When she doesn't ask questions back or seem interested in the conversation
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
- Does it feel she’s not wanting to have a conversation? Is she not asking you questions? Watch this video to find out why this is happening and what you can do to cultivate a more engaging conversation.
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A girl that doesn't ask questions is just not into the guy. Honestly, its really that simple.
I have to agree If I feel like I'm talking to a brick wall, I just end it, Or stop asking the questions to see wether they are really interested or not and move on.
@@SondaLovesElly26 no man if a girl cares to explain and is very responsive and does not give one answer then it means that she is is intrested but something is backing her
not exactly, some women who have borderline personality disorder have a hard time communicating and expressing their feelings. I've talked too many who were absolutely terrified to have a conversation or open up despite liking that guy
Not at all. You can be interested and engage without asking questions you're a bot.
The voice of Truth
Its also possible that youre asking all the right questions and she Just has zero conversation skills..
this is VERY true
That's actually quite common that I have found unfortunately. People's conversation/social skills have took a massive hit in this generation (in a large amount of cases), especially during and after the pandemic. It's like people are learning to speak binary after dealing with computers (phones apply too) all day. Quite scary.
or doesn't really care about knowing u at the moment, it's irellevant to her ( just take me out & call me pretty )
I seriously doubt you're asking all the questions that would eliminate any thought of her asking you one. Im.not buying that at all...that sounds more like an excuse to cover for her not being interested.
Honestly this is true. My last girlfriend was like this. The deepest question she would ever ask me would be "How about you?" which is just my own question directed back at me. I can't believe we dated for so long. In the end I just realised I knew everything about her and she barely knew me at all/never was actively curious about me. She had no passions, interests or humour. I just fell for a pretty face.
9 times out of 10 she's just not into you. Stop texting her and move on. Next!
or maybe the topic you brought about is not interesting at all? or maybe you are not allowing her to be curious about you? why not try to reflect on how you open up a conversation before you jump into conclusion?
Lol for real, it’s not that hard to get.
@@RubyLoveAdvice a man cannot open up the right conversation for you because he's not inside your mind. Just contribute to the conversation. Men are losing interest in talking to women because all the efforts is punctually on them. Stop mental gymnastic and woman-up.
If a girl is really into you, she'll be asking you just as many questions as you are asking her. You won't have to play mental gymnastics just to try to figure out how to get her to like you.
But at the same time you do have good points about what kind of questions that are specific to her or things that you know about her. If you know she likes to run you could ask her about running or if you know she likes to cook, you could ask her about cooking and that should spin off into other conversations if she's interested in you. If not, you're going to get short answers just like you're bothering her, but she's being nice enough to answer or she's bored and likes the attention.
This is no hard or fast rule but I'll ask 3 or 4 questions and if they don't ask a question back within those times then I move on.
Very true. Sure better questions can be asked, but short answers, and no questions in return usually tells me there is little interest. If I have to write a book out, and get nothing back, I know it's a waste of time.
If a woman (or man) doesn’t ask questions back, doesn’t ask follow-up questions on a certain topic, or barely asks any questions, stop taking them seriously and do not pursue a serious relationship with them.
It’s a clear sign that they lack emotional intelligence and don’t have any curiosity about you or the world. It’s unlikely they will ever improve, and you will spend all your time with them feeling unheard and unseen.
Move on.
facts
You said it best brother
If she’s into you she’ll answer the dumbest questions you ask her and she’ll ask you almost anything to keep the conversation going.
If your doing the work- you know where you stand
Facts
Both parties should go into the process ready and willing to engage the other person, not sit there waiting to be impressed. So what of he asks a lame question or makes a lame joke? Ask or tell one you think is better! It probably isn't as great as you think it is, so touche. So what of he starts with "hi, how are you?". That's how most people meet women in bars, coffee shops, book stores. The expectation that someone is supposed to transcend the simple eons-old "hi" with an epic, award-winning intro to be deemed worthy of your time is the problem, especially when you can't or won't lead with example.
