@mariah3654 I'm sorry. I'm witnessing this and it is a very sad and disturbing dynamic to watch. At least you seem to be aware of what's happening. Learn to protect yourself and do whatever it takes to be mentally, emotionally, and psychologically safe. These people are destructive and their internal chaos will only damage the lives of those closest to them. Distance yourself for your own good and do everything you need to do to heal.🙏🏼
Thank you for helping me remove myself from people who were unable/unwilling to show up for others the way they want them to show up for them. It feels amazing to no longer pour from an empty cup.
That's why I moved far away as possible. My so called family is hateful and toxic, cruel, play games with my mind etc. it's over 4 me. My mother and stepdad can play with other family members. I'm out.
Had to learn That sometimes it’s not worth it whatever it is So I’m learning to keep silent the conversation I’m good, and anything else that follows after realizing that I’m an option then I can walk alone
My younger adult children and our relationship is this way. I don't doubt they have a love for me being their Mom...but they don't take up time with me, check on me daily and my daughter can be the most loving to her church family....I get static...im tired of the inequities in our relationship, tired of feeling so sad that there's always negative words bc of my begging.....ima hold my stuff closer, she dont want it and has only leftover, sometimes, for me, tired of it all. Thank you Bishop for this....half of my soul and breath just left me
To: princess crockett Take care of yourself and live your best life. AND be sure not to play being a victim. Self care 2024 is real. I have found that as I age and retire, transition routines that I am re-imagining who I am with new classes, making new friends. It seems you have obviously raised your family to be successful, contributing members of society, so do yourself a favor and love life on your terms now. Loving life, Barbara😊 they will probably look up and see you in a different light🎉 . By the way...do it with love, laughter and excitement for what God has in store for you new each day. What a great day in the morning it is each and every day. Move forward with a positive mindset ❤
Thank you so much for this message! I will replay this as many times as I need until it’s embedded in me as a daily reminder🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I am growing and going higher thanks to God, wanting to evolve and you Bishop! You have really made an impact since I discovered your videos almost two years ago now! Thanking God for you always! Love you for all that you do💜💜💜
I’m running into this problem all too often these days, canceling people out of my life some that have been there for years that will just not return even the smallest favors anymore. I do not deal with procrastinators any longer either Lord ive had enough of these people out with the old and with the new come on 2024 and beyond, I’m done with y’all
You are amazing. You help me get through so many obstacles and help me to get a perspective on my life and I just want you to know .. I thank you and I appreciate you! 😊
Wisdom here! I'm exhausted..Got rid of the Narcissist on Christmas...Last time he disrespect my ho.e n heart..It's been really nice alone here w Jesus..
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN! I CHOSE TO LET THEM GO!!!!!!!! IF I CAN HELP YOU, AND YOU CAN'T NEVER HELP ME, IT'S BYE BYE! I'M KEEPING IT MOV'IN! 💯 ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
You are speaking directly to me from.God right now! I'm not begging yet... but if it keeps going this way, I would end up begging, which I don't want to do. I watched your video about men who are brought up I Culture to deceive women and then leave them in limbo and I do feel this happening to me. I've stated my case as clearly as I can and can't do anymore than that. He is going through a transition and I feel I've been helping him come back to God. But now I'm not getting what I need emotionally.
He can transition and come back to God without any help from you. Don't be duped by him or yourself. Get free and stay free, refer him to professional counseling/clergy, whatever.
Don’t chase them, Replace them 💅
SO TRUE!!!!!! DON'T GET TORE UP FOR NOBODY, BECAUSE PEOPLE COME AND GO PERIOD
Let them go, with love PEACEFUL ✌️
I agree especially on the job !!!!
It's Really Not a crime to be Alone until you get what you Deserve 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉
YES.
I stand in agreement.
Took a while, but I stand by this philosophy nonetheless.
Preach
REAL TALK🎉
“…for your HEALTH” 💯💕
Thank you.
I agree 💯
Facts❤
Thank u right on time..
It’s the timeliness of this message for me, how can I be begging for the very basic things in a relationship smhhh
Been there. Just leave.
