The Value of Gender Stereotypes | Doug Wilson

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2022
  • In this episode of Blog & Mablog, Pastor Doug Wilson continues his series of letters to a fictional nephew about the relationship between the sexes, this time discussing the value of gender stereotypes.
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    "Gender stereotypes are the wisdom of centuries, our reasonable reaction to the obvious differences between men and women, which, if honored and followed, provide the safest path to genuine happiness."
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  • @blogmablog4870
    @blogmablog4870  2 года назад +6

    Read through CS Lewis with Doug with "The Commons" mycanonplus.com/tabs/discover/video-series/1845

    • @Raybo-68
      @Raybo-68 2 года назад

      Our newly appointed nuclear waste czar wants us all in a ball gagged leather mask, now go get your racial equity glass pipe and have some parmesan- Joe Xiden

  • @seasonhorstmeier2064
    @seasonhorstmeier2064 2 года назад +70

    I used to be one of those egalitarian feminists. I went to college to become a pharmacist but met my now husband right before I was set to start. Fast forward to today and we have a beautiful baby boy and I stay home full time to cook, clean, and nurture (without a mountain of student loan debt)… and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Thanks for the talk, Doug. It’s great to hear affirming words put so simply and eloquently.

  • @farmerpete0768
    @farmerpete0768 2 года назад +28

    I can’t wait to buy “The Uncle Douglas Letters” and read them to my future kids

  • @paulmcwhorter
    @paulmcwhorter 2 года назад +42

    A voice of sanity in an insane world. Doug talks about things many times I already know to be true, but just hearing someone saying them in a clear and elegant way helps the sane keep their sanity. Greatly blessed by these videos.

  • @asahelnettleton9044
    @asahelnettleton9044 2 года назад +33

    Ah, a refreshing breath of sanity. God be praised.

  • @owenduck
    @owenduck 2 года назад +8

    I wish i listened to this man every day of my teenage years.

  • @Sanctifiers
    @Sanctifiers 2 года назад +21

    You're a treasure and criminally underrated. You should have millions of views. But such is the nature of a fallen world.

  • @mattshipp91
    @mattshipp91 2 года назад +15

    I have 2 unmarried sons in their early 20's. It would be extremely helpful if someone on your staff would create a playlist of all the video blogs to Pastor Wilson's nephew. I would like both of my unmarried sons to watch them for the sake of correcting their worldview around who they should marry.

  • @chipseal9403
    @chipseal9403 2 года назад +8

    The honking will continue until morale improves.

  • @stephenbuechner9595
    @stephenbuechner9595 2 года назад +8

    I like to say "stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason. If they weren't true, they wouldn't be stereotypes."

    • @Zaloomination
      @Zaloomination 2 года назад +1

      I heard it this way: stereotypes dont become stereotypes by being intrinsically absurd

  • @pilotandy_com
    @pilotandy_com 2 года назад +20

    Find someone who has enough humility to recognize their own faults and allows you to overcome yours, and you'll be fine.

  • @thatreformedguy
    @thatreformedguy 2 года назад +7

    Thanks Uncle Doug, but I haven't gotten into a new relationship yet. 😁

  • @sofiabravo1994
    @sofiabravo1994 2 года назад +14

    Gender roles are good!

  • @brianhale3678
    @brianhale3678 2 года назад +29

    "Scripture tells the man to provide, protect, and love.
    Scripture tells the woman to honor, help, and submit."
    -Douglas Wilson 2022

    • @Roescoe
      @Roescoe 2 года назад

      Not exactly the easiest of tasks but the right thing to do.

  • @ynezgoggiano8751
    @ynezgoggiano8751 2 года назад +2

    Thanks uncle Doug!

  • @Zaloomination
    @Zaloomination 2 года назад +7

    Stereotypes don't become stereotypes by being intrinsically absurd

  • @SmithFamilyFarmstead
    @SmithFamilyFarmstead 2 года назад +6

    God bless you Doug!

  • @gerritbeech8279
    @gerritbeech8279 2 года назад +6

    These gender stereotypes have been based on our historic past and experience. Many are true and can even be helpful. Today t. feminism wants to put ideology over nature which has worked from the beginning of time! Men and Woman are not the same.. and thats why men are handsome and woman beautiful...The differences between men and woman are beautiful. I dont see it as weaknesses. The sexes just are complimetare to each other. I Like this.. its all true what you are saying.

