As a child I was much more comfortable when I was in my zone with leggos, and sketching. It was like an insatiable appetite. As an adult I'm a seamstress and I'm very happy.
I absolutely think my special interest has saved me in a way. Im interested in psychology, and within that cult psychology, and within that scientology. For nearly a year scientology was all I could think about, listen to, and research. But what was happening in my subconscious was that I was processing the trauma of leaving religion and all of the brainwashing and indoctrination I had been through. My special interest helped me understand my own mind and dig myself out of a really dark place. I didnt want any silence or my mind would go to that dark place, so instead I looked at other peoples experiences to help process my own. I still love learning about cult psychology and brainwashing, and it still helps me deconstruct everything I went through. Psychology in the broader sense also helps me understand my own mind, neurodivergencies, and mental illnesses better.
I have at least three to four. Heaven help the person who asks about any of them. Their eyes glaze over. Collecting vintage sewing machines, quilting, cross stitching, dish collecting, bee keeping.
My parents thought that my obsession with the Legend of Zelda was a phase when I was younger. Boy, they were wrong! 😂 As a story writer, I research the heck out of different subjects to make the story more plausible. This means that I like research if it's interesting to me. I had a hard time researching for school papers because sometimes the subjects were boring to me.
As an Autistic person, one of my "Special Interests" is Medieval History...which I pursue at a nigh-on-doctorate level. Sure, it's a thing I am interested in for reasons I cannot communicate, and I am _very_ enthusiastic, however, this enjoyment has led me to spend over 15 years researching this subject by reading period sources and academic papers/lectures. Yet, I have no qualifications or degrees, it is all for my personal peace of mind. Essentially, I have done more than a Phd's worth of work and effort, because I enjoyed it. Long before I knew I was Autistic, I had Medieval History. While my interests might be fairly "adult" as far as "Special Interests" go, no one should feel ashamed of what they love. Ideas of what is "adult" or "childish" are constructs invented by Neurotypicals. If you're into Pokemon, be into Pokemon. You are no less valid than me. PS: I couldn't help but note that _any_ eye-contact in the video was fleeting at best, and hell yeah, that's how it should be. Look up, look to the side, look wherever is comfortable. Screw the "eye-contact agenda!"
@@gigahorse1475 Thank you! Cool facts? I think these facts are pretty cool:
Wattle-and-daub, or timber-framed, houses could be disassembled and moved to a new location. They'd knock out all the plastered panels, then take down the frame, which was held together by simple joints and wooden pegs. No nails were used. Medieval churches were brightly lit and painted on the inside with biblical scenes in vivid colours. Common people didn't wear drab, colourless clothing, they dyed their fabrics with locally found plants. People brushed their teeth with mallow root, which splits apart in a way that's similar to a modern toothbrush, and a paste made from course salt and herbs, some of which were antibacterial. There is a "Holy Ghost" in Western Christianity, because Medieval people strongly believed that two things from different "realms" could not interact without an intermediary that could cross both realms. Therefore, God the Father and God the Son needed a third entity that was neither Heavenly, nor Earthly, in order to function. For the same reason, they believed that birds could interact with both beasts of the Earth, and the spirits of the Aether, but that beasts and spirits could not perceive each other. This idea is fundamental to the way Medieval people believed the universe worked. Most of the pre-Renaissance scientists were monks, nuns, or priests. Christine de Pizan, an Italian-French court poet, wrote a proto-Feminist work in 1405, called _The Book of the City of Ladies,_ which was an allegorical novel about the nature of women, their virtues, and their contributions to society. The book was very popular and sparked a great deal of debate. Medieval scholars believed that the planets moved in their orbits, because of their love for God.
I am taking a course on medieval philosophy (undergrad in philosophy). some times i get behind on my philosophy work because i'm currently obsessed with medieval history. It's crazy how we've just glossed over a thousand years of human history. I'm currently focusing on the spanish inquisition but i'll go back to the early middle ages right after
I knit and quilt and I really don't want to do those things as a job. I like to make things and wear them myself or give them away - I don't want my special interest to be my job. At my work, I'm a graphic designer. I love it.
