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Just for a quick recap 1. You stand up for others 2. You're a natural born leader 3. You are a great mediator 4. You think things through 5. You always tell the truth 6. You're an active listener 7. You're fiercely independent 8. You want meaningful relationships
1. Eh, I guess. 2. Not a leader, not the most confident but I can help with things. 3. Not a mediator. I like to stay out of drama most of the time, I'll knock something's on the head, especially if it's effecting me but I prefer to stay out of trouble and let people work through their own things. I draw the line at bullying tho, see point 1. 4. I suppose. Might think too much and do too little at times. 5. No. I am not afraid to lie or withhold the truth. Maybe that's me being honest lol. 6. Yeh, I prefer to listen than talk. I am not a big talker anyway. 7. Ha yeh. I prefer to keep to myself. 8. Yeh, I keep very few friends, I don't mind not having loose or casual friendships but it's easier to invest in someone who wants to be close because I otherwise like to just keep to myself. So am I a HSP lol.. 😂
1. Yea, depends on who the person is 2. Now leading my family's business. Not very good at it though. 3. I can only give my own advice and inputs if they come to me personally one on one. I don't think I'm great. 4. Oh definitely. It can take me days or weeks. My dad warned me it might lead me to being ill though. 5. I was too honest once and it destroyed my relationship. It's still hard for me to lie and rather tell the truths though. 6. Yes. I have many friends that told me that before. 7. Not at all. But I do make my own decisions and rarely regret them. 8. Yes. With the current life I'm leading it's almost impossible to find them.
hahhaahaah you're not the only one friend! but , all that matters is that you try! the rest don't take it personally, leave your mark in the world and let the world do whatever it wants with it! you are priceless my friend!! lots of love!!
I never thought about this before. I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders. I feel very frustrated with what's happening in the world and take it to heart. I have a very strong sense of " doing the right thing" I also wear my heart on my sleeve. It's difficult to be in my head at times, and I feel injustice to others on a very personal level.
hi kindred soul !! me too, I've always marvelled at the many contradictions I recognise in myself and I only recently beginning to understand my situation!!
HSP is a blessing and a curse at times . Sometimes I just want to remove myself and shut out the world because I care too much . I may look like the top dog, but I always felt like the underdog , cause I relate with them better and stand up for them .
I feel blessed to know that I am an HSP with a strong personality. I just found out that i’m an HSP earlier, but was so confused by being described. HSP hates confrontation, but finally i found that there’s an HSP with a strong personality which is definitely me😭
the reason i don't hate confrontation is because i've always hated it when people started problems and they never solve it and would rather wish it to go away than do something to resolve it. (especially my parents) which resulted in me always confronting the issues i have at hand rather than ignoring them.
I think I realised that I am an HSP but I became an HSP with a strong personality when I grew up 😊😊. I think I was just kept under so much control growing up and taken advantage of. That I just had to be strong but I'm happy I didn't lose my HSP nature.
Glad u feel like that! I relate to most of the things in the video and this part of me especially the confutation?? gets me in trouble like conflicts and even lost friends and opportunities.:(
@SNW same!! I thought I wasnt really strong bcuz I feel a lot more compared to others but sometimes I surprised myself for taking charge at times when needed... This video just explains a lot and makes it clearer of who I am. “To be soft and strong all at once, is a rare and beautiful gift” This made my heart go uwu🥺😭💜💜💜💕☺️💛💙💖💗💘💗🥺😭
1. You stand up for what's right. 2. Natural leader. 3. You're a great mediator. 4. You think things through. 5. You always tell the truth. 6. You're an active listener. 7. You're fiercely independent. 8. You want meaningful relationship.
idk if i am hsp but i still remember this one of my classmate touch my ear because i have something in my ear it's called "kuntil" idk what's the eng of that but when i was young i don't tie my hair because im so insecure about something in my ear )): now that im getting older i wanna embrace my flaws and be confident abt it but im too shy lolol
The video describes me so perfectly. I didn't realize that this was a thing, so the video caught me off guard. I'd been told my whole life that I'm strange for having this combination of traits, and often the conversation only happened in unflattering tones. I appreciate that this video points out that this combination of traits can be a superpower if we so choose to wield it properly.
Same .Also There is a thing with my mom. Whenever I do smth wrong she blames me and says how stupid I am. And that i am unfortunately gonna end up marrying some stupid guy and many other things. It is really hurtful for me to hear. Lately it's gotten worse. Sorry for my english
@@rauanamadiarova4832 Sorry to hear that. Sometimes our loved ones can say very hurtful things without even realizing it. Try having a talk with your mom and say to her how do you feel, if that doesnt help... be strong and know that you are your own person and that you are awesome. We cannot please everyone in our life, even our parents. Take care.
I don’t think they mean that they rather be a listener than a talker, but could still listen. I think I am one too. I listen very well but I also like to talk here and there.
I feel like I might be one too, but considering myself being above average in anything makes me deny it the more I think about it and its not exactly very likely that I could be even if I mostly fit the bill with some minor acceptations. *Maybe just a coincidence*
I never realised i was an HSP until i saw these videos. For a long time i felt like the odd sort who couldnt understand why they were feeling even the tiniest things so deeply or why my brain worked the way it worked. Thanks so much for giving these vids💚...it sort of unlocked a part of me that i tried to keep hidden for a very long time.
1. You stand up for what's right. 2. You're a natural leader. 3. You're a great mediator. 4. You think things through. 5. You always tell the truth. 6. You're an active listener. 7. You're fiercely independent. 8. You want meaningful relationships.
I was a "born leader". All my teachers said so. But after being bullied and going through a lot of other trauma's, I changed. That's why I don't really know if bad things make you stronger.. Edit: okay normally i hate these kinds of edits but.. I did not expect to receive all these sweet comments and stories. Thank you i’ve read everything and wish everyone the best of luck! 💕
It does if you want to. What you said happened to me as well. But "God" has given you signs to go forward and do your best. Recognize them, you probably have some good examples in your life. Take control of your life. You'll get there.
It's all about the perspective you decide to take upon that event that makes you stronger : You decide to make peace with past, forgive and forge both other and yourself in order to move on and become the person you truely desire to become.
It's crazy how people talk about me behind my back, then when these same people need help I'm here forgiving. Honestly its tiring at this point 🙈 @Darko, be who you are and accept your flaws and strengths. Your strong right now being open and honest to stranger's on the internet, don't allow bullies to put their knee on your neck, take the wrong doer to the side and call them out. Be cautious that some people will agitate you even more, stand up for yourself anyway. Everytime I've stood up for myself it always ended in a fight, I'm still standing 💖
I am just like you, I thought I would never lead again. Surprisingly, this year I became a leader in a new place, so never give up!! You got it into you!
I cried through the whole video because i finaly felt understood. EVERY point fits to me and i never understood why i'm so sensitive, an empath and still so confident and aware of myself and now i have a name for it. thank you so much!
0:57 you stand up for what's right. 1:24 you're a natural leader. 2:02 you're a great mediator 2:39 you think things through. 3:15 you always tell the truth. 3:38 you're an active listener. 4:09 you're fiercely independent. 4:36 you want meaningful relationships.
Same. I always wished my friends made the damn decision instead of me. I hate being followed lol . I always , and still end up being the one who makes plans and makes decisions, because they just CANNOT do it themselves. Its annoying as hell lol
My hole life I’m hoping for someone who could be my soulmate. Someone I could talk about the past, the future, dreams, questions, feelings we have and so much more without getting bored of each other. Is there someone else ?
I think that also. And I learned that don't beg to much it can tear you down, I was once told from someone to look, wait and be surprised. Besides...soul mates always come for you at the right time!...right? If it feels hard you can tell a friend or family member about how you feel about all this! Don't be scared to.
jesus this actually makes me feel like i’m not alone. i thought something was so horribly wrong with me as a person and as a woman. i’m really proud to have this personality type. sticking true to who i am 💕
I’m so impressed with the accuracy of this video describing my personality. I think it’s confusing for others to see that I am vulnerable and also very strong. I also have, over the years, lost many friends until I have had only a small group of genuine people I adore. I am a deep thinker for sure, and chose my career because I could mediate the darker angels in people. I appreciate this video for making me feel understood :)
That's the hard part for me.. I don't feel satisfied with most friend groups even when the circumstances seem ideal.. it has to be just right for me to see potential with anybody, since I don't think the general public will come to rely on me/want my presence specially in their lives.. How is it that people are so bonded I'm larger friend groups, in a sweet and authentic way, when it means there's too many members to keep track of and look after?
