This is so messed up. Maybe you didnt include them in your happiness and yet theyre graceful enough to extend a helping hand in hard Times ? Maybe theyre the supporting type that loves to see you soar independently but will always be there to catch you if you fall ? Show grace and be grateful people still show up for you.
@@libelulangel I agree 100% with this! Also some friends are just very empathetic in nature, which makes them easier to go to during low times, it doesn't mean they aren't happy for you during the highs! And it definitely doesn't mean they rejoice in your misery! What people do with the information you share with them is the ultimate judge of their intentions!
And also pay attention to the “friends” that come to you only on their low points and be distant when they have everything together. Friendships is about balance.
I always have an issue with ‘friends’ who also only like to hear your business, but never reveal anything going on in their lives… Your life is used as conversation starters, but you’ve no clue how things are with them because they keep it surface-level. I’ve got to stop oversharing and trusting everyone with my stories 😅
Same...but it's a colleague at work I can't choose. Cause I love my work. I just don't like that specific person. She's soooooooo shady. And always asks and listens about other ppls business, makes passive agressive comments.And is a racist. But she knows she has to communicate with me because of work and how much other colleagues respect me. So she keeps it passive agressive, collects all the info and continues the asslickery to my colleagues😂
The gym and listening to corny self help books. I started doing that. I woke up very early and worked out before work and I am feeling so much better. Try it.
It's time for a detox... I was depressed for no apparent reason, well i had some big life changes but usually i can shake it off fairly quickly but this time messed me up. Thn i remembered i haven't detox recently. Now feeling better daily. Cleanse from inside out.
I heard a psychologist say that when you and your partner are having an argument and he/she is hitting below the belt and being totally disrespectful, just say him/her - "I am not your enemy. We are on the same team." I loved that
I'm sorry to say but I do not agree with that psychologist a person who hits below the belt or being totally disrespectful needs to receive an ultimatum. Either they change or the relationship is over. I have never ever spoken to someone I'm intimate with as if they were less human and I will never ever put up with it
I always say that if you have a friend that tells you everyone else’s business, they are telling everyone else all of your business. Don’t think that they can keep your secrets and spills everyone else’s.
in my big age, I've learned this the hard way. Additionally, be leery of friends who judge your hard times especially based on experiences in your past. the worst are the ones who have experienced the SAME experiences but all of a sudden have amnesia and are on their high horse. Bottom line: EVERYONE can attest to making poor decisions especially in their younger days. no one should make you feel inferior bc trust me...they are not any better
I don’t know if i agree with Adrienne about the harping on bad things. If your friend needs to vent or express what bothers them who are you to tell them to move on, and quit talking about it.. friends are not just there for your high rises in life.
Yeah that sounds like stop talking about it, your killing my vibe? We all need to vent sometimes. I will vent and I will let you vent and get upset with you. So that's not always true.
I completely agree with you all about friends who gloat in your misfortune, but what if its your family. I was a Regional Manager and the company decided to eliminate the position and the Directors took over. I was out of a job and when I told my mother that day she replied with oh I guess I will not be getting a Coach or Michael Kors handbag for Christmas that year, nor will I be giving her some of my bonus money. I could not believe it. She did not seem to feel bad that I lost a job as a divorced female with a home and child. She did not ask if I was ok. She did not ask if I needed anything. All my mother was concerned with was that she was not going to get something out of me. Till this day that has hurt me. This was not a friend. This was my mom. This was the one person that I thought was there for me only to find out that I was wrong. Now I try and keep good and bad news to myself. People seem to be out for what they can get out of you and that's it.
1. We don’t want the stranger to know who we REALLY are so we act nice even when we aren’t authentically nice. 2. Many people take those closest to them for grant. It’s almost human to get used to people and get comfortable 2. Some people are pretentious. They wanna look good to the stranger coz they need the stranger’s attention
1) Way too many people are wolves in sheep's clothing. That's why you need to be really careful about what you share & who you share it with (especially on social media). Once it comes out of your mouth, or once you hit "send", it's no longer just your business. 2) Some people are always on their A-game around strangers because those aren't the people who "love you unconditionally". By comparison, they'll sometimes bring their C or D-game when they're around loved ones because those are the people who have "unconditional" love
Sometimes an emotional connection is just hatred cultivated for years, and I was so happy to leave the place where I lived before to have some fresh air, to start a new life and to forget all the misfortunes that person had been doing on me for so long. There should be smth more than just a plate of soup...
