What happens when a narcissist knows you know and what to expect?
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024
- In this episode, I talk about what happens when a narcissist knows you have figured them out and what you should expect. I explain in-depth how the abuse escalates and how they try to love bomb you into thinking that they have changed and if that doesn't work, how they punish you through narcissistic rage.
#danishbashir #npd
When a narcissist knows you know..... they are going to provoke you to look crazy so no one believes you.
Bingo
They were probably doing that behind your back the whole time too. Prepping everyone. My ex used to tell all the neighbors horrifically false stories about me and I found this out YEARS later when visiting a store in the old town and saw an old neighbor.
@@maimyabaebaby8146 Yep! The smear campaign. They make sure they devalue you to others so you look crazy when you say anything negative about them!
Yeah
My husband did the same
U cant hide it, and the more you find out about them the worse it'll get cause youll be standing up for yourself. Happening to me rn, its scary. Once u find out they literally look different in your eyes. That person you thought u knew jus dont exist, they never did. Run!
You are so right…run…but some like my ex will never give up. My ex is still stalking me 7 years after I left him. The best thing is to get informed on the subject and never get involved with them in the first place.
@@Katrn30 I'm sorry that the stalking shit keeps happening 💔
I agree that we have to keep informing ourselves about different types of predatory personalities out there so we NEVER have to put up with their b.s anymore.
That is exactly how it feels. Like you never knew wtf they actually were and that's why it went on ad long as it did. Especially if they raised you.
@@Katrn30 I got lucky and my ex stalker died from his own bad behavior in 2020 but if he hadn't I'd still be watching my back at every new job and every solo trip out of my house. It's fkn terrifying 😳
@@Unherd_Of I am so happy for you that you got free. Yes it is scary at times because he is not giving up…and with his violent military background and court martial, he won’t hesitate to kill me when he is ready. I try to look forward.
The biggest mistake I made when I found out my husband was a malignant narcissist was inform him of this and try to get him to go to therapy. This of course only set me up for abuse from marriage counselors as they would side with him. Once I realized that therapy was not going to work on him I told him I was not sure I could stay in the marriage. From that moment on my life was a living hell. He didn’t even try to hide the abuse anymore and I was stuck living in the house with him an absolute terror of what might happen next. The best advice I can give anyone in this situation is to leave quietly I understand this is incredibly difficult to do because as the kind person that you probably are you feel like you should inform the person that you’re leaving, but you are not dealing with a normal person.
Spot on!
"Leave QUIETLY"
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Mad or bad, or both? It appears to be madness, but more like badness, is dark alright!
Remember, that there is ~80% of narcissists so it’s a big chance that you run to another one trying to expose them. Therapists are not an exception
@@hardmurakami you speak the truth . I concure
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After costing me my home, my savings, friends family.. 30 years later I WALKED with nothing but the clothes on my back
Starting over at 60.
He’d found my replacement. A pole dancing clone of me 30 years younger, strung out on drugs. But I guess she looked good in my underwear and my car. Apparently it didn’t work out.
30 years. 30 hours was too long. I couldn’t get rid of him. Had no idea what was going on. Discover my mom was a narc, and so were many of my ‘friends’.
Wasted life. The kids are lucky this is east knowledge now.
They start telling lies about you to others.
Yes, lying is second nature to them, as is gaslighting
Yes, the smear campaign, their most devastating punishment tool!
Yes they will make you look like a creetin! They will
Turn you into the town pariah ! They will make up disgusting lies about you and spread them amongst their friend’s girlfriends and sister n laws! All
Of their jealous raggedy azzes and narcissists and all in cahoots. He believes whatever they say because they are all
Alike! Facts.
smear campaign
It is so hard when the narcissist is mother in law who is putting poison into her own grandchild 's mind about their own mother and the child believes nana.
'Monster" is not an understatement. They get worst once they know you know. It's like you are sharing your house with a Demon.
