'Not-So-Casual' Sex - Amol Parashar | Divya Prakash Dubey | Spoken Fest Mumbai 2020
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- Опубликовано: 12 фев 2020
- Casual sex is great but what happens when feelings start coming in the way? When 'booty calls' turn into 'I miss you' texts and you have eyes for them only? Amol Parashar has his own learnings from this new age love story. Watch 'Not-So-Casual Sex' out now. This story has been adapted from an original story ‘Jeevanshaadi dot com’ by Divya Prakash Dubey.
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I don't know every time I listen to this story and just fall, actually it's not you, it's me🙌🏼
Who's here after seeing this many times (recommended) and just clicked it...and after actually liked it
Yessss
*Mehh*
I actually saw this ln igtv and searched on yt
Yes
100% me
Yeesss
Calling Himani as Meenakshi was definitely not a mistake in the end, it was intended. Loved it.
Dont be that picky but yeessss it was intentional
Himani was too a mistake just like Meenaksi...that he intended by doing that
Who are they?
Yeah, but perfect timing. Good story telling and good acting skills.
@@none3406 yes who
You know what’s the biggest problem I have with casual sex.
The culture of casual sex, of using each other for bodily pleasures and then promptly tossing them aside as though they are disposable objects, devalues human life.
Thank you for the thoughtful speech!
Here's a great perspective on why casual relationships/sex are not ideal.
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@THE ZOLDICS feminist ko badnaam karna band kar 10th fail , feminists just iske opposite hote hai , bloody patriarchal and sexist insàan hote hai tere jaise log
@@thezoldics7648feminists just want that women should not be judged for having sex before marriage
Well said@@thezoldics7648
100% agree with u bro@@thezoldics7648
After 3 years this suddenly came back to my suggestion.. what a great storyteller this guy is.. amazing.
Same here broo😅
Same happened with me 😂
Hahha Samee 😂😂
Same here
Same 😅😅
He is actually good with words and storytelling. He should keep this up.
Loved it.
-Himani's husband.
Damn! Really ?
@@crackerahul Nope. I added that just for fun.😅
@@IndiaTides haha...
@@IndiaTides lol that's was great. Himani talking here
@@laurenmaciel2793 I am breaking up with you.
feel like he is broken from inside...
But he is trying to hide that pain from that smile ☺
Hi
Right😀
@Himani Jadhav kyu dhoka diya re tune himani
This is not his real life incident..read the description
Right
Sex can never be termed as casual..its full of emotions
Absolutely right
You never know when that casual sex will change into emotional love.
He's such a good story teller I almost believed it's his life story until I read the description.
😄
@ Shadiya i also felt like that . What an emotional narration....
Tumje sabko ye nahi batani chahiye thi🙃
thanks for ruining it
@@aakash-tn9nga
This guy had AIR 205 in JEE Advanced. Such a gem.
Nahi,
It was AIR 238 (General)
IIT-JEE 2003
IIT Delhi, Mechanical Engineering 2007 Batch
Fun fact: Vipul Goyal (Humorously Yours), same year JEE 2003, AIR 165 (General), IIT Bombay Electrical Engineering 2007 Batch.
Really?
@@aayushamrute8561 yep, you doubt it? You can check
Maa kasam itni knowledge toh Wikipedia naa deta jitni aap dono ne di hai,😅😂
@@itsmeayansheikh haha!
His story made me cry. So intense and sacred emotions!.
Sex is never meant to be casual.
its more of filled with good emotions
Wouldn't like the quote a spiritial person here, "You carry a part of very person you've been in a relationship with"
Mr curious soul, I need you.
@@beingbagmita :)
Ohh bhai kya bola hai
The man is explaining the true meaning of situationship ❤
This not only standup, this is reality.
@Khyalo Ki Duniya ya sure 😃
I don't know why but I sense alot of pain in his smiling face.
That is a sign of good actor
Yeaah bro me too
Exactly!!
Yes
True ❤❤
the smiling face hides a lot of pain .....hats off bro!!
