You know, I might have avoided an abusive relationship. This kid I didn't really know in school, asked me out, I said no. Multiple times. He kept harassing me and he kept saying, ' Don't tell anyone.'
I hope you told someone. Either way, I'm glad you said no. That's classic predator behavior to try and break their victims down and some aren't so lucky to get away.
Eeveemation Studios me too. This happened about 2 years ago I wanna say. I was in Roblox playing musical chairs and I would sometimes accept random friend requests. One guy (I unfortunately forgot his username) sent me a random friend request and I accepted. You might think that’s dumb but I’ve done it a good amount of times and nothing happened. Besides just because some people are out to get you doesn’t mean everyone is. I still think that logic is true. He told me to follow him and he took me to a corner further away from everyone else. He then asked how old I was and I said 13. I don’t remember much of it but what I do remember is that he was really protective over me. Another guy came up to us and he said “back off bro”. Then I decided to be honest with him and told him that I wasn’t interested in being his girlfriend and that we could still be friends because I wanted to be nice. He begged me to take it back and used a lot of crying emojis. I just left the game and unfriended him. A few days later I get back into the game and then I see him coming towards me and I again left. I don’t remember his username but I wish I did. Thankfully that was an on an old account so I’m probably safe now.
Never forget that everyone will say that but you never know until you are in the situation. Not going against anything you are saying and not being rude. Just adding x
I really hope so bby girl. Resist any sweet talk he would tell you, because it's for his personal gain. Ice Cube said it best: C'mon let me whisper in your ear. Tell you all that 🐂💩that you want to hear. I know from experience
Good, when I was younger a guy would always talk to me when I would take my brother to school, and eventually he told me not to tell anyone, so I would drop off my brother and walk home fast, he would try to talk to me but I just kept ignoring him, I was so shy back then...
where you force someone into humiliating themselves in public by making them wear a sign on that says im a monster or in this case a sign that says i m a pedophile A Veeder
Zai Bear I meant heated as in mad hated wouldn’t have made sense learn to not correct a sentence that is already correct before you come at me thank you have a nice day
She has parts 2 and 2.5 up now. As someone whose been through an abusive relationship, oh boy it's so, so hard to get through and watching her videos was both wound opening/pulling off the scab, but cathartic. For those still in bad places, you're not alone, you're strong and you ARE worth it, gods be damned on whatever your abuser says.
There are many moments where I am thinking I really respect you AyChristene! Because I really am reminded how smart you are and I look up to you as an adult, since I am in my last year of middle school and you give really great advice to your young audience.
She is so incredibly brave, to have the sheer guts to tell her story. I have the utmost respect for her and I encourage anyone in a similar situation to speak out immediately, to tell a trusted adult so you don't have to suffer alone.
The fuck ya chicken strips meme is going to age badly, but for the moment it was hilarious. It was a very informative video as well. Glad she shared her story.
I'm so glad you're finally reacting to illy's story, most kids watching (you know, the ones that spam and bombard you with the same thing over and over-) dont know about these things.
I’m so glad she’s free from him but he forced so much onto her he even raped her. I hope if anyone is in this situation they talked to someone about it...
I remember something like this happen to me, I was also 13 years old. My relationship with this abusive dude were only 3 months, I didn't send him nudes and pretty much outsmarted him and made a bunch of good excuses, he also threatened me that he will kill himself if I don't reply to him immediately, that's why I mostly sleep late those days. He kept posting suicidal thoughts on his profile. I tried my best to give him hope and believe in God. His family were Christians but somehow HE is not? Once I finally looked through all his bullsh*t, I broke up with him and he was very mad at me, he started putting cuts in his arm and sent me a picture of it, bleeding a lot, I was traumatized, I decided to fake an injury and told him that I'm gonna have to "sell my phone" so I could get enough money to pay for my "injuries", I left that app for good since then. I don't know if he's still alive but thinking about it kept haunting me for months. Ever since my friend told me that if he actually killed himself, it's not gonna be my fault but his, those words got my problem to disappear. Also, I'm 14 years old now, our "relationship" started on January and ended on March after finishing my studies for Grade 7.
Man, that was a difficult story to watch. Makes me kinda glad when I was 13, I saw everyone else online besides me were predators. I had very low self-esteem at that point and thought everyone hated me ( including family and friends). Majority of the guys that I liked in the past were not the good type and literally, I was saved from almost being a side girl for a guy that was already in a relationship. So far I have never been an actual relationship, but I have a story of one guy that I liked where we almost got into a relationship but it was so toxic that I had to stop talking to him. And no he didn't say nasty words to me or anything it was just emotionally draining. When I was 15, I just starting to get into video game live streaming. I was watching someone playing FNAF 4 on Twitch. I didn't really talk to anybody much but after being on that chat room with other people on that channel and also seeing the same people for a different live stream, I decided that I could possibly make some friends here. Since I have two friends online (that are girls) and are the sweetest and respectful people that I have ever met ( i have video chatted with both of the btw so they're legit) One of them is my best friend. She kinda wished that I would make more friends since I'm a very introverted person and the only people that I really wanted to talk to is them. So I decided to make friends and became the person that would give hugs to people in the chat. That's when I met him. When we started talking he told me that he was from England and he was 15. We started out as friends playing games on steam with each other. A few weeks after getting to know him, I started to have feelings for him. After I told him that I like him, he told me that he liked me too. So after that, we were acting like we were in "puppy love" and getting to know each other. At first, I was really hesitant cause I've heard the good and the bad of online dating (somehow the forces of above heard my big mouth about me saying that I don't understand people that I don't understand people who date online), but I thought it was worth the try. After a few months, I found out that most of the things that I like, he either hates it or is allergic. Opposites attract right? Another thing I found out that he was very clingy. During this time of my life, I never had a guy liked me back before and I was clingy myself because I thought that if I didn't keep people that cared about me close that they would leave me. So I decided to deal with him since I somehow thought that I could help him with his issues. This guy had a lot of issues to the point where there were times I was on my phone or my computer trying to calm him down and basically being a therapist to him. We did video chat with each other, but I barely was able to hear his voice or see him for only a couple of times because he was afraid that his mom was going to see him. We also were thinking about the future ( meeting each other, marriage, kids etc) We even made sims of each other and made them have kids.*(remember we were still kids at this time)*. I basically through all things that I really wanted in guy out the door only because he was the first guy that liked me. Regardless, the amount of how incompatible we were and that neither of us was ready for a relationship. During those times when I wasn't talking to him, I grew into the person that I am today. I learned that people will come and go in my life, but the people that really matter would stay. I learned to control myself and not become so clingy anymore. The guy, on the other hand, didn't change. I felt like I basically had to be his therapist for most of the time and someone that he depended on. It was only one day after months of dealing with it, I got tired and stopped talking to him. After a few days, I went back to check my messages and he sent me a bunch talking about how he's sorry and how he'll change if I just came back. He even said that I didn't want to be with him that he understood. I was already feeling so much anxiety with him because I kept him a secret from my friends and family and I didn't want to lie to them. So after that, I messaged him this long speech telling him that we need to just be friends. He didn't take it well and beg me some more and said that he'll do better to make me stay with him, but if I still wanted to be friends so I stayed. After a while it was talking to him, I slowly started to talk to him less, After months of this, I finally had the courage of telling him that I just wanted to be friends because I felt that I needed to meet other guys here and to grow out of my shell and date someone without any anxiety. Even though we weren't really dating, my mind somehow believed that I was betrothed to him or something. I sent him this long message about both of us needing to work out own own things and that we won't work. We became friends. After a few weeks, stopped talking to him for a year. When I messaged him after a year, He changed a lot. He fixed some of his issues and he actually got himself a girlfriend. We both apologized to each other about what happened when we liked each other. To this day, I still talk to him from time to time but I don't want to go back into a relationship with him. Although he was and is a really nice guy, I just was much better off being just friends with him The lesson of the story is : DON'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOUR LONELY AND DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS.
