a playlist to cry to about my daddy issues
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- Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
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im so proud to not have daddy issues by the neighbourhood in this playlist lol
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Timestamps :3
0:00 i love you - Billie Eilish
4:53 i can't breathe - Bea Miller
8:29 Liability - Lorde
11:17 Six Feet Under - Billie Eilish
14:31 like that - Bea Miller
17:40 tolerate it - Taylor Swift
21:50 idontwannabeyouanymore - Billie Eilish
25:32 Playing God - Paramore
28:35 God Knows I Tried - Lana Del Rey
33:15 What Kind Of Man - Florence + The Machine
Wow thanks!
plz can we have this pinned
I love you
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thank fucking god that gross "daddy issues" song isn't in this playlist
People with trauma because their dad left
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People with trauma because their dad didn't leave
when my dad gets too heated in an argument, he’ll pull out ol reliable- “i can leave, you know”. like bitch lol okay bye nobody wants your abusive, racist ass here 💀
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I'm a mix of both haha
My dad usually goes to work on the weekdays and I want to socialize with him, but when he gets home, he doesn't
It's like I never had a dad at all
I wish my godfather stayed though instead of moving from state to state when I was three
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It’s funny how “daddy issues” is used as an insult towards girls when it’s the mans fault for failing as a parent
Honestly I don’t think that it happens often, I may be wrong, but from what I’ve seen, “daddy issues” gets almost romanticized and more and more people are saying they have them when that’s not even true, for example, a parent taking away your phone after you did something bad isn’t making you have parental issues, but people are starting to see things such as issues like this one or mental illness as something “cool” when they aren’t, this isn’t meant to attack you or anything, I’m just saying that daddy issues isn’t typically used an insult, if anything it’s used to “excuse” some behaviors.
@@hopeyouburn1893 exactly..
they always blame women for men's actions
@@nelleb8989 since the dawn of man
Where I live, in a very conservative, rural area, it's an insult. I actually still get made fun of for having no dad lol.
My face when i see ppl with a good relationship with their father is another story :*)
It takes all of me to not cry there and then.
i get really jealous and emotional when i see that
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My ex best friend used to complain about her father trying to be there in her life yet i was there left with deep Trauma and severe depression and mental illness from my abusive father and then my stepfather. Like bro, atleast he loves you enough to still contact you. I love my dad and stepdad so much and it hurts so much knowing my dad doesn’t even remember i exist and doesn’t even care enough to write to his own daughter (the only thing he’s legally allowed to do on my birthday since family court had decided) and my stepdad didn’t ever want me in the picture and ignored me all the time me and my mum were there bc he was too busy drinking taking drugs abusing my mum or actually giving his children a good childhood.
I see girls on their papa's shoulders and I become so jealous and angry but also so overwhelmingly sad
realizing your dad will never change at all and you’re just destroying yourself by hoping he will is one of the worst things to ever experience
you’re absolutely right. it’s so hard
I thought he changed but no he didn’t.
I thought my dad changed. Nope. He threatened to kill me. Me and my brother were his slaves. We never got love. He was a drug addict. And an alcoholic
Your so right it mentally draining
God you are straight on….Actually what is/was happening to me….this hit me really hard
I think he doesn't even deserve to know his baby girl is crying until her nose is all stuffy while he's sound asleep. ☺️
while he eats the food I'm supposed to eat with him
While I'm crying,..... he's laughing his lungs out watching the TV. It hits different.
lol
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I'm literally ugly crying rn bc i just had a argument with my dad my dad and this just hit so hard on top of that..
The man I’ve cried the most over will always be my dad
every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child
This is so true idk what to say
This is so true
this is kind of irrelevant, but your pfp reminded me of it so- i typically get very easily attached to fictional “dad” characters, but i just got into Spy x Family and instead i got emotionally attached to Anya and everytime i see her i just think about how badly i want to care for a child. idk i’m mentally ill
@@keeprkyd no bc same!! i love Anya she makes me want to have a child so bad lmaoo you’re totally normal for thinking that
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I suffer from anger issues... And so does my father and everyday I swear I am more like him and it hurts I can feel myself breaking and it won't stop sometimes I wonder if I am myself.
i promised myself i wouldnt be anything like him but i can feel myself slowly becoming him and i dont know what to do
@@saphirafortes2789 listen I understand how that feels I myself am still trying to find ways to calm down and change the best I can do is block conntact until I'm stable mentally then try and talk it out and I am so sorry you are going through this ♡
My dad left my mom when I was 5, and every day I tell myself I'm not like him, but when everyone tells me how much I look like him, I remember I am still half of him. I feel that pain too. When i look at anyone who resembles my dad in any way shape or form, I fall for them, because even though I hate him, I still wan't to know him.
Same, I try to change myself because whenever I look at myself all I see is my father, I hate my hair my eyes everything, I dyed my hair I smiled less but I still see him, I always think before I act so no one will say I act like him
BRO ME TOO I HAVE TOOMANY DDENTS IN MY WALL
“ i will change i promise “
changes for the worst. Lies on his child to make him look better. doesn’t care. makes his kids cry. why? why?
he doesn’t even try to change
He keep shouting then I cry more like what am I a tap water?
Yeah He'll never change
I hope I’m nothing like him
im not a damn waterfall
It hurts, when he thinks that parental support means giving money, and car rides when you need it. But everytime he is around you, you have to feel scared of messing up something which will make him hate you. Then him telling you how much you are a piece of ...it and you never do anything right. And you are waiting for the opportunity to move out and finally be able to live as a human, and not his emotional toy which he destroys more and more, day by day.