100%
No offence to you but if a girl doesn't ask questions back then end it, don't waste your time with a person who thinks her time is more valuable then yours. Dont spend time evaluating your questions, a proper person asks questions back no matter what questions you asked.
I respect that! If a woman clearly values her time over yours, thats not a good start to any relationship. Though i must say some people are not great texters, i wouldn't say theyre bad people & cant assume they cant have a good convo IRL, its up to you to choose someone who's already got it or willing to be patient as they lear (and they only do when someone acknowledges it/calls them out vs just ending it)
Joe my man I was just thinking the same thing. It comes off like more like she’s blaming the guy.
my favorite response!!!
Yeah, I see what she's saying as these are strategies for a person seeking a deeper text conversation from someone who is kinda checked out. I don't think it's the guys fault in the given example. The girl is just a bad texter (intentionally or unintentionally). A normal balanced conversation has nothing to do with gender. And therefore, one shouldn't blame themselves and have to make adjustments for somebody that basically isn't Interested. If she's bored with your questions, why cant she spice it up too? It's a two way street
From experience, if someone doesn’t ask questions over text, they don’t ask questions in real life either (or they barely ask any in real life). If a woman doesn’t ask questions, move on. She doesn’t have emotional intelligence and it’s unlikely she’ll ever improve.
I have a friend and it seems like I'm the only one who's asking her questions. Lol. I try my best but I feel like she also needs to try atleast
If she ain't asking you questions she not interested regardless if you two matched
If i feel the conversation is going no where i just end it and move on.
I used to try way to hard and kept talking to people that didn't put energy back into texting. Now I just don't care. If she doesn't put effort back u can tell lack interest. I find women that are interested will keep the conversation going and make efforts to meet. I pull back and give them a chance to chase
Thank you. Sensing a one sided relationship
Personally, this is quite subjective. For most girls, it might seem like they're uninterested but I'd say it depends. There was this one guy that I went out with for a movie, he was quite like my ideal type tbh and I was really nervous on the inside. I wasn't showing it but every time when he asked me questions, I suddenly lost my brain cells and instead of talking to him I just replied, "Ohh, I seee" and messed everything up. I was into really him but I couldn't talk or ask questions. Sooo don't be like me, it might send the wrong signal to the guy.
no ty for this, this helps my mental just a bit hahaha. all the signs seem to be there aside from the question asking aspect.
Men play probabilities and not possibilities... while this may have occurred the first and second time, your actions by the third time would confirm it all.
Met a woman online. She is friendly and nice. But I find I’m doing all the asking. I volunteer my info first then ask her the same. It’s like if I don’t ask in order for us the learn about each other nothing happens. It’s like going to a party and seeing an old friend. Hi how are you? What have you been up to? How’s the job? And they don’t ask a single thing about you. If I didn’t ask there wouldn’t be a conversation! Wtf!
Soo true haha fml
I find it so annoying when women don’t even try to make the conversation interesting like I try , this was good video tho gave me some insight in maybe I can change something but god damn is it fucking difficult to find a woman who isn’t so into themselves
She just doesn’t like you bruh..... not too hard to get. When a woman is interested, she will show it.
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Yeah I agree but again it's not like they owe us anything
There is this girl at work, she's super helpful, always helping me clean up the room, picking up my bag, smiling from distance and turning her head. And she doesn't do this with other people. She has also broken the touch barrier and keeps the conversations alive. But NEVER asks questions. Should I drop her?
Yes. Because you are either in the friend zone or she is not sexually attracted to you.
Danger, Danger Will Robinson. Avoid relationships with coworkers.
depends on what you'd want your relationship to be like. People want different things, I would drop her if she doesn't talk back to me.
Ah so its my fault or there is just no burning desire behind that woman. Tbh ive never met a girl that ask me anything. So its more like if all girls dont ask questions.
if a girl doesn't ask questions back. She's not that interested. End of story. You do not have to pander to women trying to play mental games to get them engaged. If htey're not attracted they instinctively won't ask you questions back. So move on. Don't watse time with women who have low interest. They just want attention.