  • @lisamoag6548
    @lisamoag6548 2 года назад

    I enjoy reading C.S.Lewis .
    He gets it and so do you.
    You look like a uncle by the way.

  • @Sldoficn
    @Sldoficn 2 года назад

    Thank you, thank you, thank you so much!!!!!! God bless 🙏

  • @danielsvision
    @danielsvision 2 года назад

    Listening while unpacking lunch esky and wiping the dirt and filth of it i just turned to the missus (who was folding clothes) and stated "I cant believe we need to have this discussion and Christian leaders have to clarify the reason for separate genders.." she just says "its been a long time coming"..

  • @leegaesswitz181
    @leegaesswitz181 2 года назад

    Quite literally the best one yet

  • @jaquirox6579
    @jaquirox6579 2 года назад +2

    Is the reading through CS Lewis podcast, behind the paywall on the Canon App?? It sounds wonderful!

  • @jhails112
    @jhails112 2 года назад

    This is so good. Thanks!

  • @nathan3942
    @nathan3942 2 года назад

    Thank you!

  • @YSLRD
    @YSLRD 2 года назад +2

    Refreshing realism.

  • @Stareingattheson
    @Stareingattheson 2 года назад

    I love how truth resonates in my heart as a follower of Christ.

  • @britterz483
    @britterz483 2 года назад +8

    Such good content 😊

    • @Sanctifiers
      @Sanctifiers 2 года назад +5

      criminally underrated. he should have millions of views. but such is the nature of a fallen world.

  • @Jvaldes609
    @Jvaldes609 2 года назад

    This is so helpful for me thanks

  • @masontenpenny407
    @masontenpenny407 2 года назад +4

    This is like NQN all over again! 🔥 🙌

  • @lorrainem.swartzentruber3077
    @lorrainem.swartzentruber3077 2 года назад +3

    I went through a semi-femi period when I was younger. I have come to realize that there were gender roles before the fall which means they aren't bad. Sin has twisted everything so why are we surprised it twisted this?

    • @aallen5256
      @aallen5256 2 года назад

      There were gender roles before the fall, in the garden of Eden? What were they??

    • @ArcherWarhound
      @ArcherWarhound 2 года назад +3

      Yes there were, by default of their biological difference and by declaration of God Himself. Peter and Paul both reference that God states He made Eve, a creature with different body parts and abilities - like having babies - to a helper suitable for Adam. So Adam has a job and she helps him accomplish it, but he's the leader and he's responsible. God child have made whatever, anything whatsoever, but He didn't make 2 matching men, nor 2 matching women, nor 2 matching hermaphrodites that were both equally strong and both able to birth babies. No, He specifically chose to make 2 physically and mentally dimorphic people. Clearly dynamic and exciting gender roles were His plan and boring egalitarianism sameness was not the plan, but rather the unoriginal, flattening and deadening of a shadow that cannot create real new things of its own, but can only twist and pervert good things made God.

    • @aallen5256
      @aallen5256 2 года назад

      @@ArcherWarhound But Eve didn’t have any children in the garden of Eden.. and Adam didn’t have anyone to lead apart from Eve, and sustenance was abundant and could be sourced without danger.. so what were the gender roles there?? Dynamic and exciting or otherwise!

    • @Sldoficn
      @Sldoficn 2 года назад

      @@aallen5256 He just answered your question but it seems like you are not accepting the answer. Adam's gender role was to lead and Eve's gender role was to help him.

    • @aallen5256
      @aallen5256 2 года назад +1

      @@Sldoficn Just interested in going deeper. Like what was Adam's job, he wasn't leading anyone other than Eve, and in what work? But this is a sad subjugation anyway, and proved untrue by the many entire countries, currently and historically, that are lead by women! Including New Zealand, Finland, Denmark, Iceland, Greece, the UK, Switzerland, Germany, etc.

  • @billybob-wx2re
    @billybob-wx2re 2 года назад +1

    one of your best

  • @Shepherd20.28
    @Shepherd20.28 2 года назад +1

    Reflect upon this- that God saw that it was “not good that man should be alone” so a help meet was made to complete Adam. Human fullness is the result of two becoming one in marriage. This at-one- ment is the point and picture of human wholeness from which any perspective on individuality in gender stereotypes can be appreciated without solipsism or asserted without the missing other.