I believe it's only human nature to want to be seen regardless of what's going on in our lives. When we're seen when things are difficult makes it easier to recover from setbacks however not everyone is willing to trek that journey
Disagree with Adrienne. If your friend is using your misery as entertainment, that is no friend. If course theres a limit to how much you harp on something, but if you cant trust your friends, who do you have?
Yeah I like Ade but she lives in a vacuum where she only cares about her husband and family. She seems so annoyed when she asked to actually be a friend outside of partying with them.
I agree with Adrienne about not harping on things. Not necessary bc ppl use your misery as their entertainment, but bc it can keep you in a funk longer than you would be if you just discussed with 1 or 2 trusted ppl. Any more than that usually turns into unsolicited advice filled with negativity that has left you confused.
I do root for people to fail especially at work where some of my co-workers are knuckleheads they make your job harder not easier. I don't want to continue working with them especially when they know what they're doing is affecting you they're inconsiderate. The next best thing is wishing for them to do something stupid and lose their job because they refuse to change
Still, its not Healthy to go sniffing out enemies even where they may not be existing... Like every other time you're suspicious that so and so is up to something nasty,then you end up having the Whole World for enemies. I've seen friends bail others out of difficult situations,so they don't really feast on other's misfortunes,unless in special cases 🤔
but that's not true, people who you dislike can make you angry by treating you poorly. You don't have to like anyone to get angry while being disrespected.
What these women fail to understand is that many girlfriends they and Adrienne claim she has are not her friends many are associates they just don't know it yet. If a person can find one person a true friend in a lifetime you did a great job many, no way. Even saying that some friends will hang on for decades because you give them everything they need. Remember Adrienne a word of advice, never tell anyone anything you don't want to be repeated because it will be. One of my associates told me I have too much, we no longer interact because a true friend/associate never says such a thing. She had issues with me constantly giving her things I no longer used or was given.
It may be that maybe you assume I'm speaking for nothing. No. I believe you and I are meant. It's just I'm in Moline. I can't lie when my spirit left Earth Dirth came back. I feel like a stranger here on Earth. I wanted you to hold me. I want you to love me. Yep.
Gm edagdwg being yourself is a real gift from god pay attention to who you talk to about your life and roles you want even your family sad but true Linda j. Peace
just you🤮it’s very rude to assume a woman is pregnant based on the size of her belly. especially a woman who gave birth not long ago. what a disgusting thing to say.
@@kelceynicole i was only asking because of the way she holds on to her stomach. As a mother of 2 myself, i would never assume anyone is pregnant. I was more commenting in case she possibly was and i missed the announcement
@@MiCHeLiNE20 I understand where you’re coming from, but it’s still rude to say that when you have no idea if she is or isn’t. a lot of women are already insecure about their weight. especially a mom that just had a baby. if she is then she’ll announce again.
Pay attention to those "friends" who are always there during your lows but seem absent during your happiness and success.
This is so messed up. Maybe you didnt include them in your happiness and yet theyre graceful enough to extend a helping hand in hard Times ? Maybe theyre the supporting type that loves to see you soar independently but will always be there to catch you if you fall ?
Show grace and be grateful people still show up for you.
@@libelulangel I agree 100% with this! Also some friends are just very empathetic in nature, which makes them easier to go to during low times, it doesn't mean they aren't happy for you during the highs! And it definitely doesn't mean they rejoice in your misery! What people do with the information you share with them is the ultimate judge of their intentions!
@@libelulangel you are wise.
And also pay attention to the “friends” that come to you only on their low points and be distant when they have everything together. Friendships is about balance.
The thing is my so call friends r the only friends I don’t knw who else to talk to but them smh
I always have an issue with ‘friends’ who also only like to hear your business, but never reveal anything going on in their lives… Your life is used as conversation starters, but you’ve no clue how things are with them because they keep it surface-level. I’ve got to stop oversharing and trusting everyone with my stories 😅
Yep me too. And I said the same, stop oversharing
I call them " Gatherers" can't deal
omg so true
I hateeee that! Friendship is both of sharing with one another otherwise, why are we friends??
Same...but it's a colleague at work I can't choose. Cause I love my work. I just don't like that specific person. She's soooooooo shady. And always asks and listens about other ppls business, makes passive agressive comments.And is a racist. But she knows she has to communicate with me because of work and how much other colleagues respect me. So she keeps it passive agressive, collects all the info and continues the asslickery to my colleagues😂
I feel like my sadness is lasting too long..
