Where is Patti Adkins? Ohio woman vanishes after secret trip
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- Опубликовано: 26 мар 2019
- Patricia “Patti” Adkins told friends and family that she was sneaking away for a trip with her secret lover. She’s been missing ever since. More: bit.ly/2YrkrJz
my theory is that the couple conned her out of 90k, and when she started to ask for the money to be paid back, they killed her. the wife knows something.
I agree with you about the wife. She knows More then she is saying.
Sounds about right
Agree. It’s easy to judge another but love is blind. We all had similar faith in our spouses before we married & most of those who aren’t divorced still do. She was building a life for her & her future husband but she was obviously betrayed. Can tell you from experience that many of these side businesses that are struggling w/debt have full knowledge of both spouses & have seen some cases that are shocking where the spouses worked together to rip ppl off to cover the businesses. It’s not like she made up the story about climbing into the back of the truck. Imagine the tailpipe & truck bed being altered to poison her & her body being buried. Very sad.
Definitely
@@r.williamcomm7693 She was not betrayed. She put her trust in a man who had a family. She didn't care about that though. She wanted to fuel her ego, her own sister said she was pleased that he was going to leave his family home and take HER on this trip. She was a woman of low value dealing with a MARRIED man of NO value, willing to break up his family to the tune of 90k. She put good sense to the side in order to do this. Stop trying to justify her actions.
The boyfriend is Brian Flowers. He deserves to be called out by name.
@@user-nk5xu5eb1d no one deserves to die because she was dating a married man. So this married man who is cheating on his wife and murdered a woman, leaving her child orphaned, deserves to be walking on the street free?
@@user-nk5xu5eb1d And she didn't leave her daughter. She thought she was going on a vacation with her guy, and her guy would leave his wife and marry her.
Sunshine Wildfire flowers??? What a gay last name lol
He definitely murdered her I don't doubt for a minute. His wife could of been apart of it. They could of set her up and killed her. So his name is Brian Flowers? Thanks for sharing.
@@user-nk5xu5eb1d So she's dating a married man and she's a slut 🤔...what insult were you going to say about him? Nothing? Got it👍🏻 Bc he is innocent right and his hands are clean of all of this. There were two people in that relationship, Patty and her BF. (who was cheating on his wife) So because she was the other woman she a slut, yet you don't insult or mention how much of a douche bag this guy is for cheating on his wife. Got it 👍🏻🙄 Your reasoning process is extremely flawed.
An affair is never just an affair. Crimes of passion, people. You put your life at risk when you mess with someone else’s spouse.
Yep, and I have zero sympathy for cheaters.
@Guitarlvr01 - Absolutely. With love triangles are always the risk that one of the parties will feel betrayed, jealous, aggrieved. If they are a revengeful type of person, then look out !!
Your true love will never be someone else’s spouse.
Truth
Taking money from a single mom. What a guy.
I don't know what make she think there is an happy ending with some one you have to give money to🙄🙄
He didn't take money. He helped her leave the country.
Justin Spiguzza So your theory is she had to give a married man HER OWN money to leave the country?🤣🤣🤣 you’re hilarious
What a “female” chasing a married man!?!? 🙄🙄🙄
Yes I Said It she still didn’t deserve what happened to her.
No matter how lonely you feel but as soon as he/she says I’m married; you walk away even if he/she keeps persuading you. W A L K away. Save your self!!!
So true!! I agree with you 100%! You deserve so much better than that!
@GiVer as much as i want to sympathise with her family, Patty, in a way, brought this upon herself.
absolutely!!! Such a shame how loneliness drive a person in a wrong path
EVEN IF ITS NOT MURDER IN MIND, save your heart! never go for a married person
bee 🐝Exactly.
Aww for her to cry and say she’s an amazing young woman really melted my heart! But she truly is
I’ve never really seen this reporter show very much emotion, so that really touched me!
This poor woman didn't have low self esteem, She had NO self esteem!!
Never seen Anna cry in this. But her daughter is so amazing. Makes it even more sad that she couldn’t see how awesome her daughter turned out to be. And her aunt for stepping up to help raise her. PHD at 23? That’s impressive
*PhD
not impressive. those people are about woke culture.
She totally left out the guy's friend who is just as guilty. She's trash
Hiding underneath a roll top cover in the bed of a truck to go on a date should *never* be an option for any of us, ladies. I mean...wth.
Yeah she was so painfully naive and sounds like a woman who had no self esteem.
i cringe
Was she dumb or just plain stupid! Makes me mad ,but she dug her own grave hiding in a truck bed ,she had to have known she was doing something wrong.
