I got 43: I've battled with mental health and abuse for most of my life so learning how to control my emotions as well as understand others has proved vital in my healing and growth (and survival) process. It's a constant work in progress as managing difficult emotions can be challenging but we are all forever improving! Thank you for this video!
No matter what score you got, being able to self reflect on yourself honestly and answer accordingly to what you think is true is pretty mature of you. :)
As an introvert I tend to bottle my emotions up. But when stress enters the picture, I become an extrovert and get all emotional, sometimes in a positive way and sometimes negatively.
For me I just can't look at myself in a positive way.most of the time I just critique myself to the point I can't live up to my expectations which are impossible to achieve and I can't seem to change this view that I'm no good enough for myself so I don't deserve happiness. Even that I know that I deserve happiness but there it something inside of my that I can't shake of.
@@highlander2620 I’m pretty similar to that, expect I just literally can’t look at myself. It’s like whenever I do all o see is just my face and I hate it so very much so I just avoid looking at myself all together. Sometimes I feel like I have BBD but I can’t know so I don’t think that
Emotional maturity level:20 I tend to hide my feelings because I get hurt easily. So I come out cold and blank to people. I also never ask for help because I’m used to being alone. When they say ‘It’s a joke’ or ‘Come on just take a joke’ and they really do mean it I do it right back to them and walk away. If you have read this thank you for reading my story
I got around that score too. Growing up, my emotions weren't validated. Got bullied by most of my family. One of my oldest memories of that was my grandmother harassing me to the point of tears, then asking if I wanted a "crying towel." And when I tried to stand up for myself my uncle scolded me for not respecting her. Now that I'm an adult living on my own I have no connection to almost any of my family, and no friends besides one that lives out of state. I much prefer my own company.
Emotional maturity: 29 Well, I think I’m doing fine, but there’s definitely room for improvement. I’ll just make sure to take things in moderation as I go along. Great vid. As for my mental age, it’s probably the same age as myself now, 16, though I believe being mature in situations will help you to get through them better.
Oh wow, thanks for asking. Well, it’ll take time, however I definitely want to work out to ascertain how I feel in stressful situations better and open myself up more often to different points of view so that I can work on my emotional maturity. Thanks for all these videos you create, they really make understanding various psychological topics more accessible.
I got 41 and I'm incredibly proud of it!! I've been working on emotional maturity since a while now and I'm delighted to discern that it worked! I even told my mom about it and she was-to be frank-not even slightly surprised for she already knew I am "extraordinarily" emotionally mature, and, apparently, she said the younger her resonates with me. :D
I scored 35, not what I was expecting. I expected something extremely low, though I probably would have gotten much lower if I didn't have therapy to better identify my emotions than I used to. The most striking thing to me is that emotionally mature people are not forces of nature that are never fazed by tragedy, if anything, they feel it more, or to be more accurate, understand their emotions and their causes more clearly. An emotionally mature person goes through the motions of feeling loss, pain, and hurt, and then moves on.
Agreed, to make us matured emotionally is to experience something we don't want to. Even it make us sad, Weary, Frustrated, Depressed and anxiety. Even we don't want to get through of our suffering this is what it made us and mold us from the past.
EM: 34 I somewhat expected it to be on the higher end of the scale. Throughout high school I worked on being the best friend for my friends and associates while making sure that my boundaries were not crossed. I mostly take responsibility for my actions as well, after I turned 18 (I'm 20 now) I made sure to have owning and taking responsibility for my mistakes as part of my moral code for the rest of my life. On top of this, another thing to consider is that when looking at these score brackets, you can take the quiz again and again as you age to see if you are progressing... What I am trying to say is that life is a journey to nowhere really but it's always good to know if you are growing with time, on top of this you should pat yourself on the back if you do end up scoring higher the next time because some people can take literally their entire life to mature even just a little bit.
I've scored 30. I'm pretty much satisfied of the result, considering that my EM swung between hiding my emotions and being extremely "sensitive" and emotional. There's still a lot to work on, but I definitely need to thank someone very special who massively contributed to my healing/awakening process. You know who you are ❤
I scored 38, and this is very accurate! I understand and process my own emotions very well thanks to how much self-reflection I do, I acknowledge my mistakes and try to fix them, and I always try to see from other people's perspective! I lost points because I'm bad at handling stress and managing to stay oriented on my goals. Thank you for posting this quiz!
Scored 29! But, I can tell that I can understand people's point of view mostly, I can admit my mistakes, take accountability for them, and work on being better, always.
27 Well I’m 26 and working really hard because people are like an enigma to me, especially because of having had to bury my feelings for most of my life.
emotional maturity is 37 I feel that's mostly accurate. A lot of my faith in self is in upheaval at the moment due to the ongoing process of working through some severe mental/emotional trauma and while under ongoing stress (the kind that doesn't go away for weeks or even months) my empathy does shut down and I enter survival mode. But despite my own troubles I do what I can to look at other people's perspectives. There's just a group of people who's perspective I simply can't comprehend even though I've known them for 10+ years
About the perspective, it's legit the same as me. I tend to know what others might want but choose to ignore it as it might affect me negatively later.
36. Makes sense. I consider myself emotionally mature and self aware, but I have issues when it comes to evaluating myself sometimes. When accessing a situation, I put most of the blame on myself and almost never on the person of fault, usually accepting that it’s the other person’s fault after talking about it with someone.
Is it possible to even get less than 10 for this quiz? If the lowest rating is 1 ( which is e) and there are 10 questions, the minimum score is 10 isn't it?
2:08 Do you think from other's point of view? It is worthy to attempt but your mind is not their mind so you will never know if you are actually in someone else's point of view, or YOUR imagination of what someone else's point of view happens to be.
I got 24 :) Moderate actually sounds pretty accurate! I guess there are just some situations where I'm not sure what to do, but I'm all good with what I already know. I tend to not want to delve too much into things I'm not too experienced with, so there are situations I try to avoid completely instead of trying to work through things.