@SONU SONU thanks for it but tu video pe focus kr na !! btw its sis not bro
@SONU SONU Kenny jokes
@@ruqaiyahtayyab6773 ok bro
@SONU SONU U tube ko tinder mat banao sir
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The moment he said- "Hamara to casual tha na" and laughed, that is where I can see the pain. He laughed but there was pin drop silence in audiance cause everyone felt that pain🥲
After 3 years today it was suddenly on my feed again. When I clicked on it I initially thought that time flew away fast and 3 years felt like yesterday. But this time this story hit deeper. Its ending seemed more relatable and sensitive. And suddenly I realized that no time just doesn't fly away, we too become emotionally mature and understanding in this fast pacing life. There is always this messed up and childish part of you which you leave behind each year. Each year you forgot about one or two hobbies you used to or tried to have. This process is so dmmn natural that you can't force stop it. "Keeping the child inside alive" is all bullshit. We experience , we adapt and change. And no you can't find that Immature teenager or child in you again. You can only look back at that part you left behind and smile at those unfulfilled checklists or those half done paintings and sketches or those promises to learn a new language.
"Mujhe stay away hi karna chahiye tha"
This. This sentence. This feeling.
The line hits 😭😭
Kr lo
Ajo yar
Because of this line some people won't trust anyone in their lifetime
What rubbish....he can find someone else easily
someone hug this guy real quick....😭
U do..
ARMYYY everywhere 💜
@@namjooniedeserveshandshake8734 💜✌🏻
U can do nicely!
N he can do that kind of naughty things with you.😁😁😁😁😁😁
For me, he gave a lesson, that leaving is so hard but eventually we have to.. we have to not only realise but also become responsible and move on, no matter wtf and how long tf you feel it that way. We loose self-respect and still want the person to come but they never do. I don't blame you, thanks for giving me lovely memories.
Relationship are not so casual , they are full on of emotions 😢❤
10/10 on story telling, he made such a normal story look romental
Iitian hai
IQ level high
@Log To Khenge yarr hahhaa lol
it's romantic not romental😆
it's time to change the comment so no one would know why this had so many likes to begin with
@@ashishnegi1428 that makes zero sense
It's about sex and it's about heartbreak... And if you'd like you can find a lot more meaning to the story... You just have to look
Haha. Pta nhi hasu ya rou? Bc itni tharak poetic form me bta rha usko emotional touche de diya.. Yahi problem hai humari chutiya generation ki.. if anything suits your opinion , be subtle with it.. Fact is, acche face wale ko casual formal sex sab mil jata hai.. Bhed bakri jese sex kro dino raat.. aur haan aise story bnao.. saare chutiye will fall for it
@@trigcat3107 bro Teri shakal kitni bhi kharab ho, if you are in your 20s and have a girlfriend, tujhe sex milega.
Ohhh aisa kya?
I can sense the sadness in his voice, eyes, gesture. May he get someone who will never leave him.
The thing is it's easy to become Kabir singh but it's damn hard to become Amol Parashar.
Whose amol parashar
@@kabitakar5737 whome you were watching
@@aayushimehta5892 🤣😅🤣
I thought I'm the only who related this to Kabir Singh😂😂😂
@@selvarajuk3780 😅 no dude
My girlfriend shared this to me on initial days of our relationship. Time fled, love turned pale, relationship gone but I am again listening to this just to cherish my time with her
aw im so sorry
@@ananyaraj1514 you are not
@@harshkumar-vy4sn going thru a breakup myself. nvm i should stop being nice to people 🤡
@@ananyaraj1514 oh I am sorry to say like that...be strong yar
One advice for you brother... Because of what happened don't start being rude to girls who are nice to you... And again don't start feeling for girls who are nice to you... Not everyone is what they show us... Also... It will be better for you to get rid of her feelings as soon as possible... You'll feel better.. I know the heart might feel heavy... But the day it will feel light... You'll start enjoying life. 🙂
Have been obsessed with this video..✨ watched 15-20 time ... & Story telling was 100/100... Relationship are not casual >> they are full of emotions..