@@adrianpena677 VERY stupid.
He was after her money never planning to live the wife
The wife and the husband were in on it together. I really do believe this
I believe this also...some women are just as, if not more conniving as the man when it comes to money! The devil always comes to collect when you sell your soul! Cold cases... with new sets of eyes! When and if this story comes out it is going to be HUGE! What a bastard! Yeah I said it... you punk... if you are reading these comments, what every your name is you murderer! Let me stay focused here. Nothing good ever comes from an affair. I'm a witness. This really just pisses me off everytime I see it! Punks sitting around plotting your end...wow.
It appears so, I agree with you
Definitely, you can't be senseless about finding out that your husband is cheating on you without knowing about it from the get go.
I agree. The fact that they were so calm when the sister confronted them via phone was telling. I believe they hatched the plan to just take Patti's money and get rid of her. The wife, whether she was bothered or not by the fling, probably ended up deciding the money would make up for it.
a pair of scumbags
This case makes me sick. I hope they finally arrest him and send him away for good! She was such a beautiful lady. A great mother, daughter & sister. To her family, I am so sorry for your loss. 😢
She was trying to break up another woman's marriage. I think she just went nuts and is living the homeless life or prostitution.
90 thousand is a heck of a lot of money to just give away to someone you barely know and claim to be in love with. God please give this woman justice.
The married couple long conned her and killed her when they got all her money.
EXACTLY !!!
little fool
That’s a really good theory
Agree
yep
It makes me so angry that they call him bf all the time and never say his name. He wasn’t her bf he’s a psychopath who killed her he got away with it
She was dating him so it was a bf.
Sapna Sahil not if he treated her like that and ended up killing her. They need to say his name, not protect his identity and glorify him
@@1stepcl0ser He was not a nice person, but she was in a relationship with him so therefore he was the boyfriend. I agree they should name him.
Sapna Sahil i would hate it if people called my murderer my boyfriend if he’d murdered me thats horrible.
@Praxy M92 wont be bringing flowers to pattis grave
She was not naïve, everything she did smacks of desperation. I have heard several similar stories with men in her place, and nobody falls all over themselves to make excuses for them. It's tragic and sick what happened, but making excuses is a disservice to men and women for whom this can be a cautionary tale.
Yup, it's crazy this 304's is praised
This is so sad. She was so blinded she gave him 90 grand, unreal, and then allowed herself to be treated so badly as to get in the back of the truck, hiding...so glad her daughter is doing to well.
He wasn’t carpooling with his friend. That person in the front seat was his wife and they were both in on it 100% for the money
I agree. *Nevermind, police interviewed him too and I think he helped kill her but the wife knew too.
The cop said the other guy corroborated his story about carpooling.
@@johnbyrne1022 I'd be looking at the finances of the passenger because I smell a co-conspirator. I think the boyfriend paid the passenger off to help him get rid of Patti or at least to keep silent about it. I mean, who sits at fucking Burger King for 45 minutes? Nobody. Everyone in the right mind drives off after 15 minutes, TOPS. And no Burger King takes that long to get food out in the middle of the night. 18 worth of food they sold that hour. You can't hardly get out of there without spending 8 bucks for a single person. 18 bucks worth of food could easily go to single car. So, clearly, it wasn't busy. But I'd bet my left tit that they never went to Burger King. I mean, they already caught the boyfriend in a lie. He claims he wasn't involved with Patti but he's got secret gifts from her? How many co-workers have you bought phones for who you didn't have a relationship with outside work? The only person I EVER bought a phone for was a boyfriend and it was a somewhat selfish Christmas gift.
That's a strong possibility! 😕🤢
Jason Bouphasavanh patti wasn’t married. They are talking about the boyfriend and his wife.
This is why you don't date co-workers especially married ones. Folks NEVER date a married person!!!!! They usually will not leave their spouse and if they do they will do you the same way they did the (former) spouse....
The way that you leave the relationship will be the same way you came in. If he/she cheated on someone to get with you that's who you will become.
Exactly. But people always fall for the "but that won't happen to me, what we have is different" fallacy. People want to believe they aren't being lied to.
Agree but you seem to be pushing the blame on her. Did she make the wrong choices? yes.
I dont think it was her fault for being murdered.
However yes stay away from married ppl. Have respect for yourself.
@@bethwilking6573 she was also complicit in breaking up a marriage, a good person would tell him to fuck off until hes officially divorced
Agreed. My current boyfriend of 6.5 years (I'm 27 he's 44) had a wife & kids when we met. He said he was only with her because of his kids so I thought they both were unhappy & miserable like he had me believe. So my dumb ass started a relationship w a married man when I knew better. Jokes on me though!! I'm a home wrecker & get cheated on constantly. Karma got me good
As a resident of Marysville we all hope one day she will be at peace and be put to rest. This case breaks my heart every year more and more. Hoping for a resolution to her case one day.
