s hard for us to be smart about things when we’re so absorbed in it!
Emotions can cloud your judgment and yes, breakups are really tough. I'm glad you appreciate my help. Feel free to check out my other vids to get more information on how to go about this. Take care!
Thanks Brad for all of your videos, just want to win my girl - she is even not my ex The most difficult for me is the “No Contact” period but will keep the faith and only your videos give me that faith! I am little worried - because she can found somebody else in that period or to forget me, but….I have a faith! Cheers! 💪
You're welcome! Just make sure you take those rose coloured glasses off to view the situation for what it is, yeah? Regardless, play your cards right anyway. This vid is good for starters: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html
Well, if you send the first text after no contact and they don't reply for a WEEK, don't lose your time, honestly, find your value and start dating again when you feel like it
We broke up 3 months ago but reconnected last month, talked almost daily, hang out, even in a naughty way (some naughty things), but now she says she wants to move on completely because of that, and doesn’t want to talk anymore.. she said things like “we are stuck in the middle, we are not getting back together and not moving on..” “if we’ll talk and stay in touch it would be weird if our future gf/bf will know that we are still friends..” “I want to stop talking so I can move on and open up for new people and relationships..” I said her okay and I accept that. But I’m really hopeless right now, I think it’s over and I don’t know what to do from here💔
Really sorry to hear that, man. I wish I know where to begin on what your next move is, but right now, you need to let go of her. I'm not sure what pushed her away, whether you displayed needy behavior or your ex really is in the mood for trying out new things. Either way, your best move is to cut off contact and work on yourself. Apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
@@BradBrowning idk brad, we just hang out and had fun but she still says she’s afraid to get hurt, or that her family won’t accept our relationship so there’s no chance it could work between us, and I feel really lost because of that.
If you see this. Thanks for the advice you gave me. Watched the videos. Good points. Gonna take what I can because this situation I'm confident is nothing you have heard before. She did break the ice but it gonna be tough cause she is a trained and licensed therapist. I confident your clients tell you their ex is something special and unique. We met back in college 2008 just friends. She is, one thing, she 33 now but work at a group home for children when she 25. At 27 she left that job and adopted her daughter a 16 year old from the group home.. What 27 your old woman does that!? I had surgery 3 weeks ago so bills but gonna try to sign up to be a client. Again thanks. Any last minute quick advice, Plus, took your test..65
I wish that everything goes well to all the lovely people out there trying to win back thier ex, this process is going to be the toughest period of your life, Be strong , wishing you well ❤️
It is tough. It's important to remove the blindfold as well too and be careful not to put your ex on a pedestal. Giving each other space should help you do that. Stay strong!
Hey brad, My ex didn't block me but she did unfollow me and took me out of her social media. We didn't even have a big fight. She just told me to let go her and did all this. What does this imply?
It means she needs space and wants to be single from you. Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but watch this too as this contains equally important information: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Hey Brad, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after very bad arguments & toxicity in our relationship. Not only her family probably hates me but I did your apology in person 3 weeks ago and cooled the tension, she forgave me but says she says she needs time to heal & move on (we work together sort of). She's 37 years old, VERY grounded, wise & mature & has no issues with putting herself first, I have huge doubts the mind games and no contact is going to work on my part I'm 20 days in & nothing, if anything I'm SURE the time apart will reaffirm her position as she Is a Psych major & in therapy, plus I know how her mind works, what do you suggest in my situation? Do I have a chance with her, I feel like even you will have a hard time getting her back 😫
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
Thank you so much for your advice, Brad. My ex always response my text and my call. Sometimes he response nicely, sometimes is so cold. My ex asked me to be his best friend when I asked to come back together. After watching your video, I decided to do no contact. It's already 3 weeks. Do you think, I still have chance to get back with him?
There's often confusion around a breakup especially when it's fresh. That's completely normal and which is why giving each other space is very much needed. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
I couldn’t care less, if my soon-to-be ex man-child , ever texted me again. The first three months after he up and ran away from home, without any warning, I tormented him viciously. 28 yrs of loyalty, devotion and commitment deserves at least a face to face conversation. Not just disappearing one day, “temporarily”. That was 6 months ago. Our children are grown, so I don’t have to do the pretend , happy parent crap. I’ll fire off a couple rapid sequence texts, telling him what a POS has degenerated into as a husband and father. Want him back, prick disgusts me.
Dreams are merely a reflection of the subconscious and doesn't depict reality at all. Hey I'm no dream expert but it seems like your subconscious is finding ways to cope with the breakup and your brain is trying to catch up with reality. For signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
It's been a couple of months since she contacted me. She hasn't blocked me from communicating to her. I haven't contacted her so she could have her space. Just feel stuck
You are in control of your own life. Find ways to get yourself unstuck. Apply the tips here and notice the difference: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
Hi Brad, after giving space for weeks, does sending a compilation of shared fun memories videos of us together count as a good message to send them to initiate contact again? Or will that push him away further 🤔
It's not only rude but also pointless. Don't re-establish contact if you just plan to dip out, I guess? I mean, what are you trying to achieve in doing that?
@@BradBrowning she reached out to me but she never gets to the point.... Feels like I'm on a war of ego... Her status on whatsapp are also annoying... Maybe she wants to make me jealous so that I'll ask her out again. I have done this mistake in the past so now I'm not doing that again.. so I was wondering if it's okay to ignore her whatsapp status and chill out with out being rude or looking like I'm doing this purposely to hurt her ...I GUESS I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE WITH THIS PROBLEM.
Oh yeah? Congrats! :-) I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from a more recent advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best!
Please don’t be funny if your ex broke up with your because she thought you were childish or ignored her needs. It will backfire. My ex bf was trying to do that when he was trying to get back and it just confirmed the reason why I broke up and put him on the block list. This is especially true if you’re dealing with a woman 35+, so be careful with being funny. Not what a woman wants especially if she has the rest of her life already figured out.
I have been blocked everywhere after a heated conversation in which he felt hurt by my long response to a hostile message of his. I said that all i ever did was love him and want to be better for him yet he looked down on me and acted as if I was victimizing him. I told him that I will not talk to him again and that he is not the great person I thought he was. He does not want anything to do with me for a very long time. I realize now that we both made mistakes as a natural consequence of not cutting off contact after the breakup for a month. But now we have not spoken in 3 weeks. Is it a bad idea to send a friendly email in a few weeks asking to have an opportunity to apologize and get on good terms? The relationship itself did not end badly, he said he never fell out of love, and he even hinted at the chance of reconciliation in the future at first, but he just felt more and more confident of his decision to end things probably due to the failure to cut off contact with me after the breakup. But he has shown every sign that he is not coming back. How can I increase my chances of getting back together?
That's true. This stuff could've been avoided if you've cut off contact and work on yourself and give him the space you need; the space that you both need actually. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning what if the situation is too complicated to be mentioned in just one text, and both of us made mistakes? what if i feel like i also deserve an apology from him? a mutual friend also said that i should take being blocked as a sign that he is not willing to talk.
Hi Brad, what if I broke up with him ten months ago because of his mental health struggles and him needing space to focus on himself. I reached out to him 3 weeks ago and he was responsive then disappeared after saying he was open to catching up once his weekends aren’t full of work. I then messaged and was honest and explained that I still care deeply for him, but still no response. He’d previously said he misses me (unprompted). Can I contact him again in 30 days or have I done too much damage?
How's his mental state now? Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi Brad. Me and my ex broke up just over 2 months ago as I stopped putting in effort and got too comfortable. I went no contact for about 3.5 weeks and then spoke to her briefly. Then she blocked me on everything. Three weeks later we matched on tinder and got talking again and she unblocked me. We spoke a bit and she even initiated contact one time. 2 weeks after that her ex followed her on instagram and she followed him back. He treated her bad and didn’t really care about her. We both promised that we would never get with anyone ex if we ever broke up and she followed him back. I then asked her why she followed him and she said” I’m not gonna talk to him. He repulses me” and she is adamant that she isn’t going to speak to him. She seems really cold with me like she doesn’t care or is over me. How do I get her back? Thanks In advance Brad!
Are you ready to put in some work now? Try not to bring up the past as well as what she's been doing in her life. You're both single now. Anyway assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Hey Brad. This continues to be the most painful experience of my life, even more so than the loss of my 25+ year marriage..Not only can I not let this one go, but Im unwilling to. Every consuming thought is about what I can do to win back the one I can't live without. We were initially talking some, but after being best friends for 3 years she went completely cold within a month of our split as she began talking to someone new. I have done my best to stay in no contact, but everything within me says to go fight for my person, the one I love. Its killing me to sit on the sidelines praying her new relationship crumbles quickly. We're still connected in some ways and she hasn't told me to leave her alone, but she's also hasn't responded to even simple requests for things she has or info I need. I refuse to give up all hope. What else can I do?
Hi there! There is a right way to try to get her back but the first step always involves accepting her decision to break up and to give her space for at least 30 days. Get my Ex Factor Guide to keep you busy and focusing on yourself and what to do. Anyway I suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Brad my ex tells me if we ever do get back together it’ll take years but to not count on us getting back together. She also says since it’ll take years to just move on and focus on my self? What’s should I do?
Dreams are merely a reflection of the subconscious and doesn't depict reality at all.I'm no dream expert but it seems like your subconscious is finding ways to cope with the breakup. For signs, though,here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
@@BradBrowning I’ve been watching your videos every night before my sleep. Your video do truly keep me calm at difficult times like this. Thanks for all that u are doing for all the heartbroken people out-there :)
Hi Brad. My ex and i broke up 5 weeks ago. And in that time i have seen her twice., she contactet me after three weeks. We cry toghether and hold hands. She is very upset and she says things like ''i miss you so much'' i moved out four days after the break up but i still have things in her house that i need to get once the house is sold. That means, that i might not be able to complete the 30 days of silence. Does that mean that i once i have collected my things i need to start over again with the 30 days of silence?
Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
I was in an LDR for over a year. We have met each other irl plenty of times and it has always gone great. One of the best experiences for both of us. But the relationship ended cause of my insecurities. I had no contact with her for a month and a half until I sent her a letter for reconciliation and didn’t get a response. Few days later I sent her a text and asked if she got it and still got no response. Then I texted her on a different platform asking the same question then finally I got a response saying she doesn’t want me to wait for her and just wants me to take care of my self. I told her I understand but tried to ask to hang out casually to which I got no response. Did I blow my chances? I haven’t messaged her since and it has been a week so far. I feel like I could at least get a no.
A long distance relationship requires a solid foundation for it to work, not to mention an enormous amount of trust with each other. The former always precedes the latter. Fighting, when you’re already miles away from each other doesn’t help, especially if it happens frequently. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html
Hey brad, Im on my 29th day of NC but I started posting possitive photos on social media she still see my stories but not reacting on my post, she's just giving time to see it. . I begged on her before doing NC. Now I am panicking and really want to contact her. Dont know what to do.
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
This came in the right tíme . I ackowledged my mistakes and tell her i understand and She did not respond but i Also began the no contact , working on myself and if something has to happen IT will and i know i will be better version of myself and better prepeared 😊
Yes, stay strong! I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Now i can't understand hhh i just watched a video of u saying that if u want ur ex to comes back to u, u don't have to be friends with them and stay no contact so they will miss u, now u r saying how they will turn back to u if u don't talk to each others? So now should we talk or we shouldn't???
Well well here I am to explain my story ,I was not in any contact with my ex for 2 years and it did work .But some how migrated to another city, I always thought that I couldn't find another man or living creature other than him . unbelievably I found another man, currently i am not in any relationship but somehow that man made me successful and energetic towards my goals I am stronger and independent now. Also honestly I am in contact with my ex aswell but I don't feel anything anymore.I decided to live ❤️❤️
As long as you're happy with your choices, in the end that's what it really all boils down to. As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
Hey brad! My ex and me did brake ipp for like 3 months now and she came over to me today to pick some stuff. But she told me before she came over that we needed to talk about something and she told me what’s was it wasn’t anything serious I think she made it more serious in her head she even told me that ut wasn’t any big deal when she came over and I think she still like me because I have in prove since we did brake up but the thing is she is in a rebound and we don’t talk at all so should I just keep in proving my self and wait for the rebound to be over because i think they started meeting 2-3 weejs after we ended and they were friends when we were together
Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ruclips.net/video/ZyJRphwDca4/видео.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ruclips.net/video/hlikXIfMYN8/видео.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/WVFZVqFDFV4/видео.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in RUclips to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
Hey Brad as the dumper I gave the apology etc text genuinely. I don’t mean for that to sound dull. Because I truly care and miss/want my ex back. My question for you I don’t even reach out to say happy birthday correct? If she still hasn’t responded to my 4 messages I sent 3 weeks ago? I’m asking cuz idk what to do her bday is October 30th. If she still has not reached back out I just continue to stay no contact?
