My wife's Real Estate team (all women, most over 50) had a get together yesterday. As the night was winding down, the conversation ended up being about spouses (who were invited but there were only 4 of us men) and several of the women remarked how I was always well dressed and put together. They specifically mentioned how I looked at the time, basic shorts and a button down. What really impressed them (although they didn't realize it) was that my shirt matched my shoes...yes, I used the "Sandwich Method". Way to go John! #LEGEND
Big thing is BE IN SHAPE. Don’t be overweight, don’t be underweight. Clothes are great, but the foundation of good appearance is physique. We need to get the diet dialed in, we need the lean mass to body fat percentage to the scientifically healthy standard.
I’ve been watching your vids a couple months now which helped me buy some summer clothes…nothing expensive…and recently my friends commented “you look like money, you are looking so good”…the details make the difference…thanks for the great advice
You are the consummate male fashion whisperer. So much, if not all you recommend, is classic which means it will last beyond trends. Gentlemen, John knows of what he speaks.
I find it fairly easy to look better than most other guys -- care a bit about how you look/ dress and use a mirror, stay fit...you're pretty much there.
Great advise! My husband looks great after listening to your videos. Proper fit is so important! Clothing that doesn’t fit should be passed on to someone else.
I actually recently used the color matching thing to renovate my room, especially where tile, ceiling and wall color was concerned, and it turned out absolutely beautiful, so it goes beyond clothing, absolutely helpful.....OK now I need to go shopping and buy a classy sneaker and a piece of decadent chocolate cake to reward myself ❤ 😄
Awesome John. All your top 10 tips all rolled up in to one easy to watch video. Colour wheel, sandwich method, shoes for the right occasion etc etc all in the one video. It’s great. As you say, follow this advice and look better than 90% of the men you see on the street or at the mall.
John I haven’t seen you in person since the meetup in Temecula 10+ years ago. I have maintained my look and fitness since the early days of following your advice when you had a few thousand subscribers. I’m 70 and most people think I’m in my fifties. Generally I do look better than most other guys. Not bragging, just saying your advice is on point…Thanks
You're absolutely correct about being in shape! A physically fit man will make a simple outfit like a pair of jeans and a white T-shirt look like a tailored suit! Tucking in a shirt with a big belly just isn't visually appealing. All you're doing is bringing attention to your big belly.
Thanks John for another great video. Your suggestion about getting your temple (your body) in shape is spot on. Three years ago, I was flirting with 190 pounds (I am 5'11" tall), and decided to change, so I went to a functional medicine doctor, learned about good nutrition (organic vegetables, grass fed meat, supplements, etc.), and today, I weigh 169 pounds (I weighed this in High School, I graduated in 1969, I am 73 years old!!), and am feeling great. I also stopped drinking about 3 months ago, and giving up that sugar allowed me to go from 180 pounds to my current 169 pounds. My clothes fit better, it is easier to work out (I do 20 minutes of yoga each morning and walk at least 1-1/2 miles per day), and if I can do it, anyone can. I urge the guys to find a good functional medicine practitioner, it will amaze you what they can do to help!! Thanks for all you do!!
John, so right! i have a larger upper body, and see that light colored shirts make me look top heavy. Most of what i'm buying now are dark shirts and it helps a lot.
Thank you for acknowledging the ‘ shirt-tucked-in look again……of course, better with dark colors……any color if fit. Have also been tucking in lately as well. Loved the idea of dark shirt with lighter color summer trousers. 🎉✌🏻👍🏻
You recommend utilizing the sandwich method, which is great. Also recommended is dark shirts and white shoes. Those things don't go along with the sandwich method.
Just accidentally found your channel and liked it instantly. Was looking for something like this for a long time. Great tips.Not sure if you already have it , but anyways requesting if you can make a video with style suggestions for Asian brown men.
Great video, good tips. And I guess I’m a unicorn… I’m 58, better shape than when I flew in the Navy in the 80s and 90s and look good shirtless at the beach 🎉
Great video, John. Working on the fitness, but back to back Rotator Cuff surgeries took its toll. I'm looking for a light-weight sport jacket. I've looked locally and really not finding anything that I liked. Is there a good online source you would recommend?