Same. I searched for an update but couldn’t find one, which brought me back to this episode. Patty’s story has stayed with me much like Skylar Neese’s story.
This *STILL* hasn’t been solved?! It’s devastating to say the least. However, it’s hard to have too much sympathy for the victim. Yes, the guy shouldn’t of been having an affair. However, the victim knew he was married; which is a huge 🚩 and that it’s morally wrong to have a romantic relationship with a married man. Also, if he’s going to cheat on his wife, he’s capable of doing it to any woman. Irregardless of him brainwashing her to believe that he was going to leave his spouse for her. Im not going to even get into the fact that she let him barrow almost $100k from her. I hope this is solved one day.
I am proud of the daughter for making it to PhD level
Giving him money, married, you gotta hide, take out a second mortgage I pray I’m never that love sick
I don't have to pray, I know I will never get that love sick💯
right like that's a bit too much for someone she's "just dating" I don't understand ...but to each its own
Tamika Davis - 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Glamwitht: couldn’t have said it better
She wasn’t “live sick” she was desperate
I've always told my daughter's NEVER give a man money, ever! He needs to at least take care of himself financially.
Luna EB I’m shocked.
Feminist but still want men to be “traditional” in the money sector or else he is weak. 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
My daddy said the same
@Luna EB yes, she does. Shut up. Its not going to shopping sprees at target narcissist. Thats what irritates me. What do you think she does with it? Most women take care of the bills and grocery shopping. Take a couple add 2 kids and a home to run.....thats easy 2 trips to the grocery store minimum. Shut uo, just quiet.
And yes he should at minimum be able to support them both comfortably if they planned on having children. Cause she will have to stop working to bond with her baby.
@Luna EB itll equal to a double standard when men can have children and grow their family. Outside of marriage. No one should be exchanging money, unless both know the terms of the agreement.
LOL but I bet it's ok for woman to accept money from men right?
I first saw this case over a decade ago on Disappeared and it is so sad to see her sisters getting older and still looking for answers. So much time has passed. Convene a grand jury and get this bastard. Her daughter is brilliant and beautiful. Aunties did such a wonderful job.
So sad. NO MATTER WHO SHE DATED, SHE DID NOT DESERVE TO DIE.
MY CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY.
The memories/tears of the daughter & the reporter’s tears and embracing the daughter, did it to me😭😭😭😭
yeah just wrong choices.
leave married men ALONE! nothing good ever comes out of dating married men, especially married men who need money from you.
One would have to think married men flirting and begging from you would be suspect.
@@YIKESMF bells and whistles would’ve went off if he wanted money for a divorce from me lmao i’m not funding that
@I Think The Fuck Not You Trick Ass Bitch
Ummm...your comment is quite ignorant. Does the man having to be black make him any other different from other men?
"I forgot the sound of her laugh"
damn, that hit home, I sometimes struggle to remember my dads voice and he died just last year. I wish this family strength
Harvest ❤️ sorry for your loss
Harvest hope it gets better I know how it feels lost my dad almost 10 years ago
me too , bless you xx
Me too, completely. I’m sorry for your loss.
Same here..it’s been over 10yrs for me with my father passing..it kills me every single day..I pray for comfort for us all !
I lost my father when I was 7 years old and im 27 now but my father passed away. Her mother was murdered and she really doesn't have closure. I can only imagine how hard it is for this family. I pray that she is found and that the family eventually has the closure they deserve.
My heart breaks into a million pieces, I hope the family gets some kind of closure.
Red flag: "I need to borrow some money......"
😁 so true
You so special to me
Amen! She should have realized he was a user at that moment
ohmmm yeh
never met anyone like you, bet you havent scum bag
Dont waste your time or money on men/women who are married/in a relationship. You’re only an option, never a priority. Know your worth!!
yeah but people are dumb
Well Said
Totally agree!
Well said sister
Nothing is more unattractive than a married man, especially one that ask for money
I know it’s tacky to speak badly of the dead - but if you’re dating a married guy and he’s asking for money and making you hide in the bed of his truck to go somewhere, you gotta question this girl’s morals and intelligence.
Play stupid games, get stupid prizes
Some people want to be in love so much that they'll give all thier money and love away..
FOR REAL!
Praying hard for her, as she clearly was blinded by desperation that she didn't even see the sin of adultery she was doing. I think.