Wrong. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hey Brad. I followed and did all the necessary conditions for the return the ex. It has been 3 months since the breakup. And he did not refer to me and told me that there was no chance we would be together again. I followed the 30 days with no contact And I do not know what to do anymore. Nothing has changed and I'm broken without him. I see him everyday and he just ignoring me. Please. Help me get him back.
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
What if he did reply but said he couldn’t do it right now because he is dealing with family issues but also said he couldn’t say no to ever trying again because he doesn’t know what the future holds?
Sir she left these word for me (sometimes in the future we can share our stories We Wount care all of our mistakes Our failures and our glories But until the day comes I'll keep on moving on , good bye besties ) She said these word to me... She is still on my WhatsApp.. how will I take an action ...
She's just processing the breakup. Nothing to it, which is why you ought to focus on yourself during this time too and worry not about your ex's actions and whatnot.
Hey Brad, I broke up with him because he has anger issues, and insulted me many times, he didn't want that at first but he accept it because i told him that i can't stay in this toxic relationship anymore, and then he deactivated all of his social media and we didn't talk anymore, 7 days no contact rule, he didn't tallk or called, he vanished from all social media, i guess he moved on with his life
Healing is more like it. Moving on takes time. If his anger issues were that severe for you to break up with him, I guess the breakup was a blessing in disguise? You need to heal as well so you can find someone better. Good luck!
Yes, having the right mix of balance of patience (and playing your cards right, of course) and having personal boundaries really help so you won't end up being strung along. Each person's measure of patience is different though, so that one is subjective. As long as you're happy with your choice, that's what really matters in the end. Best of luck!
I didn’t find these videos until about a week ago. My gf and I of 5 years broke up about 2 months ago. she called me a couple days after the breakup and told me she wanted to be friends, I gave in and we were friends with benefits for about a month after that. She started to distance herself and now we just send each other TikTok’s but it feels like she’s moving. I feel like I had my chance to repair this and totally f’d it up. Is there still a chance for us?
Watch this latest vid since you may find it helpful: ruclips.net/video/tc3IRenh_30/видео.html As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
My ex cheated on me and lied about it many times and I dumped him. After break up I "revenged" it with someone we both know because at the moment I wanted to make sure that we would never get back together. The most immature thing to do really. Well, after two months of no contact we started to talk and date again with my ex as I had been processing giving him another chance. When it came to having a fresh start, I needed to confess him what I had done and now we are back in the beginning. I think I will now give him time to process things. He says he still loves me but will never love me the same and wants no relationship with me. I don't really know how to move on from here as I was ready to start again but couldn't hide a thing like this because eventually it would have come up from someone.
An eye for an eye makes the world go blind, so they say. It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
Hey Brad. After 40 days NC I reached out to my ex because he started liking my social media posts and he posted sad song lyrics around day 30. We’ve started texting again. It’s only on the weekends but he’s initiating sometimes and is receptive. Yesterday, when we were texting he said he would like to see me again when our schedules line up. (We are long distance 2-3 hours apart). The holidays are coming up. Do you think I should try to schedule a meet up then or sometime sooner? We broke up in July so a lot of time has already passed. Is it a bad idea to wait?
You can make a follow up on it but ideally wait for your ex to initiate. Make sure you're applying the tips here, too: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
lol life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
I finished the 30 day no contact period and i'm still blocked. his friends told me that he's really moving on quickly and pursuing other girls. should i initiate contact or wait until i'm unblocked?
Blocking you doesn't really matter, unless you have no other means to reach out to him whether that be via text, email other social media, etc. Anyway once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
So. It's been 4 months after the break-up. Just 2 days ago we met on the street and we got a slightly good talk, I didn't have time to talk because I was busy. But the good part is, i am finally unblocked in WhatsApp! Even if it's a limited unblocked (i can't see her last online or online nor i can see her status). Should I make the move?
Yeah, about time, I guess? Watch this first to help set your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ruclips.net/video/TnZzeEIPEik/видео.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/видео.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Hey brad, what if my ex blocked me during no contact. My ex blocked me for no reason. But she reached out 3 weeks ago. I didn't ignored her at all. But she blocked me by saying she thinks we should not be connected. She broke up with me for argument. It was a long term relationship. She blocked me again during no contact for no reason. Can she move on faster by doing this? Or she will eventually unblock me. What should I do to fix those coz she blocked me from everywhere.
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Hey brad. Me and my ex were together for 3 years and she recently broke up with me because I was getting too jealous since we go to different colleges. A week after we broke up we met and had a good talk and she asked if we could still be friends and I said yes. But even though I agreed I told her that I need to take a couple months to myself and away from her. Would the 30 day no contact still be effective in this situation.
It's important to clear your head and realize some stuff you need to change within yourself during this time apart. The same can be applied to your ex as well. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
The lack of response from your ex is overall not a good sign. But try to see what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Me and my ex broke up last week. But we are still friends. I still love her and I want to get back with her. But she hates me as a boyfriend because of my attitude. I have changed now. So please help me to get her back
Sorry but it doesn't work that way though. If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
i recently went into no contact about a week ago but i fear i did it too harshly and possibly ruined our chances forever. i told him he was a bad person for how he treated me during our relationship and how shitty it was for him to go back to his ex and then i blocked him. right after the breakup i was also quite emotional and let him know how badly i was doing. did i mess up too much?
I really hate to burst your bubble here but let him finish whatever unfinished business he has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if he’s seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with her. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy for you soon!
hey brad ive got a few questions first if im doing no contact could i still keep streaks with her ? also what if she said from the breakup that she stopped loving me does that decrease the chance of getting her back ?
You can keep those, however, I don't suggest you do as it may make you obsessed or be in unnecessary (additional) pain, especially if you get tempted to break the 30-day "no contact" rule. It also would have a tendency to keep you stuck in the past instead of dealing with things in the present and accepting the breakup. So that's your call to do so, just heed my warnings. You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ruclips.net/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning yeah ive stopped and ended the streaks that i had with her and now its just silence between us but do you think her feelings would come back again with no contact ? she also posts storys and things on her being happy and saying how good it is to focus on urself and how important it is to enjoy ur life should i think anything of that or is that just normal through the relief stage
some of my bad friends make me down😓.....they texted my ex and said that I have few problems with her...and she believed them and we have a big fight....she didn't trust me ....she get the feeling that her privacy with me is gone....and she breakup with me...now she is avoiding mee🙂she is saying that she will not fall in any relationship and she said I have to delete her number ,her pics and every memories
Clear out any miscommunication with her. However, it does boil down to trust. If she doesn't trust you and assuming you haven't lied or cheated on her or made her think you did, then she has issues to sort out on her own. You can't help her on that, unfortunately. It's hers to resolve alone. If you've flirted with someone else though, then you have some apologizing to do. Without knowing the full situation, it's hard to tell. Just apply the tips in many of my videos, whichever is applicable. Good luck!
Well I messed up, she unblocked me and I messed up about telling her how I felt about her. She met a new guy during our long distance relationship and broke it off with me via txt a few weeks ago. I still love her so much and well we ended up arguing about her new relationship. Just miss her so much and I will love her forever…we had been txting some about regular day to day stuff but i messed up everything.
The distance has clearly taken its toll here and your ex could be rebounding and the other person is providing the physical companionship which you couldn't offer at the moment. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then I'm afraid it's good as over. Watch and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html
@@BradBrowning well she’s been back n forth about moving back but she likes where she’s at, it’s more calm and quiet than where I’m at in DFW. She came to visit a couple few months back and had an amazing vacation together. I still love her either way and I understand what your saying, thanks for the reply.
Hey Brad I am in need of your advice. She broke up with me and I admit I have many mistakes that she just got tired. It was toxic and she quit a week ago and I begged her alot. I texted her, called and even go to their house. She knew I was desperate so she let me talk to her though messenger only. We've been casually chatting but she clearly said she is doing it for my stability and she has no feelings for me anymore. All she remembers is the negative memories. I stumbled on your videos and I apologized to her about my desperation for the last couple of days and just wished her the best. I played it chill. She said that it's okay and she isn't angry. Now it's my 1st day of no contact and I am doing my best to make it at least 30 days. My only fear is that I will lose her even more. What should I do? I swear when I get her to love me again I will not screw up. I realized her worth and it would be an honor to grow old with her. (Btw, we are both girls)
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
We both have a happy relationship, but the pendamic start, she needs me but I was busy in fighting with her. I realise my mistakes. But she already broke up with me.
The pandemic does its number to new/blooming relationships or long-term relationships that became rocky before the virus caused a worldwide (or at least in many countries) lockdown. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Hey brad i saw your video don't be too available ..my ex texted me and i reached her out when i am ready but then in between she say thank you for ignoring me.... What does it means?its a good sign or what?
If you're still in the "no contact" phase and your ex has initiated the breakup, then your ex might be trying to provoke you so don't fall for that drama about you ignoring her...unless she was trying to talk to you about something really important. Anyway tell your ex you've been busy... and it really helps if you are. So take steps to rebuild your life first. Hang out with friends, family, get a new hobby, join a club, etc. to keep your mind off of things and to process the breakup accordingly and heal. It's all about balance! Take care!
After two months of breakup i contact my ex 4 days ago. He talk to me .he told me he talk to me every day without any relationship if i want. But he don't want to engage with me . What can i do? Do i msg him everyday?
Don't do that. Here's a concept you ought to adapt: ruclips.net/video/tc3IRenh_30/видео.html you can text every now and then (make sure you check out my other vids for this or get my guide for the full steps) but also apply the tips here to help you out: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
Hi Brad!! huge fan! So, my ex and i have been together for about 7 years. however, recently we stopped talking for two weeks but somtimes she would send me pic of our dog (randomly). On the second week i called her and she broke up with me and was dating her long time friend. She didnt come off as angry or upset, but i kind of had an emotional experiance and she blocked be. Im not giving up on this girl as she is the love of my life. im 29, she is 26, and the guy is 25. how should i approach this?
Sorry to hear that. Employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ruclips.net/video/T4Sz6DiWRsQ/видео.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
Hello, would like a bit help or advice.. The situation is that-> i was with my love for 2 years, but last year i got told that i was replaced but wanted us to be friends, spend more 6 months as "friends" in which i was mostly ignored got totally deleted from her life. After that tried to msg her and make contact with her 1 time per month but got seen the msg and that was all. Had way to her country tried to contact with her a bit more to meet and just to talk but got seen as crazy person. Havent msged her from month and something, but idk when i should try to contact her, like around Xmas or after it? And what should do to can start at least to talk with her again ? And is it even possible to get her back with me after all this time?
This is why I always say it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex, especially since there is someone new involved. If she's really the love of your life, she should act like it with you, instead of running off with someone else. You need to give her time to think though and miss you and feel what it's like not to have you in her life. She will never value you if you're always around as a backup plan, yeah? Watch this: ruclips.net/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/видео.html
We all know that dumpees are never happy after being dumped. Just ignore it and continue to try to be happy anyway. Your ex needs to realize some stuff himself!
Hi Brad, me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago. After te break up we texted everyday en some time we face timed eachother Entil this week she said she wanted to have space en try to Let me go. But still wanna talk to me but not like everyday. And i Will see her every week because we play in the same soccer team . Wil the no contact period help? If we still see each other at training ?
She's slowly letting you go and while that's a good thing for her, it's downright bad for you. Watch the free vid presentation here to understand what's going on: www.breakupbrad.com
Brad I made every mistake in the book. I have been watching your vids and still crumbled and broke them. I even sent the clean slate message which seemed to anger her and now shes telling me I have to take the 3 kids two of which are babies overnight at the weekend when I am sleeping on a couch in a tiny 1 bedroom apartment with no space. I crumbled then and begged and pleaded again what do I do?