Like it's been said - the number ONE thing you can do to look and feel better is not be overweight! If you are sittin' proper on the BMI scale, you will feel and look better! Even the best looking clothes are going to make less of an impact if you are overweight. Don't fool yourself...
Another helpful video. To you last point, a few years ago, my wife & I were in a nightclub in the Gulf region with friends. In there were multiple others, both men & women, dancing & having fun, as you do. We noticed one guy in particular, likely retired military, about my age (early 50s at the time),dressed in a loose, untucked shirt with baggy shorts (with obligatory cargo pockets). This style (such as it is) was somewhat popular in the 90s. But in 2018, on a 50-something guy, attempting to dance with fairly attractive young ladies, it really did not work. Guys, don't do this.
Love your vids mate. I always feel too puffed up with the tucked shirt / polo ~ unless it’s a suit, shirt etc. I try to buy Oxford cut shirts, so they don’t look like a dress 😂. That said; I’m usually ~ jeans and t and maybe a long t shirt or windcheater over (winter); good pair of wheels, a nice watch and the Chanel Allure / Bleu de Chanel to seal the deal! I do get compliments from the ladies; so I guess it kinda works. 🇦🇺
Funny, I went for stone coloured chinos today and was deciding on either sky blue or dark blue shirt. Both work obviously, but opted today for dark shirt. My influence was although I would normally wear brown shoes with this I went for some blue boat style shoes I'd just bought really well with the shirt.
I’m not sure if I’ve posted this comment in the past; but: Can someone explain to me why clothing manufacturers, particularly American Eagle, are designing XS shirts for men that stand 6/2. Again, extra small size for a 6/2 man. Are manufacturers advertising the emaciated look? I am 5/2 and weigh 111lbs. There used to be a time when xs sport and dress shirts fit nicely. Now, they look like night shirts; and I’m relegated to kids’ wear. Sorry for the whining, really.
John, do you have different rules on tucking for pants versus shorts? I tend to tuck my shirts in when wearing pants but leave untucked when wearing shorts.
@40OverFashion European and middle aged myself, simple rule: pants tucked, shorts untucked. Easy. But you're right, no shorts under dress shirts too long or with slits on the sides. Semi classy casual summer outfits are evident: fitting khaki or any pastel colored shorts, and a nice polo or chambray/cotton/linen shirt, in a matching color like you said.
Does ‘terrace’ style clothing not translate to the USA ? Also although aspiring to warm weather clothing is at the forefront of our minds this time of year, in Scotland it’s been wet windy 10 degrees Celsius tropical summer ( spoiled I know) this last week or so n colder in evening 😀
Here's a simple tip that makes a huge difference; Stop wearing tshirts everywhere and replace them with collared polo style shirts. I get so much attention if I'm wearing a nice black Polo Brand shirt also. Ladies. I'm not a piece of meat. Okay?
What is the definition of bring in shape? BMI under 25, 6 inch drop vs. Shoulders/waist 1.6 (never going to happen)? Top 1-2 % seems way too high for 50+ guy just being in shape. Yes the median stat is pathetic. Still there are a significant number in the top 15% that skew the average and make the top standard to be very tough.
There is no clothing company that makes shirts or pants in perfect proportions. Except for the tailor. And then only for YOUR proportions. YOU determine the proportions. Your body proportions are not mine. And what is the "right" one is in the eye of the beholder. There are no "proportion rules". Personally, I would say that your advertising partner's shirts are too long for YOUR proportions.
if funny am 48 , and magority of my friend or men i see my age , are wearing athletic running shoes , t shirt or hoody , cargo shorts , or cargo pants , and puffy jackets in winter , and don t think any of them has a proper jacket or shirt or iven pair of derby , only thows that got marid have 1 suite they have wear only once , at ther wedding ,
Style is never outdated. Fashion is. The reason older guys dressed like in their college days look strange: Grown ups shouldn't dress like college kids! Athleisure? Hell no! I wouldn't care about my clothes while working out in the gym. But wearing gym clothes when not working out? What's wrong with people?
Hello this is just an opinion ok How long dou you have with the same look I believe it's time to change your look The beard and the hair make you look older Change that beard and change the way you fix your hair
My wife's Real Estate team (all women, most over 50) had a get together yesterday. As the night was winding down, the conversation ended up being about spouses (who were invited but there were only 4 of us men) and several of the women remarked how I was always well dressed and put together. They specifically mentioned how I looked at the time, basic shorts and a button down. What really impressed them (although they didn't realize it) was that my shirt matched my shoes...yes, I used the "Sandwich Method". Way to go John! #LEGEND
Ha! Love this! Good man!
