I watched him lie...he told the counselor that he is perfect and so were his parents...his alcoholic mother and sex creepy dad left when he was born...and they are perfect. Just sat there lying on an on.
Therapy only helps if the person in therapy is committed to putting in the work and the introspection needed to recognize problems and deal with them. If you refuse to acknowledge your need to change, not even Jesus can help you.
@@ladyv5655 It won't happen. The narcissist doesn't want to help themselve.. They only want to blame others for their failures. Get out! It's always lose/lose.
A Collapse is indeed the BEST thing that can ever happen to them. It's their ONLY chance at turning their life around into becoming REAL human beings and stop feeling threatened by everything and everyone, when in fact THEY are the only threats out there 🤩
My ex would never consider anything wrong with him in order to seek counselling. At 66 years of age, he's STILL the narcissist he always was, and always will be. Everything is always someone else's fault! He's a lonely old man now.
My narc collapsed at age 42! Collapsed so bad after all the lies came out that she looked 20 years older within just a few months! Wrinkles, saggy face, and all! I was utterly shocked!
I don’t want to sound mean but it’s a HAPPY DAY WHEN THEY COLLAPSE. After 25 year marriage to one who’s abusive in EVERY WAY. Got away with poisoning me, Gun to my head abusing me & my son and stole all our money. He is a weasel & ALWAYS one step ahead of divorce court & my attorney. I HOPE HE COLLAPSES ASAP 🎉
My narcissistic ex discarded me after I refused to be his supply, then started a collapse when he realized how quickly I moved on and wanted nothing to do with him anymore. This all happened around his 38th birthday
It will only happen when they see you winning in spite of the shit they put you through. So buckle up, don't show your tears to anyone and be a good empath like you used to be before meeting the Devil. We always win.
@@darkroof6508being good empath will make them turn u into the a very good supply. Go gray rocking everything will just bounce back on them. The flying monkeys will give back to the narcs themselves or atleast in the proxy sense. However difficult it is, just set boundaries once and for all and go no contact with narc then gray rock whenever they are around or when flying monkeys are around. Dnt be empath again become dark empath and send them to hell that is their own self is hell for them. Empty and abyssal.
My mother was physically and emotionally abusive all my life. She was more like a mean, competitive sister than a mother. And whenever my dad would confront her about her treatment toward my siblings and me (and extended family), my mother would just get depressed and talk about suicide because the world is out to get her. It's been 35 years and she's still the same way.
They have this weird DELUSION that everyone is just like them, that everything has to do with them, and that being healthy ourselves is an INSULT AGAINST THEM. Do NOT take them seriously for ANYTHING coming out of their mouths. They are highly DELUDED CHILDREN who are capable of ADULT AGGRESSION.
My mother was an abusive narcissist - and my sibs her flying monkeys. My father was not only emotionally absent - but also actually physically absent a lot of the time. My mother was always taking "mothers' little helpers" pills to wake up, lose weight, go to sleep, anti-depressants, etc., etc., etc. And when she just couldn't deal with the consequences of the life choices SHE had made - she would threaten to take all her pills and "just never wake up." I finally went no contact - with her AND my sibs - when I was 60 yrs old. I am STILL working through the PTSD anger - from a Life completely wasted - a Life I can't get back and have do overs.
Diagnosed narc here. Collapse/mortification is horrific, lost 30 lbs in 3 weeks unable to sleep in that time as well, multiple all nighters with 2-3 hours of sleep between. It's existential, like disintegrating it's also the only time in life I felt in touch with reality and truly alive. My childhood defenses were shattered.
Very true I’m 60 and I’ve seen this with many narcs but it happened around 60 and older but yes it’s great because absolutely nothing is left for them that’s appealing their emptiness is evident for all to see. Very validating to see the justice. They absolutely do get exposed and the game is up.
@@r4suli thank you for response Is it ok if I ask you what is your advice to other people with NPD do to help themselves & their families ? e.g CBT or other behavioural modifications thetherapies ? I m trying to find help for my 24 yr old son Many thanks
So a narcissist creates a false self. So your son is protecting himself through self-protective delusion. So the only way to break that false self is to have a traumatic situation to break it
My husband a Covert Narcisist is 43 , he is on the pathway to self destruction . He just could not live a simple well balanced clean life with his family. He had to literally take of his mask and reveal his true self Now he is doing such unbelievable and ridiculous things that he has become a laughing stock 😂. Those who didn't believe me before now totally support me . Alhamdulillah I got rid of him .
Mere husband covert narcissist hen, unki age 58, shadi ko 23 Saal ho gaye, first day se hi unka behavior un exceptable tha, narcissism ke bare me pata chala to sari confusion clear ho gae. Mere husband ki ex wife mujhe Facebook pe follow kr rahi he taki mere husband ko un mask kr sake, Lekin me to pehle hi sab janti hon, samajh nhi a raha us se contect karon ya nhi, ap advice karen
Thank you, I did see the soften of the Narcissist while married in our 40's, then by 50 he was on the prowl for supply, even a bromance to keep his spirits up. Alcohol became a real factor in his life.
@@stevenwilson879 See, you just proved yourself wrong there. Something else that's inevitable is aging, and looks fade, even after lots of money is spent on fake enhancements, father time always catches up. Also, the sources are never a long term solution, and they are left always needing to find another; no relationship lasts, so the fact that they 'can' find another source is just another source of pity.
They have incredible regenerative power through their narcissist. Their incredible strength of recovery is akin to a phoenix' s ability to rise from the ashes.
I have easily predicted his every move. Now, I am at the brink of taking my narcissist neighbor down for trying to intimidate and traumatize me at my front door, after he discovered I was helpless in a near mortal disabling health event 9yrs ago. He assumed he had a forever loathing next door after he targeted me. Now that I have suddenly fully recovered from my catastrophic failure, my neighbor is scared shitless! I got suddenly ghosted and now flying monkeys. His last husband ghosted him for what he willfully, cowardly and cruelly did to me. His newly recruited young and dumb 2nd husband is his current flying monkey. He has no clue what happened. He is taking a very dangerous risk, trying to get near me to find out, and report back to his narcissist. I am taking his husband down with him. I remain gray rock and no contact until the moment I strike. When I am done with them, he will never take advantage of another disabled person again!