As I was looking back at my messages just now, for some reason, even though I was friends with this guy *I WAS STILL TALKING TO THIS GUY LIKE I WANTED TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS WITH HIM* I don't even remember why I was still talking to this guy that I felt that wasn't good for me. I guess I thought that I really needed to get away from him in order for me to grow
*This is the long message that I told him* This is me at 16 btw should probably tell you this so we can both be on the same page Look I do like you and all, but today had made me realize That I think we should just be friends I realize that I want to continue my life and see how it goes Meaning I want to see if i could actually meet other people here and to get out of my shell more I feel like if i go though with us now that it would be mostly because i would be afraid of not finding anyone else besides you And that I would turn every guy here that asks me out bc I made an commitment to be with you And tbh i actually feel like ive been/going to be doing that I want to fall in love and be someone without any doubt or worry and I think you deserve better Both of us do I want you to be happy But i also want you to get out of your shell too I feel like this wouldn't do both of us any good This is too much for the both of us We need to spread out our wings and start learning how to fly We can't just be living in fear all of our lives You need to start talking to people more And to turn the other cheek when people make fun of you Any of what they say is not you You know who you are And you need to find yourself And see the truth from the lie I need to start gaining to be a little bit more outgoing Enough to talk to new people But enough to know where the boundaries are Right now I'm still in highschool I need to live my life Of course I'll have my worries But i feel like i shouldn't agree into a relationship now and worry about it as the years go bye Plz understand I'm doing this for the both of us We need to be a little more outgoing Fear shouldn't be the center of our lives When i went to go see a movie with my mom, I asked her why does did a couple in the movie become a couple in the first place when, they didn't have anything in common at all. She told me that when you staying around in one place for a long time and not going around anywhere, you tend to settle for what you have, instead of going out and finding it. That made me think I don't want to settle I don't want to be with someone out of the fact that I might never have the same chance again Or that their right there I want to be with someone bc of out of all the guys that I met, that one is the one that im most happy to be with I want to be free Sure I'll be heartbroken one time or a couple, but i have a feeling that I'll find that special someone And I think the same will happen to you You'll find that person
I wish that these things didn’t happen. But, they do. It could happen to you. Be careful. Block them. Something. I don’t think that these things will ever end. You can’t have good without bad. I’m sorry, it’s how life is. I’m sorry to anyone who has dealt with this or with something just as bad. Have a great day/night/life.💕
I’ve been in two relationships. One with a girl and the other with boy. As a cancer(my zodiac)when I get into a relationship I try to make them not leave me because I’m very emotional and loving so I don’t want them to die or break up with me. Now that you know that both of these people who I was in a relationship with both threatened to commit suicide and both cut themselves I had no idea why and blamed myself saying I wasn’t loving them enough so they didn’t want to stay.. My first relationship texted me when they wanted to kill themselves or showed me pics of their cuts.. the other just said and showed the exact things at school though. I tried every time convincing them to stop and sometimes it worked(on the suicide tellings) sometimes it didn’t(convincing them not to cut) I felt like I couldn’t leave them because I’d be heartbroken and they’d probably not stop and would actually do suicide. So I basically guilted myself into staying. Both of them I’m not in a relationship with anymore but man I’d cry when they told me that stuff. I hope you enjoyed this little story of mine... I never considered this a toxic relationship because i considered it mostly me being super mean to myself so I’d guilt myself into staying and not their threatens to kill themselves. I hope nobody else ever has to feel this way or be in a relationship like that. If you find yourself in a relationship like that break it off quickly before you do what it did I hope this warns anyone else. Have a good day/night
I dealt with something very similar to this for years. They lived in the same area as me and we went to the same school and even some classes. They used the same techniques as Harris. To be clear they weren't a pedophile, they were my age. Now thinking back to it I found it unbelievable that someone my age could even do this. They were mentally and sometimes even physically abusive to those around them. It was hard to leave because they were my "friend" (which I had also dated.) I would give up anything for this person. At the time I hadn't gone through a falling out or even just standing up for myself. I was too soft, too sympathetic. I use to blame myself and apologize for them. I wish I would've ended it, but our relationship was messy. It was like I need their validation, I had become dependent. Once I started to "revolt" they became angrier and frustrated. They needed their target to be content with their abuse as sad as it sounds. They ended our relationship casting me aside like nothing even happened. They pretended I didn't exist which at the time was mental torture, but It made me realize how bad our relationship was and how I needed to seek help. During that time I met my current girlfriend along with people who make me feel happy for just simply being me. I love them so much. It is important for people going through this to know they can escape even when it may seem impossible and that they aren't to blame for their abuser's behavior. If you know someone or you yourself are dealing with this, seek help. Cut ties. Tell others. Surround yourself with people who make you happy and appreciate you. It may sound simple, but it honestly works. Even if it takes years it is important to know someone is there for you. -
Hindsight is 20/20, you know? I feel so bad for her!! Edit: What the heck? I got liked... I don't really know why, but who am I to look a gift horse in the mouth? Thank you!
tw because this is kind of a vent !!! ive never had an abusive relationship like this. but i had a manipulative friendship group that also VERY often threatened suicide. i was 11 staying up until 4 am keeping teenagers alive from the other side of the country. we nearly got AN ADULT to kill themselves and i imagine if the attempt worked that they would put it in my hands. i was a therapist. an 11 year old saving 13-17 year olds “but you should be proud of yourself!! you saved lives!!” but at what cost??? i lost my relationship with my parents, my hygiene, my health, i couldn’t take care of myself.