It hurts how much I relate to those words. That’s exactly what I’m going through. And I’m so sorry that you feel the same way. No child should be treated that way by any parent. Remember you are not to blame for your parent’s mistakes, and that you deserve unconditional love and care. You deserve to feel safe and happy 💜
This is exactly how i feel.
this is just my every day not matter what i do or how i act
he is like that
hopefully I moved out without him and now I feel lot better :)I anderstand this feeling
Omg how did you know how I feel lord knows I’m trying and hanging on all because I have to work and still need his support so I can pay for my college tuition .
I really wish I was a Kid again...Not because been a teen suck at all, I have fun, friends, goals...But I miss having my dad’s love.
I can relate so much, and it breaks my heart.
@@banayad4549 im so sorry for that
This hit me on a personal level man
@@catbunn9353 im so sorry🥺
@@banayad4549 thank you but don't worry man its ok
When your dad manipulates you, emotionally abuses you, lies to you, belittles you, refuses to listen to you, and then gets mad at you and tells you that you need to sort out your relationship with him with a therapist😍😍
Wow... you just described my relationship with my dad too... I'm so sorry you're going though that
You described my relationship with my father now, I'm sorry for what you go through, but I don't have any tips I go through the same
Exactly 🥺
every time my mother mentions that I look like him it hurts me
she hates him :)
Been there bestie ✌
same, she says we even have the same smile but I can't even remember his face
My whole family tells me this shit everyday... I look like him but I'm not him... I don't wanna be him
same here
Felt this hard
He's a great father for a moment and then becomes the devil the next. Although I never got hit but the things he says...OH GOD they are so hurtful and suffocating
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T H I S. And that hurts even more because I can't even hate him, It's honestly destroying me from inside out and I'm so tired of it, I just want to disappear.
i hate how i always have to pretend around him. I always feel so suffocated and guilty around him. I hate him but if he'd leave I'd break. But i hate him so so so much it literally hurts. I hate how i still love him after all he's done.
@@lilylime77 rightt, i cant hate him, I love him! I dont want to, I dont know what to believe, how i feel or what the rest of my family tells me to feel, i mean, of course i should believe how i feel, but its so hard deciding
theres so much more i want to share, everything's so complicated
felt this too. it all happened when this pandemic happened. he showed his other side, unfortunately :(
I hate him because I love him, even after all he's done, he's literally broke me
the worst part is knowing you will never be able to fully let go of him even after all the times he's hurt you.
i hate that i relate to this so much
@@aarushigiri7103 constantly doing you wrong and making you believe you hate him, but then he tries to be nice for once and you try to love him and let him in again, but then he betrays you and you just go back to hating him.. that's my current cycle
excactly. should i forgive him?
Just so you know your not a nobody, I’m sorry if people ever made you feel like you were
Dad, i want to cry with you about my problems, instead of crying for you about your problems
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og gosh this made me cry more, i've been there
Waiting for this moment
Yeh this one made me cry
will he ever care ?
It’s honestly so confusing at this point. I don’t know if I love or hate him anymore, he’s hurt this family so so much, especially my mom. I know she’s scared of leaving him but I just want her to be happy. My dad switches up on me and my siblings all the time and it hurts every time he takes his anger out on us. Then he will act like nothing happened the next day trying to be nice. I hate this. I hate it when my parents argue it gets so damn serious. I wanna run away from home, just not ready to leave my mom alone in the arguement.
Thanks for reading my rant.
same 😔
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Man.....I totally understand you
This just described me sm
You literally just described my whole life. 💔
I’m sorry you are going thru this too
Why should we be so hurt? I really wanna be a strong woman who doesn't need a man
But.. how?
Whenever someone talks about their nice dad, or whenever I come across a social media post of someone talking about their loving dad i tear up immediately. Why dad, why did we have to be here? I know you could’ve done your role better. Doesn’t it hurt to know that your own children are wondering if the blame was on them to be living like this?
“He was supposed to be the first male love of your life you still search for him everywhere” that hit hard
Is it normal that my biggest fear is when my dad comes home? There really are times where I just want him to never come back, everything would be better...
THIS! I want him gone, but at the same time I don't. Like I'm better when he's not home.
@@growingdying same
I relate to this comment A LOT
fr
i wish i was a little girl again , maybe he will love me again. Am i not worth anything dad? Why does he love my niece and older sister more than me? Why? Why? all i wish is a hug from him telling me evrything will fine and that i should'nt worry about nothing. I see myself flinching because im scared he wouldhit me or yell at me any minute. Dad you're losing me by every second. All i ever wanted was your love and affection. I wish you would tell me you love me and not leave me hanging . Have i never been one of ur favorites? Is it becase i can never do anything right? pls just give me answer..
i feel the same way and it hurts, why cant he love me like how he loves my sisters and cousins why!!????what did i do!!????
my dad was my everything, my idol. now he is the reason i cry myself to sleep.
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Same 😔
@@l0ndyl00 im so sorry u feel this way, i hope it gets better for u:)
Same bro I haven't seen him since I was a little kid
He can be both. Still your idol, maybe the cying will fade away one day.. ❤
Anybody else's father been absent for most of your lives and now wanna be involved after you went through so many things without him?
same
Yeah to be honest with you
yup
He keeps saying that he loves me but just with his mouths his actions and words make me feel like shit he does everything to make me feel bad about myself and still says ily no you don't. When I was younger he was my idol even tho he left us but when u grow up u can finally se the truth.