I walked out of the bank and one of the two just walked past without noticing me. I followed him up an ally towards the parking lot. Ther are no cameras in the ally and lucky for him,, there were people present. Had he looked right behind him, he would've crapped his pants bolted, again. I caught up to him in my car. He realized I was a flying monkey 🐒 🙈 and quickly dove into Panera Bread. I recently overcame my disabilities regained my strength and speed. They were watching me suffer from inside their house for years. I'm no longer a flying monkey. I'm a condor. When I am done, they will never intimidate a disabled or disadvantaged person again! I am still disabled. They have no clue. BTW they do know the disgrace they are. Or they wouldn't be running away from me, their neighbor. Super Nova is eminent
@@kathleencampbe3ll70 I have both of them scared of me now. I overcame a massive renal failure and constantly overwhelming pain, and took them from enjoying watching my suffering in my yard, to running away from me. The next time he flying monkey me, I'm going to send his new supply husband to the ER at the hospital across the street. Disabled people never get the chance to go after cruel and abusive people. I am still disabled. Its permanent. I'm a biker. That is permanent also. Until I know, that I am safe in my home, I am only applying more and more pressure on my narc neighbors. In NY I get out of jail in the morning, for knocking their teeth out. I am 64yrs old. Am I supposed to care? Hell NO! I gave them a decade to be decent. I was afraid of them for 10yrs. Now they are afraid of me!
@@keithhults8986 I have a covert malignant narcissistic neighbour and her husband and two friends are her flying monkeys. My husband and I have just gone grey rock. Zero contact and I can feel her crumbling. Seriously mate, it's the only way to go. Don't do anything but ignore them. If you do ANYTHING else you are providing supply. The only way is to starve them to death. Thank God that he has given you the strength to get this far despite all the hurdles that have come your way. It has made you a stronger and better version of yourself. You must stay strong, focus on your life, forget them. Remember vengeance is mine, so sayeth the Lord. He is their judge. Leave it to him. Trust in the Lord (or however you see a higher being).
My ex collapsed when he was about 45. We then talked about midlife crisis. Now, ten years later, I discover about narcissism, and I recognize everything. I wonder if narcissism and midlife crisis are somehow related.
There is such a fine line in discerning. Thinking everyone has critical thinking as we were taught in early childhood/teen years.I have with respect, people have their way of thinking and doing things only to come to find out about this dysfunctional cycle that causes narcissism. Narcissism interferes with normal steps in interacting with a person/ people, to have growth within yourself and with each other.Instead it promotes division and strife all the time. So,it can be hard to discern and understand which is which with these types of people. Also, with yourself because are actions can be affected by their actions and reactions. There is an old saying:"You are who you hang around with."
@@mariafernandes9227 I had to chuckle when you said 28 years. My covert malignant narcissistic neighbour and her flying monkey husband love to remind us that they have lived here for 28 years. He has also said adamantly that they will NEVER move. We are planning our escape. Sounds to me like you should be planning yours...
One of the things I noticed about a long term awful narc situation who has "discarded: me (yay!) long before I realized they were a narc was I sensed this like of Spirit. Later on, I realized this seeming Godlessness, or in Old English "GOOD"lessness was the first clue.
From what you are describing, I am pretty sure my mother is experiencing narcissistic collapse and it is terrifying for her, I think. My family mostly Gray rocks her and her neighbors avoid her. She constantly complains about people who have "wronged" her, and her complaints are about the most petty and ridiculous things, like how somebody didn't give her a chocolate chip cookie. "But Mom, that cookie has chocolate chips and M&Ms."
Every narcissist does that. That's how we know that it's a real condition & those are the symptoms...It's not a personality, it's a personality DISORDER!
I have been exposing narcs by seeing them and hearing them. I realize how fake they are and i dont even react to their sht. I dont even get apologies for all the sht ive been through by narcs. They Never show remorse for mistreating me. I usually get depressed by being hurt by all of these evil people hurting me for no reason.
@@pearlsdaughter2281 thanks for your online support, I just came across a couple today and I told my real name and then they started the smear campaign going against me happening from a bunch of insecure people with too much time on their hands and a lot of insults, I swear that these people are possessed by demons heart or conscious anymore. What they do is they find my traits and things that I like and they try to turn it against me
My covert narcissistic mother did have a breakdown once and I think she was in her early forties. She started crying nonstop and was extremely cold. She curled up on the couch and we covered her up in blankets. The thing that is most irritating to me is that they were such strict Catholics, they called for the priest to come over instead of getting medical help. The priest decided that he could remove the restriction of fasting during Lent since she was sufficiently sick. As I recall she got over it after a three or four hours. Then life continued as before.
I cant imagine if their really collapse, gosh, maybe a rage almost anytime and attacking every thing, im living with one, they really dont like it when they realize they had flaws
I told the truth in front of a whole room of people. The N jumped up, limbs were loose, hands bent backwards, running from room to room, flailing arms, and stomping like a child temper tantrum.
Flaws?? Just about everything about them is WRONG, everything they think, say, do and act, especially the way they treat others like a pile of TRASH and exploit them... How can they be surprised about having someone find a 'flaw'? Their entire existence is erected on a big fat LIE. Try finding something RIGHT about them!
I was married for 39 years to a man that I did not realize was a narcissist approximately 8 years ago ago I started withdrawing from him I couldn't do for him all the time anymore I was tired and falling into a deep hole of depression heated up leaving me and having me falsely arrested and removed from my home back in April of this year and in May exactly may 15th the woman that he had an affair with was also married she broke it off with him and he committed suicide
My close relative had a narcissistic collapse when she was 40. It developed into an acute psychosis and she was never the same after that. She went to contact with her siblings and father accusing them of talking badly about her behind her back. She became tve opposite of her previous grandiose self, behaving oddly and doing the opposite of social norms. There was never any connection, never any depth or reciprocity. Behaviourly and socially she became a basket case, while incredibly retaining a sharp intellect. I don’t know how that’s possible…?
Very interesting to hear that narc collapse is common around age 40. Explains why my parents marriage deteriorated so much when I was 5 years old. It never recovered. Just became more and more co dependent and toxic. Messed me up and made my mum die of cancer.
I've seen the exact same thing happen with mine. I didn't actually believe that people could look like they aged 10 years in just one due to the insane self-inflicted stress they are under.
Odd someone mention how they look my girlfriend left me for a year and when she came back her hair had turned gray muscle tone was definitely less she looked much older
As someone who was suffering narcissistic abuse, long before you were born, I'm impressed and this is well worth my time and a subscription. It's also a breath of fresh air, to hear 'shit', where it's entirely appropriate. I look forward to the next video with great interest.
