I’m 63 and afraid of so many things (animals, men, etc.). But this year, I am preparing myself to go by myself exploring the silence. I will prepare myself and I am starting in my living room (tent and equipment) to make sure I got everything. After, I will go in campsite (with other human 😌). But for sure, I will follow your advice, your wisdom. Thank you so so so much Wendy 🫶🏼
Wow Monique, that is a very inspiring story. I really encourage you to follow through with your plan. Starting at home is a wonderful idea. Going slowly is perfectly ok. We each have to chart our own course. I really wish you well with your journey. Keep your end goal in sight. You will make it.
You might check in your area there are lots of singles groups for camping together they’re safety in numbers .I’m 59 and pretty much good shape. I would never camp alone. I wouldn’t have any fun because I would be constantly on watch.
I have been our of the loop of camping for over 45 years,70 now and am hesitant about getting back out there.gonna practice in my backyard.then try a few close parks.my son was kind enough to ask if I want to join him on a trip! Just gotta get started again,thanks everyone!
I’m 64 in South Korea and i ‘ve been so afraid of growing older. But i have realized to watch your vedio that’s why i dont know how to enjoy being alone. I’ll try to learn to enjoy being myself. Thank you so much~~❤
I watched this video before I went on a solo kayak camping trip in Voyageur National Park in Minnesota. It was on the very edge of my comfort zone. I paddled in a mile to my campsite on my own private lake. It was beautiful. Every time I got a little nervous,I just remembered fantasy vs reality and it was so helpful. Thank you for all your comforting wisdom.
omg- Deborah!!!!! 👏 that was exactly right and you did it!! Wonderful . I use it myself all the time. It gets easier- Imagine, your own private lake just out there- How perfect was that- Good on you! go girl go!! ❤️
I just discovered your channel. I love the gentle and thoughtful way that you give your tips. I have camped all my life and currently travel solo in a travel trailer. I also like kayaking and backpacking. Your advice makes so much sense. I’m planning a trip to Voyageur National Park in the US and I booked a site on an island that I have to kayak/boat to. I’ve been a little afraid to go but the idea of practicing something similar closer to home is a good idea. My fear is being unable to bale out in the night if I’m not comfortable. Your self talk ideas are very helpful. Thanks for your insights!
Hi Deborah, I love the mental idea of the island and have done that myself. It is somewhat comforting but I still need to give myself the talk before bed. You may wake up a few times but try your best to be firm with your imagination. Creative thoughts in the dark aren't often very helpful. Do practice a bit before you go. One good thing is that there is often a lot of light reflected off the water and you can see further. Face your tent out towards the light and try your best to ignore the dark. Have a great time. You will be so pleased with yourself after.
I've gone solo camping 3x. The last time, I was in a part of a provincial park (Ontario, Canada) where it was only me and a guy in the site next to me. He showed up later. After having dinner, I realized I wouldn't be comfortable sleeping there (or trying to). I packed up and drove over 3 hours to get home. Better safe than sorry.
This is great. I'm so tired of the advice to never go camping alone and the accompanying fear mongering. Having done almost nothing but solo backpacking for all of my adult life, I can't imagine how less rich my life would have been had I listened to that advice.
thanks Dave. Sadly it seems we have an excess of fear in our lives these days. Fear is important in life but so is learning how to deal with it so we aren't paralyzed. I'm still on the journey myself.
I am in the uk so different here. No bears wolves etc. wild animals are deer badger foxes squirrels etc and in Scotland maybe small wild cat. I am a pensioner and wanted to wild camp for ages so last week went to a forest in Scotland. It was about 3 miles long and I was the only person camping. The first night I was a little nervous I must admit. There was some animal just inches from my head but didn’t have courage to find out what.the second night I wasn’t so nervous. I loved the solitude of it and went on some lovely walks early in the morning as the sun woke me up. I have however decided it’s not for me but I am so glad I tried it. It’s not easy to wild camp in the uk as the law prevents it in all but 2 places but Scotland is ok with it.the scenery was stunning. Really good tips and everything makes sense.
When I was younger I used to go horse camping across the State of Michigan. There was a 85 year old lady on by herself and I always wanted to be like that. Happy 4th Wendy!
I did quite as bit of solo backpacking in my 60’s. My biggest concern was people. I always had my German shepherd with me and set up my camp away from other camp sites. Of course also used bear bags and never prepared food near my sleeping spot and followed your other tips. My highest confidence builder though was my dog.
I'm not as confident a camper anymore since my GSD passed away. I love Wendy's videos. I'm hoping to do more remote camping and she is definitely inspiring
I'm only 32, seeing a lot of older folks here but overcoming my fear of solo camping (sleeping in the car though) is what I need to work on. This was inspiring and I think I could just open this video out there if I get nervous. This year is going to be the year I will get comfortable.
I don't think age is an issue. I also don't think solo camping is for everyone-but-- If it is really important to you to go out and do this you will find a way to deal with your fears. All of us have our own issues and will develop strategies for managing them. Videos like mine may help but ultimately you find what works for you. I know you will find your way through this and determine how to support yourself through fear. Go slowly and safely. I really wish you success with your journey. Please let me know how you do.
Hi ! I've been in the great outdoors since I was a kid 50 yrs old now. Had a bear encounter, ripped my screen tent a bit. Key is. Keep a very clean campsite, stow away your trash and wash all dishes and esp pans. This bear went after my clean cast iron pan. They have Very keen sense of smell. Like you said, zero food in the tent. Period. Tks for your vids Wendy. You are an inspiration to many ! 😊
Thank you. I love camping, I love camping alone, with my dog ….. but I’ve turned into a …. (no negativity). I now have a small 5th wheel. You are an inspiration. Maybe this year I’ll venture away from the safety of the forest service campground (which is my goal). Thank you.