@@lilyasakhi4007 Honestly don't let him get to you although I know it's hard and just remember you are a wonderful, beautiful, and amazing human being.
none of us should be going through this
thats what everyone says yet everything is worse never better
biggest lie ive ever heard
Really, bc i think i deserve this
@@Personwhosings no, you do not deserve whatever you’re feeling. you deserve the happiness and nothing less. this is like a little bump in the road it definitely doesn’t feel like it not but it eventually will. I love you
i wish my dad realizes how much he's hurting my mom, cuz i'm the only one who's actively trying to make him see how much it's affecting our family. everyone's just letting it happen, and it's just so wrong. i'm seen as the black sheep since i keep voicing out what's wrong, still tho it doesnt do anything but paint me as a disrespectful daughter.
Ikr. And when you call out his wrongdoings then you are a disrespectful brat. When all you are trying to do is voice everyone's unsaid opinions.
the "black sheep" of the family is always the one that sees through everyones bullshit
Same man sameee
Same
you're describing me too. I called out his cheating and he refused completely, started telling everyone i'm a liar and disrespectful for accusing him of such a terrible thing, my mom shouted at me too...I saw more messages of him talking to his girl friend and I don't know what to do. He doesn't know its damaging me
god, he’s acting like the victim and everyone’s falling for it. he only felt bad when people found out.
My dad has never yelled at me or hit me. But he made me fear him, he made me anxious just seeing his name on my phone calling. I was scared of disobeying him, I was scared of asking him for stuff. He emotionally abuses me, yet I couldn't see it because it was so subtle. His imprint on my mind is so strong that sometimes I defend his actions towards me to myself. When I was younger he would take me to arcades and movie theaters and amusement parks. But he hasn't done that in awhile. Instead he tells me that I need straight As and makes me feel like a failure, a disappointment, and not good enough. But slowly, I'm learning, that I don't need his approval. I'm slowly learning because I have friends and ppl I hold closely to help me. The old dad I cling onto isn't going to come back, he caused too much damage, he makes me think everything is my fault. One day...one day I'll express to him the pain that he's caused me. Make him see how much in pain I am because of him.
GIRL THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I'M FACING
well I’m sorry for u and me👌🏼
@@kadymot2548 Me too! But if you feel bad or anything, feel free to share :)
It hurst so much, he used to love me, but I don't know what I have done, grow up? He makes me feel scared of doing everything in front of him cause I'm gonna do it wrong. I feel you so much, I'm so sorry
He sounds like he is a narcissist, please do your research on it . I found out both mine is , educate yourself and protect yourself , remeber you don’t need anyone’s approval this is your life baby girl so LIVE IT 💓🙏🏽 Yes it’s scary but you just have to retrain your mind . You got this , you really do !
hands up whose father is probably bipolar but won't reach out for help or medication so he ignores you for 4 months straight and then is the best dad on the whole world for a few weeks and it repeats.
and every time he ignores you, you tell yourself you dont need him, but when he says he is sorry and he will look for help you trust him but he breaks you heart over and over again.
just me ?
- oh
Im so sorry this happened to you :( remember you are loved, people care for you and people like me need people like you ❤
@@asdfk3611 thanks . yeah I got aa therapist now
This is me but with my mother :(
no thats my situation and i dunno what to do anymore
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i really want to forgive my dad but everytime i hear a word from him he gives me a reason not to. im not only sad or disappointed i am also very angry. he doesnt even put the effort to try getting our relationship to be better again and i am so tired of pushing it forward. i wish it wasnt truth but i hate him so much. im truly scared of becoming someone like him i try so hard but everyone tells me otherwise, it just makes me feel worse. i dont wanna become the person i hate the most, the one who hurt me the most. help.
im sorry for the long vent
Same he finally sent me a letter back after 4 months and is still not admittjng responsibility or even said sorry I just want my fucking dad back
I relate to this so much. You literally summed up exactly how I feel. This proves you are not alone. Personally, I cut him off. However, he has started to create fake rumours about me to my mother and other people we know mutually. I feel that even though I cut him off, he is still there trying to F me up mentally without the distance being a problem. My father is a true narcissist, and anyone who treats their daughter/son just as you described is one. They will always be right in their eyes, and they will always look good in front of the others making you probably feeling crazy. You are not, we're just healing and being put through things we should not have to deal with. Do whatever works for you, and try to stay calm even though i feel the same as you. We can get through this💖
@@hellg7rl sorry for the late reply and for whatever happenned, but im glad someone relates this much to how i feel. personally im still a teenager but once i can i want to cut him off too. and thanks for the support, its highly appreciated
I feel that
forgiveness will give you peace, meaning to try to let that shit go. i know its hard and i still have a little resentment.
my dad is emotionaless and never said “i’m proud of you” or “you look beautiful/great”. i inherited almost everything from him, anger, looks, syndromes... him and i have rls (where you can’t control your legs and you can’t sleep) and he had the audacity to tell me “stop shaking your legs”. HE HAS IT TOO AND HE CANT CONTROL IT, NEITHER CAN I. AND OH ANDDD, when i was crying all day (one day) my dad never did once tell me it’s okay. he never told me “that boy doesn’t deserve you”. i wanna be special to him, i just wanna be daddy’s little girl. my dad doesn’t even support my religion.