4:24 _”This collapse usually begins around the the age of 40. That’s why narcissists around this age groom their supplies even MORE …”_ OH MY LORD … about a month after I got sexually assaulted by my female doctor, I got _another_ which stopped me in my tracks to try to figure out what the hell was going on. I realized this person had zeroed in on me and had intimate access to personal information on me. I asked myself, ‘how could I even the score?’ So I eventually figured out that she is 39 years old. Not only had I been taken in by her charm, I was also taken in by her attractiveness too. But here she was, turning 40. When I saw her the last time, she was about 8 months pregnant with her FIFTH child. This was the day I saw behind the mask. She could now see that I wasn’t taken in by her superficial “beauty” anymore. I think I witnessed her having part of this collapse too. Wow.
Brother you got the age wrong , if it starts at 40 , and if they are narcissistic parent , there kids can be their flying monkeys , who young they would be , in general the start age of their collapse I think you got wrong , it’s like late 60’s in my opinion
I think my ex husband has had narcissist collapse , fake suicide attempt, took fake fire arm to local park and apparently tried to get police to shoot him !!! Got convicted for this. Altjough he seems to have recovered, has alienated our teenage children from me and appears to be continuing with his life. Would this just be a cover, for my benefit. I know he is in a lot of financial trouble.
Keep reminding yourself that you are a broken human being with unmet needs. The root of narcissism is just insecurity and it's okay. I highly encourage watching Dr Gabor Mate
Maybe you learned some behaviors from narcs in your life as a way to survive…I hope that helps and makes sense. No one deserves to feel dismissed, crazy, unloved….we all want a sense of love and connection. 💚🌈🦄💙🙏✌️🤗
I have a different perception. That the narcisist is in depth aware of his insecurity all the time and afraid. And people around him, spec. in smaller places know it too. And that it holds on fear to oppose. because if a separate person does it, will be defeated. I could never immagine that people dont know a person whom they see on everyday bases. The question is that people are too UNINFORMED and do not know the NAME if the psychological disease. Need just much more information so that people are on the same level informed as about alchocholism or diabetis f.ex.
You mentioned the narcs break down of no recovery, but what happens to them when they collapse or they come to a point of no recovery? Do they kill themselves or just die
I believe most collapsed narcs don't recover. They are more than likely old, now. Retired. Not supply from work. No longer the boss. Kids grown & gone. Looks have faded. Everyone is on to you... They have shit on everyone that cared about them. Nothing left.
@@truecrimejungle It can happen to anyone. But I believe it affects the older narcs more, as they have burned all their bridges to the ground. And their beauty fades with age which hurts attracting new supplies. As the narc ages, people their age wise up. The younger/innocent aren't attracted to the old & ugly unless they are rich.
Oh shit. I’ve done this to several narcissists. I always thought it would be a good thing to put them in their place and I was always naturally good at sniffing out their vulnerabilities. I never meant to destroy them just set them straight but it makes sense to me now why they couldn’t handle it
My narc is 38 and she's been having collapses since her early 20s, but she's so stubborn she's always managed to deny her reality and not clean her shit. I went no contact but she came back with insults 😂 I didn't know what narcissism was then
Usually, yes. It happens when their tactics no longer work, so as an example: if they can no longer pull off using their sexual manipulations because they are no longer as physically attractive, or when everyone in the family just can’t with them anymore because its been so relentless that not even the enablers can ignore it, or if they get dementia etc.
I think I broke the covert narc that tried to ruin my life. I saw her mask slip really early and my sigma traits (strong boundaries) meant none of her devaluing and gaslighting (LIES) worked. 3 days later she faked a suicide and ended up in hospital for observation. She never came back to the house. I believe she ran out of supply and had nowhere else to go. I sincerely hope she got the help she needed at the hospital but I suspect she also lied to the therapists. The chances of them using a collapse to get actual help is slim, very slim.
Taking first step admitting they have a problem is nearly impossible for them. Pity the souse locked in who actually takes marriage vows seriously. It’s insecurity yes “delusion” word is perfect!
Well I had a strong feeling that this defines the person I recently just left I wasn’t there very long I was there for 2 1/2 months I’ve had a lot of experience with narcissist at varying degrees and levels on their journey. And this is just part of my life because those injuries and those wounds that were created were meant to open me up as a spiritual worker And I understand that you get to a point in your life when you’re asking like is it ever going to end like is this all there is did I not learn everything I needed to know? I knew that there was a good possibility that he was a narcissist but I gave him an opportunity because I’ve known this man for 32 years. I had never known him to be like this he was actually raging on the phone before I left and drove 600 miles to see him for the first time in 25 years. We were very very close at least I thought we were For the first eight years of our relationship but it was strictly platonic and he was basically friend zoned I wasn’t looking for a relationship I was looking for myself He lived with me for about a year because he was in dire need of a place to stay and many many years later I would go stay with him for three months get a job working overnight While my children were sleep because daycare was very expensive and he’s claiming that I had a babysitter which I did not know that he also made up a lot of stories about me that he was telling me over the phone and in person when I saw him that we’re not real. I also realize that he had this pattern of Ramirez with women and I was one of them after he told me a lot of things that I didn’t know About the time we spent together and I was eight years He even confessed that the fantasy is often times much better than the reality so I think it kind of ruins his fantasy when he attempts to have some type of relationship and reality Anyway it was pretty bad I got out there and he was such a severe hoarder his dog had been neglected emotionally and also his health was being neglected and I had to dive into that because there’s no way I could stand it anymore he was completely ignorant and didn’t seem to care was emotionally unavailable and removed and that’s essentially what our relationship was like in the first 2 1/2 months so I called it quits and left I tried to communicate as much as I could with him letting him know where I stood and why I left and the problems that I found that were happening in our interjections and failed attempt at a relationship. And of course it was met with a lot of sarcasm and cruelty and there was a lot of gaslighting So it got to the point where I just really became annoying and I had to block him on social media There’s a lot of things that concerns me about him energetically I feel strongly that he has some serious issues outside of narcissism But he’s 54 years old so when I arrived and I listen to him talk he repeated the same stories over and over and over again for 2 1/2 months but the majority of what he was conveying to me was about his failed relationships with these women and of course everything was their fault he played no partner took out responsibility or accountability for anything not really And I think he was trying to make a point and almost an example out of them like a warning for some thing possibly but he definitely sounds like the person you’re describing someone who had a collapsed who started becoming his own narcissistic supply and who bamboozled himself into believing things that were simply untrue for survival reasons because ultimately that is why a narcissist is trying to do is survive at any cost It really was a very sad sight to see and I do understand that he shares this in common with his father because his father is very much of the same thing and I know that he spent plenty of time around his dad and Nicole seem to be very inverted or introverted is probably the better word And that’s probably where he started masking all this strange coping behaviors and deliverance as well as all of the awkward behaviors that he didn’t want anyone to know about him became a narcissist himself I truly believe his dad is a narcissist from the stories that he shared with me and me in the first eight years it was only upon re-acquainting with him that he shared anything till I really don’t know who I was dealing with but I ended up nicknaming him Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde because that’s exactly And he reminded me of this was a person I didn’t recognize and nine I’m just glad that that part is over
I saw my narcis-sister collapse after I exposed her to her 2nd supply guy. She suddenly came down with this mystery illness for about 2 weeks, saying, "I think it's a cold. I think it's the flu. I think it's a new COVID strain."....even though she's a nurse and tested negative for COVID. He son would check on her and said she was in the furthest room of her home, in the guest bed in the corner. Normally she treats her son and our parents badly but when her 2nd supply guy left her she was calling them crying about how "sick" she was, just needing supply. She doesn't know it was me the exposed her to both men and I know if she does find out she'll seek revenge.