First love will always remain first no matter who comes in your life ❣️
Ya
If he'll speak little bit more then definately he will cry.. he can't hide his tears anymore
Wo tumhi tho nhai 🙄
Yrr himanshi bs sh hatne ki deri h..😂
Ai tui bhoai hai na🤣
are you on instagram ? Add. me@hazikkhajawal
Ya ofcourse
Guys for God sake stop seeing his pain 😂 he's just an amazing actor that's it! It's not his story, it's just an original story adapted from somewhere, read the description!
Haha..I was going to comment it 😂
Oh damn, hum aise hi itne senti hue ja rhe the😂
Hi
You felt for hero or heroine breakups from film, those are not their real stories right? Same thing here too dude! Let us feel, Chill 😝
Hi
I always watch dis video...in 3 or 4 yrs like 8-10 times but without missing a second...i just love his emotions ❤
Amol is so cute and he is really great at keeping the audience engaged. He deserves to be in more movies. The way presented the story felt so real.
Why I literally cried?
Edit- Everyone is a writer but not a story teller.
That's true
I think u forgot to use night mode
Not so casual - definition of relationship nowadays.
I wonder how he said all of this without a single tear. Hats off!
It's a story adapted from elsewhere, see the description below the video.
it's not him, it's actually his heart and feelings.
You remind me that song- Juda hoke bhi tu mujhme kabhi baki hai......
Ab to adat si hogayi h aise jine me.. 😊
@@ashishhundre93 🤣😂 well replied.
Listening this second time after 2 or 3 years may be .... But was like 1st time... Wow... So soothing 😌🍃🎧
First time watching a truly broken person speaking about his pain in a way that we would enjoy. I didn't realise when tears started rolling down my eyes 😭😭. May be cause it's not filmed and i relate to him.
Not in the sex field but in other things in life.
It's truly said that -
" The one who smiles the brightest, has suffered the most. "
❤️❤️❤️
Moral is
Porn and internet in general have successfully made sex to look like it's something casual.. but in reality it is one of most sacred stuff a person gets to experience.
Bright side is that people will one day realise that internet is just one fake bubble far smaller than reality and truth 🤝🏼
And there are stupid people who tells "sex is just like eating, sleeping, breathing". No, it's not. How can someone equalise these things with sex which is an extreme form of intimacy with another individual? People are so selfish to share their food even...and involving another person to such intimacy..
And I don't know how people do it without loving the other. I don't know if there's any modernity to just "try out people" as if they are some clothes and cry in the corner when same things happen to u.
I am not here tabooing it....but it has an importance, people these days are degrading it at a point, as if it's nothing. It requires trust, respect and love above all. So, if someone has a confusion in these three, it will end up in misery only.
@@sm0000 western culture is devastating other traditions
@@parthasarathisahoo5410 not everything in western culture is bad, such as their children become independent much faster. But we tend to pick up bad things from them in the name of modernity.
@@sm0000 well you talking about independency. Their kids get bullied or troll for having to live with their parents after the age of 18... It's more of a peer pressure. Some Americans even say, this is also one of the way, Govt. tried to earn more taxes from citizen.
Just like how, here in India, if you choose Commerce or Arts, you get judged by others for not being a good student
@@parthasarathisahoo5410 yes. Everything has a good and bad side.
Meenakshis husband to Meenakshi-
It's your choice 😉😉😉😉
🤣🤣
*her choice .
@@hersheyschocolate7711 it's you
🤣🤣🤣it's your jhantu choice jo tumhare sex k kisse suna raha hai 🤣🤣
Time flies but memories don't.. Incredible storytelling. 😊
His voice just gave excellence in the storytelling ❤️🙌
Dear Engineers...
First, he had a job,
Second, he got paid enough to have an AC...
So calm down!
😂😂
Damn true
😅😅😅 true man
🤣🤣🤣
Ye bhi thk h🤣🤣
And he is an IITian also
The video regularly was popping up in my recommendations but i used to avoid it.....finally i watched it today 🙂 nd don't know why i started feeling sad .. ❤️ Amol bhai ❤️
" Jo baatein sach ho bol deni chahiye "
(Edit: I wasn't alone 🙂❤️ thank you all )
Same here...i was avoiding it for weeks and finally i watched it today..