Your right thats what it feels like
@@tanningbuckshot5811 parents are like this
YES! God revealed that to me, IT IS a demonic spirit of Narcissism! That's why we absolutely need the Heavenly protection in tge Mighty Name of Yeshua HaMashiach- Jesus Christ! Demons tremble at the sound of His name and we are told in Ephesians to put on the Armor of God daily! 🙏❤️🙏
Yeah true living in a haunted house. Haha made me laugh a bit but the fear is real. Anything might happen any moment and all the blame will be on our head.
Right
For some reason they think no one can see past their lies but their lies are too obvious and it becomes too predictable 😅
When I finally joined the dots I felt a huge sense of relief. As if a diagnosis was received. These people are sick, very sick.
Narcissism hurts the narcissist more than it hurts the victim. Their hearts are closed and hardened and their whole body hurts. They can’t see beauty or feel peace. The hell of their life gets worse and worse with each wrong action
2:38 “The best way to deal with them is to leave and run.”
I learned to pretend not to know. Sometimes you have to play the role of the fool to fool the fool who thinks they're fooling you. That's how you set them up, by flipping the script. Don't ever let them know that you know. They'll destroy themselves eventually. It's hard to do though. Be fake nice, then ghost/block them.
😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯💯🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 yes love you must be a Gemini ♊️ because baby my narc husband thought he had me but I was 1000 steps ahead of his crazy self❤
That’s what I did as I prepared to leave , it’s the best way.
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True I had nothing but problems telling the truth in their face
Spot on... you win in the end..you get rid of them..
Sometimes, by the time you realise their shit, they have already moved onto next destroy their next victim
I have never heard a therapist mention a psychopathic narcissist. That fits the person perfectly because I was torn between being told said person was a psychopath by a counselor and seeing all the similarities to narcissism in them. So the two can exist in one person.that really helps me.
It's called "Cluster B" personality disorders, because they come in a Cluster.
Cluster B includes: Narcissism, Anti-Social, Histrionic and Borderline Personality disorders.
Each of them has sub-categories.
Like Anti-Social has Psychopathy and Sociopathy... etc... etc...
And what I mean when I say "they come in a cluster" is that practically all of them have 2 or more disorders at the same time.
Like for example my mom has Malignant Narcissism and Borderline.
And my sister has Communal Narcissism and Histrionic.
And sometimes it's really hard to classify them.
So the best thing to do is just call them "Cluster B".
There is no actual need to classify them more than that to know who you need to avoid.
No, a narcissist and a psychopath are different beasts. When a person has both narcissistic personality disorder and antisocial personality disorder, a person is called a malignant narcissist, that's the dual diagnosis. A narcissist can act antisocially, but is not antisocial per se. A psychopath can act narcissistically, but is not a narcissist per se. These disorders are pretty similar though as both are Cluster B disorders, the malignant narcissist is the dual diagnosis, but it's not an official category. Then we also have sociopaths. Every sociopath is somewhat narcissistic. The sociopath is the most common beast out of these and the one you most likely meet on a dark alley or at some parking lot dealing drugs. A sociopath differs from a psychopath. Kanika Batra has great videos about sociopathy here on RUclips.
There is a spectrum of narcissism, from pathological liar to psychopathic killer.
@@Minneolaos narcissist will destroy you mentally. Psychopath will not hesitate to destroy you with any means he deems necessary, even physical.
If you meet a narcissist and run away, you only have to stay hidden. If you meet a psychopath, however... there is no place for you to hide.
Ultimately the names in the DSM5. don't matter that much. The behaviors. do. When you have a large group of people reporting the same patterns of abusive behavior, there is a need for a label and a definition, yes. Let's just say we were living with a wild tiger that kept its claws velveted, and was beautiful and tame as a kitty. And then, without warning, you realized it was actually a tiger. This comparison is derogatory to tigers, I fear. Tigers are noble beasts, not human monsters.
If you outsmart a narcissists and they are caught in the act and are cornered, they will find new supply and completely abandon you. You are no use to them.