41. Really happy with it too. I do try and I'm a Psych student too. Just giving myself time and space to work through things in my head helps me understand myself, and situations around me ❤️
I got a 42, so I fit in the high emotional maturity level, which the way it describes, it mostly fits. I do always try to put myself in other people's shoes. Like I've been planning a date lately and every decision I think about in terms of what to do and where to go, I try to put myself in the guy's shoes and wonder how he'd feel about it. I also try to do so before doing anything, wondering how someone on the receiving end will feel. The one question about being aware of my own emotions, I had a quick flashback to elementary school. I was naïve about a lot of things, including my own emotions. I can laugh about it now, but it's still embarrassing to think about thinking back. 😂😅
I was just always aware what emotion was what. And I usually try to see things from others POV cause I want to at least try and get both sides before I initiate in conflict. Whenever I clearly understand others POV but still decide to conflict is when I disappoint myself cause it's just petty
@@ValiantStranger12 I'm glad you were but at a very young age, there were some that I just couldn't. The main example that comes to mind was when I was in fourth grade. I had a very close friend and when I saw him after the summer, he didn't change but something felt off with me whenever I saw him. I registered it as fear and spent an entire year running away from him. (To be fair, at that young of an age, that feeling is usually something to be scared of.) I was transferred to another school and didn't see him for some time but it wasn't until middle school and I had experienced a similar kind of feelings (though not as strongly) and realized that I had a crush on him. I remember figuring this out vividly as I had been going through my locker and accidentally hit my head while standing up the moment I figured it out. It was a shock to me because my entire life up until that point, I was cautious around boys except for him. I didn't see him as a boy. He wasn't one to me, just my friend. I don't even think he did anything. One day I just fell for him. Fast forward about 11-12 years after first feeling this way and I'm planning a date with him next month. What are the odds? I feel I'm more in tune with emotions and putting myself in other people's shoes due to my experiences. I can register certain feelings because I've felt them before. I know to put myself in other people's shoes because I've seen and been in situations where someone did something similar and it didn't go well or it did. I think it was also how I was raised. My mom and I both wear our hearts on our sleeves and knowing how we feel when others treat us a certain way, she and my dad taught me to always treat others the way I'd want to be treated and to put myself in other people's shoes. I've personally elaborated on their teachings for my own personal moral code, but their teachings alone without that have had a lot to do with my emotional maturity as much as my experiences have.
Emotional maturity: 43 I'm actually relieved to have gotten that score because my mom is emotionally immature... I think that's what really pushed me to be better. :)
I have a score of 44.Same for me, my mother is really immature and has narcissistic behavior, which basically forced me to have a high emotional intelligence.
I watched this video once where they said emotional maturity was down to three things: the capacity to communicate, stay calm, and be vulnerable. I do feel like I’m not the most emotionally mature person at times because I hate admitting to others that I need them, that they have an effect on me. I hope I can improve myself, although I find it difficult to trust sometimes.
Emotional Maturity: 30-31 I’m definitely in between these two categories. I like to think of it as a mixture of both. I do sometimes have trouble connecting to other people and looking through their eyes so I guess I’m a mix between the two
35. A lot higher than I expected honestly. A life of ADHD had me hearing "social skills" and thinking "emotional maturity is tied to social skills? Well, that's me failing then" Surprising success is the best success!
I scored 32 points which that means I am mature but I am often bored and aloof that's why i ignore my emotions and think about something that could motivate me oh it's nothing just being an open person because maturity is a part of my growing up.
I got 41 points. I'm an INTP-A, and I am very happy because I have been trying to become more emotionally mature. This test is almost accurate. I think I may be emotionally mature, but probably not as much as the test says (I treat others well and try to understand my emotions, but have a hard time coming through with promises... which is not being emotionally mature).
I got 43! :) and I'm really feel happy about it bcs I wasn't so good at managing my emotions before, I can say for a fact that if I took this test just a year ago, I probably would've gotten 11-20 or something. I didn't have the best childhood or the best fostering environment for growth of my self esteem and social skills, I want to share how I overcame it even if it can help just 1 person, I would always find myself toxic, acting on impulses, being insensitive to other bcs I was just mad at the world for few personal reasons, I would always engage in needless arguments and loved to make others look wrong, but then I couldn't live with myself bcs I wasn't like this as a kid, my life had gotten harder after my high school and a lot of horrible stuff that happened including losing some loved ones, and tbh I was never too rational, just happy as a kid so I wasn't toxic. The guilt of feeling like a villain made me self reflect, I spent a lot of time with just myself, lets safely assume that past 1.5-2 years while preparing to get into Uni, I started to notice patterns on how I react on certain scenarios and I gained experience, I would make up scenes in my mind and asked myself, "how would I react?" and I started replacing every negative emotional outburst with a rational reaction that would be to try to look into wider perspective than my own. I taught myself to grow more tolerant and I spent a lot of time trying to put myself in others' shoes, I mostly lived by myself bcs I wanted to give myself some time and when I did talk to ppl, I tried to stay as rational as I could. It feels like its impossible to be better at regulating your emotions but I can tell that its more like training a muscle by resisting to react emotionally, 1 thing I did that was a big mistake was I tried to cast aside my emotions and that took a toll on me, so my advice is don't try to be unemotional, emotions is what makes you human, rather try to own them and not be emotional in social settings. Think with mind, not your heart because when heart is broken, brain gives the best advices. AND give yourself the time you need, no matter how long, its been a long journey for me and I'm not gonna stop here, it takes time! Be patient, it gets better :) and try to stay as optimistic as you can, if you catch yourself too pessimist then practise blind optimism, despite its demerits for a few months and then bring balance to it! And it does get better, we atch an entire anime or web series even if its slow or boring at the beginning just bcs someone tells us that it gets better, how about we apply that to our lives? It does get better, just never stop to try to improve yourself!
I find it really hard to hide my emotions so maybe that's one of the reasons why I'm not super emotionally mature haha! I can always work on it :) thank you so much for the video! I love this channel so much
some of these questions don't really deal with emotional maturity and just deal with whether or not you are depressed/traumatized. I have a low self worth, but I process emotions more maturely than just about everyone I know, and always have. Some questions are questionable when it comes to maturity. For instance, trying to find the cause of the emotional discomfort isn't always a pragmatic or beneficial option to pursue in the moment. Sometimes its a matter of powering through the situation and assessing things afterward. I did eight years in the army. There was very often no time to get to a root cause of your emotional problem, or, more often than not, the root cause was the job itself.
I got 34: I often struggle to understand my emotions since they often change so quickly but I always validate them and make an effort to understand them. I also often think from other people’s perspectives to the point where it may confuse my own. I can definitely feel a lot of empathy since I’ve been through lots of rough stuff but have mostly come out on top.
I have an emotional maturity of 40. Given that I have an incredibly high emotional intelligence, but I’ve gone through a panic attack and have been to the mental hospital four times, I have developed emotional maturity over a long period of very difficult times.
Ohhhhhhh, i've been to hospital because of panic attack twice before and it was a normal hospital. The doctor recommend to me to see a Therapist. and I don't know that time was a panic attack. And my parents didn't know that either.
Emotionally mature : 48 I'm actually a minor so I was a little bit of shock about it since I also knows that I'm emotionally mature but not that high, ever since when I'm younger I quite think in a mature way and that makes me kind of weird sometimes as it put me off guard occasionally, especially when I think about things happening to me such as me knowing and understanding the other people's perspective and situation every single time.. I also think about my strengths of how I "sharpen" it and while I'm at it I also happen to know more about my weaknesses..
