Hey! this was my question. I love how you take all question asked serious. Jazak Allahu Khayran. The answer was a bit vague and no clear examples were given but that is because of the time available I imagine.
I thought this was a good answer. In this day and age, you will interact with those of the opposite sex, but it is important to be guarded ad maintain a sense of dignity and humility by not crossing the line. How do you know it's crossing the line? If it feels wrong to you, it is. I'm curious as to whether gender segregation at weddings is appropriate? Families I know feel very strongly about this.
Andalus101 You pretty much issues 2 fatwas in one comment. That gender segregation is biddah (how is it biddah when the Prophet used to instruct it - e.g. in the mosque) and how is the hijab not mandatory in Islam. Please.
+Andalus101 hijab is mandatory. Surat Noor verse 31 says that women should put their "khumur" (which means head covering". Let us not lie and be 1 vs. Scholars
Andalus101 1) And there are websites countering those so-caled muslim websites. If you know Arabic, you would know that the word "khimar" in THAT context refers to the covering of the head www.answering-christianity.com/hijab_miracle.htm www.irfi.org/articles/articles_1_50/is_hijab_compulsory.htm 2) How about the majority of scholars who do not do those things?
Andalus101 Now you are dismissing because Surah Nur Ayah 31 does mention it. Beards are optional in Islam. It seems to me that you are one of those women who so-called "discovered that Hijab is not mandatory". Read this book: en.islamway.net/book/9633/the-muslim-woman-s-dress www.muhajabah.com/sunna-yes.htm#hijab www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/women/hijab-niqab/hijab-fard-obligation-or-fiction/ I am talking about current ones such as Shabir Ally, Jamal Badawi, Yasir Qadhi, Suhaib Webb, Abdullah Andalusi etc. It seems to me that you have to research and not rely on the angry ones.
Salam. Thanks for all your efforts. The answer seem to be very limited in scope and short. It misses the famous hadith about when the male and female are alone in a place then the shaytan is the third. So the prohibition of khulwa is there. Then we have an environment where there are many who don't wear hijab and we have the Quranic injunction of lowering the gaze. So crossing the line is not just by going to adultery, but by looking beyond what was deemed out of control. Then the touching aspect also there is hadith against it.
His answer is very theoretical. He forgot to mention that Allah clearly states in the Quran (I'm speaking from memory). Donot even GO NEAR ZINA. So does Dr. Ally expect to have a society where men and women will mix freely and they are expected to keep within their limits. By having free mixing u are opening the doorway leading to Zina. Men don't have an on/off switch in them when it comes to sexual desires. ,i.e. I will turn it off when I am at the workplace, and then turn it back on when I am back home. What about unmarried men. I find scholars living in the West try to have a very liberal meaning of the Quran and hadiths just to facilitate their circumstances in the West. They fail to realize that Allah expects you take on hardships when it comes to sticking to your religion. And on what basis is he stating that generations after the Prophet misinterpreted his teachings and wrongly attributed sayings to him. He forgets the hadith(again from memory) which speaks of the first generation of Muslims being stronger than the next and so forth. So that generation of Muslims which according to him wrongly attributed sayings to the Prophet were anyway better than us.
Do not commit Zina that’s clear but u can interact as long as it does not fall towards indecent, if men and women work in same place they are allowed to interact, the extremist have taken it to extreme levels where women can’t get jobs because men work, that’s rediculous.
I was thinking of this recently and was going to send in a Q! Thank you all!
Very good answer 😄 May Allah give Aisha and Dr. Ally and the rest of the crew behind camera many many rewards
Hey! this was my question. I love how you take all question asked serious. Jazak Allahu Khayran. The answer was a bit vague and no clear examples were given but that is because of the time available I imagine.
I would have appreciated more insight on work, school, weddings, markets, dawats or invitations to dinners etc..
i want gender segregatuion to end
@ its not about what you want. Its about what Allah allows or does not allow
Please do a longer video about this...