I totally agree with you about the psychological side of camping alone. If I camp in a hammock and if the weather allows it I keep my tarp as open as I can so I can look around and that helps me relax everytime I hear something. Asses reality as you say. Ma'am you got a new subscriber! Greeting from Costa Rica
Wow, I think you are the first from Costa Rica- Welcome. I really appreciate hearing about your experiences. I imagine hammock camping would be the way to go where you live. I think of jungle areas and crawling creatures. Up off the ground would appeal to me! I love having a good "view" when I am out in my hammock tent. Makes me feel quite secure as it does for you. Looking forward to hearing from you again.
I usually avoid as much as I can jungle because it can be very dense and full of insects and snakes, it is in deed very necessary to stay off the ground. The humidity can drive you mad and it may start raining at any minute. But over here we have tropical rainforests, deciduous forests, cloud forests and mangroves in a very small country which gives me the oportunity to have many different biomes to choose. Thanks for the warm welcoming. 🙂
Humans are my main concern every time. Yeah I plan for animals and keep the food away and all but it’s humans that make me nervous. They are just too unpredictable
In regards to the vessel you use to have at your area of sleep at night- make sure it's only had water in it and never had anything else in it. Even if you bleach the vessel, the smells of drink mixes or juices will linger. I have one bottle that I use for drink mixes, all others are clean.
I like you talks on the outdoors Wendy. Really helps me to know what to do and a lot of stuff I wouldn't think of. I am only new and starting out. I would go solo in a backyard then a campground with people around me before I even attempted going in the bush. Love you channel. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Get accustomed to it by day camping a few times in a given location (learn how to use your equipment), if your able to, camping overnight in your backyard to get used to the night sounds, your equipment and bathroom runs in the darkness. Also, check the moon calendar and go camping when there will be moonlight, not pitch dark (pitch dark can be scary when you can't see your hand in front of your face or your tent if you step outside to pee). When you get home, take notes on what worked and what did not work. I cook a lot at home, when I am solo in the wilderness I don't bother, I just heat water for warm drinks, soup or mashed potatoes, otherwise eat cold simple food - but that would make for a boring video or trip with another person. Also, if you take a dog, the dog has to be acclimated to night noises and tent life as well, otherwise you might get holes in your tent or mesh windows and be kept awake by barking or a restless dog! The zippers on a tent can be pulled together and "locked" with a carabiner or a zip tie (keep a knife handy to cut it to get out), there are proximity sensors that turn on a light or alarm if someone or something comes close to your car or tent. I had a fear of getting lost so I bought a watch (Garmin Instinct) that has a breadcrumb feature, it tracks my steps and I can follow it back to my car or camp. My ambition is to try bikepacking to take me where cars can't go and farther than most human legs are willing to travel (including mine). With a Garmin mini of course! Happy trails everybody.
I love solo camping and backpacking, and your channel is MAJOR inspiration to continue! I find it’s helpful to pick a campsite in the daylight, and then mindfully listen to all of the sounds, especially with my eyes closed! Then because it’s daylight I can open my eyes and understand “Oh that’s just a robin bouncing around in the leaves”, or “Oh that’s just an acorn tumbling over the rocks”. Becoming familiar with the soundscape of the land you’re on!
Great tips 👍 I once lite a scented candle like birthday cake ir something & thought WOW what a way to attract an animal. I blee ut iut & took it to the car !!
Love your advice! And I'm probably your newest subscriber! You are welcome. 😊 I'm going to be 48 years old before you know it... A few years ago I really rediscovered the outdoors. Any advice, is always welcome to my ears and heart. You be careful out there!!
Hello... just found you and so glad I did. Your tips are practical and wise. Thanks lots. Just done a solo trip but in a cabin. (I'm in South Africa)Was great but nights are a bit scary.
Hello Lyn- I spent a few months around South Africa- I think a cabin is a great choice! Very different environment than where I live. Nights are the time of imagination for sure. take care and enjoy. It is a beautiful part of the world
When I started going solo camping I used Hipcamp to camp on private property where the owner lives on the property. Or camp at private run campgrounds (rather than National Parks where often there are no onsite staff). I have camped at a state run reserve but this was during school holidays, so there were lots of other families around. Also, sounds sound louder when you are sleeping on the ground. A late night conversation at a tent site several sites away sounds like the people are standing right outside your tent. Love your videos.
The silence can be a bit unnerving at time in the back country. We live in a pretty noisy world. Just glad you can get out . Doesn't matter so much where you go, just happy you can get away from time to time. Enjoy
I'm 50 now and did a lot of hiking and camping about 10 years ago always with someone else. I'm just getting back into it and going at it solo for the first time. Good advice. I've setup up my gear in my yard and practiced with my setup and stove etc. I feel a lot more confident and am looking for to my first solo overnight. Great video!
That is awesome Stella- I do hope you have a wonderful time. Just go slowly and pick your destinations with care. Small steps seemed to have worked for me. I am still not traversing the wilderness but I am now free to get out when no one else is available. That is really all I wanted. It provides such a feeling of freedom within a safety net.
I know someone who generally went to bed when it was light out at first when she was camping alone. I think it helped when she was just getting used to it. I really like the idea of sitting quietly in your chosen campsite in the daylight.
thanks greyscout-sounds like you must have outdoor experience yourself. All input is welcome. My goal with all this is to encourage all those who want to get outdoors to get out there regardless of age or gender and to do it safely.