Uh oh... I hear you, man. A breakup is not an easy thing to go through. I do have to say that applying the tips should help you out. Being in pain comes from not accepting the situation for what it is, which will cause you to do all sorts of wrong moves. It happens. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no when it comes to your chances. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning hey man thanks for the reply also your videos are comforting me through this turmoil even if I dont succeed in winning her back I thank you.
Hello, my ex and I haven’t spoken in about 3 weeks. I haven’t tried to reach out cause it seems like she’s talking to someone else. The more time passes the less interest she shows. She took me out of every social media too even tho I don’t reach out. I don’t think there’s anything else I can do.
There's tons you can do in your own life! I know it's hard and may even feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hey brad! Im going through a breakup its been 6 months now and i've done everything to get him back but nothing worked for me we were in contact for a long time but its been 2 months since we have not spoken to eachother can i get him back somehow ?
If you've reached out to your ex only fairly recently, and assuming you've correctly employed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then that's a normal reaction from your ex. Here, watch this to help you understand things better: y2u.be/CP8FQlvDuVU But also try to see what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey Brad u already know the story which happened bw me n him (recent one) at first when we were talking he said to not call or MSG him but still I did ( my bad) he got super pissed off coz of that😐 n yes i m damn insecure ab him so i asked him was he cheating ( i always do) coz he broke my trust once n I'm not ready to trust him, i swear im trying to but I can't. It's just that he's damn pissed n told me to breakup n he hasn't called me yet.as i said he called my friend😢I'm still doing that no contact trick idk will it be successful or not.hes a type of guy who would never say sorry after a fight or try to convince me . I have to do it all time even if it's not my fault.
That's okay especially if the betrayal happened recently. Trust is earned and he's not really helping rebuild it especially if he broke up with you instead. If he's not sorry about it, that is a huge red flag and you ought to really consider cutting off contact to clear your head and see the relationship for what it is instead of how you want it to be. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
I assume with your child? Was this a planned pregnancy and have you two decided on raising the kid together prior to the breakup? Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
@@BradBrowning yes, with my child, we were planning on raising the child together. 100% and then 11 weeks in everything just flipped. Completely. It was unexpected. And real life started to sink in. But she was with me 100% except for the physical affection. Which is okay with me. But now I’m at a complete loss with her. I’m not going to give up and date someone new. If things work out great, if not then at least I can say I truly tried. The whole cause of this break was so that I could figure MY future out. Maybe she’s scared, idk but nothing I can say or do seems to have nothing but negative impact. I mean I can’t just do the no contact because she’s pregnant with our child. I want to be a part of this and learn. Maybe I’m overreacting. And trying to fix things too quick. I wouldn’t really talk during the week at all until we would meet on Sunday afternoons. I don’t know what in the world I’m supposed to do. Honestly.
What can I do If my ex is in relationship with someone more successful and ambitious And she is ignoring me because I treated her bad and made her cry ?
She could be on a rebound or not, but stop forcing things. It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: ruclips.net/video/zKhNHhEmYMg/видео.html but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid,check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!
I got feelings for my friend and she found that I kissed her in cheek's and she told I just loved you as friend.And she ignored me. We aren't talking now. I'm in no contact.. now what should I do to get her back?..
Since you're asking me, I'd say move on because that woman is just not into you. However, Amy North or Kate Spring may have some other tips on what to do about that, so check out their channel, too!
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
Hey man great stuff keep it up. Okay my situation is I did everything wrong the first time but yet she keeps giving me chances so one day she blocked me from texting her I didn't panic and a week later she unblocked me we started texting so last night she told me to come over to watch a show but she made it clear that it wasn't a booty call I wasn't going to rub her feet make her tea or anything like that. So I went over did exactly everything that she wanted but I did make her laugh and smile a few times I did manage to touch her arm she didn't pull away. So as I was getting ready to leave she was still a little standoffish cuz I could tell she was still hurt and had her guard up a little so I didn't want to push it but she did invite me back this week and come over to watch another TV show with her so what do I do now?
It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey thanks for the advice stupidly I went there again last night to is last night to watch the show shameless. Which is I don't know if you ever saw the show it's full if it's full of sex and sexual in the windows those. And it's really confusing if really confusing there's times that she'll sit really close to me other times when I say goodbye to her at the end of the night she stands a little further away There's a few times that I can touch her on the arm or touch her on the leg very mixed signals. I want to do the note contact but how do I do it and what's the right way since her and I have been hanging
Also Brad as the dumper I was thinking of taking a break from social media for like a month i feel mentally down when I watch her stories. Weirdly enough I haven’t been block or removed from social media yet. im not sure why though I’m not complaining at all. I just thought she would have gotten rid of me off everything which in a way it does feel like that since she has ignored me since the breakup. I only sent 4 messages the last one was an I miss you message 3 weeks ago.
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts, etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days straight, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/видео.html
What if after no contract she’s acting hot n cold so I just be positive . Been talking for months Then she’s acting cold with always short answered like “hahaha what “ “lovely” “cool hahaha” after the whole sentences we’ve been talking. Then I was doing wrong we’ve been talking then she just left and dont answer again so this time I sent her back said “you’re gone? Then she had no respond but I sent “I give up “ then she urgently said hahahaha whattt? But I just go do other things and read next days and no respond for a month (30 day NC) because I feel she is acting like she ‘s still emotional and see so cold to me then on the day 33th I opened the chat she deleted her account and created a new one with the slightly the same name just changed from her name’s abbreviation to full name’s written so I know this is new and she deleted the old one So question is should I contract her? I was gonna reaching to her with positive and funny talking. (She’s a strongly stubborn girl. We break up because of missed understanding when we’re on long distance relationship) pls help me Thank you in advance Brad you’re the best!!!
Don't text too much. I hope I'm wrong but it seems like you're overextending yourself here. Ideally wait for her to initiate a conversation with you as well. For the most part, I think you're on the right track, though, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Make sure you don't panic. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
@Brad Browning thank you Brad, I was on your stage re-kindle attraction. She was contracted me and we’ve been talking for like 8 months we’ve met eating lunch once and It’s covid19 so we just talked via chat. Then she acting hot and then cold like after I said the word I suddenly went on 30 days NC . So I wondering now she deleted her account and created new one which is like the same. should I do re-initiate contract her via her new account or just waiting ??. So I’m confusing because she deleted her account . And this re-new second time. So I can do initiate contract her right? It’s been 35days now
Is this applicable even if my ex is talking to someone else already ?? been seperated for 4-5 months now , But we still have communicate each other here and there but it always ended up on me begging for her to come back 😔
So you're saying you haven't been playing your cards right? As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
Brad Browning, one of my exes added me on Facebook this Summer and told me that we’ll hang out one day with her boyfriend. I’ve actually known her since elementary school. She even told me that she told him nice things about me. He was even happy and wanted to meet me. She even happily thanked me for cards. However, just 2 days ago, he told me that he wasn’t with her, that he would appreciate if I didn’t call her anymore and not to call her number anymore. She and I share some friends. Do you think that a 45+ day no-contact technique would be better than the mere 30-day no-contact technique? I’m just curious. I think that it would. I’m not sure if 30 days would be enough in a situation like this. I think that at least 41 days might be better.
Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!
just a couple months ago we were on very good terms like we both had crushes on each other. a month ago i felt that she was playing with my emotions and was leading me on so i dropped her and said some nasty things that i regret now but they were true and spoken from the heart. after 2 weeks of no contact she texted me and i texted back and she gave me no response… i thought it was odd for her to do that but maybe her texting me first was a sign she still wanted me. i never stopped liking her i just needed a break. we havnt spoken at all, after the month of no contact was up, i reached out with a friendly question and did not get a response, shes ignoring me. please i need help, im in love with her still but now it feels like we are awkward strangers and it sucks. is there anything i can do???
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
(long distance)- is it a good idea to (during no contact) send back my ex his things (some clothes etc) and also some of the gifts he gave me that I don't know what to do with, but don't just want to throw away?
Just store them in a box somewhere, unless your ex asks for it. Right now, your priority should be yourself, especially your emotional and mental well-being. Good luck!
Hey Brad me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 weeks and the first week we were still talking until she blocked me. I had tried out the waiting game on her for two weeks and gave up and this whole week I’ve been trying to contact her over and over again I’m blocked on every social media platform she may have. Even if I try to contact her on another individuals phone. But i get nothing not a single word. She treats me pretty bad if I go to her house or try to speak to her in person in any way. And to be completely honest she’s broken up with me hundreds of times and this time she hasn’t given me a single chance. I had tried to be patient but nothing had happened so it’s come to the present where like i said i did what i tried to do this whole week, but nothing. :(
Her behaviour suggests she really needs space from you, man. It would be a mistake to try and force things to work at this point. At the very least, though, you really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and why they seem they want nothing to do with you: ruclips.net/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/видео.html
Hi guys. Should I unfriend my ex in social media? I already done almost everything. I may really say that I do look better now. I dont contact with him. I was actually the one that broke up with him because he was in contact with his ex. I suck the first month since Im the one begging and the one initiating the conversation.
Brad!!! Brad!!! Please reply ok!! Me and my ex we have meet and she started to be interested in me more but then one friend of her told her that once i have curse her but now she started losing that interest again what should i do now brad
If you've done the 30-day "no contact" rule correctly, this is a pretty common theme as well, unfortunately. Your ex is in a vulnerable place right now. However, don’t destroy the progress you’ve made up to this point. Watch this to gain some insight on what to do: ruclips.net/video/cC54YU-qU5Q/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/MK7NDfJTbDc/видео.html But if your ex is worth it and as long as you aren't being manipulated, and you still really wanna give it your best shot, then I'll be more than happy to put my focus on your situation. Sign up to my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he/she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because clinical depression is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I am feeling hopeless now.Me and my gf in Ldr for 2 and half years.We broke up 2 weeks ago and since then i kept texting her, apologized and told her to come back but she blocked me now from every social media.The only way to talk to her is through her friend or my friend.Now i don't know what to do.I want her so bad
If your ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email even though a lot of time has already passed, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/FP8YmErEOW8/видео.html
my ex and I have been in no contact in 2 and a half months then this month we had a little conversation ..he massaged first he told me he still has the bracelet i gave him cus it's the only thing that reminds him of me.. although he was really giving mixed signals...i massage him again after a couple of days and he was acting stubborn and distant this time..he even unfriended me again
He could still be confused but that's a pretty positive sign, especially since he absolutely doesn't have to send that kind of message to you. He may just need a subtle push. NOtice I mentioned "subtle" because you're not supposed to go all out in chasing him. Basically you're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning thank u so much for this,,,i actually just saw it rn...i then realized to just give up on him and choose myself,,after all he wasn't worthy of me..i do appreciate your massage a lot,,i just had a lot of realizations
I'm continuing my no contact rule now..i have seen some improvements from me..eg:-he making me jealous and puting sad about in whatsapp By the way his birthday is on march 6th. I just want to know should i wish him or not.... my 30 days no contract rule is end on 17th of feb...
Yes, once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hi Brad, today I talked to my ex after more than 1 month but today she gave me a sign that she is not interested in me and don't want to talk anything about our relationship. I think she is over me and now she don't want to get into a relationship with me or anyone else. Is there any chance to get her back or should I just move on?
If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning sure I will take that test also I want to thank you for making these videos for us. You really help me a lot during the no contact phase. 🙂🙂
Hey brad i had a habit of lying over things that happend with my ex before my current ex but i didnt know i was lying its a habit and we broke up because of it can i still get her back because everythibg else was fine and we really love eachother she broke up witb me btw
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
Yes, but it often don't work that way. Take time to process the breakup first and enjoy being single until you find someone you can truly connect with. Apply the tips here, too: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html If you're trying to move on, this video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
He seen my fb chat in just 3 minutes but not respond, is it good sign? Should I wait for a few day or week to chat him again? Help me bread I’ve done almost your videos
As I've mentioned, wait AT LEAST a week if you don't get a respond. Never be a texting terrorist. If you've watched and followed my tips, then I say you're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
My ex bf is still talking to me after break up.. he started to talk to me after i blocked him in social media..it took him a month to talk to me calmly.. he still text me whenever i text him. Sometimes i don't text him. He himself will text me n disappear for a few days.. but he won't shout at me like last time he did... What does this mean...??.. is he trying to patch up or...... 💔 What should I do
Here's this to consider: ruclips.net/video/xbDPq23YaNE/видео.html so be sure to take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
@@BradBrowning i experienced only sign 1 n 2.. he will text me after that ignore me for 2 or 3 days.. it's already a month since my ex called n talked to me...