Loosing friends is a big trait! Of this because we are confident and friendly so make easy friendships but we don't stand for bull so when see it in people we either call it out or shut down towards them. The best part is that we eventually get a genuine pool of people 🙂 it's a great filter. Seems like a curse at the time lol.
Just today I was not in a good place and was questioning myself that why I am so sensitive and also why I don't break down like other do because even when I am hurt I always strive to find ways to feel better. But after seeing this video I was able to connect. I guess HSP and strong personality is not a weird combination that I was thinking.
I was smiling while watching the entire video. This somehow, explained my whole personality and now, I can totally embrace my thought-weakness which is being sensitive ❤️
Woaaaa I've been dealing my whole life with my personality: i'd never understand why I was so sensitive with every situation in my life but at the same time everyone was telling me that i was also strong to deal some others, and too many people have told me they really trust me because of my personality Totally related to a HSP with a strong personality 🥺
Same here. I've always been very sensitive but I was not proud of that trait. People told me I'm strong but I thought it was normal. This video made me appreciate myself for who I am. I hope it did for you too
Me too. My mom and some of my friends and even complete strangers seem to take my "strength" as a threat, and they'll make cheap shots at me because they think I have a lot of confidence. I don't think they realize that often, I just need a little encouragement, even if it doesn't seem like it. I remember one day I was feeling really bad, but my mom made a concerted effort to 'knock the chip off my shoulder' after I got home from school. It hurts to be depressed and successfu at the same time. There's usually nobody to talk to about it.
Well it too me awhile to be a “proper” HSP because shouldering all of that weight can easily make ppl bitter. As an HSP, I struggled because I was too accessible and use to spread myself too thin. Now with boundaries, I can be myself. Very sensitive lol but assertive.
I've already watched some of your videos concerning HSP's - but this one nailed my personality and my struggles. Thank you for helping me to understand myself better 🙏🏼❤️
I was always told I was a sensitive person but was strong mentally. I never really believed all the hype I received. I just wanted to fit in with the normal people, you know the kids who were assigned to groups rather than being the leader of a group. No matter how much I wanted to be an extra I was frequently pushed into the leadership roles. I was assigned the classroom tutor because I was far ahead and had a better grasp of the information than the rest of the class. To me I was just doing my work quietly, while others saw me a some sort of guru or genius so I was voted into the position. I was Skeptical and reluctant but as I helped others it felt good to help and be a support system for others and I eventually enjoyed the position assigned to me. People came to me for help because they weren't afraid that I would talk down on them for that or afraid I would shame them. Being a leader still kinda intimidated me even with the forced lead title and I felt like I wasnt good enough. I was always praised by my peers, you're such a good leader, you're so easy to follow, you're so good at explaining. Even though I didnt see them in myself at the time. Frankly I though I was a failure who couldn't do anything. I.didnt believe I had all the skills everyone is saying I have and are praising me for. I thought I was just an average guy. But now I know I'm just depressed, with a negative outlook about everything about myself. I didnt realize I had everything people said I did. I just downplayed it as common knowledge, sense, and ideology. I didnt need to be special. This video reassures what everyone was saying about me because I've heard people say this to me.plenty of times. And its scary that I'm this gifted and don't know what to do with them next.
Growing up I thought I was a hard headed and a softie at the same time, and at times saw that as a weakness because I got hurt so often becuase of my personality and soft spots. Now I know these are my greatest strenghs. Thank you for the video. I feel more at peace with myself and so apreciated 🥰
Yup that's me. When I was younger I was afraid of expressing myself and often felt overwhelmed and anxious but with time I realized how I actually had that strength in me. With confidence and self love everything got easier and my inner strength started finally reflecting on the outside. I'm so much happier now that I know how to balance my sensitivity with everything else.
This used to be me until my I realized my best friend was picking on my little flaw and has been doing so for a while because her personality is being a savage but I didn’t realize it would make me feel self conscious and lost confidence over time and on top of issues at work and my gaslighting supervisor I slowly lost myself. I wanna work back to my old self
You already are. Your soul is the same as it was then. I also thought i was confident before and not now. But the moment you realize that you are only getting stronger than ever before, you'll open your potential. So never hold yourself back. Confidence os just a perception aboit yourself. How others perceive you is shaped by your perception of yourself. Recently my friend said she wishes she has my confidence. Shocking. But i gained it back somehow. This implies that you're always gonna be that same amazing person. So work hard and don't let yourself down. Your old self may look special to you, but you need to work towards your new better self because that is gonna be the best. Imagine, the moment those toxic people are out of your life you'll automatically shine again. Becuase if you were confident once, you're confident forever (i made that up) You'll find your way, you are not lost forever. Where there's a will, there's a way.
I've been starting to think I'm a HSP with a strong personality - I used to not show my strengths much at all because I was so afraid, but now I'm starting to gain more confidence I've realised how strong, assertive, outgoing and stubbornly moral I am. I like it!
Thank god I got my exact personality type . Because I barely connect with people around me and in society. Thought it was difficult to understand this type for anyone thankfully u recognized it. So glad to hear this.
@Krishna Patel all the best dear even I had all these strange thoughts n phases of my life but love n destiny change the whole perspective of living n Experiencing life. I hope u come out of the introvert shell n explore the world then u will get to know about the world be cautious don't trust anyone.
Am I the only one who already knew that I fall in this category of highly sensitive people but still chose to watch cuz I trust Psych2go's opinion more than my opinion about myself?
I know one and I am incredibly proud of her! My wife is the best person I've ever met and she helped and helps me improving myself! Grazie, amore mio splendido!
I'm so glad your amazing wife has a loving husband who appreciates her and is proud of her! It makes me happy to see couples who truly belong together. You are stronger together, and you both make the world a better place. Grazie!
This is the best description of my spirit!!! I know I am more on the sensitive side. But in trying to find videos that describe my sensitivity and concurrent strength, I came across videos that only discuss HSP or Empaths that are way on the left. I’ve noticed from a young age that while I’m higher on the sensitivity scale, I’ve had a concurrent amount of strength. Sensitivity has a connotation of weakness and at least for me that’s never applied as I’ve always had an extra sense of fortitude. All of these on the list fit me like a glove!!! I am a mediator and arbiter of justice but, simultaneously I have no problem fiercely standing up for people being treated poorly. I love empathetic leading (servant leadership), but I can also take a back seat. I am insanely independent and work best by myself and simultaneously in love with building deep connections with people! It’s such a juxtaposition!!! I’m a Scorpio so maybe that’s why while I am deeply sensitive, I’m a take no prisoners dude when it comes to narcissistic and toxic a$6holes!!!
This is one of the very few times I really feel understood. And it helps me that I now know how I can describe myself or my behaviour and sensitivity. Thanks, I needed this
I could tick off every single one of the mentioned 💗 I find myself expecting others to see me the way I see others, but I’m slowly realizing it’s very rare due to HSP. Though, it’s hard for me to just accept, I don’t know how to find the balance of not expecting to get what I give 😬 I am really proud of who I am and anyone who recognize themselves with these traits - should too! 🤍🤍
Same here. And even though all points mentioned in the video apply to me, I won't put this 'label' on myself. I just keep doing what I think is right and what makes me feel comfortable with myself.
No don't want no Spotlight don't want to be seen don't want to be known we are the less than the least we want to be servants we want to serve others care for others love others show humility compassion
Yes both! I've known about the hsp but always wondered how the other bits of me fit with that. I also have adhd. So sometimes it takes a while to figure out how I've acted or responded in a given situation and what the next step should be. Thanks for a great video.
It's the youtube feature. It's how youtube shows the time stamp of various things. It gets very difficult to update time stamps at real time, just because everything involved is large in numbers.
I’m one of them and it was at beginning hard to understand, but when I take away the others thoughts and I become more me, the beauty of be myself starts to shine
I can totally relate to this.After seeing some of your clips about HSP I couldn't place myself totally in the HSP traits but with the addition of the strong personality traits I score a 100%. I wish I wouldn't feel so deeply right now because one of my most meaningful relationships has come to an abrupt halt with the unexpected death of my beloved brother. It hurts so so much.