Minor to Emotional Maturity: 42 My family always said I was a 30 yr old and sometimes it baffles me to see that what I consider to be common thought process to be unheard of in others minds🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@ValiantStranger12 true my family and friends says the same thing, my friends usually tell me that I'm rather mature for my age which shocked me a little bit since I get that a lot when people describes me, through I also know as well that I am emotionally mature as they describe me and how I process my thoughts and emotions.. I feel weird and out of place ever since I was younger it just that I don't fit in with those kids around my age that's why I feel out of place, I keep wondering about it but I can't seem to find the answer however I do think that maybe today is not the day where I will find the answer maybe sooner or later I will discover the answer🤔
I scored 41 and I'm in high school. This is definitely relatable, except most people I know are skeptical about whether my maturity is higher than others. Some though, mostly younger adults in their 20s and 30s, do seem to understand at least a lot more than others. Older adults dismiss it pretty quickly and don't seem to give it much thought, and I'm waiting for my peers to catch up. Feels like I've already grown up and they haven't yet, it is lonely at the top
@@showthebeebub 41 points too. It is lonely, but you'll find more people like you, hell sometimes it's impressive how they're hiding in plain sight yet we don't notice. Most of my friends are either adults/older people or extremely exceptional peers around me XD...
I took the test two times. The first time I realized I felt bad about something I did in the past and that low mood caused me to answer the questions differently, which gave me the result of 29 points. After my realization I took the test again, reflected on other parts of my past while doing so and I scored 37 points. I have a lot of work to do. In the past I was emotionally immature and over and underreactive. I still have some of that tendency left. I hurt people I loved and I'm still in the process of recovering what happened between us and forgive myself how I reacted to them. Traumabonding created and deepened already excisting wounds from our past. I'm glad I found out before I turned 30.
I got 44 score. I am still thankful that I am emotionally matured. It's good to know what I am and try to be a better person. Thanks for this test atleast I know again now, I can actually be mature around people and for myself.
Hi ! I'm from Russia I started watching these educational videos half a year ago, and I appreciate the work that you have invested. But I started watching the Russian-language version of the channel. Everyone is aware of what is happening between Ukraine and Russia (I am against any aggression from Russia).It 's scary , but even scarier is that a lot of people are flying accusations in our direction ( Although we didn 't know about anything and it didn 't depend on us ) A couple of weeks ago, the owner of the Russian - language channel changed the preview to a video in which it was written that " While you are watching the video on this channel, Ukrainian civilians are dying from the bombing of the Russian Federation . " Recently, all the videos were deleted, and two videos appeared in their place, in which ALL RUSSIANS were accused of the war. This channel is in your OUR FRIENDZ (it will be knocked out of the list) My question is: how do you feel about this situation? I 'm just curious ( I apologize for such a large text , but I had to clarify everything for you )
Hi! I’m from America (California, specifically) and I would just like to start this off by saying, I am so sorry for all accusations that ALL Russians want to invade Ukraine, ALL Russians think like Putin, and ALL Russians are not sorry for Putins actions. I know that there are plenty of Russians who think differently than Putin, and want to help Ukraine. Just wanted to say that :) Now, to answer your question. I feel that what happened with the preview is unacceptable. It’s almost like people are *shaming* Russians for what their government did, not what *they* did. Do you know who the owner of the Russian-Language channel is? I hope it isn’t the same owner as the English Channel.
I scored 44, I am a pretty complicated person & it was never easy to understand my mind. Still today I know myself, understand who I am but its has cost me a lot. I have broken myself in pieces to accept myself truly. When life gave tough times and had no one beside me to support , love or even appreciate my existence, every human brain would have done the same. So to be emotionally mature and understand yourself truly we have to go through lot of pain and emotional exhaustion , which nobody deserves. I just hope everybody to be happy to their core ❤️
Emotional maturity: 37 When I was first time experience stress and alone, I can see my self be trapped in an eternity darkness, I cant see anything else beside me. Im lonely, Im have been left behind, I lost my mind and cry a lot, no one could help me in that time cuz they said they were to busy, after 3 years of suffering. My heart turn cold and hardening it self to I cant have pain anymore, but in exchange I lost my energy to keep studying and working, sometime I smile to not let my tears come out, and then I realize........... I cant cry anymore, not a single tears could drop, I am soulless, I am motionless, I am a zombie just go and see the world spinning with no emotion to continue
I got a 42. This helped me realized a lot more about emotionally maturity, it's not just treating others with respect but doing so accordingly to yourself its actually why my score got so bumped down because i'm so used to bullying and putting down myself. So Remember guys, you matter as well. Please take care of yourself and know your strengths. As humans we tend to acknowledge more of the bad because its things we tend to focus on more because we need to improve. Trust me, treating yourself better can help you treat others better. And treating yourself doesn't mean you have to do positive affirmations or anything like that Here's what I do. Treat yourself to things you enjoy like I listen to music. remind yourself of the progress you've done and how far you've come. And last but not least remind yourself of how loved you are. Take care all of you
I have a moderate level, but I certainly need to work more on it. One of my main weaknesses is my problem controlling my anger. I need to practice more emotional awareness, and be more empathetic toward others instead of being angry.
I got 48 (I am 14 yo) Struggled with extreme body shaming, heightism, bullying and lack of social skills in a very young age (7-9) very proud of myself for improving this much honestly was expecting a little low
Emotional Maturity Level: 30 Depending on the situations I face in life, there are some things that I see myself as a work-in-progress. I’m still learning how to emotionally grow. But I do acknowledge my imperfections. I don’t want to brag but it does take practice to hold myself accountable for mistakes I’ve done. Thank you Psych2Go for posting this quiz.
Emotional maturity: 22 I expected it to be way lower, I have a lot of problems. Anytime I go out somewhere I worry something will happen to me, my family, or anything in general. I worry that whenever I’m alone in a car waiting for my friend to come back, he’ll ditch me. I struggle to forgive people and I don’t show compassion or empathy for people when they are having a hard time, most of the time in public I always act happy and like I’m always having a good time and I’m just the funny guy everybody knows and loves. But when I’m in private that’s when everything kicks in. I can’t tolerate being alone, I have anger issues but I always want things to work out. I know right and wrong and sometimes I try to do the right thing, I think of doing it, I say I’ll do it, then my anger issues kick in and I make the wrong choice. I always worry I’ll do something bad or I’ll fail and get held back. What if I hurt my little brother? I worry that he won’t be fine, I seriously injured him, I’ll get in trouble, I won’t be able to live with this anymore, but I keep it all under lock and key away from anyone else. The main thing that keeps me happy is a stuffed animal. It helps me in a way that I can’t describe.
Emotional maturity: 27 I hope that's a good score... I think its mostly correct, but I do think I'm more empathetic then it says -sometimes to empathetic for my own good- Also, The first question's animation killed me -maybe that's why it was on my recommended ;-; -
22 points, not the best but im planning to improve, i figure that i can do it but i always look at the negative side, but now i want to try to actually do something and think positively!
I scored 42: I had an extremely painful relationship failure last year...took me a long time and a lot self reflection to get through it... im in a much better place now.... if i had taken this test before that horrible situation, i wouldnt have scored this much! So im thankful that i had to go thought that and proud of myself that i grew through that..