Was thinking the same I feel bad for her daughter and her family. But come on red flag after red flag and this girl just found excuse after excuse no she was not smart and unfortunately, she paid the price for her utter lack of common sense
The daughter is 5 times more intelligent than her mother. It’s amazing how children can learn from disaster and be a better and nicer, if they simultaneously have others in the family to give them the support they need.
This happens rarely usually children continue the parents example of bad parenting
The mother also appeared to be smart enough to be a foreman at Honda and be up for a promotion.
@@pauloconnor5931 Nah. A lot of that has purely to do with the "show up" factor.
what a shitty thing to say
Married men lie... Fact
Giving a married man $90,000??
And he has you hide in his truck?!!!
How romantic.
Yeah how desperate and pathetic
@Brandon Boggs Men will NEVER take responsibility for being whores and believe me, they ALL ARE
now it's correct
Patti had a low self esteem
Why was she so desperate?
Yea that amazed me too.....
Patti’s sisters did a great job raising their niece! She is so lovely! This story is so sad. I pray this family gets closure.
DebbiAnn2, I agree 100%! :) She is a lovely young lady! She is blessed to have those wonderful Aunts! And her Aunts are blessed to have a wonderful Niece! God bless! Love, Grace
@Gobbollino At least the father isn't going to random schools and church's killing innocent kids. FACT!!!!
And her aunt mentioned her staying with her father… so at least she has one parent still and her moms family to keep Patti’s memory alive.
This is my family, michaley is my cousin and her father is my uncle.... he is a wonderful dad and has been there for her since day 1 ... michaley has moved out of state with her fiance and her furbaby..she has graduated college with her PHD and is now DR. Jordan Michaley Adkins! She is incredibly talented...intelligent and is a beautiful woman who I couldn't be anymore proud of if I tried... we love her very much and we are all still fighting to find her momma.... thanks so much for your kind words...they mean a lot to us!
How can you get closure from an act of pure stupidity?
I've NEVER seen Ana Garcia cry over an interview until this one! This obviously touched her in some way! 😓
It really grabbed my attention! So touching. Thank you for all your hard work Ana💛 You really have such a genuine pure heart for involving yourself & time into helping so many families and covering so many cases! I have been enjoying your content for a couple years now. To see you cry at the end and hug this woman's now grown up daughter really touched me!! This case is sad and that pathetic man who used her kindness to his advantage is disgusting 🤮 it hurts my heart how such evil people can just be so cruel and manipulate someone who is just geniunely giving a fuck about them. So evil to the point of killing them and disposing of them like trash or something😰 🤮🤮🤮 am fuckin sick 🤮🤮🤮🤮
Maybe Ana Garcia got scammed by a man, too.
How do you fall for that, when she totally left out the guys friend?! And you fall for TV tears?! Do you have any critical thinking skills at all?! They totally left the guys friend and shotgun to the entire thing out of the story, and you fall for tears. Damn, people are sofa king stupid!!
God Bless Her Sisters & Daughter! Thank God For Her Amazing Family!
Please stop complaining about reuploads on this channel. It's good that the family, friends, and the victim's message is being shared once more.
Trueblade1423 plus there are other people like me that did not watch this before
Me too this is the first time I’m seeing this story!
Yes, I'm a newer subscriber to this channel too, so it's also my first time. Of course the complaining takes some of the enjoyment out of people who haven't seen the case yet. But this is important stuff, and people shouldn't complain about reuploads here.
Agree! Especially with unsolved cases.
I love this. All too often victims are forgotten yet the killers are remembered.
I hope every woman that see this understands that when a man asks you for money, to move in or any valuable item, run don't walk run. He is not worth any of it.
lie-why did she tell him she had money
SMS if a woman ask money from a man then🤔
@@good7415 Then what? The same goes for each side.
Good oh hereeeee we go...can't say anything without someone doing this...drama starters. OBVIOUSLY IT GOES BOTH WAYS FUCKKKKKK
Maureen Frechette cause she thought she loved him
I love Ana Garcia’s compassionate heart. That mother was blinded by “love”/lust and it cost her and her daughter and family dearly. Her daughter is so wee-spoken and has had to face things nobody should ever face. I don’t know her, but I’m proud of her. I pray that she has a beautiful and wonderful future.
I have been following this case for 10 yrs I hope it gets solved.
I bet that Brian had her hide in the truck so no one would see that she was leaving work with him. Not because of a carpool buddy.
Gail Hatton - probably both
Both
Brian? How did you find his name out
Key Lay you don’t think ppl in their town don’t know who the guy is? ppl talk and I’m sure Patti’s family is happy to share Brian Flowers name too. sickening the cops can’t move forward. I mean how much brain power does one need to see he clearly killed her.