I was gonna cry while watching this because finally I got felt understood. I was always odd person and even myself didn’t understand me but HSP and strong personality can be in one person was the answer I was looking for. Thank you so much.
Oh yes. Even if you are, Start with observing your emotions and being aware of them. The mere act of observing what you are feeling would make sure you take a conscious decision.
All in for the sensitive topics. This one in specific has help me because I always think it was a weakness but now I know I can be strong and I have your quote in my heart "Your uniqueness is not your weakness" 💜Psych2go💜 edit: And omg it feels so nice to have such a cute animation telling us that we arent weird or weak just sensitive 😊
I never really knew that sensitivity and strength went hand in hand. I always thought my sensitivity was my greatest weakness, but now, thinking about it, I guess it’s not ☺️
I feel so identified with this! 😊 Somehow I always thought that they were mutually exclusive and that there was something wrong with me 😅 Also the animations are adorable!!!
YOU ARE WORTH IT!!! People may try dragging you down to diminish your worth cuz they don’t understand you & don’t want to take the time or effort to do so. You Are Stronger Than You Realize! 🥰
I had no idea that my personality could mean so much. I wondered how I could be so vulnerable, yet strong willed and incredibly independent. Thank you Phych2go for showing me how to differentiate not only myself, but others who are also HSPs, from the crowd
I really love how understanding this channel! I'm often misunderstood as being overly dramatic or a "CryBaby" I also love the animation style, I think it's so cute💕
Thank you so much for this video! I always doubted if I truly was a HSP because I am so extroverted and people oriented, I have never been more identified with a video!
Iam an hsp, even so i dont believe IAM " a good Person" . I feel many comments concerning hsp, Not only in This Video, are very prideful, AS If hsp's are better people. From my experience, i can Tell you , WE are No better than anybody Else and Our motives are often Not AS selfless AS WE Like Others to believe. Thats to The Point: Always telling The truth. But IAM Sure each one of US IS very loveable💃😘♥️🌹
Well HSP is a personality trait, so yeah you're right it doesn't automatically make you a good person. However, people with HSP often get called out for being sensitive and over reactive, and that is where I think these comments come from, its empowering to finally see this trait as a positive thing in your life after countless times of being scolded for it.
yeah, your comment suits me. I am a HSP with strong personality and i also have traits of female narcissism as well (the part of "you know exactly what you want and work for it" fit me well. However, since being aware of that trait I usually spot if i have thoughts related to narcissism and change them if they are coming from there. So yeah, being the good, empathic person who ppl sometimes look up to and who listenes and may even resolve conflict also feeds my inner low self esteem (which causes narcissistic feelings). I am no person to meanly manipulate people to get an advantage from them, theough. Way too empathetic for that. It is a funny mix. 😁 And i hope with ongoing therapy i will be able to further reduce my low self esteem so the narcissistic feelings won't be as strong.
recognizing the things that differentiate us is not prideful... it is acknowledgment of our uniqueness... you have a right to your opinion, but it is a little self-righteous...
Reiko Tamura I agree they can be over reactive. I feel like since HSPs feel so deeply, it also means they react deeply to anger. Which makes sense to me when I get angry. It gets so bad that I have no choice but to either walk away and calm down, throw something, or scream. I can’t control how angry I get. But at least it makes sense to me now why I get so angry at the stupidest of things
Hi Psych2Go! Love this channel, it has taught me so much! Suggestion: '10 signs you're good at connecting with people' or '10 signs you're good at reading people.'
Thank you so much for explaining this. I have just spent 4 days trying to recover from a situation where I had to stand up for myself and what I think is right. Now I know why I am assertive but it takes a toll afterwards. I go over it all in my head, the effect I might have had on others at the meeting, was I too passionate? Etc etc. It all makes sense now. I feel empowered.
I have been a Safety oriented person, and I been respectful, and yet, I have not been described accurately by some, and I keep to myself, and I say hello, and goodbye, and remain respectful to others. *I DO NOT know how many times, I have *articulated, *written, *documented, and spoken repetitively over, and over again, that I do not use, drugs, I am not involved in a risky behavior, and I am NOT using any medications, and I have never had alcohol issues, or use, not making any judgement on others, just speaking about myself. I have had many of my concerns Misconstrued, Misinterpreted, Miscommunicated, Mis-stated, mis-understood, misquoted as well, my concerns, SAFETY SUGGESTiONS have been disregarded, ignored or on several occasions while being in a shelter program etc. Fact: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc. Fact: I am attracted to Women*****However, due to the above-mentioned statement it should be known that, although there have NOT been any intimacies of any sort, sexually whatsoever, or of kind, or dating relationships including this past year as well. In addition to this information, it should be expressed, and known that these Facts, *THERE (HAS NOT), and (NOR would EVER) anything to cause myself to be inappropriate, NOR EVER conduct myself in any inappropriate contact (of any kind towards anyone EVER NEVER). *FACT: I NEVER have conducted myself inappropriately with anyone, and I DO NOT plan to ever. *FACT: I CANNOT receive any pleasure, or gratification from someone else's pain, or causing the pain, or suffering of another human-being whatsoever. *FACT: I Desire to encourage others, not in to cause or inflict pain, or suffering *FACT: I am a person that only desires a (Positive Reciprocal Relationship), Meaning a person that I, and that Person have the same mind-set, and shares the same thoughts towards Humanity, Life, etc.. *FACT: I DO NOT EVER wish to cause harm to myself, nor cause harm to another person. *FACT: And I could (NEVER glean) any satisfaction from causing anyone else pain, suffering, or harm, in any way. *FACT: Although, I (welcome a positive relationship), (healthy fulfilling relationship), and I am not opposed to being in a positive relationship with someone which shares similar goals, and aspirations which I have, and to help promote Peace, Harmony, towards Humanity. *FACT: I am Not Married. *FACT: I have (NOT had any companions Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system. *FACT: I have continuously believed that Women should be respected, and Protected from harm, and thus, I treat them with respect. I know that because I HIGHLY believe in this (SO VERY STRONGLY) that their are people which would wish to (Dishonor me), (Slander me), as well as *(CONSTRUCT, and *FABRICATE Slanderously, etc. and *EXPLOIT any *unemployed situations) *homeless situations. (Strictly, on the basis because they are fully aware, that I believe in Highly in the Preservation Life), and (Protecting Life, and Humanity), I feel so strongly to my very inner most Being *FACT: I believe in Protecting Women, Men, And Children, and All People, LIFE, I believe in Preserving LIFE, and the Well-Being of others, I always have believed this my entire LIFE. Additional FACTS; *Fact: I initially I became HOMELESS, because I had become unemployed due to being laid off, and I could no longer afford or contribute towards living expense, or to maintain rent for a place live. *Fact: In addition without having a operational vehicle finding employment became even more difficult to obtain or seek, Although, I never stopped trying, and eventually I did find and obtained employment part-time, until being laid-off again. *Fact: I am NOT, and NEVER been on any, NOR, have ever been on any Medications, nor Prescribed Medication Regimented programs. (This Does not include for example: antibiotics prescribed for the prevention of an infection from a cut for example 15 years ago *Fact: I DO NOT sell Drugs, and NEVER HAVE, and NEVER WILL *Fact: I DO NOT have a Alcoholism issue, and I NEVER have Not judgement on anyone else *Fact: I DO NOT smoke anything, and I NEVER have, I do not many any judgement on anyone else's I DO NOT believe in the use of illegal, and misused drugs, because have the ability to impair cognitive activity, reasoning, and mental focus, coordination, memory, and Mental Awareness, furthermore, some drugs even have the ability to disrupt other cognitive functions etc. Therefore, I Personally, I prefer more of natural remedies, or a natural approach to (recover from sickness), or for (any pain relief for myself), an example of natural remedies I prefer, nutrients such as vitamins, and minerals being derived from eating fruits, nuts, vegetables, chicken, fish, vegetable soups, and teas etc. I make NO judgments whatsoever, on anyone else which may take medications appropriately, and safely for themselves. *Fact: I DO NOT have any psychical, nor mental impairments *Fact: I DO NOT hear Voices, and I never have *Fact: I DO NOT have a verbal conversations with myself *Fact: I DO NOT become happy, and sad, at the same times *Fact: I am NOT Sad or Depressed, nor have I been *Fact: I DO NOT become angry, mad all time *Fact: I have self-control *Fact: I am NOT a violent Person, never have been a violent person. *FACT: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc. *FACT: I am attracted to Women, and I would (NEVER HURT ANY WOMAN AT ANY TIME), NOR ANYONE else. *FACT: I have (NOT had any companions, girlfriends Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system. *Fact I have Not ever at anytime paid, given payment, exchanged, accepted anything for sexual intimacies. *Fact: I have NOT dated, I am NOT dating anyone, I have NOT ever engaged in any sort sexual intimacies, NO kind of a sexual relationships, NO dating, NO girlfriends, NO anyone whatsoever, nor otherwise while in, or while enrolled any Homeless Shelter Program, as a Guest or patron, visitor etc. while in any Homeless Shelter Program. * FactI I have continuously traveled alone, and I have NEVER traveled with any girlfriends, women, anywhere, nor with anyone else during any time at a homeless shelter program including the room rental facility, No relationships, No Sexual relationships with anyone *FACT: I am a Very Protective individual, an think in regards of Safety and *Prevention of Harm of Women, Children Men. I prefer my privacy, and mine my business. Author, Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer Michigan, 3/13/2020, 11/05/2019, 11/04/2019 Jason Sandifer, Michigan-(2019) MESSAGE REPOSTED 8/1/2020, 8/12/2020 7/8/2020 7/10/2020 7/25/2020 8/19/2020
Definitely not in that sub-category XD I'm more of an emotional mess, sprinkled with anxiety and low self-esteem... Maybe that's why being an HSP often feels like a burden
Talking about hsp.. I teared up directly when the first point was mentioned. It was mostly happiness, thinking of what I managed to become after almost ten years of various diagnosis, medications, clinics, fear and self hate, often thinking everything was somehow my fault. Overcoming everything and being stronger than ever, with just my self reflecting and self care. No doctor or medicine was ever able to help me as I did myself in about 2 years. Even now I tend to feel shame, thinking of sharing this and maybe coming over as arrogant, but every day I realize more and more that I don't need to feel ashamed of what I accomplished with 21 years old, when the majority of people can't get over their patterns and stories they tell themselves everyday, which makes them feel miserable.