I was in no contact with my ex for 5-6 months. After updating my phone I saw she had called me 2 months ago and left a voicemail. I ended up freaking and reaching out as much as I could then she told me to stop texting her. What do I do on this?
She said she didn't have much time to talk on the phone but she wanted a friend to talk to. that voicemail was 2 months before I called back multiple times when she asked me not to text her. its been a month since then and I haven't reached out. @@BradBrowning
Ok,Brad, what if she blocks you from all her social media that you cannot call or text or speak and its more than 2years, can you still get her back???
If your ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/FP8YmErEOW8/видео.html
you will be okay. everything will be okay. don't worry, life will go on and you will be happy again. ❤️
That is true! :-)
How do I get in contact with you regarding enrollment in your program
Thanks for taking the time to write this comment, I'm long over and past my difficult time some years ago, but your comment was exactly the kind of thing I needed then
Aww, it's been so long since I've been here. I "no contacted" this channel once I decided to let go of my ex, cos I didn't want to fuel my hopes or get obsessed with the rules, tips and tricks to getting exes back.
Anyway, this is a great place for hopeful broken hearted people though. I wish you guys success in getting your exes back ❤️
Thanks for watching!
I see what you did there. 😂 That makes sense though. Sometimes you don't want to look back and wonder if you try this one thing it might work.
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Going through breakups are tough and every relationship and situation is unique. The best thing to do is to heal and to focus on yourself and the people you care about.
That is correct! The tips here also suggest that, and more: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
It’s been a year since we broke up and I still can’t seem to move on even one inch. 😔
If you're trying to move on, this video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
Im about the same time and its so fking hard to do.. you know the right thing to do is move on. I kept saying to friends I wouldn't wish the heart break on them...
Non attachment of the Buddha helps
Hats off to his learning & experiance, How nicely he tried to explain the thing with great simplicity.
We await for your every new video, please keep on teaching your viewers like this.
I sure do. Thank you, I'm glad you appreciate it! Please click the bell notification icon to not miss out on newer vids in the future. :-)
Thank you, your videos are calming my anxiety. I just went from a 10 to a 3, I get so wound up that I feel hopeless and feelings that I want to die. I know it sounds ridiculous, just for me..its a constant life/mind battle.
You're welcome! Hey, you never know who else can benefit, so if it’s not too much to ask and if you haven’t already, please like, share, and subscribe to my channel so you won't miss any of my upcoming videos. I'd really appreciate it!
Thank you for helping all of us! It’s a nice feeling that somebody out there cares! Your very intelligent about these things, Sometimes it’s hard for us to be smart about things when we’re so absorbed in it!
Emotions can cloud your judgment and yes, breakups are really tough. I'm glad you appreciate my help. Feel free to check out my other vids to get more information on how to go about this. Take care!
Thanks Brad for all of your videos, just want to win my girl - she is even not my ex The most difficult for me is the “No Contact” period but will keep the faith and only your videos give me that faith!
I am little worried - because she can found somebody else in that period or to forget me, but….I have a faith!
Cheers! 💪
You're welcome! Just make sure you take those rose coloured glasses off to view the situation for what it is, yeah? Regardless, play your cards right anyway. This vid is good for starters: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html
Well, if you send the first text after no contact and they don't reply for a WEEK, don't lose your time, honestly, find your value and start dating again when you feel like it
Yes, that is always an option you can take as well, especially if you know you've done everything you could. No sense in beating a dead horse, right?
We broke up 3 months ago but reconnected last month, talked almost daily, hang out, even in a naughty way (some naughty things), but now she says she wants to move on completely because of that, and doesn’t want to talk anymore.. she said things like “we are stuck in the middle, we are not getting back together and not moving on..” “if we’ll talk and stay in touch it would be weird if our future gf/bf will know that we are still friends..” “I want to stop talking so I can move on and open up for new people and relationships..” I said her okay and I accept that. But I’m really hopeless right now, I think it’s over and I don’t know what to do from here💔
Really sorry to hear that, man. I wish I know where to begin on what your next move is, but right now, you need to let go of her. I'm not sure what pushed her away, whether you displayed needy behavior or your ex really is in the mood for trying out new things. Either way, your best move is to cut off contact and work on yourself. Apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
@@BradBrowning idk brad, we just hang out and had fun but she still says she’s afraid to get hurt, or that her family won’t accept our relationship so there’s no chance it could work between us, and I feel really lost because of that.
If you see this. Thanks for the advice you gave me. Watched the videos. Good points. Gonna take what I can because this situation I'm confident is nothing you have heard before. She did break the ice but it gonna be tough cause she is a trained and licensed therapist. I confident your clients tell you their ex is something special and unique. We met back in college 2008 just friends. She is, one thing, she 33 now but work at a group home for children when she 25. At 27 she left that job and adopted her daughter a 16 year old from the group home.. What 27 your old woman does that!? I had surgery 3 weeks ago so bills but gonna try to sign up to be a client. Again thanks. Any last minute quick advice, Plus, took your test..65
44 days no contact and my X reached out to invite me to a halloween party. Be patient my friends.
Not bad! Continue to play your cards right. Check out my other vids if you're not getting my guide. Best of luck!
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I wish that everything goes well to all the lovely people out there trying to win back thier ex, this process is going to be the toughest period of your life,
Be strong , wishing you well ❤️
It is tough. It's important to remove the blindfold as well too and be careful not to put your ex on a pedestal. Giving each other space should help you do that. Stay strong!
Hey brad,
My ex didn't block me but she did unfollow me and took me out of her social media. We didn't even have a big fight. She just told me to let go her and did all this.
What does this imply?
It means she needs space and wants to be single from you. Getting an ex back is a gradual process, so there's no one-action solution for this. Okay? This vid contains an infograph that might be of help to you: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but watch this too as this contains equally important information: ruclips.net/video/BLTA4yjTc2I/видео.html The "no contact" phase is a good start, so do that first if you haven’t yet, for 30 days. If you have, then I'm glad you've completed it. There are two more phases to go with a few other steps in between (in the right order). What I'm trying to say here is it's a 3-phase process, and it's a bit complicated to explain it all on here, but I made an overview in the hopes of making people understand, so watch it here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html or read my guide for the entire process. Good luck!
Hey Brad, my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me after very bad arguments & toxicity in our relationship. Not only her family probably hates me but I did your apology in person 3 weeks ago and cooled the tension, she forgave me but says she says she needs time to heal & move on (we work together sort of). She's 37 years old, VERY grounded, wise & mature & has no issues with putting herself first, I have huge doubts the mind games and no contact is going to work on my part I'm 20 days in & nothing, if anything I'm SURE the time apart will reaffirm her position as she Is a Psych major & in therapy, plus I know how her mind works, what do you suggest in my situation? Do I have a chance with her, I feel like even you will have a hard time getting her back 😫
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
Helo brad how can we tok to you for advises
Thank you so much for your advice, Brad. My ex always response my text and my call. Sometimes he response nicely, sometimes is so cold.
My ex asked me to be his best friend when I asked to come back together. After watching your video, I decided to do no contact. It's already 3 weeks. Do you think, I still have chance to get back with him?
There's often confusion around a breakup especially when it's fresh. That's completely normal and which is why giving each other space is very much needed. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
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I couldn’t care less, if my soon-to-be ex man-child , ever texted me again. The first three months after he up and ran away from home, without any warning, I tormented him viciously. 28 yrs of loyalty, devotion and commitment deserves at least a face to face conversation. Not just disappearing one day, “temporarily”. That was 6 months ago. Our children are grown, so I don’t have to do the pretend , happy parent crap. I’ll fire off a couple rapid sequence texts, telling him what a POS has degenerated into as a husband and father. Want him back, prick disgusts me.
How can I stop having dreams about my ex. It’s happened a few times recently. It doesn’t feel good. Great video by the way.
Dreams are merely a reflection of the subconscious and doesn't depict reality at all. Hey I'm no dream expert but it seems like your subconscious is finding ways to cope with the breakup and your brain is trying to catch up with reality. For signs, though, here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
It's been a couple of months since she contacted me. She hasn't blocked me from communicating to her. I haven't contacted her so she could have her space. Just feel stuck
You are in control of your own life. Find ways to get yourself unstuck. Apply the tips here and notice the difference: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
Hi Brad, after giving space for weeks, does sending a compilation of shared fun memories videos of us together count as a good message to send them to initiate contact again? Or will that push him away further 🤔
After being in no contact for around 7 months ... Is it rude to ignore an ex after establishing contact? Will they lose interest and move on?
It's not only rude but also pointless. Don't re-establish contact if you just plan to dip out, I guess? I mean, what are you trying to achieve in doing that?
@@BradBrowning she reached out to me but she never gets to the point.... Feels like I'm on a war of ego... Her status on whatsapp are also annoying... Maybe she wants to make me jealous so that I'll ask her out again. I have done this mistake in the past so now I'm not doing that again.. so I was wondering if it's okay to ignore her whatsapp status and chill out with out being rude or looking like I'm doing this purposely to hurt her ...I GUESS I'M NOT THE ONLY ONE WITH THIS PROBLEM.
I relaxed, chilled out and have her all the space she wanted for 2 months..... She is unmoved and there is no effect on her.
Same boat as you brother any update for you?
Let go, move on, personal development. Meet someone new best way to get over one is to get under another
No contact doesnt work you need to contact her after a week or two space and re attract her like a fun confident sure of himself man
I already got my ex back thanks to you Brad she's more addicted and in love with me ❤️
Oh yeah? Congrats! :-) I'm glad my it's all worked out for you. Now as what I always like to say, please keep in mind that getting an ex back does not mean the work stops there. You have to do more work to ensure your relationship stays healthy. Review my guide and/or watch these videos to help you further: ruclips.net/video/jjrOpxa-wfI/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/v9mVzh2NVAc/видео.html or from a more recent advice here as well: ruclips.net/video/-OqYy_DqNJc/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/8gc53SzHrac/видео.html All the best!
So happy for you. How long did it take?
Please don’t be funny if your ex broke up with your because she thought you were childish or ignored her needs. It will backfire. My ex bf was trying to do that when he was trying to get back and it just confirmed the reason why I broke up and put him on the block list. This is especially true if you’re dealing with a woman 35+, so be careful with being funny. Not what a woman wants especially if she has the rest of her life already figured out.
Immaturity is a huge turnoff indeed. This applies to both sexes since the receiving end will feel drained.
I have been blocked everywhere after a heated conversation in which he felt hurt by my long response to a hostile message of his. I said that all i ever did was love him and want to be better for him yet he looked down on me and acted as if I was victimizing him. I told him that I will not talk to him again and that he is not the great person I thought he was. He does not want anything to do with me for a very long time. I realize now that we both made mistakes as a natural consequence of not cutting off contact after the breakup for a month. But now we have not spoken in 3 weeks. Is it a bad idea to send a friendly email in a few weeks asking to have an opportunity to apologize and get on good terms? The relationship itself did not end badly, he said he never fell out of love, and he even hinted at the chance of reconciliation in the future at first, but he just felt more and more confident of his decision to end things probably due to the failure to cut off contact with me after the breakup. But he has shown every sign that he is not coming back. How can I increase my chances of getting back together?
That's true. This stuff could've been avoided if you've cut off contact and work on yourself and give him the space you need; the space that you both need actually. Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning what if the situation is too complicated to be mentioned in just one text, and both of us made mistakes? what if i feel like i also deserve an apology from him? a mutual friend also said that i should take being blocked as a sign that he is not willing to talk.