I look at it like this. Worst thing is you could die. Being outside with nature is a great way to go compare that to being in a nursing home or place like that. I spend alot of time hammock camping in the swamps of south louisiana.. I love it. Worst thing could happen bigfoot could kill you but hey thats a cool way to go if you ask me. The thing is just relax and enjoy nature .
So glad I found your channel. I’m 61 and for about a year now I have desired to hike and camp over night. I live in NC so there are many places available to do this. But as a female … I tend to spook my own self and I don’t know what I’d do if a stranger came upon my campsite especially during the night. Have you ever encountered that or what tips do you have if something like that were to occur?
Hello Lori- I have not had that happen . I am very picky about where I go, prevention is key-I prefer back country sites where you have to walk in or paddle in. . I carry my cell phone and a satellite device.. Also bear spray. Many solo campers also take self defence courses. that seems a reasonable thing to do.
Hi Wendy. Good tips! Luckily I grew up with parents who already liked camping in nature. When you get to know everything (the sounds, the wind, the weather, the camping gear) as a child, you know what happens. I have more trust in nature than in cities. Btw I am 68 now. I live in the Netherlands. Camping 'in nature' here is not 'wild camping', because that's illegal here. But the camp sites where I camp are almost like wild camping. They are in forests, with one-tent-places between the trees/bushes. They don't have many facilities, only a bathroom building. When I camp in spring or autumn there aren't many other people there. One time I even was all on my own ... and I liked it, had a very good night sleep!
Thanks Wendy your advise is spot on. I’ve just purchased the Haven hammock tent and looking forward to some forest camping alone which I’ve never done before. Thanks for helping.
@@TheZakkmylde I think there is a place for both a hammock and a tent. one of the things I like about the hammock is being off the ground .especailly when rocky and not level. the other thing I liked was being able to see around me when inside if I keep the sides staked out. one plus for the tent is having more room inside, especially if its raining for a long time! you can also sit up in a tent with some one else to chat or play a card game etc during bad weather.
I'm a huge fan Wendy. Such wise advice you are giving. Camping off a 2 track. Been doing it a long time and love it so much. Much better than state parks, etc.
good for you. I too would love to find a special spot I can go to but around here it is difficult. Thankfully there are lots of great parks, front and back country opportunities. Staying warm is a high priority. Sounds like you have solved that one! Congrats!!!
Thank you so much! I'm 63, used to camp but tried once to solo off the grid... changed my mind when i came across a mess, garbage, beer cans, etc. That was 30+ years ago. Now we have meth labs, etc. But i know there are good places to find and I want to go before i can't anymore. There is so much to carry, what items do you take as essential and what do you leave behind... when i camp at parks, my car is loaded, cooler, cot, tent, food, etc. Do you make a couple of trips back to the car?
thanks for the questions. What I take very much depends on whether I am backpacking, canoeing or car camping. However it all boils down to a few areas. shelter- sleeping-cooking and food-safety- hygiene- clothing. If backpacking I carry approximately 20-25 lbs maximum. Very basic but still covers all the necessities. In my canoe or car camping I add more of the same and don't focus on being as lite as possible but still stay in the basic needs . I have never gone back to the car for more than I can carry. I only take what is essential, very few if any extras. Many folks have done supply list videos on You Tube. I would suggest you decide what type of camping you want to do then do a search and check out what others have taken for that style of camping. I haven't done this myself because there is so much on the internet about this topic. One thing I keep in mind for myself is what is essential and what is not. One of the things I especially enjoy about back packing is that it is minimalist. What is the least I can safely get by with and carry on my back and still be reasonably comfortable? Stick to what I need and avoid what might be nice then go from there. Hope this helps a bit. keep weighing your pack as you go. It is amazing what you can leave at home.
Thank you for your video Wendy, have you thought about car camping, rather than on a tent or the hammock? Even though you are handling the hammock really well. Enjoy!!!
thank you for commenting. I am so happy you found this video helpful. Just finished one on managing injury, wildlife and other people. You may find another tip or two. enjoy the outdoors.
Love the video. You’ve got a new subscriber in me (: unfortunately im getting out there solo after getting a divorce. Nature has been getting me through this
You are going through an incredibly challenging transition. I am happy for you that you have found Nature's gift. The outdoors grounds like nothing else. I know you will get through. Thank you so much for sharing and for being a new subscriber. The out door world is very supportive. Looking forward to hearing how you are doing. Always open to assist wherever I can.
Just subscribed! Thanks for this informative video. Recently went tent camping for the first time with my brother and really enjoyed it. I'm planning on doing some solo camping soon. I'll keep these tips in mind!
Hi, we camp and RV, but one year, i went to a winter campground, in my campervan, alone as my husband needed to work. I was only on my own, with dogs, for 3 nights, but i had men who made me feel uncomfortable for 2 days, as they constantly drove by my campsite. I am rarely afraid of animals, it is the people i fear. Even though i am no longer young or pretty, the creeps still come around. Any tips on the human threats vs animals or nature?
that is actually a real concern Piper- I do go out in winter but usually pick a spot where there is some kind of a campground person around and within cell service if possible although I have an emergency texting devise as well. . I think it was brave of you to carry on for the 3 days. Perhaps not that relaxing. Hard to know if they were really interested in annoying you or not. I think if they were you have known it. Maybe they were just awestruck that you were some tough woman out there on your own!! solo women are a bit of an anomaly. I also carry bear spray as firearms are very restricted in Canada. Gives me a sense of some protection. I actually treat people as I do animals- car close by, bear spray, loud whistle , bear banger, and emergency texting device. I admire your stick to it behaviour. I did a video on the " 3 major fears "of solo camping you might want to check out on my playlists under solo camping. thanks for sharing your experience.
at that place I am able to cook at my campsite. there is a food cache away from the site to place food , dishes and any garbage safely. in other areas I have cooked away from my tent site, hope this answers your question. thanks for commenting.