Same here yaar
Same here brother
Same here
Same here 😑😷
Wow, delivering such a long script with without actually having experienced it is great.
Dude is going places.
This guy explained situationship ahead of It's time,rewatching it on 2024
Can't believe it's been 4 years to corona ☹️😕
He has some similarities with Shahid Kapoor.. the way he talks.. ♥️
Yea ..I felt the same👍
#__kabir__singh
Hi
Right
Yeah
There was pain that was very smartly camouflaged with humour. You’ll find the one who’ll say, “it’s you and it’s me forever now” 💕
That's just a hope that we should all have....
And how much life flirts with this hope depends on destiny.
It's mostly girls who break guy's heart so badly without thinking even once how deep that cut would be, and the guys try to move ahead blaming love and themselves where they went wrong 😞😥
VIVEK BARTWAL very true... going through the same
@Sandy G I am sorry if you felt as if I was generalizing between a guy and a girl....
The bottom-line is that the person who is truly in love gets hurt the most irrespective of their gender.
And the person who gets ditched not only hates themselves but also love and thus never believe in loving the opposite sex for the rest of their lives
@@vivekbartwal6617 felt the same some months ago but now stabilize myself .
I have seen this video for the first time and it made me cry. It's hard to believe what is written in description because he played this part as if he picked the pieces from his own life. What a fantastic way of conveying emotions and amazingly well crafted storytelling skills. I have become his fan. 🙂💔
Should we do for casual.
I get emotional after everytime I hear this. Man ---the way he said every line... 🥺
Before they exchanged "I'll miss you" he referred to her as "Himani Tinder", the after story he has replaced it with "Himani"
Beautiful spoken word❤️
He is the same "Kunal" from the Wild Stone ad. Now all of this makes sense.
Oh yeahhhh!
Ohhhhh yaaaaaaaaa
Plus he is an IITian
Apan logo ka to chitwan hai ye....
Tripling ka..💥
I RECOGNISED HIM RIGHT AWAY 🤣🤣
still listening anyone by searching one more time 🖤
This was so beautiful, Amol literally nailed it . Totally loved it
@@aashisinghal5385 hi aashi, wanna want a friendship? :)
@@aashisinghal5385 I wonder now why had he deleted his comment:)
@@mayank4013 Yes he deleted all of his comments
May be because he was asking for my telegram :)
@@aashisinghal8739 he was making a move but as you told you r introvert
He deleted it as like he doesn't exist for you..haha
@@mayank4013 Yeah he was flirting, but I did not replied further so he deleted all of them
And i started crying at the end. There was a lot of pain behind his smile.
Rt
Nothing special it’s common
Then he should cry na..
Why you're crying?
same happened, i don't know why!!!
Ole ole ole
He express his story very well.two times he hurt actually .the smile on his face shows how strong he is.
So true..... yaar main single hoon lekin Break up waali feel aa rhi hai........🤣🤣
I guess I should wait for my beloved wife. 😇
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but girls can't understand
Really he is very strong prsn
It is just a story bro
This is so relateable...and idk why this got recommended to me a day after I "broke up" with a girl that I met on bumble and we weren't even in a realtionship to begin with...we had made things clear that we both didn't want a realtionship and that is bullshit I tell you guys, we fell for each other which I think was unavoidable...f**k we were even saying I love you to each other...it's funny that you can get attached to someone so fast... I can keep going on and on about this but who am I kidding I'm just commenting on a yt video but it helps...thank you for sharing this with us this made me feel good. Sharing this on the comments section of yt somewhat helps..I can't even share this with my friends.😅
The ending was so heart touching ! Literally teared up 🤧
Just realized he's wearing a SWIPE RIGHT T-Shirt.