I am 70 years old and I was married to a narcissist 38 years my children are all dealing with that even though they are not aware of it she is about 66 now the one good thing is if she does collapse the Lord will be there to catch her why because what he starts he finishes I may never see it but thanks be unto God who loves us and gives us the victory if we trust him one suffering for the Lord and family praise God
If God created them then their destiny is set and she knows the outcome. They are a cocreator in the Hell of their own making and can go straight there after they die.
Can they stay in this collapse stay for a long period of time? I swear that my ex husband was in the collapse stage throughout our 13yr marriage. He had his temporary "together " times, but they were short lived and as the years went on the shorter "together" spats became compiled with more insidious thoughts followed by vindictive actions and pure rage. He always had the rage, but then he hit a point where he started claiming that some invisible, secret society or group were communicating with him through various ways like license plates that were stopped at a light around him, emails and notes that I wasn't given the privilege to see. One time he walked around the house with a machete because he swore that he was being followed on his way to pick me up from the hospital (surprise, surprise he was late, very late).
I looked at one video about gaze. Didn't have comment section I have had that gaze after we were falling apart. Ask him why was he staring He said I can't look at you and I said it is creepy It's giving me the creeps and it was. Also, you sent me a link for 1 on 1 and Feb was full and zmarch was not on there. When will you put up?
I have a feeling he is aware of it all the time. Do you want to say they are able to push so deep in subconcious their insecurity? Dont think so - their behaviour would not be so strange. uptight then.
I enjoyed your video, but were you cursing in the video? If so, I found that hard to listen to. Can you do a video where you don't use the 's' word as much? Thanks.
Go to Professor Sam Vaknin's channel. He identifies himself as a narcissist and teaches about it in most interesting ways. He talks about becoming aware of his condition here. ruclips.net/video/sU305NqXT94/видео.html
In order to understand how scary is when you have an experience with this ratchet, corrupt, rotten, disgusting, crap of flesh and bones, a meat suit, the real bad people. They are psychopaths.
Even seeking therapy can't help most narcissist because they will lie to the therapist and cannot be honest about their behavior.
I watched him lie...he told the counselor that he is perfect and so were his parents...his alcoholic mother and sex creepy dad left when he was born...and they are perfect. Just sat there lying on an on.
@@lesleybrown1583 Amen..
Therapy can help a tiny bit...yet it can keep people stuck. God/Jesus saves us.
Therapy only helps if the person in therapy is committed to putting in the work and the introspection needed to recognize problems and deal with them. If you refuse to acknowledge your need to change, not even Jesus can help you.
@@ladyv5655 It won't happen. The narcissist doesn't want to help themselve.. They only want to blame others for their failures.
Get out! It's always lose/lose.
@@jacquelinefroehle3583 Therapy for whom? The narcissist or the supply?
A Collapse is indeed the BEST thing that can ever happen to them. It's their ONLY chance at turning their life around into becoming REAL human beings and stop feeling threatened by everything and everyone, when in fact THEY are the only threats out there 🤩
My ex would never consider anything wrong with him in order to seek counselling. At 66 years of age, he's STILL the narcissist he always was, and always will be. Everything is always someone else's fault! He's a lonely old man now.
Narcassist collapse is the best thing that can happen to a narc. I pray for them.
Im not praying for them...lol
Yes I pray for them to collapse too
Don't waste your prayers....leave them for Karma and God
@@cchahali8027 big facts fuck them may they feel and experience the full extent of their own horror amen 🤭😁😁😁
@@twinkle837 I would agree. These people are nasty. They cause a lot of problems!
My narc collapsed at age 42! Collapsed so bad after all the lies came out that she looked 20 years older within just a few months! Wrinkles, saggy face, and all! I was utterly shocked!
“They become their own supply”spot on! Thank you.
Only until they find a more convenient supply.
That's why he likes going to rehab. That may just be the best place for them. #supplyyourself
I don’t want to sound mean but it’s a HAPPY DAY WHEN THEY COLLAPSE. After 25 year marriage to one who’s abusive in EVERY WAY. Got away with poisoning me, Gun to my head abusing me & my son and stole all our money.
He is a weasel & ALWAYS one step ahead of divorce court & my attorney. I HOPE HE COLLAPSES ASAP 🎉
My narcissistic ex discarded me after I refused to be his supply, then started a collapse when he realized how quickly I moved on and wanted nothing to do with him anymore. This all happened around his 38th birthday
The very thought of the collapse of narc.....is very soothing.....i pray for it........ for him to be punished by the almighty
It will only happen when they see you winning in spite of the shit they put you through. So buckle up, don't show your tears to anyone and be a good empath like you used to be before meeting the Devil. We always win.
@@darkroof6508 Amen....
Amen
@@darkroof6508being good empath will make them turn u into the a very good supply. Go gray rocking everything will just bounce back on them. The flying monkeys will give back to the narcs themselves or atleast in the proxy sense. However difficult it is, just set boundaries once and for all and go no contact with narc then gray rock whenever they are around or when flying monkeys are around. Dnt be empath again become dark empath and send them to hell that is their own self is hell for them. Empty and abyssal.
My mother was physically and emotionally abusive all my life. She was more like a mean, competitive sister than a mother. And whenever my dad would confront her about her treatment toward my siblings and me (and extended family), my mother would just get depressed and talk about suicide because the world is out to get her. It's been 35 years and she's still the same way.
They have this weird DELUSION that everyone is just like them, that everything has to do with them, and that being healthy ourselves is an INSULT AGAINST THEM. Do NOT take them seriously for ANYTHING coming out of their mouths. They are highly DELUDED CHILDREN who are capable of ADULT AGGRESSION.
What are you all doing about her?! Sitting and taking her shit?!