Been there too feel so sorry girl. But leave him. And move on.❤ you deserve what you need.
Relationships are supposed to be reciprocal.. Don't allow yourself to be bred crumbed, future faked and/or used and abused. Choose you instead.
Amen 🙏🏾
I like DAT 💯 lol 🤭Amen 🙏 too😏
Amen
Amen.
THANK YOU
FACTS! AMEN! THAT'S RIGHT!
Thank you for saying that ❤
This! I just cut off two people who mismanaged me and I feel amazing. They couldn’t meet my needs and that’s ok!
SO MUCH FACTS 💯💯
Truth
Received.This word was confirmation for me🙌💪👌✔️
Right on time!!! 🎯🎯🎯 The ball is in your court and you gotta do what's best for your health!🙌❤️🔥💯
So hard when it's a sibling!
@mariah3654 I'm sorry. I'm witnessing this and it is a very sad and disturbing dynamic to watch. At least you seem to be aware of what's happening. Learn to protect yourself and do whatever it takes to be mentally, emotionally, and psychologically safe. These people are destructive and their internal chaos will only damage the lives of those closest to them. Distance yourself for your own good and do everything you need to do to heal.🙏🏼
❤Woowee. So timely. God's got me as I commit my ways to him! Glory be to God. He's working it all out.
Amen Pastor 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you for helping me remove myself from people who were unable/unwilling to show up for others the way they want them to show up for them. It feels amazing to no longer pour from an empty cup.
😊
I made that decision 3 weeks ago it was hard but I had to let go
Good for you! Hope you stick with it!
You will be OK! Trust me, one day you will wake up thanking God that person is no longer in your life.
Yes,this is the TRUTH
💯💯💯
Truth Truth brother ✨️
Amen!!! This is so true
I’m allowing this message to resonate !!! 😊
Amen* I'm almost 60 years young and I have learned to say no and leave it there.💕🙏
Thinking about it. Needed to hear!
✊️✊️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you, Bishop Blakes
Absolutely 💯 ...pearls of wisdom
I'm in the situation right now. Need to distance myself from certain family members.
Same. It's hard.
Yessir I'm totally done ✅✅✅ THANK YOU PASTOR RC BLAKE'S 🙏🏽
That's why I moved far away as possible. My so called family is hateful and toxic, cruel, play games with my mind etc. it's over 4 me. My mother and stepdad can play with other family members. I'm out.
Amen Bishop Blakes! That's when it's time to go!💯❤
Had to learn
That sometimes it’s not worth it whatever it is
So I’m learning to keep silent the conversation I’m good, and anything else that follows after realizing that I’m an option then I can walk alone
Thank you for obeying God’s Word in you! This is the confirmation I needed!
Amen! I choose to live and value myself
Thank you, Bishop!! Great advice!! That's so true!! We must move on!! 🙏🏾💙
❤ Amen 😊
Bishop Blakes is the 💯truth AND 🙏🏿the light!
Listen and pay close attention to everything he says!
He doesn't lie.
Always on point, man of God! God bless you. 😊
Amen! Needed this today 🎉
Well said❤
That's right love your life for Jesus 🌹
I did stop, Bishop. I stopped that YEARS ago!! I'm free. 🙏🏼 ♥️
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, ME 2🎉😂❤🎉😂❤🎉😂❤🎉❤❤
@@KM-oy5yh ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amen 🙏 thank you for this message! Soo true
Great advice Bishop RC Blakes!