You're now the talk of the Convalescent Home.
Big thing is BE IN SHAPE. Don’t be overweight, don’t be underweight. Clothes are great, but the foundation of good appearance is physique. We need to get the diet dialed in, we need the lean mass to body fat percentage to the scientifically healthy standard.
Exactly.
You will never be stylish as long as you are obese. Not mr olympia but a normal weight
Yeah mate; I agree … and abs are built in the kitchen at the end of the day … Train hard ~ Fight easy .. who dares , wins 🇬🇧
💯
Amen. I’m 59 and I got serious and lost 44 pounds. I’m back to running three miles a day. You can do it!
I’ve been watching your vids a couple months now which helped me buy some summer clothes…nothing expensive…and recently my friends commented “you look like money, you are looking so good”…the details make the difference…thanks for the great advice
Love that! Thanks for sharing!
You are the consummate male fashion whisperer. So much, if not all you recommend, is classic which means it will last beyond trends. Gentlemen, John knows of what he speaks.
I'm 67 and I still go to the gym 6 days a week to occupy myself in retirement and keep healthy. British guy who moved to Bangkok in 2019.
I find it fairly easy to look better than most other guys -- care a bit about how you look/ dress and use a mirror, stay fit...you're pretty much there.
Great advise! My husband looks great after listening to your videos. Proper fit is so important! Clothing that doesn’t fit should be passed on to someone else.
So true! Thank you!
Doing something with the shape/weight is very important. Is not just a thing of looks but if we get to live a healthier life I don't see why not.
Absolutely! It’s a win win!
Wide foot gang. Finding good casual shoes is crazy hard.
I actually recently used the color matching thing to renovate my room, especially where tile, ceiling and wall color was concerned, and it turned out absolutely beautiful, so it goes beyond clothing, absolutely helpful.....OK now I need to go shopping and buy a classy sneaker and a piece of decadent chocolate cake to reward myself ❤ 😄
Haha!
Awesome John. All your top 10 tips all rolled up in to one easy to watch video. Colour wheel, sandwich method, shoes for the right occasion etc etc all in the one video. It’s great. As you say, follow this advice and look better than 90% of the men you see on the street or at the mall.
Thank you very much!
John I haven’t seen you in person since the meetup in Temecula 10+ years ago. I have maintained my look and fitness since the early days of following your advice when you had a few thousand subscribers. I’m 70 and most people think I’m in my fifties. Generally I do look better than most other guys. Not bragging, just saying your advice is on point…Thanks
Love this! Glad to hear you’re doing well brother! Cheers!
Another classic, John!
As usual, great advice .
Thank you!
As always, thanks for the tips. The color wheel is great.
My pleasure! Thanks for watching!
You're absolutely correct about being in shape! A physically fit man will make a simple outfit like a pair of jeans and a white T-shirt look like a tailored suit! Tucking in a shirt with a big belly just isn't visually appealing. All you're doing is bringing attention to your big belly.
Thanks John for another great video. Your suggestion about getting your temple (your body) in shape is spot on. Three years ago, I was flirting with 190 pounds (I am 5'11" tall), and decided to change, so I went to a functional medicine doctor, learned about good nutrition (organic vegetables, grass fed meat, supplements, etc.), and today, I weigh 169 pounds (I weighed this in High School, I graduated in 1969, I am 73 years old!!), and am feeling great. I also stopped drinking about 3 months ago, and giving up that sugar allowed me to go from 180 pounds to my current 169 pounds. My clothes fit better, it is easier to work out (I do 20 minutes of yoga each morning and walk at least 1-1/2 miles per day), and if I can do it, anyone can. I urge the guys to find a good functional medicine practitioner, it will amaze you what they can do to help!! Thanks for all you do!!
Thank you for sharing!
John, so right! i have a larger upper body, and see that light colored shirts make me look top heavy. Most of what i'm buying now are dark shirts and it helps a lot.
Exactly! Thanks for watching!