My mother was an abusive narcissist - and my sibs her flying monkeys. My father was not only emotionally absent - but also actually physically absent a lot of the time. My mother was always taking "mothers' little helpers" pills to wake up, lose weight, go to sleep, anti-depressants, etc., etc., etc. And when she just couldn't deal with the consequences of the life choices SHE had made - she would threaten to take all her pills and "just never wake up." I finally went no contact - with her AND my sibs - when I was 60 yrs old. I am STILL working through the PTSD anger - from a Life completely wasted - a Life I can't get back and have do overs.
Diagnosed narc here. Collapse/mortification is horrific, lost 30 lbs in 3 weeks unable to sleep in that time as well, multiple all nighters with 2-3 hours of sleep between. It's existential, like disintegrating it's also the only time in life I felt in touch with reality and truly alive. My childhood defenses were shattered.
At least you’re aware
What caused this to happen?
@@janeward3572 Partner of 6 years left me.
@@rmr1300 from what I can gather & from my experience, you are fairly unique & I hope you are getting help
It's not as bad as the shit you pile on empaths! No sympathy you lot do it on purpose!
Very true I’m 60 and I’ve seen this with many narcs but it happened around 60 and older but yes it’s great because absolutely nothing is left for them that’s appealing their emptiness is evident for all to see. Very validating to see the justice. They absolutely do get exposed and the game is up.
They can buy hair, new wardrobe, better car etc. It's hard to get sources though, because people who are older can't be bothered.
Yes mine was like that he is 60yrs old and got with an older woman as him being sick I'm so glad she can be bother with him
In my experience the collapse really kicks in in their mid 60s
Ex narcissist here. A collapse is basically our false selves breaking into self-protective delusion
Thank you for the definition .👍
Were you a narcissit yourself or your ex?
A NARC CAN NEVER BE CURED.
@@rajaa1171 i was the narcissist
@@r4suli thank you for response
Is it ok if I ask you what is your advice to other people with NPD do to help themselves & their families ? e.g CBT or other behavioural modifications thetherapies ? I m trying to find help for my 24 yr old son Many thanks
So a narcissist creates a false self. So your son is protecting himself through self-protective delusion. So the only way to break that false self is to have a traumatic situation to break it
My husband a Covert Narcisist is 43 , he is on the pathway to self destruction . He just could not live a simple well balanced clean life with his family. He had to literally take of his mask and reveal his true self Now he is doing such unbelievable and ridiculous things that he has become a laughing stock 😂. Those who didn't believe me before now totally support me . Alhamdulillah I got rid of him .
Mere husband covert narcissist hen, unki age 58, shadi ko 23 Saal ho gaye, first day se hi unka behavior un exceptable tha, narcissism ke bare me pata chala to sari confusion clear ho gae. Mere husband ki ex wife mujhe Facebook pe follow kr rahi he taki mere husband ko un mask kr sake, Lekin me to pehle hi sab janti hon, samajh nhi a raha us se contect karon ya nhi, ap advice karen
Thank you, I did see the soften of the Narcissist while married in our 40's, then by 50 he was on the prowl for supply, even a bromance to keep his spirits up. Alcohol became a real factor in his life.
They will always find a new source. It's inevitable.
Assuming they are still charming and somewhat good looking.
@@stevenwilson879 See, you just proved yourself wrong there. Something else that's inevitable is aging, and looks fade, even after lots of money is spent on fake enhancements, father time always catches up. Also, the sources are never a long term solution, and they are left always needing to find another; no relationship lasts, so the fact that they 'can' find another source is just another source of pity.
@@countrystud1986 so true. My mirror in the morning.
@@countrystud1986 So true. But now I don't care..
A narcissist can not change !!!
They have incredible regenerative power through their narcissist. Their incredible strength of recovery is akin to a phoenix' s ability to rise from the ashes.
I have easily predicted his every move. Now, I am at the brink of taking my narcissist neighbor down for trying to intimidate and traumatize me at my front door, after he discovered I was helpless in a near mortal disabling health event 9yrs ago. He assumed he had a forever loathing next door after he targeted me. Now that I have suddenly fully recovered from my catastrophic failure, my neighbor is scared shitless! I got suddenly ghosted and now flying monkeys. His last husband ghosted him for what he willfully, cowardly and cruelly did to me. His newly recruited young and dumb 2nd husband is his current flying monkey. He has no clue what happened. He is taking a very dangerous risk, trying to get near me to find out, and report back to his narcissist. I am taking his husband down with him. I remain gray rock and no contact until the moment I strike. When I am done with them, he will never take advantage of another disabled person again!
I walked out of the bank and one of the two just walked past without noticing me. I followed him up an ally towards the parking lot. Ther are no cameras in the ally and lucky for him,, there were people present. Had he looked right behind him, he would've crapped his pants bolted, again. I caught up to him in my car. He realized I was a flying monkey 🐒 🙈 and quickly dove into Panera Bread. I recently overcame my disabilities regained my strength and speed. They were watching me suffer from inside their house for years. I'm no longer a flying monkey. I'm a condor. When I am done, they will never intimidate a disabled or disadvantaged person again! I am still disabled. They have no clue. BTW they do know the disgrace they are. Or they wouldn't be running away from me, their neighbor. Super Nova is eminent
Yikes! Be careful...😳😬😵
@@kathleencampbe3ll70 I have both of them scared of me now. I overcame a massive renal failure and constantly overwhelming pain, and took them from enjoying watching my suffering in my yard, to running away from me. The next time he flying monkey me, I'm going to send his new supply husband to the ER at the hospital across the street. Disabled people never get the chance to go after cruel and abusive people. I am still disabled. Its permanent. I'm a biker. That is permanent also. Until I know, that I am safe in my home, I am only applying more and more pressure on my narc neighbors. In NY I get out of jail in the morning, for knocking their teeth out. I am 64yrs old. Am I supposed to care? Hell NO! I gave them a decade to be decent. I was afraid of them for 10yrs. Now they are afraid of me!
@@keithhults8986 I have a covert malignant narcissistic neighbour and her husband and two friends are her flying monkeys. My husband and I have just gone grey rock. Zero contact and I can feel her crumbling. Seriously mate, it's the only way to go. Don't do anything but ignore them. If you do ANYTHING else you are providing supply. The only way is to starve them to death. Thank God that he has given you the strength to get this far despite all the hurdles that have come your way. It has made you a stronger and better version of yourself. You must stay strong, focus on your life, forget them. Remember vengeance is mine, so sayeth the Lord. He is their judge. Leave it to him. Trust in the Lord (or however you see a higher being).
You are not clear about your narration!
My ex collapsed when he was about 45. We then talked about midlife crisis. Now, ten years later, I discover about narcissism, and I recognize everything. I wonder if narcissism and midlife crisis are somehow related.