I actually met someone on roblox (who is now my online friend) and at one point he said "When I meet you I wanna marry you!" I honestly thought it was adorable cuz he was actually a year younger than me XD he also gave up trying to get me lol
It boils my blood when you try to tell someone something that you're passionate about, or upset about, or something you're proud of, and they just reply with "did i ask"
I connect so much more with Illy way more after I found I was also a victim of grooming- and attempted child trafficing- I was 14 and they said they were my age [specifically 15-17] but they weren't, I later found out they were pushing 30's- as of now him and his friend are both being watched by police- :/ I'm happy abt it- but I'm still scared-
I met my boyfriend when I was 14 and he was 16, now I'm 16 and he's 18 but he's never tried to get pictures out of me or blame me for stuff. He's never threatened me or push me out of my comfort zone. He understands and isn't like that.
I honestly think someone was trying to groom me once. I dont really have peoof that he/she was trying to but ill just tell the story. (This all happened a month or two ago) I was in some server on discord (which the server wasent the best at the time because there were basicly no bots or mods to keep watch of things) and many people usually joined, but one time this person joined (I'll can call him lion because he had a lion profile, not his real user i honestly forgot it lmao) and he was pretty normal he said hi in the server so i said hi back because i was online and bored. Then he private messaged me. (Most likely because i replied to him in the server) He said hi to me and i replied back and he said i seemed nice and i replied with "thanks!" He then went on and asked me normal ish questions, he asked if i was younger or older and at the time i thought nothing of it because he didnt ask for my exact age so i told him i was younger. He then asked me what my age preffrence i felt comfortable talking to, starting from 20-35. which kinda confused me (these are basicly exact conversations im going to say rn, the other stuff i cant really remember) me: "probably 20 maybe older if i know the person, definitely not 28 or older though." Lion: "oh I'm actually 28 lol, is that ok with you?" Me: "idk its not really good for a kid my age to be talking to someone your age" lion: " please? I promeise im not a bad person :(". after that he asked me weird questions and begged for me to stay with him which is really immature for a 28 year old. it should've been the other way around tbh, my young self begging to be friends with a "cool" 28 year old. He was also complementing me alot which could've been him trying to make me like him more so i would stay or just him being nice, i dont know what his intentions were but i blocked him and told the server owner to ban him cuz most of the others were kids aswell and thankfully the owner did.
This video was 2 years ago and sadly I was a victim of being touched as a young child (by a child) I was five in the kid was the age of 10 I viewed him as a friend because my mom trusted him and his mother he would go to the playground and touch me and my little sister who was four at the time he would have me take my clothes off and I moved from State to state so I have no allegations no proof no nothing against him it's been many years and that boy got away with it I still feel dirty and disgusted for what happened I feel disgusted in myself I feel like I enticed it but then again I remember that I was 5 and have real no control
I want to say something to add to this video, cause I've been through same thing ending it right as he was trying to get me to meet in person. NOT EVERYONE HAS AN OPEN LINE OF COMMUNICATION WITH TBEIR PARENTS! I never have. Instead i walk on eggshells on what i can an can't say without getting yelled at an isolated for being wrong. So when he says "Don't tell your parents" i shrug an say "why would i?" Cause my m9ther didn't want me dating or even having friends. And people seem to not understand just how deep someone can dig their claws from just words. How controlled you can become without even knowing....please stop blaming victims. Defending the abuser is why no one wants to say anything.....same with people getting bullied and etc.
Aycristene I always used to watch you when I was 7 and 6 though I don't watch you anymore I'm still glad that you went to 89k to 706k keep up the good work and I hope you continue growing
You know what illy dose deserve better yes it’s scary but you need to let others know and she did the right thing like saying “Go tell your family” And “leave me alone” You got to make big dogs,bark small you can bring down the hater and bring up your friends and family show that your stronger then anyone that don’t want to see you happy Be strong everyone fans,family,friends,illy,christene and others who where dealt this situation STAY STRONG AND NEVER GIVE UP
I... experienced this, multiple times in multiple social media with other people from the ages of 8-15... and I’m always embarrassed to talk about it because I keep feeling like it’s my fault, like I should have been to one stop that shit. This is just so nauseating to me on multiple levels
I feel so bad for the little kids that go through this sorta stuff. I had a friend who had this sort of bad relationship but the worse part was the guy hurting her like this WAS RELATED TO ME and I had no idea until years later, just goes to show you just cant trust people no matter if they're family. This is why I got trust issues
I only turned 13, 1 month ago and I remember after I 11 I found an online girlfriend I thought she was amazing, but she wanted ALL my attention I was never able to see anyone and I would stay up all night long trying to stop her from killing her self. She would cut on video calls with me. It doesn’t matter how old you are no one should have to go through what me and illy went through. Doesn’t matter if you 20 or 7 NO ONE should have to stay up all night or send photos to stop someone from ending it. And if this is happening to you please tell someone it’s not worth it. Trust me. Stay safe
I'm glad we have youtubers like aychristene who have a upbeat joking personality, but are still very understanding of these types of topics that go on. Anyways amazing video as always
When I first watched this, I was uncomfortable with sexual content and exposing myself and watching this video on Illymations, helped me learn about what’s safe and what’s dangerous in relationships and I actually felt stronger because of this video because it helped me face the dangers of an intimate or romantic relationship. Thank you so much for teaching us about this Illy, god bless you. Please take care of yourself, sister
the little guy talking back to her was supposed to be the "devil's advocate" because he had a picture of a little devil guy right above the word "advocate"
I went through the same things she did, at the same age too, it only lasted for a few months because while I did have his death over my head as a threat he was all the way across the other side of the world and the thing that makes my story way less intense is that he was ACTUALLY my age and in my situation there were some small things that were my fault and I'm not afraid to openly, with a non-biased or brainwashed mind admit that. But the whole situation was never my fault and I know that. My story isn't much compared to others who have experienced far worse and developed things like Stockholm syndrome FAR more than I did.