Damn, i havent heard of HSPs before but this almost feels like an exact breakdown of how I operate. I need to think more about this. Thank you Sub sub subbed
Is having a strong personality, alongside being a HSP, meant to be so lonely? I feel like I do everything according to my beliefs, yet I feel like I'm ostracized for them at times. Lost my job because my workplace wasn't distancing or putting measures into place to protect us, brought it up and ended up jobless. That's what _"justice"_ is, expecting the world to do right, when in reality, we all make due with what's left of this mess.
I feel I have both and am also quite lonely. I think you should still stand true to yourself. Why change and make effort to be someone you are not truly? Stay true to yourself
I'm a highly sensitive but always felt ashamed for it and tried to "man up" by bottling my emotions. I dont have a strong personality but this video shows me how to develop those traits, now I can work towards being more asseritive, confident and proud for being sensitive. Thank you ❤
This is the 1st time I actually follow all of these traits, hey as my dad always said “there’s a 1st time for everything” Btw I love this animation style. Could you do more vids like this?
I learned a lot from this and realized I can relate because I'm actually an HSP. I just didn't notice it back then because people always told me I have a strong personality. I didn't know that strength and sensitivity could go hand-in-hand so this video is really helpful.
I learned something new about myself today! I’ve always felt like I shouldn’t be so sensitive about things, but because of this I realized it’s just empathy. Thank you Psych2Go for sharing tho knowledge with everyone!
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It would be nice, even if not psychological, a video on type 1 diabetes :) c(°•◇•°c)
Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease caaaaan youuuu doooo a videooo about selective silence and mutism🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
U made me realise my whole life of what is the best to do tysm
Can we take a moment to appreciate how cute the animation is?
Right
i know right
so adorable
My fav so far!
Mini Marshmellos
I know right!!
I always love the animation
Just for a quick recap
1. You stand up for others
2. You're a natural born leader
3. You are a great mediator
4. You think things through
5. You always tell the truth
6. You're an active listener
7. You're fiercely independent
8. You want meaningful relationships
Thanks!
1. Eh, I guess.
2. Not a leader, not the most confident but I can help with things.
3. Not a mediator. I like to stay out of drama most of the time, I'll knock something's on the head, especially if it's effecting me but I prefer to stay out of trouble and let people work through their own things. I draw the line at bullying tho, see point 1.
4. I suppose. Might think too much and do too little at times.
5. No. I am not afraid to lie or withhold the truth. Maybe that's me being honest lol.
6. Yeh, I prefer to listen than talk. I am not a big talker anyway.
7. Ha yeh. I prefer to keep to myself.
8. Yeh, I keep very few friends, I don't mind not having loose or casual friendships but it's easier to invest in someone who wants to be close because I otherwise like to just keep to myself.
So am I a HSP lol.. 😂
1. Yea, depends on who the person is
2. Now leading my family's business. Not very good at it though.
3. I can only give my own advice and inputs if they come to me personally one on one. I don't think I'm great.
4. Oh definitely. It can take me days or weeks. My dad warned me it might lead me to being ill though.
5. I was too honest once and it destroyed my relationship. It's still hard for me to lie and rather tell the truths though.
6. Yes. I have many friends that told me that before.
7. Not at all. But I do make my own decisions and rarely regret them.
8. Yes. With the current life I'm leading it's almost impossible to find them.
5 and 7 isn't that much for me but the rest are oh my shit. That's me!
Most of that is me! Lmao
Who else feels like their whole soul is crush when someone raises their voice at them?
Depends who is yelling at me
Girl , me
Only w/ my parents even though they don't do anything wrong.
Memememem me
Definitely me!
"It is both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so very deeply." - River Phoenix
No cap
Dear River Phoenix, he was too good for this mean ol' world, but I wish he was still with us. What a talented and beautiful soul.
Its a blessing if youre in a good environment. But if youre not, good luck.
"You stand up for what's right"
Me: *does not get taken seriously
Yeah I do that but they just like awwwww "my name" u do need to do that
Relatable. I get misunderstood often too, and underestimated. It does not feel good. But we should keep doing it regardless. Be unexpected! 😌💪
Indeed.Instead they just ignore me but now I'm the leader and the boss,so it's gonna be worse for them.😌🤣
hahhaahaah you're not the only one friend! but , all that matters is that you try! the rest don't take it personally, leave your mark in the world and let the world do whatever it wants with it! you are priceless my friend!! lots of love!!
Gdghtgv sameeeeee
HSP’s are incredibly strong and often bear the weight of the world on their shoulders. ♥️
I agree with you
just me ♥️
I never thought about this before. I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders. I feel very frustrated with what's happening in the world and take it to heart. I have a very strong sense of " doing the right thing" I also wear my heart on my sleeve. It's difficult to be in my head at times, and I feel injustice to others on a very personal level.
Highly Sensitive People.. 🤔
M I R E L A ʕ·ᴥ·ʔ it’s really true ♥️
I've always wondered how I am so "soft" and breakable, but at the same time so intense, passioned and confident
Same
Yeah
hi kindred soul !! me too, I've always marvelled at the many contradictions I recognise in myself and I only recently beginning to understand my situation!!
Big facts
Yup. This is SO me. Nailed it.
HSP is a blessing and a curse at times . Sometimes I just want to remove myself and shut out the world because I care too much . I may look like the top dog, but I always felt like the underdog , cause I relate with them better and stand up for them .
Rebecca Oprea r u my emotion twin?
you have no idea how much i relate
I feel that too
So true
So true...
I feel blessed to know that I am an HSP with a strong personality. I just found out that i’m an HSP earlier, but was so confused by being described. HSP hates confrontation, but finally i found that there’s an HSP with a strong personality which is definitely me😭
Rfvdfghbvg dude yeah I was thinking the same
Feels good to know there are a bunch of us
the reason i don't hate confrontation is because i've always hated it when people started problems and they never solve it and would rather wish it to go away than do something to resolve it. (especially my parents) which resulted in me always confronting the issues i have at hand rather than ignoring them.