Yup
Yes and that is really astonishing they can delete you from there minds
You said it brilliantly “unless you corner them in the court system and they trap them selves“ one of the biggest indicators is when all their projection & accusations get flipped -
Turns out , The accuser is usually the predator in the situation
You are a savior sir and we need the knowledge you are spilling.
When I was experiencing this narcissism was not known about. Self preservation took care of me, I managed to get out with my child alive. I moved interstate & regularly. He destroyed me, physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually & financially. He even tried to come back years later while still affecting my life. Thanks Danish for your straight talking & comprehension of this insanity.
How bloody awful - I’m so sorry for you and yours.
Expect narcissistic rage!!! It is unbelievable!!!
Oh yeah ive experianced it from a parent it truly is like an adult child having a tantrum.
This is exactly what happened to mev. Completely cut off. Removed everything . Ruthless.
I’m currently dealing with a narcissistic boss. When I first found out about her, she became more aggressive with her tactics. But, I just didn’t care about anything she threw at me because I knew her number. She continued her aggression to the point where she couldn’t do anything more, and then she finally left me alone. Turnover is very high in my team. So, I’m just waiting for my time to deliver the final blow. Just want her to know she messed with the wrong person.
Thank you for explaining all about to understand what a narcisist is about to do.The more I understand it and the more I can relax and calm down my anger.That's why I felt to be crazy but now I know that I'm not crazy like the narcisist wants me to believe.Thank you so much
Not crazy. Have you ever watched Ingrid Bergman in 'Gaslight?'
Another fan fave of mine, if you can go beyond suspense into horror is 'Rosemary's Baby'
If you want something more modern, theres 'Midsomer.' They are all perfect tales of gaslighting, (of course) manipulation, machiavellianism, deception and sadism. There is nothing wrong about any of the main characters except there are crazy people using them.
Well and good to say "Don't let them take you by surprise" but my narc ex-husband did things I could never foresee a human doing. We signed a separation agreement and we were both satisfied with it. He told me he was giving it to his lawyer to file with the courts, saving me that legal cost. I waited and waited for the confirming paperwork. Nothing. Finally on December 1st I get paperwork that is a separation agreement that left me with nothing but the shirt on my back and order to vacate our jointly owned house in 3 weeks, the day before Christmas Eve! This is totally legal where I live in Canada. In order to fight it, I would have to file my own separation agreement to counter it which meant getting a lawyer just before Christmas to draft up another document. I could not find a lawyer who would work that fast but God saved the day! I found he had lied on the financial disclosure and in fact had several hidden bank accounts. So I said, "No, just leave it as is and I'll see you in court. I want a judge to see the guy who would throw his wife out just before Christmas and have hidden bank accounts." He had to pay almost $1000 to get his lawyer to cancel that first separation agreement before it went to court. I filed the original separation agreement and left him.
My lawyer was bribed by sicilian mother in law!!!!!!!!!@
Don t trust humans!
Congratulations, I tap into this courage
Good for you for keeping your head together
"Shit hits that fan abd the whole situation changes." Love it. True. Brace yourself then.
My son is a Grandiose Narcissist- I was so confused by his behaviour for the past twenty years - his actions & words increased is disrespect, abusive worse & worse. Questions weren’t answered or stonewalled or redirected at me with rocket fuel force. He kept saying to me - you are unable to learn, you keep repeating inappropriately - you’re not listening- he was gaslighting me constantly and I was in a whirlwind of frustration, dismay, hurt, asking myself what is going on. When the Light of his gaslighting illuminated his Narcissism everything may sense. That was only the beginning- I’ve had a terrible time getting away - he’s so crafty - got baited a few time but now I’ve blocked him everywhere. I am looking to move so he won’t be able to ambush me. Thank you for all your videos So Empowering!!!
He tried every trick under the sun, mainly cut me out of finances and left with NOTHING he moved bank account, got a GREAT lawyer and got justice through the courts TG judge I think he could see through him, now live in PEACE.