  • @springflowerblosomnorris9721
    @springflowerblosomnorris9721 2 года назад +3

    God is brilliant: you either die for love ..... or die loving, but you can't be a hypocrite you are going to die.
    If you love yourself, you are going to die twice: onece for yourself ( Hebrews 9:27), .... and for the one who you love (John 15:13).

  • @wesleymarkmusic403
    @wesleymarkmusic403 2 года назад

    Common sense words for my common sense ears. Thanks.

  • @rebekahguilder602
    @rebekahguilder602 2 года назад +8

    Ecclesiastical welfare checks. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kvelez
    @kvelez 2 года назад +1

    2:45
    HAHAHA, AMEN.

  • @Yesica1993
    @Yesica1993 2 года назад +1

    I understand all the talk about marriage and men and women. It's needed in today's insane society.
    But is there any help and hope for those who are older and single, not by any choice of their own? Especially women. We don't fit in with this godless world. But apparently we don't fit in Christian circles, either.
    It seems that in today's increasingly crazy secular society, Christians have swung so much to the other direction that it seems the ONLY acceptable role for a woman is to be married and raising kids at home. I never chose to be single and over 50. Being alone is unbearable.

    • @danascully1248
      @danascully1248 Месяц назад

      Hey, I'm sorry for being so late! I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. Christian circles 100% do not include single women, especially older women. But don't listen to Doug or other Christian Nationalists. Single women are loved by God, too. No matter what others say, it really is not your fault. And even if you did choose to be single, that would be fine too. There's a huge difference between being a super leftist progressive feminist and a normal single woman!

  • @maxmaximum-sh4bx
    @maxmaximum-sh4bx 8 месяцев назад

    For the algorithm

  • @tianacampuzano9527
    @tianacampuzano9527 Год назад

    Take the feminist women! 👏🏻😂 I love my manly mad 💪🏼

  • @WGPower_Nonchalant_Cafe
    @WGPower_Nonchalant_Cafe 2 года назад +1

    Speech Gestapo?!?? Don't you mean Speech Gazpacho?!?!?

  • @treschamay5993
    @treschamay5993 2 года назад

    P?O?O?m

  • @aqqibabs
    @aqqibabs 2 года назад +2

    Can someone explain who Dawson is? This is probably a cultural miscommunication 😅

    • @warrenjm9
      @warrenjm9 2 года назад +1

      Go look him up. Find out for yourself.

    • @josiew3120
      @josiew3120 2 года назад +4

      Wilson's fictional nephew. Yes series is a take-off from Screwtape Letters by C.S. Lewis.

    • @aqqibabs
      @aqqibabs 2 года назад +3

      @@warrenjm9 thanks for nothing 👍

    • @aqqibabs
      @aqqibabs 2 года назад +3

      @@josiew3120 thank you!

    • @rockycomet4587
      @rockycomet4587 2 года назад +1

      @@warrenjm9 What a giant lolcow you are, just like the ones on the KiwiFarms!

  • @samowen2286
    @samowen2286 2 года назад +7

    I can't wait for all the dumb commercials in the super bowl featuring women kickers. It's egalitarianism taken to such an strange and ridiculous place I can't help but laugh XD

  • @kentfrederick8929
    @kentfrederick8929 2 года назад +4

    All stereotypes are boneheaded. That's like saying all Swedes are stoic, all blacks have athletic abilities, all Asians are good with math, and all French people are romantic and can cook.
    My wife can drive a stick and hates clothes shopping. I can't drive a manual and love shopping for suits.
    My wife also likes sci-fi and movies with gore. So, she goes to those movies with our teenage son, while I stay home and watch baseball, football, and college basketball, which our teenage son hates.
    Oh, I'm a stay-at-home dad.

    • @Contra_Chaos
      @Contra_Chaos 2 года назад +5

      That's nice, but how did you enjoy the video?

    • @YSLRD
      @YSLRD 2 года назад +3

      Did you even watch the video?

    • @edwardsimmons7751
      @edwardsimmons7751 2 года назад +2

      Go back and watch the video. This time, try paying attention to the definition of a stereotype.

    • @jonathanbilodeau9532
      @jonathanbilodeau9532 2 года назад +3

      "All stereotypes are boneheaded" - I assume this was an attempt at humor...which is good, because I don't tolerate intolerance.

    • @kentfrederick8929
      @kentfrederick8929 2 года назад

      @@jonathanbilodeau9532 No, it wasn't humor. That includes the notion of roles for men and women. Except for reproduction, a man can do anything a woman can, and vice versa.