I played agin just to see that
I never wanted this video to end. He was expressing everything so beautiful n he has a good grip on words n his expressions...loved it♥️🤩
It was well rehearsed but when there is that long discontinuity of tone, pitch, flow... it becomes plastic. So he must level down a bit
*I AM GETTING A VERY TRADITONAL INDIAN VIBE IN HIS STORY TELLING . HE SEEMS TO BE VERY CALM AND MATURED WHILE NARRATING THIS ALL . ITS FEELS SO GOOD LISTENING HIM DIDNT GET BORED FOR EVEN A SINGLE SECOND FEELS SO ENGAGING WANNA SEE HIS MORE STAND UPS . I CAN LITERALLY LISTEN TO HIM ALL DAY LONG* ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Watched it like hundreds time aur jb bhi ue video saamne aati h...i can't stop myself from clicking and watching it ❤️... Bestest and truest video i have ever seen 🤗
This generation just doesn’t know how to value another person’s emotions. Always looking for love but not ready to love somebody with all their heart.
This is a wise thinking
true
Please do check #FindForever
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Yes u r right
On a slightly different note, I find Amol hot as hell...😅
Kunaal ?
😂😂😂
😊
@@v.sub.6027 XD
@@stylinnet2395 it's a Slang.. "Don't want to be"
I listen to this 3 yr ago itself ..but today again it came into recommendation...
Still ❤❤❤❤
Wow I'm in awe the way he said the story was like so vivid ,like storytelling
He was still emotional when he talk..
yes
Love
Yes
Yes
@Youth India and TV 📺 is
Meenakshi's dad enters her room, says good morning, she goes out.
Dad:-(sniffs) Kunaal!
That deodorant ad 🤣
Pakkaa bro..
Hahahaha
😂😂😂😂😂
Han ye to uhi londa h
Watched the complete video 5 minutes ago.....but still staring the screen......he just narrated both my relationships story man...........
I don't know why
but i still watch this video in every 3-4 months
That's how today's generation felt . So broken inside after every break up .but not ready for getting married and loyal relationship.
So true.. I wonder who are these people breaking their partners heart when most of the people are on broken heart's side..
Agree.... Khud Shaadi nahi karni...or bas broken hone ka natak karo
True. He is just stupid.
@@i_m_mini1836 me🤦
Marriage has nothing to do with remaining loyal.
I have watched it 5 times till now. Don't know why ❓ 😂😂 Never felt it old 😂😂
Mohammad creeps stay away😂
Aradhya Srivastava I have watched it 3 times till now.
Right Aradhya🤗... Instaid lovethewaypn
Same here 😊
Hello
I can feel the sadness behind his smile,really loved this bro
The best of the best story telling I have ever seen or listened in my whole life. I do not know the person's name but I Luv u yaaar. I really want to meet him in person. I can literally see the pain in his eyes and his words. Hope he is happy now
Out of words to say how amazing that was.
The best way "casual" thing could ever be explained!
But for me,after my "3 year break up" never moved on to find that casual.
For me the best moment from his story telling was when he called out the name "Minakshi" instead of "Himani" by mistake!
Don't know it was his art of telling the story,or love for her that she still exists somewhere in his mind.
i think he called out Minakshi instead of Himmani ...because he was going to be in the same situation again
@@xyzr9138 may be,but anyway it depicts that he was still into her in someway!
And it felt so good to hear the way he said it out with editing much.
@@aniruddha.bhattacharya potato potAto
@Sandy G definitely mate!
Bong guy spotted ✌️✌️. Kudos man. Got this same feeling man.
The pain behind his smile!! I don't know why , but I can feel that
Falling in love is the best ,rest is normal as love wants to be fresh to make its mark on ! "Amol Parashar " you have the exact quality to impress with the cute and serious jokes to force the feeling without forcing! So simply great dear!
She said same lines "He wants to be back" so me bhi uski khushi ke liye us se dur hi gya.🥺
God bless her
why he's look like Kunal from wild stone??😑
Yr ri8...
Because he is thst kunal from wild stone only
heheee i got that today
coz he is
Kunaaaaaalllll😜
Basically "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS" waala scene without a so called 'happy ending'
Exactly 💯 !
Hes only one whose standup is so genuine n honest n best one
Again here to listen this masterpiece 🙂 so calming so soothing 💖
don't know whether he is sharing his own experience or just telling a story but he is doing it so well that you just want to keep on listening and don't want it to end...