@@lh98 I'm glad you said the full name, this story in particular hit a nerve with me, she looks alot like my mother did the late 90s early 2000s and i couldn't imagine some low life piece of garbage who she basically paid to take her life would do something so evil yet never get in trouble for, absouletly mind blowing
First time I see the interviewer cry 😢
Yeah this one really hit her hard. Maybe she can relate in a way?
Made me cry
Me too. Made me tear up. She is so sweet.
Ms. Gutierrez that part hit me in the gut. I started crying too. 😰
@@HipsterDoofus100 You live up to your profile name.
I don’t believe she would be in his yard, she would be wherever this supposed secret getaway was located in like the woods
The second coworker MUST be in on this, since he clearly lied about burger king also. I sure hope they polygraphed him too.
Agreed, the co-worker does not get mentioned enough, he was a young POC who moved away shortly after. There are 3 people involved in this and they are all bonded together over a secret.
The wife was in on this "affair"
and she was so pretty
ErinIona ....for the money!😉
No she wasn't but if she was its karma
Here's to karma visiting the children of Brian Flowers and wife. Quite the lowlife legacy they are modeling for their kids. They deserve every karmic curse they have coming for robbing and murdering a lonely and naive single mother.
@@unicorndnaranja5865 Please🙄
Willing to deal with a married man, giving him 90k to finance him leaving his family, 'excited" that he was going to prove his love by leaving his wife and kids to take HER on a vacation. Classy lady!
Wife knew the whole time they played Patti for her money then killed her they both need to go to jail imo!!!!!!
I agree!! Hey what does imo stand for? Lol 🙈
Annette (In my opinion) lol 🙂
@@scorpionmermaid6186 oh ok haha I can't keep up with these new abbreviations! Im old 😄🤣🤣
Annette lol 😂 😆😆😆 me too my kids teach me everything
I TOTALLY AGREE!
wow the daughter broke my heart I lost my mom when i was 5 yrs old I can relate I know one day she will get the justice she deserves
Her sister Marcia was my 5th Grade teacher. And such a great woman. Their family did not deserve this.
90 GRAND??? TO A MARRIED MAN?? 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️😑
I don’t want any lovin that good.
was she crazy putting it in a fund for her child , but no strange
power of the @#$%
First off ain't nobody going to stand in burger king line for 45 minutes without causing a scene
Truth lol
Ludicrous lie
Lao
was theire footage of him in burgerking
exactely, and no cameras feeling he knew this
Anna, you show such compassion. I love watching you
Glad to see the interviewer show true emotion. Showing compassion
You Never Go Anywhere, Without Letting Anyone Know, Who You With and Where You At. PERIOD.... 👀👀👀
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Very true indeed
But they knew what she was doing...she was just keeping it from the wife and co-worker.
The sisters knew where she was going and her best friend co-worker knew where she was going! Her co-worker boyfriend's wife didn't know that her husband and his co-worker girlfriend were going on this secret trip to Canada! The woman Patti never came back from the trip¡
Stop Typing Like This. It's Just About The Most Annoying Way A Person Can Type.
Never saw a reporter on one of these shows tear up, it was actually refreshing to actually see that.
Yes!! Anything but that one reporter that just be doing this 😬 the whole time...women be fake as a plastic Apple 🍏 we all know who she is... I swear if she was looking back at me like that id get up and leave this is real pain real lives and u can clearly tell she could give two s***’s
@@ChaoSasuke ...
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@@ChaoSasuke What an absolute simpleton.
@Cosmic Dot .....
Ahhhh ... The husband and wife "played" Patti. It's the classic hustle, "Two Brothers & Stranger."
Why wasnt the mans picture plastered everywhere so people who did see something could report it?
Please don't believe the " I'm separated BS either"
All of the cheats are "separated," except for in court during custody proceedings, and when the spouse inherits.
"she plans on a romantic weekend"..then.."she hides in the bed of a pickup truck"-- Now there's romance.
Foolish woman
hahaha
I like the shot of the friendly Labrador at 21:00 coming up to say hi lol
Wow wen she said my mom died at 29 im 23 brought me to tears. I know how she feels my dad died at 44 and im 38 and its something i think aboit every day !!!!
Ladies, if you start a relationship as the "other"woman in a man's life, know that you'll NEVER be the ONLY woman in his life.....EVER!!