Great 👍
Never ever let them know you figured them out.
Please folks.
Say nothing.
Otherwise if you do, expect a malice campaign.
If ur dealing w a psychopath, do not attempt anything alone. Especially the court process.
Hire a badass who's been through it.
I love your videos they have really helped me understand what narcissism is, it's been an absolute nightmare living with it, but I'm coping, well just about, it's probably the most traumatic thing I've ever had to deal with.
man these videos are so eye opening. my aunt is a narcissist and growing up she completely killed my self esteem. she convinced me i was useless and no one would ever love me. she still tries to get me to talk to her but i just ignore her. thank goodness for therapy or else i'd still feel the same way about myself.
Mine was a complete phantom. Her name was Meghan (so she said), told me she was 25. One time hanging around her family her mom referenced to her last 27th birthday to someone else, which I overheard and didn’t act like I heard it. I could feel this energy like she brought something up she wouldn’t have. Meghan quickly changed subject. I thought it was weird but maybe just a hiccup in her mom’s brain. To her family she was 28, to me she was 25 (I was younger), and to my friends her age would float between them. I noted it but didn’t bring it up.
She was well traveled, used to be a flight attendant. Went to India and fell in love with yoga and being a yogi. White woman with head wraps and beads everyday. Nothing wrong with that but she definitely put on that character since looking at her older photos. She also had moved a lot (like major moves, San Franscisco- Texas- DC- Peru- India- Korea etc) That was a red flag that she could never settle down in one place. Made me feel like she was running or hiding from something. I could tell she had a very colorful past but she never wanted to talk about it, even all the cool places she’d been.
The next flag was a beach day where her sister called her by a name I had never heard before (I can’t even remember the name but it wasn’t Meghan nor her middle name / nicknames). It was something so different I was blown when I saw her respond. Again, I was far enough away playing soccer that they thought I couldn’t hear. But I was so hyper vigilant at this point that my ears were perked 24/7. That one really set me off.
Her sister was a hairdresser and she used to always talk about how dumb and superficial it was as a career (acting all deep and spiritual). Years later after leaving her she is now a hairdresser and has completely changed identities, once again. No wraps, no mala beads, and bleaching and cutting women’s hair. Again, nothing wrong with that, but it made me realize she just put on a personality to fit what she thought I wanted when really I’m a dude, idc do what you want.
She also met me over Instagram. She did all the pursuing, slid into my dms and arranged to meet. Huge red flag now. Lord knows how long she had been stalking me after my previous break up.
These people pretend to be the hunters. Instead of hunting their goals tackling challenges and problems the world faces, the hunt people and see them as a challenge to dominate them. These people will waste every last drop of your energy and do nothing with it. They’ll eat chips and fall asleep in their own drool with the energy you give them. Just thought I’d share some insights and red flags looking back in hindsight. Be safe out here. If I could go back and give my younger self one piece of advice it would be to never ignore your gut/heart feelings. Your body will be screaming at you. You will feel old, tired, exhausted, choked, numb, dissociative, rageful, annoyed. The coverts are especially difficult because what you see never matches the energy you feel from them. Mine was usually smiley and loud, unless there wasn’t a big group around, but I’d feel dead and exhausted. She’d always want to be at my house the second I got home from work. Which at first I thought was cute until I realized she was trying to suffocate me and give me no alone time. My lease was running out and she was talking about moving in together. That’s when I really started thinking about my exit. I figured out a new roommate situation temporarily without telling any of my friends/roommates. Moved out when my roommates (friends with the narc) were gone on a trip. I stayed in the new place for a month before moving states too. I literally couldn’t be around any of my friends because they were all her spies it was fucked. It took me years to digest all that happened. You’ll look back at lovey doves texts and want to vomit. It was never real, remember that.