This is GREAT, my Special Interest is the Harry Potter series and also I love doing art as well 😊❤ Edit: when I was a kid I LOVED my Barbie and Bratz dolls WELL INTO my teenage years; I still have some of them and I’m not sorry😂
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I don't have a great memory for information retaining I will go find out info but remembering and relaying that info is difecalult, Im also Dislexic which makes reading difficult but as a adult did teach myself to read and spell better. I love jigsaws have a big collection of them, so I would not all interest are info gathering and just because you don't gather info doesn't mean you don't have autism. I was diagnosed ADHD and Dislexic at 8 and told I was autistic at 14 but didn't seek info about it till my child was diagnosed and know I've been rediagnised. You are right watching RUclips videos like this finding out more about autism is like finding out more about myself and it helps me feel better about being myself. It's frustrating sometimes when I can't remember some tips or why doing what I do helps me but I have started doing things like using fidget cubes in public. I'm comfortable with being myself at home and find if doing something helps me then do it and I try not to worry about what others think although most of the time you can't help but worry about it, I keep it to something small and not highly noticeable like a fidget ring which I love. Things like fidget cubes or rings are great it gets me home so I can deflate.
I make my own earrings too, among other things, and people are constantly telling me I could sell them, and they mean it as a compliment but I'm just like... I spend hours and hours enjoying making this but if I had to do it again it'd be boring! There are so many other things I want to make and fix! I don't want to do the same thing again!
I make various things and people tell me that I could sell them but I only usually like making one or a few. I don't want to do the same thing over and over either. I am exploring how the materials work.
Thank you for this video :). I really enjoy the content of this series. The different perspectives and lived experiences brought together create a nuanced and informative frame. Add in the calming ambiance, the result it is great formula!
i thought about it for such long time what my special interest would be and i think i got distracted by usually or stereotypically autistics having very "themed" special interests, but I think I figured mine out now, it's rather abstract: I love and get energy from tinkering and figuring out things. It doesn't matter if it's about games, puzzles, programming, crafting or planning things etc. and of course some topics, games etc. are more likely to allow me to tinker/figure them out. It has also helped me understanding the world, especially things like social situations, even though I know when people find out how much I analyze them, they usually don't respond well to it :/ I thought it was psychology, sailor moon, creatures/animals and animes, arts etc. but while they stick with me, by themselves they don't provide me with the satisfaction consistently. they are more acting like tools?
8:24 hearing that she was a selective mute until she was 15-16 is a huge relief because I have autistic children who are speech delayed. I haven’t been able to get brain scans to see if the delay is physiological or psychological so it stresses me out immensely thinking that they could all possibly be dependents as adults.
I never grew up (as the complicit society) would say, and am ok with that. I enjoy a rewarding career in my special interests: accessibility, Israel and Sci-Fi. It gives me joy and motivation and reason for being.
I appreciate this channel so very much, both the sharing in the content & also in the comments. So many times I don't engage online in fear of misunderstanding or flubbing it up, but I'm more comfortable in this space. Thank you 🌊🌲🐿🍄
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I really agree with sometimes when you turn a special interest into a job it ruins it. I have a lot of problems with ADHD paralysis and sometimes autism interest can only do so much to fight it lol
Thanks so much Purple Ella, Ross and James. This was such a useful and interesting topic for me as a late diagnosed autistic looking to understand myself better. Really appreciate your perspectives
I think i've learned like 80% of what I know from exploring my interests and making connections and spotting patterns. I've found it a lot more useful than learning how I was expected to learn.
In my early teens, my special interest was The Beatles. I bought all of their cassettes and I wanted to learn as much about them as I could. I even wore my hair like The Beatles.
This was a very informative and interesting video so thank you so much! I’ve never really thought about how important special interests can be for mental health, so that was an interesting perspective.
I'm not diagnosed yet, but since I got my ADHD diagnosis and medication, it got clearer for me that I fit a lot a lot of the criteria. My special interests as a child were musketeers, robin hood, circus (major obsession), clowns. When I got older: psychology, psychopharmacology, various crafts (bra sewing is one of the intense ones), choir, and classical singing are major ones. And since last October I got into excavators and deconstruction/demolishion 😆 (we had a big construction site in front of our house, and it was just glorious, but now they all left and I feel so empty. I think I'll need a excavator model, or will proceed to draw some, and visit other buildings that they tear down.).