I think I realised that I am an HSP but I became an HSP with a strong personality when I grew up 😊😊. I think I was just kept under so much control growing up and taken advantage of. That I just had to be strong but I'm happy I didn't lose my HSP nature.
I’ve always felt like I was just an odd person it feels nice to know that there are other people who can feel this way too :)
Glad u feel like that! I relate to most of the things in the video and this part of me especially the confutation?? gets me in trouble like conflicts and even lost friends and opportunities.:(
Psych2go building my self esteem for 5 minutes and 47 seconds.
And that's a vibe
ye man! you're beautiful :P
Todoroki chan
@SNW same!! I thought I wasnt really strong bcuz I feel a lot more compared to others but sometimes I surprised myself for taking charge at times when needed... This video just explains a lot and makes it clearer of who I am.
“To be soft and strong all at once, is a rare and beautiful gift”
This made my heart go uwu🥺😭💜💜💜💕☺️💛💙💖💗💘💗🥺😭
Which signs best describe you? :)
1. You stand up for what's right.
2. Natural leader.
3. You're a great mediator.
4. You think things through.
5. You always tell the truth.
6. You're an active listener.
7. You're fiercely independent.
8. You want meaningful relationship.
I do all of them except number three ;-;
Sometimes I get so overwhelmed that I cry but then people don’t understand me and don’t think I am an HSP,even though I am.
Why does ur comment say 7 hours ago?
@@advikarai Perhaps it´s a comment from the past, before the video was even uploaded
@@advikarai
Members of the channel get access to videos earlier than those who don't
Another time traveler
idk if i am hsp but i still remember this
one of my classmate touch my ear because i have something in my ear it's called "kuntil" idk what's the eng of that but when i was young i don't tie my hair because im so insecure about something in my ear )): now that im getting older i wanna embrace my flaws and be confident abt it but im too shy lolol
The video describes me so perfectly. I didn't realize that this was a thing, so the video caught me off guard. I'd been told my whole life that I'm strange for having this combination of traits, and often the conversation only happened in unflattering tones. I appreciate that this video points out that this combination of traits can be a superpower if we so choose to wield it properly.
May you keep on being strong and will always rise up everytime you fall.
it's hard when you're one of the people having anxiety, social anxiety, and highly sensitive person:(((
This is definitely me. Glad this is an actual personality type. Thought I was odd for the longest time.
Same here felt very lonely and like an alien
Me too. I sometimes got confused thinking I was either sensitive or strong but it never seemed right. Glad to know I'm a rarity 😁
Same
Me too, I have live my life as an anomaly people always trying to figure out why I'm too Polar Opposites at the same time
ME TOO validated sooo much about myself
When your parents called you “weak” hits different 😊
Why the f...k would your parents call you anything negative , thats just nasty...!
Same .Also There is a thing with my mom. Whenever I do smth wrong she blames me and says how stupid I am. And that i am unfortunately gonna end up marrying some stupid guy and many other things.
It is really hurtful for me to hear. Lately it's gotten worse.
Sorry for my english
@@rauanamadiarova4832 Sorry to hear that. Sometimes our loved ones can say very hurtful things without even realizing it. Try having a talk with your mom and say to her how do you feel, if that doesnt help... be strong and know that you are your own person and that you are awesome. We cannot please everyone in our life, even our parents. Take care.
yea-
because you know that you aren't, so you laugh it off and love yourself 🥴
Leadership role, deep thinker, more of a listener than a talker, wanting something meaningful. Maybe I am one.
I think I might be too.. :0
I don’t think they mean that they rather be a listener than a talker, but could still listen. I think I am one too. I listen very well but I also like to talk here and there.
Hey i just wanna ask what's your personality type , like INFP.....
@@user-ty5pq5yy4m I think I'm INTP?
I feel like I might be one too, but considering myself being above average in anything makes me deny it the more I think about it and its not exactly very likely that I could be even if I mostly fit the bill with some minor acceptations. *Maybe just a coincidence*
I never realised i was an HSP until i saw these videos. For a long time i felt like the odd sort who couldnt understand why they were feeling even the tiniest things so deeply or why my brain worked the way it worked.
Thanks so much for giving these vids💚...it sort of unlocked a part of me that i tried to keep hidden for a very long time.
same here :)
You know you're an HSP with a strong personality when this video makes you cry.
1. You stand up for what's right.
2. You're a natural leader.
3. You're a great mediator.
4. You think things through.
5. You always tell the truth.
6. You're an active listener.
7. You're fiercely independent.
8. You want meaningful relationships.
I always look for comments like this. thank you
Y is this basically meeeeee
legend
I could listen to the speaker's voice all day, It's so calming.
Are you serious, listen to your own voice!!
@@sabrinaclarus6290 I don't like my voice-
Thank you so much for your comment
@@Psych2go you guys replied too! thank you so much!
Ikr :3
I was a "born leader". All my teachers said so. But after being bullied and going through a lot of other trauma's, I changed. That's why I don't really know if bad things make you stronger..
Edit: okay normally i hate these kinds of edits but.. I did not expect to receive all these sweet comments and stories. Thank you i’ve read everything and wish everyone the best of luck! 💕
It does if you want to. What you said happened to me as well. But "God" has given you signs to go forward and do your best. Recognize them, you probably have some good examples in your life. Take control of your life. You'll get there.
It's all about the perspective you decide to take upon that event that makes you stronger : You decide to make peace with past, forgive and forge both other and yourself in order to move on and become the person you truely desire to become.
Darko Bad things done make you 💪🏼. - You make yourself stronger.
It's crazy how people talk about me behind my back, then when these same people need help I'm here forgiving. Honestly its tiring at this point 🙈 @Darko, be who you are and accept your flaws and strengths. Your strong right now being open and honest to stranger's on the internet, don't allow bullies to put their knee on your neck, take the wrong doer to the side and call them out. Be cautious that some people will agitate you even more, stand up for yourself anyway. Everytime I've stood up for myself it always ended in a fight, I'm still standing 💖
I am just like you, I thought I would never lead again. Surprisingly, this year I became a leader in a new place, so never give up!! You got it into you!
I cried through the whole video because i finaly felt understood. EVERY point fits to me and i never understood why i'm so sensitive, an empath and still so confident and aware of myself and now i have a name for it. thank you so much!
0:57 you stand up for what's right.
1:24 you're a natural leader.
2:02 you're a great mediator
2:39 you think things through.
3:15 you always tell the truth.
3:38 you're an active listener.
4:09 you're fiercely independent.
4:36 you want meaningful relationships.
2: You’re a natural leader.
I don’t like being a national leader but
most natural leaders don't. i learned that from the walking dead comics
@@jefsoete9793 yoo I love the walking dead hello
Same. I always wished my friends made the damn decision instead of me. I hate being followed lol . I always , and still end up being the one who makes plans and makes decisions, because they just CANNOT do it themselves. Its annoying as hell lol
Ivonne Deni I feel you. 💜
jef Soete they don’t? Hahah dUDE I’m the same xD I don’t like it either
My hole life I’m hoping for someone who could be my soulmate. Someone I could talk about the past, the future, dreams, questions, feelings we have and so much more without getting bored of each other. Is there someone else ?
Me too😔😔
Same here, me too
me too
I think that also. And I learned that don't beg to much it can tear you down, I was once told from someone to look, wait and be surprised. Besides...soul mates always come for you at the right time!...right? If it feels hard you can tell a friend or family member about how you feel about all this! Don't be scared to.
My biggest fear is die single, that's how much I want to find my soulmate
this channel never stops calling me out on the best times possible
jesus this actually makes me feel like i’m not alone. i thought something was so horribly wrong with me as a person and as a woman. i’m really proud to have this personality type. sticking true to who i am 💕
I’m so impressed with the accuracy of this video describing my personality. I think it’s confusing for others to see that I am vulnerable and also very strong. I also have, over the years, lost many friends until I have had only a small group of genuine people I adore. I am a deep thinker for sure, and chose my career because I could mediate the darker angels in people. I appreciate this video for making me feel understood :)
That's the hard part for me.. I don't feel satisfied with most friend groups even when the circumstances seem ideal.. it has to be just right for me to see potential with anybody, since I don't think the general public will come to rely on me/want my presence specially in their lives.. How is it that people are so bonded I'm larger friend groups, in a sweet and authentic way, when it means there's too many members to keep track of and look after?