“They’ll eat chips and fall asleep in their own drool with the energy you give them” lol, quite literally my experience
This video resonated so much to me. It explains everything I've been going through. The more I know about this person, the worse it gets. Now I am willing to learn everything about this person. Only to see the red flags of others, who engage in this type of abuse. Thank you so much. Have a blessed day.
💜EXCELLENT, CONCISE CONTENT!
Just when i thought i have "Graduated" and rely on a very short list of outstanding presenters, i discovered your SUPURB info. Thank you so much!
Yes everyone needs to know this, great video
It took until my mid-seventies to finally figure out that my sister is a covert narcissist. WOW! What a relief! My entire life I had been trying to coach her, help her, and she resisted everything. I saw her financially destroy her "sugar daddy" and she tried with me, but something just seemed "off" and I was guarded. I bought groceries instead of giving her cash. But Dad used to give her $20 just to go away! 🤣 I went "no contact" last month. It's sad, but I am glad I lived to the day I figured her out. Everything makes sense now! Ty!
I literally want to stand up and celebrate you for being a straightforward line in a psychotic loop of thoughts. You are giving prisoners keys here my love and you are wonderful. I'm in stage 2 of leaving. The fallout. But this is my 3rd time in a lifetime of leaving a parent in their own misery. I Gave up scapegoat badge and I'm recovering my finances to slither away myself.
Am starting the process will are at the first stage love bombing and an assuming did your method work
To everyone here who was almost been killed leaving. I am so so sorry and please give yourself a break for the ptsd you definitely have afterwards. Soon though you will see that was a bubble in time and space but it is not how "the world abroad is" not even close. We run to each other for help. Like this kind man making a safe space for us to seek information ✨️
You are so right with having PTSD! I was diagnosed with PTSD, depression, anxiety and with a Narcissist husband of 30+years together & married he has tried to have my life taken away so many times!! Being financially dependent with him and disabled is the hardest thing that holds me back!! He’s getting ready to make the worse of the worse for me and I need to be ready!! Abuse of everything I’ve ever gone through my life with him is unmanageable and scary!! I pray every single day and night for help and I hope I’m not to late 😢🙏🏼
@@dianelopez8344 I can guarantee your depression and anxiety will dissipate as soon as you are away from them
@@dianelopez8344 soon God will give u a new way
I got tired in the end and began to mirror them. When I received an unkind message I used the same message back to them. When they kept blocking and unblocking me on social media I just blocked them, and blocked the new profile that sprung up. When I kept getting ghosted I completely iced them out. I just didn’t have the energy to be bothered with them any more.
This was so good and right on time! Thank you 🙏
Thank you SO much! I just figured out my adult daughter is a narc & I never will let myself be "alone with her" ever again. Everything you say makes so much sense & rings so true!
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Narcissists dont just happen, one of the parents is a narcissist and the other is an enabler.
@@HeartFeltGesture can you elaborate?
Bro good... I just escaped a delusional psychotic narcissist. Every stage he mentions is spot on... she made me pay a big price for leaving her... so glad for videos like this.
Social media is the epitome of narcissism and that makes this a total paradox.......
I told my narc that "that girl" that he lived with was gone.........I saw the look on his face he knew the jig was up. I now have a sister trapped in the abuse cycle. She won't even call him a narcissist, feels sorry for him. 18 years with him its too late. I have an aunt that spent over 50 years with one and has had a total break with reality and wanders around in some fantasy. She nursed him until his death and he was evil to his last breath and tortured her to the very end. There are lots of narcissists out there.
I was retraumatized and psychologically damaged at a place meant for healing by a "spiritual guru" who was also my boss, and who's a poster child for narcissism. This is a big, influential spiritual wellness center targeted 100% at Westerners, in Himalayas, India. I'd like to speak out but don't have the voice. Would you like to hear my story and maybe present it on your platform so that others escape this trap of a place? You have literally saved me. Thanks for all that you do 🙏🏽
Telling my Ex what I thought he was made his abuse to me even worse. 🍒
They have to blameshift onto you to keep themselves from seeing their own shit! Hold our ground the crap will be known eventually...