Hi Wendy, new to your channel. You’re a gutsy lady! I’m 63 and we have a travel trailer and I’ve camped alone with it. I can’t believe you’re so brave to camp alone in a tent! When I camp alone I prefer to stay in a private campground & am worried about a state or national park. These are great tips, thank you for the advice.
Thanks for watching. I choose spots where I feel comfortable. I know the area and take precautions. I’m pretty careful about where I’ll go. I prefer areas away from people. I d rather deal with the low risk of a four legged coming by!!! Enjoy whatever you feel comfortable with. That’s what really matters. Good luck.
yes, you are correct. If I leave the site I put it on but when sitting down on the ground I have it near me. Thank you for pointing that out and thanks for commenting.
These are terrible times in our country, women no matter what their age are not safe from human predators. No matter what our rational is or common sense we are still not safe from other humans. You can let this reality stop you from doing what you love or you can risk it. Take care, be safe and go armed.
I actually live in Canada so going armed isn't really an option. I do carry bear spray. thanks for your concern . I will continue to choose my sites with care.
No one cares where I am, what I'm doing, or where I'm going, so I don't bother with that "safety protocol." I'm the only one I can count on, so it's who I count on & always have (except God, who's always watched over & taken care of me my whole life). 😊
Ill be 69 this September. I gave up backpacking a couple years ago. I still camp but don’t backpack anymore. You got me rethinking that. Thank you
Will all be 68 September so I'm thinking about starting this
I’m 63 and afraid of so many things (animals, men, etc.). But this year, I am preparing myself to go by myself exploring the silence. I will prepare myself and I am starting in my living room (tent and equipment) to make sure I got everything. After, I will go in campsite (with other human 😌). But for sure, I will follow your advice, your wisdom. Thank you so so so much Wendy 🫶🏼
Wow Monique, that is a very inspiring story. I really encourage you to follow through with your plan. Starting at home is a wonderful idea. Going slowly is perfectly ok. We each have to chart our own course. I really wish you well with your journey. Keep your end goal in sight. You will make it.
I'm 50 years old. I want to take my brother with me. It's more fun when you have company.
You might check in your area there are lots of singles groups for camping together they’re safety in numbers .I’m 59 and pretty much good shape. I would never camp alone. I wouldn’t have any fun because I would be constantly on watch.
I have been our of the loop of camping for over 45 years,70 now and am hesitant about getting back out there.gonna practice in my backyard.then try a few close parks.my son was kind enough to ask if I want to join him on a trip! Just gotta get started again,thanks everyone!
Well done,
It gets easier and easier
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Almost 60 year old male here. Thank you, taking my 1st bicycle tour soon. I plan on doing stealth / wild camping.
Best of luck! hope you have a marvellous time . I love your title. how true.
@@wendyoutdoors2230 Thank you
Excellent advice. I loved the tip about sitting around the camp in the daylight being quiet and getting used to the sounds before it is dark.
I’m 64 in South Korea and i ‘ve been so afraid of growing older. But i have realized to watch your vedio that’s why i dont know how to enjoy being alone. I’ll try to learn to enjoy being myself. Thank you so much~~❤
I watched this video before I went on a solo kayak camping trip in Voyageur National Park in Minnesota. It was on the very edge of my comfort zone. I paddled in a mile to my campsite on my own private lake. It was beautiful. Every time I got a little nervous,I just remembered fantasy vs reality and it was so helpful. Thank you for all your comforting wisdom.
omg- Deborah!!!!! 👏 that was exactly right and you did it!! Wonderful . I use it myself all the time. It gets easier- Imagine, your own private lake just out there- How perfect was that- Good on you! go girl go!! ❤️
I just discovered your channel. I love the gentle and thoughtful way that you give your tips. I have camped all my life and currently travel solo in a travel trailer. I also like kayaking and backpacking. Your advice makes so much sense. I’m planning a trip to Voyageur National Park in the US and I booked a site on an island that I have to kayak/boat to. I’ve been a little afraid to go but the idea of practicing something similar closer to home is a good idea. My fear is being unable to bale out in the night if I’m not comfortable. Your self talk ideas are very helpful. Thanks for your insights!
Hi Deborah, I love the mental idea of the island and have done that myself. It is somewhat comforting but I still need to give myself the talk before bed. You may wake up a few times but try your best to be firm with your imagination. Creative thoughts in the dark aren't often very helpful. Do practice a bit before you go. One good thing is that there is often a lot of light reflected off the water and you can see further. Face your tent out towards the light and try your best to ignore the dark. Have a great time. You will be so pleased with yourself after.
I've gone solo camping 3x. The last time, I was in a part of a provincial park (Ontario, Canada) where it was only me and a guy in the site next to me. He showed up later. After having dinner, I realized I wouldn't be comfortable sleeping there (or trying to). I packed up and drove over 3 hours to get home. Better safe than sorry.
Absolutely- You have to trust how you feel.
This is great. I'm so tired of the advice to never go camping alone and the accompanying fear mongering. Having done almost nothing but solo backpacking for all of my adult life, I can't imagine how less rich my life would have been had I listened to that advice.
thanks Dave. Sadly it seems we have an excess of fear in our lives these days. Fear is important in life but so is learning how to deal with it so we aren't paralyzed. I'm still on the journey myself.
