HOW TO BUILD A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP | Being friends first
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- Опубликовано: 16 июн 2024
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This is part 2 of our Benefits of a Friendship Before a Relationship Video. This time, talked about how to prevent toxic relationships, and the importance of having a friendship before a relationship. We want to help you if you are struggling with this part of life. We are not relationship experts. We are giving advice based off of our own life experiences and situations we have personally witnessed. The best way to learn, is learning from someone else’s mistakes rather than your own. Add to the conversation. We want to hear from you guys what your thoughts and opinions on the topics are. Leave a comment down below of what you think.
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The man I'm dating .. we're friends and just over a year we've decided to see what a relationship would be like between us and he's spoken about having kids and getting married. I just keep thinking I love that we were friends first before even taking this next step. Best feeling ever.
YES! There’s nothing like that foundation of friendship! So glad this video resonates with you 💛
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There you go sis!!! Proud of yall that's how it's suppose to go let nature take its course. Yall built solid foundation friendship. 🙌 Yall didn't rush.
1 friendship is Real no faking, truth of other person, strong foundation, no representative to fool you!!
2 Prevents toxic Relationship , eliminates the pressure of perfection be yourselves, no phoniness, staying for the wrong reasons kids, home, time invested, fear of singleness etc ,
3 Not Clouded by LUST
Lower Desires Don’t Lead this way
Allowing VANITY EGO to Lead not Love to Lead look on the inside dig deep and see them with honesty realistic it’s an opportunity to be a friend, do not let cuteness compromise 10:57 your values of a good person,🙏🏻❤️
I always want to be friends with someone first or let's say getting to know this person first before jumping into intimacy. I met a lot of people who want sex after 3 dates. I am like: "objectively, you are attractive. But I don't want to have sex with a stranger. I need to have some what deeper connection." So I got the lable of slow burner. 🤷 Most people just move on or feel friend zoned. Forever single. My last long term relationship has been more than 3 years.
I find this video really helpful. I'm impulsive and impatient mostly because of my borderline personality disorder. And I want it all and I want it now. I've met a guy and he said he would like to be friends first and to me that sounded weird. Almost broke it off after a few dates. I realised I don't know how be friends with a guy. I like him a lot. So I don't know how to take his further.
Bro, you seem like you matured a lot. Respect. Good example for me. Thanks for the vids.
what's the difference between friendship and relationship to y'all? and how do you navigate a friendship when y'all like each other? isn't any interaction you have "a thing"? ie, when y'all like each other and text each other, you're technically "talking"; if y'all hang out, it's technically "a date". so how would you avoid that?
That’s what I’m trying figure out
If you and your "friend" can hang out with other people without either one of you getting upset.. that's a friendship. If someone is triggered... that person is seeing it as a potential relationship. If you both "like" each other and see each other as "dating", the foundation of building a friendship has been bypassed. A mutual friendship would not consider actions of "dating" or "talking".... Just like you wouldn't see it as "talking" or "dating" one of your "actual" friends.
-Message from a 28 year relationship of ups and downs but always remained each other's best friend ... where we were friends first. Friends (with no benefits) for 2 years, dated for 10, married the rest.
Josh and Sanah got it right.. and we are proof.
According to the Bible being physical is being more than friends, I think. So I guess temptation(being physical outside a marriage union) is stronger when there is a potential partner vibe. I had the same questions as you though...can it ever be just friends, and I guess yes and no as it can but it can easily turn into a potential for more, based on various factors I guess. (If you see a future with them, physical attraction). I guess answering you helped me answer myself. Thank you and all the best. Another thing is it can be difficult to have a/maintain a just friends vibe, at least for me it was, (unfortunately for me as it didn't turn into my fairytale ending and hurt me). I fell pretty fast for one man but it didn't seem mutual so I stopped seeing him to avoid continued heartaches. It broke my heart though. Ask God to guide you.
@@justynak3867 Don’t care about what the Bible says.
Hi Queen, perhaps if there is no physical attraction, it would remain not 'a thing'. Someone else told me this and it made somewhat sense to me, because it seems the men who were physically attracted to me did want 'more' -
❤️ Thank you, this was helpful
Thank you for this beautiful video 🥰
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Hey guys ...... thank you for this talk. It brought clarity to the way I feel about a girl I like. I am sexually attracted but realise it's lust and not love. Getting a grip of myself, getting to know her and finding out if she feels thesame. If she doesn't.....that's cool.
I have clapping during the whole video, bravo 🎉
This vid was good
That "Uhhh" at 2:39 gave me so much life😂🙌🏾 y'all are cute!
Thank you 💛
Y'all got more mature like fine wine.
Wow...enjoyed both videos. Friendship is so important.
Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much. What a Great video !!!! I learned so much. All I can offer anybody today is basic friendship. I am a work in progress myself. If we can have a great friendship, we can have a great marriage. I like to keep life simple and basic because it promotes growth and progress. I am broken and I seek the same. Thanks for letting me share.
I agree! One thing Ive learned is when all else fails, Friendship can hold it together and bring you back from many hardships.
Thank you for sharing. I really appreciate the encouragement.
Thank you for this 🙏
Hope it helps 💛
Friends first ordeal has it's pros and cons
Hi name twin…I am Hassanah as well & Sanah for short 💕
Me and this guy started dating really quickly and I think he got scared so he broke up with me. I want us to get back together but I'm thinking maybe we should just be friends for now.. do u think its possible to get back to the relationship stage if we work on the friendship for now?
Yes
If both of you want that then yes
Covid19 is spreading everywhere me and my friend can't associate with our friends. He is busy working hard. He goes to people homes to put in new floors paint walls, he does plumbing, yardwork etc. He does his jobs passionately. With the help of God I help him get customer. I want to communicate more as his cheerleader, bestie, support ,fun friend. I come at a loss for words because I don't want to say same thing over and over. What communication scripts you suggest for texting?
What is this song called in yall intro
LMAO that face at 9:26