I lost it at my narc. All the crap he did behind my back just boiled up to the top. He was so calm. I’m terrified now.
Be cautious. I got my head slammed and knocked unconscious. Cops would have taken his side. He's part of the community, I'm a transplant. Small town USA. Good ole boy system. He didn't mean to knock me out. He was thinking of a way out of his predicament instead of trying to help me. Sick, twisted POS! I caught him arriving home at 5am. Told me he was going to bed the night before at 10:30pm. My gut told me otherwise. I went to look. NOT HOME! He was so cruel with his "confession". Had begged for the truth many times. Wouldn't give it. He had his house sold, moved in with an unfortunate looking, meek, doormat and they are getting married ( will be his 4th) and building a house. All that within a month of him assaulting me. Blocked me and I haven't heard from him since.
I wish I had known to expect this. It was like X had gone mad. X looked perfectly sane to everyone else, but I could see in their eyes, they way they would smile and smirk at me. X hated me. I thought X would be more than happy to see me gone. I think I would have preferred to have been beaten to a bloody pulp, but that would make X look bad. I just never, even after all that time, never expected such a calculated campaign of sadistic revenge. X must have enjoyed it very much. It was a virtuoso performance. Hats off to X. If I had any idea what was going to hit me I would have left everything behind, packed my bags and run for it.
You are so accurate! My ex narc studied me by hacking my cellphone and monitoring all my calls, text messages, and basically everything I did on my cell phone for well over a year without my knowledge. One time, when he was devaluing me, he mentioned that I was breathing hard and fast, and there was no need to do so (he was gaslighting me by the way) . What a horrible excuse for a human being!
When things happen, you will always be blamed. I've been told I'm crazy, ungrateful, lazy, fat. I weigh 55kgs, have worked for 50 years and reared 2 beautiful children.
He'll rant and rage and scream "divorce". Next day, it's like it's all forgotten and nwver happened. It's very sad!!
I just removed a narcissist from my life. I believe they meet the 3 worst types of narcissim based on their actions. This person held themselves out as a spiritual and religious teacher and guide, which, when coupled with narcissism, leads to spiritual abuse. Anyway, I feel that that person teeters on the line of sociopathy. I did the things you mentioned in this video, before even ever knowing about this video and the advice given. Yes, I removed them from my life before they even knew. I had removed them from my Facebook friendship. And then I went back and screenshotted all the very important Skype messages we had back and forth over the last 3 years. So then when crap hit the fan and they suddenly turned on me, and showed their very angry and aggressive side, I had already secured myself. I remembered several months ago the narcissist said that they like to remain Facebook friends with people they hold as their enemy just to get insight into their lives. Thst was a major red flag that I kept and didn't make a big deal about with them. So I knew that was one of the things I had to block right away. She would have been collecting information on me through our Facebook Facebook connection, used it in her diatribe against me. Well, in late August, all of the sudden I hear my name being slandered on a youtube video and all these lies filled with anger coming from this woman, out of the blue. She was mad at dialogue I had with someone that she calls her enemy. She even admitted to me when I confronted her about the slandered, that I didn't say anything wrong, she just didn't like thst I said anything at all. She said I was not given any authority to speak at all. I never knew til today that there were different categories of narcissists. I figured there had to be, because I have lots of narcissists in my family line. My mom is either a narcissist or a sociopath. My uncle (her brother) was a sociopath, who started a cult. He died in his sleep before he could be sentenced to prison for child involuntary servitude charges and child neglect. Anyway I wondered if you could answer the difference between the two.
I think the suggestion to advocate medical laws to require they wear bracelets was a good one. I saw that idea in the comments in another video. These doctors are describing monsters, but what good is it to diagnose and release them into the free world without trying to save other potential victims they're bound to encounter?