Thank you for reminding me that it’s all perspective Loni
The gym and listening to corny self help books. I started doing that. I woke up very early and worked out before work and I am feeling so much better. Try it.
It's time for a detox... I was depressed for no apparent reason, well i had some big life changes but usually i can shake it off fairly quickly but this time messed me up. Thn i remembered i haven't detox recently. Now feeling better daily. Cleanse from inside out.
@@indigobeauty1 I wish you all the best
I heard a psychologist say that when you and your partner are having an argument and he/she is hitting below the belt and being totally disrespectful, just say him/her - "I am not your enemy. We are on the same team."
I loved that
I'm sorry to say but I do not agree with that psychologist a person who hits below the belt or being totally disrespectful needs to receive an ultimatum. Either they change or the relationship is over. I have never ever spoken to someone I'm intimate with as if they were less human and I will never ever put up with it
@@2sense110, I agree 💯!
Tf
I always say that if you have a friend that tells you everyone else’s business, they are telling everyone else all of your business. Don’t think that they can keep your secrets and spills everyone else’s.
I would happily pay a monthly fee to see these girls talk on patron or something and we could send it topics to talk about
in my big age, I've learned this the hard way. Additionally, be leery of friends who judge your hard times especially based on experiences in your past. the worst are the ones who have experienced the SAME experiences but all of a sudden have amnesia and are on their high horse. Bottom line: EVERYONE can attest to making poor decisions especially in their younger days. no one should make you feel inferior bc trust me...they are not any better
Aw I love the “I have a crush on you” that’s the cutest deescalation comeback
Sometimes it be your own family getting charged from your misfortune.
Why is this show being canceled? Can another network please pick it up!?
I don’t know if i agree with Adrienne about the harping on bad things. If your friend needs to vent or express what bothers them who are you to tell them to move on, and quit talking about it.. friends are not just there for your high rises in life.
Yeah that sounds like stop talking about it, your killing my vibe? We all need to vent sometimes. I will vent and I will let you vent and get upset with you. So that's not always true.
I completely agree with you all about friends who gloat in your misfortune, but what if its your family. I was a Regional Manager and the company decided to eliminate the position and the Directors took over. I was out of a job and when I told my mother that day she replied with oh I guess I will not be getting a Coach or Michael Kors handbag for Christmas that year, nor will I be giving her some of my bonus money. I could not believe it. She did not seem to feel bad that I lost a job as a divorced female with a home and child. She did not ask if I was ok. She did not ask if I needed anything. All my mother was concerned with was that she was not going to get something out of me. Till this day that has hurt me. This was not a friend. This was my mom. This was the one person that I thought was there for me only to find out that I was wrong. Now I try and keep good and bad news to myself. People seem to be out for what they can get out of you and that's it.
1. We don’t want the stranger to know who we REALLY are so we act nice even when we aren’t authentically nice.
2. Many people take those closest to them for grant. It’s almost human to get used to people and get comfortable
2. Some people are pretentious. They wanna look good to the stranger coz they need the stranger’s attention
Come thru Adrienne!! Yes indeed
Adrienne is right & she’s talking to me, stop venting to everyone about everything.
1) Way too many people are wolves in sheep's clothing. That's why you need to be really careful about what you share & who you share it with (especially on social media). Once it comes out of your mouth, or once you hit "send", it's no longer just your business.
2) Some people are always on their A-game around strangers because those aren't the people who "love you unconditionally". By comparison, they'll sometimes bring their C or D-game when they're around loved ones because those are the people who have "unconditional" love
Not everyone is your friend … and I’ll leave it at 🍵 !
Sometimes an emotional connection is just hatred cultivated for years, and I was so happy to leave the place where I lived before to have some fresh air, to start a new life and to forget all the misfortunes that person had been doing on me for so long. There should be smth more than just a plate of soup...
This is true cuz my family are the the ones that can hurt me the most🙄
Preach Adrienne and Loni
In my religion they always thought us to be kinder/better to our closer relatives than stranger
Right
Especially Judge mental people trust me I had to learn the hard way
I learned this the hard way! TRUTH
I believe it's only human nature to want to be seen regardless of what's going on in our lives. When we're seen when things are difficult makes it easier to recover from setbacks however not everyone is willing to trek that journey
Disagree with Adrienne. If your friend is using your misery as entertainment, that is no friend. If course theres a limit to how much you harp on something, but if you cant trust your friends, who do you have?