I'm a bit stuck on number 1: worthy person. I chose C, uncertain, primarily because my experience with my father growing up was that he would tell me at an early age that I was worthless. So for decades now, even if I was to believe I was worthy, and I do believe that more now, I still believe that no one really finds me worthy because of the things my father would say to me as a child. I believe it's etched into my subconscious and that's just a part of who I am.
I got 37. I scored low in the areas about emotional volatility but I also scored high in the areas about empathy. It makes sense because I'm an empath and super sensitive.
36-38 depending on the day. But i can be happy with that. Im not perfect, im patient but no doormat. As long as those moments of weakness are addressed and help me grow, I can't ask for more. Ty psych2go, makes me feel like I understand myself a bit better. ^^
@@Psych2go Obviously stress about my imperfections all the more until I decide to sleep away my issues. Lol Probably just attempt to be more level headed when under high stress. I put some of my best work out when my back is to the wall, but it does exhaust me emotionally. Probably best to work on my time management of tasks to not put myself in as many of these situations as I get older. :)
i got 17 i have been broken beyond repair by this point but i can still figure through my emotions by treating them as memories from how i used to view them
Scoring 33 points on the emotional maturity scale tells me that I have more to improve upon when interacting with people of all categories/spectrums of life. I gotta be more empathetic when working with the clients as a Social Worker. Are there any tips, ideas, or methods that can help increase my EQ? 😅😁
I AM SHOCKED THAT I GOT 40. My ex and my ex best friend called me immature because of how I reacted for triggering me. I was right. I'm not emotionally immature. They were. What a relief!
37: I think my biggest strength is being in someone else's shoes, I remind people I'm driving with that not everyone intends to get in others' way, and that they may be stressed or tired, like a lot of us are, or are being distracted by children in their car, or any number of situations, and that we should always be calm and try to understand that any reason that we're unhappy and distracted is just at valid as our fellow drivers' is.
got 42, it seems understandable enough i already suffered and had alot of new experiences this year, i basically changed ALOT in the span of 1 month and so to say that i like who i am now, i think i still need to somehow get better as a person though
I got 25. I think for the most part I worry more about other ppl than myself and I'm I don't see highly of me. But I think I'm pretty good at understanding other ppls emotions. :)
Emotional Maturity: 42 Well yeah, I guess I know what my emotions are cause at times they're volatile. And volatile emotions in a body capable of really hurting others makes me conscious of my emotions and if I act on them or not
Thanks for the quiz! Love the ending "most importantly be self aware and strive for improvement". One question, for Q2 how would being always bothered when people say bad things about you show higher emotional maturity?
Maybe the wording can be different, but I think it's more like being able to defend yourself and stand up for yourself that shows high emotional maturity :)
I got 37. I know I can keep a cool head, understand things from another person’s POV and always want to rectify my mistakes when I make them. However. There is still much room to improve as I know I’m not always perfect in the way I handle things.
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What did you score below? Don't be embarassed? :)
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33 points 😍😍😍😍😍
Me tooo @@anon6187
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I got 43: I've battled with mental health and abuse for most of my life so learning how to control my emotions as well as understand others has proved vital in my healing and growth (and survival) process. It's a constant work in progress as managing difficult emotions can be challenging but we are all forever improving! Thank you for this video!
@@Dr_stevia I think you should take a second look at your calculations...
That's great! We are cheering you on!
Thank you for sharing your reflection!
Same!
As having a friend who says I'm not, mature I didn't like that! I literally scored 45 points!
No matter what score you got, being able to self reflect on yourself honestly and answer accordingly to what you think is true is pretty mature of you. :)
Yes!
@@Psych2go WOAHHH PSYCH2GO RESPONDED TO ME, I WILL NEVER FORGET THIS DAY. I WILL CHERISH IT FORVER, GOTTA GO MARK IT ON MY CALENDAR 📆
@@handsdown8390Lol id do the same
As an introvert I tend to bottle my emotions up. But when stress enters the picture, I become an extrovert and get all emotional, sometimes in a positive way and sometimes negatively.
Same. Whenever I’m stressed I bottle it up until I cry it out in a bathroom or my room
yeah on #3 i answered E
For me I just can't look at myself in a positive way.most of the time I just critique myself to the point I can't live up to my expectations which are impossible to achieve and I can't seem to change this view that I'm no good enough for myself so I don't deserve happiness. Even that I know that I deserve happiness but there it something inside of my that I can't shake of.
@@highlander2620 I’m pretty similar to that, expect I just literally can’t look at myself. It’s like whenever I do all o see is just my face and I hate it so very much so I just avoid looking at myself all together. Sometimes I feel like I have BBD but I can’t know so I don’t think that
@@Br00ke291 I think you're talking about that in a literal sense. Why do you not like to look at yourself? Why makes it unlikeable?
Emotional maturity level:20
I tend to hide my feelings because I get hurt easily. So I come out cold and blank to people. I also never ask for help because I’m used to being alone. When they say ‘It’s a joke’ or ‘Come on just take a joke’ and they really do mean it I do it right back to them and walk away.
If you have read this thank you for reading my story
I got around that score too. Growing up, my emotions weren't validated. Got bullied by most of my family. One of my oldest memories of that was my grandmother harassing me to the point of tears, then asking if I wanted a "crying towel." And when I tried to stand up for myself my uncle scolded me for not respecting her.
Now that I'm an adult living on my own I have no connection to almost any of my family, and no friends besides one that lives out of state. I much prefer my own company.
Emotional maturity: 29
Well, I think I’m doing fine, but there’s definitely room for improvement. I’ll just make sure to take things in moderation as I go along. Great vid. As for my mental age, it’s probably the same age as myself now, 16, though I believe being mature in situations will help you to get through them better.
I got a total of 28, and even I feel like I can improve
Thank you for sharing and hope this video helped you! What do you plan to do next to improve?
Oh wow, thanks for asking. Well, it’ll take time, however I definitely want to work out to ascertain how I feel in stressful situations better and open myself up more often to
different points of view so that I can work on my emotional maturity.
Thanks for all these videos you create, they really make understanding various psychological topics more accessible.
i got a 28
I got a score of 29.
I got 41 and I'm incredibly proud of it!! I've been working on emotional maturity since a while now and I'm delighted to discern that it worked! I even told my mom about it and she was-to be frank-not even slightly surprised for she already knew I am "extraordinarily" emotionally mature, and, apparently, she said the younger her resonates with me. :D
Yay!
I scored 35, not what I was expecting. I expected something extremely low, though I probably would have gotten much lower if I didn't have therapy to better identify my emotions than I used to. The most striking thing to me is that emotionally mature people are not forces of nature that are never fazed by tragedy, if anything, they feel it more, or to be more accurate, understand their emotions and their causes more clearly. An emotionally mature person goes through the motions of feeling loss, pain, and hurt, and then moves on.