Hi Brad, what if I broke up with him ten months ago because of his mental health struggles and him needing space to focus on himself. I reached out to him 3 weeks ago and he was responsive then disappeared after saying he was open to catching up once his weekends aren’t full of work. I then messaged and was honest and explained that I still care deeply for him, but still no response. He’d previously said he misses me (unprompted). Can I contact him again in 30 days or have I done too much damage?
How's his mental state now? Sorry, this is a bit too complex for me to properly respond here… please consider signing up for coaching if you want to talk at length about your situation: www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hi Brad. Me and my ex broke up just over 2 months ago as I stopped putting in effort and got too comfortable. I went no contact for about 3.5 weeks and then spoke to her briefly. Then she blocked me on everything. Three weeks later we matched on tinder and got talking again and she unblocked me. We spoke a bit and she even initiated contact one time. 2 weeks after that her ex followed her on instagram and she followed him back. He treated her bad and didn’t really care about her. We both promised that we would never get with anyone ex if we ever broke up and she followed him back. I then asked her why she followed him and she said” I’m not gonna talk to him. He repulses me” and she is adamant that she isn’t going to speak to him. She seems really cold with me like she doesn’t care or is over me. How do I get her back? Thanks In advance Brad!
Are you ready to put in some work now? Try not to bring up the past as well as what she's been doing in her life. You're both single now. Anyway assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
Hey Brad. This continues to be the most painful experience of my life, even more so than the loss of my 25+ year marriage..Not only can I not let this one go, but Im unwilling to. Every consuming thought is about what I can do to win back the one I can't live without. We were initially talking some, but after being best friends for 3 years she went completely cold within a month of our split as she began talking to someone new. I have done my best to stay in no contact, but everything within me says to go fight for my person, the one I love. Its killing me to sit on the sidelines praying her new relationship crumbles quickly. We're still connected in some ways and she hasn't told me to leave her alone, but she's also hasn't responded to even simple requests for things she has or info I need. I refuse to give up all hope. What else can I do?
Hi there! There is a right way to try to get her back but the first step always involves accepting her decision to break up and to give her space for at least 30 days. Get my Ex Factor Guide to keep you busy and focusing on yourself and what to do. Anyway I suggest you start with this to give you an overview on how to go about this:
y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw but you're also welcome to sign up for my coaching program if you're unsure how to go about this or you're planning to do something but not sure if it's a good idea or not, etc. but I would have to look a the situation as a whole in order to give solid advice, at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Brad my ex tells me if we ever do get back together it’ll take years but to not count on us getting back together. She also says since it’ll take years to just move on and focus on my self? What’s should I do?
Respect her decision and give her the space she wants/needs. Apply the tips here: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
When You keep on disturbing Your ex, it will be hard to get them. Yes Relax
Exactly. Hence, it's best to use this time to sort out your own life first and make improvements instead of trying to negotiate things with your ex.
5th! I dream of my ex again 😞 Whats the meaning of it? Been dreaming many nights. It’s been 2mths since we brokeup of a 7yrs relationship.
Dreams are merely a reflection of the subconscious and doesn't depict reality at all.I'm no dream expert but it seems like your subconscious is finding ways to cope with the breakup. For signs, though,here's what to be on the lookout for: ruclips.net/video/CsVR7yV4X8k/видео.html
That’s also mean he’s thinking about u too
@@BradBrowning I’ve been watching your videos every night before my sleep. Your video do truly keep me calm at difficult times like this. Thanks for all that u are doing for all the heartbroken people out-there :)
Hi Brad. My ex and i broke up 5 weeks ago. And in that time i have seen her twice., she contactet me after three weeks. We cry toghether and hold hands. She is very upset and she says things like ''i miss you so much'' i moved out four days after the break up but i still have things in her house that i need to get once the house is sold. That means, that i might not be able to complete the 30 days of silence. Does that mean that i once i have collected my things i need to start over again with the 30 days of silence?
Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
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I was in an LDR for over a year. We have met each other irl plenty of times and it has always gone great. One of the best experiences for both of us. But the relationship ended cause of my insecurities. I had no contact with her for a month and a half until I sent her a letter for reconciliation and didn’t get a response. Few days later I sent her a text and asked if she got it and still got no response. Then I texted her on a different platform asking the same question then finally I got a response saying she doesn’t want me to wait for her and just wants me to take care of my self. I told her I understand but tried to ask to hang out casually to which I got no response. Did I blow my chances? I haven’t messaged her since and it has been a week so far. I feel like I could at least get a no.
A long distance relationship requires a solid foundation for it to work, not to mention an enormous amount of trust with each other. The former always precedes the latter. Fighting, when you’re already miles away from each other doesn’t help, especially if it happens frequently. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html
Hey brad, Im on my 29th day of NC but I started posting possitive photos on social media she still see my stories but not reacting on my post, she's just giving time to see it. . I begged on her before doing NC. Now I am panicking and really want to contact her. Dont know what to do.
Redo the "no contact" rule and make sure you stick to it this time. But watch this first to help manage your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html Here's how you can tell you're doing the "no contact" rule properly: ruclips.net/video/f7zuXk-sVsI/видео.html It may help to make use of the clean slate template, which is a free version from a piece of my Ex Factor Guide. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/6K3xufEwEFg/видео.html The main goal is to bring your ex into an emotional neutral state by employing the 30-day “no contact” rule -- let your ex miss you and don't rush it. But in order to fully understand how this concept works, watch the free in-depth video on my website to learn some psychology techniques and understand how giving each other space for around a month can benefit you than otherwise, at www.breakupbrad.com
This came in the right tíme . I ackowledged my mistakes and tell her i understand and She did not respond but i Also began the no contact , working on myself and if something has to happen IT will and i know i will be better version of myself and better prepeared 😊
Yes, stay strong! I suggest you employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Now i can't understand hhh i just watched a video of u saying that if u want ur ex to comes back to u, u don't have to be friends with them and stay no contact so they will miss u, now u r saying how they will turn back to u if u don't talk to each others? So now should we talk or we shouldn't???
Here's the vid you ought to watch as it gives you a quick overview of the different phases: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
Did I mention I'm 7 months No Contact and I'm Radio Silent as well. Don't like being taken for GRANTED and USED.
Indeed! There should be fairness in the situation. Don't be anyone's doormat.
Well well here I am to explain my story ,I was not in any contact with my ex for 2 years and it did work .But some how migrated to another city, I always thought that I couldn't find another man or living creature other than him . unbelievably I found another man, currently i am not in any relationship but somehow that man made me successful and energetic towards my goals I am stronger and independent now. Also honestly I am in contact with my ex aswell but I don't feel anything anymore.I decided to live ❤️❤️
As long as you're happy with your choices, in the end that's what it really all boils down to. As what I always say, the decision to get an ex back is totally up to you. Over time, you know your ex's true worth to you as well as the value of your relationship. So only you can decide whether this is someone you want to go back to or not. All the best!
Hey brad! My ex and me did brake ipp for like 3 months now and she came over to me today to pick some stuff. But she told me before she came over that we needed to talk about something and she told me what’s was it wasn’t anything serious I think she made it more serious in her head she even told me that ut wasn’t any big deal when she came over and I think she still like me because I have in prove since we did brake up but the thing is she is in a rebound and we don’t talk at all so should I just keep in proving my self and wait for the rebound to be over because i think they started meeting 2-3 weejs after we ended and they were friends when we were together
Wait for a better time before interacting with your ex, however, don't wait around doing nothing. Take a leap of faith on a new path as well because you never know where life can take you, which may be better without your ex. Use this time to heal and prioritize yourself. But if it's been more than a year or so, make sure to check the signs if your ex has moved on, here: ruclips.net/video/ZyJRphwDca4/видео.html This should help guide you on what to do for the time being: ruclips.net/video/hlikXIfMYN8/видео.html However, make it a point to be really productive with your time being apart. Follow the tips here to help guide you further: ruclips.net/video/gUBNd6pDINM/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/WVFZVqFDFV4/видео.html&ab_channel=BradBrowning now when the time comes where your ex is free or is constantly contacting you, check out my other videos here in RUclips to help you with a lot of texting tips as well as when to give up trying. Good luck!
Hey Brad as the dumper I gave the apology etc text genuinely. I don’t mean for that to sound dull. Because I truly care and miss/want my ex back. My question for you I don’t even reach out to say happy birthday correct? If she still hasn’t responded to my 4 messages I sent 3 weeks ago? I’m asking cuz idk what to do her bday is October 30th. If she still has not reached back out I just continue to stay no contact?
Wrong. Once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hey Brad. I followed and did all the necessary conditions for the return the ex. It has been 3 months since the breakup. And he did not refer to me and told me that there was no chance we would be together again. I followed the 30 days with no contact And I do not know what to do anymore. Nothing has changed and I'm broken without him. I see him everyday and he just ignoring me. Please. Help me get him back.
Assuming you've done the first phase properly, which is the 30-day "no contact" rule, then you should be in a position to be ready to test the waters with your ex. Here's how you can tell you're doing it correctly: y2u.be/f7zuXk-sVsI You may want to tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms Now once you're positive you've done all that's mentioned, you can proceed to contact your ex. Start with the tips here: ruclips.net/video/KMMv9ljdrkk/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/uN_XAgHjaFM/видео.html but make sure to check out my other vids for more texting tips you can send your ex or get my guide for the complete step-by-step details on how to go about it. Best of luck!
What if he did reply but said he couldn’t do it right now because he is dealing with family issues but also said he couldn’t say no to ever trying again because he doesn’t know what the future holds?
Sir she left these word for me (sometimes in the future we can share our stories
We Wount care all of our mistakes
Our failures and our glories
But until the day comes I'll keep on moving on , good bye besties )
She said these word to me... She is still on my WhatsApp.. how will I take an action ...
She's just processing the breakup. Nothing to it, which is why you ought to focus on yourself during this time too and worry not about your ex's actions and whatnot.
Hey Brad, I broke up with him because he has anger issues, and insulted me many times, he didn't want that at first but he accept it because i told him that i can't stay in this toxic relationship anymore,
and then he deactivated all of his social media and we didn't talk anymore, 7 days no contact rule, he didn't tallk or called, he vanished from all social media, i guess he moved on with his life
Healing is more like it. Moving on takes time. If his anger issues were that severe for you to break up with him, I guess the breakup was a blessing in disguise? You need to heal as well so you can find someone better. Good luck!
Easy... try 3 times, if he/she still ignores u, then just move on n put ur ex on rubbish bin
Yes, having the right mix of balance of patience (and playing your cards right, of course) and having personal boundaries really help so you won't end up being strung along. Each person's measure of patience is different though, so that one is subjective. As long as you're happy with your choice, that's what really matters in the end. Best of luck!
I didn’t find these videos until about a week ago. My gf and I of 5 years broke up about 2 months ago. she called me a couple days after the breakup and told me she wanted to be friends, I gave in and we were friends with benefits for about a month after that. She started to distance herself and now we just send each other TikTok’s but it feels like she’s moving. I feel like I had my chance to repair this and totally f’d it up. Is there still a chance for us?
Watch this latest vid since you may find it helpful: ruclips.net/video/tc3IRenh_30/видео.html As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
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My ex cheated on me and lied about it many times and I dumped him. After break up I "revenged" it with someone we both know because at the moment I wanted to make sure that we would never get back together. The most immature thing to do really. Well, after two months of no contact we started to talk and date again with my ex as I had been processing giving him another chance. When it came to having a fresh start, I needed to confess him what I had done and now we are back in the beginning. I think I will now give him time to process things. He says he still loves me but will never love me the same and wants no relationship with me. I don't really know how to move on from here as I was ready to start again but couldn't hide a thing like this because eventually it would have come up from someone.
An eye for an eye makes the world go blind, so they say. It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
Hey Brad. After 40 days NC I reached out to my ex because he started liking my social media posts and he posted sad song lyrics around day 30. We’ve started texting again. It’s only on the weekends but he’s initiating sometimes and is receptive. Yesterday, when we were texting he said he would like to see me again when our schedules line up. (We are long distance 2-3 hours apart). The holidays are coming up. Do you think I should try to schedule a meet up then or sometime sooner? We broke up in July so a lot of time has already passed. Is it a bad idea to wait?
