I Got Married At 17, Living With In- Laws, Arranged or Love Marriage? HONEST Q & A | Zeinah Nur
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
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You are extremely mature for your age. I would never ever ever have guessed you were 24. I thought you were 29! Not that you look old, just mature personality
same! I thought she was older than me for sure, same reason
Aw, thank you! X
Sameee! You seem to really have your life together. Always assumed you were 28/29 because you seem lile such a calm mum lol. I've just had my first baby at 29 and I don't know what I am doing lol.
Maays Alhamdulilah we somali girls get mature quickly Alhamdulilah it’s a gift from Allah the almighty
Sidrah Khan my child’s almost 4 and I still don’t know either 😂
We need a story time on how you got married
Layla Mise yep
Layla Mise I’ll add it on my list.💕
defo i would luv to know
Layla Mise yessss ❤️
yess
Btw, arranged marriages are literally just your parents recommending someone for you because usually they know you best and want the best for you... if you’re not feeling the person, then you don’t have to go for them (if you do.. that’s usually forced which is completely wrong in Islam).
Francesca Buonanno I understand it’s hard to believe as society is forever evolving but yes, there are definitely still some people who prefer to consider their parents’ input when it comes to marriage😊
It’s similar to blind dates- which are based on friends (or whoever) arranging a date for a friend who they deem a perfect match of whom their friend has never met before- if it works, then it works; if not, it’s not the end of the world. This is literally the concept of an arranged marriage, expect its usually your parent/s who arrange it. But obviously with this set up, you still have the opportunity to know whether they’re right for you and you get a say in all of this - I hope that gives you better understanding😊
@@AS-ie3lf dating means u r meeting for a friendship then to relationship ...
Whereas arranged datings r meant for marriage which is not gud I think!!
I met my husband when I was 18 we married when I was 20. We have been happily married for now 30 years. Love knows love.
Heather Brown wowwww! I love young marriages. I hope my daughter follows this footsteps. A lot of people they are learning about themselves....issues is there are thirty something year olds who are still learning about themselves and still getting it wrong all the time. I wish I had good people who advised me earlier...but God's time is the best.
Alhamdullilah live happy forever
nnenna uzoho
Why would you be so desperate for your daughter to get married at a young age? You don’t need to get married to live a happy life. Marriage is *EXPENSIVE* too, you want her to be in massive debt and get depressed because of it? Shouldn’t you as a parent be helping her to find her talent/learn new skills and encouraging her to pursue higher education that will open doors?
I’m turning 18 in May; I can’t imagine myself getting married at all let alone at this young age.
And whether those ‘thirty something year olds’ get married or not, it’s non of your business. Why are you so critical? Self love and finding your purpose in life is way more important than conforming to society’s expectations and norms of getting married, this is particularly aimed at the Muslim community. They hate the idea of dating and see it ‘sinful’ even when ones is practicing abstinence, but expect young Muslims to jump into marriage with a literal stranger and have kids...
@@RosemaryTurner2002 By your response I can clearly see you still aren't mature enough. Maybe that's why you can't imagine getting married rn. Not every teen thinks like you and there is nothing wrong with young marriages. Getting married doesn't mean your life has stopped lol. I wouldn't say rush it but if a young couple love each other and have the resources...why not? Also yes I'm a young muslim female. Marriage isn't supposed to be forced also dating isn't sinful. It depends on how tho. Like the western idea of dating boyfriend girlfriend is wrong because intimacy before marriage isnt allowed. We see this in Christianity as well. For me personally it didn't work that way and i am no longer with my fiance lol. I do feel less of a Muslim sometimes and I don't tell many Muslims for the fear of them judging me. But tbh its btw me and God. But in general I feel like folks act like young marriages destroys lives...it really doesn't. Just depends if the two getting married are mature enough and have the resources to do it.
@@RosemaryTurner2002 I support your opinion. I too will turn 18 in may and I am not at all concern with marriage. My parents always taught me to be independent, have a good job before deciding whether or not we want to get married. If some people don't think their child can do things without having the support of a husband or fiance then that's their problem.