I dont know how Christene can be so calm Illy: He made me move to California Christene: Oh dear My reaction: Illy: He made me move to California Me: **I screamed btw outloud, my father probably thought I was dying** WHAT?????!!!!
I know my comment is really late but, something similar happened to me as well when I was 12 - 14 the guy was in his mid to late 20s, he would tell me things that was uncomfy for me, tho it wasn't as easy as just blocking him because he made me think he knew where I lived and he threatened me
this happened to me I understand what it like to be precious into doing things you didn't want to do (you see i was in year 5 and they were in year 6 i met them in a time where i was ever low on self worth at first they were nice kind and supportive me but then they were thing that would set them off and I was the one to suffer because of it now I am still friends with them but they got help with their problems, I still look back on these moments and think I should has stopped this cause NO ONE DESERVES TO TAKE PLEASURE IN DISTORTING SELF CONFIDENCE LIKE THAT?!)
There was also another movie like "the perfect boyfriend " it was about a student forcing a teacher into a relationship, I forgot the name but I remember the story.
I'm really glad that my brother warned me about everything in the Internet. He said there were hackers, pedos, Creeps, and that I must be careful when using the Internet. And now I think I'm safe
I was 11 and at the time I believed that stuff from someone on Roblox. It was so bad that they almost convinced me to meet them somewhere, I never did. I relate to so much of this story, it was that bad. Just for future reference his roblox name is doctorjupiter1000 so block him. That person almost dragged me into a underage sex slave thing. My mom caught it in time though.
I have been through something like this but mine was shorter and I kind of like the guy as a friend but I stop talking to the guy and I'm now I'm with a boy who makes me feel loved and I love him.
6:28 I went through that with my ex gf she threatened to kill herself and or run Away if I broke up with her we eventually did break up and I'm so glad but she was a butt after that because she tried to get me suspended...for no reason
It's crazy how older men, and women do this to younger boys and girls. Seriously, why did our world have to come to this? Everyone has to be careful of what they do just because of these people.
*YOU BETTER BE BUFFER THEN MR. CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE*
-illymations
A Veeder same
*Perfect* 👌👌👌
Why am i seeing 666 in the amount of likes u have ;-;
Wow
Lol
Guy: Age is just a number!
Me: And Hell is just a sauna!
And Prison is just a room in which you can't escape from for God knows how many years!
Yeah, and waffles are just pixelated pancakes that haven’t fully loaded yet!!
@@NoName-ld7gg Be my friend?
Omg, this made me realize: Drawing is just scribbling neatly, and (most )sports are just people chasing things
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Sure. Friends? 😁
You know, I might have avoided an abusive relationship. This kid I didn't really know in school, asked me out, I said no. Multiple times. He kept harassing me and he kept saying, ' Don't tell anyone.'
It’s probably good that you said no
I hope you told someone. Either way, I'm glad you said no. That's classic predator behavior to try and break their victims down and some aren't so lucky to get away.
@@AyChristene Yeah it was good in the end. It got way more complicated than that, though. It's a really long story.
Eeveemation Studios me too. This happened about 2 years ago I wanna say. I was in Roblox playing musical chairs and I would sometimes accept random friend requests. One guy (I unfortunately forgot his username) sent me a random friend request and I accepted. You might think that’s dumb but I’ve done it a good amount of times and nothing happened. Besides just because some people are out to get you doesn’t mean everyone is. I still think that logic is true. He told me to follow him and he took me to a corner further away from everyone else. He then asked how old I was and I said 13. I don’t remember much of it but what I do remember is that he was really protective over me. Another guy came up to us and he said “back off bro”. Then I decided to be honest with him and told him that I wasn’t interested in being his girlfriend and that we could still be friends because I wanted to be nice. He begged me to take it back and used a lot of crying emojis. I just left the game and unfriended him. A few days later I get back into the game and then I see him coming towards me and I again left. I don’t remember his username but I wish I did. Thankfully that was an on an old account so I’m probably safe now.
Welp, now you've told more than 124 (current likes) people.
I'm 13 and if they told me not to tell my parents I would block him I get really paranoid
Danya Bezan, that’s exactly right
Never forget that everyone will say that but you never know until you are in the situation. Not going against anything you are saying and not being rude. Just adding x
I really hope so bby girl. Resist any sweet talk he would tell you, because it's for his personal gain.
Ice Cube said it best: C'mon let me whisper in your ear. Tell you all that 🐂💩that you want to hear.
I know from experience
congrats, you're in the video
8:21
Good, when I was younger a guy would always talk to me when I would take my brother to school, and eventually he told me not to tell anyone, so I would drop off my brother and walk home fast, he would try to talk to me but I just kept ignoring him, I was so shy back then...
That guy deserves public shaming .-.
one of the only times i accept that
where you force someone into humiliating themselves in public
by making them wear a sign on that says im a monster
or in this case a sign that says i m a pedophile A Veeder
I feel like all people who do what this guy did to Illy deserve public humiliation.
Daniel Daniar ...he got public shaming. This is public. This is RUclips
Daniel Daniar A
I really love illymation’s content and I’m really heated that she had to go through this
U really heated it XD is hated it learn to spell
Zai Bear I meant heated as in mad hated wouldn’t have made sense learn to not correct a sentence that is already correct before you come at me thank you have a nice day
@@cherrybomber3328 Maybe they used the right dipshit. Read the sentence again, and also, you spelled "you" wrong.
For some reason I read it like: I really love illymation’s content and now I’m this.
A Wild Doggo some people shorten the word “you” to “u” it’s just a phrase. Not a misspelling
Aww what happened to your wrist? Are you okay?
Also it sucks that ilymation went through this... I’m glad she left him
Im still not satisfied
That Bitch haris didnt get arrested
My mom has those she sometimes wears it I think it’s just for cramps and haris deserves to rot in prison
Ay Cristene i love how your not a fake reactor
Your you.