You’re doing such good thing for people.
thank you so very much
I am in the uk so different here. No bears wolves etc. wild animals are deer badger foxes squirrels etc and in Scotland maybe small wild cat. I am a pensioner and wanted to wild camp for ages so last week went to a forest in Scotland. It was about 3 miles long and I was the only person camping. The first night I was a little nervous I must admit. There was some animal just inches from my head but didn’t have courage to find out what.the second night I wasn’t so nervous. I loved the solitude of it and went on some lovely walks early in the morning as the sun woke me up. I have however decided it’s not for me but I am so glad I tried it. It’s not easy to wild camp in the uk as the law prevents it in all but 2 places but Scotland is ok with it.the scenery was stunning. Really good tips and everything makes sense.
Good for you to have given it a great try. You did it successfully and now you know it isn't your thing- You win in all ways. Bravo
When I was younger I used to go horse camping across the State of Michigan. There was a 85 year old lady on by herself and I always wanted to be like that. Happy 4th Wendy!
thanks Pam
Brilliant video. Very intelligent and experienced woman. Thank you very much.
From scary Australia 🇦🇺 😊
Thank you! 😃
A lot of good advice, Wendy. Thanks for sharing.
thanks again for watching- hope you found something useful. If you have anything to add that might help others please add it on.
I did quite as bit of solo backpacking in my 60’s. My biggest concern was people. I always had my German shepherd with me and set up my camp away from other camp sites. Of course also used bear bags and never prepared food near my sleeping spot and followed your other tips. My highest confidence builder though was my dog.
Yes, I can understand that plus there is nothing like a dog for company. Always there for you.
I'm not as confident a camper anymore since my GSD passed away. I love Wendy's videos. I'm hoping to do more remote camping and she is definitely inspiring
I'm only 32, seeing a lot of older folks here but overcoming my fear of solo camping (sleeping in the car though) is what I need to work on. This was inspiring and I think I could just open this video out there if I get nervous. This year is going to be the year I will get comfortable.
I don't think age is an issue. I also don't think solo camping is for everyone-but-- If it is really important to you to go out and do this you will find a way to deal with your fears. All of us have our own issues and will develop strategies for managing them. Videos like mine may help but ultimately you find what works for you. I know you will find your way through this and determine how to support yourself through fear. Go slowly and safely. I really wish you success with your journey. Please let me know how you do.
Excellent tips . I love the outdoors. It’s my place of peace and joy . Be safe and continue camping ❤
thanks Jan
Thank you for sharing your camping with us. I'm looking forward to camping with my young grandson soon.
It is such a great adventure to share with loved ones!
Hi ! I've been in the great outdoors since I was a kid 50 yrs old now. Had a bear encounter, ripped my screen tent a bit. Key is. Keep a very clean campsite, stow away your trash and wash all dishes and esp pans. This bear went after my clean cast iron pan. They have Very keen sense of smell. Like you said, zero food in the tent. Period. Tks for your vids Wendy. You are an inspiration to many ! 😊
thank you for reinforcing the clean campsite message- It can not be said too often. It is very important
This is wonderful and very thoughtful advice! Thank you ❤
You are so adventurous! And your advice was so comprehensive, you put a lot of thought into this.
Thanks Judy, I enjoy getting out there so much. Hoping it encourages someone to try it if they would like to give it a go.
Thank you. I love camping, I love camping alone, with my dog ….. but I’ve turned into a …. (no negativity). I now have a small 5th wheel. You are an inspiration. Maybe this year I’ll venture away from the safety of the forest service campground (which is my goal). Thank you.
I wish you happy camping however you do it. I have a van which I also enjoy.
Hi Wendy. I bought a tent made to be used in the bed of my truck from Amazon. It makes me feel safe at night. Gramma Candy
Wonderful Candy- Have a wonderful time.
Great tips Wendy!! Thank you for sharing!
you are most welcome .
GOOD ADVICE, WENDY!!!! Do take care. Fl., USA
I will Jean and thank you!
I totally agree with you about the psychological side of camping alone. If I camp in a hammock and if the weather allows it I keep my tarp as open as I can so I can look around and that helps me relax everytime I hear something. Asses reality as you say. Ma'am you got a new subscriber! Greeting from Costa Rica
Wow, I think you are the first from Costa Rica- Welcome. I really appreciate hearing about your experiences. I imagine hammock camping would be the way to go where you live. I think of jungle areas and crawling creatures. Up off the ground would appeal to me! I love having a good "view" when I am out in my hammock tent. Makes me feel quite secure as it does for you. Looking forward to hearing from you again.
I usually avoid as much as I can jungle because it can be very dense and full of insects and snakes, it is in deed very necessary to stay off the ground. The humidity can drive you mad and it may start raining at any minute. But over here we have tropical rainforests, deciduous forests, cloud forests and mangroves in a very small country which gives me the oportunity to have many different biomes to choose. Thanks for the warm welcoming. 🙂
@@ilubatar77 you are most welcome. Sounds like a wonderful country.
Thanks Wendy..great advice..I have camped out my whole life ..however not by myself..but I’m thinking about it..❤
You might give it a try but if you have someone to go with that is also great. Just going camping is what it's about- being outside and enjoying.
Humans are my main concern every time. Yeah I plan for animals and keep the food away and all but it’s humans that make me nervous. They are just too unpredictable
Yes Mark, they are but I guess we all decide what are risk limits are, then go from there. There is no wrong or right.