Thank you for acknowledging the ‘ shirt-tucked-in look again……of course, better with dark colors……any color if fit. Have also been tucking in lately as well. Loved the idea of dark shirt with lighter color summer trousers. 🎉✌🏻👍🏻
Absolutely!
Another great video John! Good to see you working with Cuts. I have a few of their polos and henleys and they are the best!
Thank you!
You recommend utilizing the sandwich method, which is great. Also recommended is dark shirts and white shoes. Those things don't go along with the sandwich method.
Just accidentally found your channel and liked it instantly. Was looking for something like this for a long time. Great tips.Not sure if you already have it , but anyways requesting if you can make a video with style suggestions for Asian brown men.
Welcome aboard! Thank you for the suggestion!
Great video, good tips. And I guess I’m a unicorn… I’m 58, better shape than when I flew in the Navy in the 80s and 90s and look good shirtless at the beach 🎉
Good man!
Sure... 55 myself, still 75kg for 1.80m, since decades. But you gotto admit, the shape of your body changes with the years and not for the better.
Love the word on tuck and when to untuck. Thx!!!!! Strong work!
Thank you!
Thanks for another great video.
Thanks for watching!
On 👉 as usual. Thank you John😊❤🎉💯.
You are welcome!
Thankss for the video.. simple yet informative 👌 definitely got kudos
Great video, John. Working on the fitness, but back to back Rotator Cuff surgeries took its toll. I'm looking for a light-weight sport jacket. I've looked locally and really not finding anything that I liked. Is there a good online source you would recommend?
I prefer to look locally. Online is OK, but nothing beats trying things on in person before you buy.
My friend, ask a physical therapist or look online for low impact exercises. You can still do a lot while working around your injury.
Like it's been said - the number ONE thing you can do to look and feel better is not be overweight! If you are sittin' proper on the BMI scale, you will feel and look better! Even the best looking clothes are going to make less of an impact if you are overweight. Don't fool yourself...
Athleìsure has to be fitted or slim fit. No questions asked.
Well said, John!
Another helpful video. To you last point, a few years ago, my wife & I were in a nightclub in the Gulf region with friends. In there were multiple others, both men & women, dancing & having fun, as you do. We noticed one guy in particular, likely retired military, about my age (early 50s at the time),dressed in a loose, untucked shirt with baggy shorts (with obligatory cargo pockets). This style (such as it is) was somewhat popular in the 90s. But in 2018, on a 50-something guy, attempting to dance with fairly attractive young ladies, it really did not work. Guys, don't do this.
Absolutely! Thanks for sharing!
Cheers John, thanks.
You’re welcome!
Love your vids mate.
I always feel too puffed up with the tucked shirt / polo ~ unless it’s a suit, shirt etc.
I try to buy Oxford cut shirts, so they don’t look like a dress 😂.
That said; I’m usually ~ jeans and t and maybe a long t shirt or windcheater over (winter); good pair of wheels, a nice watch and the Chanel Allure / Bleu de Chanel to seal the deal!
I do get compliments from the ladies; so I guess it kinda works. 🇦🇺
You are also probably in shape. I'm just guessing, here. If so, good for you.
Funny, I went for stone coloured chinos today and was deciding on either sky blue or dark blue shirt. Both work obviously, but opted today for dark shirt. My influence was although I would normally wear brown shoes with this I went for some blue boat style shoes I'd just bought really well with the shirt.
Well done!
Thank you, good video.
Thanks for watching!
This is so valuable!
Thank you!
Love the video agree with you 100%
Thank you!
I’m not sure if I’ve posted this comment in the past; but:
Can someone explain to me why clothing manufacturers, particularly American Eagle, are designing XS shirts for men that stand 6/2. Again, extra small size for a 6/2 man. Are manufacturers advertising the emaciated look?
I am 5/2 and weigh 111lbs. There used to be a time when xs sport and dress shirts fit nicely. Now, they look like night shirts; and I’m relegated to kids’ wear. Sorry for the whining, really.
Great video John!!!
Thanks for watching!
I do want to go for a little dress!! John, what are you saying??? Ha!! Only kidding! Great advice as always.
Haha!
Cuts is great but I really like Bylt basics as well. Pretty much all the same stuff but personally fits me better. A bit less expensive as well.
John, do you have different rules on tucking for pants versus shorts? I tend to tuck my shirts in when wearing pants but leave untucked when wearing shorts.