2:00 yea 😊 I do agree. I was listening to that man trough Headphones🎧 and I got the tone of his voice😊. My two Major special interests are: Strategy Video Games & Scuba Divers! Really😂! At times, wearing even a make-shift diving gear (like a diving mask and a snorkel) makes me feel good... stimming so to speak😅😅... But a lot of people around me are Neurotypical, so they do not understand stimming 😢 which is sad...
This is great thank you for telling me your special interests. My special interests are having imaginary friends who are hispanic autistic baby boys which are mexican autistic baby boys and salvadoran autistic baby boys, PBS Kids Curious George, Dinosaurs, Dinosaur Train season 1, Dragon Tales season 3, small cars, hot wheels Roblox, Sonic the hedgehog, Sonic Boom from Cartoon Network, Sonic X, Trains, PBS Kids Thomas and Friends seasons 13-19 and Victor and Valentino from Cartoon Network. I am very sorry that people do not accept your interests if people did not accept any of my interests I would be very angry 😡
When we have a special interest how do we put it down? Like I need to go to work, feed the kids or go shopping for groceries, how can I stop myself from doing the special interest and make myself do other things when necessary?
One more thought, I dont like the word "gifted" because usually its just a product of special interest and pursuing your passions. Im not born with superpowers. If neurotypical people spent as many hours on their passions as autistic people do theyd be considered "gifted" too. I just want people to appreciate the years of investment ive put into my talents and not see it as something unattainable for them.
Being labeled gifted in a school setting is determined by extensive psychoeducational testing, not being really good at a particular thing. In that sense it is somewhat a natural gift, but also a result of parenting and such. As far as like calling someone “a gifted musician” or something similar I do agree to a certain extent. I’m a singer for example, and while I’m not as naturally gifted as some singers, I worked really hard for many years. But also I did have a certain amount of natural talent, but it did make me mad when people thought I just pulled my voice out of my ass and not that it was years of learning and practice that got me there. There is a level of singing talent, in particular, below which you can’t really improve that level very much. That is somewhat different for instruments because you aren’t your own instrument lol. But you still have to have a certain amount of dexterity, musical intuition, executive function, etc. to become a successful instrumentalist. And even just executive function, or the autistic ability to be so motivated to pursue a special interest, and the type of (very autistic) systematic thinking required to learn everything there is to know about a topic…those are all gifts. Yes you have to apply them to learn everything about, for example, skincare, but not everybody starts with the same tools as autistic people when it comes to special interests, just like we don’t start with the same tools as neurotypicals when it comes to socialization. I have ADHD as well, and if it were up to just my ADHD side, my special interests would last 2 weeks lol. The longevity of my autistic interests is definitely a gift. It would take a solely ADHD person a lot more effort to sustain that interest long term. As far as social function, I can have a “normal” (neurotypical seeming) conversation, but it takes a lot more effort for me. I think we need a good balance between just thinking gifts are god-given and recognizing how much work goes into having a “gift”. Cause a lot of very gifted people I know have the false assumption that everybody could do what they do if they worked as hard as they do. 👀
I used to be like "I mean I like video games, but most guys my age do". Then I noticed over and over that guys my age enjoy PLAYING games. Maybe they enjoy following news. They don't literally overlay UIs over their IRL life with their imagination, they don't speak to themselves in game design manual vocabulary, they don't have an encyclopedia of game mechanics and best practises, they don't think about the thousands of players all playing at the same time on the server and tries to imagine how best to search each of them systemically, they don't think of time as turn based, they don't assign themselves XP, don't systematize their tasks throughout the day into class abilities, don't think of every human they see as reminding them of Cloud, or Squall, or Mario, or Y'shtola, or that one NPC from Dark Souls 2 you really liked, etc. Turns out... yea, that's "special". Even game designers at nintendo, I realized as an adult, don't necessarily think of their world as one big game like I do. Plus I came to realize it WASN'T videogames. It was GAMES. ALL of them! Board, Card, Video, Gambling even, ANYTHING. With that, I came to realize further my REAL special interest is systems thinking. I read a Systems Thinking manual and kept telling my wife "This is almost useless, it's just so basic. Everyone knows this" and she had to tell me many times that most people simply do NOT think in systems like that, so it's actually super useful for most people. I still can't believe it entirely, TBH. I KNOW I think differently, but It's borderline impossible for me to not think in systems so I can't even imagine what it would be like to think otherwise. I can imagine a system of what it would be like to take action while remaining ignorant of the system you're working with, but I can't imagine a reality where you just "act" without interacting with a system at all, yanno? Now if I could just get over my memory disorder and remember a coding language to actually USE this encyclopedia... -__-; For decades I kinda just thought "someday a programmer will come find me and we'll make the best games!" but nope. Turns out you have to make..... *yeech* CONNECTIONS in order for people to find you. ;__:
Hello Ioved this video. I really wish ppl seem the value in a neurodivergent brian rather than considering it a disorder. It’s a different brain with different challenges I think those challenges are often highlighted because of the world of our worlds systems have been built to cater towards a neurotypical brain. Just look at how bright lights are in school and at workplaces and how full the way it’s designed is and how load and overwhelming cities are today. Hence why I believe a neurotypical brain is still seen as the default. I personally have this theory if like to share that I may interest you. I believe that a neurodivergent Brian is not a disorder at all in fact but becomes one based on the way society is in present times. In a village I’m sure a neurodivergent Brian would thrive, hearing birds chirping, natural sounds are not to loud, with skills and knowledge of things being valued way rather than simply only a degree like today. Like you said in the video you didn’t feel like you had anything to offer the world. I think this video offered me plenty from listening to the three of you talk for just 20 mins I now value legos, and Pokémon, and jewelry making a lot more and see them in a different way. I had no idea Pokémon was acc based off of real animals! The world could learn so much just be listening to neurodivergent voices. And even intentionally hiring teachers with special interests in certain topics. With a passionate teacher kids would be more interested and what to learn rather than someone who would get bored of the topic. In that case I would argue that a neurotypical brain would be “disordered” when they have to do repetitive routine things in one or a couple of specific fields of study.see what I mean I don’t even think we should call a neurotypical brain by that word because by saying typical (even if there is a higher population of it) implies that it is the default. The same why minority ethnicities become treated in spaces with a predominant race. In Islam we believe Allah created his creation in pairs. So parallel opposites. Humans and jiin, make and female, the physical realm and the spiritual realm etc The Quran states: “Glory be to the One Who created all ˹things in˺ pairs-˹be it˺ what the earth produces, their genders, or what they do not know!”(36:36) Sometimes I refrain from talking about my personal special interests because I feel like I’m boring ppl or that they don’t care and it can lead to a sense of deep rejection. From social dynamics, friends, the corporate world etc I don’t know if I’m autistic I believe so. I have a couple of specific special interests and then things that branch from relating to the main ones art,history,religion,phycology etc. it’s almost like the world has made having special interests that don’t fit the neurotypical way of seeing that world as this weird like taboo when it shouldn’t be. Like you feeling pressured to buy the plain Lego set. It leads to me being described as childish often. But I think what they perceive as childishness is simply just personality when it’s allowed to thrive without social pressure and social pro-formative way of being everyday (masking). Hope they may have opened up a new perspective on this as I have by watching your video :) New sub❤️
AuDHD here. My brain does not really have special interest, not quite hyperfixations either nor can they really be considered mainstream “normal” interests going by people’s commentary about them.
“Autism is a special interest”; me watching videos on autism every day for the last 9 months…
As a child I was much more comfortable when I was in my zone with leggos, and sketching. It was like an insatiable appetite. As an adult I'm a seamstress and I'm very happy.
I absolutely think my special interest has saved me in a way. Im interested in psychology, and within that cult psychology, and within that scientology. For nearly a year scientology was all I could think about, listen to, and research. But what was happening in my subconscious was that I was processing the trauma of leaving religion and all of the brainwashing and indoctrination I had been through. My special interest helped me understand my own mind and dig myself out of a really dark place. I didnt want any silence or my mind would go to that dark place, so instead I looked at other peoples experiences to help process my own. I still love learning about cult psychology and brainwashing, and it still helps me deconstruct everything I went through. Psychology in the broader sense also helps me understand my own mind, neurodivergencies, and mental illnesses better.