It got me confused.. Being so sensitive at times and so independent and strong at others.
Loosing friends is a big trait! Of this because we are confident and friendly so make easy friendships but we don't stand for bull so when see it in people we either call it out or shut down towards them. The best part is that we eventually get a genuine pool of people 🙂 it's a great filter. Seems like a curse at the time lol.
Just today I was not in a good place and was questioning myself that why I am so sensitive and also why I don't break down like other do because even when I am hurt I always strive to find ways to feel better. But after seeing this video I was able to connect. I guess HSP and strong personality is not a weird combination that I was thinking.
Same here!
Same!
Same here
Glad we have each other. Let's hope for the best.
Same. But we have our limits too. And when we break down, it's bad. Still trying to recover
I was smiling while watching the entire video. This somehow, explained my whole personality and now, I can totally embrace my thought-weakness which is being sensitive ❤️
Woaaaa I've been dealing my whole life with my personality: i'd never understand why I was so sensitive with every situation in my life but at the same time everyone was telling me that i was also strong to deal some others, and too many people have told me they really trust me because of my personality
Totally related to a HSP with a strong personality 🥺
Same here. I've always been very sensitive but I was not proud of that trait. People told me I'm strong but I thought it was normal. This video made me appreciate myself for who I am. I hope it did for you too
Me too. My mom and some of my friends and even complete strangers seem to take my "strength" as a threat, and they'll make cheap shots at me because they think I have a lot of confidence. I don't think they realize that often, I just need a little encouragement, even if it doesn't seem like it. I remember one day I was feeling really bad, but my mom made a concerted effort to 'knock the chip off my shoulder' after I got home from school. It hurts to be depressed and successfu at the same time. There's usually nobody to talk to about it.
Same here. This video is so accurate about me!
Same. I was kinda confused about who really I am and what's my personality but this video wow it opened my mind
Same!! I'm a highly sensitive person but everyone keep telling me I also have a really strong personality! Now I understand why!
Well it too me awhile to be a “proper” HSP because shouldering all of that weight can easily make ppl bitter. As an HSP, I struggled because I was too accessible and use to spread myself too thin. Now with boundaries, I can be myself. Very sensitive lol but assertive.
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I've already watched some of your videos concerning HSP's - but this one nailed my personality and my struggles. Thank you for helping me to understand myself better 🙏🏼❤️
Why does this channel describe my whole entire personality perfectly
RIGHT?!?!
YESSSS
i felt like the *insert "is this a personal attack or something" meme* for a second here :D
the animation just keep getting cuter and cuter!!
Ikr😊
So cute I wanna cry 😭
truuuuuuuu :3
I swear Psych2go's artwork is getting awesome and cute. Btw, People with HSP, nice to meet you. Hope you'll get a good day
I was always told I was a sensitive person but was strong mentally.
I never really believed all the hype I received.
I just wanted to fit in with the normal people, you know the kids who were assigned to groups rather than being the leader of a group. No matter how much I wanted to be an extra I was frequently pushed into the leadership roles.
I was assigned the classroom tutor because I was far ahead and had a better grasp of the information than the rest of the class.
To me I was just doing my work quietly, while others saw me a some sort of guru or genius so I was voted into the position.
I was Skeptical and reluctant but as I helped others it felt good to help and be a support system for others and I eventually enjoyed the position assigned to me.
People came to me for help because they weren't afraid that I would talk down on them for that or afraid I would shame them.
Being a leader still kinda intimidated me even with the forced lead title and I felt like I wasnt good enough.
I was always praised by my peers, you're such a good leader, you're so easy to follow, you're so good at explaining.
Even though I didnt see them in myself at the time.
Frankly I though I was a failure who couldn't do anything.
I.didnt believe I had all the skills everyone is saying I have and are praising me for.
I thought I was just an average guy.
But now I know I'm just depressed, with a negative outlook about everything about myself.
I didnt realize I had everything people said I did.
I just downplayed it as common knowledge, sense, and ideology.
I didnt need to be special.
This video reassures what everyone was saying about me because I've heard people say this to me.plenty of times.
And its scary that I'm this gifted and don't know what to do with them next.
Growing up I thought I was a hard headed and a softie at the same time, and at times saw that as a weakness because I got hurt so often becuase of my personality and soft spots. Now I know these are my greatest strenghs. Thank you for the video. I feel more at peace with myself and so apreciated 🥰
Thank you
Psych2Go for been so gentle with HSPs , I wish another people listen to us and talk to us gently like you do :)
Gently?
Oh yeah, HSP's. I almost forgot
Yup that's me. When I was younger I was afraid of expressing myself and often felt overwhelmed and anxious but with time I realized how I actually had that strength in me. With confidence and self love everything got easier and my inner strength started finally reflecting on the outside. I'm so much happier now that I know how to balance my sensitivity with everything else.
Omg me too!! Its so cool to know there’s ppl like me 🤧
Same!
This used to be me until my I realized my best friend was picking on my little flaw and has been doing so for a while because her personality is being a savage but I didn’t realize it would make me feel self conscious and lost confidence over time and on top of issues at work and my gaslighting supervisor I slowly lost myself. I wanna work back to my old self
You already are. Your soul is the same as it was then. I also thought i was confident before and not now. But the moment you realize that you are only getting stronger than ever before, you'll open your potential. So never hold yourself back. Confidence os just a perception aboit yourself. How others perceive you is shaped by your perception of yourself. Recently my friend said she wishes she has my confidence. Shocking. But i gained it back somehow. This implies that you're always gonna be that same amazing person. So work hard and don't let yourself down. Your old self may look special to you, but you need to work towards your new better self because that is gonna be the best. Imagine, the moment those toxic people are out of your life you'll automatically shine again. Becuase if you were confident once, you're confident forever (i made that up) You'll find your way, you are not lost forever. Where there's a will, there's a way.
I believe you will get back! This video made me want to keep it up
The moment that you realized it and you decided to put it out.,
Is the biggest come back you made. ( ＾ω＾ )
Maybe it's time for you to ditch that friend and get better more considerate friends.
Maybe it's time for you to ditch that friend and get better more considerate friends.
I've been starting to think I'm a HSP with a strong personality - I used to not show my strengths much at all because I was so afraid, but now I'm starting to gain more confidence I've realised how strong, assertive, outgoing and stubbornly moral I am. I like it!
Thank god I got my exact personality type . Because I barely connect with people around me and in society. Thought it was difficult to understand this type for anyone thankfully u recognized it. So glad to hear this.
@Krishna Patel all the best dear even I had all these strange thoughts n phases of my life but love n destiny change the whole perspective of living n Experiencing life. I hope u come out of the introvert shell n explore the world then u will get to know about the world be cautious don't trust anyone.
@Krishna Patel I hope all the good come to u dear
Am I the only one who already knew that I fall in this category of highly sensitive people but still chose to watch cuz I trust Psych2go's opinion more than my opinion about myself?
I hope you don't trust a website more... Maybe you are just curious.
Same here!
Ya as soon as I read the title I was like “sounds like me but lets see”
OMG! 54 years and I finally was described almost to a “T”!
That's great to hear! How many signs did you relate?
I know one and I am incredibly proud of her! My wife is the best person I've ever met and she helped and helps me improving myself!
Grazie, amore mio splendido!
Aw that's so sweet! :3 wish you both the best in life :)
I'm so glad your amazing wife has a loving husband who appreciates her and is proud of her! It makes me happy to see couples who truly belong together.
You are stronger together, and you both make the world a better place.
Grazie!
This is the best description of my spirit!!! I know I am more on the sensitive side. But in trying to find videos that describe my sensitivity and concurrent strength, I came across videos that only discuss HSP or Empaths that are way on the left. I’ve noticed from a young age that while I’m higher on the sensitivity scale, I’ve had a concurrent amount of strength. Sensitivity has a connotation of weakness and at least for me that’s never applied as I’ve always had an extra sense of fortitude.
All of these on the list fit me like a glove!!! I am a mediator and arbiter of justice but, simultaneously I have no problem fiercely standing up for people being treated poorly. I love empathetic leading (servant leadership), but I can also take a back seat. I am insanely independent and work best by myself and simultaneously in love with building deep connections with people! It’s such a juxtaposition!!!