You can make a follow up on it but ideally wait for your ex to initiate. Make sure you're applying the tips here, too: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
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When u wanna sign up for the coaching but ur 15 and only have 10 dollars to ur name :D
lol life is or will be taking you in two different directions at this stage. Watch this, too: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html&lc=Ugw4Ce3x9APUrYfz29N4AaABAg So whatever the case may be, act responsibly yet try not to take things too seriously for now since you may be in a period of growth and lots of changes, including preferences in attitude, personality, etc. Focus on your studies instead, all right? Take care!
I finished the 30 day no contact period and i'm still blocked. his friends told me that he's really moving on quickly and pursuing other girls. should i initiate contact or wait until i'm unblocked?
Blocking you doesn't really matter, unless you have no other means to reach out to him whether that be via text, email other social media, etc. Anyway once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Brad or anyone who might know...My girl and I were only together for 10 weeks...is 30 days too much time of no contact for a relationship that short?
Cut it short to two weeks but still apply the rest of the steps suggested in my vids. Best of luck!
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So. It's been 4 months after the break-up. Just 2 days ago we met on the street and we got a slightly good talk, I didn't have time to talk because I was busy. But the good part is, i am finally unblocked in WhatsApp! Even if it's a limited unblocked (i can't see her last online or online nor i can see her status).
Should I make the move?
Yeah, about time, I guess? Watch this first to help set your expectations: ruclips.net/video/OzVymYnQFTk/видео.html and look out for the signs that your ex has moved on: ruclips.net/video/TnZzeEIPEik/видео.html If you see only one or zero signs, then this vid is for you: ruclips.net/video/9LC1ewgBkIQ/видео.html If the conditions are right, then make sure you tick off the checklist here as well: y2u.be/BAhMrmw3Sms It's important to rebuild the attraction naturally so your ex will be amenable to working things out, eventually. This is what my guide is for but you can also learn the basic principles of my 3R system here and watch the vid til' the end so you don't end up missing the important points: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and the golden rules here: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
Hey brad, what if my ex blocked me during no contact. My ex blocked me for no reason. But she reached out 3 weeks ago. I didn't ignored her at all. But she blocked me by saying she thinks we should not be connected. She broke up with me for argument. It was a long term relationship. She blocked me again during no contact for no reason. Can she move on faster by doing this? Or she will eventually unblock me. What should I do to fix those coz she blocked me from everywhere.
Unless you've done something really epic to mess things up or really hurt your ex, there's no reason to worry as much, really, because it could be due to the top 3 reasons I've stated on this vid: y2u.be/fjtv90o9bkI Blocking you could just be your ex’s way of coping so I wouldn’t worry too much about it if I were you, at least not initially. If you stay blocked after months though, then that’s another story, especially if you have no other means of communication or have no mutual friends. More about that on here: ruclips.net/video/5UT92IB5ugs/видео.html Anyway social media should be the least of your concerns. Focus on all three phases and your ex may naturally unblock you, in time, as you learn to rebuild that attraction and re-attract this ex back to your life.. Here are the basics of all three phases to getting an ex back: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and social-media wise, here (but then again, don't let it become your sole focus) : ruclips.net/video/D1GpR5MApQk/видео.html Good luck!
Hey brad. Me and my ex were together for 3 years and she recently broke up with me because I was getting too jealous since we go to different colleges. A week after we broke up we met and had a good talk and she asked if we could still be friends and I said yes. But even though I agreed I told her that I need to take a couple months to myself and away from her. Would the 30 day no contact still be effective in this situation.
It's important to clear your head and realize some stuff you need to change within yourself during this time apart. The same can be applied to your ex as well. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
It's already 9 months since we broke up and she still not responding to me :((
The lack of response from your ex is overall not a good sign. But try to see what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Me and my ex broke up last week. But we are still friends. I still love her and I want to get back with her. But she hates me as a boyfriend because of my attitude. I have changed now. So please help me to get her back
Sorry but it doesn't work that way though. If you do have to make some changes, then do it for yourself and never for anyone else, okay? See, making changes for the sake of someone is considered seeking validation, and that's an unattractive trait in and of itself… so it naturally won't do anything to rebuild the attraction necessary to get your ex back in the long run. On the other hand, if these are changes that you know within yourself that you need to make, then it's important to take time so be sure you aren’t rushing it because permanent, lasting changes don't happen overnight and your ex can actually see through it. Also, pain (that's why your ex dumped you) is a very good teacher and motivator not to mention a huge catalyst, so making these changes within yourself in order for the possibility to come back together stronger and better is what you can expect and you will be able to use this progress if not for your ex, then with someone new. Does that make sense? With that in mind, watch this vid to subtly show these changes to your ex: ruclips.net/video/bZ1KetALZrc/видео.html
i recently went into no contact about a week ago but i fear i did it too harshly and possibly ruined our chances forever. i told him he was a bad person for how he treated me during our relationship and how shitty it was for him to go back to his ex and then i blocked him. right after the breakup i was also quite emotional and let him know how badly i was doing. did i mess up too much?
I really hate to burst your bubble here but let him finish whatever unfinished business he has with this ex. Sorry, but there's not much you can do at this point, especially if your relationship only lasted a short while and more so if he’s seemingly (subconsciously or not) used you as a rebound, for your ex to jump back too quickly with her. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy for you soon!
hey brad ive got a few questions first if im doing no contact could i still keep streaks with her ? also what if she said from the breakup that she stopped loving me does that decrease the chance of getting her back ?
You can keep those, however, I don't suggest you do as it may make you obsessed or be in unnecessary (additional) pain, especially if you get tempted to break the 30-day "no contact" rule. It also would have a tendency to keep you stuck in the past instead of dealing with things in the present and accepting the breakup. So that's your call to do so, just heed my warnings. You both have to process the breakup first and go through all that pain and slowly let go of the bad memories...It is a process, but this is what the "no contact" rule is for, to help both of you move forward from that pain. A reconciliation with an ex means there will be a new (thus the old relationship be considered as over) relationship between you two where the lessons of the past are taken into consideration in order to resolve it to create a better relationship in the future. Does that make sense? Give your ex time to let go of the bad memories, however, this won't happen overnight and for sure takes time, so don't rush. Follow the tips on my other vids, especially this one: ruclips.net/video/FLeP1eRCkCk/видео.html Good luck!
@@BradBrowning yeah ive stopped and ended the streaks that i had with her and now its just silence between us but do you think her feelings would come back again with no contact ? she also posts storys and things on her being happy and saying how good it is to focus on urself and how important it is to enjoy ur life should i think anything of that or is that just normal through the relief stage
some of my bad friends make me down😓.....they texted my ex and said that I have few problems with her...and she believed them and we have a big fight....she didn't trust me ....she get the feeling that her privacy with me is gone....and she breakup with me...now she is avoiding mee🙂she is saying that she will not fall in any relationship and she said I have to delete her number ,her pics and every memories
Clear out any miscommunication with her. However, it does boil down to trust. If she doesn't trust you and assuming you haven't lied or cheated on her or made her think you did, then she has issues to sort out on her own. You can't help her on that, unfortunately. It's hers to resolve alone. If you've flirted with someone else though, then you have some apologizing to do. Without knowing the full situation, it's hard to tell. Just apply the tips in many of my videos, whichever is applicable. Good luck!
Well I messed up, she unblocked me and I messed up about telling her how I felt about her. She met a new guy during our long distance relationship and broke it off with me via txt a few weeks ago. I still love her so much and well we ended up arguing about her new relationship. Just miss her so much and I will love her forever…we had been txting some about regular day to day stuff but i messed up everything.
The distance has clearly taken its toll here and your ex could be rebounding and the other person is providing the physical companionship which you couldn't offer at the moment. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then I'm afraid it's good as over. Watch and apply the pointers here first: ruclips.net/video/GQY4N04uvtA/видео.html and ruclips.net/video/5nfWRJRrnAs/видео.html
@@BradBrowning well she’s been back n forth about moving back but she likes where she’s at, it’s more calm and quiet than where I’m at in DFW. She came to visit a couple few months back and had an amazing vacation together. I still love her either way and I understand what your saying, thanks for the reply.
Hey Brad I am in need of your advice. She broke up with me and I admit I have many mistakes that she just got tired. It was toxic and she quit a week ago and I begged her alot. I texted her, called and even go to their house. She knew I was desperate so she let me talk to her though messenger only. We've been casually chatting but she clearly said she is doing it for my stability and she has no feelings for me anymore. All she remembers is the negative memories. I stumbled on your videos and I apologized to her about my desperation for the last couple of days and just wished her the best. I played it chill. She said that it's okay and she isn't angry. Now it's my 1st day of no contact and I am doing my best to make it at least 30 days. My only fear is that I will lose her even more.
What should I do? I swear when I get her to love me again I will not screw up. I realized her worth and it would be an honor to grow old with her. (Btw, we are both girls)
What did you do? I suggest you heed my advice from this vid, first and foremost: ruclips.net/video/jikW4YYC9yo/видео.html and from my other vid here: ruclips.net/video/PN-07kAtIjw/видео.html but also make sure you aren't being defensive or deflecting the blame because that's as annoying as ever. It may help to apply the tips here first: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html
Be patient and let things play out first. Let time do its job since it's your biggest ally at this point. Good luck!
Same situation here. 😭
We both have a happy relationship, but the pendamic start, she needs me but I was busy in fighting with her.
I realise my mistakes. But she already broke up with me.
The pandemic does its number to new/blooming relationships or long-term relationships that became rocky before the virus caused a worldwide (or at least in many countries) lockdown. Nothing left to do but to use your time productively and change your perception for a bit and see this as an opportunity for a lot of things. Pain is also a great catalyst, so use that to work on things within yourself that you know needed some work. Here's my stance on the matter: bit.ly/3bn8bPN
Hey brad i saw your video don't be too available ..my ex texted me and i reached her out when i am ready but then in between she say thank you for ignoring me.... What does it means?its a good sign or what?
If you're still in the "no contact" phase and your ex has initiated the breakup, then your ex might be trying to provoke you so don't fall for that drama about you ignoring her...unless she was trying to talk to you about something really important. Anyway tell your ex you've been busy... and it really helps if you are. So take steps to rebuild your life first. Hang out with friends, family, get a new hobby, join a club, etc. to keep your mind off of things and to process the breakup accordingly and heal. It's all about balance! Take care!
After two months of breakup i contact my ex 4 days ago. He talk to me .he told me he talk to me every day without any relationship if i want. But he don't want to engage with me . What can i do? Do i msg him everyday?
Don't do that. Here's a concept you ought to adapt: ruclips.net/video/tc3IRenh_30/видео.html you can text every now and then (make sure you check out my other vids for this or get my guide for the full steps) but also apply the tips here to help you out: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html
Hi Brad!! huge fan!
So, my ex and i have been together for about 7 years. however, recently we stopped talking for two weeks but somtimes she would send me pic of our dog (randomly). On the second week i called her and she broke up with me and was dating her long time friend. She didnt come off as angry or upset, but i kind of had an emotional experiance and she blocked be. Im not giving up on this girl as she is the love of my life. im 29, she is 26, and the guy is 25. how should i approach this?
Sorry to hear that. Employ the 30-day "no contact" rule first. Here's how you can tell it's starting to work: ruclips.net/video/T4Sz6DiWRsQ/видео.html Though make sure you follow the tips here as well: ruclips.net/video/xgR03RcU8mw/видео.html AND some recent tips here: y2u.be/FLeP1eRCkCk Lots of folks seem to be oblivious about it, so here goes: the 30-day "no contact" rule, once COMPLETED, is just the first phase for most people (unless your ex sincerely wanted you back and it's shown in their actions). This would also help guide you on what to do after the "no contact" rule: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html Anyway there are two more phases to go through if you want an ex back, and the third is to rekindle/rebuild the attraction with an ex. Learn the basics here: y2u.be/7JtmVbDkblw
Hello, would like a bit help or advice.. The situation is that-> i was with my love for 2 years, but last year i got told that i was replaced but wanted us to be friends, spend more 6 months as "friends" in which i was mostly ignored got totally deleted from her life. After that tried to msg her and make contact with her 1 time per month but got seen the msg and that was all. Had way to her country tried to contact with her a bit more to meet and just to talk but got seen as crazy person. Havent msged her from month and something, but idk when i should try to contact her, like around Xmas or after it? And what should do to can start at least to talk with her again ? And is it even possible to get her back with me after all this time?