I like how James interest is on categories and objects while Ros is into people and mind but both are understanding the world.
I have at least three to four. Heaven help the person who asks about any of them. Their eyes glaze over. Collecting vintage sewing machines, quilting, cross stitching, dish collecting, bee keeping.
That sounds amazing ❤❤❤
My parents thought that my obsession with the Legend of Zelda was a phase when I was younger. Boy, they were wrong! 😂
As a story writer, I research the heck out of different subjects to make the story more plausible. This means that I like research if it's interesting to me. I had a hard time researching for school papers because sometimes the subjects were boring to me.
As an Autistic person, one of my "Special Interests" is Medieval History...which I pursue at a nigh-on-doctorate level. Sure, it's a thing I am interested in for reasons I cannot communicate, and I am _very_ enthusiastic, however, this enjoyment has led me to spend over 15 years researching this subject by reading period sources and academic papers/lectures. Yet, I have no qualifications or degrees, it is all for my personal peace of mind. Essentially, I have done more than a Phd's worth of work and effort, because I enjoyed it.
Long before I knew I was Autistic, I had Medieval History. While my interests might be fairly "adult" as far as "Special Interests" go, no one should feel ashamed of what they love. Ideas of what is "adult" or "childish" are constructs invented by Neurotypicals. If you're into Pokemon, be into Pokemon. You are no less valid than me.
PS: I couldn't help but note that _any_ eye-contact in the video was fleeting at best, and hell yeah, that's how it should be. Look up, look to the side, look wherever is comfortable. Screw the "eye-contact agenda!"
That’s a pretty awesome special interest! I like meeting people with special interests I know nothing about and listening to the coolest facts.
@@gigahorse1475 Thank you! Cool facts? I think these facts are pretty cool:
Wattle-and-daub, or timber-framed, houses could be disassembled and moved to a new location. They'd knock out all the plastered panels, then take down the frame, which was held together by simple joints and wooden pegs. No nails were used.
Medieval churches were brightly lit and painted on the inside with biblical scenes in vivid colours.
Common people didn't wear drab, colourless clothing, they dyed their fabrics with locally found plants.
People brushed their teeth with mallow root, which splits apart in a way that's similar to a modern toothbrush, and a paste made from course salt and herbs, some of which were antibacterial.
There is a "Holy Ghost" in Western Christianity, because Medieval people strongly believed that two things from different "realms" could not interact without an intermediary that could cross both realms. Therefore, God the Father and God the Son needed a third entity that was neither Heavenly, nor Earthly, in order to function. For the same reason, they believed that birds could interact with both beasts of the Earth, and the spirits of the Aether, but that beasts and spirits could not perceive each other. This idea is fundamental to the way Medieval people believed the universe worked.
Most of the pre-Renaissance scientists were monks, nuns, or priests.
Christine de Pizan, an Italian-French court poet, wrote a proto-Feminist work in 1405, called _The Book of the City of Ladies,_ which was an allegorical novel about the nature of women, their virtues, and their contributions to society. The book was very popular and sparked a great deal of debate.
Medieval scholars believed that the planets moved in their orbits, because of their love for God.
I am taking a course on medieval philosophy (undergrad in philosophy). some times i get behind on my philosophy work because i'm currently obsessed with medieval history. It's crazy how we've just glossed over a thousand years of human history. I'm currently focusing on the spanish inquisition but i'll go back to the early middle ages right after
I knit and quilt and I really don't want to do those things as a job. I like to make things and wear them myself or give them away - I don't want my special interest to be my job. At my work, I'm a graphic designer. I love it.
This is GREAT, my Special Interest is the Harry Potter series and also I love doing art as well 😊❤ Edit: when I was a kid I LOVED my Barbie and Bratz dolls WELL INTO my teenage years; I still have some of them and I’m not sorry😂
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
Nor should you be sorry. What you're into is what you're into. Autism, "be like that," as I am informed "the kids" say these days.