This is the correct answer, this could have been a 10 second video. Don’t waste time on people who don’t ask questions or aren’t curious about you. They either aren’t interested, or they have low emotional intelligence or a lack of curiosity. Either way it’s bad, and you need to move on
The thing is I ask question they ask me a question I'm like blah blah what about you then one word response like ok now what hahah
The sad reality is this is what many women are like now. I think it was the perfect storm of too much free attn on social media/dating apps and feminism.
Both have made women self involved and a bit narcissistic. Now it's about what they "deserve" and what guys have to to keep their attention. Versus women feeling motivated to truly want a man.
**I was reading a topic on Facebook recently about why marriages fail. I would say that 95% of the comments were women putting 100% of the blame on men and taking zero accountability whatsoever. So it's very telling of the current mindset of women in society.
Great observations 👍🏻.
Best comment 🤙
Thanks for this video. Matched with a few girls through dating apps (finally trying it out) but I keep getting "lol" and nothing else when I'm trying to be cheeky. Or when I try to ask them questions that won't allow them to respond with yes or no, they give me something very dry or a big fat "I don't know." So at least now I know to at least sprinkle in little facts about me relating to their answer since they never seem to ask me and go from there. It's like, "You matched with me. Surely you want to know something about me?" But sometimes I do feel like they just want the attention from guys and that's it. Nothing more.
Honestly, my biggest pet peeve really is that they seem to have no problem texting "Good morning" and "How are you". The same kind of stuff guys are told to NOT ask because it's meaningless and gets you nowhere. Yet girls do this all the time. Double standard bugs me.
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Most girls online are only there for attention and validation. Once you realize that, and if she is not asking questions, its best just to find someone else. A girl that is interested will make that clear to you.
Women don’t have pressure on them to approach men because they are always the ones getting approached. So they don’t need to work to be creative with their intros. They know guys will respond to “hey” because guys are usually desperate to meet women. Guys don’t have people approaching them all the time. It is absolutely a double standard
Ruby love love you
You have solved my problem which I was thinking from last one hour
Thx a lot
My pleasure 😊
Wow really if she's not engaging in getting to know you it's gotta be your fault smh...shes not interested in you
Wow i almost misunderstood.. I'll give it a try once more
Nice to know then. Best of luck!
@@RubyLoveAdvice naahh...she seems interested and not interested at the same time haha
I’ve been talking to this girl for a couple months now and I think she has lost interest, because she has frequently been replying back much longer than she ever has but she does appreciate and love me but idk if it’s that deep.
Don't be too available and a she backs off that means you don't try more. That means you back off.
Ive experience the opposite.
At first i was saying "wow, you ask some very interesting questions" which the woman was. But then her not answering my questions seemed like i was being interrogated.
Asking how they are and getting "im fine" without them asking back in return i find extremely rude and ignorant.
Just finding the right balance i suppose.
Is it possible that when your significant isn’t asking questions anymore after 3 months, are they just getting more natural and comfortable?
I feel like I screwed things up, but she keeps reassuring me I didn’t. But I’m pretty sure I did.
What's the update on the girl bro?
Wheres the update? Answer me😅
It means if she asks you questions about you like full name, age, height, colour u like, music u like after days of texting, she might have started showing interest in you? It means i am good to go?
Yes, even if she ask u anything about u that show how she is interested.
It really is good if she's asking those questions you're very lucky
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How do you separate yourself from other guys? And how do you connect on a deeper level?
These are great questions! I'll be noting to answer these on a future video because this isn't the first time I've had guys ask this. For now, apart of a deeper connection is an emotional one so you can watch this video of mine first: How to create an emotional connection with a girl
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So basically you have to do mental gymnastics in order to get a conversation out of her. Then once or if you meet in person you have to remember all these rules. If she can't ask basic questions in return then it's a pass. Conversations shouldn't be that hard.