There is such a fine line in discerning.
Thinking everyone has critical thinking as we were taught in early childhood/teen years.I have with respect, people have their way of thinking and doing things only to come to find out about this dysfunctional cycle that causes narcissism. Narcissism interferes with normal steps in interacting with a person/ people, to have growth within yourself and with each other.Instead it promotes division and strife all the time.
So,it can be hard to discern and understand which is which with these types of people.
Also, with yourself because are actions can be affected by their actions and reactions.
There is an old saying:"You are who you hang around with."
@@sheilamurry9875 Is the "old saying" 4 months old by any chance?😉
You are so on point. I dealt with Everything you discussed two weeks ago.
Same here, I'm living with one for the past 28 years
@@mariafernandes9227 I had to chuckle when you said 28 years. My covert malignant narcissistic neighbour and her flying monkey husband love to remind us that they have lived here for 28 years. He has also said adamantly that they will NEVER move. We are planning our escape. Sounds to me like you should be planning yours...
Collapse is very rare with social media- i.e. Facebook- as a constant supply for them.
Very well explained. Narcs fade away with time.
I hope so. I pray everyday she will finally go away one day.
@@joshuaanzalone2060 God bless you always.
Indervir 3 years strong through 24/7 hacking,harassment,gangstalking. She doesn't get it NO. I'm not backing my NO down either.
@@joshuaanzalone2060 👏👏
Indervir yes God is my rock through all of it and I pray constantly. I truly believe one day she will back off.
Ex narc always said "i am the God" 🙃 now i know why
They even jealous and envy God. That makes them the ultimate demon
My ex thought the old hym how grest though srt was about him!
One of the things I noticed about a long term awful narc situation who has "discarded: me (yay!) long before I realized they were a narc was I sensed this like of Spirit. Later on, I realized this seeming Godlessness, or in Old English "GOOD"lessness was the first clue.
He is the God of dustbins and rotten garbage, his whole personality is filthy muddy.
Yeap, they hate God, even some of the ones who go to church every Sunday.
From what you are describing, I am pretty sure my mother is experiencing narcissistic collapse and it is terrifying for her, I think. My family mostly Gray rocks her and her neighbors avoid her. She constantly complains about people who have "wronged" her, and her complaints are about the most petty and ridiculous things, like how somebody didn't give her a chocolate chip cookie. "But Mom, that cookie has chocolate chips and M&Ms."
Every narcissist does that. That's how we know that it's a real condition & those are the symptoms...It's not a personality, it's a personality DISORDER!
@@aditikumari3094. Good for him.
I have been exposing narcs by seeing them and hearing them. I realize how fake they are and i dont even react to their sht. I dont even get apologies for all the sht ive been through by narcs. They Never show remorse for mistreating me. I usually get depressed by being hurt by all of these evil people hurting me for no reason.
I am sorry.
@@pearlsdaughter2281 thanks for your online support, I just came across a couple today and I told my real name and then they started the smear campaign going against me happening from a bunch of insecure people with too much time on their hands and a lot of insults, I swear that these people are possessed by demons heart or conscious anymore. What they do is they find my traits and things that I like and they try to turn it against me
So on point + very good to watch.
Heartbreakingly accurate.
My covert narcissistic mother did have a breakdown once and I think she was in her early forties. She started crying nonstop and was extremely cold. She curled up on the couch and we covered her up in blankets. The thing that is most irritating to me is that they were such strict Catholics, they called for the priest to come over instead of getting medical help. The priest decided that he could remove the restriction of fasting during Lent since she was sufficiently sick. As I recall she got over it after a three or four hours. Then life continued as before.
I cant imagine if their really collapse, gosh, maybe a rage almost anytime and attacking every thing, im living with one, they really dont like it when they realize they had flaws
I told the truth in front of a whole room of people. The N jumped up, limbs were loose, hands bent backwards, running from room to room, flailing arms, and stomping like a child temper tantrum.
Flaws?? Just about everything about them is WRONG, everything they think, say, do and act, especially the way they treat others like a pile of TRASH and exploit them... How can they be surprised about having someone find a 'flaw'? Their entire existence is erected on a big fat LIE. Try finding something RIGHT about them!
I was married for 39 years to a man that I did not realize was a narcissist approximately 8 years ago ago I started withdrawing from him I couldn't do for him all the time anymore I was tired and falling into a deep hole of depression heated up leaving me and having me falsely arrested and removed from my home back in April of this year and in May exactly may 15th the woman that he had an affair with was also married she broke it off with him and he committed suicide
I was no contact for years.
I missed the breakdown.
I heard from a neighbor NM was getting weird.
Then NM died.
I like you and I like your presentation of the subject. Thank you dear sir!😊💐🙏
Danish 🥰 , I appreciate that you 🙂🥰 don't speak quickly 🙂🥰 , Thank You 🥰♥️🧬
Wow Danish,you are doing agreat job... helping millions 🙏👍🔥🙏so much Stay blessed 🙏❤️🔥
It’s what they need, whatever it takes to see who they are.
My close relative had a narcissistic collapse when she was 40. It developed into an acute psychosis and she was never the same after that. She went to contact with her siblings and father accusing them of talking badly about her behind her back. She became tve opposite of her previous grandiose self, behaving oddly and doing the opposite of social norms. There was never any connection, never any depth or reciprocity. Behaviourly and socially she became a basket case, while incredibly retaining a sharp intellect. I don’t know how that’s possible…?
Very interesting to hear that narc collapse is common around age 40. Explains why my parents marriage deteriorated so much when I was 5 years old. It never recovered. Just became more and more co dependent and toxic. Messed me up and made my mum die of cancer.
I believe this can be considered a tower Moment in Tarot after they hurt the people they care about it's like a dose of reality.
YES 🌹.
Thanks Danish!
Learning with your teachings!
Excellent explanation! Thank you.
Ex narc looks 68 yet hes only 57..He looks so old and aged quickly in just one year..Mind boggling!!!!
I've seen the exact same thing happen with mine. I didn't actually believe that people could look like they aged 10 years in just one due to the insane self-inflicted stress they are under.
Odd someone mention how they look my girlfriend left me for a year and when she came back her hair had turned gray muscle tone was definitely less she looked much older
As someone who was suffering narcissistic abuse, long before you were born, I'm impressed and this is well worth my time and a subscription.
It's also a breath of fresh air, to hear 'shit', where it's entirely appropriate.
I look forward to the next video with great interest.
Spot on.