Your not a internet persona
And your personality is wounderful,
Hope ya read this
First comment to a wonderful person
God bless you 🙏
Whos HERE for the chaos
Im here for the chaos
I SAID WHOS HERE FOR THE CHAOS
Im here for the chaos!
XD lol got laughing lol
CHAOS!!!!!
Chaos chaos catch me if you can!!!!!!
*rude buster intensifys*
CHAOS!!!
*I’M HERE FOR THE CHAOS!*
**watches Jaiden Animations**
**Sees this**
**Clicks on immediately**
My name is JAYDEN but it is spelled how I spell it
Ok ik you don't care but sorryyyyyyyy
HELLLLLOOO AGAIN!!!!
YOU WATCH JAIDEN TOO?!?!?!?!??!?!
@@toby2633 hELL YES I LOVE JAIDEN!!
@@die3078 YESSS
Poor jaiden
She has parts 2 and 2.5 up now.
As someone whose been through an abusive relationship, oh boy it's so, so hard to get through and watching her videos was both wound opening/pulling off the scab, but cathartic.
For those still in bad places, you're not alone, you're strong and you ARE worth it, gods be damned on whatever your abuser says.
There are many moments where I am thinking I really respect you AyChristene! Because I really am reminded how smart you are and I look up to you as an adult, since I am in my last year of middle school and you give really great advice to your young audience.
She is so incredibly brave, to have the sheer guts to tell her story. I have the utmost respect for her and I encourage anyone in a similar situation to speak out immediately, to tell a trusted adult so you don't have to suffer alone.
F*** YA PRIVACY (i was laughing my butt off on the original) edit: censored because😀
The second one especially got me. I dunno, something about the tone.
The fuck ya chicken strips meme is going to age badly, but for the moment it was hilarious. It was a very informative video as well. Glad she shared her story.
It sounds wrong 😂
I'm so glad you're finally reacting to illy's story, most kids watching (you know, the ones that spam and bombard you with the same thing over and over-) dont know about these things.
I’m so glad she’s free from him but he forced so much onto her he even raped her. I hope if anyone is in this situation they talked to someone about it...
sadly its not that easy. as ppl put blame on the victim, more often then not. Or get scared.
Oh shit that’s what the parking garage but meant? Shit bro…
and now.. this is when we realize.... HUMANITY IS FFFFFFFUUUUUUU-
-clip from tabbes
Omg yes tabbes !! Love her as a fan !
Oh yeah hahaha
I remember something like this happen to me, I was also 13 years old.
My relationship with this abusive dude were only 3 months, I didn't send him nudes and pretty much outsmarted him and made a bunch of good excuses, he also threatened me that he will kill himself if I don't reply to him immediately, that's why I mostly sleep late those days. He kept posting suicidal thoughts on his profile. I tried my best to give him hope and believe in God. His family were Christians but somehow HE is not?
Once I finally looked through all his bullsh*t, I broke up with him and he was very mad at me, he started putting cuts in his arm and sent me a picture of it, bleeding a lot, I was traumatized, I decided to fake an injury and told him that I'm gonna have to "sell my phone" so I could get enough money to pay for my "injuries", I left that app for good since then. I don't know if he's still alive but thinking about it kept haunting me for months.
Ever since my friend told me that if he actually killed himself, it's not gonna be my fault but his, those words got my problem to disappear.
Also, I'm 14 years old now, our "relationship" started on January and ended on March after finishing my studies for Grade 7.
When I saw both of her videos(illy)
My heart wanna CRY
My brain wanna FIGHT
Same
Man, that was a difficult story to watch. Makes me kinda glad when I was 13, I saw everyone else online besides me were predators. I had very low self-esteem at that point and thought everyone hated me ( including family and friends). Majority of the guys that I liked in the past were not the good type and literally, I was saved from almost being a side girl for a guy that was already in a relationship. So far I have never been an actual relationship, but I have a story of one guy that I liked where we almost got into a relationship but it was so toxic that I had to stop talking to him. And no he didn't say nasty words to me or anything it was just emotionally draining.
When I was 15, I just starting to get into video game live streaming. I was watching someone playing FNAF 4 on Twitch. I didn't really talk to anybody much but after being on that chat room with other people on that channel and also seeing the same people for a different live stream, I decided that I could possibly make some friends here. Since I have two friends online (that are girls) and are the sweetest and respectful people that I have ever met ( i have video chatted with both of the btw so they're legit) One of them is my best friend. She kinda wished that I would make more friends since I'm a very introverted person and the only people that I really wanted to talk to is them. So I decided to make friends and became the person that would give hugs to people in the chat. That's when I met him. When we started talking he told me that he was from England and he was 15. We started out as friends playing games on steam with each other. A few weeks after getting to know him, I started to have feelings for him. After I told him that I like him, he told me that he liked me too. So after that, we were acting like we were in "puppy love" and getting to know each other. At first, I was really hesitant cause I've heard the good and the bad of online dating (somehow the forces of above heard my big mouth about me saying that I don't understand people that I don't understand people who date online), but I thought it was worth the try. After a few months, I found out that most of the things that I like, he either hates it or is allergic. Opposites attract right? Another thing I found out that he was very clingy. During this time of my life, I never had a guy liked me back before and I was clingy myself because I thought that if I didn't keep people that cared about me close that they would leave me. So I decided to deal with him since I somehow thought that I could help him with his issues. This guy had a lot of issues to the point where there were times I was on my phone or my computer trying to calm him down and basically being a therapist to him. We did video chat with each other, but I barely was able to hear his voice or see him for only a couple of times because he was afraid that his mom was going to see him. We also were thinking about the future ( meeting each other, marriage, kids etc) We even made sims of each other and made them have kids.*(remember we were still kids at this time)*. I basically through all things that I really wanted in guy out the door only because he was the first guy that liked me. Regardless, the amount of how incompatible we were and that neither of us was ready for a relationship. During those times when I wasn't talking to him, I grew into the person that I am today. I learned that people will come and go in my life, but the people that really matter would stay. I learned to control myself and not become so clingy anymore. The guy, on the other hand, didn't change. I felt like I basically had to be his therapist for most of the time and someone that he depended on. It was only one day after months of dealing with it, I got tired and stopped talking to him. After a few days, I went back to check my messages and he sent me a bunch talking about how he's sorry and how he'll change if I just came back. He even said that I didn't want to be with him that he understood. I was already feeling so much anxiety with him because I kept him a secret from my friends and family and I didn't want to lie to them. So after that, I messaged him this long speech telling him that we need to just be friends. He didn't take it well and beg me some more and said that he'll do better to make me stay with him, but if I still wanted to be friends so I stayed. After a while it was talking to him, I slowly started to talk to him less, After months of this, I finally had the courage of telling him that I just wanted to be friends because I felt that I needed to meet other guys here and to grow out of my shell and date someone without any anxiety. Even though we weren't really dating, my mind somehow believed that I was betrothed to him or something. I sent him this long message about both of us needing to work out own own things and that we won't work. We became friends. After a few weeks, stopped talking to him for a year. When I messaged him after a year, He changed a lot. He fixed some of his issues and he actually got himself a girlfriend. We both apologized to each other about what happened when we liked each other. To this day, I still talk to him from time to time but I don't want to go back into a relationship with him. Although he was and is a really nice guy, I just was much better off being just friends with him
The lesson of the story is : DON'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOUR LONELY AND DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS.
