How do you envision your circumstances ever changing? You’ve been in this same position for years so I’m asking genuinely what is your plan to improve your own quality of life? What are you doing to help yourself get out of this state/cycle?
@@BoboCoOfficial ok but since your last housing crisis when you struggled to fund your move, what changes have you made or what have you don’t to put yourself in a better position for this time? Or even independently be able to afford your bills without asking on Instagram for ppl to donate? It seems you aren’t actually doing anything to evolve in anyway and I’m genuinely curious if you envision this being how your life is for the rest of your years? And if so why don’t you feel like you deserve better? Deserve to put the effort in for yourself to have a better existence? You did an access course n dropped out.. you talked about uni but never went.. you were sad about losing your volunteering job but haven’t considered applying for a similar paid role? Do you budget better than before? I can’t claim anything about that as I haven’t seen how you spend money for a long time but in the past you have shown poor financial management. Instead of always wanting short term fixes and to be saved by followers when you even admit you “can’t be arsed” to even make a video for those followers.. why don’t you think longer term and aim for a better quality of life
@@moll3933 instead of being so negative why dont u sent some resources for her like for her country or maybe instead of judging someone with DID maybe understand that without a support team or guidance and therapy she obviously cant finance right now thanks to jerks attacking her, its hard to manage finances! Amnesia causes a lot of issues without help! Be kind and stop making them feel like they are useless when they are not! Fight with someone stronger not someone already struggling all alone! Makes you look real good. Phhh
Frozen food is more expensive. Dried food like pasta or noodles is super cheap especially if you buy it in bulk for a couple quid. I really recommend finding part time work, focusing less on making your struggles your income (social media won’t make you money, you’ve been doing this for years now) and ask UC for budgeting support so that you can afford to use your oven. Watch some videos on food shopping on a budget! There’s lots of free courses you can do if you’re on UC as well. You can do it but you have to try to change what you’ve been doing because it’s not working. I mean this with the best intentions Bo but you need to change things, I know there’s work out there you can do, you weren’t like this before you started focusing on your mental illness. Please just realise you are capable of making the changes that you wish someone else would make for you.
Im so sorry, I wish u lived here in the US, as have so many resources I could provide you. The assessments and programs here are so helpful. You deserve care and compassion. Those that are using this horrible disorder for income and glam are being reported here in the US. I am Bringing awareness to the universities and therapists and others like us and they are reporting the content. I wish some using this disorder acually knew the pain behind it. Stay strong bobo. You deserve better. Keep your chin up and dont give up. What these people did to real sufferers and sticking to there cult like community will be there downfall. Be yourself, love yourself and your alters, hugs😊
We are so sorry for your actual situation Bo...we would love to help you out but we are more or less in the same deep shit situation as you... We systems, or we people with mental disorders ever get in such shitty situations... I hate this world and meanwhile there are people faking disorders getting lots of money while spreading missinformation, getting into dramas and just being @#№(@(#( that uses people with real problems for views and after let them hanging... I Really hate this world....
Omg, I feel so bad for you, really. Sadly, me and my gf are so poor that we are only eating one meal a day (most of these meals being cheap 60p cans btw sooo.. yeee, not amazing). I wouldve loved to donate something to you to help you.. Me and my gf suffer from DID and OSDD respectively and we have been struggling with money, housing and jobs for 4 years. We also own a young cat. We have been from racist accomodations (we're both white but we got kicked out cus Im French.. wut-) to an ab&sive LandLady who stole our rations and was so nasty to us and threatened to hurt us (we called the police but she played the innocent card and somehow it always worked..). Thank life, my gf's mother has found us a place to live in which is a friend's house we are now renting. We are slowly getting more and more money by playing games, selling adoptables online and getting help from the gouvernment, thankfully. Rn, we just have enough to have one meal per day and everything else goes to our cat. I am physically and mentally disabled so trying to get a job is a nightmare.. but the light at the end of the tunnel is slowly getting brighter for us which makes us so frickin happy. Also your cat is adorable
Yt randomly reccomended this. I hv choosen to join the community for u my frnd. Don't stop. There's still a community for u. Maybe it's smaller than ever, but who cares? Shit happens. You shouldn't let stats and numbers define your life. Let yo passion define yo life my man.
Hey lovely look into Housing support fund and Discretionary Housing Fund by your local council 😊 and British gas is currently having a grant applications open for everyone not just their customers 😊 hopefully you find some help
How do you envision your circumstances ever changing? You’ve been in this same position for years so I’m asking genuinely what is your plan to improve your own quality of life? What are you doing to help yourself get out of this state/cycle?