This woman lost her the life over this. One lesson to be learned from this for sure, if you have to sneak & hide to be with your man....SOMETHING AIN'T RIGHT!! No one deserves to disappear or be murdered, but if you decide to have a partner that you have to keep your relationship a secret you KNOW there are potentially negative consequences & risks involved. Some that you may not live long enough to even regret. NO love is worth losing your life over, at least not in my book anyway.💜
Good for her daughter for getting a great education throughout all of this. I wish you all of the success in the world ❤️
Abusers give with one hand and take with the other, she thought she was investing in her future, he would have told her what she wanted to hear, catfished her, it's sadistic to mess with ppl's feelings.
Patti had to be color blind because there were red flags all over the place
Why does this guy's identity get protected??? That's absurd!
Never named a suspect or convicted of any crime related to this plus hiss lawyer probably had done kind of legal doc saying they can't give up his identity. Wish it was released so no other woman would get caught in this trap
His name is Brian Flowers.
Yea Constitutional protections who needs that
@@wendythomas9361 Who else BUT this guy could have been involved? A married man who took her money then decided he didn't want to be with her--or return the money. That's a boatload of motive. Then he drives off with her--last person to see her. Ending a relationship is one thing; stealing money and then your girlfriend disappears....Vile pig. You don't need to be Sherlock Holmes on this one. District attorney needs some guts on this one.
We need a standard for whom should be named and who shouldn't be named. Although this person is most probably the murderer, media should be holding their horses, just like the investigation and court system, to prevent witch hunts.
Call my phone in the middle of the night and tell me my partner was planning on leaving me lord knows the whole street would wakeup with the cussing he'd be getting!
The wife was 100% involved
That's where you and plenty of other women differ. I know some might start screaming and fighting right then but others won't. I wouldn't say much at all. I'd find out what was going on and then some time in the next few days I'd be packed and gone when he got home from work. Tons of other women plain won't believe you if you tell them their husband is cheating- you know that for a fact, if you watch true crime. I don't know why everyone thinks anyone that doesn't act exactly the way they themselves would act is guilty of something. She could be but there's zero evidence of that. There's also Patti's sister who said that they hadn't really been able to spend much time together away from work so the woman very well may not believe her husband was having an affair if he wasn't spending a bunch of time away from both home and work.
@@mommy2libras exactly! If someone called me and told me my husband is cheating on me, I’d have a lot of questions for that caller. Like what’s my husband’s name? Where does he work? How do you know him? Do you have physical evidence to show me? I wouldn’t just take the word of a stranger and blow off on my husband that I’ve known longer and trust. 😂 accusations may be true but you have to investigate rather than be so gullible and possibly ruin your marriage. If my husband accuses me of cheating because SOMEONE told him and they don’t have proof, it’s an immediate breakup for me. I won’t be with a person who questions my morals or don’t have enough faith and trust in me. That’s a no 🙅🏻♀️
@@mommy2libras i think you missed the point of her comment. i don’t think she simply didn’t believe her husband was having an affair, she had no reaction at all, simply put she knows something. whether you have a crazy reaction or not, you’re going to have one. she knows something
@@mommy2libras also there literally is evidence of him having an affair with her if now all of a sudden they went on a trip and she’s literally missing lol
When being a sidechick goes wrong
A lot of people from the area he lives in work at Honda in Marysville Ohio where they both worked. Factory work is very big in the area. Unfortunately it’s said a lot of cheating and relationships develop on the factory floor and production lines. She borrowed against her 401k. Eventually you pay it back they can take payments from your paycheck. This case is so frustrating. I wonder if they ever had a grand jury. Maybe law enforcement should have taken the risk testing the blood and had a trial and let a jury decide. Something better than nothing happening.
"They didn't spend time together outside of work.." and he managed to scam $90k out of her. Whoa
Dee Callan exactly what I was thinking !
@@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 i agree🤷
@@liveyourbestsoftlife5705 Dont call someone that . That's horrible . He obviously was a very good liar . He made her feel that he loved her like she loved him. And that if he just had the money to buy his wife out they could finally be together. She was just very gullible and wanted to be in love and with this man. Hes the one who deserves to be called names . Like evil murderer !!!
Susan Amend Look, it's horrible that she's more than likely dead. It's horrible that he more than likely killed her. But come on, she was an idiot. Giving ninety grand to a married guy when she's got a daughter to take care of, diving in the back of a pickup to avoid being seen yet believing he was leaving his wife? She was an idiot. Doesn't mean she deserved to die, but she would still be alive if her priorities were better.
@@mrmc9278 I agree she was an idiot . I'm talking about you calling her a " retard " No one deserves that . I gave my reasons why I thought she gave him money etc . And yes . Her giving him money was so stupid . It was a death sentence for her. And like I said he should just be called a evil murderer
His wife either participated or knows exactly what happened.