As I was looking back at my messages just now, for some reason, even though I was friends with this guy *I WAS STILL TALKING TO THIS GUY LIKE I WANTED TO BE MORE THAN FRIENDS WITH HIM* I don't even remember why I was still talking to this guy that I felt that wasn't good for me. I guess I thought that I really needed to get away from him in order for me to grow
*This is the long message that I told him* This is me at 16 btw
should probably tell you this so we can both be on the same page
Look
I do like you and all, but today had made me realize
That I think we should just be friends
I realize that I want to continue my life and see how it goes
Meaning I want to see if i could actually meet other people here and to get out of my shell more
I feel like if i go though with us now that it would be mostly because i would be afraid of not finding anyone else besides you
And that I would turn every guy here that asks me out bc I made an commitment to be with you
And tbh i actually feel like ive been/going to be doing that
I want to fall in love and be someone without any doubt or worry
and I think you deserve better
Both of us do
I want you to be happy
But i also want you to get out of your shell too
I feel like this wouldn't do both of us any good
This is too much for the both of us
We need to spread out our wings and start learning how to fly
We can't just be living in fear all of our lives
You need to start talking to people more And to turn the other cheek when people make fun of you
Any of what they say is not you
You know who you are
And you need to find yourself
And see the truth from the lie
I need to start gaining to be a little bit more outgoing
Enough to talk to new people
But enough to know where the boundaries are
Right now I'm still in highschool
I need to live my life
Of course I'll have my worries
But i feel like i shouldn't agree into a relationship now and worry about it as the years go bye
Plz understand
I'm doing this for the both of us
We need to be a little more outgoing
Fear shouldn't be the center of our lives
When i went to go see a movie with my mom, I asked her why does did a couple in the movie become a couple in the first place when, they didn't have anything in common at all.
She told me that when you staying around in one place for a long time and not going around anywhere, you tend to settle for what you have, instead of going out and finding it.
That made me think
I don't want to settle
I don't want to be with someone out of the fact that I might never have the same chance again
Or that their right there
I want to be with someone bc of out of all the guys that I met, that one is the one that im most happy to be with
I want to be free
Sure I'll be heartbroken one time or a couple, but i have a feeling that I'll find that special someone
And I think the same will happen to you
You'll find that person
I was in a abusive relationship with my cat. He won’t stop scratching me
Artisticsalazar UNDERATED
Oof lol 🤣 I feel the same
I wish that these things didn’t happen. But, they do. It could happen to you. Be careful. Block them. Something. I don’t think that these things will ever end. You can’t have good without bad. I’m sorry, it’s how life is. I’m sorry to anyone who has dealt with this or with something just as bad. Have a great day/night/life.💕
You should watch her part two "how I left my abusive boyfriend" :3
I’ve been in two relationships. One with a girl and the other with boy. As a cancer(my zodiac)when I get into a relationship I try to make them not leave me because I’m very emotional and loving so I don’t want them to die or break up with me. Now that you know that both of these people who I was in a relationship with both threatened to commit suicide and both cut themselves I had no idea why and blamed myself saying I wasn’t loving them enough so they didn’t want to stay.. My first relationship texted me when they wanted to kill themselves or showed me pics of their cuts.. the other just said and showed the exact things at school though. I tried every time convincing them to stop and sometimes it worked(on the suicide tellings) sometimes it didn’t(convincing them not to cut) I felt like I couldn’t leave them because I’d be heartbroken and they’d probably not stop and would actually do suicide. So I basically guilted myself into staying. Both of them I’m not in a relationship with anymore but man I’d cry when they told me that stuff. I hope you enjoyed this little story of mine... I never considered this a toxic relationship because i considered it mostly me being super mean to myself so I’d guilt myself into staying and not their threatens to kill themselves.
I hope nobody else ever has to feel this way or be in a relationship like that. If you find yourself in a relationship like that break it off quickly before you do what it did I hope this warns anyone else. Have a good day/night
I am so glad she is informing and not doing it for entertainment! This should DEFINITELY be heard! I’m with you illy!
4:29 basically he was saying that he makes him feel suicadal when she doesn't text him, and pressured her to stay on with him 24/7
I dealt with something very similar to this for years. They lived in the same area as me and we went to the same school and even some classes. They used the same techniques as Harris. To be clear they weren't a pedophile, they were my age. Now thinking back to it I found it unbelievable that someone my age could even do this. They were mentally and sometimes even physically abusive to those around them. It was hard to leave because they were my "friend" (which I had also dated.) I would give up anything for this person. At the time I hadn't gone through a falling out or even just standing up for myself. I was too soft, too sympathetic. I use to blame myself and apologize for them. I wish I would've ended it, but our relationship was messy. It was like I need their validation, I had become dependent. Once I started to "revolt" they became angrier and frustrated. They needed their target to be content with their abuse as sad as it sounds. They ended our relationship casting me aside like nothing even happened. They pretended I didn't exist which at the time was mental torture, but It made me realize how bad our relationship was and how I needed to seek help. During that time I met my current girlfriend along with people who make me feel happy for just simply being me. I love them so much. It is important for people going through this to know they can escape even when it may seem impossible and that they aren't to blame for their abuser's behavior. If you know someone or you yourself are dealing with this, seek help. Cut ties. Tell others. Surround yourself with people who make you happy and appreciate you. It may sound simple, but it honestly works. Even if it takes years it is important to know someone is there for you. -
Hindsight is 20/20, you know? I feel so bad for her!!