Im so sorry, sending you lots of love 💖
@@asdfk3611 tysm 💕💕🤍
I'm so sorry. I have daddy issues too. And my dad was never there for me, and I know how bad it feels. I grew up watching others' dads loving them & sharing pain & Happiness together. And I felt jealous of them so much, And I used to cry myself to sleep & I still do sometimes...It hurts so much.
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@@suhaibrahim1745 tysm i cried reading this 🥺💕💕
My dad was abusive emotionally and physically towards me I just don’t understand why I couldn’t have a normal relationship with him I feel bad that I’m jealous everytime I see other people with dads
I’m only 2 minutes in and my face is covered with tears.
me too, me too
same
Me too bestie
That's why you have a namjoon pfp 😭❤️❤️
comments making me cry
The role of a father isn’t for given out It's earned
Me: yeah guys I'm totally fine
Also me:
it sucks because I have to correct myself when I say "my parents" to "my parent" or "my mum"
because I only have one, the role of a father isn't just given out, it's earnt. It was earnt more by my male teachers than my biological father, great job Tim.
im crying knowing that so many people are suffering with so much issues bc of their fathers. we don’t deserve to feel this, we never deserve to be anxious just bc he’s around near us. we do NOT deserve any trust issue, anger issue, anxiety bc our parents. this whole thing sucks. fr
i wish my dad was more open about his emotions. it gets harder and harder to want to fix our relationship, he gets angry at the smallest things and takes it out on the person closest to him. which always ends up being me. i miss when things we're much easier, when i was daddy's little girl. according to him: so happy and calm.
who eles cryed that mutch that now cna cry without making a sound
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Did u mean can cry without making a sound or the opposite, cuz if it's cry without making a sound, me :(
me
lol
My biggest fear is that I will see my dad leaving without having told me not even once "I'm proud of you".
You don't need him " I'm proud of you" if you proud with yourself
Dear dad
Why don’t you treat me like a real daughter I need attention from you i DESPERATELY need a hug I want to cry in ur arms and yell at u telling you how much u hurt me when u tell me to go cook bc I’m grown enough..I’m only 15 dad when u drag me from my hair telling me I’m worthless and to listen and call me fat body shame me it hurts me please stop it I’m trying my best sometimes I want to stay in my room but u don’t understand u grab me and force me to spend time with u outside but u yell at me when we’re “spending time” Haven’t heard u say “I love you” ever.. why? I get ur anger issues get the best out of you but please don’t get ur anger out on me I slowly realize I’m becoming u I start to go crazy when I’m mad god please take my pain away it hurts me so much I want to grab a bottle of pills and overdose but I can’t bc I’m too scared I tried once and I felt my stomach going crazy..when u call me fat I try to starve myself but I’m a bad daughter I’m sorry for being a bad daughter dad I love you I won’t stay long I love you.
Sincerely your daughter-
Bridget.
I don’t even know you but please let me tell you that you are beautiful. Please stay here with us. There is someone on this earth that desperately needs you. Desperately needs someone to talk to, someone who needs a friend, someone who will love you and have a secretly like you and no matter how much you say that you are ugly they wouldn’t believe you. There are memories you need to make and goals you need to achieve. There are places that you need to go to and people who need your skills. You may or may not know what those skills are yet, but they are needed somewhere. There is someone who needs your help. There is someone who wants to be your friend. There is someone that will listen to you and will be with you through it all and you will grow old with them and still love them just as much as you did on your first date. So please. Stay until then. Stay until you can do all of this. And once you do all of your plans and achieve all of your goals and be with the person you love and go to the places you want to and do that ONE thing that you have ALWAYS wanted to do, then, AND ONLY THEN, is when you can come tell me that you aren’t still happy. No matter how much stuff he may say to you, please keep this comment in the back of your mind. I know your looking for validation from him, but remember that not all parents deserve kids. Please it’s not your fault, none of this is your fault. Don’t blame yourself. Now, if you ever want to talk, you can always come back here and talk to me. I will ALWAYS be here to listen. No matter what. (My parents deleted my socials sadly :,) so this is my only way of communication) I love you okay?❤️ you don’t have to say much if you reply to this but say something just to let me know your okay :) also I didn’t backread this so sorry if there’s misspells or grammar mistakes ^^”
I relate to you so much and my dad is the same it’s a pain not a lot of people get:(
You are not being a bad daughter darling...he is the one because he had so much trauma in the past and now he is passing it to you to feel better about himself....I don't have any kind of daughter father relationship with my father as well and he always try to find something about me to yell at my mom and I have to fix myself for nothing...plz stay strong there is a lot of things ahead for us I hope you are doing well and sorry if I had any problem in my writing my English is not good ❤❤❤love you
@@xxbitaxx your English is great :) and I wish you both the best 💛
@@kiyokoshimizu8219 :)💖
All I want and "proud of you" or a "well done"
I’ve only ever wanted a father. I wished that the dad I did have would be as perfect as the ones I saw with my friends or on tv. I wanted that perfect family dynamic. I just want a good family, ya know?
My father made a wound in my heart that gets re-opened every time a man, family, friends, any person I love really, proves I cant trust them. Every time someone tells me I'm worthless or treats me badly I think of him and cry. He was the first person to make me feel like I'm nothing. The first person to make me second guess myself. The first person to break my heart. He taught me I was only worthy of love conditionally and if I was in service of him. He taught me to accept abuse. He taught me to hate my body. To be silent when in pain. I just want to feel ok in my skin and feel loved.