I’m a Scorpio so maybe that’s why while I am deeply sensitive, I’m a take no prisoners dude when it comes to narcissistic and toxic a$6holes!!!
This is one of the very few times I really feel understood. And it helps me that I now know how I can describe myself or my behaviour and sensitivity. Thanks, I needed this
I could tick off every single one of the mentioned 💗 I find myself expecting others to see me the way I see others, but I’m slowly realizing it’s very rare due to HSP. Though, it’s hard for me to just accept, I don’t know how to find the balance of not expecting to get what I give 😬 I am really proud of who I am and anyone who recognize themselves with these traits - should too! 🤍🤍
I feel you. I'm learning to understand that not everyone feels & thinks like me, and I'm learning to wear my HSP traits with pride :)
It's so nice of psych2go to talk to HSP's in a gentle voice and way to help us understand more! :)
I’m literally all of these.I never knew that I was a sensitive person with a strong personality.I always though I was normal
on the opposite hand, I always felt like an outcast, but hey, it made me even stronger.
Same here. And even though all points mentioned in the video apply to me, I won't put this 'label' on myself. I just keep doing what I think is right and what makes me feel comfortable with myself.
Yes we love truth we love honesty we love wholesomeness we love genuineness
I am an HSP with some serious anger issues😂😂
Same here
I was literally so angry that I just started crying like an idiot should i count that as an anger issue?
Same here,I only cry when I'm also angry especially when others around me are hurt
Hahaha same here 🙈
Same
I'm so sensitive that even if you talk to me with a straight face I'll cry XD
I cry when my teacher stares at me asking several question ;-;
I cry when someone ignores me😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@@Theguywithspectacles lol same that's my weaknes🥺
Same here!
If that's how it is, I think you should become stronger, otherwise life is going to crush you
This just confirms I'm an HSP...with a strong personality...
Great to hear! How many signs did you relate to?
You actually gave me a lot to think about. I've never thought about myself in that way, but now it kinda explains a lot in my life.
No don't want no Spotlight don't want to be seen don't want to be known we are the less than the least we want to be servants we want to serve others care for others love others show humility compassion
Yes both! I've known about the hsp but always wondered how the other bits of me fit with that. I also have adhd. So sometimes it takes a while to figure out how I've acted or responded in a given situation and what the next step should be. Thanks for a great video.
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I’m one of them and it was at beginning hard to understand, but when I take away the others thoughts and I become more me, the beauty of be myself starts to shine
Wonderful! Same here, I'm trying to let my light shine too :)
This described and helped me so much! I am a hsp with a strong personality and i am proud 🥰
I can totally relate to this.After seeing some of your clips about HSP I couldn't place myself totally in the HSP traits but with the addition of the strong personality traits I score a 100%.
I wish I wouldn't feel so deeply right now because one of my most meaningful relationships has come to an abrupt halt with the unexpected death of my beloved brother. It hurts so so much.
I was gonna cry while watching this because finally I got felt understood. I was always odd person and even myself didn’t understand me but HSP and strong personality can be in one person was the answer I was looking for. Thank you so much.
FINALLY! I always has the feeling that I was a HSP but at the same time I felt like something still didn't completely match. Tankiu so much T-T💙
Same! 🙈
Oh yes. Even if you are, Start with observing your emotions and being aware of them. The mere act of observing what you are feeling would make sure you take a conscious decision.
THANK YOU! I needed those words
Waaw so true
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All in for the sensitive topics. This one in specific has help me because I always think it was a weakness but now I know I can be strong and I have your quote in my heart "Your uniqueness is not your weakness" 💜Psych2go💜
edit: And omg it feels so nice to have such a cute animation telling us that we arent weird or weak just sensitive 😊
I love the animation! It's very sweet, to the point, and really drives the message home! Love love love!
Yes we are gentle with Meek we are sincere we are tender hearted
I love the animation style on this video! :3
They hired an animator 😀
I never really knew that sensitivity and strength went hand in hand. I always thought my sensitivity was my greatest weakness, but now, thinking about it, I guess it’s not ☺️
I feel so identified with this! 😊 Somehow I always thought that they were mutually exclusive and that there was something wrong with me 😅 Also the animations are adorable!!!
YOU ARE WORTH IT!!! People may try dragging you down to diminish your worth cuz they don’t understand you & don’t want to take the time or effort to do so. You Are Stronger Than You Realize! 🥰
I had no idea that my personality could mean so much. I wondered how I could be so vulnerable, yet strong willed and incredibly independent. Thank you Phych2go for showing me how to differentiate not only myself, but others who are also HSPs, from the crowd
I really love how understanding this channel!
I'm often misunderstood as being overly dramatic or a "CryBaby"
I also love the animation style, I think it's so cute💕
How many of y’all HSP are introverts cuz i am...
I identify as an Ambivert
@@seineevee i identify as a helicopter
Meee . I am an introvert with HSP
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Ambivert (I'm an enfp btw)
I've never been described more accurately. Oh my goodness.....
Thank you so much for this video! I always doubted if I truly was a HSP because I am so extroverted and people oriented, I have never been more identified with a video!
Ohh That's Why My Teacher Told My Parents
That There Were Lucky To Have Me
It's Because HSP
I Just Realized It After Watching This
Thank You So Much
Oh , my goodness , you dont need nobody to tell you or your parents that you are hsp!! You are You , you tell people who and what you are!!
Iam an hsp, even so i dont believe IAM " a good Person" .
I feel many comments concerning hsp, Not only in This Video, are very prideful, AS If hsp's are better people. From my experience, i can Tell you , WE are No better than anybody Else and Our motives are often Not AS selfless AS WE Like Others to believe.
Thats to The Point:
Always telling The truth.
But IAM Sure each one of US IS very loveable💃😘♥️🌹
Well HSP is a personality trait, so yeah you're right it doesn't automatically make you a good person. However, people with HSP often get called out for being sensitive and over reactive, and that is where I think these comments come from, its empowering to finally see this trait as a positive thing in your life after countless times of being scolded for it.
speak for yourself hundred, we ain't duplicate of each other so instead of "we" it would be a good idea to use "I"
yeah, your comment suits me. I am a HSP with strong personality and i also have traits of female narcissism as well (the part of "you know exactly what you want and work for it" fit me well. However, since being aware of that trait I usually spot if i have thoughts related to narcissism and change them if they are coming from there. So yeah, being the good, empathic person who ppl sometimes look up to and who listenes and may even resolve conflict also feeds my inner low self esteem (which causes narcissistic feelings). I am no person to meanly manipulate people to get an advantage from them, theough. Way too empathetic for that. It is a funny mix. 😁
And i hope with ongoing therapy i will be able to further reduce my low self esteem so the narcissistic feelings won't be as strong.
recognizing the things that differentiate us is not prideful... it is acknowledgment of our uniqueness... you have a right to your opinion, but it is a little self-righteous...
Reiko Tamura I agree they can be over reactive. I feel like since HSPs feel so deeply, it also means they react deeply to anger. Which makes sense to me when I get angry. It gets so bad that I have no choice but to either walk away and calm down, throw something, or scream. I can’t control how angry I get. But at least it makes sense to me now why I get so angry at the stupidest of things
Hi Psych2Go! Love this channel, it has taught me so much! Suggestion: '10 signs you're good at connecting with people' or '10 signs you're good at reading people.'
Thank you so much for explaining this. I have just spent 4 days trying to recover from a situation where I had to stand up for myself and what I think is right. Now I know why I am assertive but it takes a toll afterwards. I go over it all in my head, the effect I might have had on others at the meeting, was I too passionate? Etc etc. It all makes sense now. I feel empowered.
I have been a Safety oriented person, and I been respectful, and yet, I have not been described accurately by some, and I keep to myself, and I say hello, and goodbye, and remain respectful to others.
*I DO NOT know how many times, I have *articulated, *written, *documented, and spoken repetitively over, and over again, that I do not use, drugs, I am not involved in a risky behavior, and I am NOT using any medications, and I have never had alcohol issues, or use, not making any judgement on others, just speaking about myself.
I have had many of my concerns Misconstrued, Misinterpreted, Miscommunicated,
Mis-stated, mis-understood, misquoted as well, my concerns, SAFETY SUGGESTiONS have been disregarded, ignored or on several occasions while being in a shelter program etc.