Edit: What the heck? I got liked... I don't really know why, but who am I to look a gift horse in the mouth? Thank you!
tw because this is kind of a vent !!!
ive never had an abusive relationship like this. but i had a manipulative friendship group that also VERY often threatened suicide. i was 11 staying up until 4 am keeping teenagers alive from the other side of the country. we nearly got AN ADULT to kill themselves and i imagine if the attempt worked that they would put it in my hands. i was a therapist. an 11 year old saving 13-17 year olds “but you should be proud of yourself!! you saved lives!!” but at what cost??? i lost my relationship with my parents, my hygiene, my health, i couldn’t take care of myself.
ilys ex: dont tell ur parents about us.
ily: y-
ilys ex: cuz were like romeo and juliet
ily: ok G R O O M E R
I predict that she's gonna get mad around about...
10 million times 👍
Is dat you? This is poo btw
@@kevinly7804 yep
*gasp* also the phone dropped in the toilet.Tomorrow maybe...
@@kevinly7804 ight
Christene you're such a wonderful person. I enjoy listening to your insightful thoughts and opinions.
I actually met someone on roblox (who is now my online friend) and at one point he said "When I meet you I wanna marry you!"
I honestly thought it was adorable cuz he was actually a year younger than me XD he also gave up trying to get me lol
It boils my blood when you try to tell someone something that you're passionate about, or upset about, or something you're proud of, and they just reply with "did i ask"
I connect so much more with Illy way more after I found I was also a victim of grooming- and attempted child trafficing- I was 14 and they said they were my age [specifically 15-17] but they weren't, I later found out they were pushing 30's- as of now him and his friend are both being watched by police- :/ I'm happy abt it- but I'm still scared-
I met my boyfriend when I was 14 and he was 16, now I'm 16 and he's 18 but he's never tried to get pictures out of me or blame me for stuff. He's never threatened me or push me out of my comfort zone. He understands and isn't like that.
We have something in common already. I have an online boyfriend, and he never asked me to do stuff that made me uncomfortable
Im 10 and if someone said to me dont tell anyone i would delete the app and never think about it again
Nala is howling at the moon OMG kid, don't put your age out where people can see!
@@preston2183 im 13 you have problem with that why?
Rosy The fox 283 : PERSONAL INFORMATION IS WHY!
im okay with it
age revealing when you’re at such an age exposes you as being someone potentially more naive and easier to manipulate than an older person
be careful
you'll be angry 8 times...
my guess
actually i think 27 times XD
"age is just a number"
Ya and
A jail cell is just a room
Prison is just a building
And death is just a statement.
I honestly think someone was trying to groom me once. I dont really have peoof that he/she was trying to but ill just tell the story.
(This all happened a month or two ago) I was in some server on discord (which the server wasent the best at the time because there were basicly no bots or mods to keep watch of things) and many people usually joined, but one time this person joined (I'll can call him lion because he had a lion profile, not his real user i honestly forgot it lmao) and he was pretty normal he said hi in the server so i said hi back because i was online and bored. Then he private messaged me. (Most likely because i replied to him in the server) He said hi to me and i replied back and he said i seemed nice and i replied with "thanks!" He then went on and asked me normal ish questions, he asked if i was younger or older and at the time i thought nothing of it because he didnt ask for my exact age so i told him i was younger. He then asked me what my age preffrence i felt comfortable talking to, starting from 20-35. which kinda confused me (these are basicly exact conversations im going to say rn, the other stuff i cant really remember) me: "probably 20 maybe older if i know the person, definitely not 28 or older though." Lion: "oh I'm actually 28 lol, is that ok with you?" Me: "idk its not really good for a kid my age to be talking to someone your age" lion: " please? I promeise im not a bad person
:(". after that he asked me weird questions and begged for me to stay with him which is really immature for a 28 year old. it should've been the other way around tbh, my young self begging to be friends with a "cool" 28 year old. He was also complementing me alot which could've been him trying to make me like him more so i would stay or just him being nice, i dont know what his intentions were but i blocked him and told the server owner to ban him cuz most of the others were kids aswell and thankfully the owner did.
it was genuinely heartbreaking how near the end you could hear the close to tears voice from her
5:44 this is a start of a teaching moment I guess I’m back in school
This video was 2 years ago and sadly I was a victim of being touched as a young child (by a child) I was five in the kid was the age of 10 I viewed him as a friend because my mom trusted him and his mother he would go to the playground and touch me and my little sister who was four at the time he would have me take my clothes off and I moved from State to state so I have no allegations no proof no nothing against him it's been many years and that boy got away with it I still feel dirty and disgusted for what happened I feel disgusted in myself I feel like I enticed it but then again I remember that I was 5 and have real no control
I want to say something to add to this video, cause I've been through same thing ending it right as he was trying to get me to meet in person.
NOT EVERYONE HAS AN OPEN LINE OF COMMUNICATION WITH TBEIR PARENTS! I never have. Instead i walk on eggshells on what i can an can't say without getting yelled at an isolated for being wrong. So when he says "Don't tell your parents" i shrug an say "why would i?" Cause my m9ther didn't want me dating or even having friends. And people seem to not understand just how deep someone can dig their claws from just words. How controlled you can become without even knowing....please stop blaming victims. Defending the abuser is why no one wants to say anything.....same with people getting bullied and etc.
Guy: age is a just a number
Me: you know what else is, 911 *dialing noises*
Please!!! Watch the next video plsssss!!! 😭
watch the next one please~
Aycristene I always used to watch you when I was 7 and 6 though I don't watch you anymore I'm still glad that you went to 89k to 706k keep up the good work and I hope you continue growing
You know what illy dose deserve better yes it’s scary but you need to let others know and she did the right thing
like saying
“Go tell your family”
And “leave me alone”
You got to make big dogs,bark small you can bring down the hater and bring up your friends and family show that your stronger then anyone that don’t want to see you happy
Be strong everyone fans,family,friends,illy,christene and others who where dealt this situation
STAY STRONG AND NEVER GIVE UP
I would never give someone my full trusts, no matter how close we are I’ll give 4/5’s of it but the 1/5 belongs to me forever and always.