This is why I always say it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex, especially since there is someone new involved. If she's really the love of your life, she should act like it with you, instead of running off with someone else. You need to give her time to think though and miss you and feel what it's like not to have you in her life. She will never value you if you're always around as a backup plan, yeah? Watch this: ruclips.net/video/pv_cjzhVKAY/видео.html
How do you respond to a "stay happy like this" text from my ex when I'm on my NC period?
We all know that dumpees are never happy after being dumped. Just ignore it and continue to try to be happy anyway. Your ex needs to realize some stuff himself!
Hi Brad, me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago. After te break up we texted everyday en some time we face timed eachother Entil this week she said she wanted to have space en try to Let me go. But still wanna talk to me but not like everyday. And i Will see her every week because we play in the same soccer team . Wil the no contact period help? If we still see each other at training ?
She's slowly letting you go and while that's a good thing for her, it's downright bad for you. Watch the free vid presentation here to understand what's going on: www.breakupbrad.com
Brad I made every mistake in the book. I have been watching your vids and still crumbled and broke them. I even sent the clean slate message which seemed to anger her and now shes telling me I have to take the 3 kids two of which are babies overnight at the weekend when I am sleeping on a couch in a tiny 1 bedroom apartment with no space. I crumbled then and begged and pleaded again what do I do?
Uh oh... I hear you, man. A breakup is not an easy thing to go through. I do have to say that applying the tips should help you out. Being in pain comes from not accepting the situation for what it is, which will cause you to do all sorts of wrong moves. It happens. As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no when it comes to your chances. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning hey man thanks for the reply also your videos are comforting me through this turmoil even if I dont succeed in winning her back I thank you.
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Hello, my ex and I haven’t spoken in about 3 weeks. I haven’t tried to reach out cause it seems like she’s talking to someone else. The more time passes the less interest she shows. She took me out of every social media too even tho I don’t reach out. I don’t think there’s anything else I can do.
There's tons you can do in your own life! I know it's hard and may even feel like everything will slip away the moment you cut off contact, but trust me when I say this can really do a lot of benefit to your ex and you as well as your relationship as you'd both be in a clearer headspace to deal with each other when the time comes and therefore less mistakes made that will send your ex running for the hills further. I've seen people disregard the "no contact" rule and end up destroying their chances unknowingly. This is why I recommend you to employ the FULL 30-day "no contact" rule and be mindful of the tips in the following videos to help you out: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM AND make sure you don't make the number one mistake here: y2u.be/1cBpNrDDHnw
So once you've completed the no contact phase, watch my texting tips on how to re-establish contact with your ex. This is only one among the many texting tips posted across my channel. Start with these: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html AND y2u.be/RggluigF74E but if you're still lost about what to do despite the tips sprawled on my channel, then you may want to sign up for my one-on-one email coaching at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching Best of luck!
Hey brad! Im going through a breakup its been 6 months now and i've done everything to get him back but nothing worked for me we were in contact for a long time but its been 2 months since we have not spoken to eachother can i get him back somehow ?
If you've reached out to your ex only fairly recently, and assuming you've correctly employed the 30-day "no contact" rule, then that's a normal reaction from your ex. Here, watch this to help you understand things better: y2u.be/CP8FQlvDuVU But also try to see what sort of messages have you been sending your ex? It's a different story if you've been trying for so long with all the right moves and still stuck in the friendzone. Focus on the second and third phases instead. It helps to learn the basics here: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html and/or better yet, read my guide to guide you every step of the way, at www.breakupbrad.com Good luck!
Hey Brad u already know the story which happened bw me n him (recent one) at first when we were talking he said to not call or MSG him but still I did ( my bad) he got super pissed off coz of that😐 n yes i m damn insecure ab him so i asked him was he cheating ( i always do) coz he broke my trust once n I'm not ready to trust him, i swear im trying to but I can't. It's just that he's damn pissed n told me to breakup n he hasn't called me yet.as i said he called my friend😢I'm still doing that no contact trick idk will it be successful or not.hes a type of guy who would never say sorry after a fight or try to convince me . I have to do it all time even if it's not my fault.
That's okay especially if the betrayal happened recently. Trust is earned and he's not really helping rebuild it especially if he broke up with you instead. If he's not sorry about it, that is a huge red flag and you ought to really consider cutting off contact to clear your head and see the relationship for what it is instead of how you want it to be. Watch this: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html
Brad, I need to speak to you. My situation I very different from normal relationships. She’s pregnant.
I assume with your child? Was this a planned pregnancy and have you two decided on raising the kid together prior to the breakup? Do the dynamic "no contact" rule or limited contact. You've got a long way to go but for starters, you can follow the tips here to prevent things from getting even more awkward than it has to be: ruclips.net/video/GTjEAGJWTuA/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html
@@BradBrowning yes, with my child, we were planning on raising the child together. 100% and then 11 weeks in everything just flipped. Completely. It was unexpected. And real life started to sink in. But she was with me 100% except for the physical affection. Which is okay with me. But now I’m at a complete loss with her. I’m not going to give up and date someone new. If things work out great, if not then at least I can say I truly tried. The whole cause of this break was so that I could figure MY future out. Maybe she’s scared, idk but nothing I can say or do seems to have nothing but negative impact. I mean I can’t just do the no contact because she’s pregnant with our child. I want to be a part of this and learn. Maybe I’m overreacting. And trying to fix things too quick. I wouldn’t really talk during the week at all until we would meet on Sunday afternoons. I don’t know what in the world I’m supposed to do. Honestly.
What can I do If my ex is in relationship with someone more successful and ambitious
And she is ignoring me because I treated her bad and made her cry ?
She could be on a rebound or not, but stop forcing things. It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
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I am on NC in 11days and me and my ex we study at one class and she keeps looking at me and smiles ? Do I have to finish no contact 30 days
I get this question a lot so I wouldn't be surprised if you've found your answer before I even get to it -- if you've checked my other videos, that is. In this type of situation, try to limit your contact with your ex. And by that I mean only interact with him/her "only" when absolutely necessary. Watch one of the latest videos I've posted here: ruclips.net/video/dDZrnNh8LOg/видео.html Your case is actually one of the few cases where the “no contact” rule is an exception...but DON'T initiate random contact in any way and don’t make any unnecessary chitchats, all right? I've discussed it in these videos, as well as how to handle it: ruclips.net/video/zKhNHhEmYMg/видео.html but read my Ex Factor Guide because you still ought to go through the basics as well. I've posted an overview on how to get your ex back on an earlier vid,check it out as it's all there, but with the guide, you'll have an in-depth view on how to go about it, what to do after each phase (there are three phases in total), including what to say, do or not do, etc. since good timing is essential at www.breakupbrad.com Okay? Take care!
I got feelings for my friend and she found that I kissed her in cheek's and she told I just loved you as friend.And she ignored me. We aren't talking now. I'm in no contact.. now what should I do to get her back?..
Since you're asking me, I'd say move on because that woman is just not into you. However, Amy North or Kate Spring may have some other tips on what to do about that, so check out their channel, too!
I think I will just move on than to put a hope for the relationship to be work again
Like I always say, the decision is ultimately up to you since you know your relationship and your ex better than anyone else on here. And alas, not every ex is worth all the trouble. It's up to you to decide who is worth fighting for at one of the toughest of battles you face in your relationship. Best of luck!
Hey man great stuff keep it up. Okay my situation is I did everything wrong the first time but yet she keeps giving me chances so one day she blocked me from texting her I didn't panic and a week later she unblocked me we started texting so last night she told me to come over to watch a show but she made it clear that it wasn't a booty call I wasn't going to rub her feet make her tea or anything like that. So I went over did exactly everything that she wanted but I did make her laugh and smile a few times I did manage to touch her arm she didn't pull away. So as I was getting ready to leave she was still a little standoffish cuz I could tell she was still hurt and had her guard up a little so I didn't want to push it but she did invite me back this week and come over to watch another TV show with her so what do I do now?
It's still important to put the full 30-day straight "no contact" rule into priority because if you've been in touch after the breakup too soon, then you BOTH aren't taking the time needed to process the breakup and been acting like it hadn't happened. Here's how not contacting your ex can help you a lot: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Burying the problems which had caused the breakup in the first place is a surefire way towards a doomed relationship, if you get your ex back. Make sense now? You ought to teach your ex these very important lessons: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html On the other hand, you can work on the issues together but you have to make sure you're on the same page and you aren't being manipulated and/or strung along. Are you seeing any progress? Sign up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed and so I can guide accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Hey thanks for the advice stupidly I went there again last night to is last night to watch the show shameless. Which is I don't know if you ever saw the show it's full if it's full of sex and sexual in the windows those. And it's really confusing if really confusing there's times that she'll sit really close to me other times when I say goodbye to her at the end of the night she stands a little further away There's a few times that I can touch her on the arm or touch her on the leg very mixed signals. I want to do the note contact but how do I do it and what's the right way since her and I have been hanging
Also Brad as the dumper I was thinking of taking a break from social media for like a month i feel mentally down when I watch her stories. Weirdly enough I haven’t been block or removed from social media yet. im not sure why though I’m not complaining at all. I just thought she would have gotten rid of me off everything which in a way it does feel like that since she has ignored me since the breakup. I only sent 4 messages the last one was an I miss you message 3 weeks ago.
Maybe stop trying to look at your ex's profile/messages/snaps, posts, etc.? An essential part of the "no contact" rule is to turn your focus inwards for a good 30 days straight, and looking at what your ex is doing and whatnot largely deviates from that point, don't you think? Discussed that here, too: ruclips.net/video/MroLZ7XK9gY/видео.html
Hey Brad! I recently unfriended my ex and she's added me back today. What do I do?
What if after no contract she’s acting hot n cold so I just be positive . Been talking for months
Then she’s acting cold with always short answered like “hahaha what “ “lovely” “cool hahaha”
after the whole sentences we’ve been talking.
Then I was doing wrong we’ve been talking then she just left and dont answer again so this time I sent her back said “you’re gone? Then she had no respond but I sent
“I give up “ then she urgently said hahahaha whattt?
But I just go do other things and read next days and no respond for a month (30 day NC) because I feel she is acting like she ‘s still emotional and see so cold to me then on the day 33th I opened the chat she deleted her account and created a new one with the slightly the same name just changed from her name’s abbreviation to full name’s written so I know this is new and she deleted the old one
So question is should I contract her? I was gonna reaching to her with positive and funny talking.
(She’s a strongly stubborn girl. We break up because of missed understanding when we’re on long distance relationship) pls help me
Thank you in advance Brad you’re the best!!!
Don't text too much. I hope I'm wrong but it seems like you're overextending yourself here. Ideally wait for her to initiate a conversation with you as well. For the most part, I think you're on the right track, though, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Make sure you don't panic. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
@Brad Browning thank you Brad, I was on your stage re-kindle attraction. She was contracted me and we’ve been talking for like 8 months we’ve met eating lunch once and It’s covid19 so we just talked via chat. Then she acting hot and then cold like after I said the word I suddenly went on 30 days NC . So I wondering now she deleted her account and created new one which is like the same. should I do re-initiate contract her via her new account or just waiting ??. So I’m confusing because she deleted her account . And this re-new second time. So I can do initiate contract her right? It’s been 35days now
Brad Browning so do we gonna initiate her? Or just wait I've seen you said can initiate contract if already did 30 days of NC
Is this applicable even if my ex is talking to someone else already ?? been seperated for 4-5 months now , But we still have communicate each other here and there but it always ended up on me begging for her to come back 😔
So you're saying you haven't been playing your cards right? As to your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
Brad Browning, one of my exes added me on Facebook this Summer and told me that we’ll hang out one day with her boyfriend. I’ve actually known her since elementary school. She even told me that she told him nice things about me. He was even happy and wanted to meet me. She even happily thanked me for cards. However, just 2 days ago, he told me that he wasn’t with her, that he would appreciate if I didn’t call her anymore and not to call her number anymore. She and I share some friends. Do you think that a 45+ day no-contact technique would be better than the mere 30-day no-contact technique? I’m just curious. I think that it would. I’m not sure if 30 days would be enough in a situation like this. I think that at least 41 days might be better.