Same
Im sorry and i Hope u Are safe now.
I felt that to my core
the 2 people who disliked don't have daddy issues.
It's father's Day today and i locked myself up in my room crying the whole day. I fucking hate him so much
Same
when my mom told me that im just like him idk if im glad or hurt, bcoz she mean only the bad side she saw about him, as middle child my mom not very fond of me. If smth goes wrong im the first person she saw to vent her anger haha if the train wreck pls dont pull me out
Im sorry that happened to you, im sending you lots of love 💖 thank you for listening
Fuck her you diserve better. No parent should say something that, she can say you are acting like him, but you are just like him? No that's just disusting, you have a beutiful soul, if you were doing something wrong, hurting people hurt people hurt people for a reason, and you can apolgise, but that does not mean what your mom said was okay. Sorry about what you are going through.
i hate fighting with my dad. i don’t even mean to start an argument like it just happens. i try to talk to my dad about my feelings but it always turns into a big heated argument. we just can’t seem to put our differences aside. i have my way and he has his way. and i feel like we’re both struggling to make each other understand our differences. all i really want is to have a health relationship with him but honestly at this point it just seems so impossible. i mean we have our days where we get along fine and then all of a sudden a normal conversation turns into an argument and it all starts to hit again. i wonder how long this would go on for. i feel like i’ve become a burden in his life. i think that maybe if i just disappear, his life would be so much better and more calm. he thinks he understands me because he raised me but he genuinely doesn’t, but i don’t understand what he’s thinking either. it’s so frustrating. i just wish we could both understand eachother as opposed to arguing with eachother.
im feeling this too
My parents separated when I'm just 3 years old and they both have a family on their own now , I'm on my mom's side but it's really hard because I feel like I'm stuck in the middle , a mistake they made from the past . I don't know why i still feel like this even everything is good and their partners are good to them. Especially my step dad treats me like his own .
I will never ever let my kids go though the same shit my dad has put me through
damn,yes!Me too.
My dad breaks me almost everyday, by yelling, guilt tripping, getting frustrated, telling me I should do better.
In my family, when he breaks someone, it means that he makes them cry, sob, whether It's silent or not, alone or with him seeing. We've been trying to fix our relationship, but it doesn't feel like anything has changed :(
I wish my dad would say "I love you" to me because he never does but says it all the time to my sister.
I wish he could be here for me when I need him but he is always nowhere to be found.
I wish he would accept me as trans but yet never does.
I wish he didn't push me aside my entire childhood and ignore me.
I wish you weren't such an asshole dad
I wish you could care for me like the rest of your kids
I wish I could say I don't need you and mean it
:/
Listen I know it hurts but do this. When he is there keep saying i love you over and over. If he dosent gets mad or tells you to go away then you'll have your awnser but if he says it back just go off your heart it will make the decision for you give update💗💗💗💖☺😊
My dad spit on my face while he held a pizza cutter close to it and twisted my arm because I asked "Dad, can you please give me the slice that doesn't have a olive on it?". I'm autistic and olives are one of the foods I fear the most, he said he got mad at me because I was ignorant and ordered him to remove it from my slice, I wasn't and didn't do any of those things.
i'm so sorry. you'll get out one day. we all will.
im so sorry u had to go through that :(
I’m so sorry boo. You don’t deserve that at all 🤍
i wish i could forgive him but he hasn't even said sorry or acknowledge what hes done to me. he tells everyone its all my fault and everything I say is a lie. its been over a year and i wish i could just forget about him but its hard because hes my dad and i loved him. all i wanted my whole life was for him to love me and see me for who i was. all he did was make me the bad guy and told me i looked exactly like my mom and projected his anger he had for her towards me. now he has his own family. they go to fancy restaurants, amusement parks, parties and hes forgotten about me and my brother. i dont understand why he would treat us like this when we have done nothing now all this trauma is stuck with us.
it happened the exactly same thing to me but man i wished i have forgave him i before he passed away i recomend u to talk abt ur feelings with him scream at him , say all the things u got in mind and drop all the pain and if u want to ask questions do it trust me on something u gonna get over it with time if u forgive him and remember than forgive it’s not to trust or be in a good relation with him it’s just to cure and get over all the things he have done to u and u may be happier after although this doesn’t works on everyone i think it would have worked on me but now i can’t do anything and i’m full of that trauma and hate regretting everything while he is not in this planet anymore
my parents never take accountability for the shitty things they've done to me. but love please try to let that shit go for your own peace so you can be full of love and less resentment, i still have some and im working on it
I just can’t handle the weird ups and downs anymore.
My dad..
He’s the one who decided and made the choice to fucking have me only to treat me like shit.
He’s never hugged me.
He’s never said “I love you.”
He’s never taught me anything.
I raised my self.
Im glad im independent.
I’ve learned so much.
I know myself more than anything.
They are the reason why i’m in a place like this.
He’s thought that I was faking having anger issues depression anxiety ADHD PTSD.
They thought school was a good place.
Boys are one of the reasons why I have PTSD.
He never cared.
He’s never cared about me.
I relate, only my mom raised me. My dad never did anything, never taught anything
literally same, can't trust man anymore cause of my dad
Just the quote made me teary don’t play with my issues like this 😭❤️
my dad has depression, but is so ashamed of seeking help he drinks and cheats. flat out turns me into his therapist instead of apologizing. it's hurt me and my mom so much and my mom tries so hard. it's not my fault but i feel like such a burden because he never listens or apologizes properly. i feel like a babysitter and not his child.
my biological dad left, my step-dad died. im never going to have a father figure in my life.