I agree, so make provisions to protect myself (noise makers, locked doors, & spray). I also keep keys handy. Have fun!
Thank you for the wonderful tips! I loved all of the mental tricks to help yourself, especially when alone!
They all help me have a more peaceful time- thanks for watching
In regards to the vessel you use to have at your area of sleep at night- make sure it's only had water in it and never had anything else in it. Even if you bleach the vessel, the smells of drink mixes or juices will linger. I have one bottle that I use for drink mixes, all others are clean.
Great tip!
I like you talks on the outdoors Wendy. Really helps me to know what to do and a lot of stuff I wouldn't think of. I am only new and starting out. I would go solo in a backyard then a campground with people around me before I even attempted going in the bush. Love you channel. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.
Get accustomed to it by day camping a few times in a given location (learn how to use your equipment), if your able to, camping overnight in your backyard to get used to the night sounds, your equipment and bathroom runs in the darkness. Also, check the moon calendar and go camping when there will be moonlight, not pitch dark (pitch dark can be scary when you can't see your hand in front of your face or your tent if you step outside to pee). When you get home, take notes on what worked and what did not work. I cook a lot at home, when I am solo in the wilderness I don't bother, I just heat water for warm drinks, soup or mashed potatoes, otherwise eat cold simple food - but that would make for a boring video or trip with another person. Also, if you take a dog, the dog has to be acclimated to night noises and tent life as well, otherwise you might get holes in your tent or mesh windows and be kept awake by barking or a restless dog! The zippers on a tent can be pulled together and "locked" with a carabiner or a zip tie (keep a knife handy to cut it to get out), there are proximity sensors that turn on a light or alarm if someone or something comes close to your car or tent. I had a fear of getting lost so I bought a watch (Garmin Instinct) that has a breadcrumb feature, it tracks my steps and I can follow it back to my car or camp. My ambition is to try bikepacking to take me where cars can't go and farther than most human legs are willing to travel (including mine). With a Garmin mini of course! Happy trails everybody.
thank you so much Mary for all your suggestions. I know the viewers who read it as well as myself will find them quite useful.
I love solo camping and backpacking, and your channel is MAJOR inspiration to continue! I find it’s helpful to pick a campsite in the daylight, and then mindfully listen to all of the sounds, especially with my eyes closed! Then because it’s daylight I can open my eyes and understand “Oh that’s just a robin bouncing around in the leaves”, or “Oh that’s just an acorn tumbling over the rocks”. Becoming familiar with the soundscape of the land you’re on!
So true! aI totally Agee with you. . thanks Kierstin
I love how you so clearly and authentically share your experiences. Thanks for being out here doing this.
This is fantastic advice! Thank you for this.
I haven’t camped alone overnight yet, but this gives me great tips to try.
Glad it was helpful!
Great tips 👍 I once lite a scented candle like birthday cake ir something & thought WOW what a way to attract an animal. I blee ut iut & took it to the car !!
Love that!
Such a refreshingly wonderful video with affirming and encouraging dialogue for women looking for time to themselves with nature.
thank you Kat-
Love your advice!
And I'm probably your newest subscriber!
You are welcome. 😊
I'm going to be 48 years old before you know it... A few years ago I really rediscovered the outdoors. Any advice, is always welcome to my ears and heart.
You be careful out there!!
Thanks so much for subbing. I will continue to be careful. Love getting out there. Good luck to you and enjoy
Hello... just found you and so glad I did. Your tips are practical and wise. Thanks lots. Just done a solo trip but in a cabin. (I'm in South Africa)Was great but nights are a bit scary.
Hello Lyn- I spent a few months around South Africa- I think a cabin is a great choice! Very different environment than where I live. Nights are the time of imagination for sure. take care and enjoy. It is a beautiful part of the world
When I started going solo camping I used Hipcamp to camp on private property where the owner lives on the property. Or camp at private run campgrounds (rather than National Parks where often there are no onsite staff). I have camped at a state run reserve but this was during school holidays, so there were lots of other families around.
Also, sounds sound louder when you are sleeping on the ground. A late night conversation at a tent site several sites away sounds like the people are standing right outside your tent.
Love your videos.
The silence can be a bit unnerving at time in the back country. We live in a pretty noisy world. Just glad you can get out .
Doesn't matter so much where you go, just happy you can get away from time to time. Enjoy
I'm 50 now and did a lot of hiking and camping about 10 years ago always with someone else. I'm just getting back into it and going at it solo for the first time. Good advice. I've setup up my gear in my yard and practiced with my setup and stove etc. I feel a lot more confident and am looking for to my first solo overnight. Great video!
That is awesome Stella- I do hope you have a wonderful time. Just go slowly and pick your destinations with care. Small steps seemed to have worked for me. I am still not traversing the wilderness but I am now free to get out when no one else is available. That is really all I wanted. It provides such a feeling of freedom within a safety net.
I know someone who generally went to bed when it was light out at first when she was camping alone. I think it helped when she was just getting used to it. I really like the idea of sitting quietly in your chosen campsite in the daylight.
thanks Melanie- Much appreciate your time.
My new fave channel!
thanks so much- wonderful to have you along
Good tips for any level of camper.
thanks greyscout-sounds like you must have outdoor experience yourself. All input is welcome. My goal with all this is to encourage all those who want to get outdoors to get out there regardless of age or gender and to do it safely.
I look at it like this. Worst thing is you could die. Being outside with nature is a great way to go compare that to being in a nursing home or place like that. I spend alot of time hammock camping in the swamps of south louisiana.. I love it. Worst thing could happen bigfoot could kill you but hey thats a cool way to go if you ask me. The thing is just relax and enjoy nature .
thanks Christopher. after all, enjoying nature is why most of us are out there in the first place!