Fact: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc.
Fact: I am attracted to Women*****However, due to the above-mentioned statement it should be known that, although there have NOT been any intimacies of any sort, sexually whatsoever, or of kind, or dating relationships including this past year as well.
In addition to this information, it should be expressed, and known that these Facts,
*THERE (HAS NOT), and (NOR would EVER) anything to cause myself to be inappropriate, NOR EVER conduct myself in any inappropriate contact
(of any kind towards anyone EVER NEVER).
*FACT: I NEVER have conducted myself inappropriately with anyone, and I DO NOT plan to ever.
*FACT: I CANNOT receive any pleasure, or gratification from someone else's pain, or causing the pain, or suffering of another human-being whatsoever.
*FACT: I Desire to encourage others, not in to cause or inflict pain, or suffering
*FACT: I am a person that only desires a (Positive Reciprocal Relationship), Meaning a person that I, and that Person have the same mind-set, and shares the same thoughts towards Humanity, Life, etc..
*FACT: I DO NOT EVER wish to cause harm to myself, nor cause harm to another person.
*FACT: And I could (NEVER glean) any satisfaction from causing anyone else pain, suffering, or harm, in any way.
*FACT: Although, I (welcome a positive relationship), (healthy fulfilling relationship), and I am not opposed to being in a positive relationship with someone which shares similar goals, and aspirations which I have, and to help promote Peace, Harmony, towards Humanity.
*FACT: I am Not Married.
*FACT: I have (NOT had any companions Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system.
*FACT: I have continuously believed that Women should be respected, and Protected from harm, and thus, I treat them with respect.
I know that because I HIGHLY believe in this (SO VERY STRONGLY) that their are people which would wish to (Dishonor me), (Slander me), as well as
*(CONSTRUCT, and *FABRICATE Slanderously, etc. and *EXPLOIT any *unemployed situations) *homeless situations.
(Strictly, on the basis because they are fully aware, that I believe in Highly in the Preservation Life), and (Protecting Life, and Humanity),
I feel so strongly to my very inner most Being
*FACT: I believe in Protecting Women, Men, And Children, and All People, LIFE, I believe in Preserving LIFE, and the Well-Being of others, I always have believed this my entire LIFE.
Additional FACTS;
*Fact: I initially I became HOMELESS, because I had become unemployed due to being laid off, and I could no longer afford or contribute towards living expense, or to maintain rent for a place live.
*Fact: In addition without having a operational vehicle finding employment became even more difficult to obtain or seek, Although, I never stopped trying, and eventually I did find and obtained employment part-time, until being laid-off again.
*Fact: I am NOT, and NEVER been on any, NOR, have ever been on any Medications, nor Prescribed Medication Regimented programs.
(This Does not include for example: antibiotics prescribed for the prevention of an infection from a cut for example 15 years ago
*Fact: I DO NOT sell Drugs, and NEVER HAVE, and NEVER WILL
*Fact: I DO NOT have a Alcoholism issue, and I NEVER have
Not judgement on anyone else
*Fact: I DO NOT smoke anything, and I NEVER have, I do not many any judgement on anyone else's
I DO NOT believe in the use of illegal, and misused drugs, because have the ability to impair cognitive activity, reasoning, and mental focus, coordination, memory, and Mental Awareness, furthermore, some drugs even have the ability to disrupt other cognitive functions etc.
Therefore, I Personally, I prefer more of natural remedies, or a natural approach to (recover from sickness), or for (any pain relief for myself), an example of natural remedies I prefer, nutrients such as vitamins, and minerals being derived from eating fruits, nuts, vegetables, chicken, fish, vegetable soups, and teas etc.
I make NO judgments whatsoever, on anyone else which may take medications appropriately, and safely for themselves.
*Fact: I DO NOT have any psychical, nor mental impairments
*Fact: I DO NOT hear Voices, and I never have
*Fact: I DO NOT have a verbal conversations with myself
*Fact: I DO NOT become happy, and sad, at the same times
*Fact: I am NOT Sad or Depressed, nor have I been
*Fact: I DO NOT become angry, mad all time
*Fact: I have self-control
*Fact: I am NOT a violent Person, never have been a violent person.
*FACT: I AM NOT, NOR have EVER been attracted to kids, children, teenagers, NEVER, EVER, NEVER etc.
*FACT: I am attracted to Women, and I would (NEVER HURT ANY WOMAN AT ANY TIME), NOR ANYONE else.
*FACT: I have (NOT had any companions, girlfriends Ever) in my travels on the public bus, or otherwise since I have been utilizing the public bus system.
*Fact I have Not ever at anytime paid, given payment, exchanged, accepted anything for sexual intimacies.
*Fact: I have NOT dated, I am NOT dating anyone, I have NOT ever engaged in any sort sexual intimacies, NO kind of a sexual relationships, NO dating, NO girlfriends, NO anyone whatsoever, nor otherwise while in, or while enrolled any Homeless Shelter Program, as a Guest or patron, visitor etc. while in any Homeless Shelter Program.
* FactI I have continuously traveled alone, and I have NEVER traveled with any girlfriends, women, anywhere, nor with anyone else during any time at a homeless shelter program including the room rental facility, No relationships, No Sexual relationships with anyone
*FACT: I am a Very Protective individual, an think in regards of Safety and
*Prevention of Harm of Women, Children Men.
I prefer my privacy, and mine my business.
Author, Advocate for Humanity,
Jason Sandifer
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So at first I was like “nah, that ain’t me”, but now, after watching this video, I’m like “hmm, *is* this me?”
I'm the opposite, so, sadly disappointed xD
Same ! I'm wondering now
same,it was very unexpected
same lmao
Same
The last time I was this early, quarantine didn't exist. (I know it's a long time ago)
quarantine has always existed boomer.
Definitely not in that sub-category XD I'm more of an emotional mess, sprinkled with anxiety and low self-esteem... Maybe that's why being an HSP often feels like a burden
Talking about hsp.. I teared up directly when the first point was mentioned. It was mostly happiness, thinking of what I managed to become after almost ten years of various diagnosis, medications, clinics, fear and self hate, often thinking everything was somehow my fault.
Overcoming everything and being stronger than ever, with just my self reflecting and self care.
No doctor or medicine was ever able to help me as I did myself in about 2 years.
Even now I tend to feel shame, thinking of sharing this and maybe coming over as arrogant, but every day I realize more and more that I don't need to feel ashamed of what I accomplished with 21 years old, when the majority of people can't get over their patterns and stories they tell themselves everyday, which makes them feel miserable.
This actually made me a bit teary! :') so nice
This whole video described my personality perfectly, that's crazy 😂
Damn, i havent heard of HSPs before but this almost feels like an exact breakdown of how I operate. I need to think more about this. Thank you
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My ex-friend is a HSP and I have one of the signs too. I like to work on my own
Is having a strong personality, alongside being a HSP, meant to be so lonely? I feel like I do everything according to my beliefs, yet I feel like I'm ostracized for them at times. Lost my job because my workplace wasn't distancing or putting measures into place to protect us, brought it up and ended up jobless. That's what _"justice"_ is, expecting the world to do right, when in reality, we all make due with what's left of this mess.
I feel I have both and am also quite lonely. I think you should still stand true to yourself. Why change and make effort to be someone you are not truly? Stay true to yourself
I'm a highly sensitive but always felt ashamed for it and tried to "man up" by bottling my emotions. I dont have a strong personality but this video shows me how to develop those traits, now I can work towards being more asseritive, confident and proud for being sensitive. Thank you ❤
You are the best and thank you for making this
This is what I want to be like!
I'm trying everyday and hopefully getting there😊
This is the 1st time I actually follow all of these traits, hey as my dad always said “there’s a 1st time for everything”
Btw I love this animation style. Could you do more vids like this?
I learned a lot from this and realized I can relate because I'm actually an HSP. I just didn't notice it back then because people always told me I have a strong personality. I didn't know that strength and sensitivity could go hand-in-hand so this video is really helpful.
I learned something new about myself today! I’ve always felt like I shouldn’t be so sensitive about things, but because of this I realized it’s just empathy. Thank you Psych2Go for sharing tho knowledge with everyone!