Yeah I like Ade but she lives in a vacuum where she only cares about her husband and family. She seems so annoyed when she asked to actually be a friend outside of partying with them.
“Your misery is their entertainment” WOW This is sad but true
That’s so real- sadly Year a stranger better than you family. Smh
I agree with Adrienne about not harping on things. Not necessary bc ppl use your misery as their entertainment, but bc it can keep you in a funk longer than you would be if you just discussed with 1 or 2 trusted ppl. Any more than that usually turns into unsolicited advice filled with negativity that has left you confused.
The few ppl I talk to love my downfall, but the thing is I really don’t have nobody else to talk to😐
Love Adrienne's whole look here❣❣
I do root for people to fail especially at work where some of my co-workers are knuckleheads they make your job harder not easier. I don't want to continue working with them especially when they know what they're doing is affecting you they're inconsiderate. The next best thing is wishing for them to do something stupid and lose their job because they refuse to change
Stay away from people like that. Those aren’t your friends.
This is so true and sad☹️
Right like why are ppl like this?
A is right.. point period.. 🔥🔥#recognize
This is the very reason why reality TV is so popular
i felt this topic to my core!
Adrienne is wearing that purple…yes ma ma 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
It's such a shame this show is cancelled ugh
Thats why to this very day I dont have social media accounts. I like to remain private.
Me neither. I don’t do social media like that.
Such relatable nice topics .. but show getting canceled 😭
for that kind of people be very nice so that they will think about what is that they are doing to you.
I just love a’s hand gestures lmaooo
Still, its not Healthy to go sniffing out enemies even where they may not be existing...
Like every other time you're suspicious that so and so is up to something nasty,then you end up having the Whole World for enemies.
I've seen friends bail others out of difficult situations,so they don't really feast on other's misfortunes,unless in special cases 🤔
Everyone looking at Adrienne to shut up and stop talking
but that's not true, people who you dislike can make you angry by treating you poorly. You don't have to like anyone to get angry while being disrespected.
My husband went threw this bad.. especially being a 💈 BARBER
What these women fail to understand is that many girlfriends they and Adrienne claim she has are not her friends many are associates they just don't know it yet. If a person can find one person a true friend in a lifetime you did a great job many, no way. Even saying that some friends will hang on for decades because you give them everything they need. Remember Adrienne a word of advice, never tell anyone anything you don't want to be repeated because it will be. One of my associates told me I have too much, we no longer interact because a true friend/associate never says such a thing. She had issues with me constantly giving her things I no longer used or was given.
So true
that's true.
i cant tell if this was before monaco was born
She said "jayz"
Yep
It may be that maybe you assume I'm speaking for nothing. No. I believe you and I are meant. It's just I'm in Moline. I can't lie when my spirit left Earth Dirth came back. I feel like a stranger here on Earth. I wanted you to hold me. I want you to love me. Yep.
4:44 🥰🥰😘
Kick em to the curb 😉
So are you going to make me your honey bunny or what? I'll wait. Wait here. Sweet gee Louise.
Gm edagdwg being yourself is a real gift from god pay attention to who you talk to about your life and roles you want even your family sad but true Linda j. Peace
😭💕
Some people need to talk it might help you maybe if that lil boy had some one to talk to he would not have shot that grocery store up
Am I the only person who thinks Jeanie is pregnant again? That dress isnt helping her if shes not 🤷♀️ just saying
just you🤮it’s very rude to assume a woman is pregnant based on the size of her belly. especially a woman who gave birth not long ago. what a disgusting thing to say.
@@kelceynicole i was only asking because of the way she holds on to her stomach. As a mother of 2 myself, i would never assume anyone is pregnant. I was more commenting in case she possibly was and i missed the announcement
@@MiCHeLiNE20 I understand where you’re coming from, but it’s still rude to say that when you have no idea if she is or isn’t. a lot of women are already insecure about their weight. especially a mom that just had a baby. if she is then she’ll announce again.
She literally had a baby 4 months ago. Many mom miss their belly so they “hold “ their belly as is their baby was there
@@kelceynicole relax. She wasnt trying to be rude. You’re overdramatic asf. Go take a chill pill
All I know is that I'm so glad that you guys got canceled it's your boring selves except Jeannie in garcelle
And yet you are one of the first people to comment minutes after the video is posted lol. If the show is so bad why are you here? get a life😂😂
But you’re here watching them…make it make sense
Classic example of a miserable life lol
@@user-en1zc5vd6y 😂😂
What’s it like to be the only person to like your comment?