New Year’s Goal Setting Strategies for Neurodivergent Spoonies | PART TWO

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  • Опубликовано: 17 окт 2024

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  • @CassieWinter
    @CassieWinter  Год назад +6

    What would it mean if you got to choose your own story?

    • @Rosey6onlybff
      @Rosey6onlybff Год назад

      I am 49 this year, I feel that I could potentially start to create my own recipe/script i need in order to try and live my life for the first time instead of just trying to exist from disaster to disaster. Thank you for explaining my missing lapsed time segments of my existence.

  • @megcampbell-crawley6905
    @megcampbell-crawley6905 Год назад +3

    potential. It's remarkable, shifting to looking at my groundhog day as protective, wow. There's so much I can't control. Feeding myself compassion and acceptance is boggling my mind. I'm boggled.

  • @mrandisg
    @mrandisg Год назад +6

    "Potential." 🙄😝 I'm making a conscious effort to eliminate that word from my vocabulary!
    After filling out the "potential" version, I feel angry. Not toward my loved ones who mean well. Toward ableism. I won't say I'm not frustrated by the things they told me all my life. But I don't fault them either because they grew up the same way I did, in a world that looked down on you if you didn't do this or that.
    After filling out the REAL story, I feel much better about myself. I feel like I'm on the right path toward what I actually want and need. I can't thank you enough for this! 💖💖

    • @CassieWinter
      @CassieWinter  Год назад

      So proud of you for doing the exercises! And I'm so glad they were helpful 💖💖💖

  • @aprildawnsunshine4326
    @aprildawnsunshine4326 Год назад +7

    Loving the analogy of the hero's journey and as you were going through it I realized that in all the best stories nobody knows what the end will look like until they get there and that's what happens in the third box. We realize our initial goals aren't going to work or happen or whatever and find a different solution. My emotional tank is too drained to take a hard look at the mythical potential side, but I feel like I'm already well into step 2 of my much more interesting realistic one ☺️

  • @andreahultman8272
    @andreahultman8272 Год назад +1

    My potential has been stolen by ME/CFS and the other chronic conditions I live with. It's hard to give up on some of my dreams because I just don't have the spoons to do anything about them-for example, continuing to write the fantasy novel I started in NaNoWriMo 2008. I want to get back to it, but I have to consider I might never have the spoons to do so. Other priorities take, well, priority-cooking, baking, laundry, dishes, personal hygiene, etc. I don't have energy left for the novel, and I run out of ideas for when I do actually have spoons to work on it. I *could* choose to write instead of crocheting, embroidering, or doing any of the other hobbies I enjoy more, but I don't. UGH.
    Thanks for listening.

  • @Michelle-kw8dc
    @Michelle-kw8dc Год назад

    Yessssssyesyesyes! "Discipline" is SELF HARM.

  • @jenalva8
    @jenalva8 Год назад +1

    I don’t understand the hatred with “diet” when being healthy , having a healthy diet and lifestyle is soooooo important especially for neurodivergents

    • @brimarie4196
      @brimarie4196 9 месяцев назад

      I ofcourse am not sure, but I think the difference is the word culture. She's not saying she doesn't support or like diet change as in healthy eating to get vitamins and minerals and fuel your body. Instead she referred to diet 'culture' which generally refers to a cultural view of eating as being more about making your body smaller by any means needed which often is detrimental to one's health.

  • @tracybet1
    @tracybet1 9 месяцев назад +1

    5:46 you are so cool, Joseph Campbell is great keep up the good work

  • @juliae.8237
    @juliae.8237 Год назад +2

    Potential

  • @leoniekedeverwoester6394
    @leoniekedeverwoester6394 Год назад +1

    Omg yes, Inigo IS the hero! 😍

  • @heatheremma3471
    @heatheremma3471 Год назад +1

    Thank you
    THIS is what I needed to hear❤
    100% ablism applied in these scenarios

  • @atesah
    @atesah Год назад +1

    three minutes in and I already love this ❤

  • @Rosey6onlybff
    @Rosey6onlybff Год назад +1

    Potential❤

  • @SpectrumOfChange
    @SpectrumOfChange Год назад +3

    This is an insightful application of narrative, will be sitting with it in my slow as processing. Thanks.

  • @ThelPic
    @ThelPic Год назад +3

    If you are interested in the hero's journey development in semiotics, I suggest to go to the primary source, the work of the Russian anthropologist Vladimir Propp about the folk tales structure 😉

  • @katfaitour9009
    @katfaitour9009 Год назад +4

    This is SO GOOD. Thank you, Cassie.❤ And also...that hoodie! 😻

    • @CassieWinter
      @CassieWinter  Год назад +1

      Thank you! And it's a hoodie designed with a kangaroo pouch for you cat to snuggle in, but unfortunately neither of my cats like it 😿

    • @katfaitour9009
      @katfaitour9009 Год назад +1

      @@CassieWinter My cat is a solid 18-19 pounder plus a certified conspiracy theorist. No way he's going in a pouch. But cookies might. LOLOL

    • @KrisE-ChronicIllnessandJoy
      @KrisE-ChronicIllnessandJoy Год назад

      Would be AMAZING for this Cookie Monster 👋🏾🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @nickorange4881
    @nickorange4881 Год назад +2

    potential. thats what i would get in the comments on my report card. not living up to my potential.

  • @SpectrumOfChange
    @SpectrumOfChange Год назад +1

    Potential 😳

  • @𦮙
    @𦮙 9 месяцев назад

    potential

  • @curiouslittlefrog
    @curiouslittlefrog Год назад +2

    I wish I could see my own potential as I am in this body, not the mystical potential I thought I had. Ugh. Internalized ableism.

  • @nickorange4881
    @nickorange4881 Год назад

    is tranformation supposed to future you or current you ?

    • @CassieWinter
      @CassieWinter  Год назад +1

      I'm not sure I understand the question. Can you rephrase it? (And please tag me so I get a notification of your response. @CassieWinter )

    • @nickorange4881
      @nickorange4881 Год назад

      @@CassieWinter hi. Lol.
      What i meant was, well I'll try I'm a bit sleepy right now, when you do heros story and story thing. For the first one you did I didn't understand what was supposed to go in the 4th box. Transformation. I hope i made some sense. I feel like I'm rambling.

  • @TessKanters
    @TessKanters Год назад +3

    Potential 🤢

  • @csaszarbogi4530
    @csaszarbogi4530 Год назад

    Potential :/

  • @user-ei8rb7sj6c
    @user-ei8rb7sj6c Год назад

    Potential