Im kinda in this boat right now.. unsure what to do with this girl I've been hanging with. We are generally together for most of this one month course. She's cooked for me, fed me, laughs at my jokes, teases me, we've got many shared interests to things like favorite cakes/pastries/fashion/cute stuff, she has revealed a lot of her life to me from childhood to now, mentioned her ex BFs and husband, even after some guy called her when we were driving and she tells me that he's someone she is renting half her house to due to life stuff on his end. We've gone out together quite often for food.. nearly everyday and take turns paying. She's bought me a small gift and is super caring. We've played cards together.. and studied together. I'm still unsure of what to do from here on as we've got 10 days left together before I leave across the globe.
I guess my biggest worry is that she doesn't ask me many questions about myself.. I'm usually the asker but I'm running low on questions laugh😂 I'll say that I've never actually truly liked someone until now so maybe I'm just blowing things out of proportion between us. We're both military so often times we do talk about that stuff. I can't stop thinking about her 😭
Stop depressing youself if you see that shes not interested you. More you get depressed worse will be your life. You are here because you don't wanna give up with the fact that she's not interested in you.
Can we get a few dozen questions of what to ask, please? I'm so over dating.
Dating only benefits a very minor percentage of people.
Surely if a. Women likes u she would make some effort even a hello how’s ur day going
If they can’t or don’t do that they just don’t care
I agree...a simple "how's your day " is very easy to ask . It's basic and shows you care.
That's exactly right I feel like women just have no curiosity unless your rich or famous or have some lil niche about you that they wanna know otherwise your on the chopping block
I got to know a person (mutual friends) met the person in public locations at different occasions, private parties celebrations etc, then talked a bit in a chat for weeks and one day I was waiting for one that person to reply me and couple days had passed and I just sent a followup short message and that person literally told me after couple of days "It's a huge turn off that you didn't wait for me to reply, and I don't like you". I was in an awkward situation for a moment, and I told that person "Me neither" and since then I didn't go and talk to that person. It was just a short message how everything is going on. Not a long message or did not show any desperate attempts. Is it a huge turn off what I did? and is it required to wait for a reply from a person for couple of days without saying anything at all?
pretty girl, You did the right thing, that person sounds like a real a-hole, if they liked you at all they would have text back and said Oh sorry I've been super busy. Haven't been able to get back with you or something that was like one of the rudest text of ever heard. Why would you want to even try to be with someone like that? Just be glad you found out about that person before you were married and had kids with them. They started acting like that
We are together since week till now and we get into a date and after that date she was sharing everything with me even her nails color then suddenly she became silent after her talking about herself and how strong she is so after four hours there was no answering from her and next day i did not want to talk to see if she can notice my existing but no way of course and one other note she broke up from three months and she still hurt somehow but mainly she tells me how i am handome her and so on and she tells me that she is expecting me to leave at any moment because she think that her life is full of problems that i can not endure
You're good. Very balanced.
I got a question, if you have good banter with a girl (freaky conv and everything) and you ask her what her schedule is looking like, but you get a "Who knows" in return. What to reply or type?
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When you get a response like that, she enjoys the dopamine rush that your text gave her, but she probably isn't into you. Might be busy getting her back blown out by Chad and Tyrone. Or both!
This was actually really helpful Ruby! Very well explained 🙏🏽
Glad it was helpful!
I have lost faith in western women, I give up
I have a friend I thought she is not interested in me but after watching ur video I realise how I text her how I ask quetion she took time to reply but she never ignore me we talk on phone even in video call still I dnt know wat to ask to know her better help me please😃🙆
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Alot of comments here are cynical about how the girl just isnt interested, or that u as a man shouldnt tolerate her behaviour, which i, as a man, wanna agree on. But, correct me if im wrong Ruby Love, talking and chatting is a womans time to evaluate most out of a man just how we do most of our judgement at first glance. The conversation is more important for the womans decision than yours as a man. The focus and initiative therefore naturally gets put in your hands and its your job to impress her now. Implement Rubys tips to show the girl how desirable your inner beauty is, just like how youve already been convinced of her outer beauty.