Very sensible.
thank you-
So glad I found your channel. I’m 61 and for about a year now I have desired to hike and camp over night. I live in NC so there are many places available to do this. But as a female … I tend to spook my own self and I don’t know what I’d do if a stranger came upon my campsite especially during the night. Have you ever encountered that or what tips do you have if something like that were to occur?
Hello Lori- I have not had that happen . I am very picky about where I go, prevention is key-I prefer back country sites where you have to walk in or paddle in. . I carry my cell phone and a satellite device.. Also bear spray. Many solo campers also take self defence courses. that seems a reasonable thing to do.
You are amazing wendy 🎉
thank you Barbara- no more than most though
Hi Wendy. Good tips! Luckily I grew up with parents who already liked camping in nature. When you get to know everything (the sounds, the wind, the weather, the camping gear) as a child, you know what happens. I have more trust in nature than in cities.
Btw I am 68 now. I live in the Netherlands. Camping 'in nature' here is not 'wild camping', because that's illegal here. But the camp sites where I camp are almost like wild camping. They are in forests, with one-tent-places between the trees/bushes. They don't have many facilities, only a bathroom building. When I camp in spring or autumn there aren't many other people there. One time I even was all on my own ... and I liked it, had a very good night sleep!
Thanks for sharing!sounds great
Thanks for the great advice, Wendy! You’re an inspiration!
Thanks so much for watching. Really appreciate it
Thanks Wendy your advise is spot on. I’ve just purchased the Haven hammock tent and looking forward to some forest camping alone which I’ve never done before. Thanks for helping.
Great , please keep in touch and let me know how you do. Go slow and go safe👍🏕
@@wendyoutdoors2230 thank you Wendy I shall let you know 👍🏴
I was looking at these hammock tense. I’m curious your thoughts if they would be better than a tent
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@@TheZakkmylde I think there is a place for both a hammock and a tent. one of the things I like about the hammock is being off the ground .especailly when rocky and not level. the other thing I liked was being able to see around me when inside if I keep the sides staked out. one plus for the tent is having more room inside, especially if its raining for a long time! you can also sit up in a tent with some one else to chat or play a card game etc during bad weather.
Wendy thankyou for the advise you give us...its items people dont think of but absolutely so important
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thanks you Becky- happy to hear you find some thing useful here.
I'm a huge fan Wendy. Such wise advice you are giving. Camping off a 2 track. Been doing it a long time and love it so much. Much better than state parks, etc.
thanks so much- happy to hear from you.
Great advice! 😊
good for you. I too would love to find a special spot I can go to but around here it is difficult. Thankfully there are lots of great parks, front and back country opportunities. Staying warm is a high priority. Sounds like you have solved that one! Congrats!!!
Very helpful, thank you!
Happy it gave you something useful
Very good points..
thank you
Thank you so very much
I am pleased you have found something here that may help. thanks for watching.
You are an inspiration 😊
Thank you
Very helpful! Thanks Wendy!🫶
great, good to know- thank you
Wise words! Thanks for sharing them! I just subscribed 😀
thanks Tim for the sub- hoping you can find something entertaining or useful here. I have fun doing this.
Wow, this is great advice. I've never heard some of these ideas from any of the other channels I watch. Thank you for sharing.
Glad it was helpful. I share what I have learned over the years and hope it may be of some help to others getting out there. Thank you for watching.
Thank you, Wendy, for your tips and advice! It was very helpful 🩷
You are so welcome Ramona
What a wonderful and honest video about wildcamping, i still feel fearful about doing it, so this has helped me thanks Wendy
Glad it was helpful!
Hello. You are well done 👍
Thanks very much
Thank you so much! I'm 63, used to camp but tried once to solo off the grid... changed my mind when i came across a mess, garbage, beer cans, etc. That was 30+ years ago. Now we have meth labs, etc. But i know there are good places to find and I want to go before i can't anymore. There is so much to carry, what items do you take as essential and what do you leave behind... when i camp at parks, my car is loaded, cooler, cot, tent, food, etc. Do you make a couple of trips back to the car?
thanks for the questions. What I take very much depends on whether I am backpacking, canoeing or car camping. However it all boils down to a few areas. shelter- sleeping-cooking and food-safety- hygiene- clothing. If backpacking I carry approximately 20-25 lbs maximum. Very basic but still covers all the necessities. In my canoe or car camping I add more of the same and don't focus on being as lite as possible but still stay in the basic needs . I have never gone back to the car for more than I can carry. I only take what is essential, very few if any extras. Many folks have done supply list videos on You Tube. I would suggest you decide what type of camping you want to do then do a search and check out what others have taken for that style of camping. I haven't done this myself because there is so much on the internet about this topic. One thing I keep in mind for myself is what is essential and what is not. One of the things I especially enjoy about back packing is that it is minimalist. What is the least I can safely get by with and carry on my back and still be reasonably comfortable? Stick to what I need and avoid what might be nice then go from there. Hope this helps a bit. keep weighing your pack as you go. It is amazing what you can leave at home.
You are truly amazing thank you for sharing your journey thank goodness for your 5 tips ❤😊❤
Thank you so much Debra. Much appreciated
You are amazing. So inspiring. I love your videos
Thank you so much!
Great video
thank you.
Hi Wendy, I"m new here. Have been really enjoying you vids. This one in particular, was very helpful! Have fun out there!
thanks for watching and commenting- I am happy that you found something helpful-
Thanks for posting. It would be nice if you could put a link in the description to Zolio (sp?)