I don't have a great memory for information retaining I will go find out info but remembering and relaying that info is difecalult, Im also Dislexic which makes reading difficult but as a adult did teach myself to read and spell better. I love jigsaws have a big collection of them, so I would not all interest are info gathering and just because you don't gather info doesn't mean you don't have autism. I was diagnosed ADHD and Dislexic at 8 and told I was autistic at 14 but didn't seek info about it till my child was diagnosed and know I've been rediagnised. You are right watching RUclips videos like this finding out more about autism is like finding out more about myself and it helps me feel better about being myself. It's frustrating sometimes when I can't remember some tips or why doing what I do helps me but I have started doing things like using fidget cubes in public. I'm comfortable with being myself at home and find if doing something helps me then do it and I try not to worry about what others think although most of the time you can't help but worry about it, I keep it to something small and not highly noticeable like a fidget ring which I love. Things like fidget cubes or rings are great it gets me home so I can deflate.
You guys are amazing. I am one of you and it was very emotional hearing everything you said. It is very brave xx
I make my own earrings too, among other things, and people are constantly telling me I could sell them, and they mean it as a compliment but I'm just like... I spend hours and hours enjoying making this but if I had to do it again it'd be boring! There are so many other things I want to make and fix! I don't want to do the same thing again!
I make various things and people tell me that I could sell them but I only usually like making one or a few. I don't want to do the same thing over and over either. I am exploring how the materials work.
Thank you for this video :). I really enjoy the content of this series. The different perspectives and lived experiences brought together create a nuanced and informative frame. Add in the calming ambiance, the result it is great formula!
i thought about it for such long time what my special interest would be and i think i got distracted by usually or stereotypically autistics having very "themed" special interests, but I think I figured mine out now, it's rather abstract: I love and get energy from tinkering and figuring out things. It doesn't matter if it's about games, puzzles, programming, crafting or planning things etc. and of course some topics, games etc. are more likely to allow me to tinker/figure them out. It has also helped me understanding the world, especially things like social situations, even though I know when people find out how much I analyze them, they usually don't respond well to it :/
I thought it was psychology, sailor moon, creatures/animals and animes, arts etc. but while they stick with me, by themselves they don't provide me with the satisfaction consistently. they are more acting like tools?
8:24 hearing that she was a selective mute until she was 15-16 is a huge relief because I have autistic children who are speech delayed. I haven’t been able to get brain scans to see if the delay is physiological or psychological so it stresses me out immensely thinking that they could all possibly be dependents as adults.
I never grew up (as the complicit society) would say, and am ok with that. I enjoy a rewarding career in my special interests: accessibility, Israel and Sci-Fi. It gives me joy and motivation and reason for being.
I appreciate this channel so very much, both the sharing in the content & also in the comments. So many times I don't engage online in fear of misunderstanding or flubbing it up, but I'm more comfortable in this space.
Thank you 🌊🌲🐿🍄
My child has improved full and acting up right with his social skill since taking dr Oyalo herbal remedy. He has no major signs of autism like he was since I got the herbs. Doc herbs work perfectly
I really agree with sometimes when you turn a special interest into a job it ruins it. I have a lot of problems with ADHD paralysis and sometimes autism interest can only do so much to fight it lol
I cannot get enough of your videos. I am nodding all the way through 👊
Thanks so much Purple Ella, Ross and James. This was such a useful and interesting topic for me as a late diagnosed autistic looking to understand myself better. Really appreciate your perspectives
I think i've learned like 80% of what I know from exploring my interests and making connections and spotting patterns. I've found it a lot more useful than learning how I was expected to learn.
In my early teens, my special interest was The Beatles. I bought all of their cassettes and I wanted to learn as much about them as I could. I even wore my hair like The Beatles.
Great panel. Thank you everyone. Well done Ella!
This was a very informative and interesting video so thank you so much! I’ve never really thought about how important special interests can be for mental health, so that was an interesting perspective.
I'm not diagnosed yet, but since I got my ADHD diagnosis and medication, it got clearer for me that I fit a lot a lot of the criteria.
My special interests as a child were musketeers, robin hood, circus (major obsession), clowns.
When I got older: psychology, psychopharmacology, various crafts (bra sewing is one of the intense ones), choir, and classical singing are major ones. And since last October I got into excavators and deconstruction/demolishion 😆 (we had a big construction site in front of our house, and it was just glorious, but now they all left and I feel so empty. I think I'll need a excavator model, or will proceed to draw some, and visit other buildings that they tear down.).