I disagree. The conversation is just as important to me as a man. It's nobody's job to impress anyone. Be authentic, be yourself but if a woman does not ask questions about me after an effort to get to know her then I'm moving on. The rules apply to both sides equally and a conversation cannot be had by one. it takes two to engage.
What if you confessed feelins she needs week or two think. she also asks “what made u interested in me” . is that good?
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It's always low interest
I always texting asking about her but she never response like I hope, for me maybe she not interested in me
I do agree if it stays constant/consistent, it's best to let go and accept she isn't as interested
Good stuff thanks
This was helpful. Keep it up.
Glad it helped! Thank you!
Why would random women online be so invested in you? Unless there is something superficial about you that really stands out. Or you are a very talented texter. If you are an average guy you should expect to put in some effort for the more attractive girls, in the beginning at least. It's not like we have so many opportunities for better.😅Always clarify both your intentions early on, will save you a lot of time. Be patient, dont take it so seriously and know when to move on. Once you meet in person you can completely ease off.
Hey it is a good video. I'm talking to this girl I met online for two weeks , she replies immediately and in length and enthusiastically too. But it is alll about her. I have to keep asking her soemthing to keep the conversation going. I watched your video a few days back and tried to fix my mistake to not rephrase my questions to get to know her better and even I tried to add some lines about me but she doesn't acknowledge anything I say about me. Should I stop texting and move on ? PS. I'm a 26yr old male with no relationship experience. I hope you can give me some clarity. Thanks very much :)
Remember your goal why you even want the conversation going. Actually, this is best to discuss during my FB Live.
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@@RubyLoveAdvice ah she talked about her sex encounters and said she wanted sex badly again blah blah I took it was a sign for me and tried to flirt with her and she insulted me badly :) it is over anyways :) thanks for your time
It means she's not interested and she's wasting your time.. Just ask her out and go from there.
I matched with a girl on Tinder, and we’ve been texting for 2 weeks now and she never asks any questions, but she always texts first and replies super quick so it’s hard to say if she’s interested or not.
it's a sign that she is interested to you, I suggest you watch this video ruclips.net/video/hG0uCW-zRSc/видео.html and learn how to make her more engage in a conversation.
How long did it take you to become intimate with her?
@@RubyLoveAdvice I have this very same issue, we went out twice but first time was a formal date then informal meeting up and had great times but I message her she does respond every time but don't feels she engages very well, she will answer the question but never has a depth to it and never seems to ask me questions. I will watch that video.
Great video! Thanks.
Glad you liked it!
Thank you, yeah I met this shy filipina online but she dont ask about me that much questions, so maybe she not interested in enagaging, even though she is shy, or I have to give her time?
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I sure wish you could look at the messages and see for yourself. We have only gone back and fourth about 5 or 6 times, but I just am not sure what it could be.
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Yay iv been doin everything wrong.
This one lady just tells me all her problems never asks about me barely bouta cut her off I kinda feel bad bc she bought $400 worth of stuff for me for no reason
That $400 worth of stuff was payment for you being her personal psychologist?😂
@@JohnDanielsholy shit. This is exactly how I feel about this girl I’m seeing
There is some weird women out there no matter how pretty they are
1:48 i ask her how are you and she never ask me back how are you :D
Really liked the advice you shared. Smart clear and to the point.
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She don't answer your text then you move on...... her actions tell you all you need to know
80% of my conversations with girls :(
I've discovered that I'm the least knowledgeable person about myself that exists. Weird.
i need your help ruby
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interesting
Thank you :)
It's worth noting these texts from the guy have a lot of feminine energy. Guys need to stop texting like women.
Great advice
Thank you :)
nice advice thx
Happy to help
often the other person is so busy asking questions you cant get a word in or they ask so much in the begining ,its off putting