I... experienced this, multiple times in multiple social media with other people from the ages of 8-15... and I’m always embarrassed to talk about it because I keep feeling like it’s my fault, like I should have been to one stop that shit. This is just so nauseating to me on multiple levels
Same I really wish adults would stop blaming technology and victims and just educate their kids so they're safe
Please do part 2
I feel so bad for the little kids that go through this sorta stuff. I had a friend who had this sort of bad relationship but the worse part was the guy hurting her like this WAS RELATED TO ME and I had no idea until years later, just goes to show you just cant trust people no matter if they're family. This is why I got trust issues
Aychristene: For some people I hope it gets your uh.. spidey senses tingle"
Me:
Aka Peter tingle
My parents always told me if somebody tells you that you shouldn’t tell an adult or my parents to be cautious. And stop talking to them.
I only turned 13, 1 month ago and I remember after I 11 I found an online girlfriend I thought she was amazing, but she wanted ALL my attention I was never able to see anyone and I would stay up all night long trying to stop her from killing her self. She would cut on video calls with me.
It doesn’t matter how old you are no one should have to go through what me and illy went through. Doesn’t matter if you 20 or 7 NO ONE should have to stay up all night or send photos to stop someone from ending it.
And if this is happening to you please tell someone it’s not worth it. Trust me. Stay safe
I'm glad we have youtubers like aychristene who have a upbeat joking personality, but are still very understanding of these types of topics that go on. Anyways amazing video as always
I have depression,but I am getting over it thanks to u :)
I was watching that vid then u update dis :/
OMG YOU LIKE BFB? MEE TOO!
Aahh, ive seen both of her videos ! Theyre sad, and i hate that this happened to her :""00
Shes too precious and she didn't deserve thatttt
The Christmas intro is the only one that doenst give me a panic atack
When I first watched this, I was uncomfortable with sexual content and exposing myself and watching this video on Illymations, helped me learn about what’s safe and what’s dangerous in relationships and I actually felt stronger because of this video because it helped me face the dangers of an intimate or romantic relationship.
Thank you so much for teaching us about this Illy, god bless you.
Please take care of yourself, sister
When she said I was 13 and he was 17 I yelled so loud
YOU NEED TO SEE PART 2 AND 2.5
the little guy talking back to her was supposed to be the "devil's advocate" because he had a picture of a little devil guy right above the word "advocate"
I went through the same things she did, at the same age too, it only lasted for a few months because while I did have his death over my head as a threat he was all the way across the other side of the world and the thing that makes my story way less intense is that he was ACTUALLY my age and in my situation there were some small things that were my fault and I'm not afraid to openly, with a non-biased or brainwashed mind admit that. But the whole situation was never my fault and I know that. My story isn't much compared to others who have experienced far worse and developed things like Stockholm syndrome FAR more than I did.
You should watch the second part of this series
Bro I remember when a 19 year old tried to date me when I was like 9-10
I love your videos! Nice video!
*When he tells you not to tell anybody* GOTTA GO FAST!
romeo and juliet were a one day relationship that ended in a bunch of deaths. UMMM
I dont know how Christene can be so calm
Illy: He made me move to California
Christene: Oh dear
My reaction:
Illy: He made me move to California
Me: **I screamed btw outloud, my father probably thought I was dying** WHAT?????!!!!
My prediction
Angry counter: 6
I know my comment is really late but, something similar happened to me as well when I was 12 - 14 the guy was in his mid to late 20s, he would tell me things that was uncomfy for me, tho it wasn't as easy as just blocking him because he made me think he knew where I lived and he threatened me
Aychristene she just uploaded the next video to this series!!!U. SHOULD. GO. WATCH. IT.
That man named Haris is crazy and a monster. But Illymation Said that Haris is still out there.
I hqve had this happen to me 4 yreas ago I'm still stacryed of him
this happened to me I understand what it like to be precious into doing things you didn't want to do (you see i was in year 5 and they were in year 6 i met them in a time where i was ever low on self worth at first they were nice kind and supportive me but then they were thing that would set them off and I was the one to suffer because of it now I am still friends with them but they got help with their problems, I still look back on these moments and think I should has stopped this cause NO ONE DESERVES TO TAKE PLEASURE IN DISTORTING SELF CONFIDENCE LIKE THAT?!)
You should check out how I left my abusive bf
Guy: age is just a number! Me: sO iS 9l1
I am 13 and if this happened to me I would block him and report him. This kind of behavior is vile and cruel.
There was also another movie like "the perfect boyfriend " it was about a student forcing a teacher into a relationship, I forgot the name but I remember the story.
I'm really glad that my brother warned me about everything in the Internet. He said there were hackers, pedos, Creeps, and that I must be careful when using the Internet. And now I think I'm safe
The advocate is called the devils advocate, as in the defense lawyer in court. just because i noticed when you brought it up.
I'm guessing Christina will be angry about 500 times estimated
Love ya christene god bless you
Thx for the likes
Wow, I'm surprised you didn't punch your computer screen! XD I sure was ready to! I had to hold myself back from punching my phone!
I was 11 and at the time I believed that stuff from someone on Roblox. It was so bad that they almost convinced me to meet them somewhere, I never did. I relate to so much of this story, it was that bad. Just for future reference his roblox name is doctorjupiter1000 so block him. That person almost dragged me into a underage sex slave thing. My mom caught it in time though.
If someone said anything to me like that I'll tell my family and the police
I have been through something like this but mine was shorter and I kind of like the guy as a friend but I stop talking to the guy and I'm now I'm with a boy who makes me feel loved and I love him.
6:28 I went through that with my ex gf she threatened to kill herself and or run Away if I broke up with her we eventually did break up and I'm so glad but she was a butt after that because she tried to get me suspended...for no reason
I hate RUclips so much it unsubed me from the channel & I'm glad it popped up in my suggestions
Watch part 2
I watched this video before I felt really bad for her. I guess I wanted to see how another reacted. You earned yourself a subscriber.
Sadly 13 and 17 relationships are very common where I live and is the 13 that wants the most
It's crazy how older men, and women do this to younger boys and girls. Seriously, why did our world have to come to this? Everyone has to be careful of what they do just because of these people.
why haven't you made a reaction to the other parts of this series just wondering.
'illy hi i'm 13' 'haris well im.....I7' 'illy oh...'
This ALMOST happened to me lucky for me the time it happened I was talking with my friend so he helped me
This is something that kind of happened to me. My friend who is a year younger did this to me.