Agreed, to make us matured emotionally is to experience something we don't want to. Even it make us sad, Weary, Frustrated, Depressed and anxiety. Even we don't want to get through of our suffering this is what it made us and mold us from the past.
Very true. And it helps us learn about ourselves through trial and error.
Interesting! Do you know why this result may have occurred?
@@Psych2go He may be more intelligent than everyone else, like described in one of your videos.
EM: 34
I somewhat expected it to be on the higher end of the scale. Throughout high school I worked on being the best friend for my friends and associates while making sure that my boundaries were not crossed. I mostly take responsibility for my actions as well, after I turned 18 (I'm 20 now) I made sure to have owning and taking responsibility for my mistakes as part of my moral code for the rest of my life. On top of this, another thing to consider is that when looking at these score brackets, you can take the quiz again and again as you age to see if you are progressing... What I am trying to say is that life is a journey to nowhere really but it's always good to know if you are growing with time, on top of this you should pat yourself on the back if you do end up scoring higher the next time because some people can take literally their entire life to mature even just a little bit.
I like your reflection about howl life is a journey, because it truly is one!
same here
Exactly the same analysis and score for me but im 17
I've scored 30.
I'm pretty much satisfied of the result, considering that my EM swung between hiding my emotions and being extremely "sensitive" and emotional.
There's still a lot to work on, but I definitely need to thank someone very special who massively contributed to my healing/awakening process.
You know who you are ❤
I scored 38, and this is very accurate! I understand and process my own emotions very well thanks to how much self-reflection I do, I acknowledge my mistakes and try to fix them, and I always try to see from other people's perspective! I lost points because I'm bad at handling stress and managing to stay oriented on my goals. Thank you for posting this quiz!
Yay! Glad you enjoyed!
Scored 29!
But, I can tell that I can understand people's point of view mostly, I can admit my mistakes, take accountability for them, and work on being better, always.
27
Well I’m 26 and working really hard because people are like an enigma to me, especially because of having had to bury my feelings for most of my life.
emotional maturity is 37
I feel that's mostly accurate. A lot of my faith in self is in upheaval at the moment due to the ongoing process of working through some severe mental/emotional trauma and while under ongoing stress (the kind that doesn't go away for weeks or even months) my empathy does shut down and I enter survival mode.
But despite my own troubles I do what I can to look at other people's perspectives. There's just a group of people who's perspective I simply can't comprehend even though I've known them for 10+ years
About the perspective, it's legit the same as me. I tend to know what others might want but choose to ignore it as it might affect me negatively later.
Thank you for sharing!
36. Makes sense.
I consider myself emotionally mature and self aware, but I have issues when it comes to evaluating myself sometimes. When accessing a situation, I put most of the blame on myself and almost never on the person of fault, usually accepting that it’s the other person’s fault after talking about it with someone.
Is it possible to even get less than 10 for this quiz? If the lowest rating is 1 ( which is e) and there are 10 questions, the minimum score is 10 isn't it?
Yep pretty mucj
UNLESS you managed to score abysmally low AND you suck at math, too... maybe... allegedly(???) ;o)
Emotions getting in the way of math I guess?..
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 or someone was so overwhlemed with their emotions towards a question that they didnt want to answer it, giving them a zero.
@@JessRg9 Their emotions transcends mathematics.
2:08 Do you think from other's point of view? It is worthy to attempt but your mind is not their mind so you will never know if you are actually in someone else's point of view, or YOUR imagination of what someone else's point of view happens to be.
I got 24 :) Moderate actually sounds pretty accurate! I guess there are just some situations where I'm not sure what to do, but I'm all good with what I already know. I tend to not want to delve too much into things I'm not too experienced with, so there are situations I try to avoid completely instead of trying to work through things.
Cool! Thanks for sharing :)
41. Really happy with it too. I do try and I'm a Psych student too. Just giving myself time and space to work through things in my head helps me understand myself, and situations around me ❤️
I got a 42, so I fit in the high emotional maturity level, which the way it describes, it mostly fits. I do always try to put myself in other people's shoes. Like I've been planning a date lately and every decision I think about in terms of what to do and where to go, I try to put myself in the guy's shoes and wonder how he'd feel about it. I also try to do so before doing anything, wondering how someone on the receiving end will feel.
The one question about being aware of my own emotions, I had a quick flashback to elementary school. I was naïve about a lot of things, including my own emotions. I can laugh about it now, but it's still embarrassing to think about thinking back. 😂😅
I was just always aware what emotion was what. And I usually try to see things from others POV cause I want to at least try and get both sides before I initiate in conflict. Whenever I clearly understand others POV but still decide to conflict is when I disappoint myself cause it's just petty
@@ValiantStranger12 I'm glad you were but at a very young age, there were some that I just couldn't. The main example that comes to mind was when I was in fourth grade. I had a very close friend and when I saw him after the summer, he didn't change but something felt off with me whenever I saw him. I registered it as fear and spent an entire year running away from him. (To be fair, at that young of an age, that feeling is usually something to be scared of.) I was transferred to another school and didn't see him for some time but it wasn't until middle school and I had experienced a similar kind of feelings (though not as strongly) and realized that I had a crush on him. I remember figuring this out vividly as I had been going through my locker and accidentally hit my head while standing up the moment I figured it out. It was a shock to me because my entire life up until that point, I was cautious around boys except for him. I didn't see him as a boy. He wasn't one to me, just my friend. I don't even think he did anything. One day I just fell for him. Fast forward about 11-12 years after first feeling this way and I'm planning a date with him next month. What are the odds?
I feel I'm more in tune with emotions and putting myself in other people's shoes due to my experiences. I can register certain feelings because I've felt them before. I know to put myself in other people's shoes because I've seen and been in situations where someone did something similar and it didn't go well or it did. I think it was also how I was raised. My mom and I both wear our hearts on our sleeves and knowing how we feel when others treat us a certain way, she and my dad taught me to always treat others the way I'd want to be treated and to put myself in other people's shoes. I've personally elaborated on their teachings for my own personal moral code, but their teachings alone without that have had a lot to do with my emotional maturity as much as my experiences have.
Interesting!
Yo I got high emotional maturity! I thought I was gonna get average maturity at best, but it's nice to know my efforts are bearing fruit! 😊
I got 43! Thank you for influencing me to do more thinking about myself, it's always good to take some time to think about your inner-self. ❤
Emotional maturity: 43
I'm actually relieved to have gotten that score because my mom is emotionally immature... I think that's what really pushed me to be better. :)
I have a score of 44.Same for me, my mother is really immature and has narcissistic behavior, which basically forced me to have a high emotional intelligence.
@@womansimp5680 WHAT actually same
Holy crap, I’m in the same situation too! I got 46 points and I hate how my mother is sometimes… at least that made us to become better people
Parents may not always be accurate :)!
I got 29, but feel I relate better to a ten 😂.