Yeah, it’s sort of a 50-50 thing. I’ve just been doing it to try it out. It’s a lot cleaner looking, but you can take it or leave it.
@40OverFashion European and middle aged myself, simple rule: pants tucked, shorts untucked. Easy. But you're right, no shorts under dress shirts too long or with slits on the sides.
Semi classy casual summer outfits are evident: fitting khaki or any pastel colored shorts, and a nice polo or chambray/cotton/linen shirt, in a matching color like you said.
I'm learning teach on
The bar is so low today with men that any real effort puts you far ahead
True!
Tucking my shirt in. I can't wear a shirt that can't be untucked. Parents made me do it and the military completed it.
Has anyone ever tell you that you look like Greg Mocker from Channel 11 News from NY😂😂
Where do you recommend to get shoes , which website or company plz
Does ‘terrace’ style clothing not translate to the USA ? Also although aspiring to warm weather clothing is at the forefront of our minds this time of year, in Scotland it’s been wet windy 10 degrees Celsius tropical summer ( spoiled I know) this last week or so n colder in evening 😀
I’m not too familiar, but it seems more like a UK thing. Again, not that familiar though.
Regardless of all the fashion advice. STAY FIT and Trim. People will notice you even more. You don't want to look like The Penguin from Batman.
There was a time you would never have recommended the sponsor’s clothing. I get it, those cars ain’t cheap😅.
Black tops are a great idea, unless you have dandruff and then they become a total embarrassment.
If ur the elephant in the room, u def need to work on your fitness 😂
Not if you’re a powerlifter my dude
@chadjones2433 Well I'm neither a power lifter nor a dude so I wouldn't know 🤣
@@roxytocin_216 😂 all good
Here's a simple tip that makes a huge difference; Stop wearing tshirts everywhere and replace them with collared polo style shirts. I get so much attention if I'm wearing a nice black Polo Brand shirt also. Ladies. I'm not a piece of meat. Okay?
Absolutely true!
How old are you?
55
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I’ll lose the extra poundage if I can ever leave alcohol alone, other than that I have a great diet and love the gym - just rely on booze too much.
You will be amazed that you wasted so much money time and effort in drinking when you stop. And guess what you will still have a good time
What is the definition of bring in shape? BMI under 25, 6 inch drop vs. Shoulders/waist 1.6 (never going to happen)? Top 1-2 % seems way too high for 50+ guy just being in shape. Yes the median stat is pathetic. Still there are a significant number in the top 15% that skew the average and make the top standard to be very tough.
Its like pornography youll know it when you see it lol
Over 40s wearing athleasure LOL
Lol how many times have you worn that same Tshirt this week 😅
There is no clothing company that makes shirts or pants in perfect proportions. Except for the tailor. And then only for YOUR proportions. YOU determine the proportions. Your body proportions are not mine. And what is the "right" one is in the eye of the beholder. There are no "proportion rules". Personally, I would say that your advertising partner's shirts are too long for YOUR proportions.
If you’re over 40 years old, and Caucasian, don’t wear the black shirt with those beige chinos, you’ll look washed out.
Depends on your skin color. Dark skin Caucasian’s can pull it off.
Hot take, but 90s grunge guys r hot ngl
👏🏻👏🏻👍🏻
if funny am 48 , and magority of my friend or men i see my age , are wearing athletic running shoes , t shirt or hoody , cargo shorts , or cargo pants , and puffy jackets in winter , and don t think any of them has a proper jacket or shirt or iven pair of derby , only thows that got marid have 1 suite they have wear only once , at ther wedding ,
Those skinny pants are not really happening...
Mmmmm sandwiches 🤤
Style is never outdated. Fashion is. The reason older guys dressed like in their college days look strange: Grown ups shouldn't dress like college kids!
Athleisure? Hell no! I wouldn't care about my clothes while working out in the gym. But wearing gym clothes when not working out? What's wrong with people?
Don't wear a suit jacket with polo shirts or blue jeans. Looks so naff
Hello this is just an opinion ok
How long dou you have with the same look
I believe it's time to change your look
The beard and the hair make you look older
Change that beard and change the way you fix your hair
He really just looks like a healthy guy, not trying to look like a kid
Beards are getting way past their sell date