SaNa AL-Ra I believe that also
corect
I think its both. I mean, the guy worked at a car plant and part time as a car mechanic. How on earth did he come up with $90k within a short amount of time? Didnt the wife notice all of this money he was spending?Also, if the wife heard that her husband's mistress came up missing and presumed dead, why isn't she scared for her own safety? I mean, he got away with it once. What will stop him from doing it again?
At this point, someone will have to come forward with info. The wife had to have noticed something different about her husband around that time. He's nothing but the devil in my eyes. I wished Patty had not trusted him so much.
Yup
He got busted wife was at getaway place
SMH 🤦♀️ 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ I just can’t with her!!! I’ll be damned if I put myself in a financial situation for a married man!! SMH
I feel for this woman's daughter and her family 🙏🏾💛🙏🏾 Praying for justice!
Brian and Renea Flowers need to be arrested. Tell the family where you put Patti. He lives in Dola OH.
I think it was a conspiracy by the flowers.......to get money.Shame on them.They need to be brought to justice......and be accountable .
I knew his name was Brian Flowers, but thank you for giving the name of the wife too.
I agree with you Teresa Fox.
Thank you for naming them 😘 I’ll be sending my evil raccoons to go mess with the Flowers’ garbage and garage for all of eternity.
I totally think his wife is involved
I would kidnap dude take him someplace secluded and find out where she was if that was my relative. When the law fails then you take the law into ur own hands
RAIN MAYHEM Yep I don’t know how people can stop themselves doing that.I’d also go burn their fecking house down for good measure !
@@sleeksleet4653 dam right
In reality most people aren't brave enough to kidnap or even confront a potential killer. Its easy to say but doing it's a different story
@@oliverxhmll i was raised in a place where you didn't depend on the cops you had to handle shit on ur own. Most Americans have gone soft and turned into politically correct mental midgets who let the government and media tell them how to think and feel. Fortunately i am a free thinker and am not afraid to handle something on my own especially when the corrupt criminal justice system and government fail. The whole system is corrupt they cater to the rich and shit on the masses and that is why most the people i know can take care of themselves
...and make him dig his own grave...couldn't agree with you more! The way our justice system accommodates for criminal's rights & seemingly forgets that no one has observed the victim's rights in any capacity more & more people will agree with us too . Every time I hear a story about an abduction, random murder or someone being abused, etc I always think to myself that the person responsible really lucked out by not doing it to someone in my life because I wouldnt have the self control to patiently wait several years while they get enough evidence to prosecute. Then after that have faith in a jury to find them guilty & have them sentenced long enough to fit the crime they committed. And sadly, the sentence rarely is ever fully served due to over crowding in our prison systems & criminals being freed for things like, "good behavior". Im sorry but "good behavior" should'nt even exist in our judicial system or criminal's vocabulary, much less exist for them to receive an early parole.
That being said, there's just too many things that have to be considered for any real justice to be served. Maybe that's why more & more people feel the need to take the law into their own hands to ensure that it gets done. A good example is prison justice & how it deals with pedophiles. When its not left up to authorities or our legal system the justice within a prison & the incarcerated is swift & most times deserved. And until our system gets repaired in some way soon I dont see this changing any time in the near future either.💚 Were'nt we suppose to get more civilized with the passage of time..??
The thing that bothers me the most is that Gabby Petito had protesters in front of her presumed abductor's house and it made national news. She looked so innocent that the news ate it up. I don't see anything wrong with that. As a mother I would want as much coverage as I could get. It should have gotten national attention. However, Patti should have gotten this level of attention too. A lot of missing young women should have. I say every young woman who is missing should be everyone's concern.
Gabby Petito was violent and abusive.
Yes, I had remembered this story alright. It's bizarre. 🤔 No ladies or men should feel they have to hide under a truck cover to date someone. No one!!! 🤨
I watched the original "Disappeared" that featured this case and was struck by bad decision after bad decision this poor woman made to contribute to her own demise. The worst part of this story is how can this still not be solved by the local police. It is not a matter of who did it, it is a matter of how they did it. Secrets kill ladies! If a man tells you your relationship has to be kept secret he has already made the mental decision he will hurt you if you reveal that secret.
well said
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Wow. Insightful comment.
If you have to hide in the bed of his truck, it probably isn’t a good idea.
You are exactly right. I don't want to sound like I'm blaming the victim, but this lady made some really poor choices.
She was beautiful. The daughter has grown up to be a beautiful strong woman. Bless her heart
Did I hear that right? She gave him over $90,000?!?! I'm so over men treating women that love them this way...