If you want info it is easy to find the Zoleo on the internet. That is how I got my information. It is quite a complete site. I hope this helps
Ty Wendy. You are an inspiration!!
thank you very much
Thank you for your video Wendy, have you thought about car camping, rather than on a tent or the hammock? Even though you are handling the hammock really well. Enjoy!!!
Yes I have and I do go car camping. Just came back from an overnight . I enjoy all kinds of camping
This really helped. Thanks! Safe travels ;)
thank you for commenting. I am so happy you found this video helpful. Just finished one on managing injury, wildlife and other people. You may find another tip or two. enjoy the outdoors.
Love the video. You’ve got a new subscriber in me (: unfortunately im getting out there solo after getting a divorce. Nature has been getting me through this
You are going through an incredibly challenging transition. I am happy for you that you have found Nature's gift. The outdoors grounds like nothing else. I know you will get through. Thank you so much for sharing and for being a new subscriber. The out door world is very supportive. Looking forward to hearing how you are doing. Always open to assist wherever I can.
Excellent! I'm a Wendy too. 68.
Right on! Way to go. Thanks for sharing.
Such a genuinely nice lady. I enjoyed listening to you and your wisdom. Wish I could do it and I wouldn't mind having a friend like you to join
Just subscribed! Thanks for this informative video. Recently went tent camping for the first time with my brother and really enjoyed it. I'm planning on doing some solo camping soon. I'll keep these tips in mind!
Welcome to the tenting world. It is great as you are discovering. I hope you continue to enjoy yourself and have many wonderful adventures.
You have such good advice thankyou👍
Glad it was helpful! thank you Julie.
Good tips ❤
Thanks 😊
What do you put your food into? I would love to see it and how you hang it
next time I have to hang food I will film it. At the place I was camping in this video there was a food cache.
Hi, we camp and RV, but one year, i went to a winter campground, in my campervan, alone as my husband needed to work. I was only on my own, with dogs, for 3 nights, but i had men who made me feel uncomfortable for 2 days, as they constantly drove by my campsite. I am rarely afraid of animals, it is the people i fear. Even though i am no longer young or pretty, the creeps still come around. Any tips on the human threats vs animals or nature?
that is actually a real concern Piper- I do go out in winter but usually pick a spot where there is some kind of a campground person around and within cell service if possible although I have an emergency texting devise as well. . I think it was brave of you to carry on for the 3 days. Perhaps not that relaxing. Hard to know if they were really interested in annoying you or not. I think if they were you have known it. Maybe they were just awestruck that you were some tough woman out there on your own!! solo women are a bit of an anomaly. I also carry bear spray as firearms are very restricted in Canada. Gives me a sense of some protection. I actually treat people as I do animals- car close by, bear spray, loud whistle , bear banger, and emergency texting device. I admire your stick to it behaviour. I did a video on the " 3 major fears "of solo camping you might want to check out on my playlists under solo camping. thanks for sharing your experience.
So you cook your food at the campsite and then when you’re done you pack it up and take it away or are you cooking your food away from the campsite?
at that place I am able to cook at my campsite. there is a food cache away from the site to place food , dishes and any garbage safely. in other areas I have cooked away from my tent site, hope this answers your question. thanks for commenting.
Beautiful video ❤
thank you very much Sandra. I appreciate you taking the time to watch it.
Hi Wendy, new to your channel. You’re a gutsy lady! I’m 63 and we have a travel trailer and I’ve camped alone with it. I can’t believe you’re so brave to camp alone in a tent! When I camp alone I prefer to stay in a private campground & am worried about a state or national park. These are great tips, thank you for the advice.
Thanks for watching. I choose spots where I feel comfortable. I know the area and take precautions. I’m pretty careful about where I’ll go. I prefer areas away from people. I d rather deal with the low risk of a four legged coming by!!! Enjoy whatever you feel comfortable with. That’s what really matters. Good luck.
Hi 🙋♀️ what would you do if a bear walked into your camp?
I have a loud whistle , bear bangers and bear spray- Thankfully have never needed any of the above.
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The two legged variety of animal is the only thing that bothers me
Many feel the same way.
And it should not be this way.
"Cozy clothes and a nice warm sleeping bag."
sounds very secure . thanks Jeff
Wondering how anyone with hearing deficiency manages. I can’t hear without hearing aids. But I also like it because noise is not a problem.
Hi Monique- my husband can't hear very well at all 😴so he just falls asleep and I do the listening! 👂😂
Shouldn't you have ur bear spray on your person
yes, you are correct. If I leave the site I put it on but when sitting down on the ground I have it near me. Thank you for pointing that out and thanks for commenting.
These are terrible times in our country, women no matter what their age are not safe from human predators. No matter what our rational is or common sense we are still not safe from other humans. You can let this reality stop you from doing what you love or you can risk it. Take care, be safe and go armed.
I actually live in Canada so going armed isn't really an option. I do carry bear spray. thanks for your concern . I will continue to choose my sites with care.
I agree.
No one cares where I am, what I'm doing, or where I'm going, so I don't bother with that "safety protocol." I'm the only one I can count on, so it's who I count on & always have (except God, who's always watched over & taken care of me my whole life). 😊
hello Hannah- It seems you have found your way. take care ❤️
No way for me!
no problem, it isn't for everyone. There are lots of other ways to get out and enjoy nature. 👍
Remember 'Hello Muddah, Hello Faddah'.
Absolutely!!!😂
You one tough woman😀 alone to know there could come a bear or wolf would scare me off completely.
not that tough Wilma, just determined