Forgot rare diseases, me/CFS, chronic fatigue, mcas, Long COVID, Endometriosis. And the neurodivergences.
Pokémon and dinosaurs were my special interests as a child.❤ I was definitely a tomboy
2:00 yea 😊 I do agree. I was listening to that man trough Headphones🎧 and I got the tone of his voice😊. My two Major special interests are: Strategy Video Games & Scuba Divers! Really😂! At times, wearing even a make-shift diving gear (like a diving mask and a snorkel) makes me feel good... stimming so to speak😅😅... But a lot of people around me are Neurotypical, so they do not understand stimming 😢 which is sad...
This is great thank you for telling me your special interests. My special interests are having imaginary friends who are hispanic autistic baby boys which are mexican autistic baby boys and salvadoran autistic baby boys, PBS Kids Curious George, Dinosaurs, Dinosaur Train season 1, Dragon Tales season 3, small cars, hot wheels Roblox, Sonic the hedgehog, Sonic Boom from Cartoon Network, Sonic X, Trains, PBS Kids Thomas and Friends seasons 13-19 and Victor and Valentino from Cartoon Network. I am very sorry that people do not accept your interests if people did not accept any of my interests I would be very angry 😡
Loved this. thank you! Does anybody know where I can see this list of adult special interests please?
I think anything can be :)
Just depends what you are super interested in. It could be anything!
When we have a special interest how do we put it down? Like I need to go to work, feed the kids or go shopping for groceries, how can I stop myself from doing the special interest and make myself do other things when necessary?
Do you think you can have a few that you regularly cycle through?
Yes, I am autistic and so is my nephew. We both cycle through interests.
One more thought, I dont like the word "gifted" because usually its just a product of special interest and pursuing your passions. Im not born with superpowers. If neurotypical people spent as many hours on their passions as autistic people do theyd be considered "gifted" too. I just want people to appreciate the years of investment ive put into my talents and not see it as something unattainable for them.
Being labeled gifted in a school setting is determined by extensive psychoeducational testing, not being really good at a particular thing. In that sense it is somewhat a natural gift, but also a result of parenting and such. As far as like calling someone “a gifted musician” or something similar I do agree to a certain extent. I’m a singer for example, and while I’m not as naturally gifted as some singers, I worked really hard for many years. But also I did have a certain amount of natural talent, but it did make me mad when people thought I just pulled my voice out of my ass and not that it was years of learning and practice that got me there. There is a level of singing talent, in particular, below which you can’t really improve that level very much. That is somewhat different for instruments because you aren’t your own instrument lol. But you still have to have a certain amount of dexterity, musical intuition, executive function, etc. to become a successful instrumentalist. And even just executive function, or the autistic ability to be so motivated to pursue a special interest, and the type of (very autistic) systematic thinking required to learn everything there is to know about a topic…those are all gifts. Yes you have to apply them to learn everything about, for example, skincare, but not everybody starts with the same tools as autistic people when it comes to special interests, just like we don’t start with the same tools as neurotypicals when it comes to socialization. I have ADHD as well, and if it were up to just my ADHD side, my special interests would last 2 weeks lol. The longevity of my autistic interests is definitely a gift. It would take a solely ADHD person a lot more effort to sustain that interest long term. As far as social function, I can have a “normal” (neurotypical seeming) conversation, but it takes a lot more effort for me.
I think we need a good balance between just thinking gifts are god-given and recognizing how much work goes into having a “gift”. Cause a lot of very gifted people I know have the false assumption that everybody could do what they do if they worked as hard as they do. 👀
My son is almost 5 if he is like you guys mean, going collage, married, ..mot noticeable what else I need
I used to be like "I mean I like video games, but most guys my age do". Then I noticed over and over that guys my age enjoy PLAYING games. Maybe they enjoy following news. They don't literally overlay UIs over their IRL life with their imagination, they don't speak to themselves in game design manual vocabulary, they don't have an encyclopedia of game mechanics and best practises, they don't think about the thousands of players all playing at the same time on the server and tries to imagine how best to search each of them systemically, they don't think of time as turn based, they don't assign themselves XP, don't systematize their tasks throughout the day into class abilities, don't think of every human they see as reminding them of Cloud, or Squall, or Mario, or Y'shtola, or that one NPC from Dark Souls 2 you really liked, etc. Turns out... yea, that's "special". Even game designers at nintendo, I realized as an adult, don't necessarily think of their world as one big game like I do.