My younger adult children and our relationship is this way. I don't doubt they have a love for me being their Mom...but they don't take up time with me, check on me daily and my daughter can be the most loving to her church family....I get static...im tired of the inequities in our relationship, tired of feeling so sad that there's always negative words bc of my begging.....ima hold my stuff closer, she dont want it and has only leftover, sometimes, for me, tired of it all. Thank you Bishop for this....half of my soul and breath just left me
💜🌸💜🏵💜
To: princess crockett
Take care of yourself and live your best life. AND be sure not to play being a victim. Self care 2024 is real. I have found that as I age and retire, transition routines that I am re-imagining who I am with new classes, making new friends. It seems you have obviously raised your family to be successful, contributing members of society, so do yourself a favor and love life on your terms now. Loving life, Barbara😊 they will probably look up and see you in a different light🎉 . By the way...do it with love, laughter and excitement for what God has in store for you new each day. What a great day in the morning it is each and every day. Move forward with a positive mindset ❤
I don't know if you have any sons or not, but have that same expectation for them as well as your daughter(s)
@@onevenus6040 why would u make negative comments to an already hurting soul? U asssssssssume waaaaasay too much
Shut up@@onevenus6040
Yes, my Narcissistic, mother is been like this to me my whole life.
It's family and friends for me.
Thank you so much for this message! I will replay this as many times as I need until it’s embedded in me as a daily reminder🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I am growing and going higher thanks to God, wanting to evolve and you Bishop! You have really made an impact since I discovered your videos almost two years ago now! Thanking God for you always! Love you for all that you do💜💜💜
AMEN AMEN 🙏
Powerful
I’m running into this problem all too often these days, canceling people out of my life some that have been there for years that will just not return even the smallest favors anymore. I do not deal with procrastinators any longer either Lord ive had enough of these people out with the old and with the new come on 2024 and beyond, I’m done with y’all
Holy Spirit timing right there. I needed this message today. Ty
Always such wisdom and spot on. Timely.
Yes thank you for this positive message pastor
Amen
That Part 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank Bishop for this word
Sho you right Bishop, a good word in season, "Blessed to be a Blessing!❤ Glory to God!😇🤗
🥰Amen! Thank you Bishop RC. Blake. This speaks volume to me. I'm dealing with a situation now @my work place now with this scenario. Thank you Sir🙏💖💖
Run………….Now…….
Amen🙏🏽♥️bishop thank you
So sad and So true!!
This is right on time, Needed This, Time to Disconnect & Move🙏🏽 Thank you 🫶🏽
Absolutely 😊
Amen, I needed to hear this today Pastor🙏
Things are already better in the Mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
You are amazing. You help me get through so many obstacles and help me to get a perspective on my life and I just want you to know .. I thank you and I appreciate you! 😊
In other words, BOUNCE NOW!
Wisdom here! I'm exhausted..Got rid of the Narcissist on Christmas...Last time he disrespect my ho.e n heart..It's been really nice alone here w Jesus..
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN! I CHOSE TO LET THEM GO!!!!!!!! IF I CAN HELP YOU, AND YOU CAN'T NEVER HELP ME, IT'S BYE BYE! I'M KEEPING IT MOV'IN! 💯 ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Amen🙏☝️
So true Bishop RC 💯
Timely. Thanks.
Yes, they Just Don't Choose to give you want you Need , it's Manipulation and Control, Family is the Worst for this 😢
Thank you. Great food for thought, sir❤❤❤
So true. Bishop
“…best decision for your health.” 🍎🍌🍇❤
You are speaking directly to me from.God right now! I'm not begging yet... but if it keeps going this way, I would end up begging, which I don't want to do. I watched your video about men who are brought up I Culture to deceive women and then leave them in limbo and I do feel this happening to me. I've stated my case as clearly as I can and can't do anymore than that. He is going through a transition and I feel I've been helping him come back to God. But now I'm not getting what I need emotionally.
He can transition and come back to God without any help from you. Don't be duped by him or yourself. Get free and stay free, refer him to professional counseling/clergy, whatever.
A men a men love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing 👍🏾
Very true
AMEN 🙏
Right on time….
I needed to to hear this today
Great messages 😊🎉.
Facts
Thank you
Been there, done with that.
AMEN. IM TRIEDOF BEGGING FOR MARRIAGE AND HELP WITH TGE BILLS. 2024 TIME FOR A CHANGE🙏❤
Amen move on.
Great advice ❤
That's right
❤I'm smack n the middle of this w/family....My answer is no no no?? Never pay back loans, now another loan & still owe me??? Like I need help myself??