Mate Your work here is Priceless…..Thankyou
I really don’t think narcissist Can be recovered to a “normal” human being behaviour personality
4:24 _”This collapse usually begins around the the age of 40. That’s why narcissists around this age groom their supplies even MORE …”_
OH MY LORD … about a month after I got sexually assaulted by my female doctor, I got _another_ which stopped me in my tracks to try to figure out what the hell was going on.
I realized this person had zeroed in on me and had intimate access to personal information on me. I asked myself, ‘how could I even the score?’ So I eventually figured out that she is 39 years old.
Not only had I been taken in by her charm, I was also taken in by her attractiveness too. But here she was, turning 40.
When I saw her the last time, she was about 8 months pregnant with her FIFTH child.
This was the day I saw behind the mask. She could now see that I wasn’t taken in by her superficial “beauty” anymore. I think I witnessed her having part of this collapse too.
Wow.
Brother you got the age wrong , if it starts at 40 , and if they are narcissistic parent , there kids can be their flying monkeys , who young they would be , in general the start age of their collapse I think you got wrong , it’s like late 60’s in my opinion
Agree
Very good. Thank you. This is good insight.
I think my ex husband has had narcissist collapse , fake suicide attempt, took fake fire arm to local park and apparently tried to get police to shoot him !!! Got convicted for this. Altjough he seems to have recovered, has alienated our teenage children from me and appears to be continuing with his life. Would this just be a cover, for my benefit. I know he is in a lot of financial trouble.
Tagic.
I believe I am highly empathic but I wonder if became narcissistic during a depression period of my life. Do you have any thoughts or insight on this?
Keep reminding yourself that you are a broken human being with unmet needs. The root of narcissism is just insecurity and it's okay. I highly encourage watching Dr Gabor Mate
Maybe you learned some behaviors from narcs in your life as a way to survive…I hope that helps and makes sense. No one deserves to feel dismissed, crazy, unloved….we all want a sense of love and connection. 💚🌈🦄💙🙏✌️🤗
@@r4suli Narcissism is not OK. It is very bad. If you think it is OK you are not cured from it.
I have a different perception. That the narcisist is in depth aware of his insecurity all the time and afraid. And people around him, spec. in smaller places know it too. And that it holds on fear to oppose. because if a separate person does it, will be defeated. I could never immagine that people dont know a person whom they see on everyday bases. The question is that people are too UNINFORMED and do not know the NAME if the psychological disease. Need just much more information so that people are on the same level informed as about alchocholism or diabetis f.ex.
You mentioned the narcs break down of no recovery, but what happens to them when they collapse or they come to a point of no recovery? Do they kill themselves or just die
Or maybe they keep suffering inside until they die? they'll end up being alone bcos they realize they're no longer able to get more supply.
@@Athree120979 maybe? I just know they are very evil and wicked people. I pray for my enemies.
I believe most collapsed narcs don't recover. They are more than likely old, now. Retired. Not supply from work. No longer the boss. Kids grown & gone. Looks have faded. Everyone is on to you... They have shit on everyone that cared about them. Nothing left.
@@truecrimejungle It can happen to anyone. But I believe it affects the older narcs more, as they have burned all their bridges to the ground. And their beauty fades with age which hurts attracting new supplies. As the narc ages, people their age wise up. The younger/innocent aren't attracted to the old & ugly unless they are rich.
Yes, they kill themselves or others...check out the James Addie case. Typical.
Super. TY
Oh shit. I’ve done this to several narcissists. I always thought it would be a good thing to put them in their place and I was always naturally good at sniffing out their vulnerabilities. I never meant to destroy them just set them straight but it makes sense to me now why they couldn’t handle it
Thank you 😊
its necessary for a narcissist to stop being one, you have to destroy their ego to cause collapse
That seems to happen very very late in their life?
My narc is 38 and she's been having collapses since her early 20s, but she's so stubborn she's always managed to deny her reality and not clean her shit. I went no contact but she came back with insults 😂 I didn't know what narcissism was then
Usually, yes. It happens when their tactics no longer work, so as an example: if they can no longer pull off using their sexual manipulations because they are no longer as physically attractive, or when everyone in the family just can’t with them anymore because its been so relentless that not even the enablers can ignore it, or if they get dementia etc.
@@inkystarz so it might take years for them to get the taste of what they did to others? Not fair.
How one can b so self centered, and greedy, but on the flip side b so self destructive???
I think I broke the covert narc that tried to ruin my life. I saw her mask slip really early and my sigma traits (strong boundaries) meant none of her devaluing and gaslighting (LIES) worked. 3 days later she faked a suicide and ended up in hospital for observation. She never came back to the house. I believe she ran out of supply and had nowhere else to go. I sincerely hope she got the help she needed at the hospital but I suspect she also lied to the therapists. The chances of them using a collapse to get actual help is slim, very slim.
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Taking first step admitting they have a problem is nearly impossible for them. Pity the souse locked in who actually takes marriage vows seriously. It’s insecurity yes “delusion” word is perfect!
Well I had a strong feeling that this defines the person I recently just left
I wasn’t there very long I was there for 2 1/2 months I’ve had a lot of experience with narcissist at varying degrees and levels on their journey. And this is just part of my life because those injuries and those wounds that were created were meant to open me up as a spiritual worker
And I understand that you get to a point in your life when you’re asking like is it ever going to end like is this all there is did I not learn everything I needed to know?