I also feel like “I don’t know/uncertain” should be a 1
41. I grew up in a household where I was shamed for my emotions or told I was overreacting, and over time I just learned to deal with them myself.
Haven’t done this yet but I feel like I have room to improve
I watched this video once where they said emotional maturity was down to three things: the capacity to communicate, stay calm, and be vulnerable. I do feel like I’m not the most emotionally mature person at times because I hate admitting to others that I need them, that they have an effect on me. I hope I can improve myself, although I find it difficult to trust sometimes.
Emotional Maturity: 30-31
I’m definitely in between these two categories. I like to think of it as a mixture of both. I do sometimes have trouble connecting to other people and looking through their eyes so I guess I’m a mix between the two
You're growing my friend :3
35. A lot higher than I expected honestly. A life of ADHD had me hearing "social skills" and thinking "emotional maturity is tied to social skills? Well, that's me failing then"
Surprising success is the best success!
I got a 35.
I'm honestly quite surprised! I'm 13 right now- looks like tough times really help you out. "Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger"
Interesting!
I scored 32 points which that means I am mature but I am often bored and aloof that's why i ignore my emotions and think about something that could motivate me oh it's nothing just being an open person because maturity is a part of my growing up.
I got 41 points. I'm an INTP-A, and I am very happy because I have been trying to become more emotionally mature. This test is almost accurate. I think I may be emotionally mature, but probably not as much as the test says (I treat others well and try to understand my emotions, but have a hard time coming through with promises... which is not being emotionally mature).
I got 43! :) and I'm really feel happy about it bcs I wasn't so good at managing my emotions before, I can say for a fact that if I took this test just a year ago, I probably would've gotten 11-20 or something. I didn't have the best childhood or the best fostering environment for growth of my self esteem and social skills, I want to share how I overcame it even if it can help just 1 person, I would always find myself toxic, acting on impulses, being insensitive to other bcs I was just mad at the world for few personal reasons, I would always engage in needless arguments and loved to make others look wrong, but then I couldn't live with myself bcs I wasn't like this as a kid, my life had gotten harder after my high school and a lot of horrible stuff that happened including losing some loved ones, and tbh I was never too rational, just happy as a kid so I wasn't toxic. The guilt of feeling like a villain made me self reflect, I spent a lot of time with just myself, lets safely assume that past 1.5-2 years while preparing to get into Uni, I started to notice patterns on how I react on certain scenarios and I gained experience, I would make up scenes in my mind and asked myself, "how would I react?" and I started replacing every negative emotional outburst with a rational reaction that would be to try to look into wider perspective than my own. I taught myself to grow more tolerant and I spent a lot of time trying to put myself in others' shoes, I mostly lived by myself bcs I wanted to give myself some time and when I did talk to ppl, I tried to stay as rational as I could. It feels like its impossible to be better at regulating your emotions but I can tell that its more like training a muscle by resisting to react emotionally, 1 thing I did that was a big mistake was I tried to cast aside my emotions and that took a toll on me, so my advice is don't try to be unemotional, emotions is what makes you human, rather try to own them and not be emotional in social settings. Think with mind, not your heart because when heart is broken, brain gives the best advices. AND give yourself the time you need, no matter how long, its been a long journey for me and I'm not gonna stop here, it takes time! Be patient, it gets better :) and try to stay as optimistic as you can, if you catch yourself too pessimist then practise blind optimism, despite its demerits for a few months and then bring balance to it! And it does get better, we atch an entire anime or web series even if its slow or boring at the beginning just bcs someone tells us that it gets better, how about we apply that to our lives? It does get better, just never stop to try to improve yourself!
I find it really hard to hide my emotions so maybe that's one of the reasons why I'm not super emotionally mature haha! I can always work on it :) thank you so much for the video! I love this channel so much
some of these questions don't really deal with emotional maturity and just deal with whether or not you are depressed/traumatized. I have a low self worth, but I process emotions more maturely than just about everyone I know, and always have. Some questions are questionable when it comes to maturity. For instance, trying to find the cause of the emotional discomfort isn't always a pragmatic or beneficial option to pursue in the moment. Sometimes its a matter of powering through the situation and assessing things afterward. I did eight years in the army. There was very often no time to get to a root cause of your emotional problem, or, more often than not, the root cause was the job itself.
Thank you! This was very productive. I got 41!
We r special. Less than 2000 people have seen this 😊
@@immortalbeast lol
@@immortalbeast lol it’s kinda cool that nobody found this vid yet
Lovely, I got 40!
Same, I’m 27, so I’d hope I’d have extremely high emotional intelligence 😂
I got 34: I often struggle to understand my emotions since they often change so quickly but I always validate them and make an effort to understand them. I also often think from other people’s perspectives to the point where it may confuse my own. I can definitely feel a lot of empathy since I’ve been through lots of rough stuff but have mostly come out on top.
I have an emotional maturity of 40. Given that I have an incredibly high emotional intelligence, but I’ve gone through a panic attack and have been to the mental hospital four times, I have developed emotional maturity over a long period of very difficult times.
Ohhhhhhh, i've been to hospital because of panic attack twice before and it was a normal hospital. The doctor recommend to me to see a Therapist. and I don't know that time was a panic attack. And my parents didn't know that either.
@@anon6187 yeah that sounds scary. I’m glad you’re okay now!
44.
17 years old.
Quote from me.
"Maturity is when you can control your maturity."
Emotionally mature : 48
I'm actually a minor so I was a little bit of shock about it since I also knows that I'm emotionally mature but not that high, ever since when I'm younger I quite think in a mature way and that makes me kind of weird sometimes as it put me off guard occasionally, especially when I think about things happening to me such as me knowing and understanding the other people's perspective and situation every single time.. I also think about my strengths of how I "sharpen" it and while I'm at it I also happen to know more about my weaknesses..
Minor to
Emotional Maturity: 42
My family always said I was a 30 yr old and sometimes it baffles me to see that what I consider to be common thought process to be unheard of in others minds🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@ValiantStranger12 true my family and friends says the same thing, my friends usually tell me that I'm rather mature for my age which shocked me a little bit since I get that a lot when people describes me, through I also know as well that I am emotionally mature as they describe me and how I process my thoughts and emotions.. I feel weird and out of place ever since I was younger it just that I don't fit in with those kids around my age that's why I feel out of place, I keep wondering about it but I can't seem to find the answer however I do think that maybe today is not the day where I will find the answer maybe sooner or later I will discover the answer🤔
I scored 41 and I'm in high school. This is definitely relatable, except most people I know are skeptical about whether my maturity is higher than others. Some though, mostly younger adults in their 20s and 30s, do seem to understand at least a lot more than others. Older adults dismiss it pretty quickly and don't seem to give it much thought, and I'm waiting for my peers to catch up. Feels like I've already grown up and they haven't yet, it is lonely at the top
@@showthebeebub 41 points too. It is lonely, but you'll find more people like you, hell sometimes it's impressive how they're hiding in plain sight yet we don't notice. Most of my friends are either adults/older people or extremely exceptional peers around me XD...