Im literally being evicted, were doing all we can but its hard when life throws this shit at you, we have less than 3 weeks left
@@BoboCoOfficial ok but since your last housing crisis when you struggled to fund your move, what changes have you made or what have you don’t to put yourself in a better position for this time? Or even independently be able to afford your bills without asking on Instagram for ppl to donate? It seems you aren’t actually doing anything to evolve in anyway and I’m genuinely curious if you envision this being how your life is for the rest of your years? And if so why don’t you feel like you deserve better? Deserve to put the effort in for yourself to have a better existence? You did an access course n dropped out.. you talked about uni but never went.. you were sad about losing your volunteering job but haven’t considered applying for a similar paid role? Do you budget better than before? I can’t claim anything about that as I haven’t seen how you spend money for a long time but in the past you have shown poor financial management. Instead of always wanting short term fixes and to be saved by followers when you even admit you “can’t be arsed” to even make a video for those followers.. why don’t you think longer term and aim for a better quality of life
@@moll3933 im fkn barely holding on rn i dont need this
@@BoboCoOfficial been the same for years though is the point. You can live a better life than this, I hope you realise one day n grow up a little bit
@@moll3933 instead of being so negative why dont u sent some resources for her like for her country or maybe instead of judging someone with DID maybe understand that without a support team or guidance and therapy she obviously cant finance right now thanks to jerks attacking her, its hard to manage finances! Amnesia causes a lot of issues without help! Be kind and stop making them feel like they are useless when they are not! Fight with someone stronger not someone already struggling all alone! Makes you look real good. Phhh
Frozen food is more expensive. Dried food like pasta or noodles is super cheap especially if you buy it in bulk for a couple quid. I really recommend finding part time work, focusing less on making your struggles your income (social media won’t make you money, you’ve been doing this for years now) and ask UC for budgeting support so that you can afford to use your oven. Watch some videos on food shopping on a budget! There’s lots of free courses you can do if you’re on UC as well. You can do it but you have to try to change what you’ve been doing because it’s not working. I mean this with the best intentions Bo but you need to change things, I know there’s work out there you can do, you weren’t like this before you started focusing on your mental illness. Please just realise you are capable of making the changes that you wish someone else would make for you.
We know, honestly, were trying to escape
@@BoboCoOfficial it’s not easy but nothing worth doing is easy. I was in your position once, I know you can do it!
Im so sorry, I wish u lived here in the US, as have so many resources I could provide you. The assessments and programs here are so helpful. You deserve care and compassion. Those that are using this horrible disorder for income and glam are being reported here in the US. I am Bringing awareness to the universities and therapists and others like us and they are reporting the content. I wish some using this disorder acually knew the pain behind it. Stay strong bobo. You deserve better. Keep your chin up and dont give up. What these people did to real sufferers and sticking to there cult like community will be there downfall. Be yourself, love yourself and your alters, hugs😊
We are so sorry for your actual situation Bo...we would love to help you out but we are more or less in the same deep shit situation as you... We systems, or we people with mental disorders ever get in such shitty situations... I hate this world and meanwhile there are people faking disorders getting lots of money while spreading missinformation, getting into dramas and just being @#№(@(#( that uses people with real problems for views and after let them hanging... I Really hate this world....
Im so sorry to hear youre in a similar situation! 😔 sending so much love and luck to you 🩷
@@BoboCoOfficial The only difference is we still having power...and we have 3 weeks until eviction here in germany...
yea.. death day set. $100 to our name and littles are even beyond comforting .. totally get it
Hopefully something will turn up, something not-totally-crappy.
Omg, I feel so bad for you, really. Sadly, me and my gf are so poor that we are only eating one meal a day (most of these meals being cheap 60p cans btw sooo.. yeee, not amazing). I wouldve loved to donate something to you to help you..
Me and my gf suffer from DID and OSDD respectively and we have been struggling with money, housing and jobs for 4 years. We also own a young cat. We have been from racist accomodations (we're both white but we got kicked out cus Im French.. wut-) to an ab&sive LandLady who stole our rations and was so nasty to us and threatened to hurt us (we called the police but she played the innocent card and somehow it always worked..).
Thank life, my gf's mother has found us a place to live in which is a friend's house we are now renting. We are slowly getting more and more money by playing games, selling adoptables online and getting help from the gouvernment, thankfully. Rn, we just have enough to have one meal per day and everything else goes to our cat. I am physically and mentally disabled so trying to get a job is a nightmare.. but the light at the end of the tunnel is slowly getting brighter for us which makes us so frickin happy.
Also your cat is adorable
Oh bo, im so sorry. Being so very cold is awful. I wish so much things weren't this hard
Life is hard, thanks for keep sharing your life with us
Yt randomly reccomended this. I hv choosen to join the community for u my frnd. Don't stop. There's still a community for u. Maybe it's smaller than ever, but who cares? Shit happens. You shouldn't let stats and numbers define your life. Let yo passion define yo life my man.
I sent you a little something to your go fund me, Hope that helps! We will keep you in our prayers.
We're in the US. How can we help?
We have a few links in the description, and also memberships! Your support is enough if thats all you can give, thankyou for being here 🩷
Hey lovely look into Housing support fund and Discretionary Housing Fund by your local council 😊 and British gas is currently having a grant applications open for everyone not just their customers 😊 hopefully you find some help
Oh wow, okay thankyou!
Lit a green candle for you, and we’ll hang out watching your videos today 🍀 you won’t lose this subscriber
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I wish I could help 😢