The "planes, trains, and automobile" opening line was brutal
The married couple took her money and when they knew they couldn’t anymore they killed her. Looks like they got away with it too.
yes bet they cant believe it, until they find her body theyl never be charged
Why are so many innocent people in prison but the actual murderers don't even get prosecuted??
Ya it’s shocking beautiful
This comment deserves way more likes!
That’s why Dexter Morgan should come to reality.
Race
God cast the fallen angels down to the earth to keep us wondering WTF?
Soooo thankful & happy she had her Aunt's & rest of great family for support through these years without her beautiful mother!!!! Pray she gets closure & justice!!!!! They will be in my prayers!!!!
You had a beautiful daughter and loving supportive family and instead you’re lack of self esteem lead you into the bed of a married man, instead of saving for college for your baby you gave a man who didn’t know your middle name 90,000 dollars...
It’s amazing how this young woman’s story impacted the interviewer in such a way that it drove her to tears.. proves to you how human some of us can be
Amazing my ass. She didn't mention his friend who is just as guilty. What is she hiding?!
I love this reporter, she’s straight forward and compassionate at the same time. Respect for her. 👌🏻
This reporter ghosted the friend. What about him?! This reporter is garbage!!
Her poor, beautiful daughter...she is so strong and she's had to be. I pray for her and her future and that she gets the good life she deserves.
Affair , large amount of money and remote area this was a recipe for disaster...
Don't sleep with married men or give them money
@jeff deathrageHaha spoken like a true bum
jeff deathrage are u serious with your comment ?! U have to be joking !!!
Definitely don’t give them money.
He was prob born into money ... probably hasn't worked in 20 years. Im Jealous! FUCK YOU
But it's okay when I but them a 300k house? Are u nuts?
How does someone fairly attractive end up being a sugar momma to a married man? I'm sure there were other men in Ohio
But he looked short and chunky. I would have expected someone at least good looking to sacrifice everything for. He didn't seem to have any redeeming qualities.
@@roxannedaniel540 He may not have been so chunky back when the affair was going on though.
She all but requested to be a black on white interracial violence statistic.
@@branon6565 EXACTLY..........THANK YOU.
@adiamondsmile Because he was white
Her daughter is so beautiful. So heartbreaking 💔 I teared up. 😢
i once saw this story about a mom that dropped her daughter off at a shopping mall to pick up a swimsuit for a pool party and the mom waited in the car but the daughter never came back out. it was suppose to be just a quick 5 minute in and out. does anyone know about this case? i remember it being very perplexing.
Most shocking thing about this story is that a 29 year old, in 2001, had 90 thousand dollars
John P shocking? No. Mortgages, 401k..
Booty call
It says in the video. She got the money by mortgaging her house and dipping into her 401k.
How could she have proven he owed her money when she gave it in cash?
Those auto plant jobs must pay pretty well.
Guy says hide in the back of my Pick Up truck under a cover and she's like, ya that's a great idea! :Facepalm:
what going on
naiviety to the extreme
its exiting honey pop under the tarpoline with your cheque book sweet pie
Smh let's normalize being single, healthy and safe. Red flags were everywhere😩 Cheating leads to pain or death...period. That 90k could've gone towards savings or to her child. So sad she died...its unfortunate and the signs were everywhere.
"He had a wife and children." The single factory workin mum "was in love with him". How romantic. Then she just vanished.
When a relationship demands cash, walk away..... Lessons in life, no relationship should ever come at cost..... If it's real love it will be free of cost...
Exactly. But white women are VERY gullible. Thats why sneaky black guys target them.
Charlotte Buchanan absolutely, they make fools of them, not every but most....
@@XxFoxMotoX3xX it happens .....some people have no conscious....no moral ....no compassion....
There are some advantages to not having much money. Never let anyone know if you have money.
@@ganymeade5151 absolutely, pretend ur broke until u know who ur dealing with.....
I’m going to say a prayer for that poor lady and her family. Hats off to the daughter for being so firm and strong that can’t be easy.
Did it work yet?
@@MarioGoatse oh look....a sarcastic atheist......YAWN🥱
His wife is the key to solving it! And I guarantee the wife either done it, master,ind behind it, or was the actual person in the truck while he was somewhere else
He probably asked her to give it to him in cash, so there would be no money trail linked to him, that way he would have no proof of motive, this was definitely premeditated murder and my instinct tells me his wife was involved and helped spend that money. He offered to take her to Canada after she told him that he needed to start making payments on the money she lent him. He never planned on paying a dime back to her.