I’m 17 and married and I have one baby boy and no it wasn’t a arranged marriage we didn’t want to do anything Haram so we just got married and I’m very happy❤️❤️
At that age it is better to find strength to stop your desires than to get married to do things..
mashaAllah ❤️❤️❤️
Marwa Lababidi ❤️❤️
Happy as a Muslim wife that's a new one
Carl Jones yes we both are young he is 19 and am 17 so we understand each
okay, but why do you look like muslim Meghan Markle though? :)
Omg yes. Was wondering why she looks familiar
Meghan * Sparkle *
ayesha qureshi Nope. Zeina is way prettier.
No she does not
Yehh but mostly her eyes
I'm 30 and I got married at 27. I genuinely wish I had got married at 17, my dad had given me the option then and I said no because I didn't want to disappoint my mum who wanted me to focus on my education. Education is definitely important but I feel, with the right partner and support, marriage doesn't impede it.
Birth control is all that seems necessary to prevent marriage impeding education
17 is way too young for me personally. I’m 20 and I’m still learning things about myself and growing as a person. I want to be happy being by myself before I depend on someone for happiness and fulfilment. Maybe in a few years 💕
It's like crazy unthinkable to me. I was a completely different person. I'm 37 now.
everyone's at a different stage i'm 21 and ready as ill ever be and so glad i made the decision to, while others arent ready even at 27, im still learning things about myself but you NEVER stop learning things about yourself its basically something you've gotta just "do" ygm because you'll never be ready if you keep putting it off.
but then again its probably the hasstle of trying to find someone and getting to know someone and talking to them ect... many people hate that stage of it all
Sumi there’s a difference between getting married at 17 and getting married in your mid/late 20’s. 17 is incredibly young. You’re still developing so much at 17. I strongly agree, you do keep learning things about yourself throughout your whole life, but 17 is a fragile age to consider something as big as marriage. But everyone is different I guess
We somlis marry At young age I'm 19, Have one baby boy he's almost 2 married at 16😂 sorry my broken english
m 17 is not too Young for everyone there is girls that like to get married at that age, and they are mature
i'm turning 17 in a few months and i can't imagine getting married. props to you girl because that scares me but everyone is different
Yeah
And the quality of your new camera. Come throughhhhh 👏👏👏👏
Carpe Diem so glad you like it!! I love it💕💕
What camera is it hun
@@aishap1880 Cannon 80D xx
i lived with my in laws for a year before getting married. we moved out when we got married. and i really enjoy living just with my husband
4:19 “quality is better than quantity” yesss facts 💯👏🏽👏🏽
Loved the music in the background, lovely relaxing touch and great video. ❤️
Loved this vid of yours! You should do part 2 it’s soo fun !❤️
please do a story time on how you told your parents you wanted to get married x
Mona I will do😘💕
Yesssss
Mashallah Mashallah Mashallah
I completely agree with you Zeinah! Quality over quantity when it comes to children.
okay so this was on my recommended page and i clicked into it cuz i have some free time in between my classes and gosh you are so soft and so gentle and really so nice to talk to. how come i didnt come across this channel earlier oml im already in loveeeeeee
Story on how you got married please! Love your vlogs ❤️
We need a story time on how your parents reacted to your marriage!❤️
Wow! I love that you wanted to be your own boss women!!! Im currently working on my business from home as well! Its truly a blessing
I’m glad she kept it real about the in laws and stuff. Found my fav new RUclipsr:)
This was very interesting. Just subscribed, surely do a story time vid!
I also got married when i was 17 alhamdulilaah. My husband was 20 at the time. I had my first child when i was 18. I'm turning 29 this year and still happily married to my husband with 4 beautifull children. Love that i'm a young mom. No regrets at all. But honestly, it is not for everyone.
Masha allah sister may Allah protect them. I got married 17 too now i turned 28 last month and 4 kids too masha allah 🤗
Sister from which country are you? Your origin? I also want to marry young!
Third world country asshole
@@mangooiikiiijnjmm4475
Unlike your people that only know temporary relationships and doesn’t value marriages. You are Jealous of other people lives non of your business.
do a story time on how u got married and how u told ur parents x
I respect your privacy, but I was waiting for more personal video for a long time! Thank you, love!
and I want you to talk about how you were raised and how if it helped you to build your perssonality and your charactere
OMG ma’sha’Allah!!!! I really thought you were 28-29 just based on how much you have your life together/ how mature you are! Wow you go girl 😂
I got married at 17 too!!! Honestly people think it’s bad I think it’s really good because you get the practically grow up with them and share so many memories I’m happily married with 2 kids at 19 with no regrets 😀
I love you zeinah. Ur my favourite RUclipsr. Ur just soo pure and honest. Mashallah❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jamilah Adam aww love you too hun& thank you for your constant support 😘💕
I was 17 when I got married and 19 when I had my first child boy
Really enjoyed that :) nice and short and to the point. Lots of RUclipsrs do these videos but long out some of the answers lol
NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!! can’t believe I didn’t find your channel earlier
you have a beautiful smile.God bless you and your family. .I love your videos
Tamara Mirriam Matandala aww thank you my love 😘😘
Loving the variety of videos!
