The reason it’s always a question for women, is because we miss work to have babies - men do not. We are the ones that have to deliver the baby and often time it’s at the expense of our career or being passed up for a promotion. While paternity leave is optional for men, women are the ones that forcibly end up missing work.
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again..” having it all” depends on who that person is and what they want in their life... nobody’s wants and needs and goals are the same ... everyone of us have something that makes us unique and yes our thoughts and things we want in our life are apart of that and that’s ok ! Not to mention... I find it strange that people put their thoughts on other people to influence to somewhat live vicariously through that person they’re “ encouraging “ and tbh it’s sad... if you want to do it then that’s you , but don’t disguise you lowkey trying to convert someone to do something because you didn’t do it... like everybody has their own life and their views on what they want in life ! And its put hard on women... especially regarding the talk of having a husband and children... it’s so crazy to me ! It’s a form of peer pressure in my opinion
Having it all is different for every1. For example some ppl don't want a career outside the home so having it "all" doesn't include a career outside the home. And even if u can have it all, that might be some epic pressure. Just cuz u can do something doesn't mean u gotta do it 💛
I completely agree with Adrienne and all of the online comments A read. I believe having it all means something different for everyone. (idk what Loni was talking about "if you plan it". Everyone plans out important events in their life, so...) Anyone who wants it all can make it happen, but I don't think it can happen all @ once. That's my opinion and I am basing it on we all want different things @ different stages in our life.
Garcelle brought cliquey housewives energy to the show that makes it uncomfortable to watch. Tamera was always the generational bridge between Tamar+Loni and Adrienne+Jeannie. Yvette Nicole Brown would have been a better replacement since she at least comes with humility and is cool with everybody. Show won’t last with the obvious division
What division is there?!?! The energy with the girls is very much sister like and actually feel likes siblings bouncing off each other’s energy rather than girlfriends talking..Garcelle is a good fit
Adrienne was spot on here , having it all is subjective
One of the extremely rare times I appreciate what Adrienne said. She couldn't be more correct on the "having it all" matter. Ppl needed to hear that.
To that one special person reading this: May you be protected and blessed beyond your wildest dreams for all the struggles 2020 put you through
God bless you my love ❤️
Very kind words.
Hey there! Hope everyone is having a great weekend. Stay positive!
I miss Tamera being on the show
She was all about that money
I do too! I hope she is well!
It’s Tamar guys
Me toooooo
I want to have my own business. For me that’s having it all. If I have kids but no business that won’t fulfill me.
I miss Tamera's "Lllooonniii"😂😥😂😭
The reason it’s always a question for women, is because we miss work to have babies - men do not. We are the ones that have to deliver the baby and often time it’s at the expense of our career or being passed up for a promotion. While paternity leave is optional for men, women are the ones that forcibly end up missing work.
Great episode! I really miss this show!
Okay now! I love Mrs. Michele Obama ❤️
Uhh, Carter’s and ZARA kids is not exactly what the typical mom would think as “frugal”. 😅
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again..” having it all” depends on who that person is and what they want in their life... nobody’s wants and needs and goals are the same ... everyone of us have something that makes us unique and yes our thoughts and things we want in our life are apart of that and that’s ok ! Not to mention... I find it strange that people put their thoughts on other people to influence to somewhat live vicariously through that person they’re “ encouraging “ and tbh it’s sad... if you want to do it then that’s you , but don’t disguise you lowkey trying to convert someone to do something because you didn’t do it... like everybody has their own life and their views on what they want in life ! And its put hard on women... especially regarding the talk of having a husband and children... it’s so crazy to me ! It’s a form of peer pressure in my opinion
Preach Adrienne!!!
Tamera missed her 🥺
Best hair/wig Loni has EVER worn! 👏🏼
I like the straight bob, middle part😕
Having it all is different for every1. For example some ppl don't want a career outside the home so having it "all" doesn't include a career outside the home. And even if u can have it all, that might be some epic pressure. Just cuz u can do something doesn't mean u gotta do it 💛
I completely agree with Adrienne and all of the online comments A read. I believe having it all means something different for everyone. (idk what Loni was talking about "if you plan it". Everyone plans out important events in their life, so...) Anyone who wants it all can make it happen, but I don't think it can happen all @ once. That's my opinion and I am basing it on we all want different things @ different stages in our life.
Thanks for posting something today, I needed my girls 💖
Extra Taco bell!!!! I hear ya Ade....😜
I love this show! Yay! Thank you!!
😂😂😂😂😂 Loni be trying by all means to come up with sensible quotes, but still... 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
No A u haven't fallen!! U Grammy nominated baby🎉🎉🎉🥳🥳🥳
I love these girls omg
what does 'having it all" even mean?...I think that question should be retired, I don't see no one asking men the same question.
I miss tamera 🥺🥺
Same!
This is obviously from the Girl Chat Vault, when Tamera was still on the show.
Why are they not social distancing? This must be old.
Yes
Love.....Love.....Loni’s Dress !!! 🥰🙏🏼❤️ Love.....Love Today’s Topic !!! Truth !!! 💪🏽🙌🏽❤️🙏🏼
Perspective for sure
I have all that I need.
BIG MIKE
What happen to Tamara
She didn't want to come back because they reduced her pay lol.
@@JackGeezy85 The show got “too black” for her.
@@bsbgirl85 Her face be like ‘😐’ basically her saying she can’t relate. 🤣
Okay zero views 11likes....who are you again???
Why donot you have mask ?
The thumbnail says “Girl Chat Vault”, so that means it’s an old clip...
I'm glad you are back T... I didn't watch!
You should. Garcelle is a great fit and the guests have been phenomenal!
This is an old episode. Tamera left the show permanently
Garcelle brought cliquey housewives energy to the show that makes it uncomfortable to watch. Tamera was always the generational bridge between Tamar+Loni and Adrienne+Jeannie. Yvette Nicole Brown would have been a better replacement since she at least comes with humility and is cool with everybody. Show won’t last with the obvious division
What division is there?!?! The energy with the girls is very much sister like and actually feel likes siblings bouncing off each other’s energy rather than girlfriends talking..Garcelle is a good fit
Wedding dress. Rings Sophia. Church ⛪️. Emmanuel a very Pierre
They talk so fast they always trip over their words