I really wish there was other family members to help me but I’m on my own. My 84 yo aunt is at stage 3. She had no children and my uncle died four years ago, also from Alzheimer’s. She has no one but me. It’s really hard. I’m learning how to deal with her as I go. She is very stubborn and insists that she can do fine on her own. Your video’s are so helpful! Thank you so much and I love your laid back approach. The levity helps so much❤
I’ve been caring for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s for 5+ years, 24/7. It’s very difficult especially when they won’t acknowledge that something is wrong. It’s physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting for the caregivers. Hugs from New York, Debby
I’m so sad for you, Mindy. You are a saint for stepping in and doing the job and by yourself. I’m so glad that you found my videos, helpful, and that you don’t mind my laid-back approach! All my love as you travel this journey, Vicky ❤️
In my husband's case it was what he called "not thinking." Meaning making multiple mistakes through brain not functioning properly. I thought it was his ADHD, his poor judgement and his rushing about and not thinking about/planning ahead about what he was going to be doing before he did it (he had a lot of spontaneous action/reactions going on.) Now, ten years later I realize it was his early cognitive decline. Our Functional Medicine Physician also discovered insulin resistance. Hindsight is so much easier seeing in hindsight than seeing then at the time they occur.
As someone with adhd and family history of dementia I'm terrified it will be me. I have had most of the symptoms you would get on stages 1-3 my whole life and now taking care of my mother in law which is on phase 4-5, I am petrified I'm in the same boat. How do I protect my family from me? How do you I separate dementia from adhd?
My mom’s doctor would NOT let us express our concerns to her-including my brother, who had HIPAA access. He had to file a complaint with the company to gain access. My mother immediately failed the cognitive tests.
I’m so glad to hear that. Your brother advocated for her. And then for her to immediately fail the cognitive test. I’m so sad for you and your brother and absolutely your mother.
What do you do if you have a mom that is in her 70’s and single. I am her daughter and I am married to a great guy. Mom loves us both, but doesn’t want anyone in her business. I don’t know how I will help her now or in the future. She gets so angry. The lady at the bank told her to not ever let Anyone to be her power of attorney. I’m not sure if my mom has dementia or not. She lives by herself now and seems to do okay
Do you think dementia is hereditary? I hope it isn't. My mother with dementia is one of nine children, 5 died ( mom will die ) from dementia. Other 4 , cancer, hart attack and a incompetent dr. From high blood pressure after child birth. Theae 4 died before 60 yrs old. So am I and my siblings more then likely going to have dementia
I’m actually going to shoot that video next! Until then, yes, it CAN be hereditary but not always. It’s the Alzheimer’s type of dementia that’s been studied. There is a gene: APO3. Some people carry it, some don’t. You can search that subject on Google. Alz.org has some good info on it. The issue is; some people DO NOT want to know. That’s such a personal decision! I would want to know so I can better plan.
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Also… everybody needs your book so they can get the history part filled out while they’re able to answer questions!❤️
Exactly!! I always forget to mention that!!
I really wish there was other family members to help me but I’m on my own. My 84 yo aunt is at stage 3. She had no children and my uncle died four years ago, also from Alzheimer’s. She has no one but me. It’s really hard. I’m learning how to deal with her as I go. She is very stubborn and insists that she can do fine on her own. Your video’s are so helpful! Thank you so much and I love your laid back approach. The levity helps so much❤
I’ve been caring for my 85 year old mom with Alzheimer’s for 5+ years, 24/7. It’s very difficult especially when they won’t acknowledge that something is wrong. It’s physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting for the caregivers. Hugs from New York, Debby
@@debby891 hugs to you too my friend! Hang in there❤️
I’m so sad for you, Mindy. You are a saint for stepping in and doing the job and by yourself. I’m so glad that you found my videos, helpful, and that you don’t mind my laid-back approach! All my love as you travel this journey, Vicky ❤️
Thank you so much Vicky. Pushback is an understatement, a classic example of anosognosia
Absolutely
In my husband's case it was what he called "not thinking." Meaning making multiple mistakes through brain not functioning properly. I thought it was his ADHD, his poor judgement and his rushing about and not thinking about/planning ahead about what he was going to be doing before he did it (he had a lot of spontaneous action/reactions going on.) Now, ten years later I realize it was his early cognitive decline. Our Functional Medicine Physician also discovered insulin resistance. Hindsight is so much easier seeing in hindsight than seeing then at the time they occur.
As someone with adhd and family history of dementia I'm terrified it will be me. I have had most of the symptoms you would get on stages 1-3 my whole life and now taking care of my mother in law which is on phase 4-5, I am petrified I'm in the same boat. How do I protect my family from me? How do you I separate dementia from adhd?
I love you too!! Another great set of videos!❤️
You're the best!
Thank you for sharing all this info. I love your accent !
So nice of you!! Thank you!!
Thanks Vicky! Great help!
Glad it was helpful! ❤️❤️❤️
My mom’s doctor would NOT let us express our concerns to her-including my brother, who had HIPAA access. He had to file a complaint with the company to gain access. My mother immediately failed the cognitive tests.
I’m so glad to hear that. Your brother advocated for her. And then for her to immediately fail the cognitive test. I’m so sad for you and your brother and absolutely your mother.
What do you do if you have a mom that is in her 70’s and single. I am her daughter and I am married to a great guy. Mom loves us both, but doesn’t want anyone in her business. I don’t know how I will help her now or in the future. She gets so angry. The lady at the bank told her to not ever let Anyone to be her power of attorney. I’m not sure if my mom has dementia or not. She lives by herself now and seems to do okay
Do you think dementia is hereditary? I hope it isn't. My mother with dementia is one of nine children, 5 died ( mom will die ) from dementia. Other 4 , cancer, hart attack and a incompetent dr. From high blood pressure after child birth. Theae 4 died before 60 yrs old.
So am I and my siblings more then likely going to have dementia
I’m actually going to shoot that video next! Until then, yes, it CAN be hereditary but not always. It’s the Alzheimer’s type of dementia that’s been studied. There is a gene: APO3. Some people carry it, some don’t. You can search that subject on Google. Alz.org has some good info on it. The issue is; some people DO NOT want to know. That’s such a personal decision! I would want to know so I can better plan.
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With HIPPA laws, the doctors will shut you out.