OMG WOULD LOVEEEEEE A VIDEO ON YOUR JOURNEY TO GETTING MARRIED INC PARENTS RESPONSES
Thanx for taking ur time out to let us guys know more about u ☺️we love ur vids ❤️❤️
girllllll. You must see my comments on every videos but I’m glad I’ve got my notifications on for your videos. Looking beautiful as ever MashaAllah and keep up with the great content ❤️💕💕💕
I got married at 19 and that’s early too. I had my first child at 21 n second at 23 n my younger daughter is 2 months old MashAllah. I had a love marriage too. I totally agree to all the things u said in this video loved it!!!
Loved this video! ❤️ Deffo need more videos like this one please 😀😘❤️
Same I do not want to live with my in-laws even if it was for a month.
When I get married, I want it to be just me and my husband.
I want my own private space and home
Love to get to know you more ....especially how you told your parents how they took the news of marriage etc
Plz do a part 2 and more marriage resulted videos etc loved this video got to know you way more I love your videos and btw your teeth!!! Y wasn't I surprised when you said that you were in dental practice lol
Ooh my that's gud,how many Kenyans are here🤗🤗🤗
i get happy whenever you upload sis😍
Omg! Salaam! I'm new here! ❤️ And I love you so much already! 😂💕 Alsooo I want a story time about your parents and how they agreed and all that. 😂💕💕 I'm loving you and your videos so far.😍❤️❤️❤️
yaay first one💕💕woow i feel like i know u alot better after this video🥰🥰i love ur videos so never stop uploading 😍😍😘
loved it. cant wait for part two x
I never knew I was older than you! I’m 25 lol ♥️ I’m the baby of the family too:)
Also got my license at 19 lol
Age is just a number 😂
Yassssss plssssss
We need that storytime. BTW love ur videoss
I really hope to see people say that Malaysia is the best place to travel😍 Thank you for visiting Malaysia. I hope you will come again soon and I hope I can meet you❤️
Yesssss pls do a story time of how u told ur family !xxx
hey! im interested in dental hygiene too, and i know it didnt work out for you but could you tell me what a levels you did/grades to get into a uni:)
17 yes young age but u can't be rude when there is many people who is being together under age 17. They do everything what marry couples do including living together for some of them. So if two people really love each other and feel theirselves enough for marriage its okay. Let people choose their way.
Just found your channel and am obssesed with it lool please sis dont remove ur scarf u look beautiful like this. May allah protect u and ur family 💙💙 lots of lov
We needdd that story time! Xx
Yess please do a video on how did you convince your parents?.. Want to know this🙆.. And loved this video💙
I don’t know how I’ve just stumbled across your channel but it has been a very happy accident! New subscriber!
pleaseee make a video on your story on telling your parents about your husband !!
Honestly I think as long as your mentally stable and getting good enough income you can get married at anytime, getting married after all only brings blessings to a muslims life
Am so looking forward to know on how you convinced everyone at such a young age plus the complications that u came across . I love you so much zeinah. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This helped me a lot thank you sooo much I wanna get married young work and go uni and everything but than you so much I love you sooo much xxx
We can’t judge her and her life. As long as she happy and she gave her consent. People are different at different stages of life. Maybe she had tons of support from her family and husband. As long as she happy and safe and healthy that’s all that matters.
Muslin women have no consent to give. They have no rights.
