How Narcissists Make You Feel Worthless Through Invalidation. And How To Handle It.
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- Being made to feel worthless, bad, like an idiot, and insignificant is how narcissists invalidate you as a person. Invalidation is a favorite tactic of narcissists, especially covert narcissists. It is a vicious form of emotional abuse and manipulation that is particularly harmful. By the narcissist’s actions and words they tell you that your emotions, needs, wants, ideas, beliefs, and concerns are not worth their time and energy. In short, they feel so entitled and have so little regard for you that you are not worth their time and attention.
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WOW! WOW! WOW!
Finally, I found someone who discussed the topic of the narcissist not calling you by your name.
I've been married 31 years and my narc husband has never, ever called me by my name. No pet names either. He doesn't call me mean disgusting names either. Nothing, nothing at all. I want to thank you so much for bringing this up. If you could discuss it more I would really like that.
Hi. Thank you for sharing. Glad you found the video helpful. Will look at doing a more in-depth video about the topic. Not calling you by your name is rooted in their envy. You have something they want that they cannot have. Even just a nice smile. They want to destroy or ignore that which causes them so much pain because they cannot have it. To call someone by their name is to give recognition to that person. That the person matters and has value. Some cannot get themselves so far and will drop out of abuser programs and rather do jail time than call their partner by their name if it is required in the program. Some will try to fake this by excessively calling you by your name almost every second sentence as they overdo it to make you think they value you.
@@NarcissisticAbuseHealing You are absolutely correct. When I finally said something to him about it, he will ON OCCASION say my name, but it's SO obvious that he's just doing it so that at some later date he can say, "I don't know what you are talking about, I call you by your name. You just love to cause trouble don't you?"
I feel invisible around my narcissistic father and his flying monkeys . Also feel like I don't exist around them . Cannot question their bullshit and gaslighting . The narcissistic father also act as if nothing happened . Feel isolated also because of them .
I’m sorry ❤ I felt like this at the end of my whatever you wanna call it with my child’s father. I guess a relationship.. it was supposed to be that but in the end it wasn’t healthy so I don’t like to refer to it as one. They can certainly make you feel unimportant and used.
you explain this so so well
Thank you.