Im so sorry 💔
Damn double homocide
@@lajlahodzic LMFAOONSKGFS
Im so so so so sorry… but hey u know what they would be proud of u… I mean look at u ur doing amazing 🤩 SINCE NO ONE SAID IT I WILL IM SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU YOUR GOING TO BE SOMEONE BIG ONE DAY AND REALIZE THAT U ARE BEAUTIFUL AND SO VERY TALENTED AND IF ANYONE VER TRYS TO BRING U DOWN JUST REMEMBER THAT UR BETTER THEN WHAT THEY SAY🥺👑OK SO PLZ DONT DO ANYTHING TO HURT URSELF CAUSE UR HONNA MAKE ME CRY I PROMISE UR MOMENT IS CLOSER THEN UR PAST I JUST KNOW IT!!! U probably will not/will read this but if u do just know if u ever need anything I’m always here to listen 😆👑👑👑👑
Same 😔
I believe i’m incapable of feeling or understanding love from the fact that my father never made me feel loved
I look everywhere for a father figure, for someone to show me positive attention and be there for me. Its so bad that I sometimes let in people who I shouldn't.
0-14 my father wasn't there. Three years with him and I can say I prefer it when he wasn't present.
you are worthy of love this is just a misbelief, you deserve the world, healthy love
This was recommended to me by RUclips....I feel called out...
But seriously this is an awesome playlist 😌
Thank you!! ☺
I had "the perfect father" until it took me years to process that he was an abusive demon: who emotionally and physically abused my mom and sister. I was 10-11 years old when he started screaming at me and one day he had an "'abuse episode" in which he hit me multiple times (my memories are really shabby). My mom saw that as the last straw and got us out of that house. I don't remember any of the moments i spent with him where i was obliviously happy they're all fragments my mind has pieced together. My father never made me feel like a piece of crap (excluding the few times he body-shamed me) but i never had a normal family. Even memories i have from when i was 3 were my mother bleeding from her forehead, sounds of breaking glass and regular muffled screaming, even family vacations were unpleasant. Even my "friend" tells me their life is worse than mine and i dont have a reason to be sad and im started to believe them. Maybe, i deserve it all, maybe, it is all my fault: My parents had a big fight over an ant infestation and my mom slept in my room for 4 months and i was the one who left a cookie on the table that caused the infestation. Not only that but remember the 'abuse episode" i mentioned he started with me and then hit my mom and my sister when they tried to help me. Maybe, if i wasn't born my parents could be happy together. I'm lucky i had a father for 9 years, shouldn't i be happy? Maybe, i am just selfish and greedy and disgusting. I have anger issues like my dad but i never get physical or use any profane language. however im still scared ill turn into my father, soon and i deserve all of the pain he caused my mother and my sister.
TL;DR I feel guilty because i don't think i'm "traumatized enough" and i DESERVE pain. Anyone else?
to dad-
you werent even here for most of my life. you dont have any business trying to tell me "i need to know about your personal life". i learned everything myself. i raised my sister when my mom couldnt. everyday i had to sleep at my moms work on the floor in a blanket with my sister because there was no one at home to watch us. it hurts so much when your emotions are so prone to changing. my chest hurts thinking about you. i want to feel genuine care from you. "i love you" is empty to you. i would give anything to hear "im so proud of you" or "its okay, you did your best" from you. ive been trying so hard to manage on my own. i just want to hear something from you.
are you tired?
of your dad calling you names and deeming you "useless" ? and every time he does something nice it breaks your heart knowing that it won't last? every time he says "i love you" to your sibling but not you thinking he's addressing it to the room and you just don't say it back because it doesn't feel okay and you get choked up with tears? and you pity him because deep down you still love him, you pity him because of the habits he's fallen into? when don't show him anything new you did because you know he's gonna pick out imperfections in it? when he hits you and breaks your things because he can't control his anger and he gets angry at stupid things?
me too :,)
take care of yourself.
this describes me
@@halymatt3637* cries*
I’ve had horrible mommy issues my whole life I always denied the fact that i could also have daddy issues only to realize I have been very Deprived of my dad for a long time of my life and I feel so sad knowing I haven’t seen my dad in three/4 years due to moving and my parents are divorced btw and he had a new child and all and remarried he still calls me and misses me but I just want my old life back just a small taste of bittersweet nostalgia
I relate to that on a deep level. He tries to be present now in my life though never calls me first- and if I forget to contact him for quite some time he’ll grow sour towards me as if I am the parent in our relationship
I will never let my kids feel like my parents did, especially my dad
thank you for this playlist and the comments that come with it
this helps me cope
My dad was my first heartbreak, and I think that the things who breaks me the most is that he never did any thing a dad do for his daughter, he will not gonna be there for my first breakup, not there for my wedding, not gonna teach me all the things a dad can teach, I’m not gonna present him my first boyfriend, he’s not gonna tell me the danger that the boys are, he will not gonna be there for my majors, for my birthdays. He keeps making promises he can’t do, and because oh him my family is tearing appart, he destroys my mother and for that I could never forgive him. He not even try to be a paternal figure for me, he forgot me
We all know that all the people watching this has daddy problems just like me and I would like to talk to people just like me because some time I feel alone. You know. It hurts💔when your dad leaves you, comes back and say things that we are going to do tomorrow but leaves that night. I wish he could tell me why. Why is my biggest question. Why did u leave?what did I do wrong? do you care about me? Wasn’t I good enough? DO YOU NOT LOVE ME ANYMORE? Just why?!??!! 🖤I still love u even if u left, even if u don’t love me. Thank u mom for being there for me and not leaving me, even if I sometimes got on your nerves. You stayed with me and never stopped loving me. You have cheered me on. I love you mom!!!❤️🩹I love you guys that have dad problems like me!!! Stay strong and don’t forget that if u need someone to talk to I’m here🥺 I’ll listen just like u read my comment.