I'm muslim. I'm female. I gave consent. Hell I suggested marriage and made the move. Don't blame cultural practices on religion please
Wow I'm so surprised you're just 24! You definitely don't look any older but just because you're married and you seem so mature mA
Kenya!! This is my first video from your channel that I watched and I'm from kenya too
Please do a draw my life. I know the trend was years ago but pleez
**Stark** yes would love to see that
This was deffo an interesting video!👍
Lovely vid❤️❤️and everything is so true...keep smiling and Allah bless you and ur fam💞💞
Honestly, i really enjoyed this vid x
Aww really like this sit and chat style of video x
You defoooooo have to do another video about your whole experience of getting married at 17 and the hassle w your parents and how u met ur partner
MashaAllah Allahbarrik. Im also from kenya 😍😍 got married and came to uk Manchester. So happy to know you are from kenya 😘😘
Yes tell us how it all when down when you told your parents ❤ MashaAllah love your videos look forward to watch them every time you upload .
love this video was good to get to know you more
Enjoyed the video a lot sis😘
Assalamualaikum .
I am from Malaysia & I m proud to hear u talk so positively about my country. Thank you very much.
I love watching your videos esp your cooking recipes. It is somewhat similar to what I cook too.
I cook a lot of Asian cooking not just Malaysian.
And I do prep my chicken, meat, fish, prawns & squids when I come bck fr Tesco.
Keep those videos coming. Good work!
Yayyy finally 😍😍 can't wait
omg yes story time on how you told your parents xx
Yes can you please tell us a story about how you told your parents that you wanted to get married and a part 2 of a Q&A
Marriage story!!! With a grwm perhaps ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I loved this vid !!
Currently watching this. Next time can u also add your husband Xo
you are the most beautiful woman i’ve ever seen. in all seriousness. you’re beautiful 😍
Loved this video ❤️
Congratulations to you 100k am so happy for sister keeps going.
Love all your videos and your videos are really interesting
Also how did yu meet your husband x
U need to the story time please of getting marrying and do some like how u teach ur kids good manners and I just love your videos
Please do a video of how you told your parents about marriage and love ur vids xx
Love ur story so beautiful 😍
I also got married at 17
From this ive learned youre a strong minded person convincing your parents to let you marry young and moving out of in laws so soon most men are so adamant you have to stay as long as possible but wouldnt able to cope 1 month with the wives family. Women need to be more like you and fight for what they want.
I agree with you, and it is actually unislamic to treat the wife as a slave , she does not even have to listen to in laws as they are not her parents.Nouman Ali Khan did a great speech about this.
I agree with you but it isn’t really Somali culture to live with in laws. It’s an Asian thing
yup, not islamic at all, esp if the inlaws place is crawling with non-mehram Bils! Then it's the exact opposite- very unislamic as we know from the hadeeth of the Prophet SAW that bil is death!
No idea why men these days are like this, if ur mature enough to marry her u should be mature enough to offer her her own place mate
Maays ikr its not a somali tradition to live with ur in-laws only asians do that
I did not say it is somali tradition, I see this in most muslim and non muslim traditional cultures arab, asian, europian..the girl must oblige and cook clean like a slave and if she speaks up Mil says she is causing conflict..and yes when there is Bil- it is especially wrong as you cant cover all times. In these cultures when woman marries she basically becomes part of another family and has to follow rules..
9:24 Alhamdulillah my parents understand that now I’m 17 rn in Shaa Allah I’ll marry next year but just want to say you earned a new subscriber ur a great mommy ma Shaa Allah I love your videos best for all of you in Shaa Allah❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your eyes are beautyful. I couldn't concentrate on anything you were saying because they are just so stunning😍
Camera quality on point masha allah
Ruuz Ahmed yaaaas! Am loving this new camera, can’t wait to share more videos 😘💕
Omg I’m learning so much about you now and I’ve been watching you for about 2 years now 😅💕
You are amazing May Allah paak bless you with happiness and good health love watching your vlogs
I travelled the world from when I was 18-27! After that I settled down. I wouldn't change my life for anything,I am so happy of my time that I spent travelling in other countries,working there whatever job I got,meeting people from all over the world. But someone else gets happy from beeing married,and doesn't have the need to travel,so it is really up to everyone to find out what makes him/her happy. Now I'm in my fiftys,living as a single woman because that's what makes ME happy,I became so independent while travelling alone that I realized I'm happiest by my self,without to have to share my life with another adult,no compromises,just doing whatever makes ME happy! Marriage is not for everyone,there ARE other options!
goals tbh
I really loved ur videos zeinah....mashallah keep going sister😍
I also got married at 17 and it’s love marriage ! Got married few months ago . And I also live with my in-laws
please doo a video of your marriage story. It would help alottt
I get so happy wen I see your videos.