So interesting!
I took the test two times. The first time I realized I felt bad about something I did in the past and that low mood caused me to answer the questions differently, which gave me the result of 29 points. After my realization I took the test again, reflected on other parts of my past while doing so and I scored 37 points.
I have a lot of work to do. In the past I was emotionally immature and over and underreactive. I still have some of that tendency left. I hurt people I loved and I'm still in the process of recovering what happened between us and forgive myself how I reacted to them. Traumabonding created and deepened already excisting wounds from our past. I'm glad I found out before I turned 30.
mental age - 40-55
Emotional maturity - 41
I'm 19 yrs old btw....
Same here but I'm 16 lol
@@gmd2419 Same shit, and i'm just going into a relationship and with a person who has passed for some rough things, hope I can be good and helpful
Same here am 19
55? Also, same. I'm 17.
I got 44 score. I am still thankful that I am emotionally matured. It's good to know what I am and try to be a better person. Thanks for this test atleast I know again now, I can actually be mature around people and for myself.
Hi ! I'm from Russia
I started watching these educational videos half a year ago, and I appreciate the work that you have invested. But I started watching the Russian-language version of the channel. Everyone is aware of what is happening between Ukraine and Russia (I am against any aggression from Russia).It 's scary , but even scarier is that a lot of people are flying accusations in our direction ( Although we didn 't know about anything and it didn 't depend on us ) A couple of weeks ago, the owner of the Russian - language channel changed the preview to a video in which it was written that " While you are watching the video on this channel, Ukrainian civilians are dying from the bombing of the Russian Federation . "
Recently, all the videos were deleted, and two videos appeared in their place, in which ALL RUSSIANS were accused of the war.
This channel is in your OUR FRIENDZ (it will be knocked out of the list)
My question is: how do you feel about this situation? I 'm just curious
( I apologize for such a large text , but I had to clarify everything for you )
I think most American's don't blame Russian people for what Putin is doing.
Hi! I’m from America (California, specifically) and I would just like to start this off by saying, I am so sorry for all accusations that ALL Russians want to invade Ukraine, ALL Russians think like Putin, and ALL Russians are not sorry for Putins actions. I know that there are plenty of Russians who think differently than Putin, and want to help Ukraine. Just wanted to say that :)
Now, to answer your question. I feel that what happened with the preview is unacceptable. It’s almost like people are *shaming* Russians for what their government did, not what *they* did. Do you know who the owner of the Russian-Language channel is? I hope it isn’t the same owner as the English Channel.
i think russians shouldn’t take the blame for *one* persons decision
@@tkmmnico4582 I agreee
@@annnunley9777 True, but the person didn’t say that Americans were blaming them.
I scored 44, I am a pretty complicated person & it was never easy to understand my mind. Still today I know myself, understand who I am but its has cost me a lot. I have broken myself in pieces to accept myself truly. When life gave tough times and had no one beside me to support , love or even appreciate my existence, every human brain would have done the same. So to be emotionally mature and understand yourself truly we have to go through lot of pain and emotional exhaustion , which nobody deserves. I just hope everybody to be happy to their core ❤️
When I stop caring I have little to no emotional maturity but when I actually stop and think I can get ahold of myself
I received 34 points, although I had anticipated a fairly lower score.
Emotional maturity: 37
When I was first time experience stress and alone, I can see my self be trapped in an eternity darkness, I cant see anything else beside me. Im lonely, Im have been left behind, I lost my mind and cry a lot, no one could help me in that time cuz they said they were to busy, after 3 years of suffering. My heart turn cold and hardening it self to I cant have pain anymore, but in exchange I lost my energy to keep studying and working, sometime I smile to not let my tears come out, and then I realize........... I cant cry anymore, not a single tears could drop, I am soulless, I am motionless, I am a zombie just go and see the world spinning with no emotion to continue
Thank you for sharing your results and your thoughts on this. What do you plan to do next after this realization?
@@Psych2go Well I guess, Im just keep moving till my dream done
I got a 42. This helped me realized a lot more about emotionally maturity, it's not just treating others with respect but doing so accordingly to yourself its actually why my score got so bumped down because i'm so used to bullying and putting down myself. So Remember guys, you matter as well. Please take care of yourself and know your strengths. As humans we tend to acknowledge more of the bad because its things we tend to focus on more because we need to improve. Trust me, treating yourself better can help you treat others better. And treating yourself doesn't mean you have to do positive affirmations or anything like that Here's what I do. Treat yourself to things you enjoy like I listen to music. remind yourself of the progress you've done and how far you've come. And last but not least remind yourself of how loved you are. Take care all of you
I have a moderate level, but I certainly need to work more on it. One of my main weaknesses is my problem controlling my anger. I need to practice more emotional awareness, and be more empathetic toward others instead of being angry.
I got 48 (I am 14 yo)
Struggled with extreme body shaming, heightism, bullying and lack of social skills in a very young age (7-9) very proud of myself for improving this much honestly was expecting a little low
Yay! Congrats
I got 43, and my life is fully calm and responsible. I think this quiz is fun 🙂👍
Emotional Maturity Level: 30
Depending on the situations I face in life, there are some things that I see myself as a work-in-progress. I’m still learning how to emotionally grow. But I do acknowledge my imperfections. I don’t want to brag but it does take practice to hold myself accountable for mistakes I’ve done. Thank you Psych2Go for posting this quiz.
HIGH Level 31-40 EmotionalMaturity! Praise God! ThankULordJesus!
mental age: 20-40
emotional maturity: 31
real age: 13
i think that's pretty good
Bro that's exactly mine.
What r the odds
@@immortalbeast the odds are 1 in 41, or a 2.4% chance
I have almost the exact same maturity age (32) but a different mental age I got 40-55 same age too
We are somewhat similar too same score but im a little bit older mentally and physically (im 14 with a 40-55 years old mind)
mental age: idk
emotional maturity: 39
real age: 11
I’m very happy with it, hope I can reach 40/41 soon!
Emotional maturity: 22
I expected it to be way lower, I have a lot of problems. Anytime I go out somewhere I worry something will happen to me, my family, or anything in general. I worry that whenever I’m alone in a car waiting for my friend to come back, he’ll ditch me. I struggle to forgive people and I don’t show compassion or empathy for people when they are having a hard time, most of the time in public I always act happy and like I’m always having a good time and I’m just the funny guy everybody knows and loves. But when I’m in private that’s when everything kicks in. I can’t tolerate being alone, I have anger issues but I always want things to work out. I know right and wrong and sometimes I try to do the right thing, I think of doing it, I say I’ll do it, then my anger issues kick in and I make the wrong choice. I always worry I’ll do something bad or I’ll fail and get held back. What if I hurt my little brother? I worry that he won’t be fine, I seriously injured him, I’ll get in trouble, I won’t be able to live with this anymore, but I keep it all under lock and key away from anyone else. The main thing that keeps me happy is a stuffed animal. It helps me in a way that I can’t describe.
why is this video unlisted? it was super fun and relaxing to take the quiz :)
It's unlisted now ;)
Mine are 38 and i did not expect that, im really proud of myself, ill take my time to improving myself to be a better person.