I knew that there was a good possibility that he was a narcissist but I gave him an opportunity because I’ve known this man for 32 years. I had never known him to be like this he was actually raging on the phone before I left and drove 600 miles to see him for the first time in 25 years. We were very very close at least I thought we were For the first eight years of our relationship but it was strictly platonic and he was basically friend zoned I wasn’t looking for a relationship I was looking for myself
He lived with me for about a year because he was in dire need of a place to stay and many many years later I would go stay with him for three months get a job working overnight
While my children were sleep because daycare was very expensive and he’s claiming that I had a babysitter which I did not know that he also made up a lot of stories about me that he was telling me over the phone and in person when I saw him that we’re not real. I also realize that he had this pattern of Ramirez with women and I was one of them after he told me a lot of things that I didn’t know About the time we spent together and I was eight years
He even confessed that the fantasy is often times much better than the reality so I think it kind of ruins his fantasy when he attempts to have some type of relationship and reality
Anyway it was pretty bad I got out there and he was such a severe hoarder his dog had been neglected emotionally and also his health was being neglected and I had to dive into that because there’s no way I could stand it anymore he was completely ignorant and didn’t seem to care was emotionally unavailable and removed and that’s essentially what our relationship was like in the first 2 1/2 months so I called it quits and left I tried to communicate as much as I could with him letting him know where I stood and why I left and the problems that I found that were happening in our interjections and failed attempt at a relationship. And of course it was met with a lot of sarcasm and cruelty and there was a lot of gaslighting
So it got to the point where I just really became annoying and I had to block him on social media
There’s a lot of things that concerns me about him energetically I feel strongly that he has some serious issues outside of narcissism
But he’s 54 years old so when I arrived and I listen to him talk he repeated the same stories over and over and over again for 2 1/2 months but the majority of what he was conveying to me was about his failed relationships with these women and of course everything was their fault he played no partner took out responsibility or accountability for anything not really
And I think he was trying to make a point and almost an example out of them like a warning for some thing possibly but he definitely sounds like the person you’re describing someone who had a collapsed who started becoming his own narcissistic supply and who bamboozled himself into believing things that were simply untrue for survival reasons because ultimately that is why a narcissist is trying to do is survive at any cost
It really was a very sad sight to see and I do understand that he shares this in common with his father because his father is very much of the same thing and I know that he spent plenty of time around his dad and Nicole seem to be very inverted or introverted is probably the better word And that’s probably where he started masking all this strange coping behaviors and deliverance as well as all of the awkward behaviors that he didn’t want anyone to know about him became a narcissist himself I truly believe his dad is a narcissist from the stories that he shared with me and me in the first eight years it was only upon re-acquainting with him that he shared anything till I really don’t know who I was dealing with but I ended up nicknaming him Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde because that’s exactly And he reminded me of this was a person I didn’t recognize and nine I’m just glad that that part is over
Do you think avoidants can collapse in the same way?
No
An avoidant has an identity, they might get low or depressed which is normal
What's this new term avoidants. Never heard of it. Wt the hell.
I saw my narcis-sister collapse after I exposed her to her 2nd supply guy. She suddenly came down with this mystery illness for about 2 weeks, saying, "I think it's a cold. I think it's the flu. I think it's a new COVID strain."....even though she's a nurse and tested negative for COVID. He son would check on her and said she was in the furthest room of her home, in the guest bed in the corner. Normally she treats her son and our parents badly but when her 2nd supply guy left her she was calling them crying about how "sick" she was, just needing supply. She doesn't know it was me the exposed her to both men and I know if she does find out she'll seek revenge.
I agree. Not to complete normacy.
A narc passed and victims couldnt even pretend to mourn..pathetic end
I wonder which sex is more narc, women or men? Any statistics??
Do they collapse or just kill their victims?
My person melted down Christmas week, sent me catfished photos, I asked him why and he disappeared~
This was very interesting..It would be awesome to have a follow up video on the same topic.
40!!!!!!!!!!!!....right on the money.
The way you say Shit is so cute. Love your videos. Thank you, 🙏🦄😊
I wish you would not say it. Find a better word. We don't need to be reminded.
Narcissist wouldn't go to therapy 😕 they say there is nothing wrong with them.
My narc ex got quite after I broke up with him can anyone tell why?
He found someone else
I am 70 years old and I was married to a narcissist 38 years my children are all dealing with that even though they are not aware of it she is about 66 now the one good thing is if she does collapse the Lord will be there to catch her why because what he starts he finishes I may never see it but thanks be unto God who loves us and gives us the victory if we trust him one suffering for the Lord and family praise God
If God created them then their destiny is set and she knows the outcome. They are a cocreator in the Hell of their own making and can go straight there after they die.
Can they stay in this collapse stay for a long period of time? I swear that my ex husband was in the collapse stage throughout our 13yr marriage. He had his temporary "together " times, but they were short lived and as the years went on the shorter "together" spats became compiled with more insidious thoughts followed by vindictive actions and pure rage. He always had the rage, but then he hit a point where he started claiming that some invisible, secret society or group were communicating with him through various ways like license plates that were stopped at a light around him, emails and notes that I wasn't given the privilege to see. One time he walked around the house with a machete because he swore that he was being followed on his way to pick me up from the hospital (surprise, surprise he was late, very late).
There some paranoia/schizophrenia there
i read about gang stalking. you should read about it if you get a chance.
I looked at one video about gaze. Didn't have comment section
I have had that gaze after we were falling apart. Ask him why was he staring
He said I can't look at you and I said it is creepy
It's giving me the creeps and it was. Also, you sent me a link for 1 on 1 and Feb was full and zmarch was not on there. When will you put up?
Thats their karma. ❤
I want to know how to induce collapse. A process called mortification.
I have a feeling he is aware of it all the time.
Do you want to say they are able to push so deep in subconcious their insecurity? Dont think so - their behaviour would not be so strange. uptight then.
Danish. Is a brain stroke considered as, or can it be the sign of a Narcissist collapse?
Can covert narcissists collapse in their 80s? And what does it look like?
Ha ha ha 😂 thr r hardly some people who stand 80's n if they r narc's n since they too hav collapsed enough by now what's the point?🤔🤔🤔🤔
for some of us, we wish that they would collapse in front of an oncoming train or oncoming traffic,
Thx for this video. Makes sense but at age 40 could they instead of groom torn into a big ass for whatever reason? If so what's this mean?
What happens when the narcissist is a mental health nurse practitioner
How?
She simply learns to _modify her behaviour_
The white background, very harsh lmao. Accidental flashbang in low light
And when they approach 50. Folks float away. After 50 to 60, not much. Older... like the Universe heat death.
Is there any cure for paranoid psychosis.
I enjoyed your video, but were you cursing in the video? If so, I found that hard to listen to. Can you do a video where you don't use the 's' word as much? Thanks.
Well said! We need to communicate with respect, not be like the narcissist themselves 😊
@@salmaabbasi6978 oh please, relax.
The s word is in the Bible frequently but it's too harsh for Lynn's little ears.....
I really dislike this word.
R u for real? Shit is not a curse word...grow up..
You say break down past the point of recovery...is recovery possible otherwise? Is there hope for them to change?
Nope... They really can't change because they do not see that there is something to change...
Go to Professor Sam Vaknin's channel. He identifies himself as a narcissist and teaches about it in most interesting ways. He talks about becoming aware of his condition here. ruclips.net/video/sU305NqXT94/видео.html
@@fox_85 some can
@@fox_85 there are self aware narcissists
They're in survival mode. So they need to find healthy, coping mechanisms
Exactly let them suffer
Wow. This is early hair
If you really think about it, this is very scary.
In order to understand how scary is when you have an experience with this ratchet, corrupt, rotten, disgusting, crap of flesh and bones, a meat suit, the real bad people. They are psychopaths.
Why the age of 40?
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Back then when Danish used to bestylish😂
mouse? more like rat or weasel
maybe they collapse from a deflated ego?