Average time is 30 days but can go anywhere from 4 to 6 weeks in usual cases. If there's been some endless begging and/or refusing to cut off contact on your end, however, I usually suggest to give it more time, around 2 months or even more. Cheating instances are different if you've cheated, could be longer or shorter depending on how your ex reacts. Do take note that in some instances where the dumpee just couldn't take the hint and continually bugs their ex for months, there comes a time where the ex reaches a "breaking point" and confirms it's the right decision to break up and becomes hellbent in moving on from you. So the bottom line is the "no contact" rule is best applied when the breakup is still fresh. Discussed the importance of silence here: ruclips.net/video/zw0ChuXCEmw/видео.html Also don't forget to watch my other vids so you'll know what to do after the "no contact" phase, especially if you're not getting my Ex Factor Guide. Good luck!
just a couple months ago we were on very good terms like we both had crushes on each other. a month ago i felt that she was playing with my emotions and was leading me on so i dropped her and said some nasty things that i regret now but they were true and spoken from the heart. after 2 weeks of no contact she texted me and i texted back and she gave me no response… i thought it was odd for her to do that but maybe her texting me first was a sign she still wanted me. i never stopped liking her i just needed a break. we havnt spoken at all, after the month of no contact was up, i reached out with a friendly question and did not get a response, shes ignoring me. please i need help, im in love with her still but now it feels like we are awkward strangers and it sucks. is there anything i can do???
You're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
It would be ok if I text her again if she does not reply since 1 week? I have already applied NC. Month and we were been talking again.
Use my texting tips and yes, you can try again after a week or two but always wait for a response first. Good luck!
(long distance)- is it a good idea to (during no contact) send back my ex his things (some clothes etc) and also some of the gifts he gave me that I don't know what to do with, but don't just want to throw away?
Ok nevermind, I already did it anyways😂😂
Just store them in a box somewhere, unless your ex asks for it. Right now, your priority should be yourself, especially your emotional and mental well-being. Good luck!
Hey Brad me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 weeks and the first week we were still talking until she blocked me. I had tried out the waiting game on her for two weeks and gave up and this whole week I’ve been trying to contact her over and over again I’m blocked on every social media platform she may have. Even if I try to contact her on another individuals phone. But i get nothing not a single word. She treats me pretty bad if I go to her house or try to speak to her in person in any way. And to be completely honest she’s broken up with me hundreds of times and this time she hasn’t given me a single chance. I had tried to be patient but nothing had happened so it’s come to the present where like i said i did what i tried to do this whole week, but nothing. :(
Her behaviour suggests she really needs space from you, man. It would be a mistake to try and force things to work at this point. At the very least, though, you really need to stop all contact for at least 30 days and not push it. Being needy or too forceful for your ex to talk to you will only alienate them further. Here's what may going through your ex's mind and why they seem they want nothing to do with you: ruclips.net/video/sd2Lx8uEni8/видео.html
Hi guys. Should I unfriend my ex in social media? I already done almost everything. I may really say that I do look better now. I dont contact with him. I was actually the one that broke up with him because he was in contact with his ex. I suck the first month since Im the one begging and the one initiating the conversation.
There's really no need to do that as it would seem like an immature move. Watch this for more guidance: ruclips.net/video/_3tnSYEy0W0/видео.html
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Brad!!! Brad!!! Please reply ok!! Me and my ex we have meet and she started to be interested in me more but then one friend of her told her that once i have curse her but now she started losing that interest again what should i do now brad
If you've done the 30-day "no contact" rule correctly, this is a pretty common theme as well, unfortunately. Your ex is in a vulnerable place right now. However, don’t destroy the progress you’ve made up to this point. Watch this to gain some insight on what to do: ruclips.net/video/cC54YU-qU5Q/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/MK7NDfJTbDc/видео.html But if your ex is worth it and as long as you aren't being manipulated, and you still really wanna give it your best shot, then I'll be more than happy to put my focus on your situation. Sign up to my coaching program at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
Are there any special tips for an ex with bpd? I'm tired of everyone saying to just give up, as if they're not worth it.
If your ex has a mental disorder like depression, bipolar disorder, IED, NPD, or the like, the most loving thing you can do is to give each other space while he/she gets help. Encourage your ex to seek treatment because clinical depression is something only a therapist specializing on this can handle, even this is outside of my scope. But I can help you how to handle things on YOUR end as you go through this difficult ordeal. I know it can be incredibly tough knowing you’ve given it your best shot, yet your partner still fails to appreciate it or is breaking up despite it being a good relationship. Anyway it's a bad idea to be friends with an ex especially knowing they have a mental health condition. In the end, they will drain you and leave you with lots of scars that would take years of therapy. Consider signing up for my coaching program so I can help assess your situation clearly, look at all the other factors at play and see things you might have missed, then guide you accordingly on a regular, ongoing basis at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I am feeling hopeless now.Me and my gf in Ldr for 2 and half years.We broke up 2 weeks ago and since then i kept texting her, apologized and told her to come back but she blocked me now from every social media.The only way to talk to her is through her friend or my friend.Now i don't know what to do.I want her so bad
If your ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email even though a lot of time has already passed, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/FP8YmErEOW8/видео.html
my ex and I have been in no contact in 2 and a half months then this month we had a little conversation ..he massaged first he told me he still has the bracelet i gave him cus it's the only thing that reminds him of me.. although he was really giving mixed signals...i massage him again after a couple of days and he was acting stubborn and distant this time..he even unfriended me again
He could still be confused but that's a pretty positive sign, especially since he absolutely doesn't have to send that kind of message to you. He may just need a subtle push. NOtice I mentioned "subtle" because you're not supposed to go all out in chasing him. Basically you're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
@@BradBrowning thank u so much for this,,,i actually just saw it rn...i then realized to just give up on him and choose myself,,after all he wasn't worthy of me..i do appreciate your massage a lot,,i just had a lot of realizations
I'm continuing my no contact rule now..i have seen some improvements from me..eg:-he making me jealous and puting sad about in whatsapp
By the way his birthday is on march 6th. I just want to know should i wish him or not.... my 30 days no contract rule is end on 17th of feb...
Yes, once you've already completed the full 30-day "no contact" rule and assuming you did it correctly, then the texting tips here will be a good starter: ruclips.net/video/XonMtLFo000/видео.html but make sure you tick off the checklist here first: ruclips.net/video/BAhMrmw3Sms/видео.html This means you take time focusing on the second phase and eventually the third phase when the time is right. This won’t happen overnight, of course, but it’s something you ought to continue to work on to the point where you’re gradually building attraction again. This is what my guide is for. Have you checked it out yet? It's too complicated to explain everything on here, but here's an overview of these phases and what to expect in each one: ruclips.net/video/aeGNPBdpnsI/видео.html Good luck!
Hi Brad, today I talked to my ex after more than 1 month but today she gave me a sign that she is not interested in me and don't want to talk anything about our relationship. I think she is over me and now she don't want to get into a relationship with me or anyone else. Is there any chance to get her back or should I just move on?
If you're asking about your chances, I really wish I could give you a direct yes or no. However, as it is, each situation is unique, so I suggest you take the free quiz as it hits on the critical elements that will determine your chances depending on your answers. In other words, my quiz can give you a more accurate answer than I can since as you may have noticed, there are various factors at play here which needs to be looked at as well as your own actions after the breakup. Here's the link: www.breakupbrad.com/quiz Best of luck!
@@BradBrowning sure I will take that test also I want to thank you for making these videos for us. You really help me a lot during the no contact phase. 🙂🙂
Hey brad i had a habit of lying over things that happend with my ex before my current ex but i didnt know i was lying its a habit and we broke up because of it can i still get her back because everythibg else was fine and we really love eachother she broke up witb me btw
It's very important to give it time to let whatever anger and hurt there is between you two, especially from your ex's side, subside. Sometimes it takes a month but oftentimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the situation. You simply cannot rush this. An apology is in order, too. These may help: ruclips.net/video/qnE192fUKxI/видео.html AND ruclips.net/video/f0F8q2IIgtE/видео.html
Can u get over your ex if you are in a rebound relationship? And can u plz do some more video of rebound
Yes, but it often don't work that way. Take time to process the breakup first and enjoy being single until you find someone you can truly connect with. Apply the tips here, too: ruclips.net/video/4Qe-4A-CpVY/видео.html If you're trying to move on, this video is for you: ruclips.net/video/01wvLSaS9_I/видео.html And if you're still having a hard time, this should help you understand why in order to understand what you're going through: ruclips.net/video/2CakOOSwIiY/видео.html
He seen my fb chat in just 3 minutes but not respond, is it good sign? Should I wait for a few day or week to chat him again? Help me bread I’ve done almost your videos
As I've mentioned, wait AT LEAST a week if you don't get a respond. Never be a texting terrorist. If you've watched and followed my tips, then I say you're on the right track, assuming you've done the first phase (30-day "no contact" rule) correctly and basically had set the stage for this second part. Be sure to check out my other videos for more tips on how to go about this, especially this: y2u.be/gUBNd6pDINM Since you've only recently reconnected, then don't expect your ex to warm up easily. Getting an ex back is a process. Here's a short infograph to guide you in each process: ruclips.net/video/7JtmVbDkblw/видео.html Look out for the signs that your ex has moved on, though: y2u.be/TnZzeEIPEik But evaluate things, too. Are you sure you're not trying to rush it? Setting a deadline is a good way to fail when it comes to exes, so I highly discourage it. What steps have you taken to get your ex back? It's time to re-assess those and see what's working versus what's not working. Sometimes, getting an ex back is like trying to fit a square into a circle, but oftentimes, chances are you're letting emotion dictate you and therefore end up making the wrong choices. Have you checked out my guide yet? It’s ultimately up to you to act (or not act, depending on which phase you’re in) on getting your ex back, but it helps if you read it to ensure that you’re on the right track. Check it out at www.breakupbrad.com
My ex bf is still talking to me after break up.. he started to talk to me after i blocked him in social media..it took him a month to talk to me calmly.. he still text me whenever i text him. Sometimes i don't text him. He himself will text me n disappear for a few days.. but he won't shout at me like last time he did... What does this mean...??.. is he trying to patch up or...... 💔 What should I do
Here's this to consider: ruclips.net/video/xbDPq23YaNE/видео.html so be sure to take the free quiz at www.breakupbrad.com/quiz However, that kind of behaviour coming from your ex is somewhat expected after a breakup. That's why you ought to give it enough time where there's totally no contact between you and your ex for at least 30 days. A wide array of different emotions coming from an ex is somewhat expected when a breakup is still fresh and this includes the likelihood of your ex giving you mixed or weird signals. Watch this: y2u.be/siApAVtx8zE This is why I tell people to cut off contact for at least a month first and NOT deal with this ex. You both need to clear your minds first, all right? A breakup hurts both people in it regardless of who has done the breaking up. This is something I've discussed here, so watch it to learn a few tips to help you on how to go about it: ruclips.net/video/1kJ1ybuFIHE/видео.html
@@BradBrowning i experienced only sign 1 n 2.. he will text me after that ignore me for 2 or 3 days.. it's already a month since my ex called n talked to me...
Any solutions for this
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I was in no contact with my ex for 5-6 months. After updating my phone I saw she had called me 2 months ago and left a voicemail. I ended up freaking and reaching out as much as I could then she told me to stop texting her. What do I do on this?
What did the voicemail say?
She said she didn't have much time to talk on the phone but she wanted a friend to talk to. that voicemail was 2 months before I called back multiple times when she asked me not to text her. its been a month since then and I haven't reached out. @@BradBrowning
Ok,Brad, what if she blocks you from all her social media that you cannot call or text or speak and its more than 2years, can you still get her back???
If your ex has ghosted you or blocked you everywhere where contact is impossible and you can't text/call/email, then I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it may be over for good. It's one of the things I've discussed here: ruclips.net/video/FP8YmErEOW8/видео.html