PS. I cried the whole time I was typing this😭
You're not alone either!
Life sucks sometimes :)
everytime
He used to be so happy with me, what happened? If you loved me why'd you run away? Why'd you leave me for some other kid? Was I not good enough for you? Is me and Kaleb too much to handle? Why'd you leave us? What happened? You haven't called us in almost 2 years... Why? You have our number. Why did you run from your problems? Why couldn't you just say sorry?
Like for a father who would act like a nice father but be controlling you to hurt your mom, tell you to not be kind because people would take advantage and he’ll take advantage of your kindness himself then say sorry and keep on hurting you with the words and actions tell you you will be a begged and your sister will be a famous person then ask what he did wrong and after you cut connection he makes a whole text saying he wants to hug you and be a good father but you know he only wants money and he will hurt you again and make you feel like trash then act like everything is fine because you think this is what every 14 year old goes threw and now you feel like you’ll never be anything
I just wanted him to love me as I am.
I've only recently realized how emotionally screwed up my father has made me. I don't know why I want him to love me, but I'm scared of him hurting me further. He always has. I'll make sure my child never has to deal with this.
Edit: my mom just heard me crying. I don't think I can explain to her.
I'm not a victim. But every day I want to make myself one. I just want someone to love me, even if it's just because of my body. I want to run off to some older man and come out horrible for it because it'll all be worth it to have someone who cared for me. Even if just for a second.
Everytime my mom says I am his daughter after all makes me want to disappear in thin air sorry I’ll never forgive him :)
He says he loves me yet he's angry if I don't do what he wants.
Today I realised that my relationship with my dad effects the way my present friendships & relationships are going with people. They all just wanna keep me with them but not love me , they cant let me go or be happy without them . They dont want me because they love me , they want me to make themselves feel better. to keep me with them & make me dependent on them. The power trip.
They dont love me , they love the idea of me the idea of having me besides them & not let me leave or be happy without them . But when you love someone you let them go . You dont suffocate them or try to chop their wings so they never fly. I loved them all so much so much I was ready give my everything to people just so they like me. I couldn't bear being ignored by other people too - my dad already does.
Everytime I see kids with there dad I just hide my emotions but when someone talking adout how there dad left them I just break down crying how my dad left me
Dear dad,
I haven't spoken to you in more than a year. It hurts. But it hurt even more speaking to you and putting up with your abuse. I wonder why you decided to act this way with your own daughter. The verbal and emotional abuse. I can't think of happy moments together, I was always walking on eggshells around you. Now that I've grown up I left, I wanted to be free, to not hurt anymore but it still hurts. It will always hurt. I will always ask myself why, I will always fear rejection and abandonment because of you.
I tried to make efforts but you refused to admit what you did wrong.
Now I am far from you. But when I see dads laughing with and hugging their daughters it hurts. When I hear my uncle say "I love you" to my cousins it hurts so bad. I won't ever know this. Not because you weren't there but because you did not want to give your love to your own daughter. I am not angry anymore, I am just profoundly hurt and it won't ever go away. I have to live with it. How can I forgive you ?
For now I can only grieve.
If I ever have children I will make sure their dad is present and loving. And I certainly will not become like you. I am so scared of becoming like you.
Your daughter
it hurts to know that your father never actually cared about you.
I hate it when people say I look like my dad and I act like him. It just hurts because I don’t want to let people down like he does
the moment i clicked on this video , my fav song of billie started playing ,and i started crying ...you have no idea how much i am crying rn..
it honestly hurts so bad. my dad doesn’t love me like he says he does. i feel so sad seeing my sister defend him, she still has hope he’ll change. but ive been told by my mom so many times he’s changing and he hasn’t ever. it hurts so bad seeing he is more concerned and nicer to people online than to his own daughter. i just want him to love me and that’s part of the reason i always forgive him. if i am disrespectful but if i don’t i am too. all i am to him is disrespect, a brat, spoiled, a b**ch, and crabby. (he has said i am all of those things). i just want his love, him to care, and him to change. i don’t know what love looks like, my parents fight and fought all my life. i honestly just wish they were divorced so i could be half-okay. im tired and exhausted for trying for him. im numb at this point i can’t cry anymore.
Im so sorry, i hope things will get better for you in the future. Remember you are loved and you are needed 💖 thank u for sharing this
@@asdfk3611 Thank you :)
i love you
Is it weird that we are in a pretty much same situation? I feel your pain and I am w you. We need to remember that its not our fault. They are the monsters, not we. Sending love
My dad is actually very loving and caring. I know he loves me and he says that too. But he is too overprotective of me and treats me like I'm gonna break into pieces any moment. I can't make my own decision. He makes it for me saying he knows what's best for me. He doesn't let me be sad when he scolds me and calls me selfish for not understanding him. And when I tries to stand up to him he goes all passive aggressive saying nobody cares about him and that we are just using him. I love him. But i really wish he'd stop doing this. He doesn't know I'm crying myself to sleep when he hurts me
“The last thing I wanted was for you to be gay.”