Plus I came to realize it WASN'T videogames. It was GAMES. ALL of them! Board, Card, Video, Gambling even, ANYTHING.
With that, I came to realize further my REAL special interest is systems thinking. I read a Systems Thinking manual and kept telling my wife "This is almost useless, it's just so basic. Everyone knows this" and she had to tell me many times that most people simply do NOT think in systems like that, so it's actually super useful for most people. I still can't believe it entirely, TBH. I KNOW I think differently, but It's borderline impossible for me to not think in systems so I can't even imagine what it would be like to think otherwise. I can imagine a system of what it would be like to take action while remaining ignorant of the system you're working with, but I can't imagine a reality where you just "act" without interacting with a system at all, yanno?
Now if I could just get over my memory disorder and remember a coding language to actually USE this encyclopedia... -__-;
For decades I kinda just thought "someday a programmer will come find me and we'll make the best games!" but nope. Turns out you have to make..... *yeech* CONNECTIONS in order for people to find you. ;__:
Hello Ioved this video. I really wish ppl seem the value in a neurodivergent brian rather than considering it a disorder. It’s a different brain with different challenges
I think those challenges are often highlighted because of the world of our worlds systems have been built to cater towards a neurotypical brain. Just look at how bright lights are in school and at workplaces and how full the way it’s designed is and how load and overwhelming cities are today. Hence why I believe a neurotypical brain is still seen as the default.
I personally have this theory if like to share that I may interest you. I believe that a neurodivergent Brian is not a disorder at all in fact but becomes one based on the way society is in present times.
In a village I’m sure a neurodivergent Brian would thrive, hearing birds chirping, natural sounds are not to loud, with skills and knowledge of things being valued way rather than simply only a degree like today.
Like you said in the video you didn’t feel like you had anything to offer the world. I think this video offered me plenty from listening to the three of you talk for just 20 mins I now value legos, and Pokémon, and jewelry making a lot more and see them in a different way. I had no idea Pokémon was acc based off of real animals!
The world could learn so much just be listening to neurodivergent voices. And even intentionally hiring teachers with special interests in certain topics. With a passionate teacher kids would be more interested and what to learn rather than someone who would get bored of the topic.
In that case I would argue that a neurotypical brain would be “disordered” when they have to do repetitive routine things in one or a couple of specific fields of study.see what I mean I don’t even think we should call a neurotypical brain by that word because by saying typical (even if there is a higher population of it) implies that it is the default. The same why minority ethnicities become treated in spaces with a predominant race.
In Islam we believe Allah created his creation in pairs. So parallel opposites. Humans and jiin, make and female, the physical realm and the spiritual realm etc
The Quran states: “Glory be to the One Who created all ˹things in˺ pairs-˹be it˺ what the earth produces, their genders, or what they do not know!”(36:36)
Sometimes I refrain from talking about my personal special interests because I feel like I’m boring ppl or that they don’t care and it can lead to a sense of deep rejection. From social dynamics, friends, the corporate world etc I don’t know if I’m autistic I believe so.
I have a couple of specific special interests and then things that branch from relating to the main ones art,history,religion,phycology etc. it’s almost like the world has made having special interests that don’t fit the neurotypical way of seeing that world as this weird like taboo when it shouldn’t be.
Like you feeling pressured to buy the plain Lego set. It leads to me being described as childish often. But I think what they perceive as childishness is simply just personality when it’s allowed to thrive without social pressure and social pro-formative way of being everyday (masking).
Hope they may have opened up a new perspective on this as I have by watching your video :)
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AuDHD here. My brain does not really have special interest, not quite hyperfixations either nor can they really be considered mainstream “normal” interests going by people’s commentary about them.
Unfortunately indeed, Rosalind lol
I can't stop looking at her missing tooth :(