Emotional maturity: 27
I hope that's a good score... I think its mostly correct, but I do think I'm more empathetic then it says -sometimes to empathetic for my own good-
Also, The first question's animation killed me -maybe that's why it was on my recommended ;-; -
Thank you for sharing! I see. How do you feel about the overall animation?
22 points, not the best but im planning to improve, i figure that i can do it but i always look at the negative side, but now i want to try to actually do something and think positively!
How did i Get to this video, isnt it unlisted?
Yeah it has like 9 views and I’m realy confused
It suggest the link of it in another video
@@Avaxilxx it’s kinda cool because there’s like nobody in the comments
@@nuggetman2294 yeah it weird tho
Hello
Nice quizz Psych2Go! I got 45 points. My answers switching between A and B. I agree that emotional maturity is a process with ups and downs 😁
Glad you enjoyed!
I scored 42: I had an extremely painful relationship failure last year...took me a long time and a lot self reflection to get through it... im in a much better place now.... if i had taken this test before that horrible situation, i wouldnt have scored this much! So im thankful that i had to go thought that and proud of myself that i grew through that..
Mental age: 40-55
Emotionally mature: 32
I'm 14 btw
I'm a bit stuck on number 1: worthy person. I chose C, uncertain, primarily because my experience with my father growing up was that he would tell me at an early age that I was worthless. So for decades now, even if I was to believe I was worthy, and I do believe that more now, I still believe that no one really finds me worthy because of the things my father would say to me as a child. I believe it's etched into my subconscious and that's just a part of who I am.
Me who got 31 👁👄👁 I don't have emotional maturity...But I'm kinda between being mature and sometimes also acting immature!!! 🙃
I got a 31 on the nail! Still working on myself. Wish all if you the best on your journeys to self!
i love this art style. il take the test now
edit: I'M 30!
Was about to wish Happy Birthday, but then remembered what this video is about ^^"
@@blue-uv4mh oh lmao thank you anyway!!
@@siddoesntknowyou no prob! Also same ^^
@@blue-uv4mh oooh we twins :D
mine is on july 9, hbu? (u dont needa answer if ur uncomfortable
@@siddoesntknowyou no it’s okay ^^ (but thx for being couteous!). Mine is on july second; close :)
I got 37. I scored low in the areas about emotional volatility but I also scored high in the areas about empathy. It makes sense because I'm an empath and super sensitive.
36-38 depending on the day. But i can be happy with that. Im not perfect, im patient but no doormat. As long as those moments of weakness are addressed and help me grow, I can't ask for more. Ty psych2go, makes me feel like I understand myself a bit better. ^^
Thank you for sharing and being honest with yourself :) What do you plan to do next after this realization?
@@Psych2go Obviously stress about my imperfections all the more until I decide to sleep away my issues. Lol
Probably just attempt to be more level headed when under high stress. I put some of my best work out when my back is to the wall, but it does exhaust me emotionally. Probably best to work on my time management of tasks to not put myself in as many of these situations as I get older. :)
40! Progress! I used to be on the 20-30 point range. So grateful
Mental Age: 40-50 around that range
Emotional Maturity: 39
Cool :D
Exactly same as me 😅
Same
i got 17
i have been broken beyond repair by this point
but i can still figure through my emotions by treating them as memories from how i used to view them
Scoring 33 points on the emotional maturity scale tells me that I have more to improve upon when interacting with people of all categories/spectrums of life. I gotta be more empathetic when working with the clients as a Social Worker. Are there any tips, ideas, or methods that can help increase my EQ? 😅😁
Emotional maturity : 43
Mental age : 40 - 55
Real age : 14
I think this is pretty good
seems more like a depression scale
I got a 24. I really was expecting a higher number.
Goes to show that I still have a lot to learn and that I shouldn't feel like I'm quite there yet.
You can do it! You’ll get there someday
@@randombirbo Thanks, mate.
mental age: 10-20/20-40 (I got half and half c’s and a’s)
emotional maturity: 28
I AM SHOCKED THAT I GOT 40. My ex and my ex best friend called me immature because of how I reacted for triggering me. I was right. I'm not emotionally immature. They were. What a relief!
The characrters are so sweet
37: I think my biggest strength is being in someone else's shoes, I remind people I'm driving with that not everyone intends to get in others' way, and that they may be stressed or tired, like a lot of us are, or are being distracted by children in their car, or any number of situations, and that we should always be calm and try to understand that any reason that we're unhappy and distracted is just at valid as our fellow drivers' is.
27 so moderate emotional maturity
Same here
Me as well
same here😄
Samee
got 42, it seems understandable enough
i already suffered and had alot of new experiences this year, i basically changed ALOT in the span of 1 month and so to say that i like who i am now, i think i still need to somehow get better as a person though
Next video: how to put a Karen in her place.
I got a great score, but even better, I know what I need to work on. Thank you!
I got 25. I think for the most part I worry more about other ppl than myself and I'm I don't see highly of me. But I think I'm pretty good at understanding other ppls emotions. :)
35
way higher than i thought... there are certain things I'm working on... I'll come back after I'm satisfied with the results of my work on myself...
Emotional Maturity: 35
I was expecting something in the 20-29 range, but I’m not complaining.
My emotional maturity = 27
It makes sense, since I have had some therapy to better understand myself.
My score is : 33
Even tho i’m childish , i still try to see other people’s perspective
Good on you!
39 - seems about right, I always say I know myself better than anyone
I got a moderate level but I can't control my emotions I cry all the time like this week over 30 times
41, I still have room for emotional growth due to truamas but I'm thankful for the growth I've made
As a person who never knows what is up, I never felt so represented by something like I felt with the letter c
26
Man. 'Average' Hurts.
Updating in 1 year if I don't forget.
Emotional Maturity: 42
Well yeah, I guess I know what my emotions are cause at times they're volatile. And volatile emotions in a body capable of really hurting others makes me conscious of my emotions and if I act on them or not
Thanks for the quiz! Love the ending "most importantly be self aware and strive for improvement". One question, for Q2 how would being always bothered when people say bad things about you show higher emotional maturity?
Maybe the wording can be different, but I think it's more like being able to defend yourself and stand up for yourself that shows high emotional maturity :)
I got 37. I know I can keep a cool head, understand things from another person’s POV and always want to rectify my mistakes when I make them. However. There is still much room to improve as I know I’m not always perfect in the way I handle things.
I also got 37, and you sound just like me!!
I got 32, I think that fits about right, I also think it's because I tend to be a people pleaser. I'm getting better at that