Alsalamu alaykum. I’d like to read more about the hadeeth mentioned at 1:45. Does anyone know the citation?
I thought this was a good answer. In this day and age, you will interact with those of the opposite sex, but it is important to be guarded ad maintain a sense of dignity and humility by not crossing the line. How do you know it's crossing the line? If it feels wrong to you, it is.
I'm curious as to whether gender segregation at weddings is appropriate? Families I know feel very strongly about this.
Andalus101 You pretty much issues 2 fatwas in one comment. That gender segregation is biddah (how is it biddah when the Prophet used to instruct it - e.g. in the mosque) and how is the hijab not mandatory in Islam. Please.
+Andalus101 hijab is mandatory. Surat Noor verse 31 says that women should put their "khumur" (which means head covering". Let us not lie and be 1 vs. Scholars
Andalus101
1) And there are websites countering those so-caled muslim websites. If you know Arabic, you would know that the word "khimar" in THAT context refers to the covering of the head
www.answering-christianity.com/hijab_miracle.htm
www.irfi.org/articles/articles_1_50/is_hijab_compulsory.htm
2) How about the majority of scholars who do not do those things?
Andalus101
Now you are dismissing because Surah Nur Ayah 31 does mention it. Beards are optional in Islam. It seems to me that you are one of those women who so-called "discovered that Hijab is not mandatory".
Read this book:
en.islamway.net/book/9633/the-muslim-woman-s-dress
www.muhajabah.com/sunna-yes.htm#hijab
www.virtualmosque.com/ummah/women/hijab-niqab/hijab-fard-obligation-or-fiction/
I am talking about current ones such as Shabir Ally, Jamal Badawi, Yasir Qadhi, Suhaib Webb, Abdullah Andalusi etc. It seems to me that you have to research and not rely on the angry ones.
Salam. Thanks for all your efforts. The answer seem to be very limited in scope and short. It misses the famous hadith about when the male and female are alone in a place then the shaytan is the third. So the prohibition of khulwa is there. Then we have an environment where there are many who don't wear hijab and we have the Quranic injunction of lowering the gaze. So crossing the line is not just by going to adultery, but by looking beyond what was deemed out of control. Then the touching aspect also there is hadith against it.
AbdelRahman Elsayed That hadith is subject to context. For work and school reasons people will be alone, and often nothing happens.
@@alisiddiqui6424 yes
Still doesn't forbid from me being judt friends
Name a gender segregated society that doesn't have rampant homosexuality and pedastry. Definitely extreme segregation is unislamic.
Gender segregation has been taken out of context.
His answer is very theoretical. He forgot to mention that Allah clearly states in the Quran (I'm speaking from memory). Donot even GO NEAR ZINA. So does Dr. Ally expect to have a society where men and women will mix freely and they are expected to keep within their limits. By having free mixing u are opening the doorway leading to Zina. Men don't have an on/off switch in them when it comes to sexual desires. ,i.e. I will turn it off when I am at the workplace, and then turn it back on when I am back home. What about unmarried men. I find scholars living in the West try to have a very liberal meaning of the Quran and hadiths just to facilitate their circumstances in the West. They fail to realize that Allah expects you take on hardships when it comes to sticking to your religion. And on what basis is he stating that generations after the Prophet misinterpreted his teachings and wrongly attributed sayings to him. He forgets the hadith(again from memory) which speaks of the first generation of Muslims being stronger than the next and so forth. So that generation of Muslims which according to him wrongly attributed sayings to the Prophet were anyway better than us.
And your point is?
Wthh are you talking about yes we should not go close to zina that means being alone on room but I can still be friends with opposite gender
Do not commit Zina that’s clear but u can interact as long as it does not fall towards indecent, if men and women work in same place they are allowed to interact, the extremist have taken it to extreme levels where women can’t get jobs because men work, that’s rediculous.