If you let them know they will hate you with the blaze of 1000 hell fires...did it with my boss, retaliation was so hateful that I had to resign...eventually he asked me to come back because they hate to lose control over somebody...run, as far and as fast as you can
Your video was truth it did end up physical at the end. A plan is necessary for your own protection that you don’t see coming. It does increase and it’s fuel for these sick individuals.Thank you!🙏🏻
When our eyes are finally opened to vision, it is only because we have intuited some way, known only to ourselves and to those others who have found it in themselves, to circumvent a handicap that has become so inextricably woven into our own hearts that it has become almost invisible; it finally yields only to our closest self-observation.
💩💩💩 feels as if I am rocking back and forth between a mother son duo and mother in law and husband duo. In both the cases there is a narcissist and an enabler involved. Unable to come out of their clutches. When?!oh god when will the suffering end?! Hearing that it might get worse during the no contact phase makes me shiver to my bones. Anyways with your videos I think I will manage somehow. Sigh.
Danish Bashir, thanks this is important information and exactly what's going on in my life right now I have set strong boundaries thanks. GOD-BLESS.
My daughters mom is a top tier narcissist. 12 more years to go 🤦🏾♂️
Im in the same situation. It sucks
Horrible horrible people. How someone can get pleasure out of someone elses pain is beyond me.
Yes. Dealing with Psychopathic narcissist
Repeats God's name and belief you can outdo them. Have no fear. They want you to be .
he says i am the narcisisst. He says he thinks I need mental help. Basically using my own words towards him towards me. Best thing to do is keep silent as much as possible and don't let on what you know.
Accurate Accurate Accurate Danish!!
The more the outrageous insidious attacks
Narcissistic Rage 😮
I'm going through this now I can't believe I been so damn blind for 20 yrs I seen the signs but didn't wanna except b it cuz I love him rn he is trying to make me go crazy stage I've heard him whispering alot and I ask him and he says of course I'm crazy I need to get help. Now I no I'm not crazy I got him on a bunch of recordings he still denys. I can't believe this hes freaking crazy I'm so heart broken I have no one to turn to no family. He's won
I'm just learning about this. I knew I was always the scapegoat, but 50+ years later, and my narcissist parents (both) are still alive. We have been zero contact for about 2 yes, but their voices play on, and the degradation does, too. They are quite wealthy, I'm a city bus driver living in a converted two car garage. I'm on an acre, I own it, I'm happy here, but the damage lingers. I still talk to one brother, the former golden child (until he saw and believed other than what the parental units would approve of), and I see him every few years when he is in the neighborhood. He comes to my house, I don't go to visit at the parents' place. They changed from the middle child as the golden child to the eldest as the golden child. These people, while very wealthy, are seriously messed up folks.
Most don't even know what they are! So why would they care what you may or may not be studying? They don't care!
100% correct I'm in this process of getting rid of my narcissistic parents and very confused whether I'm doing right r wrong thankyou for your video
I would start to throw psychology in his face all the time n it drove him nuts😂
Thank u so much . This is very scary😭😭😭. I have a supervisor just like this🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am a narcissist and you explained about me very well 😈
I respect you for admitting this. My ex husband is a narcissist , I left him two months ago. The last thing he would do his to take responsibility and admit he is a narcissist. I am glad I left. I am healing now and I am beginning to enjoy life with my three daughters.
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Believe me could not because they dont fixed could not destroyed nobody, god bless me more thank you again 1000000000000000×
They get paranoid, they start to insult and belittle you especially when they know the competition is real when other women are taking an interest in they're man.
He said he doesn’t feel much thst was a red flag 🚩 I ignored
Yep the Narc I know is clearly a narcissist and he knows I figured it out🤭
I already know about all the tactics I think I people should know ✌
Need to be 10 steps in front of a narc, I can assure you many know about the narc
If moving house, don't tell them
Knowledge is key hopefully this will help someone
He literally had me fo 4 tear safter I tod him I knew what he was he discerded me within a week. Came back and did it again lol. Assaulted me. Never going back
What's the treatment for this kind of behaviour ??
Death, a natural death is the only way it ends. Miserable terrorists!!