It's inspired from a short story of author Divya Prakash Gupta's Masala Chai.
He's a professional actor. didn't you watch his tripling?
@@mr.avid-watcher7454 I know that he is a professional actor and I've watched Tripling.
What I mean is that not all actors are good story tellers but he is.
I loved it, felt connected somehow.
I just watch 14 mints of a guy
Who I don't know talk about a story that
I couldn't relate to without being distracted.....thats how good of a story teller hi is!
Arey vo Ad nahi dekha? "Kunaaaallll"
Deodorant vala advertisement bro
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3 years been passed and I'm here again, I learnt alot in this time frame now watching this again when I had a lot of more experience,I found better and deep meanings in this whole story ❤️
@Rajakumar-fh3pr I had a 8 years long relationship and after 8 years he realised that may be he no more finds common ground for us so, we mutually decided to break-up , but still I think like should I never propose him in first place cause in 8 years he never showed on any sign of love towards me its very clear from first day that everything was casual for him but I refused to accept this early
@@urvashijha3775you deserve that
after 2 years I'm again watching it at 5am
I hv been noticing that most of the relations begin these day just bcz
"One of them wants to get over their EX"
Trust me ye bnda bck stage jake fir se foot foot k roya hoga 😔
It might be helpful to get distracted and focus on something else. Sometimes all you need is a break. Not quitting love just taking a break from it and maybe consider making friends with the opposite gender to. A good friendship is the foundation of any relationship. Might potentially find someone without trying as hard to impress them or get their attention. And also make friends of the opposite sex because sometimes people forget that that exists too.
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This is the sad truth. It's high time we realize it actually doesn't work that way.
True
Thats why we should look for virgin girls and not broken ones. 😌🙏
That guy's heart is broken...
Can feel d pain behind his smile...
Dont worry you deserve better one...
❤❤
I hope so ..
Exactly....
@Abhishek Mehta hahaha
You guys are crazy 😂...this may be a story he is an actor. May be the story written by someone else.. don't get emotional , I am just saying it's personal choice, honestly I feel we should watch it and enjoy the video. This gen or any generations, if you are using internet you can find all sort of videos and informations. So just enjoy the process of entertainment. 😎😁
Here after 3 years and I'm livin this life rn...
The thing is... I have watched this video so many times that I can't even remember 💗
Never listened Someone so patiently even though can't relate to any of it .
because you just understood story not his feelings
@@gixpal4175 wow u so smart
Same here
@@gixpal4175 🙄😏
Me too but I like his story telling tactics.
I came here to laugh and I left crying. Can anyone relate?
It's recommended from long time and finally I watched it ..it's really awesome and true...
He is such a genuine person!!!❤
“It’s not you. It’s me” Literally every girl after she’s bored of me 😂
She's not bored of you.. she's bored of your intention.. your intention to not commit
cause it is 'she'
@@SinghalLouis pehle relationship Mei AA jaa tu
Fir Gyan chodiyo
@@SinghalLouis lol seems like you're new. Girls do this shit every single time just to get away from relationship
Hey ditto 😂
Could not figure out how much of it was acting..felt like he really felt every syllable of every word...👌👌👌
Life is a journey, don't get serious about anyone, go with flow and injoy every moment you have who ever is with you and let them go whenever they want, I have learnt this because I have same experience as him. It felt like he is telling me my own story 😅
I'm seeing this suddenly after 3 years,
Thank you RUclips for the suggestion!
Just heard "it's not you, it's me" a week back,lol. RUclips recommendation on point
That makes the two of us.
This means we are being monitored by authorities 😳😳🤔🤔🤔🤔. Sawdhan rahe surakshit rahe
Can someone explain
How can "common goals"
be so essential for marriage??
He's hiding his pain .....but he is failed to do that..
Yes you got it subhi....I felt the same..
Actually no because it's not his story.
Because people like you and me are here.......
I don’t know hiding cause he is actually keeping it all out , in a poetic way
i watched this standup more than 15+ times..never get bored! best video ever❤❤❤❤❤❤
Please guys don't do hookups or casual sex just stay loyal to one ❤