My dad didn’t think about how I’m not on drugs, barely not suicidal, I don’t have cancer, I’m not pregnant. But the last thing he wanted was for me to be with a woman.
On my 16th birthday he told me he never really wanted me. He’d send me to conversation therapy if he could and he’s not coming to my wedding because religiously, I can’t get married.
My dad started to be abusive and started to drink right after my mom had me. He always hurt my family, never put a finger on me but the damage is still there after all these years. The yelling and drinking id over, but he's not in my life. All I remember of my dad is him yelling and being drunk, me and my mom crying and family rushing to help. The therepy still continues years after. He left me teriffied of any man older then a 12 year old boy. To anyone who lost their dad due to whatever reason you did, Im so sorry. The pain you feel from such a loss is unbalievable. Daddy is suppose to be there for his baby girl, to protect her, not harm her. We should feel save in our fathers arms not terrified to be in the same room as him. Im sorry to anyne that went/ is going trough this.
He did bad things to my mother as a child, even rape. I was in the room next to it, and yet he took no sense that I could hear her screams and cries for him to stop. He never really acknowledged what I wanted as a kid, only what he wanted. He's starting to change, he wants forgiveness from me but it's hard to forgive him because of what he did, he ruined my childhood. It's horrible to see other kids or teenagers with a healthy bond with their father, a bond I never got the chance to have. I hate how "daddy issues" is a trend now, and how everyone wants it.. you don't want to have it, its horrible. I even had to stop my mother from committing suicide because of him, trust me, you do not want it.
My dad did the same to my mom... Me and my sister's room was across the hall... I remember on one particular night, I had a nightmare and tried to go to their room so my mom could comfort me, but the door was locked, I could hear her crying and saying no, sometimes I still hear it on bad days
@@queenalice7483 I’m so sorry sweetheart, you didn’t deserve to hear that, nor your sister. Trauma like that can’t fade, but I hope you heal, sending all my love
Queen Alice you and your sister don’t deserve that sending love to you
Most of the time people ask why I don't cry about myself like if I fall over or mess something up it's cause my dad always said to me "don't feel sorry for yourself"
tbh i really love my dad.yeah he's never been there for me but the memories i have with him are always full of fun,i miss him,it became to late to tell him after he got deported..i get so jealous sometimes when i see my sister with her dad and to be able to share her life with him in it,ik its wrong but i dont know.
Idk why I hate my dad, if I told my mom she’d be mad since I don’t have a clear reason. He makes me so angry and sad by just being there I don’t trust him, he said so much to invalidate pretty much everything I do without noticing it.
The other playlists for this are for people who are romanising it a bit and fetishising a bit
But this ones made for people who actually go through it. This one actually hits. This one is healing.
Thank you so much ♥️
“I’m sick of you treating me like I’m a bad dad!”
He’d say after I’d tell him about all the stuff he’s done to me and how all I’ve ever wanted was for him to change :/
I cut him off last week. Kinda happy but it mostly hurts…
I hate saying I have “daddy issues” because people end up chuckling or laughing because it’s been used as a joke lately and I’m never taken seriously.
If anything I just stop mentioning it until someone brings it up. It’s super awkward being at school on Father’s Day because everyone talks about their dads and stuff, and it’s almost embarrassing when a teacher just assumes I have both parents. I am grateful I have my uncle here, who I see as a father figure since my own father decided not be. At school, I have my lacrosse coach who treats our team as if we’re his own daughters so that’s also comforting.
What I’m trying to say here to my fellow daughters without fathers (or with shitty ones): is that no matter how much you hate him and wish he was better, *always find those who love you* and please please remember *ITS NOT YOUR FAULT*
You’re loved and not forgotten. ❤️
Idk how a dad love would be like 😭😭
So many people out there telling that they love their pappa so much.. Omg why can't I even imagine how it would be
my dad told me "i love you" but that was never true, he's only "loving" me with his words.
I don't even know if I Love my dad or hate him. he hurted me, hurted my mom, hurted my sisters, and then acts like nothing happened.
He's very strict, my mom can't dress up as she likes, we can even have friends. We can't pick up our pictures to social media, we can't listen to our favorite artist, he hates all our tastes, we can't do anything without he hates it.
Time ago, he was unfaithful to my mom, when it happened he treated us like shit. I hated him so bad.
And yeah, so many times he hits us. Even if my mom makes his meals, she is so lovely to him, but he ignored that, when we talk to him he just ignore us.
Tho he give us money, health and feed. I wanna go far away from home but actually I am so scared to leave my mom alone with him.
It really sucks
I just don't understand why my dad can't be a normal loving dad instead of bringing pain and destroying our family
I love how there are no dislikes whatsoever! 🥰
Bestie vibes only 💫
hey bro
🤣🤣🤣
The 2 dislikes are from people with mommy issues
@@violentandragefilled one of them is my own dislike
My dad cheated on my mom with his mistress who knew about me. How can you sit there knowing your taking a father away from his daughter. Then when he broke up with my mom he ran to be with her,she had a boyfriend at the time. Now my dad is married and has a daughter who looks like me and he doesn’t want anything to do with me it hurts every day knowing that I’m like him yet he doesn’t even love me