Excorsism
Take em out,and I don't mean to dinner.
@@colmanlong1032 Lol, best advice ever!! #takethemout
There’s Mental Healness on RUclips … he admits he’s a narc and got therapy, very interesting.
I was in relationship with a narcissistic person I lost everything before I realized what was going then once I called it off she got ahold of me and told me she was pregnant with twins but her family told me and she also told me she couldn't get pregnant I guess it was her away from trying to get me back again.
They analyse and observe your everything to attack, if they know you know they might please you beg you, cry, do the things that they never did, and if you ignore their love bombing or abuse will increase in their narc world they're perfect, thry can try to punish you from every way if you leave
My situarion got worse. Rape took place, our children became abused by him and he got really really ugly, begin to tell me he was going to kill me on a daily basis, told me he would end me before my father and brothers could find me or figure out what happened to me. I sought help from authorities, was told by them they couldnt help meas i was married to him.... my children are 1 yr post divorce and we are doing very well!
Its KEY what you said: E X I T S T R A T E G Y!!!!!
Knowing what’s going to happen is so helpful. The smear campaign and love bombing didn’t have the effect they were hoping for. #score
Narcissists are very predictable once you know and that’s how you defeat them.
Run Forrest Runnnnn!!!
I left the two year relationship over two months ago.. but he's still hoovering devaluing and crying that the I am jealous and have been abusive. He can see I'm happy on my own. I want to be freeee. We are both 60 years of age! How can I be free of this emotional abuse?
Could you please once tell more on types of narcissists, as it's interesting topic. I used to explore and analyse each experience in my life (as a classical narcissists child). And I've noticed long ago that different types of behavior in same circumstances actually I could call as a narcissist, even if they're absolutely not similar to each other. Even my parents obviously two fundamentally different types of person, but both still are narcissists. For me it would be really curious to compare my own observations with knowledge giving to us by social and medical institutes specialized in this field.
How do they know that you know?
Once you begin to establish boundaries and manage your emotions around them. They sniff others out like well trained canines.
What Can i do. We work together..try too keep distance..or mayby find a new job.
I feel like that I have a invisible husband, just like the movie 'The Invisible man' in 2020.
The narcissist husband 'Adrian' movie, luckily the wife could escape from the narcissist husband in the movie.
The only thing I can do is to write my guess, assumption or anxiety on the RUclips replies publicly.
Coincidently, the building name, next to where I live, is also 'Adrian', and make me feel creepy all the time.
+ Miss Claire is 김보경 +
I believe it is only true in regard to narcissists who are aware of who they are. Those who don't know what is wrong with them couldn't care less. When you KNOW, they do not know WHAT is it exactly that you know. I am telling you that as a narc myself.
Malignant narsist can hypnotise the victim covertly without our knowledge
If the narcisist have a new supply already and show lost of attention in me, could I still be in danger?
Or he just wont care to hurt me when I leave?
They have hypersensitivity……… but if you know they are looking and listening….. you can be covert as well…… I’m convinced they have super hearing and smelling….. has anybody out there observed this ???????? My narc can hear and smell things only a bloodhound can
What if the narcissistic is your adult son/daughter that's living with you?
This!!!
I think he may know , I’m not sure but because u tube have so many program now about narcs and if he tune in to u tube he will a lot of topic about it . But he play game and I’m joining him .
Awesome video, thank you
How to overcome from this situation..if he knows telepathy..if he knows how to read mind ..if he uses black magic ..if he is not allowing to do any work..if he keeps monitoring you 24/7.. please give me suggestion sir...
Mine discarded me and left (thank God), but still..he accused me of terrible and false things among my family and in court and threatend he would be merciless when I start the annulment, although it was him who pushed me to divorce.. he couldnt just leave for his new supply and leave me alone, no... I am waiting what will be his next step...
Lol Dr. Bashir I like your candor your right though.
I exposed them and confronted them and they blocked me when I asked why ??
THEY don't know!